The Psychic Reviews

Metaphysical, Spiritual and Psychic Discussions => Keen.com => Topic started by: Baypark1 on August 02, 2017, 06:03:37 PM

Title: Arguing needs to stop!!!!
Post by: Baypark1 on August 02, 2017, 06:03:37 PM
My GOD. I just read 3 or 4 threads and there is arguing on every one of them!!!  I won't mention names, but there's definitely  2 or 3 people that are part of every argument.  They are usually the ones that start it by critiquing what the posters are saying.  Please stop.  Please leave people be.  If you don't like what someone says and don't agree, it is NOT NECESSARY for you to comment and reprimand them for their opinion, anger, bitterness, love or whatever you are disagreeing with at the moment.  You also don't have to join every argument that is going on.  Please be mature adults.  You can debate without being nasty, hateful, demeaning, degrading and name calling.  This forum is reminding me of what we deal with every day with Trump!!!  LOL 

I'm starting to not even want to come on here anymore.  Accusing people of being readers that have been here for years.  Just STOP!!! For the love of God please!!!! 

If you don't like this post, then don't comment.  :)   
Title: Re: Arguing needs to stop!!!!
Post by: bagalagaa88 on August 02, 2017, 06:25:33 PM
Thank you! I'm so tired of this drama. I typically don't even comment because of fear but I'm tired of reading those posts.
Title: Re: Arguing needs to stop!!!!
Post by: kumamon on August 02, 2017, 07:22:41 PM
Well said Baypark1
Title: Re: Arguing needs to stop!!!!
Post by: bstalling on August 02, 2017, 07:22:52 PM
Report posts and maybe the mod will come and do some clean up
Title: Re: Arguing needs to stop!!!!
Post by: wildfox87 on August 02, 2017, 07:26:39 PM
Report posts and maybe the mod will come and do some clean up

Do the mods even exist on these forums? I have yet to see one since i've been here lol
Title: Re: Arguing needs to stop!!!!
Post by: member60636366 on August 02, 2017, 07:34:35 PM
Yes, please stop with the reprimanding!!!

My GOD. I just read 3 or 4 threads and there is arguing on every one of them!!!  I won't mention names, but there's definitely  2 or 3 people that are part of every argument.  They are usually the ones that start it by critiquing what the posters are saying.  Please stop.  Please leave people be.  If you don't like what someone says and don't agree, it is NOT NECESSARY for you to comment and reprimand them for their opinion, anger, bitterness, love or whatever you are disagreeing with at the moment.  You also don't have to join every argument that is going on.  Please be mature adults.  You can debate without being nasty, hateful, demeaning, degrading and name calling.  This forum is reminding me of what we deal with every day with Trump!!!  LOL 

I'm starting to not even want to come on here anymore.  Accusing people of being readers that have been here for years.  Just STOP!!! For the love of God please!!!! 

If you don't like this post, then don't comment.  :)
Title: Re: Arguing needs to stop!!!!
Post by: YellowLove on August 07, 2017, 01:55:40 AM
Report posts and maybe the mod will come and do some clean up

Do the mods even exist on these forums? I have yet to see one since i've been here lol

I've been here for 5 years and never really seen a mod besides admin himself.
Title: Re: Arguing needs to stop!!!!
Post by: glamgal on August 09, 2017, 07:54:17 PM
Well said!
Title: Re: Arguing needs to stop!!!!
Post by: Baypark1 on September 02, 2017, 12:15:31 PM
I believe the instigator has been removed or left the forum.  She/he is no longer on here. 
Title: Re: Arguing needs to stop!!!!
Post by: sawthelight on September 02, 2017, 01:02:51 PM
I believe the instigator has been removed or left the forum.  She/he is no longer on here.

I'm sure enough people reported that person....admin must've finally stepped in
Title: Re: Arguing needs to stop!!!!
Post by: bstalling on September 02, 2017, 04:07:50 PM
Good job guys.
Title: Re: Arguing needs to stop!!!!
Post by: candiednut on September 02, 2017, 04:56:36 PM
ats1rk is gone? YAS!  ;D
Title: Re: Arguing needs to stop!!!!
Post by: sawthelight on September 02, 2017, 04:58:57 PM
From what I can see from her posts, she must be having a canary about that!  Seemed her whole word revolved around readings and this forum.
Title: Re: Arguing needs to stop!!!!
Post by: bluebelle on September 02, 2017, 05:04:22 PM
Wow. I haven't posted in ages but good riddance. Probably only a matter of time before she rejoins under a new name.
Title: Re: Arguing needs to stop!!!!
Post by: Baypark1 on September 02, 2017, 05:42:01 PM
From what I can see from her posts, she must be having a canary about that!  Seemed her whole word revolved around readings and this forum.

