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Relationship Psychology Discussions => My Story => Topic started by: Synergy on March 12, 2012, 04:45:50 PM
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I saw Amaranth's great post, and I've decided to create one of my own. Thanks for the idea, Amaranth!
I've been calling readers about my situation with Chance. All my readers are from Keen, and, yes, there are a lot of calls to report on.
Here we go...
Kisha - Saw "1" for contact from Chance and had assumed it was one week, month or 10th or 11th of this month. Called again when contact did not occur, and she sees a 3 and 4 making her think those are weeks, and the original prediction was one month. Sees him coming back and us having an opportunity to be together romantically. If we do get together, it will be up and down and will only work out if he gets counseling.
LisaDianne - Chance will return sometime between March 21st and the first week of April. Sees him meeting my daughters May 19th. I also asked her about the ex. The ex's marriage will end soon, but I need to stop thinking about him bc he's unemotional.
DeniseMonique - Sees Chance reaching out on March 30th or 31st. Vividly described a day meeting between us as a result of that contact. Sees us together in April with him making a lot of effort to show me he's serious this time.
FaeryLady - Almost exactly what DeniseMonique said. He'll reach out end of March. He'll do the work to show me he wants the commitment.
Barbara4846 - He and the ex are already having problems and will break up soon. He'll come back. We'll be together bc I'll take him back, and she sees us getting married... Told me to call her 3 to 4 weeks after the call to tell her he was back. This would put the timeframe at the end of the month.
AstroSarah - He's coming back. She doesn't like to give timeframes, but she said April, but possibly sooner. We'll have fun, but he's not the man I'm going to marry.
SandyEsther - Wants me to pray. She sees him going through some sort of "recovery" period in the next couple of weeks, and then he'll reach out. Didn't make any real long term predictions bc she was mad I hadn't read some psalms she told me to read. She said there was some sort of spiritual attack and she needs me to overcome it. Sees my newly married ex coming forward and making an advance.
LadyPersephone - He went back to the ex to feed his ego, and he will come back to me "soon". She doesn't know if I'll want him when he returns though because I think it's gross that he's gone back to the ex. This is true as I see him differently now.
Aurora - The only one who saw him going back to the ex. She doesn't see him returning until the end of spring, but could be sooner she said if I let go of timeframes. She said it will be up to me if I want him back, an she can't see what I'll decide.
Cookie - He and I will date, but he won't want to commit. No timeframe given.
So, most timeframes are for the end of March. I guess I'll know soon enough, and I'll respond to this post to let you know who, if anyone, was accurate.
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Glad to see your post!
Sandy Esther also gave me some psalms to read, so if I plan on calling her back, I'll know to ha s done it, lol. She also described spiritual attack. Her dates for past incidents were spot on to the day, but I get a little cautious of psychics who seem to consistently believe that everything that goes wrong in our life is the result of wicked spirits and evil.
Anyway, hope March pans out for you! Thanks for sharing!
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I saw Amaranth's great post, and I've decided to create one of my own. Thanks for the idea, Amaranth!
I've been calling readers about my situation with Chance. All my readers are from Keen, and, yes, there are a lot of calls to report on.
SandyEsther - Wants me to pray. She sees him going through some sort of "recovery" period in the next couple of weeks, and then he'll reach out. Didn't make any real long term predictions bc she was mad I hadn't read some psalms she told me to read. She said there was some sort of spiritual attack and she needs me to overcome it. Sees my newly married ex coming forward and making an advance.
Weird, you're not the first person to say she described something like that in the recent past. She even went so far with me as to describe my SM's ex's deceased grandmother coming through and wishing ill on me, and I've had friends call her and she's told them similar things - that someone is sending bad energy their way or spiritually attacking them. I don't remember her doing this before...
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I saw Amaranth's great post, and I've decided to create one of my own. Thanks for the idea, Amaranth!
I've been calling readers about my situation with Chance. All my readers are from Keen, and, yes, there are a lot of calls to report on.
SandyEsther - Wants me to pray. She sees him going through some sort of "recovery" period in the next couple of weeks, and then he'll reach out. Didn't make any real long term predictions bc she was mad I hadn't read some psalms she told me to read. She said there was some sort of spiritual attack and she needs me to overcome it. Sees my newly married ex coming forward and making an advance.
Weird, you're not the first person to say she described something like that in the recent past. She even went so far with me as to describe my SM's ex's deceased grandmother coming through and wishing ill on me, and I've had friends call her and she's told them similar things - that someone is sending bad energy their way or spiritually attacking them. I don't remember her doing this before...
Somnus,
I've been reading with Sandy Esther since last summer, and these last two calls that I've made to her in the past few weeks have been the only two times she's made these statements, so this must be some new tactic. How odd. I wonder why she's telling everyone this?
She has not tried to sell me any ype of cleansing services, nor has shhe suggested I speak with someone else, so I don't really see the purpose.
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newbaby...
SHE DID THE SAME THING TO ME!!! So, when I would call about my ex, Sandy Esther would tell me that I would marry him. Something happened over the summer where she did start changing her tune a little bit, but she still told me there was hope for us. Then, she DID see Chance coming into my life before he did, so I was convinced she was the reader for me.
