The Psychic Reviews
Relationship Psychology Discussions => The Vent => Topic started by: Loulou on September 29, 2019, 08:42:11 AM
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I joined this forum this week. I gave an honest set of encounters including feedback on 4 or 5 psychics I like it disliked.
Nothing major. Passed on my opinion. Answered questioned. Engaged in chat.
I have just got a message, long message from another user pretty much saying people are suspicious of me. Then going on to say things about a reader I have read with only once. I’ve had readings for I thing 10 years. It may be 12 but I stupidly thought my honest first post would be welcomed.
I have been made to feel very unwelcome because I have a favourable review. I’m very upset by this. I am a complete stranger to this person and I didn’t need a long message about something I have no interest in.
Totally overstepping boundaries.
Enjoy your Sunday everyone.
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Loulou, welcome to the land of the merry forum. I am so sorry this has happened to you. I know this has happened to others. Don't let this discourage you from sharing experiences that do help the others on the board. Someone sends you something and the minute you see its negative hit delete. Unfortunately someone is always going to feel the need to say something. We are all adults here so we each choose to read, believe and ignore what ever we see. Hope you will continue to share with the others on here. 🤞
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Loulou, this happened to me too when I first joined. It was really upsetting because I thought I had found a group of folks who I could openly communicate with only to be attacked. If you want to post, post. For every one person that questions your veracity, there are probably 50 people who will appreciate your input.
At the end of the day, every reader works differently for every person. Last night, I reactivated my Keen account to chat with a reader that many on here rave about. Well, she stated something I had never had another reader mention. When I asked this reader if she knew when this apparent thing happened, the chat swiftly ended. At first, silly me, thought it was a technical problem. Then I realized I was on the receiving end of a reader who ended the chat at the three minute mark so I couldn’t leave a review. Now, THAT made me feel violated.
Everyone should remember that you need to base who you have readings with on your own experience with each reader. If they validate well but no predictions come to pass (not necessarily contact predictions, but other little things that are specific), I’d reconsider reading with them. Also, be mindful of how much you share on this forum. I’m nearing the end of the cycle when it comes to the POI that brought me on here, so I post very freely at this point because I really just don’t care anymore.
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Sorry this happened Loulou. It happens a lot here and its insane. A lot of people on here are on emotional roller coasters and stuff like that doesn't help anyone. Many of us are really supportive. Yaz and I talk regularly in PMs so reach out to one of us if you need to vent. God knows we have vented to each other a lot lol
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I joined this forum this week. I gave an honest set of encounters including feedback on 4 or 5 psychics I like it disliked.
Nothing major. Passed on my opinion. Answered questioned. Engaged in chat.
I have just got a message, long message from another user pretty much saying people are suspicious of me. Then going on to say things about a reader I have read with only once. I’ve had readings for I thing 10 years. It may be 12 but I stupidly thought my honest first post would be welcomed.
I have been made to feel very unwelcome because I have a favourable review. I’m very upset by this. I am a complete stranger to this person and I didn’t need a long message about something I have no interest in.
Totally overstepping boundaries.
Enjoy your Sunday everyone.
Take no notice my dear, Most dont wanna be nice, But i know there's lots of help on here for you, Lots of negative vibes as well, But lots of nice folk with heart warming posts that can lift the lowest to the high, Ive not been here long, But read some remarkable stuff, really enjoy it. Do not let the negs put you off.
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Thank you all for your messages.
This person was very passionately aggressive about a certain reader and obviously wanting to cause that reader harm. I will ignore and won’t mention the reader or the member here. But sadly I feel they have some revenge to get and would try putting members off reading with this psychic.
Quite strange behaviour I feel given I don’t know them and I only mentioned this psychic once.
Seems it’s a nanny state and people are trying to brainwash others
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Okay so it was me who PM'd LouLou. I'm sure that won't be much of a surpise to some people. I PM'd LouLou as they are a very recent newbie and multiple postings of theirs is defending a recently controversial reader saying all the bad comments about them are untrue, unfair and not nice. I thought that the mature thing to do would be to contact the user herself as adults instead of bring it publically onto the forum and say how I felt they were a little suspicious, and explain my side of the story to LouLou as I was one of the users caught up in the controversy, so I have a right to put my say across too if we are going to go back into questioning that readers authenticity.
LouLou decided to make this pity me thread and if I am a bad person for contacting someone privately (without threatening, abuse, inappropriate comments) and airing things out then hunt me down and shoot me but I am very wary recently (as I'm sure others are) of reviewers and posters and this site is full of vulnerable people. It's okay to say this reader was great for you, but to make postings when you just joined saying the negative comments are untrue and people are sad who say bad things against reader X is a little unfair too. That's why I said earlier - let's all just leave each other to post good and bad things without getting defensive of readers because people feel uncomfortable to post any wrongdoings that may possibly have happened from the reader and that doesn't make for fair, honest, reputable commenting on here. It's happened on Shaman Kira and recently with Joy's thread and it just leads to nasty personal arguments which is ridiculous when these readers are business friends. We all have to value each other's say in reviewing these readers and support each other. It's funny how since LouLou has joined that reader's thread has blown up again and her times she is active is the same time as KindridGirl and co's times. I don't trust hardly anybody on here no matter how innocent and sweet they make out to be. These postings are all very similar to the other old posters and I would be happy and apologise if the Admin decides that LouLou isn't in Australia. It all is very similar and sketchy behaviour and sorry but people are falling for it again.
I'm not getting or trying to bring up another debate on the reader themselves, just simply saying newbies or anybody shouldn't really come on and put down veteran and other posters warning posts because they went against what the newbie thinks of the reader because the reader worked for them. That's my issue.
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Wtf is wrong with you? I didn’t defend anyone. I mentioned my experience with her.
As I did with other readers.
What did I ever do to you? I don’t understand this st all.
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Wtf is wrong with you? I didn’t defend anyone. I mentioned my experience with her.
As I did with other readers.
What did I ever do to you? I don’t understand this st all.
You just said I'm "brainwashing people". Please don't come on and talk about me and expect me not to reply and sit here. I don't really appreciate how you have put down and said all negative comments about that reader is nonsense when even veteran readers have come on with proof and their personal thoughts. That's my issue. If that reader is good for you, fine. But also let people have a varied say.
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This is very disturbing.
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I went back and looked at loulou's post and I don't see anything where she is vehemently defending a reader. Seems that the majority of her post were simply reviews, some good, some bad. I didn't see anything where she was vehemently defending any particular reader. Maybe I missed it but I can't see anything wrong with what she has posted.
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I went back and looked at loulou's post and I don't see anything where she is vehemently defending a reader. Seems that the majority of her post were simply reviews, some good, some bad. I didn't see anything where she was vehemently defending any particular reader. Maybe I missed it but I can't see anything wrong with what she has posted.
She's made a few postings saying that the negative reviews of that reader should be discounted. I don't think that was fair to say and that was my point.
1) Pretty good. Similar stuff to me. I can’t see why people try and make her look so dodgy. I’m going to have a 2nd with her soon. I like the way you can buy minutes too and just book reading woth them. I might do that gas anyone tried it?
2) I wasn’t on here when that all happened but read some of it. My humble opinion is led by some upset people.
Nobody is perfect but she was incredible for me
Care to share any specifics?
3) I have been having readings now for around 10 years, i have found it increasingly interesting to watch the feedback on here range from euphoric to dissing a psychic and trying to make them look underhand.
I have realised the best way to get results after years of readings and just want to share this with you. The reality is that psychics don’t have all the answers, not because they are not good psychics but because of the expectations of some of those getting readings.
I hope this list helps, I am not going to mention any specific psychic but I will say that i stay away from Keen and large platforms and err towards private readers who seem to be more ethical. This is only my point of view and I just want to see people manage their expectations better and realise that if you manage the way you have readings you will have better luck.
This worked for me and after 10 years of readings I realised that I have had so many predictions happen over the last 5 when I changed my expectations and stop being so needy.
Ask for a general reading and let the psychic pick up what they want to start with
Don’t give them too much information
listen don’t talk
Don’t ask questions too early and don’t ask too many pointed questions you will only find that psychics get it wrong. They don’t all have the ability to pull yes or no answers out of the air and if they are not giving you that information then you are not meant to have it
Keep an open mind, one of the biggest lessons I learnt was that I assumed what a reader was saying was about a particular situation or person, often when I read back it wasnt at all
Don’t just listen to what you want to hear about a certain person. what a waste of money to concentrate on one topic in a reading that may or may not be relevant to the rest of your life
Record your readings if you can the stuff really good psychics say not related or in passing is usually the gold
Listen and listen and listen and listen some more psychics speak in a cryptic way sometimes if you cannot work it out then you should just stop getting readings
no psychic can get 1 hour or even 30 minutes of details about one person nobody if they are doing that then they are con artists
Let go of timing immediately the more you cling to it the more it will move and the more you will be disappointed
Dont correct a psychic, unless of course they are telling you something you are 100% dead cert you know the answer. You are ruining them for insight, if they tell you something that you think is wrong such as Tommy has a girlfriend, don’t assume you know that Tommy doesnt have a girlfriend. I used to correct psychics all the time, it would change the reading and I would waste my money, Tommy had a girlfriend and I didn’t want to hear it.
