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Metaphysical, Spiritual and Psychic Discussions => Storefront Psychics & Online Services => Topic started by: cj on April 29, 2011, 01:39:21 AM
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so guys I just spoke to Catarina and I had her do a medium reading for me and she was amazinggggggggggggggg! She picked up on how the person died! specific like breast cancer specific! and the cool thing was that it was my ex's gma (thx to kiki who seen her lol) and she was telling me not to give up and she said hes getting stronger and that we will get thorugh this together. And she told me her daughter (his mother) will see the changes in him and she will love me bc I will love him <----nothing could ruin my day...I like how I get the actual fam members to talk instead of guides because they are around just as much also...and they literally see a lot of stuff!
And the gma was a very important person in his life bc she helped raise him. I'm still in shock literally! I spoke to Jacq and Maryanne this week to connect with her and they gave me gebneral stuff..nio one told me how this woman died and specifically from what! Not just cancer but breastttt...f-ing A+ 8)
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I have also read with her and think she is a great empath.....predictions should be unfolding this month so of course i will update if she is right.
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I love Catarina's energy, and I feel like she is a great psychic, great empath - basically has it all going on. Ellen has brought together such a great crew. I feel very fortunate to have these people in my life.
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Have any of you tried Arlene?
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Yes, I read with Arlene and she is very gifted. She feels and sees things and then confirms them with cards.....she has been right on target with everything she's told me so far!!!
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Hey guys! I recently came across this forum and boy am i glad i did! This is where real testimonial happens! I've read with many of the favorite psychics mentioned in this forum and will update as predications/if any passes to help others out. After reading many of the posts here, i find that one psychic may be awesome with details but not so much for others. I guess it's all about the connection. I have yet to try Catarina but am booked with a reading with her. Has any of her predications pass at all?
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Can I just say that I love everyone in Ellen's site however this new guy Isaac is no bueno...I dont want to judge but he takes forever to connect and he's no good. He gets some stuff but he ask too many questions...ugh... ::) h's just no good guys dont waste your money lol
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Thanks for the feedback Cjean! That's too bad though....you got a bum reading!! :-\
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omgggg Angel it was like talking to my friend...there was nohing that made me feel like this was a psychic reading. He shouldnt ask me quest just tell me what you see..wth
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cjean - you were having too many good readings anyway. HA
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lmaooo...pt he was aweful. It was like getting a drink with a friend who just kept asking me questions..wtf..Im like "um when are you going to chime in with your super human powers?" ??? :o lmao
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LOL @ cjean
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LMAO Cjean!!!!
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Maybe he's still fairly new to this. I mean, i'm sure most of us who has read with Ellen trust that she is genuine and would not bring anyone fake on board on her site. My thought is to still with those who works for you and not to venture off again. I know it's VERY tempting....i had to block CP off my computer since they don't let you delete credit information online and it's a pain to deactivate the account.
Cocoa
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I agree with Cocoa.
I love Ellen, and I love Catarina. I don't think Ellen would pick someone to represent that wasn't good, or she hadn't had a good experience. I haven't read with him, so I cannot attest to his abilities, but maybe he couldn't pick up your energy.
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No Ellen gives young and coming psychics chances..thats what she is doing with him. It doesnt mean he's good. She's giving him an opportunity. Trust me guys he's not good. Its one thing not to pick up on my energy but where is my energy going/ Im on the phone with you..ITS RIGHT HERE! Im sorry but I dont agree with you ladies...Hes just not good...The end.
I do think that he is psychic but he needs more work. He shouldnt be charging $30 for being a rookie...thats the same rate as ellen and she beats him psychically in light years!
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Schooled by cj487! Hahah xox girl!!!
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lol. I feel bad giving him such a poor review but he literally took forever and he didnt answer not one question. He needs more practice and meditation. His thoughts are not quiet enough to pick up on much :-\ ..oh well....I'll still be reading with the rest of the lovelies on Ellen's site ;D *girls RULE! lol
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Do you think the readers come here? Some of them?
Hey, if you're a reader and you want an honest review - send me a message and I will let you read me and then write one.
Haha! This website is going to be the go to place for checking out psychics before you spend money! What an amazing resource.
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This website is AWESOME!!! thumbs up for putting it up!
I will only read with Ellen Hartwell and her crew now. As for CP, i'm done. I have all my notes from the readers that i read with and it'll take a couple months for those predications to come true (ie, jobs, moving in with bf, etc.) so i will update as i go along so i can help others like me, and us who wanders into the darkness and have that 'need' to call online psychics, they can make a better and informed choice as to who they read with and save others from spending thousands of dollars, tears, and heartaches.
Cocoa
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Ellen is the BEST. I think healer started it, or for that I am grateful! I never would have met Ellen and some of the lovely people on this site without it! I also know who is the best, who is consistent, and above all - who provides the truth!
