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Metaphysical, Spiritual and Psychic Discussions => Keen.com => Topic started by: lostsoul209 on November 27, 2017, 01:06:11 PM
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Do you even feel bad if you get the outcome wrong? Do you even go back and think why you were wrong? How can you keep doing a job like this and give people flase hope? It pain that I don’t think it ever heal. It a battle for me everyday. I did seek help on my own free will like one of the psychic that responded to me but why keep getting people flase hope?
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I think a few of them have honest intentions, and want to help. VERY few of them, but still.
bottom line is, it's a business for them, and a scammy business to boot. The scam artists give the few good ones a bad rep. They will make much more money off of you to give you false hopes, and have you come back time and time again, asking why and when things will manifest. Why are things going in the opposite direction, etc. And that's most of their objective: money! Not whether or not you end up with the person.
Some honest ones will tell you to let things play out and not obsess. Trust your own intuition first and foremost. And also accept responsibility with your own actions. I have been my own worse enemy when it comes to overreacting in my situation and pushing POI away further.
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I think angelic dream one of the few psychic that care most of them will block you if you run out of money. I think my poi is not a good person anyway. She said she doesn’t care. I have to find a new gym now. She just acting like she is a good person on Facebook.
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Angelbaby of Light was the most caring reader I found on Keen. I thought she genuinely cared and wanted to help me and I think she genuinely felt really bad when her predictions didn't happen. But she messed me up worse than all the others put together. And the crazy thing is I still miss talking to her because she was so caring, even though I know she will just give me wrong predictions. Caring readers aren't always the best ones.
This is very disheartening to hear. Did she not look into her wrong interpretations to see how she was wrong. I know what's done is done, and there isn't any way to make it right, especially if you were strung along - - - I guess I'm looking for a valid reason instead of a lame apology and shoulder shrug. idk.
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To this day my poi never tell me the stuff that she did when I ask her she just go and block then unblocked me. She was playing game I don’t think she a good person. And I just blame some of it on myself believing what the psychic told me that she care.
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I could keep going but that's the gist. They feel most clients situations are obvious and usually unrequited love and the reason they are paying a stranger is because most people in their life have told them to just accept the fact it's in their head.
Please by all means, do continue. This might be the best reality check ever for people who don't know what Keen is really like behjnd the scenes.
I can see both sides of it but what it comes down to is most of them are just exploiting people and they know it.
I disagree with what you said above about blame and accountability.
You will never meet these people, you must only deal with your own actions. I've learned in therapy and (TRY to) forgive them to move on with my life.
“Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.” Is something I have to tell myself everyday.
I know I'm a work in progress, but if you know this place is a scam and you keep going back... are we not just scamming ourselves?
And if power of attraction is real, which I think it is, and this is part of our lives, this scam.... what are we attracting because of this choice?
Do we blame bars for our alcoholism? They lure us in, but every time we call we choose to and most of the time I know this is another liar.
That's why I'm in therapy. These psychis are like x-boyfriends and other people in our lives and there are scammers everywhere, when you know
it's not their fault anymore, it's ours.
(((counting days til I see therapist as I reflect))))
The problem is from the man I know that worked at Keen and a reader who while on Keen "befriended" me to "be honest" about "my reputation", is that Keen doesn't care about anyone and Keen ignores them too so it becomes every man for themselves.
If feedback didn't exists according to her (and I sometimes agree) you'd get a lot more honest readings. When readers get bashed they are much much much more likely to suck up to future calls so they flood their feedback so ironically when we bash them, they are more likely to spin fairytales to make up what is lost.
So to sum it up:
What someone bashes : the reader ends up more dishonest to win back clients trust with happiness. When they are aware of feedback they don't read, they hustle.
When you call them : they know you are spending your money on others and already going to blow it anyway, so why not them take it instead.
When you ask about someone that never calls or is spoken for or treats you right : they feel you're in denial and that's where you want to be.
A lot of readers feel we attack them rather than the POI that treats us like shit. So rather than confronting and having an honest "what is this" conversation, we call the reader and PAY them to answer in a positive way because if you confront the person and the truth, you will not be happy.
