The Psychic Reviews
Relationship Psychology Discussions => The Vent => Topic started by: cj on February 27, 2011, 03:53:29 AM
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I feel so bitter towards life. love. and everything else that comes along with it. Seriously...I get that we need to learn lessons but why does everything have to seem so impossible.
I feel like I have no sense of clarity and no idea where to go..what to do...and where to take this long hard bumpy road. Im sad again...like really really sad again. It almost feel like the day that I found out about the whole preg/baby thing.
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Cjean: You should look into finding a good healer. Everything that happens in life is about a relationship. A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF.
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girl, we've all been there :( I was not so long ago so I can remember clearly, and all I can think to tell you, after being able to look back, if you can decide to let it go, it will sort itself out. It's a decision to take care of yourself and look out for yourself and to stop the hurting. You've given your power away, now take it back. And it's not just the words and the clever sayings, it's an honest turn for the better and a leap of faith. The saying about one door closing and another one opening, I have to bring that one up because it's the truest one in this life, it's just how it goes. Life is full of mystery and things we cannot understand, shit that feels too unfair, but you pick yourself up, dust yaself off and start all over... ain't no thang. Find a good ass friend and do something fun. It's Saturday night and you're in NYC, just let yourself. Either that or go get a Chinese back massage for an hour, that's totally what I want! And hey!! be excited wondering what angel's doing right now!!! haha!!! That woman was with the same man for 20 years! woo hoo!!! ;)
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you're so right Kira..unfortunately though Im so broke...so I have nothing to do tonight. I'll just be calling it a night and sleeping all this sadness off...
I've been here before...and not to say anyone else's pain is less than mines..but theres a baby involved..letting go is one thing but seeing the person you want happiness with, happy in their own stages and changes in their life makes it even worse. It feels like my heart keeps falling apart everytime I pick up some of the pieces
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Exactly though, there's a baby involved. And if you let yourself live your best life, you'll be hitting those stages too, and you won't feel the same way about him when you're in love again -with a man who's just for you, with a baby that's yours, etc... trust me!!!
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Im trying..all I want so badly is for me to be happy.
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Cjean - Over the past 5 years I've been in your shoes 100 times. It totally sucks but it will get better. I know fri or sat PM can be hard. My old therapist told me to stop looking @ weekend nights as date nights. If I have a free weekend night - clean a closet, read a book, journal thoughts down on paper. I know it sounds simple and silly but after trying it a few times it really helped. That plus a big glass of wine does wonders. hang in there.
pt
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cjean- I totally agree with pt...I have been working with a metaphysical healer who works with helping you change your energy and he says everytime you look ahead or try to think when something will or won't happen, that is a prediction. It's okay to have them but my problem (and I'm sure others too) are that I started acting on my predictions. Like for instance, if I didn't hear from sm in a week i would think omg, he doesn't want to talk to me and be depressed(prediction) or if I was feeling sad and thought that I would never see sm or be happy again I would freak (predicition). Predictions are okay if you don't act on them, instead be okay with "the moment", what is happening right now, not later, in a day, etc. Trust me, it is not easy to begin to think like this but I can tell you I have been working on it....I have had scenarios and predictions in my mind for so long and have made myself nuts on things I "thought" but had no reality. I used to call CP several times a week since the fall and I can honestly say, I have cut waaaaay back on calling because I am just trying to work on what I'm currently feeling or what is currently happening, not what will happen. I figured I had to change my way of thinking because the way I used to be wasn't working for me and making me crazy. I don't know if this is related to any of the work I've been doing on myself but sm and I haven't really talked much other than a "hey how are you doing" but the other night when i sent him a "hey, how are you doing" we began talking and he began to slowly open up about his feelings for me....NEVER EVER has this happened in the past!! Usually, I would begin to plan when I'm going to talk to him or see him again and start thinking about the things that can happen between us but I will say that I am just happy that he is opening up and I am okay with that for now. I'm not going to freak if I don't hear from him for a while because at least I know how he feels and for now, that is good enough for me!! :)
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PT and CM both very wise words!! I too have cut back on my calling. Just trying to let things unfold on there own still up and down at times but it takes time!!
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cm12345 - that's good news about his feelings!! Fill us in...........
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I dont really care about going out every weekend...I have tons of friends and a great social life...I just want to be with the person I love. Its a void until time or he can fill at the moment. Thats all :-[ but Im working on healing myself...
Crazy thing is I use to think I forgave people easily but Idk if I will ever forgive him...I forgave my ex but I still hold resentful feelings towards him. I think maybe its how the person handles their mistakes...
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"I forgave my ex but I still hold resentful feelings towards him. I think maybe its how the person handles their mistakes..."
i am so glad you said this. i completely understand. if my sm were to come back around and say "im so sorry, i was wrong, i know that i hurt you and i am sorry" just a SINCERE APOLOGY is what i would like...just to hear that he knows he was wrong and isnt afraid to admit it. he cant take responsibility for what he does so he keeps making the same mistakes.