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Hi all - Yes, sometimes psychics do come here. I'm sure it is just a matter of time before we get another note from someone.
Calling all psychics - come on out and join us!! We love to learn and you don't have to give us your real name etc.
xxoo
PT
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I was wondering if Ellen and Catarina kind of say the same thing to you as far as your situation? I totally agree with getting too many readings from too many different people...as I too have had those psychic rampages...example..Alison does not work on weekends..and it seems that all of my anxieties surface on the weekend...cuz I'm home alone and if I don't hear from "him" then I start getting crazy...and I start looking at CP and scanning the testimonials...and then I make a call to someone and it's aweful..and then maybe I try one more person and it totally contradicts what I've been told...and then I'm out of money....and I am so mad at myself for not waiting till Monday till I could talk to Alison...and so I don't do that anymore...I stick to Alison...once a week...I talked to William one time about 3 weeks ago...I liked him and what he had to say....I talked to Amy from PS about 3 weeks ago also...and I loved what she had to say....and then I called Ellen...and she told me that current guy isn't in love with me...probably won't fall in love with me...but that the new one coming at the end of summer will be "the one"...Well...it just shot me all to heck...cuz even though that should be awesome news about the new one...I want current guy...Sooooo...I was just wondering if Catarina's thoughts/predictions were a lot like Ellens for you in your particular case...thanks guys...tippy.
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"I was wondering if Ellen and Catarina kind of say the same thing to you as far as your situation? I totally agree with getting too many readings from too many different people..."
Hey Tippy,
Ironically, Catarina and Ellen said very very similar things in their readings that i had with them. I think Catarina talks to Ellen a lot. Now i have a problem though. I recently read with both of them (in the past month), and they both told me that my sm would not be contacting me since he knows i still want to talk to him? Ellen actually said he was trying to close things with me and not return to the past, and then Catarina said I was too available? But i havent talked to or seen him since November of last year and the last conversation we had was bad because i found out he was still keeping his gf (safety blanket) around while hanging out with me. So of course i went off on him and then he blocked my number.
NOW, here is where it gets interesting. This news that i got from Catarina and Ellen was depressing but i thought to myself okay if this is true i just need to try and move forward the best i can....so i went to confirm with my local reader who is amazing....and she said he is still crazy about me and wants to be with me but he is really scared about what his friends are going to think. (she said they are jealous and he would also look like a fool because he denied his feelings for me to them). anyways, i had asked if i should just let it go because i didnt think he cared anymore but she said that is wrong...THEN she started going into details about this bar that i am going to see him at on thursday!!!!!!!!! she knew exactly how it looked inside, the kind of music they play, and the two friends of his that were going to be with him. She said its up to you if you talk to him but when he sees you he is going to mouth to himself "holy s***"
I agree with not having many readings in a small timeframe but i was just going to see her so that i would get closure....but the one thing she said that Ellen and Catarina have predicted is this new guy im going to have a connection with. Both Ellen and my local reader said i will meet him this month. My local reader described him and even gave me his NAME. I was like are you sure about this????????
She is so amazing...she also knew i was going to the lake at the end of the month.
I will definitely update if i DO see him on thursday. At the very least, i want to see if she is right....but considering the fact that i saw him at this bar on cinco de mayo last year, the chances of us running into each other there again are very high.
For the people who have messaged me about my local readers....i think i only gave info out about Sherri Lynn who charges $40 for 30 minute readings....but this is the other local one.She charges $75 for a 30 minute reading but now you know why.
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I spoke to Catarina on Ellen's radio show and she knew nothing about my situation. Ellen didnt even read for me so when Catarina confirmed things that Ellen said it was coming directly from her...also...Catarina provided some different detaisl and the whole medium reading was confirmation enough that she is a psychic in her own right. Furthermore, Catarina didnt tell me about any new guy coming in where as ellen saw another possible option for me.
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csk - what is the name of the $75 one?
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Oh CSK...this is interesting...but right now the only question I have is your one local reader...the one that gives you all of this positive info...$75.00 for 30...who is she and can we call her?? Tippy xo
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Tippyrose,
The weekends are the worse and that's also when i go on a rampage. It is very scary how easy and simple to spend thousands of dollars and still NOT satisfy with what you hear. I have directed that addiction to this forum now so every time i got the urge, i come here and read everyone's comments. It gives me strength and also to reassure some of the readers i went to are good, i just need to be patient. Patient is the hardest for all of us i think.
I think Allison is good. She was honest with my situation. She could have said that I would resolve things with bf before he left for camping to make me happy but nope, she said i would have to wait till he comes back. Gail and Seha give similar time frames for me as well, 2-3 weeks till contact. Well, i haven't spoke with him since last friday and last time i saw him was wednesday. It will be close to the 2 weeks benchmark. Allison is good at that sorta stuff. The big stuff like moving in together, travel, jobs prospects for me and him have yet to come. We shall see.
