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Title: My Update
Post by: optx88 on September 02, 2011, 03:25:23 AM
Hello Everyone!

I had been doing a little bit better this week...found some distractions...started my 1/2 marathon training and trying to stay positive. 

Even though I said I was going to definitely stop reading...I needed to erase that horrible reading that I had with Jean so i called Miriam to ask a few questions.

I just don't know how Nina, Seha, and Miriam can all say the same things...but in their own way...and provide information...details that others never have and I've never said.  I felt better after Miriam's reading and I actually had some hope.

She told me that she sees this over really soon...if not already...she sees words...him saying words to her...etc.  Nina saw him making contact by the end of August...and in September we would be dating...she swore to that...etc.

Every piece of me today made me check her facebook (even though I couldn't see anything and I felt that I was doing pretty ok this week with not really checking) well...she changed her profile picture tonight and its of the 2 of them and he looks really happy and it was taken in his apartment.

THEY WERE ALL WRONG!!!!!

I feel like such a fool.  They really were all wrong and I wish I could have all my money back and my time back.  I don't understand why he ever contacted me in November...what was the point.  I wanted answers...I asked him questions...and he gave me nothing...he hugged me and he wouldn't let me go...WTF!  I was played by him and I allowed these readers to play with me as well.

I really do wish that this is not everyone's story.  I really wish that there will be a happy story for many of you on here.

I've lost all hope tonight...there is nothing left for me.  Several have said that they don't see anyone else for me...just him...and that is just so sad.

I was engaged about 9 years ago.  I just never felt that it was real...it just never felt right...and thankfully it just didn't work out...and the engagement was broken off...Him and his family played me...I was a game....that is what they said to me...that it was all fake...they planned the entire thing all the way up to the wedding day...they planned on only sending invites out to my side of the family and they had no intentions of showing up...they were planning on leaving me at the alter with all my friends and family.  Who does that?  Why would someone do that? 

I'm 39 years old...my entire life I just never saw myself being with someone, even though it was what I wanted.  I just never felt that it was meant for me.  I never could see myself in that beautiful wedding gown and I just could never see myself dancing with someone...I just never could see it.

I'm 39 years old and I have no idea what it feels like to have someone love me.  I have so much love to give and I am such a good person...I really am...I have so much to offer someone...but none of that matters.

I absolutely give up.  I have no trust and I have no hope left.  All is gone.

I wish none of you end up like me.  Please don't wait if you see nothing happen...if he doesn't step up...then keep moving on.  If nothing is happening...maybe its just not meant to happen.  Please save all your money.  This forum is here for a reason...let the subscribers be your guide and psychics.  Someone had written somewhere on here that for now on when they want to get a reading they are just going to take that money and put it away somewhere...and I think that is what you all should do...this way you will be more rich, hopeful, and happy!!!  Please don't be like me. 

Wishing you all the best of happiness and love!

