Hi Law. I read with Zadalia a couple days ago after I reached out to my POI on Thanksgivin g. I didn't have any contact with him for 6 months and took the leap of faith and texted him to wish him a Happy Thanksgivin g. She immediately picked up that there had been some contact. It was funny because I read with her every few months and she knew I refused to contact him since May. She told me "I pick up some contact. I don't know what that means, but that's what I'm seeing." I told her I reached out and she said "well, that's a surprise!" He is showing as "grateful" because it happened at a time when he felt particularl y alone. She said it cracked the door open and she thinks that there will be more contact before the end of the year. For the first time in a looooong time, Zadalia felt positive progression for the relationshi p. She doesn't sugarcoat a damn thing, so I'm feeling cautiously optimistic. She is great for the present, but I ignore her timeframes. She usually gets short term "outcome" but the "when" it will happen is sometime off with her.