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thats what I feel girl..and that is why I can't forgive him or completely move on...I think Im hurting more from the fact that he's not hurting enough from hurting me....
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" I think Im hurting more from the fact that he's not hurting enough from hurting me.... "
are we the same person???? seriously....
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of course we are csk ;)
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You know...I work in a place where a lot of the ppl think it is a great place to work and then you have those that dont want to go with the flow and then they dont like the job or the people. I went on this site and read another comment on CP. The lady said they asked her tokeep people on the phone...natalie does not stay on the phone. Her readings are quick and she gets alot of comments. Every business is like that some ppl agree and some dont.
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thanks for that, healer, I think we need to hear more stories from the inside, as most of us have questioned this company's ethics for a while now...
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I agree. I went through a phase where I was calling more than necessary. I have cut back, and I feel a lot better. It is so tempting to know what a psychic can see, but it is also just as exciting and fulfilling to live your life with trust in your own intuition.
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"natalie does not stay on the phone. Her readings are quick and she gets alot of comments. "
but she does tell everyone "long term and exclusive" and her predictions never happened. not a single one.
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who the hell has that kind of money? ????
I need to cut back period...hello...vacation! evry $50 counts
my intuition is all screwed up kiki lol...idk whats what anymore...and how to separate the fears from the hopes from the truth from the intuition
idk if natalie will be on "long term or exclusive" with cp much longer lol
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haha must be natalie's long term exclusive with everyone else must have earned her staff and customer favourite :P In anycase, i gave up calling Ps. Not even sure if they are accurate, they are expensive and obivously it is not morally right for their business model to raise charges like nothing. As much as how much pain we have or love our ex, we have to gauge what is the situation by reality and be realistic and objective about it. It is no point being so attached to things. I am sure you guys know what pain is, do we need to be miserable even more?
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nope..not worth the stress..love can certainly bring out the best and worst out of a person...so enough ab that fm...when are u coming to NY so I can squeeze ure baby face! lol
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"not even sure if they are accurate, they are expensive and obviously it is not morally right for their business model to raise charges like nothing"
i know...the owners obviously dont care about the customers even though they act like they do. CP really is a sad business. i feel bad i support it, you are right those prices jump excessively high.
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no idea maybe late dec or early jan ... i see my cash flow ande leave forcast, its still a bit far off.
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true..hey and I might not even like you by then lol.. *just joking...hehe...let me know mister..well have a good old fun cold freezing time! *hope u drink? 8)
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Healer
ur right...it is a waste of money to keep calling and wait and wait for somethying to happen. I think we should just support one another on here. We are all smart enough to help one another figure it out .
I once was toold by a psychic that you shold only get 4 readings a year. And also when they tell you not to make a move Dont! Natalie told me not to contact him to let him come to me and everytime she ttold me that I contacted him somehow which I feel delayed the situation. But when you see the person you know in ur heart if they love you or not and if they dont say anything then dont wait. I find the time going ti slow for me bc im not dating anyone and I need to be but there isnt anyone here to date ...And if I meet someone they are always significantly younger then me....Im not rocking the cradle!
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lmao....well maybe rocking it for a bit isnt so bad ??? :-\ :-X :P 8) ;) :) :D
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Beachgirl - if it makes you feel better, Natalie (as well as 100 others) told me to not make contact, and I didn't - not once, and the timelines still get pushed out.
xxoo
PT
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Actually, let me change what I just said. The timeline for the big outcome - a relationship - keeps getting pushed out. But timelines for phone/email contact have been accurate from Jacqueline, Alison, and a few times Michelle, Maryanne and Natalie. The little predictions give me hope for the big one.
Hang in there Beach girl. Sorry if you answered this but where are you from?
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Let's boycott CP for a month!!!!
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I think I'm going to have to, even if it's only for financial reasons. ???
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Angel - what's up with the new guy? Did anyone of your regular CP's see him coming - at all? Have you talked to any of them about him? Do you still like him?
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yeah she said donna seen that she would meet someone who is a teacher :)
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I know several CP's saw another man coming. I was told that I would have a choice by Angel and Donna, I know those 2 for sure. Donna was more specific stating he would be a teacher, but she indicated it would be around May. I'm not sure if this is unrelated or not because the timing was way different?
I really do like him. I did a reading with Jacqueline last Friday, she didn't mention him at all. She's never indicated that there would be anyone else. I told her towards the end of my reading that I had a date the following night and gave her his name. She said that he is very nice and I would like him. I mentioned that I had been told by a few psychics that I would have a choice and she said, yes this is true. I'm not sure what to think about her agreement, was she agreeing with the statement because it had been made or was it her read of the situation? She said, he's a really nice guy, and he is. The other stuff she told me hasn't happened yet and it was supposed to happen the past couple days, maybe the timing's off? Who knows?