Stop assuming psychics are looking up your information. This is a big one for me. I only use private readers and the information I have been given would make your toes curl. Never has a psychic looked up my information as there is none to find and the really good psychics know stuff that would blow your mind. That is how we know they are good.
Be realistic about what they are saying, psychics can build hope that is unattainable and the euphoric feeling is often followed by deep lows. This is not good for anyones mental health
Be realistic also about the questions you are asking, and listen to their advice. I found that the advice I was given on how to handle situations as the psychic had insight into the persons personality is what helped me more than anything.
Not all psychics have your best interest at heart they have their bank balance in mind more than anything
Sadly I have seen on here that so many excellent readers have been badly treated and scared by the comments and feedback because people make assumptions. It is often for me the ones that have been the most help and I feel that if you kept an open mind many people would see it too.
I am not encouraging anyone to get readings but I just found that these things for me helped me manage myself and the readers I chose as well as the situation. I don’t recommend anyone in particular but I do recommend you stay away from platforms. The choice is ultimately yours, This is only my personal experience and understanding that I have come to over the years.
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You have my support @loulou
@star, I am not sure what makes you feel like your opinion (veteran) has more value or weight than one from a "newbie". You can be registered on this forum for just a week but have experience with readers for many years. You could also be familiar with this forum for years before becoming an active user.
I too, have difficulty understanding what's the point of making assumptions and possibly accusations on people because they support a reader. We all have favorites that we enjoy recommending.
In doubt that a user is a hidden reader and has bad intentions, it would make sense to contact the admin and have something to verify that before aggressing / accusing people out of the blue.
There is way too much drama on this board already
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You have my support @loulou
@star, I am not sure what makes you feel like your opinion (veteran) has more value or weight than one from a "newbie". You can be registered on this forum for just a week but have experience with readers for many years. You could also be familiar with this forum for years before becoming an active user.
I too, have difficulty understanding what's the point of making assumptions and possibly accusations on people because they support a reader. We all have favorites that we enjoy recommending.
In doubt that a user is a hidden reader and has bad intentions, it would make sense to contact the admin and have something to verify that before aggressing / accusing people out of the blue.
There is way too much drama on this board already
I'm not bringing up the authenticity of the actual reader, I'm saying it's wrong that a few people say reader X did this and it was unethical on their part, and someone (especially someone new) comes along and discredits that in more than one post saying how it's untrue and unfair. How can said person know if it is or isn't true if they have "only had one reading with that reader"? And it will lead to arguments like these and people feeling uncomfortable to post publically... Which then isn't true feedback. A reader could be a great reader but outside of their readings could shoplift, be a narc, hit their partner - just because they're a reader who was good for you that doesn't mean either way you can judge if they are good or bad. Whether the reader is good or not - there wasn't any need for the newbie to come on and talk about the authenticity and accuse people of lying and brainwashing, they simply could have said the reader was good for them and had worked for them and that be that. It's unfair to accuse people of lying for posting something they're wary about. I'm saying this about all readers, not just one. It has happened with Shaman whatever she calls herself now, people had things to say and one or two became a little too defensive which pissed people off. That's the point I'm trying to get at.
So if LouLou is allowed to post freely - so are others who counteract that reader negatively - it works both ways ;D I know you like that reader too but we all need to be fair and allow both sides of the coin.
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I will say I’m really disturbed by your long novel.
Far too invested in this situation.
I don’t care what you think of who you think I am
You are disturbed. This makes me very uncomfortable and very worried to speak.
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I went back and looked at loulou's post and I don't see anything where she is vehemently defending a reader. Seems that the majority of her post were simply reviews, some good, some bad. I didn't see anything where she was vehemently defending any particular reader. Maybe I missed it but I can't see anything wrong with what she has posted.
She's made a few postings saying that the negative reviews of that reader should be discounted. I don't think that was fair to say and that was my point.
1) Pretty good. Similar stuff to me. I can’t see why people try and make her look so dodgy. I’m going to have a 2nd with her soon. I like the way you can buy minutes too and just book reading woth them. I might do that gas anyone tried it?
2) I wasn’t on here when that all happened but read some of it. My humble opinion is led by some upset people.
Nobody is perfect but she was incredible for me
Care to share any specifics?
3) I have been having readings now for around 10 years, i have found it increasingly interesting to watch the feedback on here range from euphoric to dissing a psychic and trying to make them look underhand.
I have realised the best way to get results after years of readings and just want to share this with you. The reality is that psychics don’t have all the answers, not because they are not good psychics but because of the expectations of some of those getting readings.
I hope this list helps, I am not going to mention any specific psychic but I will say that i stay away from Keen and large platforms and err towards private readers who seem to be more ethical. This is only my point of view and I just want to see people manage their expectations better and realise that if you manage the way you have readings you will have better luck.
This worked for me and after 10 years of readings I realised that I have had so many predictions happen over the last 5 when I changed my expectations and stop being so needy.
Ask for a general reading and let the psychic pick up what they want to start with
Don’t give them too much information
listen don’t talk
Don’t ask questions too early and don’t ask too many pointed questions you will only find that psychics get it wrong. They don’t all have the ability to pull yes or no answers out of the air and if they are not giving you that information then you are not meant to have it
Keep an open mind, one of the biggest lessons I learnt was that I assumed what a reader was saying was about a particular situation or person, often when I read back it wasnt at all
Don’t just listen to what you want to hear about a certain person. what a waste of money to concentrate on one topic in a reading that may or may not be relevant to the rest of your life
Record your readings if you can the stuff really good psychics say not related or in passing is usually the gold
Listen and listen and listen and listen some more psychics speak in a cryptic way sometimes if you cannot work it out then you should just stop getting readings
no psychic can get 1 hour or even 30 minutes of details about one person nobody if they are doing that then they are con artists
Let go of timing immediately the more you cling to it the more it will move and the more you will be disappointed
Dont correct a psychic, unless of course they are telling you something you are 100% dead cert you know the answer. You are ruining them for insight, if they tell you something that you think is wrong such as Tommy has a girlfriend, don’t assume you know that Tommy doesnt have a girlfriend. I used to correct psychics all the time, it would change the reading and I would waste my money, Tommy had a girlfriend and I didn’t want to hear it.
Stop assuming psychics are looking up your information. This is a big one for me. I only use private readers and the information I have been given would make your toes curl. Never has a psychic looked up my information as there is none to find and the really good psychics know stuff that would blow your mind. That is how we know they are good.
Be realistic about what they are saying, psychics can build hope that is unattainable and the euphoric feeling is often followed by deep lows. This is not good for anyones mental health
Be realistic also about the questions you are asking, and listen to their advice. I found that the advice I was given on how to handle situations as the psychic had insight into the persons personality is what helped me more than anything.
Not all psychics have your best interest at heart they have their bank balance in mind more than anything
Sadly I have seen on here that so many excellent readers have been badly treated and scared by the comments and feedback because people make assumptions. It is often for me the ones that have been the most help and I feel that if you kept an open mind many people would see it too.
I am not encouraging anyone to get readings but I just found that these things for me helped me manage myself and the readers I chose as well as the situation. I don’t recommend anyone in particular but I do recommend you stay away from platforms. The choice is ultimately yours, This is only my personal experience and understanding that I have come to over the years.
Sorry @star but I really see nothing about this that justify your aggressivity except maybe... Well, your personal issues.
I have read @loulou posts before and enjoyed her input. I actually do agree with many of her points and really don't see how this can trigger your anger.
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I went back and looked at loulou's post and I don't see anything where she is vehemently defending a reader. Seems that the majority of her post were simply reviews, some good, some bad. I didn't see anything where she was vehemently defending any particular reader. Maybe I missed it but I can't see anything wrong with what she has posted.
She's made a few postings saying that the negative reviews of that reader should be discounted. I don't think that was fair to say and that was my point.
1) Pretty good. Similar stuff to me. I can’t see why people try and make her look so dodgy. I’m going to have a 2nd with her soon. I like the way you can buy minutes too and just book reading woth them. I might do that gas anyone tried it?
2) I wasn’t on here when that all happened but read some of it. My humble opinion is led by some upset people.
Nobody is perfect but she was incredible for me
Care to share any specifics?
3) I have been having readings now for around 10 years, i have found it increasingly interesting to watch the feedback on here range from euphoric to dissing a psychic and trying to make them look underhand.
I have realised the best way to get results after years of readings and just want to share this with you. The reality is that psychics don’t have all the answers, not because they are not good psychics but because of the expectations of some of those getting readings.