After hearing that, I confronted my ex and would not settle for him trying to talk circles around me (like them) and I would not stop the conversation until he straight up told me what we were. And when he said it, that he didn't look at me the way I looked at him, after leading me on for years I felt relief. I didn't stop him before he was honest, I didn't get the answer I was looking for, I rode the truth out of him and it was over but it was real and no one could take that truth from me.
Before he would tell me whatever I wanted to hear, but I learned words are nothing and actions are everything.
I also learned I wasn't letting go of Keen and the readings just like I wasn't letting go of the relationship. That not moving was my thing.
That's why moving on is key. If you use this place to keep getting readings fine, but if you can't move on from readings how can you move forward in love?
I told the reader what he said. She confirmed it to be factual and was happy she could be honest with me. She said a lot of people call when the POI is flat out not into it and has said he's never leaving the wife, he never says he loves her, he's only coming over to have sex and the writing is on the wall but the caller calls to be lied to and was happy to see this time it wasn't me.
Excellent post. Denial can run deep and it's rampant on Keen (and other sites). Good for you for confronting the person and getting the truth.
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Also I remember one reader talking about respect and everyone in the post agreed.
If the caller is sleeping with a married man or someone spoken for - the psychic feels if the caller doesn't care about the girlfriend/wife/kids who are they to judge the psychic.
Some psychics judge your situation. If you're a mistress or with someone who has another, they feel you losing money is your karma.
You call a lot of married psychics. They don't take well to people who get involved with someone taken, so they feel you deserve to suffer.
They also share information to make fun of a client.
One caller kept asking when he was leaving the girlfriend and she was a booty call he'd randomly see. All readers said stop screwing him and she wouldn't listen and they referred to her as "free milk" because they said she wanted everything but not willing to do any changes. And because she thought him sleeping with her meant they had something special. Readers are very cruel and judgmental to woman who believe sex is love and that the guy is forced to go home when he just like them has free will.
Jesus I'm having flashbacks to them laughing at clients. I think that's when I went on a bashing binge and took them all out.
Then one chimed in saying they feel sorry for people who look to be rejected by emotionally unavailable POI so they are doing them a favor by making them feel better whether right or wrong, that the callers are usually unhappy and lonely and they made them smile albeit even if for a moment.
So most judge and some people feel they are cheering you up from a situation where you aren't going to win in the end.
Oh I could totally, 100% believe this.
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Also I remember one reader talking about respect and everyone in the post agreed.
If the caller is sleeping with a married man or someone spoken for - the psychic feels if the caller doesn't care about the girlfriend/wife/kids who are they to judge the psychic.
Some psychics judge your situation. If you're a mistress or with someone who has another, they feel you losing money is your karma.
You call a lot of married psychics. They don't take well to people who get involved with someone taken, so they feel you deserve to suffer.
They also share information to make fun of a client.
One caller kept asking when he was leaving the girlfriend and she was a booty call he'd randomly see. All readers said stop screwing him and she wouldn't listen and they referred to her as "free milk" because they said she wanted everything but not willing to do any changes. And because she thought him sleeping with her meant they had something special. Readers are very cruel and judgmental to woman who believe sex is love and that the guy is forced to go home when he just like them has free will.
Jesus I'm having flashbacks to them laughing at clients. I think that's when I went on a bashing binge and took them all out.
Then one chimed in saying they feel sorry for people who look to be rejected by emotionally unavailable POI so they are doing them a favor by making them feel better whether right or wrong, that the callers are usually unhappy and lonely and they made them smile albeit even if for a moment.
So most judge and some people feel they are cheering you up from a situation where you aren't going to win in the end.
Oh I could totally, 100% believe this.
BUT there's many who I'm sure told her he would leave the girlfriend. Check out wintersonata's FB for faery lady. that woman has been seeing a married man for 9 years.
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I do think that many that getting readings do require a therapist rather than a psychic. I went for therapy and it helped enormously. Psychics only keep you in a state of denial/delusion, UNLESS you find a good one, which as most who post on here can agree is next to impossible. And it's so accessible, these sites, just join, click and chat with someone. It's scary how easy they make it. Obviously seeing a therapist is not so easy.
I wish there was a chat therapy site LOL.