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yeah thats probably bc the connection isnt so strong yet. But Jacq shouldve picked that up Im sorry. I like when I dont tell them about something or someone and they just pick it up on t heir own..I mean thats why theire psychic right.
Angel next time try Violet...she told me this one guy I was t alking to is really gay but he doesnt want anyone to find out and he's not sure whether he likes boys or girls yet. Ugh.and it turned out to be t rue..I always go to her for new guys in my life lol.
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well you'll just minimize the readings like we all are and should do....and just let life play itself out
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that is why we are going to boycott!! there are plenty of psychic readings out there that are MUCH cheaper....
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true..but then we have to build a whole new relationship with these new people ...which sucks
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thehealer, CP can't sue you for establishing this discussion board any more than you can sue them for not being 100% on their predictions. Consumers do have the right to discuss their experiences with other consumers. That's what we are as paying customers -- consumers.
However, just out of plain courtesy, I think we should keep our feedback fact-based and not bad mouth readers just because we think their names are silly or we don't like how they look.
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Angel and thehealer, I'm curious what Jacqueline has told both of you regarding your situations. Angel, has she said you and your husband will be getting back together? thehealer, has she told you that your SM will be returning to you at some point?
Angel, I guess I'm wondering specifically about you, because I'm feeling like you don't even want to get back together with your husband at this point. You are proceeding with the divorce right? And did Jacqueline predict that? Or do you think this is a matter of your own free will?
Any of you remember those "choose your own adventure" stories from childhood? It occurred to me this morning that's kind of how free will works. Everything is there in the book -- all the options of our lives. And we can either turn to page 36 to meet a new person, turn to page 56 to move to Mexico or turn to page 64 to wait for our soulmates.
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Kiki, Jacqueline has never mentioned another man to me. I told her that I had a date last week, that was the only reason she said anything about it. She indicated that husband would be returning home to me, as have many other psychics. Several other psychics told me I would have a choice. Jacqueline said that to me last Friday for the 1st time, but only after I told her that other psychics had told me that. I'm just going with the moment for right now, not really worrying about the outcome.
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I think that's good, Angel. You've been under a lot of stress, and this new guy sounds like someone you can really have fun with and just enjoy things! Just go with it and see what happens. ;D
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it was just a joke kiki
I didnt mean any disrespect to any of the cp psychics. I felt that Jayzies name was "interesting"
I really am a nice person, I just sometimes add humor when things are not going so well. Just to keep joy around. You know. But if it offended you I apoplogize.
I seem to be offending a lot of people lately..maybe I should just :-X
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go with the flow Angel..you're so much happier..its funny how new love can just bring in so much joy....your guides recognize that and thats why theyre giving you options.
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You don't offend me at all Cjean! Whatever happens, I'm still better off. This has given me a new perspective to my situation. I'm not worrying and holding on to all the little things nearly as tightly. My outlook has changed, I really hope that I won't get hurt in the end though.
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Angel you won't..your guides are looking at it and saying "look you need happiness..we dont wantto see you cry anymore" our guides love us like parents..sometimes theyre actually souls we've known in past lives...so their priority is our best interest. If they see that our sm has messed up big time..then they come in with another knight in shining armor (not that our 1st one was lol) and they say here "you can decide now..and now the tables are turned...and the fighter is left being the prize..and thats we are my lovely: PRIZES AND JEMS...all glowing for the one who fits and suits us best..and maybe that is Mr. Husband j-a** or Mr. New unexpected guy...but since you're the gem just sit, look pretty and wait to see who wins the prize.....MAY THE BEST MAN WIN.
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thehealer, wow that really worries me, on a selfish level, to know that none of her predictions happen for you...
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me too :-[
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yea, healer, don't call her anymore.
I'm gonna look at your story and see if you listed who said she'd be back and who said she wouldn't.
If it's not there, I'd love to know...
ok, I looked through your story and didn't see. Which psychics have told you she'd be back? Which ones have told you she will not? If you don't mind?
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Hi Healer... I know you talked about taking some classes with Tarot Lady but did you actually ever read with her? I'm just curious as to what she told you about your situation. She has been SO right on for me about 95% of everything.
I'm so sorry to hear that you ended up spending all that money and that they have not been correct for you. I've never read with Jacqilyn but it makes me wonder....
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Healer - I'm really sorry. I don't really know what else to say. I don't get it. I wish there was someone we could ask to explain how our of all of your readings, none of the predictions happened. Could all of their timing be off?
Sunshine - I know he read with Meryl recently
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wow, healer. wow. I don't even know what to think of that, seeing them all listed that way, wow.
I think of how I only had 5 of them telling me we'd be together and how I kept saying, 'how can that many people be wrong?' So I know how the hope is there on that string. :(
As for the two that said no, did they tell you anything maybe about other matters that felt right?
