Healer, this is wonderful news! I know you have been in turmoil for some time, and asking to receive validations. I agree, this is a start for you!! The only thing that is concerning to me is that she may be using you, only time will tell. It is not uncommon for a SM to feel the person is gone and has moved on, resulting in empty promises just to hold on to the one they know will be there for them. I am not saying this is what your SM is doing. I like your idea of getting her to come first and see how it goes. I would not offer to pay for her to go on a trip, but rather see how things go when she gets there. I hate to feel skeptical regarding people especially when emotions are involved, because that could and will alter actions and behavior on both sides. I would also feel bad if in fact she used you to get something from you only to leave you high and dry. I feel your thoughts regarding what you should are in check! I personally would invite her to come, see how it goes, and then if you feel she is being genuine take it from there.
This journey for you has been long, and painful. It is wonderful that she is saying she wants to come, but she has said this before and failed to put her words into actions. I pray she is sincere and has finally seen that no matter how far she runs, she cannot find what you are offering her emotionally.
I feel that the communication is a start, a positive start! When she arrives and you both connect (in person), you will know what you need to do.
YAY!!!! I love when things happen!!!!
Ok, sorry we got attacked again guys! Anyway, I have some updates. Vicki Joy has been doing a great job. Her predictions keep happening for me. My true SM just called me last night and said she's ready to quit her job and come to be with me! So I am looking at airplane tickets again. But VJ said she was debating coming here or going home which is what I found out today by email. She said her mom is sad since both girls are gone now and she wants to go home for her 50th bday. So now I am talking to her again and working out some details.
All this time VJ said she was thinking about me and would call and visit before Xmas. I was afraid she moved on, but I just found out VJ was right. Also, VJ said she would not stay in Canada to get her resident card. She was right. She now is tired of it there and wants to leave!
It's also interesting how each time I talk to another lady, my sm calls immediately. I talked to that other lady about 4 days and then she called me. After we hung up, she called back and asked if she could come out next week! Then I asked her for how long and she said she was going to quit her job. So I said "you mean forever?" and she said "yes, forever." It seemed like a dream guys!
I was just thinking maybe my sm would never come around and then wammm, it all happened so fast.
Another thing that is neat is when I was doing my own cards I got 3 aces and 4 aces, which was some big change, and a break in my favor was coming up. Also, when I was on vacation, I saw a new relationship starting when I went back home. I don't know how to get such details like VJ does, but my own readings come true all the time too.
Finally, VJ said she would appear in my dreams and then she would call. That is exactly how it happened. I started to dream about her each night. We have a very strong psychic connection. It's amazing. I hope I see her for real this time.
Now, what would you guys do? I don't want to let her use me anymore. Should I ask her to come here first and then offer to take her to see her mom? It will be a bit expensive, but she said we could go together. She doesn't make much so I would have to pay for it all. I wish she just wanted to come to be with me so I didn't have to feel used at all and wonder! So it's not perfect, but it's a start....