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I have had readers who were wrong totally own up to it, apologize and give refunds or free minutes to make up for it. In my opinion the best readers can only be 80%
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Great posts @Realist.
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I really don’t think my poi felt sorry for what she did. What the psychic failed to pick up was she was playing games. If I were a real psychic I can’t do it for money or tell anyone to hold on and waited for them. I’m sure 98 percent of these psychic are not good people.
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lost soul I feel bad for you, I really do, but if your posts here are any indication of what dealing with you was like, I can only imagine why she pulls away. It's like you only hear what you want. And that goes for what psychics tell you as well. I am not saying a lot of them don't BS or sugarcoat shit, we all know they do, but for God's sake, move on and forget it. Let it go.
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lost soul I feel bad for you, I really do, but if your posts here are any indication of what dealing with you was like, I can only imagine why she pulls away. It's like you only hear what you want. And that goes for what psychics tell you as well. I am not saying a lot of them don't BS or sugarcoat shit, we all know they do, but for God's sake, move on and forget it. Let it go.
trying to move on from her. But I don’t think the pain can ever heal what she did.
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lost soul I feel bad for you, I really do, but if your posts here are any indication of what dealing with you was like, I can only imagine why she pulls away. It's like you only hear what you want. And that goes for what psychics tell you as well. I am not saying a lot of them don't BS or sugarcoat shit, we all know they do, but for God's sake, move on and forget it. Let it go.
trying to move on from her. But I don’t think the pain can ever heal what she did.
It will, just give it time. time heals all.
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lost soul I feel bad for you, I really do, but if your posts here are any indication of what dealing with you was like, I can only imagine why she pulls away. It's like you only hear what you want. And that goes for what psychics tell you as well. I am not saying a lot of them don't BS or sugarcoat shit, we all know they do, but for God's sake, move on and forget it. Let it go.
trying to move on from her. But I don’t think the pain can ever heal what she did.
It will, just give it time. time heals all.
I’m taking a break from this forum again if my poi is a good person she can’t leave it like this. Will be back in 2 months to give u all an update.
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lost soul I feel bad for you, I really do, but if your posts here are any indication of what dealing with you was like, I can only imagine why she pulls away. It's like you only hear what you want. And that goes for what psychics tell you as well. I am not saying a lot of them don't BS or sugarcoat shit, we all know they do, but for God's sake, move on and forget it. Let it go.
trying to move on from her. But I don’t think the pain can ever heal what she did.
Don't be so melodramatic. People survive loss of children, death of a lover, cancer, so much crap in this world. There are thousands of people that would trade lives with you in a second.
People way too often romanticize the pain of love with the power of the ideal love itself. Just because you are in great pain doesn't mean it was a great love.
There are a lot of people with more dramatic situations who aren't pitying themselves. It's normal to feel like a victim at times, but after awhile you are only victimizing yourself.
If you have the time to wallow it's a self-destructive privilege. Plenty of people in poor countries have so much crap on their plate they are forced to move on from a tragedy that happened yesterday.
When did I said I can’t survive I said it a battle for me everyday. Yes people have suffer much worst and love to trade place with me but I would love to trade place with those normal people who have a normal reationship With kids and job.
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When did I said I can’t survive I said it a battle for me everyday. Yes people have suffer much worst and love to trade place with me but I would love to trade place with those normal people who have a normal reationship With kids and job.
It seems your sadness isn't so much about the ex, but it's the loss of an idea of what your life is supposed to be. Because of the lack of job
you clearly have too much time to sulk on the past. But it's obviously not your ex that's made you unhappy, it's your general feeling of being
unfulfilled and rather than looking at you, you're looking at her.
Take your power back.
[/quote] I could go on but there no point. You are misread what I said I”ll said that. I don’t want to start anything with anyone. I figure my way out of this. Unlit 2 months I will post here again.
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I am just reading all this. One person did seem to be a bit more abrasive than needed and I felt it too.
Still tired is a nice person and it is not fair to call her out on her "emotional issues". I dont think you know if she has them or not, everyone of us who is on this forum has some type of "emotional issue", plus you are putting words in her mouth, she never said you are sending her on a bender; she said you could have sent her on a bender LONG TIME AGO- when she was vulnerable. And frankly, anyone on this forum is vulnerable in some way- else they wont call psychics to begin with.