You sound lately like you aren't too happy with your experience with readings (except in S. America), maybe you're entering a new stage of the process? Have you thought more about sending her a letter lately? Or are you beginning to let go? I can't tell for sure where you are with the whole deal. ???
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healer - is this your longest breakup with her? I think it is. I can't remember.
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guys, i am deleting my account off CP :(
i might call Jean once to see if she would read for me outside the company but i doubt she would....im tired of wasting money
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CSK- I'm done with them too, but have been for a while. I called VJ on keen. And was ignored by Seha on her own site.
I'm thinking my next reading will be with a local gal who was alright and cheap.
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There's no need to mention CP, but if you mean she'll recognize you, I still think it's all fair game. Let me know if you talk to her again. I'd love to tell you about my reading too sometime. I really appreciated that she and I exchanged some messages before our call and set up our call. It feels much less controlled by the almighty dollar wizards over there!! Although they certainly do have some very suspicious psychics ???
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CSK - did something happen this week (or not happen I guess is the question)? Was last week when things were supposed to change or something? I can't remember
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By getting too many readings we "piss off the Universe"
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Would any of you read with Ellen Hartwell again?
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So, I think new guy is still sick? Never heard anything from yesterday. I had been texting him the previous few days checking up on him and I decided not to contact him because he seemed to be "running cold"? Not sure if it's illness or something else? Definitely don't know how to read him now? I sent him a voice text this morning because I wanted to clear something up. I stated that the past couple of text convos we had he seemed down. He replied about 1/2 hr later by stating he thought the way he was the other nite is because he's sick and not himself. Maybe true? This reply was sent after I saw him on FB, so I'm not sure if that's why he replied because he knew that I knew he got my message? He worked Thursday and Friday, so I know he's not that down? He even updated his pictures on his dating profile. We have no future plans?
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That kinda stinks, angel. I would say you should try another date while he decides if he's hot or cold. Has he been on that site for long? I think for some people it's too much at once and they have to explore it a bit. And then there's the whole thing about people who get scared when they actually like someone. Recently when I was afraid I was gonna like someone, I had this urge to ...NOT! haha, I mean, readiness for monogamy is tricky for some. Perhaps you should sample another chocolate from the box and see how that feels?
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Thanks Kira, I think you're onto something! You had the urge to like someone, lol! I know, it's so complicated...you have to protect yourself from being hurt if it's someone you do like, but most of the time the dating pool is pretty depressing. Have to be very balanced about it. He's been online probably since January? Said he's been on 3-4 dates, I believe? I read with Ellen Hartwell, she said he's very nervous and scared right now. She said that my getting on facebook overwhelmed him, so he withdrew. I have to say I really liked her, she gave alot of info for $30. She started with a cold reading to get her impression of me when she first started so that I would know we were connecting. I was actually on the phone with her for 30 minutes. She asked me to thank you guys for the referral.
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wow! which way did you speak to her? Keen or doesn't she have a site?
Yea, we've been discussing the ins and outs of online dating... you owe it to yourself to meet a couple more people and then see if anything stacks up. That's what the guys are doing -guaranteed!
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Hi ladies, let's chat?
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Yes, I would and have read with Ellen Hartwell more than once on her own site...I love her and truly only listen to things she says and no other psychics because she has been so right on with me!!!! I only call her once every 3 weeks or so and that is more than enough
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I read with her on her site! She called me within 15-20 minutes of paying which I thought was great! I was very impressed with her empathic abilities, she gave me so much info, very detailed!!! She even picked up that this guy raced as teenager, she thought it was cars, but last weekend when we went out, he told me that he used to involved with motocross and race motorcycles as teenager. She was very accurate with her assessment of him as much as I could tell, although I don't know him very well. She completely described him physically and it was not just close, it was exact. She told me that he bit his nails, that I'm not sure of? Will pay attention next time I see him? I can't believe I've paid so much $$$ for much less info. I've been averaging $65-$75 for a reading!!! This was half of that and more in depth.
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I agree Angel..ellen is really good!
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Did you read with her recently Cjean or has it been awhile?
