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Relationship Psychology Discussions => The Vent => Topic started by: Love2lovenj on May 03, 2019, 02:11:37 PM
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I've read a few post and have been to a reader who was judgemental. Why can't they just answer the questions without letting their personal views come into play. The last thing you want in a reading is to feel judged.
Has anyone come across someone like that but still went back to them when in need?
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I went back to CindyS. She tore me apart honestly but I did go back to her because she had been correct in the past. She's extremely judgemental and won't take any criticism. But she's a great empath. 🤦🏻♀️
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Why oh why can't they just keep their own opinions to themselves. 😔
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CindyS saw me ending up with my first POI..and it didn't happen. But she is good at the "now" stuff..but she has a very standoffish attitude. I agree...
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See that's what gets me. How can they be so accurate about past and present but so wrong with future predictions? I mean even if you were to say what will happen within 2 weeks. Of course not doing anything to change the current path. So they can't point the finger at you.
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Cindy S is free right now, but reading your guys' posts idkkk, is it that she's brutally honest or just downright mean? Never read with her, but i def can't deal with a cruel reader to trigger my anxiety either😕
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Cindy S is free right now, but reading your guys' posts idkkk, is it that she's brutally honest or just downright mean? Never read with her, but i def can't deal with a cruel reader to trigger my anxiety either😕
Downright mean and judgmental.
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Cindy S is free right now, but reading your guys' posts idkkk, is it that she's brutally honest or just downright mean? Never read with her, but i def can't deal with a cruel reader to trigger my anxiety either😕
Downright mean and judgmental.
Thanks happy I didn't bother with her
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Cindy S is free right now, but reading your guys' posts idkkk, is it that she's brutally honest or just downright mean? Never read with her, but i def can't deal with a cruel reader to trigger my anxiety either😕
Downright mean and judgmental.
Thanks happy I didn't bother with her
Diana and Cindy have always given me very similar readings. I would talk to Diana, she's at the least very sweet. Few times she didn't even charge me.
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Cindy S is free right now, but reading your guys' posts idkkk, is it that she's brutally honest or just downright mean? Never read with her, but i def can't deal with a cruel reader to trigger my anxiety either😕
Downright mean and judgmental.
Thanks happy I didn't bother with her
Diana and Cindy have always given me very similar readings. I would talk to Diana, she's at the least very sweet. Few times she didn't even charge me.
Which Diana.... Hart??? I think i read with her back in January but I can't remember the reading..... 🤔
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Cindy S is free right now, but reading your guys' posts idkkk, is it that she's brutally honest or just downright mean? Never read with her, but i def can't deal with a cruel reader to trigger my anxiety either😕
Downright mean and judgmental.
Thanks happy I didn't bother with her
Diana and Cindy have always given me very similar readings. I would talk to Diana, she's at the least very sweet. Few times she didn't even charge me.
Which Diana.... Hart??? I think i read with her back in January but I can't remember the reading..... 🤔
My bad!! Diana Shoshone. She is on bitwine, may be kasamba too.
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Cindy S is free right now, but reading your guys' posts idkkk, is it that she's brutally honest or just downright mean? Never read with her, but i def can't deal with a cruel reader to trigger my anxiety either😕
Downright mean and judgmental.
Thanks happy I didn't bother with her
Diana and Cindy have always given me very similar readings. I would talk to Diana, she's at the least very sweet. Few times she didn't even charge me.
Which Diana.... Hart??? I think i read with her back in January but I can't remember the reading..... 🤔
My bad!! Diana Shoshone. She is on bitwine, may be kasamba too.
Ooooo yeah I've seen her but never tried her...wonder if she has a thread on here? 🤔 I'll keep an eye out for her
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Cindy S is free right now, but reading your guys' posts idkkk, is it that she's brutally honest or just downright mean? Never read with her, but i def can't deal with a cruel reader to trigger my anxiety either😕
Downright mean and judgmental.
Thanks happy I didn't bother with her
Diana and Cindy have always given me very similar readings. I would talk to Diana, she's at the least very sweet. Few times she didn't even charge me.