I hope this list helps, I am not going to mention any specific psychic but I will say that i stay away from Keen and large platforms and err towards private readers who seem to be more ethical. This is only my point of view and I just want to see people manage their expectations better and realise that if you manage the way you have readings you will have better luck.
This worked for me and after 10 years of readings I realised that I have had so many predictions happen over the last 5 when I changed my expectations and stop being so needy.
Ask for a general reading and let the psychic pick up what they want to start with
Don’t give them too much information
listen don’t talk
Don’t ask questions too early and don’t ask too many pointed questions you will only find that psychics get it wrong. They don’t all have the ability to pull yes or no answers out of the air and if they are not giving you that information then you are not meant to have it
Keep an open mind, one of the biggest lessons I learnt was that I assumed what a reader was saying was about a particular situation or person, often when I read back it wasnt at all
Don’t just listen to what you want to hear about a certain person. what a waste of money to concentrate on one topic in a reading that may or may not be relevant to the rest of your life
Record your readings if you can the stuff really good psychics say not related or in passing is usually the gold
Listen and listen and listen and listen some more psychics speak in a cryptic way sometimes if you cannot work it out then you should just stop getting readings
no psychic can get 1 hour or even 30 minutes of details about one person nobody if they are doing that then they are con artists
Let go of timing immediately the more you cling to it the more it will move and the more you will be disappointed
Dont correct a psychic, unless of course they are telling you something you are 100% dead cert you know the answer. You are ruining them for insight, if they tell you something that you think is wrong such as Tommy has a girlfriend, don’t assume you know that Tommy doesnt have a girlfriend. I used to correct psychics all the time, it would change the reading and I would waste my money, Tommy had a girlfriend and I didn’t want to hear it.
Stop assuming psychics are looking up your information. This is a big one for me. I only use private readers and the information I have been given would make your toes curl. Never has a psychic looked up my information as there is none to find and the really good psychics know stuff that would blow your mind. That is how we know they are good.
Be realistic about what they are saying, psychics can build hope that is unattainable and the euphoric feeling is often followed by deep lows. This is not good for anyones mental health
Be realistic also about the questions you are asking, and listen to their advice. I found that the advice I was given on how to handle situations as the psychic had insight into the persons personality is what helped me more than anything.
Not all psychics have your best interest at heart they have their bank balance in mind more than anything
Sadly I have seen on here that so many excellent readers have been badly treated and scared by the comments and feedback because people make assumptions. It is often for me the ones that have been the most help and I feel that if you kept an open mind many people would see it too.
I am not encouraging anyone to get readings but I just found that these things for me helped me manage myself and the readers I chose as well as the situation. I don’t recommend anyone in particular but I do recommend you stay away from platforms. The choice is ultimately yours, This is only my personal experience and understanding that I have come to over the years.
Sorry @star but I really see nothing about this that justify your aggressivity except maybe... Well, your personal issues.
I have read @loulou posts before and enjoyed her input. I actually do agree with many of her points and really don't see how this can trigger your anger.
Sorry username that i am not posting positively about the reader but I am allowed to have a differed opinion without being accused of lying. Please go back to your tarot readings and not make people feel uncomfortable to post because it goes against your readers. You did this the other day too with someone who posted about Danielle.
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That one post triggered all this. Omg wtf I’m really baffled and disturbed by your behaviour Star
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That one post triggered all this. Omg wtf I’m really baffled and disturbed by your behaviour Star
I will bet this forum dollars on your IP being Australian, sorry. The classic victim playing again.
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That one post triggered all this. Omg wtf I’m really baffled and disturbed by your behaviour Star
I will bet this forum dollars on your IP being Australian, sorry. The classic victim playing again.
So what? Being in Australia isn’t against forum rules is it?
I’m done. You are seriously a disturbed human being.
I never said I was anywhere else. I’m proud to be in Adelaide.
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@star we are not talking about any reader here -
You are the only one thinking @loulou is a hidden reader that you obviously can't stand.
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You are very erratic. I’ve no idea why you have got it in for me.
I’ve not defended anyone. But I will defend myself.
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Yes please ban all Australian! Are you serious for real @star?
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Keen.com / Re: Clairvoyant Danielle
« on: September 19, 2019, 12:12:25 AM »
Quote from: okgirl on September 18, 2019, 11:44:04 PM
very disappointed I pay email reading two times I sent pics short story and she was soo sure and positive and tell me what I want to hear..nothing come truth timeframe gone
@Okgirl. I get you, you paid 10 bucks - Omg - held very much on outcomes and timeframes and complained repeatedly. Clairvoyant Danielle is definitely not for you. She is great for people who actually want to grow, learn, and take charge of improving their own circumstances and happiness. if you want certainty and rely on psychic inputs, you are going to make yourself miserable. My 2 cents.
Look. This is the classic behaviour I'm talking about. I'm simply saying that people should be allowed to say good and bad things about a reader without others being so defensive. I contacted LouLou personally and could have sorted it like adults. She chose to play victim and bring it publically instead of talk like adults. Yeah I have a right to my say. She accused people of lying that wrote bad things about that reader. That isn't fair, if you are not involved with that reader and "only read with them once" why defend them in more than one post when you just joined? And here we go with the classic people jumping on attacking a user. I won't stay quiet and be scared to talk. Yeah I am allowed to call a user sketchy, people are allowed to be wary of other users and I have my own rights to contact someone and if they want to bring things on to a forum and cause trouble then I will respond and put my side across.
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@Loulou I’m sorry you were made to feel this way. I read all of what you said and I said to myself, she had to be attacked by Star. I knew it was her. Nobody can post on Matilda’s thread without her attacking. That’s how she did me and everyone else who comments. It’s to the point where I just read the forum sometimes as a guest. Shit is sad. But she has no life outside this forum so that’s why she acts this way. Like who takes the time to go back and rewrite a list of one poster’s comments?? People are so lucky the internet is a layer of protection for them because where I’m from...... boy boy boy. Let’s just say she wouldn’t last one day. Star needs Therapy. But again, I’m so sorry that this happened to you. That’s all I will say on this matter. 🤦🏽♀️
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But I didn’t say anything about Matilda. This is really weird.
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@Loulou I’m sorry you were made to feel this way. I read all of what you said and I said to myself, she had to be attacked by Star. I knew it was her. Nobody can post on Matilda’s thread without her attacking. That’s how she did me and everyone else who comments. It’s to the point where I just read the forum sometimes as a guest. Shit is sad. But she has no life outside this forum so that’s why she acts this way. Like who takes the time to go back and rewrite a list of one poster’s comments?? People are so lucky the internet is a layer of protection for them because where I’m from...... boy boy boy. Let’s just say she wouldn’t last one day. But again, I’m so sorry that this happened to you. That’s all I will say on this matter. 🤦🏽♀️
LOL fefe you accused me of being Matilda once and threatened me with violence so you can shut right up.
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Thank you, I’m seeing you are right.
Obviously obsessive. Thank you for your support. I’m just so sad that people
Don’t like what I write.
@Loulou I’m sorry you were made to feel this way. I read all of what you said and I said to myself, she had to be attacked by Star. I knew it was her. Nobody can post on Matilda’s thread without her attacking. That’s how she did me and everyone else who comments. It’s to the point where I just read the forum sometimes as a guest. Shit is sad. But she has no life outside this forum so that’s why she acts this way. Like who takes the time to go back and rewrite a list of one poster’s comments?? People are so lucky the internet is a layer of protection for them because where I’m from...... boy boy boy. Let’s just say she wouldn’t last one day. Star needs Therapy. But again, I’m so sorry that this happened to you. That’s all I will say on this matter. 🤦🏽♀️
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You really might be her Star 1 😂😂😂😂 I didn’t threaten you at all. I only invited you to my part of the hood... now what happens to you when you get here is beyond me😂😂😂 but that’s invitation still stands🤣 funny how I knew it was you tho Star. You’re insane Star just accept it 🤷🏽♀️. @Loulou I know you didn’t say anything bad about her but apparently nobody can say anything good or bad about any Reader Star is obsessed with especially post on Matilda’s thread and from that thread Star starts following your every post.
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You really might be her😂😂😂😂 I didn’t threaten you at all. I only invited you to my part of the hood... now what happens to you when you get here is beyond me😂😂😂 but that’s invitation still stands🤣 funny how I knew it was you tho Star. You’re insane🤷🏽♀️
You have just threatened me with violence twice. I sure would love to meet you thinking you're something behind a screen. You literally accused me of being Matilda when I defended her and now you hate on me again for commenting that people should talk freely on here good or bad about her or whoever.
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How can you say people can talk freely because when they do you attack them
You are disturbed and insane and obsessed.
You really might be her😂😂😂😂 I didn’t threaten you at all. I only invited you to my part of the hood... now what happens to you when you get here is beyond me😂😂😂 but that’s invitation still stands🤣 funny how I knew it was you tho Star. You’re insane🤷🏽♀️
You have just threatened me with violence twice. I sure would love to meet you thinking you're something behind a screen. You literally accused me of being Matilda when I defended her and now you hate on me again for commenting that people should talk freely on here good or bad about her or whoever.