Cocoa
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Hi CocoaApple,
This is fun isn't it...I am with you...I check in here several times a day...of course I am at work and when I start thinking...Oh I wonder what he is doing..or this or that...I think...what are the girls/guys sayiing on the forum...it has helped me tremendously...for several months I have scanned the net just looking for something like this...I am not computer savvy enough to start anything up like this myself...Thanks to the Healer....I just knew there had to be other people out there like me who were/are spending so much money at CP and other places and what were there comments...experiences...etc....so this is a dream come true...and I am so glad you love Alison too....I just plain out and out like her...and honestly I don't really know how "good" she is...because like I have said before I have been reading with her once a week...sometimes two...since I found her in October...and maybe she is getting the other person's feelings right..but I was supposed to end up with the last guy..and he left and I've never heard or seen from him ....and now she tells me the same thing about the current guy...how can that be? I don't know...if anything she gives me comfort. Ayyy! Tippy xo
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Hi CSK,
The problem is, when we start to trust certain readers, there's always that little voice that says 'no way, it's too good to be true!' so we keep asking for second and third opinions. If all the readers we regularly go to say the same thing and that there's a happy ending, then we think to ourselves, 'nope...it's too good to be true....' so we keep calling until we find that one psychic that will say 'i'm sorry that's not what i see.....' and vice versa. The result is that vicious cycle of calling again.....cuz you want to hear the good news to erase that sinking feeling from that last bad news reading you had and this goes on. You will only get more confused. I do. I read with most of the psyhics that were recommended on this board like Jean, Jacquline, Seha, Gail, Allison, London, Karmystic etc. as well as Lily and Stella and Ellen and Catarina Rose. The reason i kept calling was because all the CP readers said the same thing....and of course i get the odd ones like Darcy, Uriela and Jazie who paints my bf as a player that has sexual orientation issue when i complain to them that he goes out with guys friends more than he take me out on dates. Sooo...stick with what works for you!!
My question to all would be that if empath readers reads on people's energy, do you think it will mess up their accuracy if they read with us after we've gone to many psychics in a short amount of period? do you think the reason why the outcome may be the same for most psychics we read with because they pick up on the energy that the last reading left behind? Just a thought....tell me what you think?
Cocoa
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Cocoapple....from what I've researched on that topic....yes, psychics leave a residual energy behind from a reading. I'm no expert, but I found info stating that one reading can influence another reading. Also read something about it leaving "holes" behind? I have wondered if the 2nd psychic is giving us a similar reading because they are picking up the info from the previous psychic? I have wondered this as well....
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Keep us posted CSK...I'm just as anxious as I know you are about Thursday!!! Hope she's right!!!
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The local reader is saying that you will be with someone else, just like Catarina and Ellen? The local reader is just saying that you aren't completely done with your sm yet? Is this right?
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i was wondering about that too. London, Michelle and Nina said the same thing... so i am wondering too.
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EVERY reader says the same thing to me. So there's that. I also find when I call too close together the readings are scarily similar.
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Chances are we read with those readers right after another if not within close time frames. Perhaps that is why they all say the same thing? I don't know! This is getting more confusing now! I'm going cold turkey on these readings and putting more faith in Ellen and Catarina!
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Although i like London, her speed and confidence sometime i question....i mean it's good that she delivers information so quickly but is it accurate? Can psychics really am able to provide information that quickly right after the next call? I'm starting to have doubts....:(
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I had read to wait at least 24 hrs between readings...give it a try to see if it makes a difference?
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My plan is to wait a week between each one. Maybe two. I don't need the same reading over and over... I need to learn to be patient and see what happens.
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PLLiz - yeah, good point. When they are all telling you the same thing reading after reading, and nothing has changed, it is usually time to stop calling and use the $$ towards something fun like new clothes and wait for the predictions to happen.
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Precisely. Time for some new stuff!
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I should have done that a week ago.....then maybe I would still have money for new clothes lol. I am so broke.....i need to find a job asap....*sigh...
I should have gone to retail therapy instead...at least i add on to my wardrobe lol
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I've been shopping and calling psy every 2 wks...instead of e very wk..and only if something happens :P I have too much plans for the summer!
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That's awesome CJ! Keeping busy keeps our mind off certain things for sure! I'm keeping myself busy by hanging out with my girls! :)
Cocoa
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Im doing that too cocoa...Im having the best time. I literally go out at least 3 times a week...I remember when I couldnt move from the couch! :-[ Im actualy going out tom thur ans sat 8) lmaooooo...woot woot
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Good for you ladies!!!! :D
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Oooh AngelGuided, I remember those days where you just want to sleep all day cuz when you are awake, you feel so alone. This week i am going to be with my family till wednesday night, then i have a hair appointment on thursday and getting my driver's license, then friday i have an interview weeeee~~!!! And also speaking with another employer so i will survive till sunday >.<
we can do this yo! 8)
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YES! You can do this!!! ;)
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Hi everyone…sorry I only get to check the forum a couple times a day…..To people asking about my local reader….i will give her info out if I do see sm Thursday. I don’t want to give anyone guarantees or anything since not only can things change, but I have never actually had a phone reading with her, just in-person readings……so I will let everyone know on Friday.
