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Title: Think I should just move on
Post by: Cteebaby1 on August 11, 2019, 11:55:56 PM
Despite what these readers say it’s best to just move on. This is the first time I ever had to just force myself to move on. Just tired of holding on to hope and waiting :( keep me in your prayers that I won’t spend too much time sad
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: kdspirited on August 13, 2019, 03:44:01 AM
Despite what these readers say it’s best to just move on. This is the first time I ever had to just force myself to move on. Just tired of holding on to hope and waiting :( keep me in your prayers that I won’t spend too much time sad

I agree with you Ceetababy I am in the same boat no more reading for me from anyone. Just focusing on self love and moving on
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Cteebaby1 on August 13, 2019, 03:45:58 AM
Who are th readers that have said it would work out for you?  Has anyone said no it won't?

I’m not going to even lie sincerity was the MOST CORRECT WITH EVERYTHING as well as another reader that’s not on keen . Sincerity even picked up the situation before it happened. Now that I actually have confirmation on the whole ordeal I jus want to run away! It sucks. However sincerity said it’ll be over (3rd party) by September and my other favorite reader said a couple weeks. I’m just shocked on how sincerity picked all this us up back in early July before the situation even got like this. I’m kind of trusting the rest of her prediction now as well so we’ll see
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Cteebaby1 on August 13, 2019, 03:47:10 AM
Despite what these readers say it’s best to just move on. This is the first time I ever had to just force myself to move on. Just tired of holding on to hope and waiting :( keep me in your prayers that I won’t spend too much time sad

I agree with you Ceetababy I am in the same boat no more reading for me from anyone. Just focusing on self love and moving on

I said the same and ended up getting two more readings 😩 this lady which I do enjoy reading with gave me predictions all the way up until 2020 🙄 and it’s not pretty lol. I hate when they do that
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Caroline10 on August 13, 2019, 03:52:13 AM
Take good care of yourself and try to enjoy your life...if you want him and he comes back,  great! If not, you're healing and finding your own happiness again!
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Cteebaby1 on August 13, 2019, 03:56:48 AM
Thanks hunny!  I will defintely keep my thread updated as well
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Girly1998 on August 13, 2019, 04:41:06 AM
Ugh I feel this. I don’t know if it’s readers or just maybe my own intuition that has me convinced it’s not over, but with every other ‘ending’ I allowed it to happen and kept going. With this guy, I can’t even go on a date without feeling like I’m cheating. I obviously know I’m not but it’s just a strange feeling.

Part of me thinks these feelings are for a reason and another part of me thinks maybe I’m just holding onto a hope that may not be there. But when you invest all this energy into someone, where does it go?

Regardless, I think subconsciously we get these readings as a way to still be connected to them. When you’re out of contact with someone that you so desperately want, a reader being able to give you insight and let you know what’s going on in their life (whether it be true or not) still makes you feel like you’re a part of it?
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Star_01 on August 13, 2019, 05:42:46 AM
Ugh I feel this. I don’t know if it’s readers or just maybe my own intuition that has me convinced it’s not over, but with every other ‘ending’ I allowed it to happen and kept going. With this guy, I can’t even go on a date without feeling like I’m cheating. I obviously know I’m not but it’s just a strange feeling.

Part of me thinks these feelings are for a reason and another part of me thinks maybe I’m just holding onto a hope that may not be there. But when you invest all this energy into someone, where does it go?

Regardless, I think subconsciously we get these readings as a way to still be connected to them. When you’re out of contact with someone that you so desperately want, a reader being able to give you insight and let you know what’s going on in their life (whether it be true or not) still makes you feel like you’re a part of it?

I think that that's generally quite a normal feeling. When your heart is still with the ex and you're going on a date with someone else, it just doesn't feel "right". It probably is still fresh to you and there are aspects you haven't gotten over or miss, parts you haven't got closure over the list could go on. I remember feeling the same in the beginning until months passed and I pushed myself to date and felt open to it because I had enough of the pain and waiting around and I knew my chapter with the POI had unfortunately closed.

Whilst your situation is a dead end. You're unsure of what's going on and if there's any real hope, what's going on right now as it's stalemate. If you could get the closure that your ex wants to reconnect or no then life would be easier. But of course it doesn't work out that way and you still have that bond to him and in your right time is when you'll decide to move on.

And the problem is, these readers are very good at making it seem like all the guy ever thinks about is you and how they're sad and moping and scared to get in touch, how they wonder what you're upto yadda yadda and it doesn't help with the closure in the long run (if there is no possibility of a reconciling).