Here's the thing... once I started calling about Chance, she began hating on the ex and saying that she never liked him for me. Um, no, I remember her loving him for me, and her telling me that I would have to wait and be patient for us to be together again. Her story only changed when someone else was in my life.
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I saw Amaranth's great post, and I've decided to create one of my own. Thanks for the idea, Amaranth!
I've been calling readers about my situation with Chance. All my readers are from Keen, and, yes, there are a lot of calls to report on.
SandyEsther - Wants me to pray. She sees him going through some sort of "recovery" period in the next couple of weeks, and then he'll reach out. Didn't make any real long term predictions bc she was mad I hadn't read some psalms she told me to read. She said there was some sort of spiritual attack and she needs me to overcome it. Sees my newly married ex coming forward and making an advance.
Weird, you're not the first person to say she described something like that in the recent past. She even went so far with me as to describe my SM's ex's deceased grandmother coming through and wishing ill on me, and I've had friends call her and she's told them similar things - that someone is sending bad energy their way or spiritually attacking them. I don't remember her doing this before...
No way can all those people have dead people wishing them ill. Sounds like she's setting them up for a costly "cleansing"
@sunandmoon: I have to agree with you here - sounds like she's possibly getting ready to set up that type of thing.
@Synergy: I'm betting SE knows you are way too smart to fall for something like that - your intelligence comes out in your posts here, so I imagine it clearly 'shows' when you're speaking as well. Additionally, the fact that you did not read the Psalms she suggested would tell her, I would think, that you wouldn't be buying into her 'spiritual attack' theory.
The sad thing is, there ARE going to be those vulnerable people who WOULD believe such things, causing even more emotional damage, stress, anxiety, etc.
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Ok everyone. I wish I was updating my tally to tell you all that my predictions have manifested, but I am sorry to say that the opposite is true. I still have MANY pending predictions for contact and all of them are for sometime in April (from the first week to mid-month), so I will continue to update once those dates pass.
Well, Nancy, Denise Monique, and Allynis were all wrong with regards to contact. I called Nancy multiple times, and each time she said March 30th, so I was really hopeful. I did not hear from Chance on that date. In fact, I should mention that he has not initiated contact since we were still together in January. I ran into him on March 19th, but nothing significant happened. Anyways, Denise Monique gave me a very detailed prediction saying that he would contact me on March 30th or 31st, and that we would meet for a lunch date as a result of the contact. We would then begin dating, and he would spend all of April courting me and trying to convince me that he's ready for a relationship. I did call her before the original timeframe came to pass, and she changed the prediction to the first week of April, so if I do hear from him this week I will update everyone and will change her to being correct instead of incorrect.
I did call Allynis after I created this tally. We spoke last Sunday the 25th. She told me that I wouldn't believe her, but that I would get contact from him in 7 calendar days. That means I should've heard from him by yesterday, and I didn't.
I have spoken to many other readers since I created this tally. Sapphire21 said she could not provide me with dates and also couldn't even tell me if we'd get back together again. She told me about his feelings, and she said that the only thing that is certain is that he and I will definitely talk about what happened. She doesn't know what will happen after that.
Here are some new predictions from the readers I had already contacted:
Kisha - Sees a 3 for contact. Could be the 30th (didn't happen), the 3rd, or the 3rd week in April. Says I will feel good about things with him in May.
Lady Persephone - He will return mid-April. Was correct with prediction of short term reconciliation between Chance and his ex.
Aurora - 2nd week of April
LisaDianne - Prediction still pending. First week of April. Was also correct about Chance and the ex not being together for long.
Cookie - No timeframe given and I am a bit confused by her predictions. She did give me a big one so i will confirm if/when it happens
Barbara - Only says he will reach out soon. She was correct in a previous prediction regarding Chance and his ex not lasting very long
Advisor Lania - End of Spring
Esme Spenser - Says he'll come back but not anytime soon
I'll provide updates as the dates pass or if contact does occur.
I saw Amaranth's great post, and I've decided to create one of my own. Thanks for the idea, Amaranth!
I've been calling readers about my situation with Chance. All my readers are from Keen, and, yes, there are a lot of calls to report on.
Here we go...
Kisha - Saw "1" for contact from Chance and had assumed it was one week, month or 10th or 11th of this month. Called again when contact did not occur, and she sees a 3 and 4 making her think those are weeks, and the original prediction was one month. Sees him coming back and us having an opportunity to be together romantically. If we do get together, it will be up and down and will only work out if he gets counseling.
LisaDianne - Chance will return sometime between March 21st and the first week of April. Sees him meeting my daughters May 19th. I also asked her about the ex. The ex's marriage will end soon, but I need to stop thinking about him bc he's unemotional.
DeniseMonique - Sees Chance reaching out on March 30th or 31st. Vividly described a day meeting between us as a result of that contact. Sees us together in April with him making a lot of effort to show me he's serious this time.
FaeryLady - Almost exactly what DeniseMonique said. He'll reach out end of March. He'll do the work to show me he wants the commitment.
Barbara4846 - He and the ex are already having problems and will break up soon. He'll come back. We'll be together bc I'll take him back, and she sees us getting married... Told me to call her 3 to 4 weeks after the call to tell her he was back. This would put the timeframe at the end of the month.