It's actually sad because she had a lot to offer but it was canceled out with her being so combative. 
Title: Re: Arguing needs to stop!!!!
Post by: sawthelight on September 02, 2017, 05:47:32 PM
From what I can see from her posts, she must be having a canary about that!  Seemed her whole word revolved around readings and this forum.

It's actually sad because she had a lot to offer but it was canceled out with her being so combative.

Yea I know.
Title: Re: Arguing needs to stop!!!!
Post by: doubleoh8 on September 02, 2017, 06:03:11 PM
wow that was big of you baypark. in the time i have been reading here it seemed that you were often getting the brunt of the criticism.

I agree that said poster had a LOT to offer and will miss some of her insights. Too bad. But I also agree that the language and personal commentary were just too much... outside the agreed terms of the forum and unnecessary for sure.
Title: Re: Arguing needs to stop!!!!
Post by: wildfox87 on September 02, 2017, 07:07:17 PM
In an odd way I will miss her... lol but not her drama starting behaviors. I'm sure she's still viewing the forum as we speak by being a "guest"  and has already registered a new name. It won't be hard to decipher her new username when she does come LOL. She has such a presence I will say that. She did contribute to the forum a lot but her perspective on things was obviously skewed.
Title: Re: Arguing needs to stop!!!!
Post by: Baypark1 on September 02, 2017, 07:58:08 PM
wow that was big of you baypark. in the time i have been reading here it seemed that you were often getting the brunt of the criticism.

I agree that said poster had a LOT to offer and will miss some of her insights. Too bad. But I also agree that the language and personal commentary were just too much... outside the agreed terms of the forum and unnecessary for sure.

Oh no, I was one of many that got slammed by her. 

Everyone is battling something so grace is needed most of the time.
Title: Re: Arguing needs to stop!!!!
Post by: doubleoh8 on September 02, 2017, 08:11:35 PM

  Everyone is battling something so grace is needed most of the time.

well said.

Just a suggestion (not directed at anyone in particular, more to the general group) that we don't vilify this one person. Yes, she could be pretty abrasive .. but she wasn't the only person I saw being argumentative or caustic at times. Of course some of that is natural; as you say, a lot of us are struggling on some level and emotions can therefore run high.

That said, I suggest we let it go and absorb the lesson; it would appear that most people on here find arguing and insults counter-productive and so this experience is a good reminder for us all to do our best to maintain that level of grace as too many posts that cross the line will not be tolerated.
Title: Re: Arguing needs to stop!!!!
Post by: Baypark1 on September 02, 2017, 08:19:34 PM

  Everyone is battling something so grace is needed most of the time.

well said.

Just a suggestion (not directed at anyone in particular, more to the general group) that we don't vilify this one person. Yes, she could be pretty abrasive .. but she wasn't the only person I saw being argumentative or caustic at times. Of course some of that is natural; as you say, a lot of us are struggling on some level and emotions can therefore run high.

That said, I suggest we let it go and absorb the lesson; it would appear that most people on here find arguing and insults counter-productive and so this experience is a good reminder for us all to do our best to maintain that level of grace as too many posts that cross the line will not be tolerated.

Absolutely. Maybe she will come back less.combative  which would be nice since she does have such good insight
Title: Re: Arguing needs to stop!!!!
Post by: sawthelight on September 02, 2017, 11:38:54 PM
Good insight you think?  I found her to just paint a rosy picture about every psychic...and would attack and belittle those giving their honest feelings and reviews
Title: Re: Arguing needs to stop!!!!
Post by: Bostongirl on September 03, 2017, 12:01:26 AM
Agreed. Attacked everyone for leaving negative feedback. Claimed everyone they spoke to was gifted and correct. Can't see how that was valuable.
Title: Re: Arguing needs to stop!!!!
Post by: sawthelight on September 03, 2017, 12:37:43 AM
Agreed. Attacked everyone for leaving negative feedback. Claimed everyone they spoke to was gifted and correct. Can't see how that was valuable.

It wasn't valuable at all. Detrimental to most. She was a bully to be honest.  Can't understand how anyone could defend her. When I was still waiting for my account to get activated..I saw a thread where she personally went after people, basically accused them of lying about their experiences and insulting them.
Title: Re: Arguing needs to stop!!!!
Post by: HornetKick on September 03, 2017, 12:51:40 AM
What the hell did I miss darn it.
Title: Re: Arguing needs to stop!!!!
Post by: jas on September 03, 2017, 01:50:14 AM
Yeah, what hornetkick said......what did I miss.....

I am new here, today is my first day, so please don't think I am whoever it is you are talking about.  I have been talking on Keen for 10 years and I have wasted a ton of money.  So glad to find this place.