--------“Oh CSK...this is interesting...but right now the only question I have is your one local reader...the one that gives you all of this positive info...$75.00 for 30...who is she and can we call her?? Tippy xo”
Be careful if you are looking to only hear positive things….she doesn’t always tell me “positive” things, she is pretty straightforward and honest. For example when I was in a state of anger towards my sm I was completely trying to forget about him and I found a guy I felt a smaller connection to so I went to see her and I asked her about him and she said “well you can text him but I don’t see anything more than friendship there” and she was right…..the guy is a total commitment -phobe and I couldn’t take that. I have also brought two of my friends to see her. One time my friend Nina asked if her grandpa had more than a year to live because he had cancer and she said “no im sorry, I feel the doctors are right, but I pray im wrong”---and he did just pass away (less than a year). My other friend went to see her and she told her she had an “M” on her heart. She was dating a guy named Zach at the time, and was asking about a guy named Jason…..but she told my friend that he was in love with someone else (and now he is engaged by the way) now she is dating a guy named Matt and I have a feeling they will get married.......
---------“The local reader is saying that you will be with someone else, just like Catarina and Ellen? The local reader is just saying that you aren't completely done with your sm yet? Is this right? “
Hi Angel….how is everything?? Do you have any updates?? Catarina had said I would have lots of choices, Ellen said sm would still run from his feelings and that I would have an even stronger connection with the new guy….and then my local reader is still saying “I see two choices” so this time I asked her if it was going to be between these two and she said yes. Sadly, she knows sm is insecure and will not chase after me. She thinks I will choose to be with the new guy because he is going to be completely in love with me AND he will come after me and want a commitment…..oh and she did say she saw my sm depressed after I choose the other guy…but only time will tell.
*By the way, i completely believe in divine intervention.
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CSK, I absolutely believe in divine intervention too! Time will tell...
I have no updates yet. I'm traveling and training for a new job this week, so I'm a little out of the loop, but I read with Stella last night at PS for the 1st time and I really liked her. Her reading is consistent with the other readings I've had, so we'll see what happens. It shouldn't be much longer to know if they're right. I'll keep you guys posted on what happens.
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Ok Angel - I have a few questions.
First - what new job?
Second - Did you read with Stella on furnace guy?
Third - What's up with your ex and his lovely girlfriend?
xxoo
pt
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Hi CSK...thanks for writing...Honestly...I personally don't need to see what happens this Thursday...because it sounds like this reader (the local one) is the BOMB! I mean, just reading the things that she's said that have been true is enough for me...like we all know no one is 100% but this lady sounds like she's batting a thousand...I would like her information anyway if you would be willing to give it out....I feel like this person has been more right on than anyone we've heard of yet...and by the way...I do hope Thursday works out for you trust me I think that would be awesome...and I know what you are saying about not hearing what I want to hear...believe me...after my love left me after 5 years of being together 11 months ago...I was in fetal position for months...I'm not kidding..and I can take the bad...and I know he is never coming back...doesn't take a psycic to tell me that he is anymore..I wish they or someone would have told me that 11 months ago when I started calling every one at CP...I would have been better by now...but now I have different questions..and I'd like to see if she sees a new man for me (the one as Ellen says) the end of summer..So...please please please if she will give out her info and do a phone reading I would be so thankful!!! Take care..Love, Tippy xo
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Sure thing PT! Sorry for the confusion...I've been posting on the other forum too....so I'm unsure of whether I've mentioned this before. I just started a new job as a sales associate selling furniture. I've been training this week, it's been pretty intense, but I'm learning alot. Toured a factory today to see how chairs are made.
Yes....I have read with Amy (twice now), Ricky, and Stella about furnace guy. I'll let you know if they're right...hopefully soon!!
I have no idea what's going on with my ex and his girlfriend? I haven't had a reading about him since February...I believe Catarina mentioned them in a reading I had in late March, but there really weren't any predictions. I haven't spoken to him since 2/22 and that's been very good! He drove by my house on 3/17 with her in the car, I saw them...but we said nothing to each other. He just recently started making contact with our daughter a few weeks ago. He just recently found out about new support order from court and I know he's not happy about that. I'm sure it's putting a crimp in their lives, but it's the way it should've been from the beginning. It'll be interesting to see how this all plays out!
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CSK - thinking of you today. xxoo
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Thanks angel. You seem to be doing great. What a difference a few month's can make. I never made it to the other board and I don't even know where the link is. I'm so busy I'm lucky I get to this one. xxoo pt
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Angel...what is the other forum?