AstroSarah - He's coming back. She doesn't like to give timeframes, but she said April, but possibly sooner. We'll have fun, but he's not the man I'm going to marry.
SandyEsther - Wants me to pray. She sees him going through some sort of "recovery" period in the next couple of weeks, and then he'll reach out. Didn't make any real long term predictions bc she was mad I hadn't read some psalms she told me to read. She said there was some sort of spiritual attack and she needs me to overcome it. Sees my newly married ex coming forward and making an advance.
LadyPersephone - He went back to the ex to feed his ego, and he will come back to me "soon". She doesn't know if I'll want him when he returns though because I think it's gross that he's gone back to the ex. This is true as I see him differently now.
Aurora - The only one who saw him going back to the ex. She doesn't see him returning until the end of spring, but could be sooner she said if I let go of timeframes. She said it will be up to me if I want him back, an she can't see what I'll decide.
Cookie - He and I will date, but he won't want to commit. No timeframe given.
So, most timeframes are for the end of March. I guess I'll know soon enough, and I'll respond to this post to let you know who, if anyone, was accurate.
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Oh! I forgot WhiteLightAngel. Debra sees him coming forward around the second week of April.
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Synergy,
Im sorry to hear that your predictions haven't come true in the time frame given. When I was reading what you said about Denise Monique, I remembered she told me the same thing back in December that my guy and I would meet, and he would take me out and we would discuss what happen and that we would get back together. She also said that by Feb. We would be discussing marriage plans. She was so detailed and even quoted a conversation that she saw him having with me. She said what he would say and then said what I would say. I hung up with her being thrilled. However, none of what she said happened. Not the date or the conversation. So now I see the same pattern with someone else.
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kth,
Thanks so much for the dose of positive energy! I am actually taking this a lot better than I would've expected. I did go on a mini-rampage and spoke with Hatter and Aurora.
Hatter gave me a negative reading, and Aurora said pretty much what she's told me before. She doesn't think this is completely over, and she sees us having another opportunity to be together romantically.
Aurora told me something similar to what Cookie has told me and what Kisha told you. Aurora told me that I need to stop having negative thoughts, and that when I think of him it should be in an inviting sense. I should picture myself with my arms open, welcoming him towards me. She said that in the past two weeks he has been talking himself out of contacting me, which he had actually started convincing himself to do. She said I need to rid my thoughts of negativity, so that he feels like it's ok to come forward. Aurora also told me to stop talking to people who tell me that he's too good for me or those who say they don't see us getting back together. She said sometimes people unknowingly "curse" you with their negative thoughts. Cookie also told me that I am my own worst enemy, as Kisha told you, because she says I always have doubt. She told me to start believing that it will happen, and then it will.
I actually consider myself a very positive person, but I can admit that since so many readers were wrong when I used to call about "J" that I fear they will be wrong about a reconnection with Chance. I am going to start believing that we will reconnect, in an effort to manifest. We can do this!
Also, I am so sorry to hear about Denise Monique giving everyone the same reading. I can't believe she charges so much! It's terrible. She's a fraud.
Thanks again, kth. I'm sending lots of positive thoughts your way, as well!
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Hello everyone. I figured I'd provide an update to my tally.
Absolutely nothing has come to pass. Everyone who predicted contact between the end of March and mid-April has been wrong. In fact, I went to lunch with two of our mutual friends yesterday, and everything they had to say seems to indicate that this is a lost cause, and I am waiting on someone who doesn't miss me at all and is enjoying his freedom to sleep with random women.
Kisha, AstroSarah, LadyP, Sincerity and Aurora maintain that he will initiate contact sometime in the next 3 weeks. MsLisaM says it will be another 6 weeks. Lania says end of Spring. Barbara sees something significant in July. Northstarjulie says 2-3 months.
All these readers who see him coming back have also told me that this will be an up and down relationship that will take a lot of work. Julie advised me not to take him back, and Sarah said that I would take him back even though I probably shouldn't. Kisha has expressed similar sentiments. Only Barbara has said that this will be an absolutely wonderful relationship, and I am convinced she's too positive.
I had the most amazing call with MagicalSandra this morning. I didn't say a word and she told me everything that happened between us and was absolutely right. She told me to run for the hills and not to take this man back if he returns. I think she's right, but I'm an idiot, so if he comes back I think I'm going to learn the hard way that this is a mistake. He does need to come back first, though, and at this point I don't see that happening...
My wallet and my mind need a break from these readings, so I am hoping to stop getting readings until something happens. If I don't hear from him, I will seriously lose all hope in psychics.
Ok everyone. I wish I was updating my tally to tell you all that my predictions have manifested, but I am sorry to say that the opposite is true. I still have MANY pending predictions for contact and all of them are for sometime in April (from the first week to mid-month), so I will continue to update once those dates pass.