I think naturally people put their foot down and decide enough is enough and they're fed up in their own time. I've come back on here to see one or two common users got fed up in the end and moved or are open to moving on.
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Cteebaby1 on August 13, 2019, 01:45:17 PM
I know I should move on now because it’s the smartest choice. However, my heart still there & I know I shouldn’t go by what a reader tells me but just go with what reality tells me. Two readers told me I won’t move on until 2020 🙄. That’s just around the corner so why not just move on now to avoid that drastic situation. The good news is supposedly I’m the one who leaves him. My POI and I go back n forth . One minute he’s here then he’s not. It’s been that way for awhile so I just need to be a bit stronger and say no this time.
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: dascallie on August 13, 2019, 02:17:30 PM
Ugh I feel this. I don’t know if it’s readers or just maybe my own intuition that has me convinced it’s not over, but with every other ‘ending’ I allowed it to happen and kept going. With this guy, I can’t even go on a date without feeling like I’m cheating. I obviously know I’m not but it’s just a strange feeling.

Part of me thinks these feelings are for a reason and another part of me thinks maybe I’m just holding onto a hope that may not be there. But when you invest all this energy into someone, where does it go?

Regardless, I think subconsciously we get these readings as a way to still be connected to them. When you’re out of contact with someone that you so desperately want, a reader being able to give you insight and let you know what’s going on in their life (whether it be true or not) still makes you feel like you’re a part of it?
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"I think subconsciously we get these readings as a way to still be connected to them." I think you are are so RIGHT.

I think I also am having a really hard time BELIEVING he just flipped a switch and does not love or want me anymore (after all the "Ive never felt this, I want to get you a ring, I DO, I will love you always and forever, I will never let you go") but his complete avoidance says he doesn't. I do think the readings string us along.

I'm getting ready to electronically delete and destroy any hard copies of the archive of readings I've done. That means no more re-readings, no more mad pondering, poof it will be all gone.

Quite an investment burn-down but I think it's the monkey I need to get off my back so I don't waste any more of my life in a futile quest.


Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Jellybean123 on August 13, 2019, 02:25:21 PM
@cteebaby, did any of them say he was long term for you? If they don't see it and you are ready to move on YOU GOT THIS GIRL!!!!! YOU DESERVE the best
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Cteebaby1 on August 13, 2019, 02:48:22 PM
No they said in 2020 is when I move on. As of this year they just said he’ll be back in September 🙄
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Jellybean123 on August 13, 2019, 02:57:32 PM
Oh Girl save yourself the heartbreak! Find the right person and love yourself sooner than later, time is precious
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Girly1998 on August 13, 2019, 03:12:41 PM
No they said in 2020 is when I move on. As of this year they just said he’ll be back in September 🙄

How long have you been out of contact?
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Cteebaby1 on August 13, 2019, 03:19:23 PM
IKR and like 2 days now lol. My situation is a bit complicated because we have to be in contact
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Star_01 on August 13, 2019, 03:31:29 PM
Ugh I feel this. I don’t know if it’s readers or just maybe my own intuition that has me convinced it’s not over, but with every other ‘ending’ I allowed it to happen and kept going. With this guy, I can’t even go on a date without feeling like I’m cheating. I obviously know I’m not but it’s just a strange feeling.

Part of me thinks these feelings are for a reason and another part of me thinks maybe I’m just holding onto a hope that may not be there. But when you invest all this energy into someone, where does it go?

Regardless, I think subconsciously we get these readings as a way to still be connected to them. When you’re out of contact with someone that you so desperately want, a reader being able to give you insight and let you know what’s going on in their life (whether it be true or not) still makes you feel like you’re a part of it?
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"I think subconsciously we get these readings as a way to still be connected to them." I think you are are so RIGHT.

I think I also am having a really hard time BELIEVING he just flipped a switch and does not love or want me anymore (after all the "Ive never felt this, I want to get you a ring, I DO, I will love you always and forever, I will never let you go") but his complete avoidance says he doesn't. I do think the readings string us along.

I'm getting ready to electronically delete and destroy any hard copies of the archive of readings I've done. That means no more re-readings, no more mad pondering, poof it will be all gone.

Quite an investment burn-down but I think it's the monkey I need to get off my back so I don't waste any more of my life in a futile quest.



