I know my ex very well . Which is why it's good for me to have options. When I asked him where this was going he told me not to ask him questions like that and to let things go with flow . That shows me he is hesitant and likes to have me there with no responsibility of having a relationship. In my mind in single .i don't believe just because I'm dating or talking to someone I should drop all my options. Until a guy ask me to be his girlfriend I'm free. All the other times when we got together or were in the process I cut everyone off just to be hurt again