Well, Nancy, Denise Monique, and Allynis were all wrong with regards to contact. I called Nancy multiple times, and each time she said March 30th, so I was really hopeful. I did not hear from Chance on that date. In fact, I should mention that he has not initiated contact since we were still together in January. I ran into him on March 19th, but nothing significant happened. Anyways, Denise Monique gave me a very detailed prediction saying that he would contact me on March 30th or 31st, and that we would meet for a lunch date as a result of the contact. We would then begin dating, and he would spend all of April courting me and trying to convince me that he's ready for a relationship. I did call her before the original timeframe came to pass, and she changed the prediction to the first week of April, so if I do hear from him this week I will update everyone and will change her to being correct instead of incorrect.
I did call Allynis after I created this tally. We spoke last Sunday the 25th. She told me that I wouldn't believe her, but that I would get contact from him in 7 calendar days. That means I should've heard from him by yesterday, and I didn't.
I have spoken to many other readers since I created this tally. Sapphire21 said she could not provide me with dates and also couldn't even tell me if we'd get back together again. She told me about his feelings, and she said that the only thing that is certain is that he and I will definitely talk about what happened. She doesn't know what will happen after that.
Here are some new predictions from the readers I had already contacted:
Kisha - Sees a 3 for contact. Could be the 30th (didn't happen), the 3rd, or the 3rd week in April. Says I will feel good about things with him in May.
Lady Persephone - He will return mid-April. Was correct with prediction of short term reconciliation between Chance and his ex.
Aurora - 2nd week of April
LisaDianne - Prediction still pending. First week of April. Was also correct about Chance and the ex not being together for long.
Cookie - No timeframe given and I am a bit confused by her predictions. She did give me a big one so i will confirm if/when it happens
Barbara - Only says he will reach out soon. She was correct in a previous prediction regarding Chance and his ex not lasting very long
Advisor Lania - End of Spring
Esme Spenser - Says he'll come back but not anytime soon
I'll provide updates as the dates pass or if contact does occur.
I saw Amaranth's great post, and I've decided to create one of my own. Thanks for the idea, Amaranth!
I've been calling readers about my situation with Chance. All my readers are from Keen, and, yes, there are a lot of calls to report on.
Here we go...
Kisha - Saw "1" for contact from Chance and had assumed it was one week, month or 10th or 11th of this month. Called again when contact did not occur, and she sees a 3 and 4 making her think those are weeks, and the original prediction was one month. Sees him coming back and us having an opportunity to be together romantically. If we do get together, it will be up and down and will only work out if he gets counseling.
LisaDianne - Chance will return sometime between March 21st and the first week of April. Sees him meeting my daughters May 19th. I also asked her about the ex. The ex's marriage will end soon, but I need to stop thinking about him bc he's unemotional.
DeniseMonique - Sees Chance reaching out on March 30th or 31st. Vividly described a day meeting between us as a result of that contact. Sees us together in April with him making a lot of effort to show me he's serious this time.
FaeryLady - Almost exactly what DeniseMonique said. He'll reach out end of March. He'll do the work to show me he wants the commitment.
Barbara4846 - He and the ex are already having problems and will break up soon. He'll come back. We'll be together bc I'll take him back, and she sees us getting married... Told me to call her 3 to 4 weeks after the call to tell her he was back. This would put the timeframe at the end of the month.
AstroSarah - He's coming back. She doesn't like to give timeframes, but she said April, but possibly sooner. We'll have fun, but he's not the man I'm going to marry.
SandyEsther - Wants me to pray. She sees him going through some sort of "recovery" period in the next couple of weeks, and then he'll reach out. Didn't make any real long term predictions bc she was mad I hadn't read some psalms she told me to read. She said there was some sort of spiritual attack and she needs me to overcome it. Sees my newly married ex coming forward and making an advance.
LadyPersephone - He went back to the ex to feed his ego, and he will come back to me "soon". She doesn't know if I'll want him when he returns though because I think it's gross that he's gone back to the ex. This is true as I see him differently now.
Aurora - The only one who saw him going back to the ex. She doesn't see him returning until the end of spring, but could be sooner she said if I let go of timeframes. She said it will be up to me if I want him back, an she can't see what I'll decide.
Cookie - He and I will date, but he won't want to commit. No timeframe given.
So, most timeframes are for the end of March. I guess I'll know soon enough, and I'll respond to this post to let you know who, if anyone, was accurate.
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Synergy,,I'm sorry. I know you have to be bummed out. I've read with eveyone you listed here too. Barbara told me years ago I'd be married within months to the idiot that MagicalSandra saved me from wasting time on. The man has been through 2 marriages and divorces and two DUIs and an incarceration since I was obsessed with calling readers about him. MagicalSandra predicted it all and told me I'd never get what I wanted from the man -that he would be in my life forever if I wanted and let him, but not the way I wanted. She was 100% accurate on him. I didn't listen to her in the beginning and kept calling others too for awhile, believing their BS and letting him come and go in my life. I could have saved myself so much pain (and money) if I'd listened to her from the beginning. There are just too many fairytales out there on Keen, but you won't get one from her. Did she think he'd come back around?
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I read with Magical Sandra for the first time recently and then had my 2nd reading a few days ago. She is ethical, honest, and a true psychic. She WON"T give you a fairy tale. She looks for other avenues to explore if what is currently going on isn't working. Highly recommend her if you can get her to read for you. If you are looking for validation of another reader or if you want timing, she isn't who to call. If you are in need of fresh new insight, she is excellent. She asked me to not call for 3 weeks to see what happens - but if I need her I can call anytime and she is there for me. What more can you ask for? Her initial 2 predictions did manifest.
