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Metaphysical, Spiritual and Psychic Discussions => Keen.com => Topic started by: Jjj on July 24, 2016, 12:56:47 AM
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Is giving up the same as moving on?
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Honestly, I think so. I don't think it's possible to truly move on without giving up.
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I been thinking alot about it. I know letting go and giving it up god/ununiverse is better than trying to figure out every single step of a situation.
But giving up is saying you want nothing to do with it. Its confusing to me
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I like to say letting go....if something happens in the future, then great.....if not....Great too.
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Yeah i see what your saying @maddie
Just letting god/universe do thier work is whats best.
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Hey guys its funny this thread was started.I was scheming through the forum and noticed one of the old members had sucess with her ex after she walked away from him, the same issues they had my ex and I have.After reading her post she really has giving me strength to walk away from my ex completly.The only way I will come back is if he doesnt just say it but with action shows me that he really loves me and is willing to work on us with the same amount of effort as me. I will not respond to him when he apologizes because I know he will.So no more readings for me because that will just make me stuck on him instead of moving forward. Theres nothing I can do,so I give up and I'm moving forward.
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I like to say letting go....if something happens in the future, then great.....if not....Great too.
I agree with you bluebelle.
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I have seen alot of success stories of LOA and people just letting god/universe do things.
Everyones situation is different timmings are different.
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I agree with you JJJ,we should all let go but as we know letting go is hard ,its a process.
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It is. But i feel like over the past year i let myself go completely physically and emotionally. And i dont like that. I remember how was 2 years ago. Me and my girl were separate but i still did things for me. I feel like i lost that.
Im willing to put our relationship on the back burner and just let things relax. Focus on me and living life. If i dont then i wont have one...then what am i really living for
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Also to remember that yes the one you love can come back into your life. But you have to remember that they can leave again as well. It maybe apart of the journey with them or the end of there time in your life. You never really know only time tells
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I definetly think you should try to get you back before trying to get things back on track with her.Work on being a better you.So,that if you guys do get back together it can be a new relationship.
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Exactly what your saying @allobai3
Cause that what i think we need a better relationship with each other. Same journey in life with her just a new chapter with a strong healthy relationship.
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Exactky!I really hope everything works out for you
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Thank you so much.
The same to you honey!
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Jjj, I recommend a book called "Outrageous Openness" by Tosha Silver. It's a book about surrendering. Surrendering feels so much better than "giving up" or "moving on".
Would do you mean by surrendering?
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I think giving up, moving on, letting go, etc. are all different things but it kind of depends on what each one means to you personally.
I focus more on acceptance, allowing, and appreciation. Accepting that things are what they are and allowing it the space to be - knowing that change is inevitable - and allowing it to change. Accepting my own feelings about it, allowing myself to feel however I feel and allowing those feelings to change.
Accepting that other people make their own choices and accepting the choices that I've made. And allowing myself to keep making new choices and to choose differently when I feel like it.
And finding something to appreciate - rather than focusing on what seems bad or wrong about the situation - this can be really hard to do sometimes, but it really changes my perspective when I can do it. It can be anything - something big, something small, something unrelated to what is bothering me, or even appreciating that something upsetting came into my life for a reason and give me an opportunity to grow or learn something about myself.
Appreciation can make you feel better, but more so it shifts the energy and takes your attention off of what is "wrong" so it has the space to change and transform.
The times when it feels hard to appreciate anything, are usually when I'm not accepting things as they are, and/or not allowing my own natural feelings about the situation.
Sometimes when people talk about giving up or moving on - it sounds like it is coming from a place of NOT accepting how they really feel and trying to push themselves to get over something. I think when a person is ready to move on - whatever that means to them in their situation - they just DO it. It's not a big decision, it just happens naturally.
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I think giving up, moving on, letting go, etc. are all different things but it kind of depends on what each one means to you personally.
I focus more on acceptance, allowing, and appreciation. Accepting that things are what they are and allowing it the space to be - knowing that change is inevitable - and allowing it to change. Accepting my own feelings about it, allowing myself to feel however I feel and allowing those feelings to change.
Accepting that other people make their own choices and accepting the choices that I've made. And allowing myself to keep making new choices and to choose differently when I feel like it.
And finding something to appreciate - rather than focusing on what seems bad or wrong about the situation - this can be really hard to do sometimes, but it really changes my perspective when I can do it. It can be anything - something big, something small, something unrelated to what is bothering me, or even appreciating that something upsetting came into my life for a reason and give me an opportunity to grow or learn something about myself.
Appreciation can make you feel better, but more so it shifts the energy and takes your attention off of what is "wrong" so it has the space to change and transform.
The times when it feels hard to appreciate anything, are usually when I'm not accepting things as they are, and/or not allowing my own natural feelings about the situation.
Sometimes when people talk about giving up or moving on - it sounds like it is coming from a place of NOT accepting how they really feel and trying to push themselves to get over something. I think when a person is ready to move on - whatever that means to them in their situation - they just DO it. It's not a big decision, it just happens naturally.
AGREE :D
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Saw this and thought it might relate to the topic at hand
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Ok I juSt promised myself that I won't call any psychic for at least a week! Enough is enough. No more, he will but he is not ready etc. I feel like I wasted so much money and my life got narrowed to waiting for predictions .
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@Shooshi im a lil confused on what the book was saying.
So its not self-improvement?
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Ok I juSt promised myself that I won't call any psychic for at least a week! Enough is enough. No more, he will but he is not ready etc. I feel like I wasted so much money and my life got narrowed to waiting for predictions .
Yeah i think we've all felt that way at some point or another (and some of us still do probably). I don't trust any predictions made anymore. Take it with a grain of salt because most of the time the prediction just doesn't ever happen or the timing is so off that there's no point in ever getting a reading Anymore