Yeah it's a nightmare lol.
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Lovefash67 on August 13, 2019, 04:06:06 PM
I honestly believe that it is best if we all just move on if it be our ex, love, job,money. We tend to read with psychics because we are anxious/fearful and we just want relief and to be reassured that everything is okay. But in the end we just end up even mire hurt. We end up sepnding lots of money when we can be using it for something else, we end up fighting with stangers over what psychic is right when none of these psychics are loved ones, know us or are even famlt members, and then we sometimes even block blessings because we are so stuck on predictions that we try to avoid certain things from happening because it doesnt match up with what a psychic predicted. All of this is juts way too much
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Cteebaby1 on August 13, 2019, 04:34:35 PM
I understand exactly how you feel. I’ve been in this situation with someone else and felt the same exact way. Yes sometimes things do have to play out and other times you really do have to let go. My situation is so much more complicated due to the fact we do have a child. Not saying that’s the reason I’m still “holding on” but there’s other ties as well. As for dating I still date around and see other men but when I get back home I still wonder about him. You’ll have to message me for the full scoop because I don’t want too much of my business on a public forum. The only reason I guess I have held on to hope is because like I said before sincerity and another reader mentioned things would happen like this before it even got this bad. So now ofcourse I’m hoping for the rest of the prediction to play out. I wouldn’t say I’m obsessed with my situation just worried and would love to move on from it but things take time.
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: kdspirited on August 13, 2019, 07:39:26 PM
I would have moved on a long time ago had we not worked together and I had to see him everyday. I love this job and dont want to leave but I know I need to find the strength to move on while I still work with him. That is the true test. And I know I am getting there. My heart still skips a beat when I see him. But I tell myself what good is that if he doesnt know that my heart does that. And he is doing nothing to change things on his side. I deserve so much more and better. cos I am good enough I am smart enough and gosh darnit :-)

Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Cteebaby1 on August 13, 2019, 07:43:39 PM
See that’s the spirit 😊and kind of the same with my situation. I would have moved on a long time ago if it weren’t for having a child together 🙄 now I have to keep contact . If there were no ties it’ll be so much easier for me
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Caroline10 on August 13, 2019, 10:32:32 PM
@girl1998
I agree with you that we stay connected through readings! He told me he wants space for 3 months-no contact at all.
It's strange not to know what's going on at all...
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Girly1998 on August 13, 2019, 10:41:24 PM
@girl1998
I agree with you that we stay connected through readings! He told me he wants space for 3 months-no contact at all.
It's strange not to know what's going on at all...

My guy said space too but I messed that one up 😂

Is the 3 months up?
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Cteebaby1 on August 17, 2019, 01:59:10 AM
Just want to update this thread to say today was a good day! I prayed and asked God to heal me and take away all my negative feelings & today I geeked like a new woman . I feel so different about my situation. I did want to add that I sat my crystals out under the full moon to “charge them” and I did pray with them. Overall I do feel better after talking to God. I haven’t had the urge to read in two days as well
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Caroline10 on January 17, 2020, 12:49:35 AM
@girly1998
Sorry it's been so long! I had blocked him but reached out in early December. He was friendly but I'm still not ready to be friends
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Cteebaby1 on January 29, 2020, 04:44:35 PM
Update my poi and I hung out and he spent the day and night over. I’m so shocked
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Love2lovenj on January 29, 2020, 05:05:31 PM
Wow that is amazing! So how are things now?
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Cteebaby1 on January 29, 2020, 06:25:40 PM
Wow that is amazing! So how are things now?
Too early to tell but I’m just keeping things light for now
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Love2lovenj on January 29, 2020, 07:02:42 PM
Sending you some positive vibes. 🙏🙏🙏
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: kdspirited on January 29, 2020, 10:44:45 PM
Amazing! Ceetababy good luck on this journey
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Cteebaby1 on January 30, 2020, 04:51:59 AM
Amazing! Ceetababy good luck on this journey
Thanks for the luck as I’m tired of this journey now 😩
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Cteebaby1 on February 03, 2020, 03:52:50 PM
Another update poi Is definitely trying to come back. Calls every day ... BUT I can’t get over how he treated me and the fact he’s only back bc so&so must’ve left him . I can’t bring myself to go past friends with him . I called QOC to ask her about the situation and she said the third party is gone and she sees other people around the person and my poi really likes me. However, I personally can not get over what he put me through these past 6 months !!! I was so depressed . I just feel like I’m over that
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Dxbguppy1 on February 03, 2020, 05:28:04 PM
Completely feel you here.

I'm in the same position all of a sudden. Spend thousands on readings and now he's back I'm just like ummm I dont know if i want you back anymore. Its because we get so focused on getting them back and the rejection hurts that we put all the energy into answers and having them back and then when they do were stuck in this situation of do i even want you now?

I would say hold your ground in terms of the things he didnt do right by you so he knows this isnt something he can do to you again and just take it each day at a time. You'll know in time if you can move past it or not and if he cant wait that out then he isnt worth it anyways.