One side note - I've gone through A LOT over the last 5 years and she saw it all without me telling her and she also knew I didn't want to talk about it. LOL
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Magicalsandra has (2) listing she will usually email you if you get in line for the listing for her regular callers and tell you that she doesn't take new callers on that line. She then told me she will meditate and see if she could help me. After about 2 days she emailed me back and told me which listing to call her on.
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Highlyfavored2 - she meditated for me before my first reading too. My second reading she already had a spread of cards down when she called me back. I personally think she is trying to see if she can connect before taking the call.
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Hi everyone.
There's probably no point in updating my tally, since most of you know what has been going on with me lately, but I will anyways. Hahaha. Basically, everyone has been wrong in one way or another. All the readers who have been accurate with regards to the past and present have made predictions that never manifested. I had so many readers tell me that March was going to be THE month for reconciliation. Nothing happened in March. He and I didn't speak at all that month, actually.
I've shared that I reached out and actually met with the man in question last week, but I went one step further. I reached out AGAIN, and straight up asked him for clarity. No response yet, but that's fine with me. I know that I need to move on from this, but I also need to know that I did everything in my power to make this work and show him that he means something to me.
I've said time and time again that the only reader who has been consistently accurate for me has been Kisha. Even so, her timeframe predictions have not manifested this time around. I still trust her and will continue to call her for other matters, but I have to be honest. Her and I spoke about this the other day, and she told me that she sticks to her outcomes and knows they accurate and that timing shouldn't matter. She also told me that this man is much more complex than the man I used to call about last year. I don't think she's making excuses. I actually think she's right. I've thrown away so much money on this, and I ended up doing what I wanted to do anyways.
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Ok.
I got the response.
He told me to move on. That's what I have to do. Now I know. I also know that everyone was wrong. WRONG.
Also, in my last reading with Gaylene, she said that his response would be unfair, about him, would come in a "2", and a couple of other things that WERE CORRECT.
I am done.
Thank you everyone for all of your support and guidance. I have my answer because I sought it out. It hurts, it sucks, the tears flow, but at least I KNOW. I don't have to be on hold. I don't have to wonder. I don't have to create a fantasy in my head. I can live my life. One that does not include this person because this is what he wants.
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Synergy
I'm so sorry you are going through this. Please know we are all hear for you. I kinda don't even know what to say. I do believe when we start living our lives wonderful things come in.
xxoo
PT
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im sorry this happened syn
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Hey Synergy
I am sorry you had to go through that.I also feel that you did the right thing by seeking out an answer for yourself instead of waiting.
Actually reading your story made me think of mines and wonder if I to am holding myself back with all the wonderful and so called truthful predictions (readings ) I have been getting for the past 2yrs now.
Ladies forgive my ignorance to this but how can the readers see one thing and the reality of the situation is something else?
Case in point ,I had a court date that was approaching and I wanted to know how things would turn out . From the readings I received all said that I would win the case against my ex. However, I was told by two readers from keen that the ex would try to intimidate me he would lie about interference of visits for our child. I then called Kisha and she gave the same outcome as I would win and it would be a peaceful process with no disagreements. Me being me I had to call someone else, I tried Raven and she said the same thing as well as saying that the process will be quick and the ex will be nice towards me.
My court date came and he was polite( shocking) and he pretty much owned up to his lack of support for our child,mind you I was told he would say I was interfering with visits or he would intimidate me . He did no such things, I am not sure why he was so nice , but the outcome was favorable as I did win.
Once again synergy I am sorry but feel you did the right thing.
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Thank you everyone for your responses, PMs (many of which I owe responses to), and your support.
I'd like to provide a list of the readers who said I would not be with C. I know that many of you have said that I changed the outcome by reaching out or that this isn't over yet and he can still reconsider. The reality is that he told me to move on. This signifies the end. So below are the readers who told me we would not be together.
MagicalSandra: No romantic reconciliation; C does not want a relationship
Ness21: No romantic reconciliation
Maurine36: No romantic reconciliation; C does not want a relationship
Maureen the Messenger: Added some nonsense about a candy bar, but she insisted that C does not want to be more than friends
carmencam: No romantic reconciliation
Life Makeover Party: He does not want a relationship
Your Message From Above: He is enjoying the single life and currently does not want a relationship (did see future possibility)
Esme Spenser: The interest is still there, but he does not want to be with me
Hatter: Said he would come forward for sex (didn't happen), BUT she did say he would not a committment
Wizardmask: No romantic reconciliation
Shootingstar11: No romantic reconciliation
LadyAshley15: No romantic reconciliation
dianalc: She did think we'd have an opportunity, BUT I must say that she told me back in January that C would go on our Cancun trip later in the year with a male friend. I have confirmed that to be true.
I am not necessarily endorsing any of these readers or claiming they're amazing. I am saying that they were right about the fact that C does not and did not want to be with me. I can make excuses day and night and I can try to convince myself that he will be back, but there's no point in doing that now that he has outright told me to move on.
