The Psychic Reviews
Relationship Psychology Discussions => The Vent => Topic started by: chrys1234 on March 14, 2020, 08:10:05 PM
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Hi I had readings lately about how the guy I've been seeing since April has feelings for me etc.
They said he is thinking about relationship with me and he has problems that he is trying to get out from which I knew already.
Since last time we met and had sex basically he hasn't contacted since. I know he is really busy and struggling in areas of his life.
I had seen shortly after we had sex that he hid his dating profile
Today, I saw he created another profile which states that he wants to date but nothing serious, with updated photos and he states he doesn't want kids (he has a kid but his previous one stated he is open to kids and he wants a relationship)
The truth is, before this, Dec/Jan he asked to come to my house but I was abroad or things came up, period etc and we met anyway but not when he asked me.
I also told him that I will look for work locally (we live close by but I work centrally).
Now I see this with the dating site.
I am a bit disappointed as I asked people very recently and they seem to tell me he wants to move things forward with us and he is thinking about it quite a bit.
Last time we met I didn't bring up any commitment I actually enjoyed sex and I let him know.
We've been seeing each other 10 months now. He has asked me if there are others to which I answered no of course.
I don't know what's the deal with this and what are people seeing possibly.
I am a bit ticked off with the distance between us to be honest... Plus I'm wondering what the psychics are seeing as all the readings are really positive regarding communication feelings and intention
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Also one of the photos in his dating profile I saw has a photo of a broken arm in bandage which I never seen before.
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how long he hasn't been contact?
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A month now.
I also sent him a text something really light just a kiss emoji and he didn't reply
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I don't know who you read with but 90% psychics are somehow fake I feel.
I think just let him go...or read one last time with somebody has very good reputation here.
But I assume find somebody else will help you to heal...
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Well I am in the uk so I read with a psychic line there.
I will try this Kisha I think
But ye what they told me doesn't come close to how he is acting at all
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well we should just look at his behavior
if its me i will just let him go
no matter what, not even replying a text message was simply not acceptable, very impolite very inconsiderate
sorry im just not sure if any psychic could give you peace with circumstances like this.
A month now.
I also sent him a text something really light just a kiss emoji and he didn't reply
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That's the logical thing.
I dunno what he is going thru but it may be obvious that he simply doesn't wanna continue this
I expected at least after 10 months to say something and I thought we have a connection...
Psychics did tell .e he has a tough time and that is what I knew more or less too but the fact also that he created a new dating profile...
I dunno. I wish also they filtered more what they said to people
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Well I am in the uk so I read with a psychic line there.
I will try this Kisha I think
But ye what they told me doesn't come close to how he is acting at all
Unfortunately 90% psychics are fake.
I think go out to meet some other men will help:)
I haven't read with Kisha before but yeah her reputation seems really good here.
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He replied saying he wants me and misses me a lot.
I asked him if he does I don't understand why he is not contacting me he said just being busy babe
I said I don't understand this but whatever floats your boat
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He replied saying he wants me and misses me a lot.
I asked him if he does I don't understand why he is not contacting me he said just being busy babe
I said I don't understand this but whatever floats your boat
If I were you, I would call him out on the new dating profile. Sounds to me like he wants to have his cake and eat it too, which you need to be like “no thanks.” I’ve dealt with guys like that before and it never works out because they’re very self-centered.
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I will ask when we meet
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sorry, i dont buy the 'miss me a lot just busy cannot even meet' those trash
just open yourself to more options then you will feel more light
He replied saying he wants me and misses me a lot.
I asked him if he does I don't understand why he is not contacting me he said just being busy babe
I said I don't understand this but whatever floats your boat
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You have nothing to lose here! Ask him w/e it is that you want to know and I would call him out on his crap too. If asking him about his updated dating profile leads to an argument and him being an ass then so what....You would then know what you're dealing with and you wouldn't have had to pay a psychic for that information.
He's not the only man on earth you don't have to bite your tongue or hold your horses out of fear. Screw him!
Think about the reality of the situation:
He's updating his profile but readers claim he's too busy to send a message to you? Bullshit!!! He's had sex with you then stop communicating? More bullshit!
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Yep, total bullshit. We all need to pay closer attention to warning signs like these.
sorry, i dont buy the 'miss me a lot just busy cannot even meet' those trash
just open yourself to more options then you will feel more light
He replied saying he wants me and misses me a lot.
I asked him if he does I don't understand why he is not contacting me he said just being busy babe
I said I don't understand this but whatever floats your boat
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It sounds like you got your answer, just by his actions alone, without the need for a psychic.
You should totally go by that.
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He asked to meet.
Also he asked to do facetime today that I can't meet.
Ye I don't know if he is so scared .
I'm gonna ask him about dating profile as he has asked me multiple times in the past if im seeing others so I will ask with no ado
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Why was he silent for a month after sleeping with you? That's emotional abuse and irresponsible. He could have at least told you he didn't want to go any further with things.
Why did you have to initate communication in order for him to ask to meetup?
Why does his new dating profile says he doesn't want the things you are looking for? Relationship/kids
there are too many games being played and you can do better!
He asked to meet.
Also he asked to do facetime today that I can't meet.
Ye I don't know if he is so scared .
I'm gonna ask him about dating profile as he has asked me multiple times in the past if im seeing others so I will ask with no ado
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Because I guess he wants to get further but he is really insecure??
He has asked multiple times if there are others ....
He hid his profile after last time we met but now again
I dunno why he did this.out of insecurity??? Out of immaturity?
He was thinking of me a lot as he said.
I dunno why the hell he is so confused
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Because I guess he wants to get further but he is really insecure??
He has asked multiple times if there are others ....
He hid his profile after last time we met but now again
I dunno why he did this.out of insecurity??? Out of immaturity?
He was thinking of me a lot as he said.
I dunno why the hell he is so confused
Why do you think he's confused; did he say this specifically or is this your perception? Because to me he has one foot in and one foot out, just in case. I don't know all your situation, but I could be wrong. I'm just going by the facts of what you posted.
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I agree with marciamia...
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If he's insecure and immature to the point where he becomes emotionally abusive it's best to walk away and let him deal with his issues.
Because I guess he wants to get further but he is really insecure??
He has asked multiple times if there are others ....
He hid his profile after last time we met but now again
I dunno why he did this.out of insecurity??? Out of immaturity?
He was thinking of me a lot as he said.
I dunno why the hell he is so confused
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Hi there I think just don’t hear what he says but watch what he does.
Because I guess he wants to get further but he is really insecure??
He has asked multiple times if there are others ....
He hid his profile after last time we met but now again
I dunno why he did this.out of insecurity??? Out of immaturity?
He was thinking of me a lot as he said.
I dunno why the hell he is so confused
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nonono lol he is not scared or insecure
if he is then whats the point to update his dating profile ??
nonono, when a man is sincere to a woman, they will do something even its small (if he is insecure)
this guy, huge redflag
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well tbh he does seem confused to me