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Update...I went on his fb profile a little while ago and he has posted that he went to dinner, actually posted restaurant profile, then he posted a reservation for a club where he was going to see a local band. Not sick anymore? I went back on his profile to January and he's never posted anything this personal before? Course, he just got an android phone a week ago and he's been playing on fb quite a bit, could be he just has the capability to do it now? But, this info did not come up on my home page, so he must've changed the privacy settings as to what info streams to me. But, all I had to do was check his profile directly and it was all there? I'm not sure what to make of all this, if anything? I can't help but think maybe he wanted me to know this, but he also wanted me to have to check his profile directly to find out? Help, some of you are more experienced with fb and this dating game? :-X
Not cool. I don't know, but if it were me I'd be annoyed and probably vow to not contact him anymore. If he resumes contact, let him sense without too much in words that you are not that interested. Come off as far from desperate and actively dating other people. That's what I would probably do. >:( I'm sorry he's not acting right. :(
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sorry Angel :(
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Angel - I'm sorry but there is only one thing you can do - retreat!! Don't contact him, don't text him, email, nothing. Your silence will speak volumes. And, while you retreat maybe line up another date? He will come back around. Did Ellen see any type of future with this guy?
big hugs
PT
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Angel I wouldn't give the silence thing after the date any energy. I've been busy and have been reading back and it seems all this is as new to him as it is to you and he's coming from a broken relationship also. You know men handle things differently and he seems like a nice guy but remember for you that you're the female and he has to chase you! You always want to leave him wanting more.....more contact...more conversation....don't give it all up all at once otherwise what's there for him to wonder or want to keep going after? He seems like a good guy but you have to move into a little flip here....he's leaving you wanting more and you have to flip that. Next contact don't answer so fast...you DON'T have to answer the phone when he calls or answer the next text/email whatever as soon as he sends it.....he did that to you...you're supposed to be the one doing that to him!!! Remember you're busy....living life....if you're always available he'll be sure of you...pursue those he's not sure of because he's not sure of that one or this one and he will feel oh I have to keep tabs on this girl because Angel is there she always answers....you want to flip that. And next date I would not spend all that time with him etc....you have to leave him not getting his fill of you! And you have to do this with the KNOWING he WILL text you again....he WILL call you back....he WILL ask you out again....remember it's all about you girl! You're worth it! If you know it he'll know it!!! I feel like this guy is a good energy for you so you just have to know it and flip the movement...it's his chase! ;)
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Thanks PT and AEF2929! You're both right about all of this. I have not contacted him since yesterday morning when I left voice text. My daughter had put a post on fb yesterday that I had responded to, stating that she and I had gone to dinner. So, he knows what my evening last night consisted of. I didn't learn til several hours after that he had gone out to dinner, coincidentally around the same time and I went to the grocery store after dinner and the BWW he went to is next door to this grocery store. Evidently, he frequents BWW quite a bit.
Thanks AEF, you gave me some reassurance! Thanks for the hug PT, I needed it!
I feel like this guy is a good energy for you so you just have to know it and flip the movement...it's his chase!
What do you mean by this? Do you have psychic or intuitive ability?
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good advice aef :)
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Really? I didn't think any of the trackers worked unless both 'parties' (stalker and stalkee) had it installed. Will be interested in your findings angel.
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maybe it doesn't work?
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Kira you were ignored by Seha too? I actually did get to read with her. While i thought she was accurate i did not think she was too detailed...after spending 20 minutes talking to her about the situation and her answering my questions i started crying my eyes out and i couldnt talk anymore. she had told me that it would take a couple more months until he made serious changes and wanted to be committed, so then i said no i have been in pain too long can you please see if someone else will be in my life? and she said no, this is a part of destiny for you two to be together...so i continued to cry with her and stopped asking questions while she explained that i would be able to forgive him once he came back and explained everything to me. she also said that he was going to tell me that he loved me....and that i would have at least one child with him? she said there is marriage all over this...
but, i dont understand why she couldnt pick up on this other guy like Ellen did...because i read with a couple of local readers here in my city as well and they have both mentioned him...they also have both told me there will be a connection with this other guy too.
pt- you asked me if something was predicted to happen recently...well from the CP psychics Meryl and Mark had both said that relationship sm has would officially end in Feb.
according to fb he is still in the relationship but i mean she lives in another country its obviously not serious...but i guess they were wrong about it not completely breaking off. my issue here, and this is the constant question i ask myself ..."why is it easy for him to stay away from me? why is he okay with the idea of possibly losing me" and thats why i dont contact him first.
pt i also am suppose to meet that other sm soon...will let you know if that happens. i dont remember if you were in the chat when i said this but Donna told me it would be in March and that i would meet him at an indoor/outdoor event, and she gave a few more details but i would have to go back and see what she told me....
but anyway....yesterday i went to the Mardi Gras parade here in our city and i saw one of my sm's friends there....it was the first time i met this friend of his but i am wondering if he told him that he was with me yesterday. i will keep everyone posted.
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I've heard it doesn't work. If it did, everyone would have it. ;D
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angel what is the latest with your husband? now that you are sort of seeing someone do you even want to get back together with him?
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CSK - I was in chat with the Donna info. One thing I have noticed is that some of the psychics are good with seeing a 3rd party (on either side) while other's don't see it til a strong connection has been made. I guess all part of the gift. Mark did see December guy coming into the picture a few days before I met him. Maryanne and Alison saw SM going back and forth between me and the dating world until end of feb/beg of march and all indications are they are right but he hasn't moved toward me yet. Meryl had the same timeline as Maryann and Alison but I've only read with Meryl once so I don't have much to say on her yet. I don't know if that helps but I thought I would share. I really let go of all December guy predictions and everything happened as everyone said it would. If I could just figure out a way to let go of SM stuff...............
