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doubleoh8:
Okay not wanting to belabour this too much, but he told me about inconsistency (which is very true for my situation) but NOT that I'd walk away. He said I would / could misinterpret my POI's inconsistent behaviour and specifically his needing time and space and read into it, come to wrong conclusions and take it personally... leading to me being upset with him or pressuring, not walking away.
My POI had come from a very, very challenging marriage where the woman was insecure and controlling... so a big trigger for him is any kind of control on his time. Chosenone (and Leo from CP) see my own triggers with his need for space and privacy as the central challenge to me/us and warned that the negative outcome would be conflict and probably him pulling back / away if I don't watch that. Possibly positive outcome (which Chosenone also thinks is possible) is that it can work if I can detach from that stuff and go with the flow.
Does any of that sound overly familiar?
ShootingStar:
--- Quote from: doubleoh8 on August 26, 2017, 09:07:06 AM ---Okay not wanting to belabour this too much, but he told me about inconsistency (which is very true for my situation) but NOT that I'd walk away. He said I would / could misinterpret my POI's inconsistent behaviour and specifically his needing time and space and read into it, come to wrong conclusions and take it personally... leading to me being upset with him or pressuring, not walking away.
My POI had come from a very, very challenging marriage where the woman was insecure and controlling... so a big trigger for him is any kind of control on his time. Chosenone (and Leo from CP) see my own triggers with his need for space and privacy as the central challenge to me/us and warned that the negative outcome would be conflict and probably him pulling back / away if I don't watch that. Possibly positive outcome (which Chosenone also thinks is possible) is that it can work if I can detach from that stuff and go with the flow.
Does any of that sound overly familiar?
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With me he said he will be very up and down which will cause me to walk away, but he doesn't mean to do this. He has good intentions, but now that I know this I can change it. If I can manage to not care about timeframes and labels then it will eventually just turn into a serious relationship, but not if I push that. Basically if I can be more go with the flow it can work, but my natural personality likes to know what is what so that would normally make me walk away. So sounds like it is up to me.
candy1:
--- Quote from: doubleoh8 on August 26, 2017, 09:07:06 AM ---Okay not wanting to belabour this too much, but he told me about inconsistency (which is very true for my situation) but NOT that I'd walk away. He said I would / could misinterpret my POI's inconsistent behaviour and specifically his needing time and space and read into it, come to wrong conclusions and take it personally... leading to me being upset with him or pressuring, not walking away.
My POI had come from a very, very challenging marriage where the woman was insecure and controlling... so a big trigger for him is any kind of control on his time. Chosenone (and Leo from CP) see my own triggers with his need for space and privacy as the central challenge to me/us and warned that the negative outcome would be conflict and probably him pulling back / away if I don't watch that. Possibly positive outcome (which Chosenone also thinks is possible) is that it can work if I can detach from that stuff and go with the flow.
Does any of that sound overly familiar?
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Yes - this sounds quite similar to my first reading with him...
Kate:
--- Quote from: candy1 on August 26, 2017, 09:27:35 AM ---
--- Quote from: doubleoh8 on August 26, 2017, 09:07:06 AM ---Okay not wanting to belabour this too much, but he told me about inconsistency (which is very true for my situation) but NOT that I'd walk away. He said I would / could misinterpret my POI's inconsistent behaviour and specifically his needing time and space and read into it, come to wrong conclusions and take it personally... leading to me being upset with him or pressuring, not walking away.
My POI had come from a very, very challenging marriage where the woman was insecure and controlling... so a big trigger for him is any kind of control on his time. Chosenone (and Leo from CP) see my own triggers with his need for space and privacy as the central challenge to me/us and warned that the negative outcome would be conflict and probably him pulling back / away if I don't watch that. Possibly positive outcome (which Chosenone also thinks is possible) is that it can work if I can detach from that stuff and go with the flow.
Does any of that sound overly familiar?
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Yes - this sounds quite similar to my first reading with him...
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Yes sounds familiar to me also.. but then I guess this is a common thing with Men that run hot and cold, who have come from bad relationships ..
SunshineChick22:
I spoke to him about my career and my love life. The first half of the call, about my career, wasn't too specific, but it fit. Then it transitioned into my love life. I got the same thing. That I'd be frustrated and walk away. I had already read his reviews on here before I called, but I'm not one to think that the same readings will be given to others, so I gave him a try. I politely explained we much not be able to connect because he wasn't giving anything specific. I had asked for a satisfaction guarantee refund. Just the $25 because he seemed fine with career. I got an email from him ridiculing me for getting the refund. First off, I was told they don't know who gets refunds. Secondly, I had already told him we didn't connect regarding love. I would have called him back about career, however not now.
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