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Relationship Psychology Discussions => My Story => Topic started by: TimeHeals on June 13, 2013, 04:38:32 PM
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I hope this message finds you all well. I;ve been away from here for a while, and this is my last post.
I just wanted to post a message to everyone here about putting your faith in psychics. This, as many of you have found out, is not a good thing. I used to do the same, but not ever again will I make that mistake. I put my faith only in the Lord. Every single time I left all my troubles, burdens, wants, worries, etc. in the Lord's hands, He made things right.
Some veteran members here know I am into manifesting, but not in the way it is taught by certain books like the Secret. I manifest things by going NOT to the 'universe', but to God himself. My creator. Do I get all that I want?? No. Have I gotten many things that were much, much better for me? YES. In every single aspect of my life, when I was able to 'let go, let God', things have always worked out. Always. He has blessed me so much, and I am so eternally, forever grateful and thankful. I give Him the praise, the glory, and thanks for all things, for NOTHING is impossible thru Him. This is the message I want to get across. For those of you struggling with whatever is going on your life, I urge you to put it in God's hands to take care of, and He will. He does not lie. He knows what we need and He delivers.
Do I still believe in psychics? Yes. HOWEVER - they are not God, they are not allowed to see all, only glimses of things. Even then, they often times misconstrue what they 'see'. But, I will never call on a psychic again. My faith, my truth, my TRUST will only be in God, now & forever. I've been going through a serious health issue for the last several months. I;ve seen many doctors, specialists in their fields, and have gone through various treatments, and really, nothing seemed to help and I just wanted to die. Surgery was suggested many times, but this surgery is 50-50, and would have undoubtedly left me no better, with the huge potential for further complications years from now. I am not an old person, and I could not see myself living in such pain & misery the rest of my life. I really just felt like dying. Seriously. So, I did the only thing I knew would work - I prayed. Every.Single.Day. For months.
I prayed for healing. I was praying for a miracle. As I type this, I can honestly say I am 80% improved, and I know I will be 100% very shortly - I have THAT much faith - I don't just 'think' its going to happen, I KNOW it. I've come so far, you have no idea. I know God will not ever let me down, never forsake me. His words are true. NOBODY thought I would improve or heal in the way I've been, but here I am. And I thank God, and give him thanks, praise - I owe Him my life, and all that I have. I thank Him for the miracles He made happen for me. There is no other explanation.
I could go on and on, but time and space do not allow for it. I just wish to lead others to Him - whom ALL things are possible. It is true. Just please give Him a chance - throw up all your troubles, burdens, deisres, etc. to Him, and you will always get what you need - what is best for YOU. I promise. Just give Him a chance to work in your life. I know its hard, because we want to control everything, want to know whats around the corner. But patience pays off. Believe me, I know its hard to 'let go'. God works in His own time, but it is so worth it.
I hope this message gets a lot of people thinking and re-evaluating. Psychics are not and never were 'the answer'. Think about all the disappointments and failures of your psychic reads. Putting your faith where it does not belong works against us. I am guilty of this in the past. I now only trust God's words. And I wait. And then blessings come to me. Always. He never fails. Amen.
Peace & well wishes to all.
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Thank you for this post Waterhouse. I 100% agree with you! I too am ready to let go and let God. Everything has been a roller coaster and unnecessary stress and hurt worrying about the wrong things. I've learned that when you are frustrated and depressed its just us that have moved away from the most important.. God. Thank you again, I needed this today!
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ok, ok.........I know I said in my last post, that it was my last post.........but after reading this comment.........I had to post again because I am THRILLED THAT I WAS ABLE TO 'TOUCH' SOMEONE!! I hope my message touches many, but at least I know now I;ve touched at least one person!!!!! I made a promise to God that I would post my testimony, right here on this forum, and try to lead others to Him, and I needed to fulfill that promise in thanksgiving and praise for all He has done for me. He gave me my life back - a healing miracle. I am truly blessed and what others to receive blessings from Him as well. :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)
God bless you, psychicgirlie!! You made my day, too!! :) :) :) :)
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Thank you for this!!! You are saying what I've been thinking for a while now. I quit calling psychics a couple months ago. But I had to be ready to let go of the situation first, and I have. Sort of. I still want him terribly, and hearing/seeing anything about him affects me in ways I never knew were possible (but I could say that about every aspect of our relationship). He's very much a part of me. But I don't need a psychic to tell me what's going on anymore. Only half of them get any of that right, and predictions..well, they suck. The ones that matter don't manifest, and I really don't need to know that I'll smell his cologne or see something that reminds me of him. I need answers to the final outcome. Actually, I don't "need" but you know what I mean.
So you guys really need to quit wasting your money. Seriously.
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I hope this message finds you all well. I;ve been away from here for a while, and this is my last post.
I just wanted to post a message to everyone here about putting your faith in psychics. This, as many of you have found out, is not a good thing. I used to do the same, but not ever again will I make that mistake. I put my faith only in the Lord. Every single time I left all my troubles, burdens, wants, worries, etc. in the Lord's hands, He made things right.
Some veteran members here know I am into manifesting, but not in the way it is taught by certain books like the Secret. I manifest things by going NOT to the 'universe', but to God himself. My creator. Do I get all that I want?? No. Have I gotten many things that were much, much better for me? YES. In every single aspect of my life, when I was able to 'let go, let God', things have always worked out. Always. He has blessed me so much, and I am so eternally, forever grateful and thankful. I give Him the praise, the glory, and thanks for all things, for NOTHING is impossible thru Him. This is the message I want to get across. For those of you struggling with whatever is going on your life, I urge you to put it in God's hands to take care of, and He will. He does not lie. He knows what we need and He delivers.
Do I still believe in psychics? Yes. HOWEVER - they are not God, they are not allowed to see all, only glimses of things. Even then, they often times misconstrue what they 'see'. But, I will never call on a psychic again. My faith, my truth, my TRUST will only be in God, now & forever. I've been going through a serious health issue for the last several months. I;ve seen many doctors, specialists in their fields, and have gone through various treatments, and really, nothing seemed to help and I just wanted to die. Surgery was suggested many times, but this surgery is 50-50, and would have undoubtedly left me no better, with the huge potential for further complications years from now. I am not an old person, and I could not see myself living in such pain & misery the rest of my life. I really just felt like dying. Seriously. So, I did the only thing I knew would work - I prayed. Every.Single.Day. For months.
I prayed for healing. I was praying for a miracle. As I type this, I can honestly say I am 80% improved, and I know I will be 100% very shortly - I have THAT much faith - I don't just 'think' its going to happen, I KNOW it. I've come so far, you have no idea. I know God will not ever let me down, never forsake me. His words are true. NOBODY thought I would improve or heal in the way I've been, but here I am. And I thank God, and give him thanks, praise - I owe Him my life, and all that I have. I thank Him for the miracles He made happen for me. There is no other explanation.
I could go on and on, but time and space do not allow for it. I just wish to lead others to Him - whom ALL things are possible. It is true. Just please give Him a chance - throw up all your troubles, burdens, deisres, etc. to Him, and you will always get what you need - what is best for YOU. I promise. Just give Him a chance to work in your life. I know its hard, because we want to control everything, want to know whats around the corner. But patience pays off. Believe me, I know its hard to 'let go'. God works in His own time, but it is so worth it.
I hope this message gets a lot of people thinking and re-evaluating. Psychics are not and never were 'the answer'. Think about all the disappointments and failures of your psychic reads. Putting your faith where it does not belong works against us. I am guilty of this in the past. I now only trust God's words. And I wait. And then blessings come to me. Always. He never fails. Amen.
Peace & well wishes to all.
Godspeed Waterhouse/timeheals. Best wishes on the road to full recovery!
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Time Heals
This is so incredible. Thank you so very much for sharing this. I haven't gotten a psychic reading for close to a year now, and I feel I have gotten my life back. This heaviness that has been on my chest has not totally lifted, but it's not as heavy as it was when I was relying on psychics to lift it off. I have spoken to a few wonderful psychics who helped partially, but not one of them had all the answers all of the time. And I have spoken to others that have taken me down the garden path, reversing all my good work. Now, I see, for me anyway, only time heals. ha ha .. wonderful name too!
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I am not a religious person so for those of us that have different beliefs I will say this: PUT YOUR FAITH IN YOURSELF AND TRUST YOUR GUT INSTINCTS. After a going through this last bout of heartache with psychic readings it has become abundantly clear that they know nothing of any real consequence, at least for me and in my experience. NOTHING manifested as I was told. Even the negative readers were "right" for the wrong reasons. If I ever get a reading again it will truly be for entertainment purposes only. ;D
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I am not a religious person so for those of us that have different beliefs I will say this: PUT YOUR FAITH IN YOURSELF AND TRUST YOUR GUT INSTINCTS. After a going through this last bout of heartache with psychic readings it has become abundantly clear that they know nothing of any real consequence, at least for me and in my experience. NOTHING manifested as I was told. Even the negative readers were "right" for the wrong reasons. If I ever get a reading again it will truly be for entertainment purposes only. ;D
Not to veer off topic, but I honestly think some readers are intentionally negative, especially with ex's, so that if they get it right, people think, "Oh they were honest with me! They were the only ones!" Chances are, 75% or more of us are not getting back with exes. It's the safest bet to say no!
They all want us to keep calling. Some spin fairy tales so that we'll call back to get updates or to ask, "Why didn't they call like you said they would?" Others, IMO, are negative so they are deemed "the honest ones" and you'll trust them and keep calling..
It's an endless cycle of desperation and anxiety.
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I am not a religious person so for those of us that have different beliefs I will say this: PUT YOUR FAITH IN YOURSELF AND TRUST YOUR GUT INSTINCTS. After a going through this last bout of heartache with psychic readings it has become abundantly clear that they know nothing of any real consequence, at least for me and in my experience. NOTHING manifested as I was told. Even the negative readers were "right" for the wrong reasons. If I ever get a reading again it will truly be for entertainment purposes only. ;D
Not to veer off topic, but I honestly think some readers are intentionally negative, especially with ex's, so that if they get it right, people think, "Oh they were honest with me! They were the only ones!" Chances are, 75% or more of us are not getting back with exes. It's the safest bet to say no!
They all want us to keep calling. Some spin fairy tales so that we'll call back to get updates or to ask, "Why didn't they call like you said they would?" Others, IMO, are negative so they are deemed "the honest ones" and you'll trust them and keep calling..
It's an endless cycle of desperation and anxiety.
I think that is a very good theory. I haven't had many that said "no" but a few have. I don't call them back because what they told me is not what I believe nor desire. I like the calls that back-up what it is I believe in.
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Yeah, I tend to believe ones who can back it up. But I think some say "no" to almost everybody and aren't even trying to connect to the situation, only because "no" is the safest answer to "Am I getting back together with my ex?" So you'll say, "Oh, she was the only honest one!" When in reality, they were ALL guessing. I think the same of them as those who spin fairy tales without really knowing. Both want the same thing - for you and me to keep calling back. They just go about it a different way.
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I just wanted to write this post because it has been on my mind for a while and I am glad that someone started this topic. As most of you know I have read with everyone over the course of a few years, some have got details of things that happened to me (past), but nothing has happened like I was told it would. Time lines have come and gone and still nothing, as a matter of fact my case is not filed away and it looks like it will not be resolved anytime soon if ever. I was told shortly before I had health issues that the leads have dried up, the anxiety and stress took over and my heart failed. Not one reader saw this coming, as a matter of fact they all had wonderful predictions for me this year....marriage (LOL I will never do that again), my career taking shape again, my case being solved, and many other things. I have spent the past 6 months in and out of the hospital, mulitple surgeries, and a hospital crash cart implanted in my chest, NO ONE saw anything close to what my life has been. Something this significant should have at least been seen, I would have been happy is someone would have said "oh I see a visit to the ER" LOL, sad to say nothing. I am in a position now that I will not and can not have a reading, and yes that means ever!
I have to say that the disappointment and financial drain that readings cause all of us in not worth the good night sleep that one will gain, in the end the issue at hand still exist and the disappointment and frustrations can and will be large.