Your reading with Seha sounds really interesting. Do you feel alittle better? I wonder why she brought out such emotion? You must have needed to get it OUT!!
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CSK, I really don't want to talk to ex right now.
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yeah i dont know about mark i know he is psychic but only time will tell how far off his timing is....
but pt when they tell you sm will be going back and forth between you and the dating world do you find yourself asking the same questions that i do? such as why he is okay without contact for a while or why he doesnt come after you? you would think such a connection would be strong enough to make the guy terrified of losing us..but then again i guess fear is what makes them run in the first place and so i find myself always returning to steve gunns articles.
my reading with seha was definitely therapeutic....she was very soft with me and could tell i was in a lot of pain on the phone. i was suprised at the end of the reading when she asked me if i wanted to have children. i told her i was on the fence about that thinking kids would be too hard for me, but she said i was going to have at least one child and its going to be a boy. now i know these psychics are wrong about some things but they always tell me i am going to have two children (seha just said at least one) and she said the boy is first and this is what the others have told me...that is a bit scary, but i do like when all their predictions overlap. she also saw me returning to school next semester.
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csk - the going back and forth hurt more then anything. I knew how he felt about me and I couldn't believe he would risk it all. Maryanne explained it well to me. We were running a race at different speeds but that he would catch up to me. Every day I am so frustrated and get pissed at how slowly the re-connection is going. So I know how you feel. For me, I had, and still have, major trust issues to get over (he does too). I am just starting to become aware of my part in the re-connection delay so at least I feel like i have something I can do to help it along. Part of my calling the psychics is that I don't want to be blind sided with something really bad. I'm trying to learn to trust my own intuition to help guide me - not the psychics. But they are my crutch for now as I try and get through this. Hopefully I'm not messing everything up by calling them but I'm trying to do the best I can and get through this time while remaining sane. I am starting to feel like I have a handle on this alittle so hopefully you will get there too.
Now, if he would just friggin call..............
pt
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1st of all pt: lol @ "stalker and stalkees"...guess Im a stalkee lmao..
and yes! I agree that some psychics can read more details ab a person..once the connection is made! and others can see a person coming or read things ab them without having the connection there.
Sigh. who knows anymore whats true or not....and these delayed timelines sure dont help. :-\
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well...Im tired of feeling like shit...Im done waiting for my SM. As a matter of fact I dont think he is my Sm anymore...I think he was a tradegy that came into my life for me to realize what an amazing person I am and all that I have to offer someone worthy. I need my Goddess back. I ma done crying for this guy. I had a reading this morning. It was not one I wanted to hear. She said that he knows he has a hold on me and takes advantage of that. He keeps the relationship unbalanced so that he can keep coming back whenever he wants thus giving him control. No....no more! Im done....Im getting my power and control back....screw him...he someone loves you wild horses couldnt keep them away. It is that simple. They know how toget your attention when they want it right! Well then he can put that much determination now or lose me. I cant do this anymore. Three years is enough waiting. he wont grow up. And he is surrounded by people who wont grow mentally pass a high school mentality so he's never going to grow up until he moves out of that environment. This morning I work up feeling empty, lonely, unattractive, unloved. But I realized all this is defined by the lack of attention im getting from him. I cannot give him that much power over me. And the mess up part is that he should be the one waiting to be with me instrad of the other way around. he hurt me. I never did anything to him to deserve to be treated like this. I am a very warm loving generous person with a big heart and he stepped all over my heart ripped it apart, poured acid on it and still kept trying to rip it apart. And I was willing to give him my heart again. because I am a forgiving person. But I also realize I dont deserve to be punished....I didnt do anything to him. I was faithful the whole time. He seems to give the girls who cheat more attention but then again he knows they wont last in his life. he doesnt want anyone long term.
So today i start a new chapter in my life. I will be falling in love with me again! I need to focus on me and all the things that I love to do. Summer is coming up and I want to have fun. Im so tired of feeling sad and crying over this person who has absolutely nothing to offer me accept heartbreak. I have waste so much money getting readings to hear yes he loves you ...youre the one he wants to be with or....no forget about him. its too confusing and I have to go with the present moment. And right now he is not knocking my door down. I will be back to work next week and I need to be strong and have a strong presense when he sees me.
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Good for you Beachgirl!!! This is a very healthy approach for life based on what is happening presently. The reality probably is that these predictions that we've been waiting on aren't really happening because we are basing our lives on them, rather than manifesting what our life really is. Our actions would be different if we weren't anticipating a prediction in the near future. You should be focusing on you and what makes you happy! Sounds like he is being abusive to you emotionally and that is not right! Sounds like you're ready for the next step...