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Someone has requested to join the other mystic hearts forum with the username crazyheart....is it anyone of you with a different name? There isn't anyone in the member list here with that username either. Thanks!
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okay everyone i have an UPDATE.
i did not see my sm on thursday like i was expecting, cynthia (my reader) described everything that night in detail except for the fact that i didnt see him. then i went back to my notes and she actually said i would see him before june, she didnt say i would see him that night, she just told me i would see him before june and she thought it was that bar. so of course i started doubting her a little bit but low and behold i saw him last night AT THAT BAR. we had a couple of mutual guy friends come in town and so they decided to go to that bar......incredible. we sat int he same circle outside with drinks, i could tell he was uncomfortable. i was trying to nonchalantly read him and i believe he feels guilty. he could barely even look at me. i kept my cool i dont know how i did it. i feel he is waiting for me to talk to him but how can i do that after everything that has happened? towards the end of the night i accidentally tipped our table a little bit and he gave me a weird look so of course i got defensive and i said umm thanks for that look ---like 5 minutes later he said goodbye to everyone and walked out!!!!! didnt say bye to me or my best friend. im so confused. so i went to see her again (not for a reading) today because she was selling special reading gift certificates for mothers day and i said why did he act like that? she said he doesnt know where you stand...but on my side im like "take a f'ing risk already"....on top of that she told me i would have to go after him a little bit and catarina and ellen gave me the exact opposite advice?????????-------soooo i dont know what is going to happen, i might have to call jean (CP) tomorrow and ask her what she thinks.....
im going to send cynthia an email just making sure its okay if i give out her info but im sure she wont care she loves getting business and having me refer people....
but, this is one of those detailed predictions that really happened. scary but awesome
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OMG CSK. You saw him. Jaw dropped on floor
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CSK - One thought. You know my motto - follow the advise of the psychic who had accurate predictions. For you, that would be Jean and the new one?? You are going to get 100 emails asking for her name and number. lol
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CSK- I am so happy you saw him and he saw you. Every time my sm and I stop talking to each other for whatever reason but Liam,Ellen, and others have told me that he needs to be "prodded" because he isn't as confident as I think and it is okay to send him an occassional email (I don't chase, just a hello) When I do eventually send a "hey, how are you" I get a response back and we end up picking up where we left off as if we just talked. I obviously don't know your situation fully but that advice has always helped me. Good Luck :)
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That is so GREATTTT CSK!!! Hope that run-in will open up a little?
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And also - Congratulations!!!! Awesome that you had a prediction happen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :) :) :) :)
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hi,
i made a purchase on ellen's hartwell web, do you know when i should get a phone call from her? thanks
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i dont know. i dont know if just seeing me will be enough for him to try and make a conversation with me through texts or any other communication.
he knows he what he did to me was wrong, about cheating on his gf and then saying i was the one who made things up so that he wouldnt look bad. it seriously is very selfish and immature and i wasnt about to be fake and put on a "so great to see you" face last night. i wasnt ignorant or anything but definitely distant. maybe if i would have been more friendly or smiled he would be more apt to come after me but at this point i just dont know. its sad to think i might not be with him but dont you guys think he needs to come after me and apologize? no matter how much i want to be with him or how much i care about him i just dont think i would be okay moving forward without a sincere apology and some reflection on his part of the past so that he realizes what he did. does anyone think its a good idea for me to call him and ask to talk to him in person? last time i checked he still had my cell phone number blocked so wouldnt that mean he doesnt want to talk to me? my local reader said it was so that i couldnt text mean things to him or go off on him about what he did.
koukou you should get a response from ellen right away. since its mothers day she might be out but she will get back to you shortly. if you do read with her you will have to let us know what you think....hope you have a good reading with her.
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CSK...finally..been thinking of you since Thurs. Wondering what happened. I just logged on and I see that you saw him...obviously Cynthia seems to have the best handle on your situation, not to mention all of the other things she has "seen" & predictions that have manifested...Anyway...these damn men...I am of the belief that he definately owes you an apology and some time alone to talk...I mean think about it...if the shoe was on the other foot, what would you do. I know that if I hurt someone especially the person that I love, I'm going to make things right, I'm not going to keep avoiding the discussion, I just couldn't live with myself...even if sdworse case scenario I didn't want to continue the relationship, I would at least get the cards and the truth on the table. it just amazes me that all of us gals are spending our hard earned money, our hearts are breaking, the stress on us from the worry regarding these men...when will we see him, when will he call...its crazy isn't it? As the beautiful women that we are...we should never have to worry one minute of our life away on these people...we should be made to feel happy, beautiful, loved & secure...we are worth it. I swear since I've been active in this forum, I haven't called a reader in almost two weeks...amazing for me, but I just am starting to think that in my case logic has taken over...this guy just isn't going to change, he isn't going to be the one that calls every day, or puts mye in a position of great importance to him...and its almost silly for me to believe all of these psychics that tell me...oh, he is falling in love with you...he just said to me the other ni
ght, "what is love anyway"?...he told me he's never loved...doesn't know how. This man is broken frm his childhood...lots of abuse...& if I think he's going to change for me, I'm crazy...he is who he is, & as. Much as I feel like I'm in love w him, he's probably getting rady to move on to the next victem...I feel it and I hate it. Sorry for the tangent & the typing...I'm typing from my cell. Anyway, CSK, just want you to be happy, you might have to initiate contact, as much as you don't want to & I totally understand that..TRUST ME...but...maybe it will help either repair the relationship, or go ur own way ...anything is better than worrying & waiting. Everyone take care. Love, tippy xo
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Thanks CSk,
I did get a reading from ellen hartwell, she is amazing, she told me that i will find a new job towards end of may or early june, i will see.