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How can you say people can talk freely because when they do you attack them
You are disturbed and insane and obsessed.
You really might be her😂😂😂😂 I didn’t threaten you at all. I only invited you to my part of the hood... now what happens to you when you get here is beyond me😂😂😂 but that’s invitation still stands🤣 funny how I knew it was you tho Star. You’re insane🤷🏽♀️
You have just threatened me with violence twice. I sure would love to meet you thinking you're something behind a screen. You literally accused me of being Matilda when I defended her and now you hate on me again for commenting that people should talk freely on here good or bad about her or whoever.
Darling your innocent acts won't wash with me. You know who you are and like I said I would love to see the area of your IP. It's the exact same as KindredGirls victim playing. You did this on purpose and brought this publically to cause a scene. You havent only posted on her once, you have posted multiple times about her and you should allow people to say good or bad things about a reader whether it adheres to your views or not.
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Yep! I’m Matilda. I admit it. I’m her. I posted lots of times about her and all of them positive. I also got into conversations about her.
Ffs I never mentioned her at all apart from saying I read with her once and will go back again.
How can you say people can talk freely because when they do you attack them
You are disturbed and insane and obsessed.
You really might be her😂😂😂😂 I didn’t threaten you at all. I only invited you to my part of the hood... now what happens to you when you get here is beyond me😂😂😂 but that’s invitation still stands🤣 funny how I knew it was you tho Star. You’re insane🤷🏽♀️
You have just threatened me with violence twice. I sure would love to meet you thinking you're something behind a screen. You literally accused me of being Matilda when I defended her and now you hate on me again for commenting that people should talk freely on here good or bad about her or whoever.
Darling your innocent acts won't wash with me. You know who you are and like I said I would love to see the area of your IP. It's the exact same as KindredGirls victim playing. You did this on purpose and brought this publically to cause a scene. You havent only posted on her once, you have posted multiple times about her and you should allow people to say good or bad things about a reader whether it adheres to your views or not.
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You disturb me star. You are a very unhealthy person who is obsessed with something or someone.
I don’t have time for this shit. I’ve a life to live.
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Wow. Loulou is utterly passive aggressive and sneaky. Can't believe anyone is falling for this "poor me" game.
Not poor me. Just really baffled. I thought this was a cool place to be.
Obviously not.
Like high school. Let’s gang up on the new girl
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I've got every mature right to contact a user if I'm wary of them and talk things out like adults. They accused me and others of lying in something quite controversial recently and I don't personally appreciate that. And that's why I contacted LouLou. If she chooses to come on and play victim and others attack me then I will defend myself of course. And then when Shaman Kira was found out for unethical behaviour and other readers it is suddenly okay and iCloud and others were accused of being her. It's the exact same behaviour but different reader and I don't agree that a newbie should come on and say the people who said bad things about Matilda are liars or whatever else. It's not a debate on Matilda being ethical I haven't said that anywhere.
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@loulou there are a lot of good things about this forum. Just ignore the haters and the disturbed.
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Wow. Loulou is utterly passive aggressive and sneaky. Can't believe anyone is falling for this "poor me" game.
Exactly. I can't believe people are falling for it either, it's a joke. I have no reason to hate the reader. They did me no wrong they live the other side of the world to me, I just didn't appreciate their behaviour at the time after trusting them at a vulnerable time and at one point defending them (being accused of them also). But what irks me is people putting down others who have a not so good say on a reader so that they are uncomfortable to have their say.
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Anyone would be disturbed receiving this from a perfect stranger. Baffled by it. I think you’re confusing me defending myself against you with defending a reader. My initial first post was a general overview of behaviour. But because I posted on Matilda’s thread you went for me. But I also posted on tons, and others. Including negative reviews.
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I'm not trying to be rude but you are a new user and alot of your posts are defending Matilda quite alot and poor her people are being mean to her. It seems a little suspicious.
This is coming from someone who was once also accused of being her by defending her.
If you've read the actual thread you'll see that people have actually had some underhand proof by Matilda and the admin confirmed to me and I have the evidence that Tired of it all and the other users all had the same IP address and were the same person.
I was hated for being Matilda and then when people posted hmm I think she searches us up from online, I shared notes with others - my reading was the exact same as theirs and I went off Matilda, KindridGirl singled me out and then harassed and abused me and accused me of being paid by Keen to write bad reviews on her which was totally untrue. I was a 20 year old from England. Kindridgirl singled me out when others were writing pretty personal things of Matilda on here and I did nothing but defend her before. Then Matilda singled me out and threatened to sue me and I told her why is she and KindredGirl singling me out, others are saying shit too even worse than I am and you keep singling me out after I got accused of being you by defending you. Then she threatened to sue Ebony via email too.
There was a user here who was threatened by tired of it all with personal info via PM that only Matilda knew from the reading.
Just because she was a good reader for you and that's fine I can't argue with that, please don't make others feel uncomfortable to say well hey this reader did this and it was underhand or I have evidence of this reader doing this and that and I'm wary of them. Readers can be good readers but do underhand things and I was a longterm user but left this forum before because readers were being advertised and I would say this reader was crap and people defended the readers to me and it pissed me off. Just because they are a reader unless they're your friend you shouldn't feel the need to make multiple postings of her. I've seen you've been a recent joiner and because I know Matilda is linked to KindridGirl and Tired and they harassed me before I feel really uncomfortable as I was singled out. So please before you defend a reader, how can all these users be lying about her for the sake of it? When I defended Matilda they hated me and ohh you're Matilda it's suspicious how much you're defending her but I understand why they did it. Anyone can be behind a screen writing and defending how amazing a reader is.
One last thing, I contacted Matilda personally when OldTimer accused me of being paid to write bad reviews of Matilda off of Keen. I said it was harassment and it needed to stop and she should have a word with her customers as this is getting personal. I admitted to her I was wary of her after everything been said and she said she couldn't stop her customers saying things to defend her or talk about her. But when it came to me and my postings, she told me to remove every bad thing I said about her or she would get her lawyers on me and admin. How is that fair that I was being harassed and she didn't help me and yet when I posted my reading and others said that theirs was the same and I began to mistrust her, she then wanted me to delete my posts after before defending her so much. So I lost respect for Matilda. I'm just putting my side of the story across. I expect some angry crazy PM later or something written on the board about me but please, there are other sides to the story too.
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It’s onky escalated because of Star. Don’t care I only came on to give my opinion. Don’t really care if you think this is normal behaviour you are very welcome to your forum.
I went back and looked at loulou's post and I don't see anything where she is vehemently defending a reader. Seems that the majority of her post were simply reviews, some good, some bad. I didn't see anything where she was vehemently defending any particular reader. Maybe I missed it but I can't see anything wrong with what she has posted.
She's made a few postings saying that the negative reviews of that reader should be discounted. I don't think that was fair to say and that was my point.
1) Pretty good. Similar stuff to me. I can’t see why people try and make her look so dodgy. I’m going to have a 2nd with her soon. I like the way you can buy minutes too and just book reading woth them. I might do that gas anyone tried it?
2) I wasn’t on here when that all happened but read some of it. My humble opinion is led by some upset people.
Nobody is perfect but she was incredible for me
Care to share any specifics?
3) I have been having readings now for around 10 years, i have found it increasingly interesting to watch the feedback on here range from euphoric to dissing a psychic and trying to make them look underhand.
I have realised the best way to get results after years of readings and just want to share this with you. The reality is that psychics don’t have all the answers, not because they are not good psychics but because of the expectations of some of those getting readings.
I hope this list helps, I am not going to mention any specific psychic but I will say that i stay away from Keen and large platforms and err towards private readers who seem to be more ethical. This is only my point of view and I just want to see people manage their expectations better and realise that if you manage the way you have readings you will have better luck.
This worked for me and after 10 years of readings I realised that I have had so many predictions happen over the last 5 when I changed my expectations and stop being so needy.
Ask for a general reading and let the psychic pick up what they want to start with
Don’t give them too much information
listen don’t talk
Don’t ask questions too early and don’t ask too many pointed questions you will only find that psychics get it wrong. They don’t all have the ability to pull yes or no answers out of the air and if they are not giving you that information then you are not meant to have it
Keep an open mind, one of the biggest lessons I learnt was that I assumed what a reader was saying was about a particular situation or person, often when I read back it wasnt at all
Don’t just listen to what you want to hear about a certain person. what a waste of money to concentrate on one topic in a reading that may or may not be relevant to the rest of your life
Record your readings if you can the stuff really good psychics say not related or in passing is usually the gold
Listen and listen and listen and listen some more psychics speak in a cryptic way sometimes if you cannot work it out then you should just stop getting readings
no psychic can get 1 hour or even 30 minutes of details about one person nobody if they are doing that then they are con artists
Let go of timing immediately the more you cling to it the more it will move and the more you will be disappointed
Dont correct a psychic, unless of course they are telling you something you are 100% dead cert you know the answer. You are ruining them for insight, if they tell you something that you think is wrong such as Tommy has a girlfriend, don’t assume you know that Tommy doesnt have a girlfriend. I used to correct psychics all the time, it would change the reading and I would waste my money, Tommy had a girlfriend and I didn’t want to hear it.