Title: Re: My Update
Post by: lightme on September 02, 2011, 03:38:54 AM
i am sorry this happened to you, and i am horrified to read what you wrote. why would they play you to this extend? why the plot? even his family plotted this? what did they have against you to hurt you like this?
Title: Re: My Update
Post by: Inactive- PHN on September 02, 2011, 03:55:30 AM
You are in my.prayers I know it is hard keep pushing forward
Title: Re: My Update
Post by: lightme on September 02, 2011, 04:48:51 AM
omg this is so drama. so a psychic had already predicted the coming of your ex, but then it didn't happen as predicted recently. i am so sorry to hear this, i can imagine the pain. so you were with him for less than 2 years, did he leave for someone else?
Title: Re: My Update
Post by: vanyct on September 02, 2011, 02:51:52 PM
Greengrlx333: Can I ask what do you feel in your heart?  Do you think your guy is really happy with this girl?  A picture can be deceving. If she was going to post a picture of them together she is not going to post one where he looks miserable. And the picture was taken at his apartment not hers, so it could be interpretted as he does not seek her out, she is the one going over there, making herself available to him even if he does not want her. I don't want to give you false hopes but how can all these psychics who told you the exact same thing be wrong? 
I don't recommend calling any more psychics but maybe you can get some kind of confimation from someone closer to the source. Are you still friends with any of his friends? Do you have any facebook friends in common with her? 
Title: Re: My Update
Post by: Inactive- PHN on September 02, 2011, 04:05:05 PM
I have to agree looks can be deceiving
Title: Re: My Update
Post by: vanyct on September 03, 2011, 08:22:58 PM
greengrlx333: Again I am not encouraging you to call anymore psychics, but I'm just trying to figure out how so many psychics can be telling you the exact thing and it not be true.  I know you've listed the names of CP psychics that you have spoken with, did you ever call any other psychics outside of CP that told you the same thing about your SM and this girl?  I think we've mentioned in the past the possibility that these psychics could be sharing notes about there callers.  If they do not share notes, I'm wondering if its an industry practice to tell callers that their ex is coming back and that the woman they are currently with is not a serious relationship that way there is no big contradiction between psychics. I have never spoken with CP psychics but I have called other psychic networks and they have told me the same thing, my ex is coming back, the woman that I've seen him with is just a friend,she follows him around but he still has strong feelings for me.
Title: Re: My Update
Post by: lightme on September 03, 2011, 10:01:03 PM
seems like this is the trend, at least from the people talking in this forum.

from relationship experts' advice, if an ex doesn't come back within 2-4 months, the chance will just get slimmer and slimmer with time. i think this advice is more accurate than a psychic's fairytale prediction.

if the online psychics are really all so unethical, this forum may serve as a loud voice to disclose this scam. 
Title: Re: My Update
Post by: 4everhopeful on September 04, 2011, 11:55:13 AM
I agree that the psychic lines seem to give the same story of a fairytale ending. Think about this girls, we all have spent a fortune calling the same psychic lines. Some things have happened for people but most havent. I honestly think I am healing and was told this a few months ago, was even told that I didnt know it was happening but the healing had begun. I guess he was right about that. That doesnt mean the love isnt still there. And he (Raziel) still said he saw this man returning at some point. Lets all think about how much we have spent at CP or PS or Keen or any of the other sites. Im done with CP until I see something happen concerning my main prediction. But that doesnt mean the urge to have info isnt there. So I am researching independent psychics. I have been reading about this one woman, she has some great information about herself on her website. I will share her name with you when I get a reading and she what she says. She really seems real and sincere. She works on crime investigations and missing persons cases. I saw her on one of the investigation shows and during her reading with a woman whose daughter was missing, she told this woman that she felt that her daughter was dead because she didnt feel any life impulses. Now if she can tell someone their daughter is dead, she sure as hell can tell someone their ex isnt coming back. And when you think about it she isnt any more expensive than the high paid psychics at CP. She charges 200 dollars for 30 minutes or 300 dollars for an hour. Ive spent that much in a weeks time calling several readers at CP because I always hung up feeling like I needed more info or confirmation. I have vowed to have one more reading and it will be with this woman if I can get an appointment. She also has a psychology degree so at least she can truly help someone move on if that is the case.
Anyway, I guess I just need that one last good reading with someone not affiliated with CP or any hotlines in any shape, fashion, or form. I think she will be more believable.
But I do know one thing, I feel much better since not calling CP every week or two. Its been almost a month now I think and I am so proud of myself for not feeling so dependent on their conversations.
Title: Re: My Update
Post by: vanyct on September 04, 2011, 06:57:32 PM
I recently read an article written by a psychic where he was trying to answer skeptics questions on psychic powers, I found it very informative. He was basically explaining that people doubt psychics because people expect psychics to say this and that will happen to you next Tuesday at 1:00 p.m. but that is not how psychic powers work.  He explained how psychics are used in investigations to find missing people, they use their abilities to read the energy around the crime to help solve it but psychics aren't used to predict future crimes.   
After I read his article I called this psychic for a reading and it was a good reading. he didn't focus too much on the future instead he talked about the energy around me and my SM, described obsticles and how we could overcome these.  It was kinda like a life coach session, but at the end of the call I felt better because I felt he was truthful about what he saw and his guidance was also helpful.     
Maybe that's where we are going wrong is in asking for timelines and using those to rate how good or bad a psychic is.  When you guys call a psychic do you specifically ask for future outcomes, or do the psychics volunteer this information?
Title: Re: My Update
Post by: lightme on September 04, 2011, 07:58:51 PM
greengrix: omg you actually spent the money to confront Nina, wow! so how did she respond after you told her about the profile picture?