she also told me that i will be meeting a new guy this summer and he will be introduced to me.
She nailed the fact that my mom has high blood pressure and bloold sugar ( how could she know that?)
Anyways, her predictions are the same as the local native american psychic i see here in seattle. She also gave me 3 more minutes in my reading
I will get back to you guys about the outcome.
Happy mother's day for all mothers.
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CSK - I'm not sure if any of us are in the best position to give you advise. We are all in our own mess for different reasons and bring different life experiences to the table.
My only thought when reading your post was this - At some point we have to decide if we are willing to set aside our pride (and anger?) to see if there is anything left of the relationship. Sometimes we have to be the mature one because the other person isn't capable. That doesn't make it right, nor does it mean you need to take action. It just is what it is - they are who they are - etc.
xxoo
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I hope all the moms had a fabulous Mother's Day! ;D
CSK - Wow. Cool that the prediction happened. Not cool that it's causing you all this stress. Did you talk to Jean? What did she say?
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tippyrose........
you are so right about these immature men who do not see the damage they have caused in the relationship are definitely on the move to the next victim.
It is not easy for men to apologize usually, but if he is not demonstrating regret in some other way and does not acknowledge the hurt caused then a woman needs to protect herself emotionally from cheater. Like they say it is not how you fight but how you make up after that.
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well let me just say that an apology always feels good for me. And without it it always feels like you'll be stuck there
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Interesting..
http://lifestyle.ca.msn.com/love-sex-relationships/hearst-article.aspx?cp-documentid=28207591
The Biological Reason Why Breaking Up is So Hard
They wrote:
"Attachment doesn't understand [that a romance can be] short run. In fact, attachment is a very powerful force — not just mentally and emotionally but physically, too. When you attach to someone, you're not as in control as you think. Therefore, it's not so easy to just break it off when you realize that someone isn't meeting your needs. People then stay for months or even years in an unhappy relationship — and it can take ages to get over a bad one."
None of that sounded too terribly surprising to me ... except for that bit about how attachment can be physically powerful. ..
As such, the authors told me, "Our brain has been wired to make sure we remain connected to our mate." Multiple "reward circuits" in our noggins are involved in the attachment process, they said. "When we are physically close to our partner, the whole reward system kicks in — so that, for example, some parts of it secrete powerfully rewarding neurotransmitters that make being close to our loved ones an immensely rewarding human experience," they continued. "When we break up, this gratifying experience is gone, only to be replaced by a painful sense of loss. It feels a bit like going through withdrawal from several drugs all at once. And the one thing that can take all that pain away is being together with our ex again. This is why people find themselves getting back together again and again and why they can feel addicted to a person who may not be very good for them. In fact, these reward systems have a way of tricking us into reuniting with our ex to reduce the momentary anxiety and uneasiness. Unfortunately, this part of the brain isn't so good at making rational decisions and judging long-term consequences."
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"well let me just say that an apology always feels good for me. And without it it always feels like you'll be stuck there"
exactly how i feel....
ps-great post Kareena
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okay everyone her info is posted :) i made a separate forum post for her under storefront psychics.
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kiki tomorrow is the only day besides friday that i will have some free time so i will be talking to jean and also i had to re-schedule with the tarot lady so i decided since i dont have to work until the latter part of the day i might as well get my reading with her. after that im done for the month...since ive had some conflicting advice, i decided to go ahead and break my rule of two readers per month (just for may) because of course i dont know whats going on! thanks everyone for the thoughts i am thinking of you guys too and wish everyone the best.
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Wow I am glad that it worked for you!
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Just wanted to confirm a mini prediction Catarina got right for me.
During our last reading, she asked if my ex decided to take a short, unplanned trip. I said maybe, because I really wasn't sure. She said she felt like he had taken, or was taking a short trip, which is why he was preoccupied, etc.
Well, I just saw on a mutual friend's Facebook that he did in fact go on a short trip down south. Just for a night (tonight) or two (maybe last night as well, as I know the mutual friend did) - but he definitely is about an hour away partying with his friends for the night.