Stop assuming psychics are looking up your information. This is a big one for me. I only use private readers and the information I have been given would make your toes curl. Never has a psychic looked up my information as there is none to find and the really good psychics know stuff that would blow your mind. That is how we know they are good.
Be realistic about what they are saying, psychics can build hope that is unattainable and the euphoric feeling is often followed by deep lows. This is not good for anyones mental health
Be realistic also about the questions you are asking, and listen to their advice. I found that the advice I was given on how to handle situations as the psychic had insight into the persons personality is what helped me more than anything.
Not all psychics have your best interest at heart they have their bank balance in mind more than anything
Sadly I have seen on here that so many excellent readers have been badly treated and scared by the comments and feedback because people make assumptions. It is often for me the ones that have been the most help and I feel that if you kept an open mind many people would see it too.
I am not encouraging anyone to get readings but I just found that these things for me helped me manage myself and the readers I chose as well as the situation. I don’t recommend anyone in particular but I do recommend you stay away from platforms. The choice is ultimately yours, This is only my personal experience and understanding that I have come to over the years.
Sorry @star but I really see nothing about this that justify your aggressivity except maybe... Well, your personal issues.
I have read @loulou posts before and enjoyed her input. I actually do agree with many of her points and really don't see how this can trigger your anger.
Um well not to speak for Star but I think I get exactly why those posts rubbed her wrong because I felt the same way, especially post 3. It's the classic "you didn't want to hear the truth" excuse for people getting not giving good reviews on the psychics that Loulou likes. Except it's phrased nicely with a long list of platitudes so it doesn't jump right out at you.
I was giving this person the benefit of the doubt since they are new BUT after seeing this thread escalate it's obvious there's some ill intent behind her posts.
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It’s onky escalated because of Star. Don’t care I only came on to give my opinion. Don’t really care if you think this is normal behaviour you are very welcome to your forum.
I went back and looked at loulou's post and I don't see anything where she is vehemently defending a reader. Seems that the majority of her post were simply reviews, some good, some bad. I didn't see anything where she was vehemently defending any particular reader. Maybe I missed it but I can't see anything wrong with what she has posted.
She's made a few postings saying that the negative reviews of that reader should be discounted. I don't think that was fair to say and that was my point.
1) Pretty good. Similar stuff to me. I can’t see why people try and make her look so dodgy. I’m going to have a 2nd with her soon. I like the way you can buy minutes too and just book reading woth them. I might do that gas anyone tried it?
2) I wasn’t on here when that all happened but read some of it. My humble opinion is led by some upset people.
Nobody is perfect but she was incredible for me
Care to share any specifics?
3) I have been having readings now for around 10 years, i have found it increasingly interesting to watch the feedback on here range from euphoric to dissing a psychic and trying to make them look underhand.
I have realised the best way to get results after years of readings and just want to share this with you. The reality is that psychics don’t have all the answers, not because they are not good psychics but because of the expectations of some of those getting readings.
I hope this list helps, I am not going to mention any specific psychic but I will say that i stay away from Keen and large platforms and err towards private readers who seem to be more ethical. This is only my point of view and I just want to see people manage their expectations better and realise that if you manage the way you have readings you will have better luck.
This worked for me and after 10 years of readings I realised that I have had so many predictions happen over the last 5 when I changed my expectations and stop being so needy.
Ask for a general reading and let the psychic pick up what they want to start with
Don’t give them too much information
listen don’t talk
Don’t ask questions too early and don’t ask too many pointed questions you will only find that psychics get it wrong. They don’t all have the ability to pull yes or no answers out of the air and if they are not giving you that information then you are not meant to have it
Keep an open mind, one of the biggest lessons I learnt was that I assumed what a reader was saying was about a particular situation or person, often when I read back it wasnt at all
Don’t just listen to what you want to hear about a certain person. what a waste of money to concentrate on one topic in a reading that may or may not be relevant to the rest of your life
Record your readings if you can the stuff really good psychics say not related or in passing is usually the gold
Listen and listen and listen and listen some more psychics speak in a cryptic way sometimes if you cannot work it out then you should just stop getting readings
no psychic can get 1 hour or even 30 minutes of details about one person nobody if they are doing that then they are con artists
Let go of timing immediately the more you cling to it the more it will move and the more you will be disappointed
Dont correct a psychic, unless of course they are telling you something you are 100% dead cert you know the answer. You are ruining them for insight, if they tell you something that you think is wrong such as Tommy has a girlfriend, don’t assume you know that Tommy doesnt have a girlfriend. I used to correct psychics all the time, it would change the reading and I would waste my money, Tommy had a girlfriend and I didn’t want to hear it.
Stop assuming psychics are looking up your information. This is a big one for me. I only use private readers and the information I have been given would make your toes curl. Never has a psychic looked up my information as there is none to find and the really good psychics know stuff that would blow your mind. That is how we know they are good.
Be realistic about what they are saying, psychics can build hope that is unattainable and the euphoric feeling is often followed by deep lows. This is not good for anyones mental health
Be realistic also about the questions you are asking, and listen to their advice. I found that the advice I was given on how to handle situations as the psychic had insight into the persons personality is what helped me more than anything.
Not all psychics have your best interest at heart they have their bank balance in mind more than anything
Sadly I have seen on here that so many excellent readers have been badly treated and scared by the comments and feedback because people make assumptions. It is often for me the ones that have been the most help and I feel that if you kept an open mind many people would see it too.
I am not encouraging anyone to get readings but I just found that these things for me helped me manage myself and the readers I chose as well as the situation. I don’t recommend anyone in particular but I do recommend you stay away from platforms. The choice is ultimately yours, This is only my personal experience and understanding that I have come to over the years.
Sorry @star but I really see nothing about this that justify your aggressivity except maybe... Well, your personal issues.
I have read @loulou posts before and enjoyed her input. I actually do agree with many of her points and really don't see how this can trigger your anger.
Um well not to speak for Star but I think I get exactly why those posts rubbed her wrong because I felt the same way, especially post 3. It's the classic "you didn't want to hear the truth" excuse for people getting not giving good reviews on the psychics that Loulou likes. Except it's phrased nicely with a long list of platitudes so it doesn't jump right out at you.
I was giving this person the benefit of the doubt since they are new BUT after seeing this thread escalate it's obvious there's some ill intent behind her posts.
I'm sorry but Matilda I don't care for either way. She's good for some she's not good for others. I'm over what happened in August when the thread flared up and what she has and hasn't been accused of doing. What annoyed me was you accused me and others of basically lying to cause trouble to Matilda which for me at least is not the case at all. I PM'd you about it and was honest that it came across a little suspicious and you made this thread on here, and I will respond to this and say exactly the truth. Lots of people have posted since saying she was good. I haven't attacked them once for posting something positive about her, I had someone say to me earlier privately she was good for them. I am saying your postings aren't fair in shutting down past controversy either way. I PM'd you because you accused me of lying and it's right I put my experience forth too and my side of things.
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Where did I accuse you of lying? I’ve never interacted with you before today?
It’s onky escalated because of Star. Don’t care I only came on to give my opinion. Don’t really care if you think this is normal behaviour you are very welcome to your forum.
I went back and looked at loulou's post and I don't see anything where she is vehemently defending a reader. Seems that the majority of her post were simply reviews, some good, some bad. I didn't see anything where she was vehemently defending any particular reader. Maybe I missed it but I can't see anything wrong with what she has posted.
She's made a few postings saying that the negative reviews of that reader should be discounted. I don't think that was fair to say and that was my point.
1) Pretty good. Similar stuff to me. I can’t see why people try and make her look so dodgy. I’m going to have a 2nd with her soon. I like the way you can buy minutes too and just book reading woth them. I might do that gas anyone tried it?
2) I wasn’t on here when that all happened but read some of it. My humble opinion is led by some upset people.
Nobody is perfect but she was incredible for me
Care to share any specifics?
3) I have been having readings now for around 10 years, i have found it increasingly interesting to watch the feedback on here range from euphoric to dissing a psychic and trying to make them look underhand.
I have realised the best way to get results after years of readings and just want to share this with you. The reality is that psychics don’t have all the answers, not because they are not good psychics but because of the expectations of some of those getting readings.
I hope this list helps, I am not going to mention any specific psychic but I will say that i stay away from Keen and large platforms and err towards private readers who seem to be more ethical. This is only my point of view and I just want to see people manage their expectations better and realise that if you manage the way you have readings you will have better luck.
