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cocoapple:
I know what you guys are saying...he is the type that will not show emotions in front of others. When he missed me a lot, he never actually TELL me, it's always in txt because he can't express himself fully unless it's in tx or when he's tipsy/drunk. That's when all the 'truth' comes out and he remembers it too the next day but he once said he's more 'bold' when he's tipsy.
I will try guys, live happy, be happy. Life goes on. I'm greiving for the lost of my bf and bestfriend through college. Our group of friends were in the same class ALL 3 years, we ate together, study together....the longest we were a part was during Xmas holidays from school so this is heartbreaking. I was planning my birthday dinner last night on fb and it kills me that i can't even invite him. Last year (before we went out), him and my close friends surprised me on my birthday. I invited them out for dinner and EVERYONE said they were busy :( He told me he's got a date with a ladyfriend which broke my heart because i had a huge crush on him then. But when my friend (who i thought was the only one to spend bday dinner with me) brought me to the greek restaurant, there they were, ALL OF THEM. Later on when we started going out, during one drunken night...he spilled infront of me and my friend that there WAS no ladyfriend and that he wouldn't miss my bday for anything. So i'm kinda bumed out at the moment............piling myself work after work at work lol....just so i can get him off my mind but it's hard. I miss my best friend....:(
I know what you mean CJ, for you it's like if you don't see the change in them, you'll just fight over the same stuff again so for that to work, SOMETHING has to change.
kiki155:
Cocoa, I think it's good you're focusing on work, but I think you should do something fun. But you don't feel like being happy, right? You'd rather just wallow in the miserable stuff right now? I get that, too. But, if you can...just do something for yourself. Get a pedicure. Go see that Bridesmaids movie with a girlfriend. Go work out. Go for a walk. Etc., etc.
I completely understand that part about losing your best friend. I am usually more sad about losing my dude's friendship than the romantic part of the relationship (although I obviously miss that too.)
All of us totally get it, and we are here for you.
sammiepoo:
What I am trying to do is I am trying to get my mind off Elvin but I cant seem to get my mind off of him :( This is sad!! He is my best friend and he has to be a stuborn ass!! Well that is Elvin for you always being so stinking stuborn, he has to have it his way or its no way :(
kiki155:
Sammie, I personally think if you want to get your mind off Elvin, you need to stop talking about him. Fake it till ya make it.
I have gone "cold turkey" on my guy in the past. For me that means:
No looking at his Facebook page
No reading over old emails
No looking at old pictures
Not saying his name
Not talking about him
If the thought of him comes to my mind, I "send him on his way."
You are very young and have sooooooo many fabulous years ahead of you. If you and Elvin are meant to be, you definitely have time to figure that out. But I think if you truly want to get your mind off him, stop wasting your precious brain space and time on him.
Just my two cents. Please take it as "older sister" type advice and not preachy.
sammiepoo:
Okay but where best friends and thats all I care about :)
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