The Psychic Reviews
Relationship Psychology Discussions => The Vent => Topic started by: Jjj on July 29, 2016, 12:34:37 AM
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Hello Everyone 😊
I feel i have should share some info with everyone here seeing has how alot of us have similar situations or addictions (psychics) and just share somethings that i have learned in the past year. ALL OF THIS IS MY OPINION MY VOICE AND IS NOT ATTACKING ANYONE.
This past year i went through i bad break up. I didnt want the break up but it happen. It was so damn hard. I didn't expect for us to be apart this long but hey we are. I automatically read with psychics. And kept reading and reading....and reading. Some had really good insight but barley anything happend. More heartbreak and getting my hopes up.
It makes me sick just thinking about all the money i spent. I remember waiting for pay day just so i can spend more than 50% of my check on readings. I could have saved that money. I could have had my own car (probably brand new) my own place and starting school, and i wouldnt be in a little debt. Im disgusted and hurt. But im not gonna beat myself up about it.
So just recently i went on vacation with my family and had a great time. I really got to clear my mind and enjoy life. Looking at how good things are for me. How blessed i am with things. I have alot of things other people dream of having. And i have so much more in life i want to be and have success. I realized i have to change, cause at the end of the day i only have me...
Look do i still love my ex girl. 100% yes. But we are not at that place of talking about getting back together. And maybe now is not the time. We both have said we don't know if we will never have a future together. Thats up to god/universe. Whats meant to be will be. I pray and hope that we have a new healthy stronger relationship. But in order for that to manifest we have to grow separate. I need to grow. I have alot to improve.
I know that if i got with my ex girl now i would be happy but not 100% confident in myself. How can i be confident when i feel nasty. I haven't been taking care of myself. I gained alot of weight, i changed in depression within the last year. THAT'S OVER! I want a better lifestyle and a better me. Only i can change that! & im starting now. Its not gonna be an easy thing but i am strong. I will get through it.
Im not giving up readings cold turkey. I have a few good psychics that i will read with maybe 1 or 2 times a month. But not depend on that 100% Nothing is set in stone. I do believe that there are pre-destined events and people that gonna be in your life but of course freewill determines timeframes. And thats okay. God/universe knows when you need something and when its a good time to get it.
I have read many stories on here about people situations. Some people got what they wanted and it all worked out. Alot of them just let it go and let the universe do its work. Other got some stuff they wanted, some got it and didn't want it after time going by. But who's to say that it wont happen 5 years from now.
WAITING AROUND FOR PREDICTIONS SUCKS THE FUN OUTTA LIFE! IT MAKES YOU GO CRAZY. DONT DO IT. ENJOY YOUR LIFE. LET THE UNIVERSE TAKE CARE OF THINGS. YOU BE HAPPY WITH YOU AND EVERYTHING WILL HAPPEN!
i wish the best for everyone here. God bless you all.
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Aww Jjj, I'm so happy for you that you are seeing the positive in this situation and trying to inspire others. I really needed this today,Thank you so much!
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Amazing post thank you!!!
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Aww you guys are welcome. I do really want the best.
And i feel like idc how good a psychic is its not worth all your money you work hard for. And waiting for something to manifest could be the exact reason why its not manifesting!
Alot of people may disagree but thats my opinion on some things you have no control of.
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Aww you guys are welcome. I do really want the best.
And i feel like idc how good a psychic is its not worth all your money you work hard for. And waiting for something to manifest could be the exact reason why its not manifesting!
Alot of people may disagree but thats my opinion on some things you have no control of.
So true. With a past situation I used to call about, I eventually got tired of shit and just let it all go. Lo and behold, months after i let it go, it started happening. Lol. At that point I was like "no thanks"- onto bigger and better. Life's crazy like that.
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Aww you guys are welcome. I do really want the best.
And i feel like idc how good a psychic is its not worth all your money you work hard for. And waiting for something to manifest could be the exact reason why its not manifesting!
Alot of people may disagree but thats my opinion on some things you have no control of.
So true. With a past situation I used to call about, I eventually got tired of shit and just let it all go. Lo and behold, months after i let it go, it started happening. Lol. At that point I was like "no thanks"- onto bigger and better. Life's crazy like that.
Lol that is crazy. Then who is to say in a few more months you may have change of heart on that situation or person. You just can never know 100% You kinda have to just let things flow and see what happens. As hard as it may be for some people it honestly makes you feel better and lifts weight off of you.