This worked for me and after 10 years of readings I realised that I have had so many predictions happen over the last 5 when I changed my expectations and stop being so needy.
Ask for a general reading and let the psychic pick up what they want to start with
Don’t give them too much information
listen don’t talk
Don’t ask questions too early and don’t ask too many pointed questions you will only find that psychics get it wrong. They don’t all have the ability to pull yes or no answers out of the air and if they are not giving you that information then you are not meant to have it
Keep an open mind, one of the biggest lessons I learnt was that I assumed what a reader was saying was about a particular situation or person, often when I read back it wasnt at all
Don’t just listen to what you want to hear about a certain person. what a waste of money to concentrate on one topic in a reading that may or may not be relevant to the rest of your life
Record your readings if you can the stuff really good psychics say not related or in passing is usually the gold
Listen and listen and listen and listen some more psychics speak in a cryptic way sometimes if you cannot work it out then you should just stop getting readings
no psychic can get 1 hour or even 30 minutes of details about one person nobody if they are doing that then they are con artists
Let go of timing immediately the more you cling to it the more it will move and the more you will be disappointed
Dont correct a psychic, unless of course they are telling you something you are 100% dead cert you know the answer. You are ruining them for insight, if they tell you something that you think is wrong such as Tommy has a girlfriend, don’t assume you know that Tommy doesnt have a girlfriend. I used to correct psychics all the time, it would change the reading and I would waste my money, Tommy had a girlfriend and I didn’t want to hear it.
Stop assuming psychics are looking up your information. This is a big one for me. I only use private readers and the information I have been given would make your toes curl. Never has a psychic looked up my information as there is none to find and the really good psychics know stuff that would blow your mind. That is how we know they are good.
Be realistic about what they are saying, psychics can build hope that is unattainable and the euphoric feeling is often followed by deep lows. This is not good for anyones mental health
Be realistic also about the questions you are asking, and listen to their advice. I found that the advice I was given on how to handle situations as the psychic had insight into the persons personality is what helped me more than anything.
Not all psychics have your best interest at heart they have their bank balance in mind more than anything
Sadly I have seen on here that so many excellent readers have been badly treated and scared by the comments and feedback because people make assumptions. It is often for me the ones that have been the most help and I feel that if you kept an open mind many people would see it too.
I am not encouraging anyone to get readings but I just found that these things for me helped me manage myself and the readers I chose as well as the situation. I don’t recommend anyone in particular but I do recommend you stay away from platforms. The choice is ultimately yours, This is only my personal experience and understanding that I have come to over the years.
Sorry @star but I really see nothing about this that justify your aggressivity except maybe... Well, your personal issues.
I have read @loulou posts before and enjoyed her input. I actually do agree with many of her points and really don't see how this can trigger your anger.
Um well not to speak for Star but I think I get exactly why those posts rubbed her wrong because I felt the same way, especially post 3. It's the classic "you didn't want to hear the truth" excuse for people getting not giving good reviews on the psychics that Loulou likes. Except it's phrased nicely with a long list of platitudes so it doesn't jump right out at you.
I was giving this person the benefit of the doubt since they are new BUT after seeing this thread escalate it's obvious there's some ill intent behind her posts.
I'm sorry but Matilda I don't care for either way. She's good for some she's not good for others. I'm over what happened in August when the thread flared up and what she has and hasn't been accused of doing. What annoyed me was you accused me and others of basically lying to cause trouble to Matilda which for me at least is not the case at all. I PM'd you about it and was honest that it came across a little suspicious and you made this thread on here, and I will respond to this and say exactly the truth. Lots of people have posted since saying she was good. I haven't attacked them once for posting something positive about her, I had someone say to me earlier privately she was good for them. I am saying your postings aren't fair in shutting down past controversy either way. I PM'd you because you accused me of lying and it's right I put my experience forth too and my side of things.
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Where did I accuse you of lying? I’ve never interacted with you before today?
It’s onky escalated because of Star. Don’t care I only came on to give my opinion. Don’t really care if you think this is normal behaviour you are very welcome to your forum.
I went back and looked at loulou's post and I don't see anything where she is vehemently defending a reader. Seems that the majority of her post were simply reviews, some good, some bad. I didn't see anything where she was vehemently defending any particular reader. Maybe I missed it but I can't see anything wrong with what she has posted.
She's made a few postings saying that the negative reviews of that reader should be discounted. I don't think that was fair to say and that was my point.
1) Pretty good. Similar stuff to me. I can’t see why people try and make her look so dodgy. I’m going to have a 2nd with her soon. I like the way you can buy minutes too and just book reading woth them. I might do that gas anyone tried it?
2) I wasn’t on here when that all happened but read some of it. My humble opinion is led by some upset people.
Nobody is perfect but she was incredible for me
Care to share any specifics?
3) I have been having readings now for around 10 years, i have found it increasingly interesting to watch the feedback on here range from euphoric to dissing a psychic and trying to make them look underhand.
I have realised the best way to get results after years of readings and just want to share this with you. The reality is that psychics don’t have all the answers, not because they are not good psychics but because of the expectations of some of those getting readings.
I hope this list helps, I am not going to mention any specific psychic but I will say that i stay away from Keen and large platforms and err towards private readers who seem to be more ethical. This is only my point of view and I just want to see people manage their expectations better and realise that if you manage the way you have readings you will have better luck.
This worked for me and after 10 years of readings I realised that I have had so many predictions happen over the last 5 when I changed my expectations and stop being so needy.
Ask for a general reading and let the psychic pick up what they want to start with
Don’t give them too much information
listen don’t talk
Don’t ask questions too early and don’t ask too many pointed questions you will only find that psychics get it wrong. They don’t all have the ability to pull yes or no answers out of the air and if they are not giving you that information then you are not meant to have it
Keep an open mind, one of the biggest lessons I learnt was that I assumed what a reader was saying was about a particular situation or person, often when I read back it wasnt at all
Don’t just listen to what you want to hear about a certain person. what a waste of money to concentrate on one topic in a reading that may or may not be relevant to the rest of your life
Record your readings if you can the stuff really good psychics say not related or in passing is usually the gold
Listen and listen and listen and listen some more psychics speak in a cryptic way sometimes if you cannot work it out then you should just stop getting readings
no psychic can get 1 hour or even 30 minutes of details about one person nobody if they are doing that then they are con artists
Let go of timing immediately the more you cling to it the more it will move and the more you will be disappointed
Dont correct a psychic, unless of course they are telling you something you are 100% dead cert you know the answer. You are ruining them for insight, if they tell you something that you think is wrong such as Tommy has a girlfriend, don’t assume you know that Tommy doesnt have a girlfriend. I used to correct psychics all the time, it would change the reading and I would waste my money, Tommy had a girlfriend and I didn’t want to hear it.
Stop assuming psychics are looking up your information. This is a big one for me. I only use private readers and the information I have been given would make your toes curl. Never has a psychic looked up my information as there is none to find and the really good psychics know stuff that would blow your mind. That is how we know they are good.
Be realistic about what they are saying, psychics can build hope that is unattainable and the euphoric feeling is often followed by deep lows. This is not good for anyones mental health
Be realistic also about the questions you are asking, and listen to their advice. I found that the advice I was given on how to handle situations as the psychic had insight into the persons personality is what helped me more than anything.
Not all psychics have your best interest at heart they have their bank balance in mind more than anything
Sadly I have seen on here that so many excellent readers have been badly treated and scared by the comments and feedback because people make assumptions. It is often for me the ones that have been the most help and I feel that if you kept an open mind many people would see it too.
I am not encouraging anyone to get readings but I just found that these things for me helped me manage myself and the readers I chose as well as the situation. I don’t recommend anyone in particular but I do recommend you stay away from platforms. The choice is ultimately yours, This is only my personal experience and understanding that I have come to over the years.
Sorry @star but I really see nothing about this that justify your aggressivity except maybe... Well, your personal issues.
I have read @loulou posts before and enjoyed her input. I actually do agree with many of her points and really don't see how this can trigger your anger.
Um well not to speak for Star but I think I get exactly why those posts rubbed her wrong because I felt the same way, especially post 3. It's the classic "you didn't want to hear the truth" excuse for people getting not giving good reviews on the psychics that Loulou likes. Except it's phrased nicely with a long list of platitudes so it doesn't jump right out at you.
I was giving this person the benefit of the doubt since they are new BUT after seeing this thread escalate it's obvious there's some ill intent behind her posts.
I'm sorry but Matilda I don't care for either way. She's good for some she's not good for others. I'm over what happened in August when the thread flared up and what she has and hasn't been accused of doing. What annoyed me was you accused me and others of basically lying to cause trouble to Matilda which for me at least is not the case at all. I PM'd you about it and was honest that it came across a little suspicious and you made this thread on here, and I will respond to this and say exactly the truth. Lots of people have posted since saying she was good. I haven't attacked them once for posting something positive about her, I had someone say to me earlier privately she was good for them. I am saying your postings aren't fair in shutting down past controversy either way. I PM'd you because you accused me of lying and it's right I put my experience forth too and my side of things.