Which Diana.... Hart??? I think i read with her back in January but I can't remember the reading..... 🤔
My bad!! Diana Shoshone. She is on bitwine, may be kasamba too.
Ooooo yeah I've seen her but never tried her...wonder if she has a thread on here? 🤔 I'll keep an eye out for her
I've spoken to her a few times. Not money minded at all. The first time we talked, she knew she had to give me a bad news so she gave me the bad news, apologized and disconnected, no charge. She's wonderful.
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Cindy S is free right now, but reading your guys' posts idkkk, is it that she's brutally honest or just downright mean? Never read with her, but i def can't deal with a cruel reader to trigger my anxiety either😕
Downright mean and judgmental.
Thanks happy I didn't bother with her
Diana and Cindy have always given me very similar readings. I would talk to Diana, she's at the least very sweet. Few times she didn't even charge me.
Which Diana.... Hart??? I think i read with her back in January but I can't remember the reading..... 🤔
My bad!! Diana Shoshone. She is on bitwine, may be kasamba too.
Ooooo yeah I've seen her but never tried her...wonder if she has a thread on here? 🤔 I'll keep an eye out for her
I've spoken to her a few times. Not money minded at all. The first time we talked, she knew she had to give me a bad news so she gave me the bad news, apologized and disconnected, no charge. She's wonderful.
Wow that's really ethical of her.... I really never paid attention to her profile and probably never would have until you mentioned her, thanks happy. And really sorry about the bad news bit btw 😔🙏
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To an extent, every reading obtained involves an element of judgement because the reader has to receive a message and make it make sense before relaying it to you. I think readings always carry that risk - we are human after all and we come to the table with our experiences and views. I think that's why developing your own intuition is key and a lesson that we're all supposed to learn - not all readers can be trusted or should be trusted, no one is 100% accurate, people connect with different readers and therefore, you need to find someone who works for you and reasonates with your spirit. That's not the same as going to readers who just give you positive news. It's just about exercising/improving discernment.
I've experienced a few readers who made me feel silly for being caught up on particular situations and whilst their message may have been right (not sure yet), they served a different purpose - to show me that 1. Excessive readings weren't helping me, 2. The journey had something to teach ME and no one other than me would ever really understand that and 3. To get clear about what I wanted from others and life. Had I listened to some readers, I definitely would have missed those lessons - but they came to me after some time.
In essence, what I'm trying to say is take some readers and their views with a pinch of salt - especially when they seem very judgemental.
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Cindy S is free right now, but reading your guys' posts idkkk, is it that she's brutally honest or just downright mean? Never read with her, but i def can't deal with a cruel reader to trigger my anxiety either😕
Downright mean and judgmental.
Thanks happy I didn't bother with her
Diana and Cindy have always given me very similar readings. I would talk to Diana, she's at the least very sweet. Few times she didn't even charge me.
Which Diana.... Hart??? I think i read with her back in January but I can't remember the reading..... 🤔
My bad!! Diana Shoshone. She is on bitwine, may be kasamba too.
Ooooo yeah I've seen her but never tried her...wonder if she has a thread on here? 🤔 I'll keep an eye out for her
I've spoken to her a few times. Not money minded at all. The first time we talked, she knew she had to give me a bad news so she gave me the bad news, apologized and disconnected, no charge. She's wonderful.
Wow that's really ethical of her.... I really never paid attention to her profile and probably never would have until you mentioned her, thanks happy. And really sorry about the bad news bit btw 😔🙏
It's ok, Pinky 🤗. Yea, she's pretty nice and now I think her queue is gonna blow up! What did i do lol.
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Cindy S is free right now, but reading your guys' posts idkkk, is it that she's brutally honest or just downright mean? Never read with her, but i def can't deal with a cruel reader to trigger my anxiety either😕
Downright mean and judgmental.
Thanks happy I didn't bother with her
Diana and Cindy have always given me very similar readings. I would talk to Diana, she's at the least very sweet. Few times she didn't even charge me.