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Btw i feel like if you are going through a hard time with things a little get away for a few days does wonders! I feel like thats what helped me. Getting outt my atmosphere
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Definitely a getaway from the same old daily stuff helps. It's great to read that you've got a new outlook and mindset on things. I really hope you are happy no matter the outcome :)
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Thank You very much RedVelvet(:
I know i will be good no matter what.
I wish you the best as well on what you want.
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Thank You very much RedVelvet(:
I know i will be good no matter what.
I wish you the best as well on what you want.
Thank you :) keep us posted on how you're doing and if any predictions have happened or not.
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So happy for you!! Thank you for sharing :)
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Thank You very much RedVelvet(:
I know i will be good no matter what.
I wish you the best as well on what you want.
Thank you :) keep us posted on how you're doing and if any predictions have happened or not.
Well i can say Dominique from CP has been the most on track. She always reminds me that i have the option to completely just move on. And as i tell her i have to continue to live life. Im not giving up all faith and hope on our relationship for the future but i feel like i want a new stronger relationship with us, so i have to grow as well. I even tell her straight on the phone "no one can predict the whole future"
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Your welcome maddie (:
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Thank You very much RedVelvet(:
I know i will be good no matter what.
I wish you the best as well on what you want.
Thank you :) keep us posted on how you're doing and if any predictions have happened or not.
Well i can say Dominique from CP has been the most on track. She always reminds me that i have the option to completely just move on. And as i tell her i have to continue to live life. Im not giving up all faith and hope on our relationship for the future but i feel like i want a new stronger relationship with us, so i have to grow as well. I even tell her straight on the phone "no one can predict the whole future"
Jjj when you say dominique has been the most on track what do u mean like her insight has been accurate about you and your ex?
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Yes. And some of her communications predictions have happend. But i reached out first. I figure i have nothing to lose. And when i told Dom that she comended me for it cause choose to act on my own. Now lately she has been giving more insight into our relationship, if i want to be with my ex and have pacients with her this is heading towards a strong relationship.
But also letting me know if i dont want this i can move on.
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Oh okay.Do you think if you didn't reach out your ex would have contacted you?
Yeah Dom told me something similar but like Lady Jenna picked up when my ex contacts ill be debating whether or not I want to respond.At this point ,if someone is going to apologize for hurting me and saying something rude it should be done right away three weeks later or months later I would not even bother acccepting their apology. So, I'm starting the process of moving on slowly
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Allibai, did your ex not contact you like Lady Jenna predicted?
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@Leo lol nope he didn't.My intution was telling me he won't.He will do it when he is ready.That could be weeks or a month from now.Most people say he will contact soon in a couple days only one person said it will take a while and I do think it will take a while or maybe they are all wrong and he won't say nada.
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Yes but it probably may have been longer. I aske dom if this relationship is worth working out or having pacients for....she said she cant answer that only i can. She is just there to give insight and show me the possibilities of what the relationship can be in time. Like i said i still have to live my life regardless. Im not throwing all faith away in this but more like putting in on a back burner. Letting everything happen. Which is easier saif then done but can be done. My heart wants her.
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@maddie she said a couple of weeks she said when he contacts she advise me not to respond.She said he will contact again and we will slowly work on getting back together sometime in September
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Yes but it probably may have been longer. I aske dom if this relationship is worth working out or having pacients for....she said she cant answer that only i can. She is just there to give insight and show me the possibilities of what the relationship can be in time. Like i said i still have to live my life regardless. Im not throwing all faith in this but more like putting in on a back burner. Letting everything happen. Which is easier saif then done but can be done. My heart wants her.
I like that she doesn't add her personal beliefs into the reading. Yeah I know what you mean
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Wait @allibai3 she told you to not respond?
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Yeah she told me not to message him because that is waht he is expecting me to do and when he messages me not to respond to make him work for it and he will contact again.
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Oh okay i see. That kinda makes sense. I could see waiting a few days. I love how Dominique won't really allow verbal feeback to effect ymher reading.
I remember telling her about what my ex was telling me about how she is doing, and Dominique said thats not true. She is going through some stuff due to her current ex. She is working on getting her feelings together.
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@maddie exactly I'm glad she doesn't.If she did U would be skeptical
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@JjjYeah I say give you ex time.Esepecially if she just got out of a relationship her mind and her feelings are trying to understand everything she is also probably trying to adjust to the single life
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@allibai yeah i get it. But my ex did say somethings that i didnt like that she said felt with us. Dominique said thats not completely how she feels. But before that whole conversation dom did tell me that my ex wasn't ready to open up all the way. So time will tell with everything. I want her and i want us. But im focused on me getting stronger and better. That way i can be good no matter what.