StillTired has already explained things in basic terms. I already copied and pasted your postings of accusations of people lying and that is my issue, it isn't Matilda herself anymore.
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I was in general terms
Whatever. If you think that message on to total stranger up to you
This place is disturbed
I will say star 7 messages saying you’re trouble seem to put my mind at ease. I feel better now it’s not just me you hate.
Enjoy your night
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I was in general terms
Whatever. If you think that message on to total stranger up to you
This place is disturbed
I will say star 7 messages saying you’re trouble seem to put my mind at ease. I feel better now it’s not just me you hate.
Enjoy your night
We could have spoken about it like adults in private like I tried to do and you didn't want to, so we had to speak about it here.
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I don’t know many that wouldn’t feel disturbed to receive that from a stranger. I’m done with this. You don’t have any logic and I’m arguing with someone that only sees one side of things.
I was in general terms
Whatever. If you think that message on to total stranger up to you
This place is disturbed
I will say star 7 messages saying you’re trouble seem to put my mind at ease. I feel better now it’s not just me you hate.
Enjoy your night
We could have spoken about it like adults in private like I tried to do and you didn't want to, so we had to speak about it here.
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I don’t know many that wouldn’t feel disturbed to receive that from a stranger. I’m done with this. You don’t have any logic and I’m arguing with someone that only sees one side of things.
I was in general terms
Whatever. If you think that message on to total stranger up to you
This place is disturbed
I will say star 7 messages saying you’re trouble seem to put my mind at ease. I feel better now it’s not just me you hate.
Enjoy your night
We could have spoken about it like adults in private like I tried to do and you didn't want to, so we had to speak about it here.
It's only disturbing to those who are not innocent.
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I was in general terms
Whatever. If you think that message on to total stranger up to you
This place is disturbed
I will say star 7 messages saying you’re trouble seem to put my mind at ease. I feel better now it’s not just me you hate.
Enjoy your night
We could have spoken about it like adults in private like I tried to do and you didn't want to, so we had to speak about it here.
I agree with you Star. Loulou posting your private message to her on here just puts a bad taste in my mouth. I wouldn't feel comfortable someone doing that to me. not like i'm sending my personal secrets in a message, but still, it was sent as a private message for a reason...
Thanks. I don't mind the message I sent being posted publically as I did no wrong personally and I thought I could clear things up with the user themselves, well, hoping to.
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Admin please delete my account. I don’t want to be here anymore
This is the star show obviously any many of you allow her to do it
Enjoy the nanny state
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I was in general terms
Whatever. If you think that message on to total stranger up to you
This place is disturbed
I will say star 7 messages saying you’re trouble seem to put my mind at ease. I feel better now it’s not just me you hate.
Enjoy your night
We could have spoken about it like adults in private like I tried to do and you didn't want to, so we had to speak about it here.
I agree with you Star. Loulou posting your private message to her on here just puts a bad taste in my mouth. I wouldn't feel comfortable someone doing that to me. not like i'm sending my personal secrets in a message, but still, it was sent as a private message for a reason...
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Forum wars are usually a waste of time and energy. It serves no higher purpose, fomenting only frustration and animosity, and almost always ends in a stalemate.
To be fair, Star did express her original concern/query in a private message, so I'm not really sure why loulou felt the need to start a public thread, which lit this dumpster fire in a sh*t storm. Not taking sides, but if I received a PM that irritated me, I would just delete it and move on with my day.
Honestly, I think you both are valuable contributors to this forum, and I've read reviews/opinions/thoughts/suggestions from each of you that have been helpful, so I hope that we can quash this dispute, and perhaps just agree to disagree on a particular issue or reader.
Thank you, I appreciate it and agree.
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I don’t have a problem with that. I just felt disturbed from such a message from someone I don’t know.
Please let’s move on
Forum wars are usually a waste of time and energy. It serves no higher purpose, fomenting only frustration and animosity, and almost always ends in a stalemate.
To be fair, Star did express her original concern/query in a private message, so I'm not really sure why loulou felt the need to start a public thread, which lit this dumpster fire in a sh*t storm. Not taking sides, but if I received a PM that irritated me, I would just delete it and move on with my day.
Honestly, I think you both are valuable contributors to this forum, and I've read reviews/opinions/thoughts/suggestions from each of you that have been helpful, so I hope that we can quash this dispute, and perhaps just agree to disagree on a particular issue or reader.
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That one post triggered all this. Omg wtf I’m really baffled and disturbed by your behaviour Star
Hey Loulou, was your post that caused all of this in response to my post? If so Star can PM me and leave you alone.
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That one post triggered all this. Omg wtf I’m really baffled and disturbed by your behaviour Star
Hey Loulou, was your post that caused all of this in response to my post? If so Star can PM me and leave you alone.
No, it wasn't. I came on to defend myself against LouLou and others, and said exactly what you said in one of your last postings about readers not being our friends. So please, leave me alone. Perhaps actually read the thread yourself before jumping on.
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That one post triggered all this. Omg wtf I’m really baffled and disturbed by your behaviour Star
Hey Loulou, was your post that caused all of this in response to my post? If so Star can PM me and leave you alone.
Honestly I’ve no idea what it’s in response to.
I’m just sorry I said anything.
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That one post triggered all this. Omg wtf I’m really baffled and disturbed by your behaviour Star
Hey Loulou, was your post that caused all of this in response to my post? If so Star can PM me and leave you alone.
No, it wasn't. I came on to defend myself against LouLou and others, and said exactly what you said in one of your last postings about readers not being our friends. So please, leave me alone. Perhaps actually read the thread yourself before jumping on.
It’s just seriously annoying that new members are constantly targeted on this forum. Star, I really don’t know what you hoped to gain by sending an accusatory PM to Loulou. Can’t we go back to reviewing readers and stop the witch hunt? And no, I’m not going to read the entire thread because it’s the same old shit that was on the Matilda thread a month or so back.
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That one post triggered all this. Omg wtf I’m really baffled and disturbed by your behaviour Star
Hey Loulou, was your post that caused all of this in response to my post? If so Star can PM me and leave you alone.
No, it wasn't. I came on to defend myself against LouLou and others, and said exactly what you said in one of your last postings about readers not being our friends. So please, leave me alone. Perhaps actually read the thread yourself before jumping on.
It’s just seriously annoying that new members are constantly targeted on this forum. Star, I really don’t know what you hoped to gain by sending an accusatory PM to Loulou. Can’t we go back to reviewing readers and stop the witch hunt? And no, I’m not going to read the entire thread because it’s the same old shit that was on the Matilda thread a month or so back.
Yazz88:
"I think it’s really important to remember that a reader isn’t your friend. Folks, this is a business relationship. You are paying for a service that they are rendering. This doesn’t give you an excuse to be rude to them or demanding, but to treat them with the respect you’d give anyone else providing a service you paid for. I really hated my reading with Karenjo. But to say she’s wrong wouldn’t be truthful. She may very well be correct. Yes, one of the readers I like was the topic of sketchy behavior. Do I know for sure that the allegations are false? No, I don’t know. The thing is that I don’t care. For me, she provides a valuable service. The minute her service stops being valuable to me, based on my definition of what valuable means, is when I’ll stop reading with her. It’s important to try and provide reviews in an objective manner, which I know is hard considering that the subject matter is emotionally charged. Just remember, the relationship each of us"
I literally said the same as you and people came on and attacked that. This is none of your business and was cleared up, then you came on -so don't come on have a go at me then preach the "let's stop this" shit. It was nothing to do with you. It has been discussed and me and the person were leaving it be. You are okay to have your say and I can have mine and others theirs.
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Good God almighty - Loulou made a very general statement about "people" (no one in particular) being dodgy and Star you became personally offended by that? You did the same to me one time. I made a general statement and you pm'd me thinking I meant you, which I did not. You seem to take all of this far, far too personal. You and Tired seem to have a lot of conspiracy theories. LIghten up.
And.....would someone please tell me what Australia or having an Australian IP address has to do with anything??????
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Good God almighty - Loulou made a very general statement about "people" (no one in particular) being dodgy and Star you became personally offended by that? You did the same to me one time. I made a general statement and you pm'd me thinking I meant you, which I did not. You seem to take all of this far, far too personal. You and Tired seem to have a lot of conspiracy theories. LIghten up.
And.....would someone please tell me what Australia or having an Australian IP address has to do with anything??????
Good for you if you want to have rose tinted glasses believing these shills, but leave me to post what I wish please. You also told me yourself this-
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« Sent to: Star_01 on: August 13, 2019, 10:31:19 PM »
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Hi Star,
I can't believe someone accused you of getting paid to be on here. I think you have a lot to say so perhaps people mistake that as someone who is being paid to be on a site. You convey your thoughts and feelings well, perhaps better than most, therefore it can put some people off a bit. Don't change who you are, and please continue to add your thought and feelings here on this site and in your private life. You are not someone who should ever "bottle it up".