Whoever this person is, I sense you are a highly practical person and tend to say things as it is, but it is coming off as very insensitive and a bit rude too. And as I know still tired for quite some time via this forum, she doesnt deserve this.
We're cool. 8)
Well you said some things that were really disrespectful. It's not important and you can think whatever you want of me, but I am not cool with being spoken to that way. If it was last year, your words about my ex refusing to talk to me probably would have ripped me apart and sent me on a Keen binge and a crying bender. I left here for several months because I needed time to heal myself. I am doing a lot better now and I can handle it, but I don't always feel strong and there are other people here who probably don't either.
You have a lot of great information and insights to share with us, and I hope you will continue doing so because it could help a lot of people. You have been through a lot, do what is right for you. I know what it is like when you have your eyes open to something and it feels like no one else wants to see it.
If what I said to you is really hurtful, life is not going to get easier. If you're that sensitive, paying strangers is not ideal IMO therapy is. #nutup
Okay so I tried to be nice and you just don't have any common decency. Good to know.
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lost soul I feel bad for you, I really do, but if your posts here are any indication of what dealing with you was like, I can only imagine why she pulls away. It's like you only hear what you want. And that goes for what psychics tell you as well. I am not saying a lot of them don't BS or sugarcoat shit, we all know they do, but for God's sake, move on and forget it. Let it go.
trying to move on from her. But I don’t think the pain can ever heal what she did.
Don't be so melodramatic. People survive loss of children, death of a lover, cancer, so much crap in this world. There are thousands of people that would trade lives with you in a second.
People way too often romanticize the pain of love with the power of the ideal love itself. Just because you are in great pain doesn't mean it was a great love.
There are a lot of people with more dramatic situations who aren't pitying themselves. It's normal to feel like a victim at times, but after awhile you are only victimizing yourself.
If you have the time to wallow it's a self-destructive privilege. Plenty of people in poor countries have so much crap on their plate they are forced to move on from a tragedy that happened yesterday.
She is a realist!! ;D hate to say it but I agree..
While keen and other psychic sites are a business,they are very few caring ones ..those that go out their way to email you a long transcript and follow up after the conversation i.e for free..Thise generous with minutes ,those that actually tell you not to call them or rely on psychics enjoy life..so while 98% are scams greedy very few are not.Also some psychics (atleast mine)have been like guidance counselors /cheerleaders and allaround someone to remind you that you are the shit!Mine has become a life coach and honestly i wouldn’t be this far without him ..esp after my bad relationship.I am lucky
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I don't think the hardline, tough love, judgmental approach necessarily works well for psychic addiction. If people want to take that tack with themselves, that is their choice, but I found it works much better to be kind to myself.
I feel this is a very valid point because to just tell people to move on, keep living life or to just stop calling psychics doesn't help at all. Sadly, some members learn the hard way and have to go through losing a lot of money, recognize the predictions didn't happen and a lot of time has past, feel angry that they are in the same position they were in months, years ago, feel hurt they took in everything and believed everything the reader said. The "hardline, tough love, judgmental approach" clearly does not work for those with addiction, from what I see on this forum. Kindness and empathy would work better and go a much longer distance. IMO.
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As I stated earlier, I have a very expensive addiction. I never blame the psychic when predictions don't happen. I call for the reasons stated in the previous post.....support, empathy, someone to tell me everything is going to be okay. I have a very demanding job and I have a position in management. I must present a strong front to everyone who looks to me for leadership. When I come home in the evenings I call Keen because I need someone to lean on, thus the addiction. I have no family, therefore Keen has been invaluable to me. I have spent a decade rising to the top of my profession, which has left little time for relationships. I am now starting to turn my focus to partnership and the advisors/psychics I speak with have been great with this area of my life. I just met someone who holds a prestigious position in the fashion industry and I am trying my best to make this work.
All of us are looking for predictions to pan out - I have spent an enormous amount of money over the last decade on Keen and I can now say that I have honed in on the psychics that work best for me. I have them in categories such as best predictions, best for advice, best for picking up my mood, best for reading someone else's feelings.