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Angel
I am ready. Im sad and feeling depressed....this has been going on for too long. I dont deserve to be treated like this. None of us should be waiting for anyone. I just know that love should make me feel good not bad. I have to set goals for myself and look forward to that manifesting instead of some phoney prediction. who knows if any of them will manifest but I want to forget. I have given him enough of my time. Now its time for ME. I have been working on this all day. Im starting to feel better.
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:( bg..... you know what's best for you...do that. You will become a better and happier person. And you do deserve better...and you'll get it. You are amazing..whoever doesn't see that has mental issues
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".....boy chases girl...."
exactly thats so f'ing stupid when guys want you to "want them." F that....i am in such a crabby mood hope everyone else is better off than i am at the moment
and good for you Beachgirl
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these soul snatchers are causing too much stress...Im out and dating and having a ball....and Im loving every minute of it. I think everyone needs a distraction and some happy time 8)
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Good Cjean, glad to hear it!! ::)
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It's so wild to see people on this forum going through our stages! Power to us all! ;D
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Angel my dear - I know EXACTLY how you feel. It sucks sucks sucks. You need to find someone to chat with as well. Make an effort - I don't know which site you are on but send out some winks/emails/whatever. Browse through profiles for the next hour and pick some to send a note to. See who responds. That's how it works - almost a numbers game. Not everyone you send a note to will respond. Hopefully he'll get the vibe that you are chatting as well..........
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I have a very small pathetic update. After an 12 day disappearance, my "runner" SM finally logged in as "visible' where we usually log in to talk. I broke down and logged in also but neither of us started a conversation. We both stayed in for 2 hours in silence..........
I am thankful but I got so nervous and scared. Almost relieved when he logged out because I have no idea what to say. Last "run" was 3 weeks so hopefully this will be shorter.
xxoo
pt
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Angel my dear - I know EXACTLY how you feel. It sucks sucks sucks. You need to find someone to chat with as well. Make an effort - I don't know which site you are on but send out some winks/emails/whatever. Browse through profiles for the next hour and pick some to send a note to. See who responds. That's how it works - almost a numbers game. Not everyone you send a note to will respond. Hopefully he'll get the vibe that you are chatting as well..........
TOTALLY!!!
...you never know. Remind me to tell you my online dating stats! haha! IF VJ is correct about a certain guy being a sm, he was date #5. ;) fyi.
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I have a very small pathetic update. After an 12 day disappearance, my "runner" SM finally logged in as "visible' where we usually log in to talk. I broke down and logged in also but neither of us started a conversation. We both stayed in for 2 hours in silence..........
I am thankful but I got so nervous and scared. Almost relieved when he logged out because I have no idea what to say. Last "run" was 3 weeks so hopefully this will be shorter.
xxoo
pt
pt- ugh. Modern technology just makes it all more intense, doesn't it?!?! Is it a dating site or like facebook you guys were logged in on? Or what?
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Kira - Dating sites are over thank goodness. I de-friended him on facebook when we broke up. LOL. We have a Instant Messenger thing set up.
I'm excited for you!!
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The IM thing is like our form of a phone call because we go from that to talking on the phone over the internet etc. In the past if we are home we are both logged in a will chat whenever during the day. When we both had the kids we would set up the web cam in the AM and have coffee together while the kids were sleeping. We would literally keep it going from morning til night. I don't stay logged in anymore. I pop in and out here and there. The entire thing is so messed up. When we first really reconnected in January I think we talked through out the day from 6AM until 2AM for 3 days. We were both so psyched but then he started getting scared again. One thing I have noticed is that the "run" seems to be getting alittle shorter.
The back and forth is giving me new wrinkles on my forehead.
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Kira, I'm excited for you too! PT, I'm hoping the silence will end soon! He's not dating anyone else, just to afraid to contact you, right? I know it must be so frustrating!!!!
I'm afraid to contact someone else right now because Ellen told me that he was afraid I was going to see someone else which was a large part of the reason he is reacting this way as a defense mechanism? She advised me not to make him jealous in any way. She didn't say for me not to date, but to not use another guy to make him jealous. So, I'm really not sure what I should do for now? I think I'll lay low for a little while and see what happens? He did send me a message today, I pretty much ended the conversation and kept it fairly brief, but he really wasn't giving me much to work with anyway?
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Angel - no he isn't dating anyone else. He is a major commitment phone. I represent the very last thing he was looking for. Right before the last run he told me he thinks he is ready to try a relationship. Then Poof - he was gone.
Regarding new dude, I think u should follow your instincts. But remember you are newly single and innocent chatting is a lot different then going out on dates....
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Good point...