I speak from many years of experience when I say the information we gather from readings usually turns to be nothing like what is really going on, in fact it seems that it is the complete opposite of what really happens. I have said this so many times and now I believe what I say....if a prediction happens it is a lucky guess. I have a lot of time on my hands laying here in this bed reading and out of all the members here only a handful have had small predictions happen, nothing major. I am sad when I see members so down that they can not see a way out and feel the only choice for them is to give up. I know I have praised a few readers because at the time they were giving me correct information of things that happened, but sadly nothing they "saw" coming came.
I pray that everything you all wish for comes true, but be realistic and prepare yourself for what comes anyway. Now that my days of hiding on the phone getting readings are over, I will be putting together my super long list of every damn reader on Keen that is and was wrong for me. I know I will probably be slammed for slamming someones favorite but hey I will give my experience with each of them. I hope that someone will take something from my experience, and the experience of many of us here and save your money for a trip, new car, new house, or a trip to the casino....instead of paying for these things for a stranger that does not care about you once you hang up the phone. Synergy posted long ago that these psychics are NOT your friends and trust me after all the things I have paid for, for them, they should be my BFF's!!
Psychic readings can be very dangerous especially if you believe that because 50 of them are telling you the same thing...it will be. Please remember the disclaimer they ALL use: "For entertainment purposes only"! I dont know about you but there was nothing entertaining about what I went through, there was nothing entertaining about having a crash cart implanted in my chest...and yes, I feel that my heart stopped because I could not take anymore stress, disappointment, or pain.
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Amen! EXCELLENT post, kicking!! Thanks for sharing your experience as someone who has certainly been through it and lived to tell the story. Glad you're on the mend :-*
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Thank you Lioness for you support and most of all for keeping me sane during the dark hours, you will never know how much you mean to me! I worry every time I see someone new come to the forum searching for a reader that is right, you and I witnessed a very troubled member crying out in despair.
Thank you Lion for being such a great support for me and for others here!
Amen! EXCELLENT post, kicking!! Thanks for sharing your experience as someone who has certainly been through it and lived to tell the story. Glad you're on the mend :-*
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Awww, you're so welcome, Kicking. There's really no need to thank me; I'm happy to be there for you and others on here, just as you've been there for me. We are all in this together. Thank you for sharing your story as a cautionary tale to others.
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I speak from many years of experience when I say the information we gather from readings usually turns to be nothing like what is really going on, in fact it seems that it is the complete opposite of what really happens.
First let me say I hope things pick up for you, KTH.
But I have to agree wholeheartedly - it appears as if the readings have nothing to do with reality. It's like getting a hit, and then dealing with the comedown. Also, you are right they almost never pick up anything bad.
If anyone is addicted to readings, the good news is that eventually when enough readers turn out to be wrong, you finally see through the looking glass and realize they aren't all powerful and all knowing. It takes a lot of calls to reach this epiphany, but once you do, it's just not worth it to call anymore.
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Thank you Skyline! I am on my way!
Since I have a lot of time on my hands right now and i can no longer get readings, I am going to start watching soap operas LOL. It is like getting a reading, the drama, excitement and fantasy fairytale...and its free. Just a suggestion, write down the story line and then apply it to your situation...lets see how this works! lol
I speak from many years of experience when I say the information we gather from readings usually turns to be nothing like what is really going on, in fact it seems that it is the complete opposite of what really happens.
First let me say I hope things pick up for you, KTH.
But I have to agree wholeheartedly - it appears as if the readings have nothing to do with reality. It's like getting a hit, and then dealing with the comedown. Also, you are right they almost never pick up anything bad.
If anyone is addicted to readings, the good news is that eventually when enough readers turn out to be wrong, you finally see through the looking glass and realize they aren't all powerful and all knowing. It takes a lot of calls to reach this epiphany, but once you do, it's just not worth it to call anymore.
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Sometimes I wonder if the constant calling of psychics doesn't piss off God. lol What I mean is, if you believe in God or Universe, it appears you don't trust them. How often do you hear:
"I put all my faith in psychics and everything worked out wonderfully!"
or is it more likely:
"I put all my faith in God/Universe/Source/Myself and everything worked out wonderfully!"
:)
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@timeheals ur healing may not be 100 percent but it will be enough that u live a life glorifying God.sometimes u will fear that it is coming back full force but it will not. It will remain just a tinge so that you never forget where God took from. You must never forget.never abandon God.I know many people will wonder why am answering your post like this but you know what am talking about.good luck to you and never ever stop praying. Peace and love to you always.
Jen
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Sometimes I wonder if the constant calling of psychics doesn't piss off God. lol What I mean is, if you believe in God or Universe, it appears you don't trust them. How often do you hear:
"I put all my faith in psychics and everything worked out wonderfully!"
or is it more likely:
"I put all my faith in God/Universe/Source/Myself and everything worked out wonderfully!"
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I think it does make God angry. I too amglad about this thread. When reading through teh newspaper I kept seeing a prayr. I decided what the heck, why not try it, got nothin to lose. So i did and i am amazed at what has so far transpired. I type it her for y'all. It made a believer out of me. I prayed about a few things and in 3 days some of those things happend when i tought for sure no way, but they did! Just try it like i did cause you have nothing to lose and it says it never been knowned to fail,
Prayer to the Blessed Virgin
Oh most beautifl Fower of Mt. Carmel, Fruitul Vine, Splendor of Heaven, Blessed Mother of the Son of God, Immaculate Virgin, assist me in my present necessity. Oh Star of the Sea, help me now and show me herein you are my mother. Oh Holy Mother of God, Queen of Heaven and Earth I humbly beseech you from the bottom of my heart to succor me in this necessity. There are none woh can withstand Your power. Oh, show me herein you are my Mother. Oh Mary conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse in Thee (3 times). Holy Mother, I place this cause in your hands (3 times & say your cause). Holy Spirit, You solve all problems, who light all roads so that I may obtain my goals. You who gave me the divine gift to forgive and forget all evil against me and that in all instances in my life you are with me. I want in this short prayer to thank you forall things as you confirm once again that I never want to be seperated from You in eternal glory. Thank you for Your mercy towards me and mine.
Pray this for 3 days in a row. Aftr 3 days the request will be granted and you have to promise to publish this prayer after favor is granted.
it worked for me as i prayed about several famlily issues so I post it here for y'all to try - you have nothing to lose but a lot to gain.
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Thank you for posting that prayer. I'm one of those "it can't hurt to try" people, so I've read it the last two nights in a row, then let it go. No obsessing. My prayer is in regards to my SM. I haven't seen him in 9 months and we rarely speak. Did the prayer the last two nights, and the last two nights, I dreamed of our reunion. He's telling me how much he's missed me and that he just has a few things to wrap up but that he promises we'll be together.
I have not dreamed about him in months, and it is crazy how real the dreams were. The things he said were things that he WOULD say, not crazy dream stuff.
This is nuts. LOL
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Paying it forward....I prayed this prayer, timeheals shared this with us last year too, and my prayer was answered! It was not something that anyone could say would have happened without this prayer. I hope it helps someone else the way it did me. I know not everyone here believes in a higher power such as this, so if not I am not posting it here to offend anyone...I am posting it here because it worked for me and it is my way of sharing that something happened and it did not cost me one cent. I did not follow through last year when Timeheals posted this because I was certain that my go-to readers were correct and what they told me would happen....I dont think I need to tell you all that NOTHING happened that any of them told me. I am so thankful that someone posted this again because I feel it was meant for me. I prayed this prayer and did not expect anything, but I prayed with belief that either way I would get an answer...it works! I was specific in my need, it happened in less than a week and that was a huge surprise for me. I did not get my results in three days, but the result came on the fourth day after the prayer.
Prayer to the Blessed Virgin
Oh most beautiful Flower of Mt. Carmel, Fruitul Vine, Splendor of Heaven, Blessed Mother of the Son of God, Immaculate Virgin, assist me in my present necessity. Oh Star of the Sea, help me now and show me herein you are my mother. Oh Holy Mother of God, Queen of Heaven and Earth I humbly beseech you from the bottom of my heart to secure me in this necessity. There are none who can withstand Your power. Oh, show me herein you are my Mother. Oh Mary conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse in Thee (3 times). Holy Mother, I place this cause in your hands (3 times & say your cause). Holy Spirit, You solve all problems, who light all roads so that I may obtain my goals. You who gave me the divine gift to forgive and forget all evil against me and that in all instances in my life you are with me. I want in this short prayer to thank you for all things as you confirm once again that I never want to be separated from You in eternal glory. Thank you for Your mercy towards me and mine.
Sometimes I wonder if the constant calling of psychics doesn't piss off God. lol What I mean is, if you believe in God or Universe, it appears you don't trust them. How often do you hear:
"I put all my faith in psychics and everything worked out wonderfully!"
or is it more likely:
"I put all my faith in God/Universe/Source/Myself and everything worked out wonderfully!"
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I think it does make God angry. I too amglad about this thread. When reading through teh newspaper I kept seeing a prayr. I decided what the heck, why not try it, got nothin to lose. So i did and i am amazed at what has so far transpired. I type it her for y'all. It made a believer out of me. I prayed about a few things and in 3 days some of those things happend when i tought for sure no way, but they did! Just try it like i did cause you have nothing to lose and it says it never been knowned to fail,
Prayer to the Blessed Virgin
Oh most beautifl Fower of Mt. Carmel, Fruitul Vine, Splendor of Heaven, Blessed Mother of the Son of God, Immaculate Virgin, assist me in my present necessity. Oh Star of the Sea, help me now and show me herein you are my mother. Oh Holy Mother of God, Queen of Heaven and Earth I humbly beseech you from the bottom of my heart to succor me in this necessity. There are none woh can withstand Your power. Oh, show me herein you are my Mother. Oh Mary conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse in Thee (3 times). Holy Mother, I place this cause in your hands (3 times & say your cause). Holy Spirit, You solve all problems, who light all roads so that I may obtain my goals. You who gave me the divine gift to forgive and forget all evil against me and that in all instances in my life you are with me. I want in this short prayer to thank you forall things as you confirm once again that I never want to be seperated from You in eternal glory. Thank you for Your mercy towards me and mine.
Pray this for 3 days in a row. Aftr 3 days the request will be granted and you have to promise to publish this prayer after favor is granted.
it worked for me as i prayed about several famlily issues so I post it here for y'all to try - you have nothing to lose but a lot to gain.
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I am joining the club here now. I have kicked the habit for sure! I haven't called anyone in over a week. I removed all my recorded calls with psychics off my phone so I can't obsessively listen to them.
I just really got fed up with them pushing back the progress we are supposed to be making. I am tired of running to them to comfort instead of to God. I am tired of leaning on ever word they said only to discover they really can't predict future events. They may be dead on for current and past but they can't get future right, so why bother spending so much money for false hope?!
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Sometimes I wonder if the constant calling of psychics doesn't piss off God. lol What I mean is, if you believe in God or Universe, it appears you don't trust them. How often do you hear:
"I put all my faith in psychics and everything worked out wonderfully!"
or is it more likely:
"I put all my faith in God/Universe/Source/Myself and everything worked out wonderfully!"
:)
I am quoting myself here because I did stop calling psychics. I haven't spoken to one since April if I remember right. And guess what? My life is awesome now!! I am with a wonderful man, the other half of me. As much as I thought there was no way anyone was more perfect for me than the guy I was calling everyone about, this guy is!
I quit calling. I put my faith in God. I knew that if God had someone else planned for me, it would be mind blowingly AMAZING, and it sure is!!! QUIT CALLING AND START BELIEVING!!!!!!
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it's always exciting to see things turn around for someone and if believing in God was the right choice then I'm all ears to hear exactly what else changed. I mean, you stopped calling psychics and turned that situation over to God...and then Mr. Wonderful walked into your life. Is that how it happened, or was there something else you did that perhaps you weren't doing while you were calling psychics?
