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Diane731
sawthelight:
It's crazy how love can make our common sense go out the window sometimes.
I've seen people post about how they haven't heard from their POI in a year or more, yet still believe readings. I am NOT judging here, just saying, if you were to tell anyone that situation, they would probably want to smack you upside the head and say wake up...but here we are, getting readings and believing them when there is no indication that the POI is even slightly interested anymore. I've even read stories on here where people have said the POI got married to someone else while they were waiting.
I'm also not saying a person can't come back after a long period of time, the real question is, do you want to wait? When is enough enough.
Baypark1:
--- Quote from: Still tired on September 11, 2017, 12:57:48 PM ---
--- Quote from: Baypark1 on September 11, 2017, 12:36:23 PM --- I'm really starting to believe that when a person leaves your life, there is a good reason for it and they should remain gone. Had I thought that with my first POI, I would have ended up a lot better, emotionally, financially and spiritually!
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I think so. I got stuck because I blamed myself for it. I thought I had made a huge mistake, hadn't been patient enough with my ex, hadn't communicated well enough, caused a misunderstanding, etc. I thought I had to fix it. Now I think it was practically divine intervention that got me out of his path.
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don't you love that when we blame ourselves instead of looking at the actual problem? I'm glad you got to the point of seeing it. I have too. Live and learn. Sometimes it takes longer to get it :)
Baypark1:
--- Quote from: sawthelight on September 11, 2017, 01:08:56 PM ---It's crazy how love can make our common sense go out the window sometimes.
I've seen people post about how they haven't heard from their POI in a year or more, yet still believe readings. I am NOT judging here, just saying, if you were to tell anyone that situation, they would probably want to smack you upside the head and say wake up...but here we are, getting readings and believing them when there is no indication that the POI is even slightly interested anymore. I've even read stories on here where people have said the POI got married to someone else while they were waiting.
I'm also not saying a person can't come back after a long period of time, the real question is, do you want to wait? When is enough enough.
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I think in the back of our minds, we think "oh that won't happen to me, my situation is different". Readings definitely hurt us from moving on and thinking logically. Then the ones that get a few things right, we believe their outcomes must be right and we hang on longer because it makes sense! It's a terrible cycle.
Absolutely, a person can come back after a long time. But hopefully we have grown and won't want them OR it will be amazing because both have grown so the relationship will be where it should have been all along. For me, I wasn't consciously waiting and was totally open to someone else but sub consciously, I had that rope tied so tight I would never let go :) Crazy!!!
doubleoh8:
--- Quote from: Still tired on September 11, 2017, 01:10:13 PM ---
--- Quote from: globedove on September 11, 2017, 12:56:12 PM ---
This goes not only for Diane but for anyone else, I appreciate reading BALANCED and truthful feedback and not distortions - a distortion is provided, when information is given that is not 100% balanced - the accurate and not accurate... As I've followed Baypark's situation (leaving it to her personally to disclose or not - not my call), I don't feel its fully balanced.
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I understand this, but I disagree with you. I think she's giving us some very honest and helpful feedback. I don't need to know every time a reader was accurate about something, if they turn out to be wrong on the bigger picture.
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I tend to agree with Still Tired here.
Everyone is entitled to their opinions, feelings and expectations of a reading. Some of us might be super impressed by a contact prediction that comes through; others may only be looking for the bigger picture and outcomes -- stuff they consider important. It's understandable that Baypark is disappointed with the turn of events and not seeing that coming...
Also, I think we're all smart enough to read the threads and decide what information is important for us. I personally would still read with Diane... I had one reading and liked her (outcome pending), but I appreciate knowing what happened with Baypark and I can also empathize with her frustration and disappointment without seeing it as 'bashing.' In other words, it's clear (and understandable) that she's not feeling great now about those readings... but I don't extrapolate from her experience that Diane is no good for anyone.
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: Baypark1 on September 11, 2017, 01:15:11 PM ---
--- Quote from: sawthelight on September 11, 2017, 01:08:56 PM ---It's crazy how love can make our common sense go out the window sometimes.
I've seen people post about how they haven't heard from their POI in a year or more, yet still believe readings. I am NOT judging here, just saying, if you were to tell anyone that situation, they would probably want to smack you upside the head and say wake up...but here we are, getting readings and believing them when there is no indication that the POI is even slightly interested anymore. I've even read stories on here where people have said the POI got married to someone else while they were waiting.
I'm also not saying a person can't come back after a long period of time, the real question is, do you want to wait? When is enough enough.
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I think in the back of our minds, we think "oh that won't happen to me, my situation is different". Readings definitely hurt us from moving on and thinking logically. Then the ones that get a few things right, we believe their outcomes must be right and we hang on longer because it makes sense! It's a terrible cycle.
Absolutely, a person can come back after a long time. But hopefully we have grown and won't want them OR it will be amazing because both have grown so the relationship will be where it should have been all along. For me, I wasn't consciously waiting and was totally open to someone else but sub consciously, I had that rope tied so tight I would never let go :) Crazy!!!
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Agree with you! And that's a win/win in my book!
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