Which Diana.... Hart??? I think i read with her back in January but I can't remember the reading..... 🤔
My bad!! Diana Shoshone. She is on bitwine, may be kasamba too.
Ooooo yeah I've seen her but never tried her...wonder if she has a thread on here? 🤔 I'll keep an eye out for her
I've spoken to her a few times. Not money minded at all. The first time we talked, she knew she had to give me a bad news so she gave me the bad news, apologized and disconnected, no charge. She's wonderful.
Wow that's really ethical of her.... I really never paid attention to her profile and probably never would have until you mentioned her, thanks happy. And really sorry about the bad news bit btw 😔🙏
It's ok, Pinky 🤗. Yea, she's pretty nice and now I think her queue is gonna blow up! What did i do lol.
You paid it forward with free advertising happy 😂😂😂
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Cindy S is free right now, but reading your guys' posts idkkk, is it that she's brutally honest or just downright mean? Never read with her, but i def can't deal with a cruel reader to trigger my anxiety either😕
Downright mean and judgmental.
Thanks happy I didn't bother with her
Diana and Cindy have always given me very similar readings. I would talk to Diana, she's at the least very sweet. Few times she didn't even charge me.
Which Diana.... Hart??? I think i read with her back in January but I can't remember the reading..... 🤔
My bad!! Diana Shoshone. She is on bitwine, may be kasamba too.
Ooooo yeah I've seen her but never tried her...wonder if she has a thread on here? 🤔 I'll keep an eye out for her
I've spoken to her a few times. Not money minded at all. The first time we talked, she knew she had to give me a bad news so she gave me the bad news, apologized and disconnected, no charge. She's wonderful.
Wow that's really ethical of her.... I really never paid attention to her profile and probably never would have until you mentioned her, thanks happy. And really sorry about the bad news bit btw 😔🙏
It's ok, Pinky 🤗. Yea, she's pretty nice and now I think her queue is gonna blow up! What did i do lol.
You paid it forward with free advertising happy 😂😂😂
I think I'm gonna tell her I'm making her rich 😂 and gimme free readings
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Cindy S is free right now, but reading your guys' posts idkkk, is it that she's brutally honest or just downright mean? Never read with her, but i def can't deal with a cruel reader to trigger my anxiety either😕
Downright mean and judgmental.
Thanks happy I didn't bother with her
Diana and Cindy have always given me very similar readings. I would talk to Diana, she's at the least very sweet. Few times she didn't even charge me.
Which Diana.... Hart??? I think i read with her back in January but I can't remember the reading..... 🤔
My bad!! Diana Shoshone. She is on bitwine, may be kasamba too.
Ooooo yeah I've seen her but never tried her...wonder if she has a thread on here? 🤔 I'll keep an eye out for her
I've spoken to her a few times. Not money minded at all. The first time we talked, she knew she had to give me a bad news so she gave me the bad news, apologized and disconnected, no charge. She's wonderful.
Wow that's really ethical of her.... I really never paid attention to her profile and probably never would have until you mentioned her, thanks happy. And really sorry about the bad news bit btw 😔🙏
It's ok, Pinky 🤗. Yea, she's pretty nice and now I think her queue is gonna blow up! What did i do lol.
You paid it forward with free advertising happy 😂😂😂
I think I'm gonna tell her I'm making her rich 😂 and gimme free readings
Haha tell her it's only fair that you work on commission 😉
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Just read with CindyS, she's no fairytale reader!! She didn't give me lot of predictions, but boy oh boy she read poi like she knew him all his life!
And she wasn't a bitch at all, just very straightforward. She's very generous too, with her time, not a clock-watcher!
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Just read with CindyS, she's no fairytale reader!! She didn't give me lot of predictions, but boy oh boy she read poi like she knew him all his life!
And she wasn't a bitch at all, just very straightforward. She's very generous too, with her time, not a clock-watcher!