Sometimes I wonder if the constant calling of psychics doesn't piss off God. lol What I mean is, if you believe in God or Universe, it appears you don't trust them. How often do you hear:
"I put all my faith in psychics and everything worked out wonderfully!"
or is it more likely:
"I put all my faith in God/Universe/Source/Myself and everything worked out wonderfully!"
:)
I am quoting myself here because I did stop calling psychics. I haven't spoken to one since April if I remember right. And guess what? My life is awesome now!! I am with a wonderful man, the other half of me. As much as I thought there was no way anyone was more perfect for me than the guy I was calling everyone about, this guy is!
I quit calling. I put my faith in God. I knew that if God had someone else planned for me, it would be mind blowingly AMAZING, and it sure is!!! QUIT CALLING AND START BELIEVING!!!!!!
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Is that how it happened, or was there something else you did that perhaps you weren't doing while you were calling psychics?
We tend to call readers when we're waiting for things to happen. When they do, and it's totally different than what they predicted, we stop calling. :D
But yeah, it's always been my experience they things happen after I stop calling readers.
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it's always exciting to see things turn around for someone and if believing in God was the right choice then I'm all ears to hear exactly what else changed. I mean, you stopped calling psychics and turned that situation over to God...and then Mr. Wonderful walked into your life. Is that how it happened, or was there something else you did that perhaps you weren't doing while you were calling psychics?
Sometimes I wonder if the constant calling of psychics doesn't piss off God. lol What I mean is, if you believe in God or Universe, it appears you don't trust them. How often do you hear:
"I put all my faith in psychics and everything worked out wonderfully!"
or is it more likely:
"I put all my faith in God/Universe/Source/Myself and everything worked out wonderfully!"
:)
I am quoting myself here because I did stop calling psychics. I haven't spoken to one since April if I remember right. And guess what? My life is awesome now!! I am with a wonderful man, the other half of me. As much as I thought there was no way anyone was more perfect for me than the guy I was calling everyone about, this guy is!
I quit calling. I put my faith in God. I knew that if God had someone else planned for me, it would be mind blowingly AMAZING, and it sure is!!! QUIT CALLING AND START BELIEVING!!!!!!
Are you familiar with the Law of Attraction? LOA works, and the key is faith and trust. When you start calling psychics, you're showing a complete lack of trust and faith.
It's like ordering your dinner at a restaurant and then hounding the waiter every 5 seconds about it, then checking with another waiter to confirm the first waiters info...etc..
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So it's been about two months since my last call. Where I used to be an anxious train wreck pretty much always, nowadays I have almost no anxiety at all. It's like night and freaking day. Really, once you finally get it into your head that every one of these "psychics" - yes, every damn one of them, even the most reliable - is full of crap and playing psychological games with you, the quicker you'll kick the habit and the happier you'll be. I actually visited keen today for the first time in forever and clicked around, thinking to myself, "Good Lord, you are a woman of science. You know better than this. How the hell did you ever fall for this crap?"
So much happier now. I can't in good conscience even justify giving any of them the benefit of the doubt at this point - do yourselves a favor and get out now. Stop making excuses, stop lying to yourself, and start living your life.
My two cents.
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Somnus, your words are music to my ears! I have been so darn busy that I haven't had a chance to write up my conclusion or memoir or catalog of my experiences of all this psychic-ness but I sincerely plan to. Not because of the reviews necessarily but because I feel as tho I owe it to all of the members who hands down helped me through probably the toughest time I've ever had concerning a heartbreak.
A quick update: my ex is still happily with horsey. They've been together 3 years strong and got their own place together and take vacations, etc etc. I think it's safe to say he ain't coming back. He never was, lol.
I have met someone and I love him very much. He's meeting my family soon! We are also moving to a new city where I already have TWO new jobs and I'm going back to school. We are starting a new life together and I haven't been this happy in ages! He came out of nowhere, haha, wasn't even looking I swear...and BAM, love of my life happens.
Please heed Somnus' words. They echo nothing but truth. As soon as my schedule opens up I'll come back and write a detailed synopsis for anyone that cares to read it. I think you are all amazing and valuable and lovely creatures!! Take care!
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Somnus, your words are music to my ears! I have been so darn busy that I haven't had a chance to write up my conclusion or memoir or catalog of my experiences of all this psychic-ness but I sincerely plan to. Not because of the reviews necessarily but because I feel as tho I owe it to all of the members who hands down helped me through probably the toughest time I've ever had concerning a heartbreak.
A quick update: my ex is still happily with horsey. They've been together 3 years strong and got their own place together and take vacations, etc etc. I think it's safe to say he ain't coming back. He never was, lol.
I have met someone and I love him very much. He's meeting my family soon! We are also moving to a new city where I already have TWO new jobs and I'm going back to school. We are starting a new life together and I haven't been this happy in ages! He came out of nowhere, haha, wasn't even looking I swear...and BAM, love of my life happens.
Please heed Somnus' words. They echo nothing but truth. As soon as my schedule opens up I'll come back and write a detailed synopsis for anyone that cares to read it. I think you are all amazing and valuable and lovely creatures!! Take care!
Congrats, diva!! Enjoy your new love; you deserve it!
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congrats diva! that is awesommmeeeee
i agree with what you guys are saying. after being let down for about 10 years, at points spending THOUSANDS of dollars when i am upset about someone/something (and calling several people a day), i have had way too many bad experiences to ever justify the small amount of good ones. even when a psychic has been right it's usually something current, or random, and on top of that - small and irrelevant.
i also agree with and belive in the Law of Attraction. and usually, when psychics end up being right it's because we've created it in our own heart and minds, therefore it comes into reality. this doesn't usually mean it involves other people (meaning our ex's we want to come back) because you can't control others. however, you can create situations and experiences to your life.
at some point you have to look back at the pages of notes, or multiple voice files from calls, and the amount of money you spend and realize that it's not worth it. it creates anxiety, false hope and just drains your bank account and most of all, happiness.
let's help each other be strong. if it's one thing i've learned from this forum - i'm not alone.
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Have you ever given thought to the possibility that perhaps the inconsequential, the insignificant predictions manifest and not the big, significant ones because you're not dwelling on the insignificant predictions? Try it.
congrats diva! that is awesommmeeeee
i agree with what you guys are saying. after being let down for about 10 years, at points spending THOUSANDS of dollars when i am upset about someone/something (and calling several people a day), i have had way too many bad experiences to ever justify the small amount of good ones. even when a psychic has been right it's usually something current, or random, and on top of that - small and irrelevant.
i also agree with and belive in the Law of Attraction. and usually, when psychics end up being right it's because we've created it in our own heart and minds, therefore it comes into reality. this doesn't usually mean it involves other people (meaning our ex's we want to come back) because you can't control others. however, you can create situations and experiences to your life.
at some point you have to look back at the pages of notes, or multiple voice files from calls, and the amount of money you spend and realize that it's not worth it. it creates anxiety, false hope and just drains your bank account and most of all, happiness.
let's help each other be strong. if it's one thing i've learned from this forum - i'm not alone.
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Have you ever given thought to the possibility that perhaps the inconsequential, the insignificant predictions manifest and not the big, significant ones because you're not dwelling on the insignificant predictions? Try it.
I haven't dwelled on my exbf since 2011. He still hasn't come back.
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That is true!! That is why some predictions happens the same time a year later.
Have you ever given thought to the possibility that perhaps the inconsequential, the insignificant predictions manifest and not the big, significant ones because you're not dwelling on the insignificant predictions? Try it.
I haven't dwelled on my exbf since 2011. He still hasn't come back.
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there have been a ton of predictions made for me in the past 10 years. i agree i have dwelt on a lot of them, especially the ones about people coming back into the picture. however, it's not always the case.
further, i find your post a bit impudent and very dismissive as if i am the one with the problem here. or anyone else here for that matter. if i have found that the majority of readings have been inaccurate then that is my experience. you are saying i'm the one with the problem like these people are Keen are flipping God or something.
either admit you are one of these psychics or stop pretending that you are, because it's becoming very annoying with all of your "holier than thou" statements you constantly throw at us.
Have you ever given thought to the possibility that perhaps the inconsequential, the insignificant predictions manifest and not the big, significant ones because you're not dwelling on the insignificant predictions? Try it. congrats diva! that is awesommmeeeee
i agree with what you guys are saying. after being let down for about 10 years, at points spending THOUSANDS of dollars when i am upset about someone/something (and calling several people a day), i have had way too many bad experiences to ever justify the small amount of good ones. even when a psychic has been right it's usually something current, or random, and on top of that - small and irrelevant.
i also agree with and belive in the Law of Attraction. and usually, when psychics end up being right it's because we've created it in our own heart and minds, therefore it comes into reality. this doesn't usually mean it involves other people (meaning our ex's we want to come back) because you can't control others. however, you can create situations and experiences to your life.
at some point you have to look back at the pages of notes, or multiple voice files from calls, and the amount of money you spend and realize that it's not worth it. it creates anxiety, false hope and just drains your bank account and most of all, happiness.
let's help each other be strong. if it's one thing i've learned from this forum - i'm not alone.
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OMG. That's not at all what I am saying. There was nothing untoward or holier than thou about my statement. You are drawing unnecessary conclusions as I wasn't implying anyone has a problem and certainly I am not a psychic and never suggested I was! Frankly, I find your attitude towards a perfectly reasonable comment very rude to me and for no reason. I was simply making a suggestion which worked for me, but once again it turns to mudslinging on here. It never changes.
there have been a ton of predictions made for me in the past 10 years. i agree i have dwelt on a lot of them, especially the ones about people coming back into the picture. however, it's not always the case.
further, i find your post a bit impudent and very dismissive as if i am the one with the problem here. or anyone else here for that matter. if i have found that the majority of readings have been inaccurate then that is my experience. you are saying i'm the one with the problem like these people are Keen are flipping God or something.
either admit you are one of these psychics or stop pretending that you are, because it's becoming very annoying with all of your "holier than thou" statements you constantly throw at us.
Have you ever given thought to the possibility that perhaps the inconsequential, the insignificant predictions manifest and not the big, significant ones because you're not dwelling on the insignificant predictions? Try it. congrats diva! that is awesommmeeeee
i agree with what you guys are saying. after being let down for about 10 years, at points spending THOUSANDS of dollars when i am upset about someone/something (and calling several people a day), i have had way too many bad experiences to ever justify the small amount of good ones. even when a psychic has been right it's usually something current, or random, and on top of that - small and irrelevant.
i also agree with and belive in the Law of Attraction. and usually, when psychics end up being right it's because we've created it in our own heart and minds, therefore it comes into reality. this doesn't usually mean it involves other people (meaning our ex's we want to come back) because you can't control others. however, you can create situations and experiences to your life.
at some point you have to look back at the pages of notes, or multiple voice files from calls, and the amount of money you spend and realize that it's not worth it. it creates anxiety, false hope and just drains your bank account and most of all, happiness.
let's help each other be strong. if it's one thing i've learned from this forum - i'm not alone.
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this was just the straw that broke the camels back. you are constantly making statements like this towards some of us members.
anyways, let's just drop it.
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Right! Let's put it aside, but in future I'd appreciate you keeping your thoughts and accusations to yourself in regards to me - what I think, who I am and what I am. You have no basis for your insinuations. Your comments are unwarranted and there is no straw that broken any camel's back. You simply misinterpreted my comment but aren't a big enough person to admit it. :) As you were.
this was just the straw that broke the camels back. you are constantly making statements like this towards some of us members.
anyways, let's just drop it.
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Have you ever given thought to the possibility that perhaps the inconsequential, the insignificant predictions manifest and not the big, significant ones because you're not dwelling on the insignificant predictions? Try it.
I haven't dwelled on my exbf since 2011. He still hasn't come back.
And this is the bottom line for a lot of us. Just because we post about our experiences with some of these psychics does not mean that we are thinking about a particular person or situation 24/7. I lead an active and fulfilling life, always have. In fact, for the first couple of years of getting readings, I absolutely trusted that all they would say would happen sooner or later and threw caution to the wind..no dwelling at all...until I decided to look at reality.
