I've read with most everyone mentioned on this board about my POI. Most all say he's not ready for a relationship but has feelings but would be making a step towards forward movement the end of this month or next month. Well, we had a discussion last night and he informed me that he wanted to be just friends because he can't handle the emotions of a relationship. Now, he's told me this from the beginning but I thought he was getting more ready BUT I guess not. As far as the readings, most would say we would talk and move forward. All were right about him not being ready/scared/busy/trying to heal from his nasty ex etc. So all of them got the present feelings right. However, the timing I don't think is going to happen. Unless men change their minds fairly quickly, the end of the month is next week. I've seen it said before to not get hung up on the timing. I think when we stress and anticipate the timing predictions, we are delaying it. The only reason he and I talked was because I reached out first and asked him. He did not contact me. If I had waited until the end of the month, maybe he would have, but I am very impatient and am the "need to know now where we stand" type of girl. And honestly, now that I know, I feel much better and have let go for the most part. Of course, tomorrow I could feel differently LOL. I'll update if anything happens in the next week or so and see if anyone was right. No one told me he would just want to remain friends. We were just friends with a little benefits but they all said he would move into a relationship. I honestly don't see that for the near future and am not holding out hope. Time will tell!
