Ladies, I found this update to be very uplifting and inspiration al. Baypark: I wish you a peace of mind and commend you for letting go and moving on with your life. I know how difficult it can be. I completely agree that guys are really not that complicated . If they want you, they will pursue you and if they don't, they are not worth your time and effort. That is a rule to live by. I have decided to let go someone who is obviously confused about what he wants. I'm moving on and working on myself both spiritually, emotionally and professiona lly. I encourage those of you in these kind of emotional situations to meditate, do yoga, see a therapist, spend time with your friends and find ways to grow as a person. I recently completed a psychic detox period (I spend 5 weeks with no psychic readings)and I noticed my cravings and urges are gone. I'm still allowing myself to do calls every once in a while but only to get updates on my academic and career questions. Sorry for the long post and I thank you guys for posting your experiences .