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Dwelling doesn't mean dwelling on the particular person, - an ex or a new love, or an individual. It means dwelling on that part of one's life. That it's not OK just as it is. That one is anxiously awaiting some event that will improve the status quo. That life would be better if just this one thing that psychics have predicted will happen, would happen. That is what I mean by the term dwelling. It doesn't have to be 24/7, it's a notion that something needs to happen before contentment is achieved.
However, to each his own. Others' mileage may vary. Just saying it happened in my case.
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Dwelling doesn't mean dwelling on the particular person, - an ex or a new love, or an individual. It means dwelling on that part of one's life. That it's not OK just as it is. That one is anxiously awaiting some event that will improve the status quo. That life would be better if just this one thing that psychics have predicted will happen, would happen. That is what I mean by the term dwelling. It doesn't have to be 24/7, it's a notion that something needs to happen before contentment is achieved.
However, to each his own. Others' mileage may vary. Just saying it happened in my case.
I'm pretty sure if people were content with life as it is, they wouldn't need to call psychics. They wouldn't NEED to know what's going to happen tomorrow. Am I a happy person? Absolutely. I have wonderful children who fill my life with a tremendous amount of happiness. I have a great career... Parents who love and support me... Friends who love and support me... Health... But guess what? I don't have a partner to share all of that with as I go through life. There is something missing. It doesn't mean I'm miserable. It doesn't even mean I'm "not OK" or that life isn't "OK". It just means I would really like to have a romantic partner by my side. I don't think dwelling has anything to do with this activity. You know why? I've done absolutely nothing different when predictions have manifested. Nothing.
As a matter of fact, Yona is a perfect example. I treated her reading the same way I've treated all my readings. I even re-read my notes on that reading a few times. I remembered details she predicted. I did absolutely nothing different. Every single thing (with the exception of one) happened as she said. I didn't do anything different. She was just genuine and gifted. Go figure.
BTW, I'm not much different than most of the single 30-something women I know. They are pretty bummed to be single as well. They dwell on it. They wonder why they can't find the right guy. It's all the same. We all have worries, concerns, fears. That's natural. That doesn't mean we are wrong in our approach or we are "willing" failed predictions.
My 2 cents. For what it's worth.
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Nobody mentioned anything about being wrong or "willing" failed predictions, or being not natural. Once again, I never suggested anything like that. And I didn't mean that life isn't OK for many of us. What I was saying is that it is only when we are content with our lives as they are - not wondering why there is something lacking, or someone lacking - and we are not waiting or hoping for something better to come along and improve the status quo, that's when we are not dwelling. It's also at that very time that the Universe can look upon us as being content and truly grateful for what we have.
What differentiates the little predictions that people admit come true but are not significant or central to life? Are they less of a prediction? No. Is the psychic less skilled for being accurate about them? No. The distinction lies in the person receiving that information. And chances are when those predictions were given they were dismissed, and not reflected upon or discussed again. Because they simply were not our focus at that time.
Dwelling doesn't mean dwelling on the particular person, - an ex or a new love, or an individual. It means dwelling on that part of one's life. That it's not OK just as it is. That one is anxiously awaiting some event that will improve the status quo. That life would be better if just this one thing that psychics have predicted will happen, would happen. That is what I mean by the term dwelling. It doesn't have to be 24/7, it's a notion that something needs to happen before contentment is achieved.
However, to each his own. Others' mileage may vary. Just saying it happened in my case.
I'm pretty sure if people were content with life as it is, they wouldn't need to call psychics. They wouldn't NEED to know what's going to happen tomorrow. Am I a happy person? Absolutely. I have wonderful children who fill my life with a tremendous amount of happiness. I have a great career... Parents who love and support me... Friends who love and support me... Health... But guess what? I don't have a partner to share all of that with as I go through life. There is something missing. It doesn't mean I'm miserable. It doesn't even mean I'm "not OK" or that life isn't "OK". It just means I would really like to have a romantic partner by my side. I don't think dwelling has anything to do with this activity. You know why? I've done absolutely nothing different when predictions have manifested. Nothing.
As a matter of fact, Yona is a perfect example. I treated her reading the same way I've treated all my readings. I even re-read my notes on that reading a few times. I remembered details she predicted. I did absolutely nothing different. Every single thing (with the exception of one) happened as she said. I didn't do anything different. She was just genuine and gifted. Go figure.
BTW, I'm not much different than most of the single 30-something women I know. They are pretty bummed to be single as well. They dwell on it. They wonder why they can't find the right guy. It's all the same. We all have worries, concerns, fears. That's natural. That doesn't mean we are wrong in our approach or we are "willing" failed predictions.
My 2 cents. For what it's worth.
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I suggest you go back to your original comment, which you ended with the statement "try it". As if the person getting a reading is doing something wrong and that is causing a failed prediction. And if we aren't waiting for something, we wouldn't be getting readings. The logic doesn't make sense. People get readings because they want to know if something will or won't happen. If I didn't want to know or didn't care what happens tomorrow, I wouldn't be asking about it. Not sure how someone who is paying another person to predict the future can be asked not to "dwell" using your definition of the term.
Additionally, I disagree that there is a different approach regarding when the "insignificant" things happen. QoC made a weird prediction for me about a black SUV. I was like, what the heck?? In fact, I probably thought about it more than any of the big predictions because I had no idea what the heck she was talking about. Then it happened! And, honestly, while it didn't significantly impact my life, I was impressed nonetheless.
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The idea of releasing and surrendering so that we are then opening up to the magic of the universe to allow for predictions to unfold is beautiful...but I am don't know if that's all it comes down to.
I can't speak for anyone else, but I mostly call psychics about job and relationship issues. For jobs, I did have huge predictions made, which eventually manifested, however I was never content with the job I was looking to leave. I was miserable and was doing everything in my power to get out of there. It was constantly on my mind, and I saw it as a plague on my existence. I kept pushing forward, but also bitching about my terrible job to anyone who would listen. I read and re-read predictions non-stop. In Feb 2011 SoulLove11 made the prediction that I would get a new position, explained the industry, and even explained my potential boss. In June 2011, I got the job, and every detail she mentioned was on-point!
I think there some predictions are just wrong -- regardless of how we approach it. I know there were predictions made for me that I dismissed and never thought about again, like me opening my own business (lovenurse07), or meeting a man in a pickup with a dog (magicalsandra). Those never happened for me...but I guess you can say "you never know what can happen down the road". ;D
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Once again, you are supposing that it was my intent to suggest wrong doing. But it wasn't. I was only proposing ONE suggestion to Truth. Not all possibilities - just one. Nothing more, nothing less. I have never suggested that if one "dwells" on a subject matter that a prediction fails. I simply said perhaps (perhaps is not assertive, definite or conclusive, but simply suggests that a possibility exists) not dwelling might be the justification for why some manifest and others do not, or have not yet manifested.
I'd also caution you to not draw conclusions on why people get readings. I know a lot of people that get readings and predictions are not even a thought, at that point. Some people take readings to get guidance on how to handle a situation.
Not sure how someone who is paying another person to predict the future can be asked not to "dwell" using your definition of the term.
My definition of dwell is the same as any prominent dictionary. It means to linger over or ponder in thought. And to answer your question - yes, one can call a psychic asking of the future and receive the message and not linger over that message. It is done all the time.
I suggest you go back to your original comment, which you ended with the statement "try it". As if the person getting a reading is doing something wrong and that is causing a failed prediction. And if we aren't waiting for something, we wouldn't be getting readings. The logic doesn't make sense. People get readings because they want to know if something will or won't happen. If I didn't want to know or didn't care what happens tomorrow, I wouldn't be asking about it. Not sure how someone who is paying another person to predict the future can be asked not to "dwell" using your definition of the term.
Additionally, I disagree that there is a different approach regarding when the "insignificant" things happen. QoC made a weird prediction for me about a black SUV. I was like, what the heck?? In fact, I probably thought about it more than any of the big predictions because I had no idea what the heck she was talking about. Then it happened! And, honestly, while it didn't significantly impact my life, I was impressed nonetheless.
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okay, let me give you a couple statements, basically saying the same thing:
1 - you are doing it all wrong
2 - let me show you this way i've found helpful
it's not what you are saying, it's the way you are saying it. you sound condescending or like we are complete idiots.
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No that's not true. But, if you like, turn it around for a moment. Put yourself in my position and re-read these posts.
Isn't this what you are doing to me?
1. my comments are all wrong - I am making comments all wrong according to you.
2. you have a better way of making comments that you will accept and not criticize me for
Now, in my opinion, when placed in the reverse, it's both what you're saying and how you're saying it. You don't simply sound condescending you ARE being very judgmental. And you appear to me to have one huge chip on your shoulder that gets in the way of everything. You cannot seem to read the words I write without inserting some sinister, underhanded, mysterious agenda that simply does not exist on my part.
I have hardly posted on this forum for the last year because of the reception that I receive from some of you - just like this one. Unjustified - Critical - downright ugly- telling me how to convey my opinions and thoughts just because I did not phrase it the way you think I should. Not your opinions, mine! My experiences, not yours! I speak English (my native language) and I know what I write and I do not write in double entendres. How you interpret what I write it is another story. It is pure supposition on your part. Besides, who made you judge and jury over the manner in which I write? Yes, I am educated. I believe you are confounding education for condescension, so I suggest you read my posts again.
By the way, even if you are correct in your theory... nowhere in this discourse did I utter or imply that anyone is doing anything wrong. Not once. But what is wrong with posting that I found a way to do something that is helpful? You behave as though this is your forum, and only people that reiterate your sentiments are allowed or welcome. It's a disgrace and you should be ashamed of yourself for placing people in that position. Wonder why this place is dead? Take a good long look at yourself.
End. Of. Story.
Good night! :o
okay, let me give you a couple statements, basically saying the same thing:
1 - you are doing it all wrong
2 - let me show you this way i've found helpful
it's not what you are saying, it's the way you are saying it. you sound condescending or like we are complete idiots.
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Bark, why do you do this? We can all disagree. It's healthy. But you never once accept your role in the turn our conversations take. Why can't you, for once, see that, yes, it's possible to infer the tone in what you've written. When you end a post with "try it", it DOES come off as condescending! Instead of getting defensive and act as if you're being victimized (which you ALWAYS end up doing), just take a moment to accept that we all have differing takes on the matter. Re-read my initial response to you. It was in NO WAY agressive. I stated why I don't think mindset regarding predictions has an impact on whether the predictions manifest or not. I was offering a differing viewpoint. I didn't attack your view or you directly. Yet, your response to me was ONCE AGAIN condescending because you decided to point out that you define "dwell" the same way a dictionary does... Um, ok?
I don't understand why we can't all share our views on the matter without being rude to one another. It's bizarre. Seriously. Re-read my initial response to you, Bark. I in no way attacked you. I shared my thoughts on why I don't believe dwelling on a prediction impacts it. I even provided two personal examples. You can be allowed to have your opinion, as I am allowed to have mine. Since this is a FORUM, I voiced mine the way you did yours. Making the decision to respond defensively doesn't make sense to me. I'm sorry.
This is a valid, thought-provoking topic. It'd be nice to hear everyone's opinions without it becoming an argument, but that's never possible here when certain people are involved... and this includes you. Instead of always pointing fingers, look at your own role in this.
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yes, i was irritated at your post and i admit that. not trying to be a wolf behind sheeps clothing like you come across. normally i don't care and i just don't even reply to the posts (98% of the time), but you caught me on a bad night.
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Synergy - my beef is and was with Truth. She was being downright rude. Par for the course here. We - (you and I) don't always see things the same way - but I find you reasonable. Some aren't.
Simply put. I define dwell the way it is defined. I'm not sure what your is but mine if as I stated. I can't see why you take issue with everything I write. You take umbrage with the words "Try it"! Really? What the hell is wrong with suggesting someone give thought to something? I didn't say they should DO it, I said have you given thought to this? Try it" What the Heck. It is really crazy around here!!!! You folks really take the cake.