Pretty awesome of her, since it's midweek and we are adults and all who do not necessarily have the luxury of random trips.
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Oh, PS, this was yesterday that she said this. So yay for Catarina Rose. Love her and she is an excellent psychic!
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Which site is Catarina Rose on?
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Ellen Hartwell's
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Okay I didnt know I dont think I have heard of her!
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Catarina has only gotten one thing right so far for me....she was wrong in that i wouldnt hear from or see sm in the month of may....
she said "i told you that you had to stay away in our last reading now he wont contact you for months"- (plural)
umm...too bad he is already texting me all the time now and we are spending time together?
Ellen ALSO got that totally wrong........Cynthia Faye kept telling me to send him messages every once in a while (direct opposite advice of Catarinas, so that he would know i still want him and not get insecure. Five stars for Cynthia, her advice worked and she also knew i would see him in May.
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It just goes to show you that some people's energies are picked up differently by psychics. Cynthia said I would hear from my ex in 2 months, the next week I heard from him. Both Catarina and Ellen told me I'd hear from him the month of May. So strange how things can be interpretted differently.
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Have you heard from him cocoapple? since your birthday?
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No Sammie, i'm still waiting on EVERYONE's predictions lol. I'm starting to lose hope.....but then again this period i've been reflecting on what happened and i'm not too sure if i want him back anymore~ The more i think about it the more i'm angry about it so that's not a good sign lol.
I shall report back if ANYTHING happens....
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Okay I am sure everything will be fine. :) I know what you mean to lose paitence dear I am losing it as well :(
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yeah bjr....i dont know. are you sure cynthia didnt say "within 2 months"? maybe she is just incredible with in-person readings but just okay with phone readings, i am not sure. while on the subject of phone readers i must say i found the tarot lady to be quite accurate so far. i will have to see about her other predictions but so far i feel she was great.
ellen and catarina said very similar things to me, they are nice people...just pretty wrong about what was going to happen.
ellen was more accurate in saying that he would do a push pull thing and EXTREMELY accurate about him being a person that lets his head rule rather than his heart. that makes a great empath, but everyone wants accurate predictions!
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I also spoke to Catarina and was totally shock with her reading.I mean she said exactly what ellen said.But with ellen i had to give her very little info to get a bigger picture but with catarina she didn't need any info.To be very honest at one point in the reading I got so frustrated that I even asked her if she shared any info with her other associate.I know in a way it was rude but I just had to ask her that.Anyways what do you folks think?ALso overall all I prefer Ellen over catarina.
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catarina and ellen basically told me the same thing too.....very similar in their readings.
they were both wrong about me not being in contact with my sm...its actually been the opposite i was with him almost all weekend (mostly with mutual friends) and i even spent the night at his house. who knows maybe i wont end up with him but i do remember ellen specifically telling me he "made up his mind he isnt coming back" and "i dont see you two together"she just said he would maybe resurface and thats it. catarina said "i told you not to contact him now he wont contact you for months"--that was realllllly off....however i do think they both make good empaths as far as "seeing people" or picking up on their feelings. im not sure about their predictions....
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Has anybodys predictions from Catarina come to pass? Short or long term?
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I've had twice seen readings with Ellen and Catarina Rose, and it was amazing! They nailed my whole situation to a T, I didn't have to give them any information and they just gave me all the information about my sm, his personality, his wifes etc. They both actually used the same words that he does, which blew me away. They also said I have a bad Irish temper, I never told them I was part Irish. They validated what I thought about him and I was letting other peoples ideas put negative thoughts in my head and push away. They advised to be patient and give him space, that we'd be together, and things would change in the fall. I didn't think I had the strength to back off but it's like a switch was flipped and the dynamics changed. I feel that I have more confidence myself and the relationship.
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Hi all.
Just an update on Catarina.
I had a reading in june I think regarding my situation. She said my ex would come back this whole but not until aug. After my reading she said to stay in contact. About4 weeks ago I emailed her and told her I still hadnt heard from my ex. She told me to hang in there the hardest part is the waiting. I told her I definitely will &contact her when something happens. Well as some may have saw there was a develop with my ex and I emailed her and told her the bad news....needless to she I haven't heard from her....this was last Tuesday. Last time I emailed she got back to me same day..this time not so much. Very disappointing ...but that seems to be the theme with these "psychics" these days...
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Well...just got a email from her...lol. Wonder if she read my post..hmmm...anyway, she replied back so that's all that matters.
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Now that I think about it, based on her reply to me in her email, she had to read this forum. That's disappointing because I really liked her and thought she was the real deal plus this is where we get together and vent our frustrations and even though it's a free country, this makes me think that Ellen's crew can easily get information from us about our situations so when we call they can tell us what we want to here.