I hope this list helps, since a few of you had asked me for it.
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I don't think it necessarily means that they were wrong for others. Though I think anyone reading Synergy's thread could see where it was headed - you didn't need to be psychic. She took the right step and faced up to things instead of calling people to tell her what she wanted to hear. And that's the take home lesson right there.
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I don't think it was necessarily THAT obvious. Some people are waiting for men who are in other relationships or for men they haven't seen in years. C and I ended things only a few months ago and we have mutual friends who insist on the fact that he did truly have strong feelings for me. I won't judge anyone else's situations because I don't know the "ins and outs", and I would hope that no one else would think they know everything about mine. So I respectfully disagree. It wasn't clear where my situation was headed.
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No situation in which you have to call a psychic is obvious. So I don't think any of us can judge. That's just my opinion.
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I concur...it wasn't obvious. Those familiar w/Synergy's story were aware they work together and had friends in common so it wasn't clear cut.
For all we know this could be a bump in the road. It's not the place of any of us to say what's "obvious" and what's not. If that were the case then most of us wouldn't be calling because our situations are "obvious" that someone walked away from us for one reason or another and should take it as such.
Sadly nothing about Syn's situation was textbook in any way. But I do commend her taking the bull by the horns and finding out what she needed to. :)
Of course this is JMHO.
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A little harsh, skyline. If things were always obvious in life, we wouldnt be calling psychics. The majority of times I call a psychic for insight. A reading is just a perspective. Sometimes, one perspective has more bearing than another.
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I followed syn's story but I never knew where it was heading.
I was hoping things would turn out the way she had wished.
i am sorry it didnt for now, but being such a capable and sincere lady,
i am sure happiness will find her :)
she had contributed so much info
to this board, I want to thank her again.
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Didn't mean to be harsh, Synergy. I felt that you turned a corner and are on your way. Unfortunately, when we call 10 psychics, the 2 that give us the negative outcome, they tend to be right in the end.
And I agree with the above post, you come across as an intelligent and engaging person. I doubt it would take you long to meet someone who would appreciate that.
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What is interesting about all of this is that if you guys knew the details of someone I was hoping to reconnect with, everyone would say NO WAY will it happen. My situation looks hopeless from the outside. Both of us are single but there is an 11 year age difference (I'm older), there are kid issues, etc etc etc. But guess what, we did reconnect and the same feelings are all still there and I know that because he told me twice on two different occasions. Due to a big age difference this isn't going to work out but my point with all of this is that we don't really know what's going to happen. Even I was surprised. Sometimes even a 2 month fling with an ex can help rid us of the lingering feelings. Maybe I'll have to do some research on that. lol
I don't call many psychics anymore and only stick with who has been right.
Hope this helps.
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Hi all, I have to admit that Aurora was right for me. She absolutely did not like my SM. Said he was no good and if he came back he would repeat all the heartache. I was so upset at the time, that, I was outright rude to her. She tried to calm me down in an email saying he would come back if I would let him, but, it is in my best interest to take a real hard look at him and the situation. I did not give her a negative feedback, but, boy I wanted to. But, I refrained as that would not have been fair. Fast forward 6 months. My SM wanted to reconcile in the mean time. We finally saw each other in March. We broke up for real after that. I have moved on. He was still not ready to be in a committed relationship. I don't want to read with psychics anymore, but, Aurora got it right. I still feel sad about the breakup, but, I am ok now.
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Synergy,
I have gone thru similar situations where I resulted to calling all the "Most accurate readers" only to be disappointed in the end. And silly me I've repeated this calling cycle with many relationships and or ordeals that have come up in my life. And like you when the predictions didnt come, I tried to reach out to that person only to find out that the feelings were not mutual.
The sad thing is you reached out to C and he told you to move on, meaning that you did not need a psychic to tell you anything you could've had the closure you needed for free and without the false hope provided by these psychics. I tallied up 12mts worth of keen deposits and it is in the 5figuires and I told myself enough is enough because I know the vast majority of that went to psychic(s) who all were Dead Wrong in there predictions.
I initally came to this board looking for confirmation and guidance because I was 85% convinced that these psychics were a waste of time and after reading your thread I am 100% convinced. when I saw all the glowing recommendations of psychics (kisha, Magical sandra, etc) I thought maybe all these years I've just been talking to the wrong people. I've talk to 3 of the most highly recommended readers on this forum and each time I hung up thinking "Ok what was all the fuss about"
Thank you for sharing your story, I hope you find peace within yourself, and Next time a relationship goes south please save your money and don't take yourself thru the unnessecary emotional drama/trauma that comes with calling these psychics. I've been calling for Yearssss and I can attest that in the end the $ spent was never worth it!
But, I do have my own prediction. Time surely has away of healing pain one day you'll look back and laugh and thing omg I can't believe I was calling about you. Its happened to me over and over again..AND NOT ONE PSYCHIC HAS EVER PREDICTED THAT! ;)
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I spent so much money that I started to use three different credit cards as the monthly bill wouldn't hit me like a ton of brick. Wish I had spent that money on me and my kids. I know I have said good things about Aurora. But may be I volunteered a lot of infor about the idiot SM. Also, I was hurting so bad back then that any half good empath would have known idiot boy hurt me really badly ab=nd as such it is a no brainer to say he would do the same again. I guess, what I am trying to say that I need to take care of my psychic addiction. I hope I can and save my money as I really need to focus on my finances.