This is the way it is here. A few commandeering how everyone else should think,. act, write, post, live. It is ridiculous. It has and always will be a clique. Some in - others out. It won't ever change. I just don't like to be misrepresented.
So, please, this is addressing those that have MISREPRESENTED ME and you all know who you are. Hear my words. I AM NOT A PSYCHIC. I am NOT MASQUERADING as a PSYCHIC. I am NOT A WOLFF BEHIND SHEEP's CLOTHING. I DO NOT APPRECIATE THE INSULTS!!
Now please re-read the exchange and see where the first dig, insult, accusation, and barb was tossed.
I'm done!!! See ya!
Bark, why do you do this? We can all disagree. It's healthy. But you never once accept your role in the turn our conversations take. Why can't you, for once, see that, yes, it's possible to infer the tone in what you've written. When you end a post with "try it", it DOES come off as condescending! Instead of getting defensive and act as if you're being victimized (which you ALWAYS end up doing), just take a moment to accept that we all have differing takes on the matter. Re-read my initial response to you. It was in NO WAY agressive. I stated why I don't think mindset regarding predictions has an impact on whether the predictions manifest or not. I was offering a differing viewpoint. I didn't attack your view or you directly. Yet, your response to me was ONCE AGAIN condescending because you decided to point out that you define "dwell" the same way a dictionary does... Um, ok?
I don't understand why we can't all share our views on the matter without being rude to one another. It's bizarre. Seriously. Re-read my initial response to you, Bark. I in no way attacked you. I shared my thoughts on why I don't believe dwelling on a prediction impacts it. I even provided two personal examples. You can be allowed to have your opinion, as I am allowed to have mine. Since this is a FORUM, I voiced mine the way you did yours. Making the decision to respond defensively doesn't make sense to me. I'm sorry.
This is a valid, thought-provoking topic. It'd be nice to hear everyone's opinions without it becoming an argument, but that's never possible here when certain people are involved... and this includes you. Instead of always pointing fingers, look at your own role in this.
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Clearly, either you are willing to forgive, overlook or you did not read Truth's comments to me.
I don't insult people for fun. I do bring their attention to the inequities when I am under attack. This place is pure venom at times. I'll leave you all to revel in your delight and move to another forum.
Bark, why do you do this? We can all disagree. It's healthy. But you never once accept your role in the turn our conversations take. Why can't you, for once, see that, yes, it's possible to infer the tone in what you've written. When you end a post with "try it", it DOES come off as condescending! Instead of getting defensive and act as if you're being victimized (which you ALWAYS end up doing), just take a moment to accept that we all have differing takes on the matter. Re-read my initial response to you. It was in NO WAY agressive. I stated why I don't think mindset regarding predictions has an impact on whether the predictions manifest or not. I was offering a differing viewpoint. I didn't attack your view or you directly. Yet, your response to me was ONCE AGAIN condescending because you decided to point out that you define "dwell" the same way a dictionary does... Um, ok?
I don't understand why we can't all share our views on the matter without being rude to one another. It's bizarre. Seriously. Re-read my initial response to you, Bark. I in no way attacked you. I shared my thoughts on why I don't believe dwelling on a prediction impacts it. I even provided two personal examples. You can be allowed to have your opinion, as I am allowed to have mine. Since this is a FORUM, I voiced mine the way you did yours. Making the decision to respond defensively doesn't make sense to me. I'm sorry.
This is a valid, thought-provoking topic. It'd be nice to hear everyone's opinions without it becoming an argument, but that's never possible here when certain people are involved... and this includes you. Instead of always pointing fingers, look at your own role in this.
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All aboard the crazy train has arrived yet again!
Truth, did you really expect that your post wouldn't be tore apart? LOL. If anyone post that psychics are wrong their post get shredded because the person doing the shredding doesn't want to read that PSYCHICS ARE 99.9% wrong!
There shouldn't be any "beef" with anyone, truth stated HIS experience and shouldn't be treated as though he can't read HIS native language.
Maybe the other forum is the best fit for you Bark. Maybe they will appreciate your pompous approach and insults because you are educated.
Dwell? Hhhmmm, I think we all have read your post that named all of the readers you would never read with again, because you made a spread sheet consisting of predictions and failed predictions. I don't know about you but the way I see it...it is dwelling and WAITING on something to happen! So before you go bat shit crazy here telling others what works, ask yourself did it work for you.
My prediction is it did not work for you because you are still here, and now you have joined another forum and my prediction is that you are still searching, dwelling, whatever educated term you want to use, for that which you DWELL on to happen.
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Dwelling doesn't mean dwelling on the particular person, - an ex or a new love, or an individual. It means dwelling on that part of one's life. That it's not OK just as it is. That one is anxiously awaiting some event that will improve the status quo. That life would be better if just this one thing that psychics have predicted will happen, would happen. That is what I mean by the term dwelling. It doesn't have to be 24/7, it's a notion that something needs to happen before contentment is achieved.
However, to each his own. Others' mileage may vary. Just saying it happened in my case.
No offense, but that is not what dwelling means. To dwell on something means that you focus on it a lot. What you are saying is that you feel some clients are not okay with one aspect of their life, which can sometimes hold back the universe from manifesting these positive predictions. Is it possible? Sure. Do I think it is the case for most clients, no. I just think a lot of readers are wrong for one reason or another.
Basically, what you are saying is that people should be 100 percent content with their life in order for some positive predictions to happen. I don't know how you can even "try it" as you suggest.
ETA: Also, not everyone is looking for "positive" things to happen. Some just want insight into what may happen, whether it is favorable or not. How does my contentment affect negative predictions, in your opinion?
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I'm going to say this, and I want to be clear that I'm not trying to be rude, but I can pretty much guarantee it will be taken that way.
Yes. I spent plenty of time considering that possibility. I, along with many others on here I'm sure, have been doing this dance for about seven years now. Here's the bottom line: there is no evidence to support psychic ability. None. Any experiments - proper experiments, mind you - that have been done have not been able to produce reliable evidence supporting the existence of psychic abilities - certainly not ones that operate "on demand." However, there have been loads of studies and experiments done that show these so-called psychics are able to use psychological tricks to convince you they know what's happening, even making predictions that seem like they apply to you when in reality they could apply to anyone.
Have you ever heard a song on the radio and thought, "My God, these lyrics just speak to me perfectly! The artist must have gone through exactly what I've been through!" Nine times out of ten, no. They haven't. They wrote those lyrics with a completely different intent in mind. But you're hearing them and applying them to you and your situation almost automatically because that's what the human ego is designed to do. We're all breathtakingly self-centered creatures instinctually, no matter how hard we might try to be selfless. We instinctually make things that are otherwise unrelated relevant to ourselves.
It's the same principle with these "psychics" and it's why you really need to just stop before you drive yourself mad...or at the very least, stop arguing with the people who have moved on and trying to encourage them to rethink their newfound decision to stop calling.
I can't even bear to read the rest of the thread. It looked like it already devolved into a ton of arguments again.
Have you ever given thought to the possibility that perhaps the inconsequential, the insignificant predictions manifest and not the big, significant ones because you're not dwelling on the insignificant predictions? Try it. congrats diva! that is awesommmeeeee
i agree with what you guys are saying. after being let down for about 10 years, at points spending THOUSANDS of dollars when i am upset about someone/something (and calling several people a day), i have had way too many bad experiences to ever justify the small amount of good ones. even when a psychic has been right it's usually something current, or random, and on top of that - small and irrelevant.
i also agree with and belive in the Law of Attraction. and usually, when psychics end up being right it's because we've created it in our own heart and minds, therefore it comes into reality. this doesn't usually mean it involves other people (meaning our ex's we want to come back) because you can't control others. however, you can create situations and experiences to your life.
at some point you have to look back at the pages of notes, or multiple voice files from calls, and the amount of money you spend and realize that it's not worth it. it creates anxiety, false hope and just drains your bank account and most of all, happiness.
let's help each other be strong. if it's one thing i've learned from this forum - i'm not alone.
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I'm going to say this, and I want to be clear that I'm not trying to be rude, but I can pretty much guarantee it will be taken that way.
Yes. I spent plenty of time considering that possibility. I, along with many others on here I'm sure, have been doing this dance for about seven years now. Here's the bottom line: there is no evidence to support psychic ability. None. Any experiments - proper experiments, mind you - that have been done have not been able to produce reliable evidence supporting the existence of psychic abilities - certainly not ones that operate "on demand." However, there have been loads of studies and experiments done that show these so-called psychics are able to use psychological tricks to convince you they know what's happening, even making predictions that seem like they apply to you when in reality they could apply to anyone.
Have you ever heard a song on the radio and thought, "My God, these lyrics just speak to me perfectly! The artist must have gone through exactly what I've been through!" Nine times out of ten, no. They haven't. They wrote those lyrics with a completely different intent in mind. But you're hearing them and applying them to you and your situation almost automatically because that's what the human ego is designed to do. We're all breathtakingly self-centered creatures instinctually, no matter how hard we might try to be selfless. We instinctually make things that are otherwise unrelated relevant to ourselves.
It's the same principle with these "psychics" and it's why you really need to just stop before you drive yourself mad...or at the very least, stop arguing with the people who have moved on and trying to encourage them to rethink their newfound decision to stop calling.
I can't even bear to read the rest of the thread. It looked like it already devolved into a ton of arguments again.
Have you ever given thought to the possibility that perhaps the inconsequential, the insignificant predictions manifest and not the big, significant ones because you're not dwelling on the insignificant predictions? Try it. congrats diva! that is awesommmeeeee
i agree with what you guys are saying. after being let down for about 10 years, at points spending THOUSANDS of dollars when i am upset about someone/something (and calling several people a day), i have had way too many bad experiences to ever justify the small amount of good ones. even when a psychic has been right it's usually something current, or random, and on top of that - small and irrelevant.
i also agree with and belive in the Law of Attraction. and usually, when psychics end up being right it's because we've created it in our own heart and minds, therefore it comes into reality. this doesn't usually mean it involves other people (meaning our ex's we want to come back) because you can't control others. however, you can create situations and experiences to your life.
at some point you have to look back at the pages of notes, or multiple voice files from calls, and the amount of money you spend and realize that it's not worth it. it creates anxiety, false hope and just drains your bank account and most of all, happiness.
let's help each other be strong. if it's one thing i've learned from this forum - i'm not alone.
Smart observation. I'm one of those people that absolutely believes in psychic ability as I have had readers that have been right about some things. However, I don't think they are reliable when called on to perform on demand, which is how they often advertise their services. It is a little bittersweet, tbh.
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Bstalling, I feel the same way. I believe to an extent, and really want to continue believing. The issue is, however, that I think they pick up messages in a manner that may not be clear, and is therefore open to interpretation. That's when it gets fuzzy. Additionally, I do think this format (by phone) makes it even more difficult to interpret the messages. I can't imagine a "psychic" can sit on the phone connecting to all of these energies all day long and be accurate.
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Why am I not surprised? Kicking, think what you will - you know nothing of what has occurred in my situation. By the way, I joined another forum to get away from you a long time ago, for this very reason - you cannot resist jumping on the bandwagon.
And to correct you, I am not here posting each week - I haven't posted here or anywhere for ages. I received a notification that I had PM messages, and came to read them. When I WAS (note the use of past tense) getting readings I did keep a record of my readings. Sure, I did. Who doesn't? ... you certainly kept notes.
Finally, you have no idea what is going on in my life and that is the way I like it. You can think what you wish but you will only ever be guessing! All aboard the crazy train has arrived yet again!
Truth, did you really expect that your post wouldn't be tore apart? LOL. If anyone post that psychics are wrong their post get shredded because the person doing the shredding doesn't want to read that PSYCHICS ARE 99.9% wrong!
There shouldn't be any "beef" with anyone, truth stated HIS experience and shouldn't be treated as though he can't read HIS native language.
Maybe the other forum is the best fit for you Bark. Maybe they will appreciate your pompous approach and insults because you are educated.