Hey hope did she lead the reading or did you have to ask what the outcome might be for certain things? Have you ever read with Ari? If you have, how does she stack up in comparison? 🤔
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Just read with CindyS, she's no fairytale reader!! She didn't give me lot of predictions, but boy oh boy she read poi like she knew him all his life!
And she wasn't a bitch at all, just very straightforward. She's very generous too, with her time, not a clock-watcher!
Hey hope did she lead the reading or did you have to ask what the outcome might be for certain things? Have you ever read with Ari? If you have, how does she stack up in comparison? 🤔
@PinkyD, i'll PM you
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Just read with CindyS, she's no fairytale reader!! She didn't give me lot of predictions, but boy oh boy she read poi like she knew him all his life!
And she wasn't a bitch at all, just very straightforward. She's very generous too, with her time, not a clock-watcher!
Hey hope did she lead the reading or did you have to ask what the outcome might be for certain things? Have you ever read with Ari? If you have, how does she stack up in comparison? 🤔
@PinkyD, i'll PM you
Sure! 😁
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Maaaaaaan!! I hate PMs LOL I wanna follow the convo in the shadows hahaha especially because I've read with them both :o :D :D
Yes please share on here. We don't need details to where if a reader is lurking they know all the dirt. 😔
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Well it was more of not wanting to post too many personal details on a public forum. But here's what I sent PinkyD:
I read with Ari 2 days ago, she's straight as well. Ari didn't give me a lot of info about poi's mindset, but CindyS did.
For example,
Ari: I see him in a lot of confusion, he's in his own head, he's shut off emotionally and not thinking about reaching out to you at this point
Ari basically asked me to not waste my time on him., he's going to always be depressed and he's of no value to me.
Cindy: lot of confusion going on in his life and trying to decide what he wants, what he needs to do etc. it's like he goes out and sees something, seeks it out, and still isn't happy. No matter what you do or dont do, its his mindset thats like that, he's just never happy although he wants and seeks happiness. He's passionate about everything he does but he is just never fulfilled. He's had past issues, from his childhood. He loves you, but he doesn't really understand what is real and what isn't cuz he never learned it or experienced it.
Cindy basically said that she sees him trying to come back into my life, but warned me that his mindset is ^^^ like that, and he'll never be truly happy.
(And yes, I know him to be like that, BUT i thought i'll be the exception, and i could give him the fulfilment he always wanted. LAME ME! )
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Also I did not find CindyS to be judgemental/mean!
she was direct, yes, but not mean or anything.. i actually thought she was compassionate and she went overtime with me without charging extra..isn't money minded at all
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Omg, that's so sad to feel like that. 😔 I think in regards to saying Cindys being judgmental was how she was with that particular client. I have had a reader i don't think intentionally but she would include how she would handle things because this isn't the best thing for me. I know she was coming from a good place but i wasn't paying for her to tell me what she would do but to tell me how things are and what may play out.
I am glad you liked her and thank you so much for sharing. Most of all you are not Lame you just have hope that he could see what is right in front of him. ❤
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Also I did not find CindyS to be judgemental/mean!
she was direct, yes, but not mean or anything.. i actually thought she was compassionate and she went overtime with me without charging extra..isn't money minded at all
Glad she was nice to you.
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I learned to stay away from the ones who have religious bible talk in their profiles. I never have once had a good experience with one of those types due to extreme judgement and lectures that had nothing to do with psychic reading. If I wanted to be lectured and bible thumped I would visit my aunt for free.
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Yes good point. I don't need a foot tapping person giving me my reading. If i wanted scolding i would go talk to my mom. 😤
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The ones who call themselves a "life coach" tend to be really judgemental.
I agree. I spent a shit ton on one, not online though. She went on to telling me that I was a failure and her daughter my age was so successful and she had the world's best boyfriend.
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The ones who call themselves a "life coach" tend to be really judgemental.
I agree. I spent a shit ton on one, not online though. She went on to telling me that I was a failure and her daughter my age was so successful and she had the world's best boyfriend.
You needed to punch them right in the throat and then a swift kick in the crotch for thinking she had some balls.😤