Good luck.
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Cteebaby1 on February 03, 2020, 06:09:27 PM
Exactly ! He can put a title on a relationship with other people but want to keep me on a leash and n his life by doing the bare minimum because he knows how much I care . He really embarrassed me though and I’ll be the dumbest girl in the world if I go back. Smh I just can’t bring myself to do it this time . Other times he never got into a relationship wen we broke up but this time he did and gave her everything I asked for 😥😥.
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Arigirl on February 03, 2020, 06:24:58 PM
I've been thinking somenting similar, if my POI comes back will I even want him? I feel that we could never attain the level of trust that we had. I feel I am able to continue to move on and build a life without him with each day that passses. It helps that I met someone else who is incredibly amazing, sweet, kind and literally eveything my poi was not--yet, POI still holds a big chunk of my heart, which sucks. It's getting better though, luckily I never reached the stage of binging, but I did get readings excssively. It's been almost a month since my last reading
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Dxbguppy1 on February 03, 2020, 06:35:24 PM
Let me understand, he's your husband or your partner? He broke up with you and got with someone else and now hes left her and wants to come back right?

Its going to take alot of time babe and you need to give yourself that time to decide.I dont think you can fake it (and you shouldnt even have to for his benefit he can sit and wait(. it will come naturally or it wont.

I'm feeling heartbroken tonight because now that hes back I dont think I can ever love him the same way again and thats a whole other thing accepting you might not even love the person you once loved so damn hard.

I think as women we try to rush through our feelings though as well. He left for a long time. He got on with life with someone else. Take your damn time too. You dont need to decide anything now. Let him earn his way back in
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: Cteebaby1 on March 15, 2020, 05:19:02 PM
I’m here to update! I haven’t had a reading since February 2,2020 due to caring less. The last person I’ve talked to was QOC and Mandy. They’re both empaths. Both told me the attraction was still there and he likes me. Both said that the 3rd party wasn’t around because she’s been with others.

 Fast forward to end of February and now, my POI and I are back talking as friends! We talk otp a lot and text again but nothing serious. I feel as though he still have residual feelings for his ex. It still hurts my feelings how that situation came about. However, I’ve come to realize he just isn’t 💩. She caught him at a great time to even have a relationship. He’s been honest with me ever since about February. He told me they were not seeing eachother in that way anymore. They’re no longer together but they still communicate. I don’t know on what level because he won’t go any further with details. He spent the night last night and things escalated to that level but now I’m scared because I feel as though my old feelings will come back. I had just about moved on but I’ll always love him just not as deeply anymore. This morning he showed me all of “his women” which I didn’t care because they were really a non factor. Plus he basically told them about me at the same time . But then he brought up his ex again and I started feeling some type of way. He said if they hadn’t broken up he wouldn’t be here 🙄. He told me he’s not in love with her though. Before he left he kissed me and the baby and said he loves us. This just really shows me that he’s just not ready to settle down! I stopped getting readings 1 month and 2 weeks ago so I never saw this coming . It was completely random. And to be honest I’m not even mad, hurt, or angry! I feel satisfied because All i ever wanted was the truth ! That was just my little update with my situation !

 
Title: Re: Think I should just move on
Post by: HornetKick on March 15, 2020, 05:44:56 PM
I’m here to update! I haven’t had a reading since February 2,2020 due to caring less. The last person I’ve talked to was QOC and Mandy. They’re both empaths. Both told me the attraction was still there and he likes me. Both said that the 3rd party wasn’t around because she’s been with others.

 Fast forward to end of February and now, my POI and I are back talking as friends! We talk otp a lot and text again but nothing serious. I feel as though he still have residual feelings for his ex. It still hurts my feelings how that situation came about. However, I’ve come to realize he just isn’t 💩. She caught him at a great time to even have a relationship. He’s been honest with me ever since about February. He told me they were not seeing eachother in that way anymore. They’re no longer together but they still communicate. I don’t know on what level because he won’t go any further with details. He spent the night last night and things escalated to that level but now I’m scared because I feel as though my old feelings will come back. I had just about moved on but I’ll always love him just not as deeply anymore. This morning he showed me all of “his women” which I didn’t care because they were really a non factor. Plus he basically told them about me at the same time . But then he brought up his ex again and I started feeling some type of way. He said if they hadn’t broken up he wouldn’t be here 🙄. He told me he’s not in love with her though. Before he left he kissed me and the baby and said he loves us. This just really shows me that he’s just not ready to settle down! I stopped getting readings 1 month and 2 weeks ago so I never saw this coming . It was completely random. And to be honest I’m not even mad, hurt, or angry! I feel satisfied because All i ever wanted was the truth ! That was just my little update with my situation !

How did this show you he was not ready to settle down? I missed something I think, because wouldn't this show he was?