Dwell? Hhhmmm, I think we all have read your post that named all of the readers you would never read with again, because you made a spread sheet consisting of predictions and failed predictions. I don't know about you but the way I see it...it is dwelling and WAITING on something to happen! So before you go bat shit crazy here telling others what works, ask yourself did it work for you.
My prediction is it did not work for you because you are still here, and now you have joined another forum and my prediction is that you are still searching, dwelling, whatever educated term you want to use, for that which you DWELL on to happen.
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bstalling -
I am not going to go back and forth with you on what dwelling means. Let me settle it by pasting the most common American definition here.
dwell
verb (used without object), dwelt or dwelled, dwelling.
1. to live or stay as a permanent resident; reside.
2. to live or continue in a given condition or state:
"to dwell in happiness."
3. to linger over, emphasize, or ponder in thought, speech, or writing (often followed by on or upon):
There we go, as you can see I was defining the term correctly. I was simply saying (note that I was saying, not ordering, demanding, dictating as some would be inclined to suggest) that perhaps the Universe rewards us when we are content with our lives and not in search mode for something that we regard as missing. Making the best of the blessings we have already. Now don't punish me for that message, because they are not my words. I was simply paraphrasing. And before Kicking and her entourage try to accuse me of supporting psychics, let me say that they don't come from a psychic or a manual on paranormal activity- take a look in any temple, church or place of worship and you'll hear that sentiment repeated over and over again.
Dwelling doesn't mean dwelling on the particular person, - an ex or a new love, or an individual. It means dwelling on that part of one's life. That it's not OK just as it is. That one is anxiously awaiting some event that will improve the status quo. That life would be better if just this one thing that psychics have predicted will happen, would happen. That is what I mean by the term dwelling. It doesn't have to be 24/7, it's a notion that something needs to happen before contentment is achieved.
However, to each his own. Others' mileage may vary. Just saying it happened in my case.
No offense, but that is not what dwelling means. To dwell on something means that you focus on it a lot. What you are saying is that you feel some clients are not okay with one aspect of their life, which can sometimes hold back the universe from manifesting these positive predictions. Is it possible? Sure. Do I think it is the case for most clients, no. I just think a lot of readers are wrong for one reason or another.
Basically, what you are saying is that people should be 100 percent content with their life in order for some positive predictions to happen. I don't know how you can even "try it" as you suggest.
ETA: Also, not everyone is looking for "positive" things to happen. Some just want insight into what may happen, whether it is favorable or not. How does my contentment affect negative predictions, in your opinion?
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JFC, stop. If you joined another forum and only come back to check PMs, grats to you and please stop arguing pretty much all of the time. Why even respond? You already said you joined another forum to get away from Le Drama, so why keep perpetuating it? It makes no sense.
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Why am I not surprised? Kicking, think what you will - you know nothing of what has occurred in my situation. By the way, I joined another forum to get away from you a long time ago, for this very reason - you cannot resist jumping on the bandwagon.
And to correct you, I am not here posting each week - I haven't posted here or anywhere for ages. I received a notification that I had PM messages, and came to read them. When I WAS (note the use of past tense) getting readings I did keep a record of my readings. Sure, I did. Who doesn't? ... you certainly kept notes.
Finally, you have no idea what is going on in my life and that is the way I like it. You can think what you wish but you will only ever be guessing! All aboard the crazy train has arrived yet again!
Truth, did you really expect that your post wouldn't be tore apart? LOL. If anyone post that psychics are wrong their post get shredded because the person doing the shredding doesn't want to read that PSYCHICS ARE 99.9% wrong!
There shouldn't be any "beef" with anyone, truth stated HIS experience and shouldn't be treated as though he can't read HIS native language.
Maybe the other forum is the best fit for you Bark. Maybe they will appreciate your pompous approach and insults because you are educated.
Dwell? Hhhmmm, I think we all have read your post that named all of the readers you would never read with again, because you made a spread sheet consisting of predictions and failed predictions. I don't know about you but the way I see it...it is dwelling and WAITING on something to happen! So before you go bat shit crazy here telling others what works, ask yourself did it work for you.
My prediction is it did not work for you because you are still here, and now you have joined another forum and my prediction is that you are still searching, dwelling, whatever educated term you want to use, for that which you DWELL on to happen.
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bstalling -
I am not going to go back and forth with you on what dwelling means. Let me settle it by pasting the most common American definition here.
dwell
verb (used without object), dwelt or dwelled, dwelling.
1. to live or stay as a permanent resident; reside.
2. to live or continue in a given condition or state:
"to dwell in happiness."
3. to linger over, emphasize, or ponder in thought, speech, or writing (often followed by on or upon):
There we go, as you can see I was defining the term correctly. I was simply saying (note that I was saying, not ordering, demanding, dictating as some would be inclined to suggest) that perhaps the Universe rewards us when we are content with our lives and not in search mode for something that we regard as missing. Making the best of the blessings we have already. Now don't punish me for that message, because they are not my words. I was simply paraphrasing. And before Kicking and her entourage try to accuse me of supporting psychics, let me say that they don't come from a psychic or a manual on paranormal activity- take a look in any temple, church or place of worship and you'll hear that sentiment repeated over and over again.
Dwelling doesn't mean dwelling on the particular person, - an ex or a new love, or an individual. It means dwelling on that part of one's life. That it's not OK just as it is. That one is anxiously awaiting some event that will improve the status quo. That life would be better if just this one thing that psychics have predicted will happen, would happen. That is what I mean by the term dwelling. It doesn't have to be 24/7, it's a notion that something needs to happen before contentment is achieved.
However, to each his own. Others' mileage may vary. Just saying it happened in my case.
No offense, but that is not what dwelling means. To dwell on something means that you focus on it a lot. What you are saying is that you feel some clients are not okay with one aspect of their life, which can sometimes hold back the universe from manifesting these positive predictions. Is it possible? Sure. Do I think it is the case for most clients, no. I just think a lot of readers are wrong for one reason or another.
Basically, what you are saying is that people should be 100 percent content with their life in order for some positive predictions to happen. I don't know how you can even "try it" as you suggest.
ETA: Also, not everyone is looking for "positive" things to happen. Some just want insight into what may happen, whether it is favorable or not. How does my contentment affect negative predictions, in your opinion?
..and you used a different definition in your past post to negate the very valid command of the word in my initial post. You basically said dwelling means you are discontent about something in your life. Am I wrong? Go read if you don't remember.
Instead of being agitated, do you care to comment on the rest of my post?
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Bstalling, I feel the same way. I believe to an extent, and really want to continue believing. The issue is, however, that I think they pick up messages in a manner that may not be clear, and is therefore open to interpretation. That's when it gets fuzzy. Additionally, I do think this format (by phone) makes it even more difficult to interpret the messages. I can't imagine a "psychic" can sit on the phone connecting to all of these energies all day long and be accurate.
Yeah, when zeroing in on the gifted ones that do have good intentions, the fuzziness is still in issue. Sigh. I just have to accept that gifted psychics are just consistently inconsistent. Read with them for entertainment, and that is it.
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Well put! The business of you not wishing to be rude was simply bull-XXXX, I can see. :D
You know, I don't attack people. However, I do defend myself and I have every right to do that when I am under attack. Same bunch of members all the time, I see. You all seem to think its OK to attack someone, and hope that he/she will just slink off into the distance without bringing attention to the mistreatment. I believe that is BULLYING at its finest. And BULLYING is not to be tolerated. In fact, in some states it is actually illegal. Some on this forum have been superb at bullying anyone that dares to speak up, from day one.
You're all proving with each post that most of you are so judgmental and filled with malice that you can't see beyond your own agenda. I don't know what I was thinking posing a simple question for discussion! I must have forgotten that most of you that are posting are in the Kicking fan club anyway so there is no chance of any impartiality HERE.
Have a great evening... forgive me for not wishing you luck in your psychic journey. It's futile and one doesn't need a psychic to figure that out. I'm a firm believer that ugly dispositions will pretty much determine success or failure.
JFC, stop. If you joined another forum and only come back to check PMs, grats to you and please stop arguing pretty much all of the time. Why even respond? You already said you joined another forum to get away from Le Drama, so why keep perpetuating it? It makes no sense.
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Why am I not surprised? Kicking, think what you will - you know nothing of what has occurred in my situation. By the way, I joined another forum to get away from you a long time ago, for this very reason - you cannot resist jumping on the bandwagon.
And to correct you, I am not here posting each week - I haven't posted here or anywhere for ages. I received a notification that I had PM messages, and came to read them. When I WAS (note the use of past tense) getting readings I did keep a record of my readings. Sure, I did. Who doesn't? ... you certainly kept notes.
Finally, you have no idea what is going on in my life and that is the way I like it. You can think what you wish but you will only ever be guessing! All aboard the crazy train has arrived yet again!
Truth, did you really expect that your post wouldn't be tore apart? LOL. If anyone post that psychics are wrong their post get shredded because the person doing the shredding doesn't want to read that PSYCHICS ARE 99.9% wrong!
There shouldn't be any "beef" with anyone, truth stated HIS experience and shouldn't be treated as though he can't read HIS native language.
Maybe the other forum is the best fit for you Bark. Maybe they will appreciate your pompous approach and insults because you are educated.
Dwell? Hhhmmm, I think we all have read your post that named all of the readers you would never read with again, because you made a spread sheet consisting of predictions and failed predictions. I don't know about you but the way I see it...it is dwelling and WAITING on something to happen! So before you go bat shit crazy here telling others what works, ask yourself did it work for you.
My prediction is it did not work for you because you are still here, and now you have joined another forum and my prediction is that you are still searching, dwelling, whatever educated term you want to use, for that which you DWELL on to happen.
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it ain't easy being green, is it bark?
It almost comes down to the same thing in these heated discussions: you insert your opinion on someone else's reading. maybe its a habit of yours to be domineering in your personal life that your friend and family enjoy, but I think it's proven to be annoying here.
note that no one is defying your point of view in regards to how you approach(ed) readings. the argument here always begins when you try to consult others on how they might be handling their readings incorrectly.
by the way, how has things worked out for you? I know you're not calling anymore... did you reconcile with your ex? or is there a new love in your life?
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bstalling -
I did not use a different definition of dwelling in any post tonight. I said very clearly that dwelling isn't restricted to focusing on an ex of a love that hasn't materialized in one's life. It means focusing on something that you feel is missing from your life. When one dwells one ponders and lingers in thought over something. That's why I mentioned that MAYBE the reason the insignificant predictions that people say happen that aren't important to them do occur is because they are not dwelling on them to materialize.
Predictions are predictions. They don't have to be good, in fact, some are not. Dwelling on the outcome does hinder us, whether you are inclined to agree or not, I don't care. If one is always in thought over a particular person/situation/relationship you can hardly be living life to its fullest.
Simple as that! And to answer your question, in my opinion, all the while you are wondering what might happen (good or bad) you are not living in the moment. Why worry if it doesn't matter how it turns out? Why call at all? Just live and let life happen.
Dwelling doesn't mean dwelling on the particular person, - an ex or a new love, or an individual. It means dwelling on that part of one's life. That it's not OK just as it is. That one is anxiously awaiting some event that will improve the status quo. That life would be better if just this one thing that psychics have predicted will happen, would happen. That is what I mean by the term dwelling. It doesn't have to be 24/7, it's a notion that something needs to happen before contentment is achieved.
However, to each his own. Others' mileage may vary. Just saying it happened in my case.
No offense, but that is not what dwelling means. To dwell on something means that you focus on it a lot. What you are saying is that you feel some clients are not okay with one aspect of their life, which can sometimes hold back the universe from manifesting these positive predictions. Is it possible? Sure. Do I think it is the case for most clients, no. I just think a lot of readers are wrong for one reason or another.
Basically, what you are saying is that people should be 100 percent content with their life in order for some positive predictions to happen. I don't know how you can even "try it" as you suggest.
ETA: Also, not everyone is looking for "positive" things to happen. Some just want insight into what may happen, whether it is favorable or not. How does my contentment affect negative predictions, in your opinion?
..and you used a different definition in your past post to negate the very valid command of the word in my initial post. You basically said dwelling means you are discontent about something in your life. Am I wrong? Go read if you don't remember.