I spoke with her before I joined this forum or at least before I posted anything so I guess my reading could had been genuine..but still....this is so sneaky and makes me go back to my belief that these psychics are scam artist. If these psychics were real, they wouldn't have to read a forum on what we say. There is always going to be positive and negative things said because that's life! That's what it's all about, not everyone is going to like you. Plus I got a PM stating that they know for a fact that Ellen's crew reads these postings and refuse to talk to those who say predictions didn't come to pass...tsk tsk tsk! All I can do is SMH. But like I said in another post, those who do scam us will go to hell with gasoline panties on lol. Karma is a bitch waiting to bite us in the ass! hahahaha
This is why I am no longer doing readings..can't tell the real from the fake.
I will definitely update everyone on this thread about what happens with my prediction....She said Aug...so 2 more weeks to go. She did say that her timelines aren't always on pt, so Ill give it a few wks after the end of Aug I guess...we'll see.
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Besides the psychics on Ellen's site, do we suspect that any other psychics are reading our posts?
I was thinking about getting a reading from Ellen's site but now I'm glad I didn't.
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LLL - That to me is unethical regarding a psychic reading this forum and then providing you with an email response. That would also make me seriously question the entire reading.
The psychics on CP would never in a million years be able to figure out who is who. So I guess that is a benefit to calling them. I'm not sure William has any clue who I am when I call but after a few minutes into the reading I think he starts to remember.
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I too thinks that CPs may not read our forums and even if they did, they wouldn't be able to tell who is who considering the call volume they get unless you're one of those who calls religiously everyday.
I'm super disappointed at that kind of behavior. However, i'm also grateful for this forum because of the HONEST testimonials that we give each other. It is a LOT healthier to get through our ordeals then spending loads of money to get the same stories fed to us.
Like you said LLL, those who are unethical who uses our weakness and take advantage of our situations will have karma biting their asses~! >:(
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Vancyt: As of now I don't think anybody else reads these forums...maybe Keen people and I only say that because one person on this forum I feel might be a Keen reader.....based on a convo we had and stuff..but I'm not 100% sure so I never said anything
PT & CoCo: Yes very unethical! Who does that?! lol. If you are a true psychic then you wouldn't have to read a forum of what others say...smh. Disappointing and this is why I'm no longer calling psychics...until something comes to pass but if the past is an idea of what the future brings, none of them will come to pass :-/...that's why I'm just starting to give up :(
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I have already made a few comments before in regards to my readings with catarina and ellen....but i just wanted to re-iterate since it is now august and almost september....
i read with catarina twice. the first time i felt like she definitely was picking up on some energy especially my own. she said she saw me dating around and told me i would never have to worry about not having someone (i was talking to a few different guys). she also told me my guy and this other girl would officially end in april and thats what happened. end of april. now everything else she said in her reading i really cant be sure of, and she told me i wouldnt hear from him anytime soon (back in april or may)...she said i told you not to contact him now he wont contact you for months. well, he did contact me in may. several times...and never really has stopped.
ellen, oh, ellen. the first time i read with her was maybe the only time i felt she was accurate. she picked up on my depression and knew that there was someone i was involved with who was dating someone else....but she said the relationship was "superficial" and that the feelings didnt run deep, she described this other girl as his life preserver and said this other girl was manipulative and dependent (this was all true)....but then in future readings, everything she said did not happen. she told me that i would not be in contact with this guy and that the connection scared him and he would just run away again. well, he still is in constant contact. she told me i would meet someone else who i was meant to be with and gave a full-on description but i still have yet to meet this person (she kept pushing the timeline back)....and finally, after i asked her in my readings when i would find a new job...she kept telling me i would have a new job by february, then by may, then by july...but i just now got a new position and its august. it just felt like she was throwing months out.
i also asked both of them about my cousins pregnancy earlier this year. when i asked ellen what my cousin was having she said "its too early to tell" ...and then when i asked catarina she said "it feels like twins"...okay...well, my cousin actually had a miscarriage and neither of them saw that. they are nice ladies but i dont feel they are as accurate as people think.
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CSK: Thanks for sharing your story.
I spoke with Ellen on Keen and she pushed my timeline out twice so I havne't read with her since.
As for Catarina, I really like her :( She was so nice and bubbly when I spoke with her. I can't remember the reading word for word as I was driving so couldn't write it down but she saw my ex's gf now being manipulative and not a good match. She told me that my ex was still checking up on me and did I know that. I told her no but his friend kept trying to take me out on a date and add me on fb...he never wanted my # just my fb lol...weird! So I thought okay she knows what she's talking about. She mentioned I probably wouldn't get contact until Aug. It's still Aug so I can't say for sure what's going to happen but from me and his last convo, I don't know if it will happen.
In her email, she was stating she "thinks" I will have another chance and talk to him...not as confident as in her reading by saying she thinks BUT of course we are talking through email so she can't pick up energy so I'll give her the benefit of the doubt on that one. Again she said Aug, and it's 2 wks left so we'll see....
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Any updates on this?