nina sounded so confident the way she read, honestly she didn't sound fake to me at all. i used to like her best until i read about our recent forum posts, i can't believe her anymore although i would love to and if things turn out as she said to me. i really pray she is not unethical.
Title: Re: My Update
Post by: lightme on September 04, 2011, 08:39:29 PM
I don't think they tell everyone that their ex is coming back.  I have read testimonials about new people coming in and testimonials saying that he/she wasn't going to come back...or it wasn't going to work etc.

I really do not think that they share notes or there is a database with CP.  There isn't enough time from caller to caller.  And if that was the case then every reader would provide the same information.  I just don't believe that. I have had some really bad readings on CP...where the information has been so off.

The very very very few that said he wasn't going to reach out to me etc.were wrong about all other stuff including him not reaching out to me...because he did...from November-June and we saw each other a few times lol.

I do believe that Liveperson works off of a databases because everything is in writing...and I do think that is a really big scam site.  I had found 1 good reader on there.  Our readings were via email and she was right on about everything with me...timing information etc.

i agree that CP psychics don't share notes, from my own experience. they all pick up on different things.

and i have the same experience as you, the ones who said it is not going to work are so wrong in other things or never pick up anything. and the ones who picked up correct things always give me the nice ending prediction.

someone here mentioned that maybe the "real ones" pick up on the positive energy, hence the positive "assumption" they will be back, not because they see it. 
Title: Re: My Update
Post by: bluesgirl23 on September 04, 2011, 09:44:49 PM
My local reader says that a lot of psychics have a hard time separating what you want vs what is actually going to occur. Therefore, they end up telling you what you want to hear. Not that they don't actually see you getting back together w/ your ex for example but because that is what you want, they may see it and not what will happen. I remember going to my local reader about two yrs ago right after I met my ex & I told her i thought I had just met the man I was going to marry. She abruptly told me no. After a few months of dating, he disappeared for. Not a word or explanation. She always told me he would be back. Well, he did come back after 9 months of silence and wanted to get back together (In my experience, they all eventually come back) but, I was so hurt by him walking away w/out a word that I decided I needed to move on as did he.
 My advice is to date as many men as possible. You don't have to sleep w/ any of them. That way, you get to decide what you want & are willing to accept. Women are to be valued & we are a prize. I think it's time we all start acting as such.
Title: Re: My Update
Post by: lightme on September 04, 2011, 10:22:53 PM
bluegirl, wow your post is enlightening! very interesting about the part maybe the psychics saw what we want rather than what will happen. thanks!
Title: Re: My Update
Post by: bluesgirl23 on September 05, 2011, 02:57:20 AM
@green Maybe he will come back to you. You never know. He could find something out about this new girl that he doesn't like & realize how much he actually loves you & misses you. It can happen.  But, m
Title: Re: My Update
Post by: lightme on September 05, 2011, 08:49:57 PM
greengrix: thank you so much for "confronting" nina, i must salute you on that. thank you for letting us know her reaction to your very frank talk with her. i can imagine how confident and sincere she must have sounded, i do not want to think she is just lying about what she saw.

i would not dare to comment on Nina's prediction, i had experienced her reading before and i think she has the psychic power for sure, at least the empath part. she is so far the best and accurate on my list, putting her prediction aside because the time had not passed for me yet.