Instead of being agitated, do you care to comment on the rest of my post?
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Domineeering? That is an insult - so I'll leave this post alone! See, I can relent - can you?
it ain't easy being green, is it bark?
It almost comes down to the same thing in these heated discussions: you insert your opinion on someone else's reading. maybe its a habit of yours to be domineering in your personal life that your friend and family enjoy, but I think it's proven to be annoying here.
note that no one is defying your point of view in regards to how you approach(ed) readings. the argument here always begins when you try to consult others on how they might be handling their readings incorrectly.
by the way, how has things worked out for you? I know you're not calling anymore... did you reconcile with your ex? or is there a new love in your life?
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For the record, I simply said this:
Have you ever given thought to the possibility that perhaps the inconsequential, the insignificant predictions manifest and not the big, significant ones because you're not dwelling on the insignificant predictions? Try it.
Let me just say that it was not endorsing calling psychics. It was not encouraging those that believe psychics are fake to change their views at all. I don't care if you call psychics or not.
Nor was it telling people that still call psychics that they are wrong for doing that.
It was simply addressing Truth's comment about the Law of Attraction. You manifest your desires in LOA by trusting that something you wish to happen is coming. So, if by dwelling you are focusing on its absence, you are not able to practice LOA properly.
Anyway. I am done with all of you. I believe in Karma. Some of you might want to take a look at how you mistreat others and how quickly you jump to erroneous conclusions. Have a great night.
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I totally can, bark. I can also wish you well and say that I am sure you probably mean well ... it's just that written forms lack the ability for us to truly understand where the other is coming from.
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bstalling -
I did not use a different definition of dwelling in any post tonight. I said very clearly that dwelling isn't restricted to focusing on an ex of a love that hasn't materialized in one's life. It means focusing on something that you feel is missing from your life. When one dwells one ponders and lingers in thought over something. That's why I mentioned that MAYBE the reason the insignificant predictions that people say happen that aren't important to them do occur is because they are not dwelling on them to materialize.
Predictions are predictions. They don't have to be good, in fact, some are not. Dwelling on the outcome does hinder us, whether you are inclined to agree or not, I don't care. If one is always in thought over a particular person/situation/relationship you can hardly be living life to its fullest.
Simple as that! And to answer your question, in my opinion, all the while you are wondering what might happen (good or bad) you are not living in the moment. Why worry if it doesn't matter how it turns out? Why call at all? Just live and let life happen.
Dwelling doesn't mean dwelling on the particular person, - an ex or a new love, or an individual. It means dwelling on that part of one's life. That it's not OK just as it is. That one is anxiously awaiting some event that will improve the status quo. That life would be better if just this one thing that psychics have predicted will happen, would happen. That is what I mean by the term dwelling. It doesn't have to be 24/7, it's a notion that something needs to happen before contentment is achieved.
However, to each his own. Others' mileage may vary. Just saying it happened in my case.
No offense, but that is not what dwelling means. To dwell on something means that you focus on it a lot. What you are saying is that you feel some clients are not okay with one aspect of their life, which can sometimes hold back the universe from manifesting these positive predictions. Is it possible? Sure. Do I think it is the case for most clients, no. I just think a lot of readers are wrong for one reason or another.
Basically, what you are saying is that people should be 100 percent content with their life in order for some positive predictions to happen. I don't know how you can even "try it" as you suggest.
ETA: Also, not everyone is looking for "positive" things to happen. Some just want insight into what may happen, whether it is favorable or not. How does my contentment affect negative predictions, in your opinion?
..and you used a different definition in your past post to negate the very valid command of the word in my initial post. You basically said dwelling means you are discontent about something in your life. Am I wrong? Go read if you don't remember.
Instead of being agitated, do you care to comment on the rest of my post?
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Sigh, alright Bark..I'll let you have the "dwelling" deal. I was just posting that I didn't dwell as one would initially think when clients get readings.
And now, according to you, calling=worrying and not living in the moment. Your ideas are just so convoluted. It sounds like you are fine living according to the LOA...but this is a psychic board about readings, real readings that clients get to get accurate answers about their lives and valid predictions. Why you choose to bring in this other stuff when people are talking about the outcome of these readings is just...odd and confusing. Especially with the condescending manner that you do it in.
But anyway...I'm done. Enjoy your new forum and I hope you find some like minded people to discuss these things with. I'm pretty sure that it wouldnt be a psychic forum that you are on..more like a forum devoted to figuring out the laws of metaphysics.
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no need for a grand exit, bark. I'm sure we'll see ya later
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Bstalling -
Rather than argue with you, just read Truth's initial comment! It WAS about Law of Attraction and so that is why I mentioned what I did - because it was first mentioned in Truth's post!!!!!!! Oh boy! I don't believe it is this hard to get a clear point across to you.
bstalling -
I did not use a different definition of dwelling in any post tonight. I said very clearly that dwelling isn't restricted to focusing on an ex of a love that hasn't materialized in one's life. It means focusing on something that you feel is missing from your life. When one dwells one ponders and lingers in thought over something. That's why I mentioned that MAYBE the reason the insignificant predictions that people say happen that aren't important to them do occur is because they are not dwelling on them to materialize.
Predictions are predictions. They don't have to be good, in fact, some are not. Dwelling on the outcome does hinder us, whether you are inclined to agree or not, I don't care. If one is always in thought over a particular person/situation/relationship you can hardly be living life to its fullest.
Simple as that! And to answer your question, in my opinion, all the while you are wondering what might happen (good or bad) you are not living in the moment. Why worry if it doesn't matter how it turns out? Why call at all? Just live and let life happen.
Dwelling doesn't mean dwelling on the particular person, - an ex or a new love, or an individual. It means dwelling on that part of one's life. That it's not OK just as it is. That one is anxiously awaiting some event that will improve the status quo. That life would be better if just this one thing that psychics have predicted will happen, would happen. That is what I mean by the term dwelling. It doesn't have to be 24/7, it's a notion that something needs to happen before contentment is achieved.
However, to each his own. Others' mileage may vary. Just saying it happened in my case.
No offense, but that is not what dwelling means. To dwell on something means that you focus on it a lot. What you are saying is that you feel some clients are not okay with one aspect of their life, which can sometimes hold back the universe from manifesting these positive predictions. Is it possible? Sure. Do I think it is the case for most clients, no. I just think a lot of readers are wrong for one reason or another.
Basically, what you are saying is that people should be 100 percent content with their life in order for some positive predictions to happen. I don't know how you can even "try it" as you suggest.
ETA: Also, not everyone is looking for "positive" things to happen. Some just want insight into what may happen, whether it is favorable or not. How does my contentment affect negative predictions, in your opinion?
..and you used a different definition in your past post to negate the very valid command of the word in my initial post. You basically said dwelling means you are discontent about something in your life. Am I wrong? Go read if you don't remember.
Instead of being agitated, do you care to comment on the rest of my post?
Sigh, alright Bark..I'll let you have the "dwelling" deal. I was just posting that I didn't dwell as one would initially think when clients get readings.
And now, according to you, calling=worrying and not living in the moment. Your ideas are just so convoluted. It sounds like you are fine living according to the LOA...but this is a psychic board about readings, real readings that clients get to get accurate answers about their lives and valid predictions. Why you choose to bring in this other stuff when people are talking about the outcome of these readings is just...odd and confusing. Especially with the condescending manner that you do it in.
But anyway...I'm done. Enjoy your new forum and I hope you find some like minded people to discuss these things with. I'm pretty sure that it wouldnt be a psychic forum that you are on..more like a forum devoted to figuring out the laws of metaphysics.
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I doubt it. I have a breaking point too. And this one just took the cake. You are all clearly of one mind. You don't see the validity to the point I brought up with Truth when Truth was lamenting about only little insignificant things manifesting. This was mentioned to a member that is practicing LOA. There was nothing improper about my initial post. NOTHING.
None of you can apologize for anything. Even when it is patently clear that you were being evil and hateful.
Like I said - Karma is a bitch. Thankfully, I conduct my life such that I don't leave myself open for it coming back to bite me. Hopefully, some of you will keep that in mind before you BULLY the next innocent member that comes along.
TaTah
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you take offense to domineering but throw bullying around like candy! I'm sure there are no karma points being racked up for that name calling. do you ever wonder why you're always the one taking up battle against the rest?
again, I'll say it -- see ya later -- in one manifestation or another, because we all know you can't stay away. it's just a matter of time.
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Bark, how is the LOA working out for you? Any updates ? I saw the question was asked but ignored and redirected to how correct you are and how all of this works.
So, how has all of the predictions and LOA manifesting worked out for ya?
Instead of claiming everyone is part of my fan club why don't you give an honest review ?
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Yeah, calling someone out on always picking fights isn't bullying. Asking someone why, if they INSIST they don't want to be here and have somewhere else they'd rather be, they continue to post and stir up trouble isn't bullying. Telling someone that their behavior makes other people uncomfortable isn't bullying. Disagreeing with you, specifically, isn't bullying. Also, while bullying is totally plausible among adults, you're not a kid. If you feel like you're being "bullied" (you're definitely not), you have the option of leaving at any time and just not looking back. You refuse to take it. So are you an adult or not?
Girl, if anything, you're trolling.
I've been avoiding bringing it up because sometimes you bring up conversation and you're nice about it, but the VAST MAJORITY of the time when someone disagrees you get defensive and then you get combative. With everyone. Which everyone here has told you before. In some cases on more than one occasion. And I wouldn't be surprised if you continued to get combative over this.
I have a breaking point too. And this one just took the cake. You are all clearly of one mind. You don't see the validity to the point I brought up with Truth when Truth was lamenting about only little insignificant things manifesting.
And really, this part is completely what it boils down to. We either disagree or don't see the relevance or don't COMPLETELY agree with your thoughts, and now you're upset. Which is, and has been, the pattern with you.
If you're going to participate in an online forum, you need to either be prepared to accept both dissent and criticism (and subsequently get over yourself), or you need to learn to not engage if you can't accept other people's dissenting opinions. When you fail to do either of those, this is inevitably the result.
None of you can apologize for anything. Even when it is patently clear that you were being evil and hateful.
Like I said - Karma is a bitch. Thankfully, I conduct my life such that I don't leave myself open for it coming back to bite me.
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I doubt it. I have a breaking point too. And this one just took the cake. You are all clearly of one mind. You don't see the validity to the point I brought up with Truth when Truth was lamenting about only little insignificant things manifesting. This was mentioned to a member that is practicing LOA. There was nothing improper about my initial post. NOTHING.
None of you can apologize for anything. Even when it is patently clear that you were being evil and hateful.
Like I said - Karma is a bitch. Thankfully, I conduct my life such that I don't leave myself open for it coming back to bite me. Hopefully, some of you will keep that in mind before you BULLY the next innocent member that comes along.
TaTah
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It's all in the way it's said..... "Have you ever given thought to the possibility that perhaps" followed by "Try it" comes off as sarcastic. I had actually replied to your comment which you then ignored because it disproved your statement. Bark, I'm sorry, but you don't like to be wrong. Everyone is wrong at times. And it's an adult thing to admit it AND accept it.
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I was sharing an honest review...and this is the reception I got. Nevermind. Keep up with your games. You don't deserve to know.Bark, how is the LOA working out for you? Any updates ? I saw the question was asked but ignored and redirected to how correct you are and how all of this works.
So, how has all of the predictions and LOA manifesting worked out for ya?
Instead of claiming everyone is part of my fan club why don't you give an honest review ?
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I take offense to all attacks - when unwarranted. I've been called all sorts of names in this thread. BULLYING isn't name calling. After the rounds of ammunition fired off at me for NO REASON, it fits!
you take offense to domineering but throw bullying around like candy! I'm sure there are no karma points being racked up for that name calling. do you ever wonder why you're always the one taking up battle against the rest?
again, I'll say it -- see ya later -- in one manifestation or another, because we all know you can't stay away. it's just a matter of time.
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... another volcano erupts....