I apologize if I missed you last year. I had a few people who wanted a tarot reading and I thought I got back with everyone.
Thank you for filling me in on what is happening. I am trying to catch up on the Matilda thread right now so I can figure it out.
So as you said - i should be allowed to post freely on here.
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That one post triggered all this. Omg wtf I’m really baffled and disturbed by your behaviour Star
Hey Loulou, was your post that caused all of this in response to my post? If so Star can PM me and leave you alone.
No, it wasn't. I came on to defend myself against LouLou and others, and said exactly what you said in one of your last postings about readers not being our friends. So please, leave me alone. Perhaps actually read the thread yourself before jumping on.
It’s just seriously annoying that new members are constantly targeted on this forum. Star, I really don’t know what you hoped to gain by sending an accusatory PM to Loulou. Can’t we go back to reviewing readers and stop the witch hunt? And no, I’m not going to read the entire thread because it’s the same old shit that was on the Matilda thread a month or so back.
Yazz88:
"I think it’s really important to remember that a reader isn’t your friend. Folks, this is a business relationship. You are paying for a service that they are rendering. This doesn’t give you an excuse to be rude to them or demanding, but to treat them with the respect you’d give anyone else providing a service you paid for. I really hated my reading with Karenjo. But to say she’s wrong wouldn’t be truthful. She may very well be correct. Yes, one of the readers I like was the topic of sketchy behavior. Do I know for sure that the allegations are false? No, I don’t know. The thing is that I don’t care. For me, she provides a valuable service. The minute her service stops being valuable to me, based on my definition of what valuable means, is when I’ll stop reading with her. It’s important to try and provide reviews in an objective manner, which I know is hard considering that the subject matter is emotionally charged. Just remember, the relationship each of us"
I literally said the same as you and people came on and attacked that. This is none of your business and was cleared up, then you came on -so don't come on have a go at me then preach the "let's stop this" shit. It was nothing to do with you. It has been discussed and me and the person were leaving it be. You are okay to have your say and I can have mine and others theirs.
I guess I’m slightly overprotective of new new members because I know how it feels to not be able to talk about this stuff with friends and family and this forum can provide much needed support to those who are struggling. I’m sure you can understand this perspective, Star.
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That one post triggered all this. Omg wtf I’m really baffled and disturbed by your behaviour Star
Hey Loulou, was your post that caused all of this in response to my post? If so Star can PM me and leave you alone.
No, it wasn't. I came on to defend myself against LouLou and others, and said exactly what you said in one of your last postings about readers not being our friends. So please, leave me alone. Perhaps actually read the thread yourself before jumping on.
It’s just seriously annoying that new members are constantly targeted on this forum. Star, I really don’t know what you hoped to gain by sending an accusatory PM to Loulou. Can’t we go back to reviewing readers and stop the witch hunt? And no, I’m not going to read the entire thread because it’s the same old shit that was on the Matilda thread a month or so back.
Yazz88:
"I think it’s really important to remember that a reader isn’t your friend. Folks, this is a business relationship. You are paying for a service that they are rendering. This doesn’t give you an excuse to be rude to them or demanding, but to treat them with the respect you’d give anyone else providing a service you paid for. I really hated my reading with Karenjo. But to say she’s wrong wouldn’t be truthful. She may very well be correct. Yes, one of the readers I like was the topic of sketchy behavior. Do I know for sure that the allegations are false? No, I don’t know. The thing is that I don’t care. For me, she provides a valuable service. The minute her service stops being valuable to me, based on my definition of what valuable means, is when I’ll stop reading with her. It’s important to try and provide reviews in an objective manner, which I know is hard considering that the subject matter is emotionally charged. Just remember, the relationship each of us"
I literally said the same as you and people came on and attacked that. This is none of your business and was cleared up, then you came on -so don't come on have a go at me then preach the "let's stop this" shit. It was nothing to do with you. It has been discussed and me and the person were leaving it be. You are okay to have your say and I can have mine and others theirs.
I guess I’m slightly overprotective of new new members because I know how it feels to not be able to talk about this stuff with friends and family and this forum can provide much needed support to those who are struggling. I’m sure you can understand this perspective, Star.
Yeah, I too once was supposed to be Matilda. And all I said, Yazz88 is that people should be allowed to post good and not so good things on any readers.
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I am sorry but Star you still haven't explained this. What in the world did she say other than "dodgy". She wasn't attaching you AND you still haven't explained what Ausriala has to do with this. You are reading to much into it. And just like the private mail I sent to YOU, stating that it is a shame they accused you wrongly. I am saying you are accusing Loulou wrongly.
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I am sorry but Star you still haven't explained this. What in the world did she say other than "dodgy". She wasn't attaching you AND you still haven't explained what Ausriala has to do with this. You are reading to much into it. And just like the private mail I sent to YOU, stating that it is a shame they accused you wrongly. I am saying you are accusing Loulou wrongly.
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The Vent / Re: Be cautious
« on: August 13, 2019, 10:45:42 PM »
So is is mostly the newbies to look out for, or are their any senior/hero members to be careful of - Not asking for names just curious if this is a problem with older members on here being fakes.
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« on: August 13, 2019, 09:51:16 PM »
Well, I am lost in the weeds. What I take away from this thread is that if you don't know who the players are on here then this board is useless. When I want to read with someone new, I usually jump in here and try to read some of the reviews, but now it seems that there are a lot of fakes in here and I need to know who they are or the information may not be good info.
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The Vent / Re: Be cautious
« on: August 13, 2019, 06:48:00 PM »
The psychics on Keen might be lurking around in here but this place is deceptive all on it's own. The minute something is said that the current "hero members" don't agree with, they are all over the person and, as has happened many times now, the person that made the controversial statement usually ends up getting kicked out. I would love to see it play out sometime. I can't even keep up with who is who in here. Apparently, if you aren't in here every day you miss out. Seems like a lot of people are accused of being psychics in here lurking around and all of the regulars know who they are.....I am just sitting her clueless trying to figure it out.
Another thing - it seems there are an awful lot of comments made toward "lurkers" and it is not appreciated if you don't participate. I have greatly minimized my calling, therefore, don't have a lot to add at the moment, so now i worry that I will be accused of lurking.
just my opinion.....don't jump on me."
So you are okay to make comments like these, but it's another rule for me? Please don't police my comments after telling me to keep posting what I post privately. It was between LouLou and I, it has been discussed so move on please. Admin already told me and others that those users were the same person and area. I have the inbox from him too if you truly wish?
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Star, Star, Star......you are entirely too much. I have neither the energy nor the time for this. I am out. Stomp your foot and have your way. I leave it to you my dear lady. I as usual, you will write four fucking paragraphs to prove your point. I will continue on the board but I mostly to read the reviews. I have nothing further to say to you or much of anyone else. You are so deeply invested in this place....
I feel sorry for you.
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Star, Star, Star......you are entirely too much. I have neither the energy nor the time for this. I am out. Stomp your foot and have your way. I leave it to you my dear lady. I as usual, you will write four fucking paragraphs to prove your point. I will continue on the board but I mostly to read the reviews. I have nothing further to say to you or much of anyone else. You are so deeply invested in this place....
I feel sorry for you.
If you don't have the time or energy, keep your nose out of something that isn't your business in the first place and stop being a hypocrite. Thanks!
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I wrote you those messages because I felt sorry for you. I just don't have the energy for your DRAMA and I mean DRAMA, girl you bring the DRAMA to this place like no other and Honestly from the PM's I am getting, others seem to agree.
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I wrote you those messages because I felt sorry for you. I just don't have the energy for your DRAMA and I mean DRAMA, girl you bring the DRAMA to this place like no other and Honestly from the PM's I am getting, others seem to agree.
I thought you were done, my dear lady?
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NOPE.....
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Let me give you a quick stats. I have been registered and active on this board for two years. You just joined in June of this year and yet your post are 450......Lordy girl.....this place is your life.....get over it....let it go....go out and live a little.
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Let me give you a quick stats. I have been registered and active on this board for two years. You just joined in June of this year and yet your post are 450......Lordy girl.....this place is your life.....get over it....let it go....go out and live a little.
You have literally just said you were done and you're already back on continuing in the "DRAMA DRAMA DRAMA". Nobody forced you to come on in the first place, in your own "free will", you came on and got involved in this drama which had nothing to do with you. Please carry on with your reviewing and I'll carry on with mine if I'm such "DRAMA". P.s. It does not matter how long someone has been a user and how many years, the forum doesn't revolve around you either, hypocrite.
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Hum....I could go searching for your post and prove your hypocrisy as well. Goodnight and sweet dreams.
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Hum....I could go searching for your post and prove your hypocrisy as well. Goodnight and sweet dreams.
Can't you leave this be and stop the "drama". And agree to disagree with me instead of constant back and forths?