you wrote about how she knew about your email, that wowed me.
Title: Re: My Update
Post by: vanyct on September 05, 2011, 11:40:05 PM
What kind of mind frame are you all in?  I've read that if you are relaxed and have a clear mind, psychics can tune into your energy and you will get a better reading.  I'm thinking that when I call I'm usually upset or frustrated because things with my SM aren't progressing and maybe that's the reason why predictions have not panned out for me.
Title: Re: My Update
Post by: positive on September 06, 2011, 02:05:17 AM
i understand how you feel.  you see or going through one thing and they see other.  It is hard to stay positive.  One of the frustrating part is that if they are wrong and proven wrong, they would not even admit to it.  At this point i only talk to seha now, but losing patience and confidence now.
Title: Re: My Update
Post by: sunandmoon on September 06, 2011, 12:27:26 PM
I just started to see someone and even after asking physics in the last couple of weeks they didn't pick up on it. In the meantime I haven't heard a peep from the old guy in over two weeks and the last time I saw him he was a complete ass. A host of timelines have come and gone. Some recent ones said September/fall/early next year. It will be interesting to see where I am with the new guy at that point as he is a complete sweetheart.

I will gather up notes and post in the new thread though, on predictions that came true, but they were mostly contact.
Title: Re: My Update
Post by: lightme on September 06, 2011, 06:43:29 PM
greengrix: try not to hold onto the timeline they gave you, let it go. maybe you could still hold onto the big picture, the vision that they have, but not the timeline. this is what i am doing now. 
Title: Re: My Update
Post by: positivethoughts2 on September 07, 2011, 11:22:22 AM
Green - I'm so sorry this is happening to you. The entire reason we call psychics is to avoid being blindsided with this stuff. As hard as it is, we all have to somehow let go of the timing. I've had predictions happen but the timing for anything significant is always way off. But out of all of the CP's I've tried, I would say only 3 have gotten big predictions right. Many were able to describe the situation both in the past and present, even random phone call timelines, but just a few were able to accurately predict big future events. They are: Jacqueline, William and Gail. I've tried a lot of the CP's and a few from Psychic Source. When I look back through old notes, a few things from Jacqueline are happening now and she predicted them over 8 month's ago. Gail has a prediction happening from 7 month's ago. Sometimes they nail the timing. I don't know what that is. William is never that way off on timing but he doesn't give me the level of detail I get from the other 2. All 3 have been wrong on a bunch of "minor" things but not on the overall big picture (at least not yet - ugh). I only call Gail once every few month's because she is more of a high level reader, Jacqueline is my regular go-to and William once a month. I never want to hear what Gail has to say but she is usually right. I always want to hear what Jacqueline has to say but she is overly positive, and William is usually right in the middle. I know we all have our favorite readers and who works for me might not work for you. My friends have readers they love and I've tried them a few times with little success. Who knows.

Anyway, I hope the other girl goes away - and quickly.

big hugs
PT
Title: Re: My Update
Post by: positivethoughts2 on September 07, 2011, 08:18:39 PM
Green - that is so typical Jacqueline. I bet what she told you in February is probably what's happening now. I would take out her old readings and take a peek.
Title: Re: My Update
Post by: bluesgirl23 on September 09, 2011, 09:10:50 AM
Well, I finally took a big step. I decided that I would close my account at CP and I did that tonight. I am happy to report that I will now be making my own decisions & taking control of my own destiny by saving my money. I am sure that I will get a lot of joy out of doing other things like helping the homeless guy on the street by buying him a hot dog or something to eat or taking my nieces & nephews to the movies or to the zoo instead of giving it to CP. I have had a few predictions come to pass but not enough for me to decide to keep spending my money with them. I will more than likely still read with my local reader as she has gotten major things right but I have even begun to wonder if I will continue to do that. I am just tired of living my life wondering what my future holds & being anxious about it. I will still visit this forum & will keep up to date on everyone and I wish you all the best.
Title: Re: My Update
Post by: smsd on September 09, 2011, 04:18:43 PM
That's great, good for you! I need to muster the strength to close my account.
Title: Re: My Update
Post by: positivethoughts2 on September 09, 2011, 06:06:26 PM
greengrl - I'm happy for you. Sounds like you are headed to a better place but not giving up all hope. I do believe for some people if we "could" give up all hope, we would have long ago and if we can't it's for a reason.
xxoo