As I read through the threads and posts here on this board, there seem to be a few people who are very angry with Keen. I just don't get it. They pick up the phone and make the call and expect 100% satisfaction. If these psychics could give 100% accurate readings they would be rich beyond belief. Think about it - it there was a human being out there that could read your future with laser point accuracy, as if they had a TV screen in their head, they would be in such demand that the average person would not be able to get a reading. I actually had two readings with someone like that, he had a three-year waiting list. Unfortunately, he passed away two years ago.
Sorry for such a long post - just felt the need to write this morning.
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trying to move on from her. But I don’t think the pain can ever heal what she did.
Pardon me if I don't get the details exactly right, but you decided you were in love with a married 19 yr old at your gym, pursued her relentlessly even though she said she wasn't interested and never actually went on a date or anything. Eventually she started warming up to you a little, then she told you she went back to her ex and blocked you.
So now you will never get over the "pain" of a woman you never even went on a freaking date with "did" to you?
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Lostsoul is taking a break so you are basically just talking to yourself here. Big wink.
There is no way that guy is "taking a break", He may not be logged in, but he is reading and calling.
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Well, if you think so, but funny how he isn't nearly as interested in the supposed details of other people's lives as they are in his. Almost like you gals are obsessed with him or something.
He posts vigorously and in great detail about what is basically an imaginary relationship.
Out of his 458 posts, I have responded to him 5 times. That is a 1.09% response rate. If I said I had a grilled cheese for lunch, he would find a way to chime in and say that 97 psychics lied to him about the grilled cheese he saw at the gym and spoke to once being in love with him, how he called 72 of them back to say they were wrong, then his grilled cheese was at the gym at the same time he was so he is going to call psychics non-stop for 12 hrs a day for a week because maybe they are right, now his grilled cheese blocked him and has gone back to the BLT and all the psychics are wrong. Lather, rinse, repeat.
As for you, you have responded to him more times in the last three weeks than I have in the past 8 months.
Perhaps you should take some time tonight to reflect on why you feel the need to say that I (and others) am "obsessed" with him when it is clearly the other way around. Do you know why he isn't interested in anything else? Because he is obsessed with his imaginary relationship. I feel bad for him but you are the one who isn't doing him any favors. You give him pity and encourage him in his victimhood. I would love to hear what the chick at the gym has to say. I would sincerely like to see him get some help, but he is probably going to latch onto someone else. His last true love was married and he never even went on a date with her either.
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njlady....you nailed it.
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I dont care about this guys's personal details nor do I feel like judging his feelings for someone he hasnt been on a date with but I do agree seeing some indiscriminate mentions on almost every psychic post how each of them have sold him fairy tales. And if someone tries to be nice to him and ask questions about his situation (because he is the one to bring it up in the first place), the person does not respond in the correct fashion and is vague about the details of the reading...And in the next post, again tells how this other psychic sold him fairy tales. Some of us can get irritated by this, I see why, I chose to ignore, others may not.
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So Lostsoul may be posting the way he does just to get a reaction??....hum......well, he is certainly getting a very human response to his posts.
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I think its totally rude and hurtful... to call someone out... None of us know his story... I'm sure if we all heard each others stories we would think each other crazy... Give the guy break and stop being BITCHES!!!!
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I definitely think English is not his first language so that adds to the communication issues
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Bank account comes in mail: Why have I spent so much money! It's Keen! Why has he not reached out to me or left her? If he's having sex with me but returning to her, he's obviously more into me. I think about this person all the time, which means they MUST be thinking about me all the time. Must call again to figure out finances.
POI: ....... ....... Bank account comes in mail: Why have I spent so much money! It's Keen! Why has he not reached out to me or left her? If he's having sex with me but returning to her, he's obviously more into me. I think about this person all the time, which means they MUST be thinking about me all the time. Must call again to figure out finances.
POI: ....... ....... .....
POI: (3 weeks later, 4am) Wanna hang out for few hours?
PCOA : It's loooooovvvvvvveeeee!
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POI: (3 weeks later, 4am) Wanna hang out for few hours?
PCOA : It's loooooovvvvvvveeeee!
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Yesssssss!! This!! I know a girl like that too...like hello? He’s using you!!!hes never leaving his wife!!!