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I spent so much money that I started to use three different credit cards as the monthly bill wouldn't hit me like a ton of brick. Wish I had spent that money on me and my kids. I know I have said good things about Aurora. But may be I volunteered a lot of infor about the idiot SM. Also, I was hurting so bad back then that any half good empath would have known idiot boy hurt me really badly ab=nd as such it is a no brainer to say he would do the same again. I guess, what I am trying to say that I need to take care of my psychic addiction. I hope I can and save my money as I really need to focus on my finances.
So sorry, this is a sad reality for me also. The emotional pain is still there and your $ is not.
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^^^^, A waste not because a predication did or didn't come thru..A waste because the answer and clarafication she was seeking was provided for no charge, and came from the horses mouth.
After years of calling I've found that psychics more often then not leave me with more ?s then answers. Just my opinion.
If you have beeen bless to find the perfect psychic whose predictions 90% of the time come thru then by all means keep calling, I however have not been that lucky :-[
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NightSky,
She couldve asked him sooner! Only reason why she probably didnt is because the "Psychics" told her he would come back within a certain time frame.
There is nothing wrong with her asking her guy where she stands with him. I rather her, I , you or anyone else ask b4 calling psychics. I'm not saying its over with her and her guy, I'm saying that simply calling psychics wasting time and money, being confused and pumped with false hope, isnt worth the emotional stress.
Its frustrating as hell to deal with conflicting predictions given by "top rated psychics".Its easier to deal with emotional distress w/o the added BS.. even if the prediction is correct if it didnt save your life, or aid you in avoiding a major catstrastophe then what the hell did you gain?
OPTION A
Ask the man where you stand, he says move on..you deal with everything and move on..and eventually not give a dam OR
ask psychic #1,2,3,4,5,6,7 and so on, get confused by the multiple and conflicting predictions,the false hope, readings arent free so substract the 1000s of dollars from the bank account.....wait patiently for the prediction, prediction dosent happen, now you're upset and even more confused so result to option A
If you believe that "psychic insight" is worth it then by all means call...If you've found a remarkable reader thats again 90% accurate for you then again keep calling. I'm saying that in all the years I've been calling, and when the dust was settled, psychics did not play a significant role in helping me move forward, nor did their "insight" provide me with the tools needed to cope thru the situation. And if you are NOT apart of the solution you ARE part of the problem!
I would go much deeper into this but this is a psychic forum and I don't want to offend anyone. But I will say this in the end Time heals, not the top rated advisor, hindsight is 20/20 not psychic readings!
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NightSky,
She couldve asked him sooner! Only reason why she probably didnt is because the "Psychics" told her he would come back within a certain time frame.
Not always true. The main reason I never asked my ex in the beginning was because I believed he was confused and like someone said, I didn't want to rock the boat. He was still talking to me after all, and giving me mixed messages so I went with the flow. With his personality traits, had I asked him it would have pushed him into a corner and he would have walled himself in from me or ran.
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PW, I guess all of us would have our own learning cycles.
you had been calling for years before you stopped calling,
synergy will have her own experience. this is what this forum
is for, to share our experiences. thanks for sharing yours too !
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putting psychics aside, I agree that one could rock the boat by asking in the
first few months. my own opinion is we should do no contact and give enough time
for the other party to figure things/feelings out. this no contact is very painful
and that is why we started to call psychics. not saying we should or should not be calling,
but I totally understand the pain that drives people to call.
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NightSky,
She couldve asked him sooner! Only reason why she probably didnt is because the "Psychics" told her he would come back within a certain time frame.
Not always true. The main reason I never asked my ex in the beginning was because I believed he was confused and like someone said, I didn't want to rock the boat. He was still talking to me after all, and giving me mixed messages so I went with the flow. With his personality traits, had I asked him it would have pushed him into a corner and he would have walled himself in from me or ran.
Why do we have to put up with this type of behavior? They're scared and result to games and we have to sit back and try to decode and fiquire out where we stand. I wish I could care :'(, I'm emotionally Bankrupt and emotionally detached so I havent had to put up with this crap in a while. And in someway I'm happy it protects me and in the end thats whats its all about.
He plays games- goodbye
you're scared- ok goodbye
you don't want a relationship- ok, but you want all the emotional and sexual benefits of one-GOODBYE
You're idea of a date is me coming over watching your TV- GOODBYE
You Just need time? hmm mm sounds good...GOODBYE
My time is precious to me and at this point in my life you need to prove you are worthy of my time, I'm not sacrifing my needs so that all yours can be met. its unfair and if you are not ready to give me what I need then theres the door! and you don't gotta call a psychic to decode that lol :D
but O well I guess I'm a typical emotionally unavailable aquarius.