Can we all stay focus and remember what this forum is about?? We're supposed to support each other, not rip each other to shreds....
i proposed a group hug dammit! :)
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welcome back, bark! ;)
I told you couldn't stay away for long. I must be psychic.
I doubt it. I have a breaking point too. And this one just took the cake. You are all clearly of one mind. You don't see the validity to the point I brought up with Truth when Truth was lamenting about only little insignificant things manifesting. This was mentioned to a member that is practicing LOA. There was nothing improper about my initial post. NOTHING.
None of you can apologize for anything. Even when it is patently clear that you were being evil and hateful.
Like I said - Karma is a bitch. Thankfully, I conduct my life such that I don't leave myself open for it coming back to bite me. Hopefully, some of you will keep that in mind before you BULLY the next innocent member that comes along.
TaTah
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stirring pot, divine? I was answering posts directed to me. Should I not answer them? Oh I get it - only you guys can continue the convo at nauseum. If I do it it's just plain wrong! You people are just transparent.
welcome back, bark! ;)
I told you couldn't stay away for long. I must be psychic.
I doubt it. I have a breaking point too. And this one just took the cake. You are all clearly of one mind. You don't see the validity to the point I brought up with Truth when Truth was lamenting about only little insignificant things manifesting. This was mentioned to a member that is practicing LOA. There was nothing improper about my initial post. NOTHING.
None of you can apologize for anything. Even when it is patently clear that you were being evil and hateful.
Like I said - Karma is a bitch. Thankfully, I conduct my life such that I don't leave myself open for it coming back to bite me. Hopefully, some of you will keep that in mind before you BULLY the next innocent member that comes along.
TaTah
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haha. no, I was making light of your grand exit last night in which you were done with all the evil and hateful people of this forum.
I don't need to stir the pot; you're doing well enough on your own.
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Oh please. What "have a great evening" is a grand exit? Or was it the words, "I am done" or "tatah"? Honestly, you just cannot quit. It was neither grand I was simply done for the night.
In the clear light of the day I get it! It's all about you can do anything you damned well please, sling insults, egg-on, taunt, and tease but if anyone objects they're being dramatic. You are all a bunch of pathetic people.
haha. no, I was making light of your grand exit last night in which you were done with all the evil and hateful people of this forum.
I don't need to stir the pot; you're doing well enough on your own.
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Oh please. What "have a great evening" is a grand exit? Or was it the words, "I am done" or "tatah"? Honestly, you just cannot quit. It was neither grand I was simply done for the night.
In the clear light of the day I get it! It's all about you can do anything you damned well please, sling insults, egg-on, taunt, and tease but if anyone objects they're being dramatic. You are all a bunch of pathetic people.
haha. no, I was making light of your grand exit last night in which you were done with all the evil and hateful people of this forum.
I don't need to stir the pot; you're doing well enough on your own.
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Thanks for clarifying, Bark.
I usually take this stuff lightly and make a joke of it best as I can. But who are you to refer to anyone here as pathetic? If most here are pathetic, why are you here? Why engage with us "evil", "hateful" and "pathetic" people?
You want to be insulting -- here we go:
Each time I choose engage with you I have increased sympathy for those who have no choice. Most readers must have cringed at the sound of your voice, or maybe they celebrated because they knew they could make more money from feeding you insane lies. (by the way, this entire paragraph is an insult)
But unlike you, I can disengage, and from here on out, I will move forward without your bitter, unhappy, combative, domineering, and sad existence on my radar. Yeah, I just insulted you -- again.
And just so that we are clear, my grand declaration of being done with your delusional self (definitely an insult) isn't just for the morning, or afternoon, or for the month of September; but you should definitely feel free to continue ranting and raving like a lunatic (yup, another insult).
Oh please. What "have a great evening" is a grand exit? Or was it the words, "I am done" or "tatah"? Honestly, you just cannot quit. It was neither grand I was simply done for the night.
In the clear light of the day I get it! It's all about you can do anything you damned well please, sling insults, egg-on, taunt, and tease but if anyone objects they're being dramatic. You are all a bunch of pathetic people.
haha. no, I was making light of your grand exit last night in which you were done with all the evil and hateful people of this forum.
I don't need to stir the pot; you're doing well enough on your own.
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Divine -
You just proved my point again. You can't stop insulting. I didn't choose to engage with "evil" people. I chose to share an opinion with a forum. What came back was a stream of insults and hatred from the same group of people that drive everyone off here. I counted no less than 20 insults from Truth [mainly - Truth was unrelenting] and then Kicking and Somnus and sunandmoon and you chimed in. Like a pack of wolves, No, I am not speaking just for myself, but for a whole host of people that have messaged me about this very practice. It is rampant on here. And this forum is hurting because of it. The place is a GHOST TOWN because people - members - are afraid to say anything lest they be devoured like I am.
Why do I take the time to tell you this? Why do I take you all to task? Because [read my lips] I don't need this place. I don't need [read my lips] psychics. I don't need to read about your success or failures, but I do need to make sure you don't bully the next innocent that stumbles across this place and becomes your next target.
So, there you go. Have a great day! Thanks for clarifying, Bark.
I usually take this stuff lightly and make a joke of it best as I can. But who are you to refer to anyone here as pathetic? If most here are pathetic, why are you here? Why engage with us "evil", "hateful" and "pathetic" people?
You want to be insulting -- here we go:
Each time I choose engage with you I have increased sympathy for those who have no choice. Most readers must have cringed at the sound of your voice, or maybe they celebrated because they knew they could make more money from feeding you insane lies. (by the way, this entire paragraph is an insult)
But unlike you, I can disengage, and from here on out, I will move forward without your bitter, unhappy, combative, domineering, and sad existence on my radar. Yeah, I just insulted you -- again.
And just so that we are clear, my grand declaration of being done with your delusional self (definitely an insult) isn't just for the morning, or afternoon, or for the month of September; but you should definitely feel free to continue ranting and raving like a lunatic (yup, another insult).
Oh please. What "have a great evening" is a grand exit? Or was it the words, "I am done" or "tatah"? Honestly, you just cannot quit. It was neither grand I was simply done for the night.
In the clear light of the day I get it! It's all about you can do anything you damned well please, sling insults, egg-on, taunt, and tease but if anyone objects they're being dramatic. You are all a bunch of pathetic people.
haha. no, I was making light of your grand exit last night in which you were done with all the evil and hateful people of this forum.
I don't need to stir the pot; you're doing well enough on your own.
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Do...do you even read what you're writing? You're accusing someone else of insulting you while you call them evil. I just...what? What? Take a break. This isn't the first time you've acted out of line. Did it never once occur to you that the reason people respond to you the way they do is because of how you conduct yourself? I'm going to let you in on a secret, Ms. Victimization - there's no secret cabal out to get you. The posts you see are all the interaction most of us have with each other. I've missed PMs for MONTHS because I'm awful at checking them. We are reacting to you individually for the same reason. There's no clique, at least not one that I belong to. This is all reaction to your posts. Maybe it's time to evaluate why that is, because no one is buying what you're selling.
Divine -
You just proved my point again. You can't stop insulting. I didn't choose to engage with "evil" people. I chose to share an opinion with a forum. What came back was a stream of insults and hatred from the same group of people that drive everyone off here. I counted no less than 20 insults from Truth [mainly - Truth was unrelenting] and then Kicking and Somnus and sunandmoon and you chimed in. Like a pack of wolves, No, I am not speaking just for myself, but for a whole host of people that have messaged me about this very practice. It is rampant on here. And this forum is hurting because of it. The place is a GHOST TOWN because people - members - are afraid to say anything lest they be devoured like I am.
Why do I take the time to tell you this? Why do I take you all to task? Because [read my lips] I don't need this place. I don't need [read my lips] psychics. I don't need to read about your success or failures, but I do need to make sure you don't bully the next innocent that stumbles across this place and becomes your next target.
So, there you go. Have a great day! Thanks for clarifying, Bark.
I usually take this stuff lightly and make a joke of it best as I can. But who are you to refer to anyone here as pathetic? If most here are pathetic, why are you here? Why engage with us "evil", "hateful" and "pathetic" people?
You want to be insulting -- here we go:
Each time I choose engage with you I have increased sympathy for those who have no choice. Most readers must have cringed at the sound of your voice, or maybe they celebrated because they knew they could make more money from feeding you insane lies. (by the way, this entire paragraph is an insult)
But unlike you, I can disengage, and from here on out, I will move forward without your bitter, unhappy, combative, domineering, and sad existence on my radar. Yeah, I just insulted you -- again.
And just so that we are clear, my grand declaration of being done with your delusional self (definitely an insult) isn't just for the morning, or afternoon, or for the month of September; but you should definitely feel free to continue ranting and raving like a lunatic (yup, another insult).
Oh please. What "have a great evening" is a grand exit? Or was it the words, "I am done" or "tatah"? Honestly, you just cannot quit. It was neither grand I was simply done for the night.
In the clear light of the day I get it! It's all about you can do anything you damned well please, sling insults, egg-on, taunt, and tease but if anyone objects they're being dramatic. You are all a bunch of pathetic people.
haha. no, I was making light of your grand exit last night in which you were done with all the evil and hateful people of this forum.
I don't need to stir the pot; you're doing well enough on your own.
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Somnus - Please. The insults flew before I said ONE BLASTED WORD to anyone. Not one word. I was "discussing" a concept that is related to LOA. That is it. You people are really unbelievable. You can throw stones, but God forbid anyone challenge you on it.
So, take a look at yourselves. You are the ones that cast the first stone. Yes. YOU! Truth, Somnus, sunandmoon, Kicking and Divinewishes. The same group...always.
I can cut and paste the insults one after another if you wish. To show what I mean.
Of course, you are capable people - you should be able to read it yourselves without me spoon feeding it to you.
Check Truths comments first. That's where it started.
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You know you're completely delusional, right?
There's the door. Feel free to use it at any time. For someone who neither needs this place nor psychics, you're pretty fixated on both.
Somnus - Please. The insults flew before I said ONE BLASTED WORD to anyone. Not one word. I was "discussing" a concept that is related to LOA. That is it. You people are really unbelievable. You can throw stones, but God forbid anyone challenge you on it.
So, take a look at yourselves. You are the ones that cast the first stone. Yes. YOU! Truth, Somnus, sunandmoon, Kicking and Divinewishes. The same group...always.
I can cut and paste the insults one after another if you wish. To show what I mean.
Of course, you are capable people - you should be able to read it yourselves without me spoon feeding it to you.
Check Truths comments first. That's where it started.
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Another insult. And the mere fact that I don't congregate here like all of you proves I am not fixated either. You are just showing yourself to be one bitter, bitter woman.
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Oh, I'm pretty sure that of the two of us, I'm not the one coming across as bitter. I'm mostly just waiting to see what kind of nonsense you'll come up with next to explain why you play no role in any of this happening.
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Another insult. And the mere fact that I don't congregate here like all of you proves I am not fixated either. You are just showing yourself to be one bitter, bitter woman.
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Read my lips, Somnus. I never said I played no role. So, I will request that you not misquote me. I admitted that once attacked I will defend myself. But that is the case, I was attacked, first. I then defended myself. I am not here to attack people for fun - which is what a lot of the group I am dealing with do.
If you don't believe it read - READ - the thread.
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I don't think she can see your lips lol
Read my lips, Somnus. I never said I played no role. So, I will request that you not misquote me. I admitted that once attacked I will defend myself. But that is the case, I was attacked, first. I then defended myself. I am not here to attack people for fun - which is what a lot of the group I am dealing with do.
If you don't believe it read - READ - the thread.
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You didn't know? I'm totally all-seeing.
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Okay now I'm definitely going to hell.
I don't think she can see your lips lol
Read my lips, Somnus. I never said I played no role. So, I will request that you not misquote me. I admitted that once attacked I will defend myself. But that is the case, I was attacked, first. I then defended myself. I am not here to attack people for fun - which is what a lot of the group I am dealing with do.
If you don't believe it read - READ - the thread.
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Hahahahaha!!!!
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