I phoned her and then I found this forum. When I informed her of it, she freaked out on me; blaming me. In her email she states that she saw things, but never informed me of them until her email today; saying she might have to wonder what I did to cause the breakup. Ok. One, I didn't accuse you of being false; I simply informed you of this forum and really was seeking an explanation. Instead, she loses it on me through email.