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Hi Synergy.........I love what you said about living your life and not waiting for things to happen...many thanks.. :)
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I agree with Jordie. I use to call too much about when or if something was going to happen. Now I lean towards readings that guide me or make me aware of information about people/situations I would not know by just asking them, so that I can decided what I want to make of the situation. I'm rarely dissapointed with these type of readings.Thats why I like LadyP so much..its not always about "this will happen at such and such a time".
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As if I didn't already think most of my favorite readers were wrong the moment he told me to move on, I have been able to confirm that he has a girlfriend. Not just that, but a picture of she and him is now his Facebook profile picture. I never had that "honor".
So all the readers who told me he was afraid of commitment because of what his ex put him through we're just plain wrong. All the ones who told me he just wanted to be free and experience his youth without being in a relationship were wrong as well. The fact is he just doesn't want to be with me.
I still had hope but now I can say that I am officially done with psychics. Done.
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No... We're not fb friends anymore. I removed him back in January. I got the urge to go look because of what I had learned about this possible girlfriend. Now I know it's true.
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I'm so sorry Synergy. So he was seeing this girl all along? No psychic picked up on this?
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I'm sorry synergy. Im starting to realize that all these psychics are wrong. Their timing is wrong and im sure their outcome is too. I'm slowly starting to stop calling. Everyone has been wrong in some way.
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Synergy,
I am so sorry you are going through this. :'( But - you have clarity where so many of us do not. Your friend told you face to face exactly how he feels. Please do not start feeding into the thoughts that he is only doing (things) to see how it effects you. That would be a very dangerous path to take.
You are a prime example of how these readers continue to give hope and optimism where there shouldn't be any.
You have been set free. I am really starting to believe that "timing" plays such a huge role in what happens in our lives. Perhaps your meeting C was too soon after your breakup with your other friend. We all need time to heal and prepare for what is coming next.
I know I've said it before, but I am so proud of you that you were brave enough to face C and find out the truth. Thankfully, C was also brave enough to tell you the truth. He could have lead you on or possibly given you false hope.
Wishful
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I agree. I think we are all being strung along. They all claim to be "honest" and "ethical".
The great disclaimer: FOR ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY..Its all starting to make sense.
But I wonder who's being entertained, lol????
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As if I didn't already think most of my favorite readers were wrong the moment he told me to move on, I have been able to confirm that he has a girlfriend. Not just that, but a picture of she and him is now his Facebook profile picture. I never had that "honor".
So all the readers who told me he was afraid of commitment because of what his ex put him through we're just plain wrong. All the ones who told me he just wanted to be free and experience his youth without being in a relationship were wrong as well. The fact is he just doesn't want to be with me.
I still had hope but now I can say that I am officially done with psychics. Done.
You are very smart! and don't think you are the only one that has come to this realization. Don't think your situation was hard to read, and don't think you were not calling the correct psychics. and Don't go for that free will crap either..<<<< I've made these excuses in the past and it got me no-where, in the end I was back feeling the same way you are now..I truly believe they are for entertainment purposes only..The only question is, who is being entertained? Not me :(
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Well, I have always felt like it's so silly when posters come on here and say that they're leaving the forum, BUT I will now do the same.
My departure is not due to the fact that there are attacks happening within the forum (even though I do think it's uncalled for and ridiculous). Personally, I just don't want to be the cynic. I don't want to be that bitter person who now sits back and sees that all the predictions are wrong. I have come to truly care about each and every person who contributes on the forum. You have no idea how badly I want all of your dreams and wishes to come true. I really want all of you to be happy and healthy. The thing is, I have realized that calling psychics does nothing for ME.
I have received too much false hope to continue going through the torture of calling these readers. I still have my favorites who I know are truly gifted, but at this point in time, I have to give up on psychics completely. That also means I must leave the forum. I know I can no longer be a helpful contributor, since I no longer have much faith in the words of these psychics.
If you would like to stay in touch with me, please PM me!!! I have a gchat account and there are many of you who I trust and who I would love to talk to (you know who you are! ;D ). Vtech, I know you're no longer here, but I hope you still read the posts. Contact me!! I kind of miss you... haha. ;)
Hopefully, I'll see you all soon. :) I have made some real friends here, and I am so grateful for that!!!
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Aww Synergy. Good luck in the future and take any lessons learned with tablespoon of sugar. You are a smart and loving woman and you will get what you deserve in the end. PM if you have any updates!
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Bye for now Synergy! Good luck with everything. I know that you're going to get everything great that life has to offer you.
You have always kept it real on here and have never been disrespectful or judgmental and I appreciate that. You've made this such a great forum. I hope to talk to you again in the future!
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Synergy,
I am sorry to see you are leaving, but understand how important it is for you. I know this journey for you has been long and painful, to say the least. I wish you much happiness and I know the peace you are searching for will find you. The road that brought you here has been painful, but I know that you are on the road to healing. I will miss reading your updates, but know that it does not matter how you got here it is part of your journey; one that I am fortunate to have shared with you.
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@Syn - I will miss you on this site. You have been a guiding light for all of us. I wish you the best and hope you find the happiness and peace you deserve. ;)
Wishful
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Synergy
Thank you for being so kind and generous with your suggestions and information. You added so much to this site and you are truly a big loss but I 100% understand why you're doing it. Please come in from time to time to say hello.
All the best and much love
xxoo
PT