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lol pt: "wrinkles on your forehead"
thats got to be stressful..I hate commitment phobs....seriously..wth are they afraid of? Its all in their minds!
angel: that sucks..jeez...way to make a woman eel crappy after making her feel good ???
I refuse and wont ever attempt to try to understand little boys "not men" I have no time for that..I'll worry about little boys when I have mines ::)
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where is healer??
he is ready to settle down....
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:) angel.....good..comunication goes a long way...but keep your guard up...we dont want you feeling bad anymore..and whats up with this late night visits he keeps asking for........ ??? <-------suspicious face
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Angel - HOORAY!!!! Aren't you so glad he contacted you??? He must be watching your dating site as well. GOOD JOB. YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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woohoo Angel....
Remember "Give him a 1 potato chip and walk away with the rest of the bag!" That's a quote from a very good friend of mine...
Nobody can eat just one! Unless of course they eat the entire bag the first sitting....so you leave him wanting more...you end every text...try not to be the last response on the texts....you end every conversation chat or phone.....oh it's great talking with you I should get going....same with the dates....I had a wonderful time I really enjoyed tonight....make him salivate for you!!!! :)
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Sorry, I got to vent, this post is not exactly against anyone in particular but as a general statement. I hope I do not get flamed by anyone. I know I have been silent for quite sometime apart from email kirakira on a very frequent basis. She knows what is going on. Currently, I am in a honeymoon, milk and honey dating stage with the guy I am seeing. All flowers and honey so far with no big problems. We meet each other either everyday or every other day for the past 2.5 weeks and I am sooo soooo drained physically. No big problems as yet, and time will tell or when conflict arises, I will see how we work through things. I am not making it official like we are in a relationship. I am still taking a month to see how things goes.
Beachgirl mentioned that she has given up on the SM and she needs to learn how to love herself. Oh yes, I forgot what does it feel like to love ourselves and what it means to be independent and not to be depressed over A and B Holes.
Being with this guy makes me feel loved and I enjoyed being with him, yes both of us are sticky and we are enjoying every moment of it. I hope we can stand the test of time. Through this man, I noticed what an Ass my ex was and I should be over him and he is not worth my tears, my worries, my money, time and effort. Go get someone who knows how to treasure you and not make you miserable. Do we have enough of being in misery over A Holes and B Holes? Being upset over relationship is far more terrible then anything, you cant sleep, eat or work properly. If through time you noticed that things are not changing for the better, or that you are still miserable drop that person. I know it is easier said then done. Definitely I still have feelings for my ex, but if they do not appreciate you what is the point of holding on? I urge people to think twice about cliinging to people that does not seemed to be at least interested in our welfare and feelings? Who are they to make us miserable?
Go out to meet people, if the time is right, the right person will turn up and if they treasure you, you will be a lot happier. Then you will learn how to drop and detach the A and B Holes that you have been putting up with the longest time. With the right person, you will be able to open your eyes big and see what is reality of things and decide what you want to do with your emotional self, and realize how stupid you are for being so attached to people who really just cannot be bothered. You will then not need to worry oh what does he thinks, why does he react like that, why is he such an asshole, what does he wants, why hasnt he contact me, why hasnt he replied, I am so miserable, what are the possible situations and so on and so forth. Does all these questions sounds extremely familiar? Go out and date people if you meet the right person, you will be happy. Thats the most important.
I gave up calling Ps. They are not worth the money. I find that they are probably more accurate at that moment of time in the situation, the future is uncertain and no one knows what is coming or whatever free will or any action on either partners will change the outcome of anything. Do not cling on to any kinds of hopes that the Ps have given and that you will be expecting more and more and when it does not happen, you be miserable again and wanting to call again to see what is the current sitaution, why hasnt they contacted you and so on and so forth and you just keep paying n paying. The past is already gone. Period. All that is left is only memories. I do not need their blessings or approval to be with someone I love nor do I need to know what bad things may arise or their own opinions. Do stuff that you like, buy new clothes, spend time with yourself give yourself a treat in things that you like to do. Go dating sites, like many of you, meet new people and see what comes. AngelGuided, you look promissing with furnace guys and yes. I believe in communications, talk it out and see what each other feels. I have been open with the guy, we discussed our fears of the past relationships, our experience with our EXes, and what we are experiencing with each other. Clear up any misunderstandings and know what both of us are thinking in this case there will not be any misunderstandings. Be frank with each other and see what comes.
All right enough of my ranting and venting. I hope all the best for all of you guys, I will continue to read and post here and there. I look forward to hearing good news from you guys. Take care!
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aef - salivate - LOL
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Again, I love our stages! fm is busting out of that cage! yay! See, I told you cjean, when you find someone else you won't be as torn as you think you might!
angel!! So basically, you're looking at his profile and he's looking at yours! Remember just because he's on or been on, doesn't mean he's chatting or cruising... this is what I'm talking about, right pt?? These new technologies give us a glimpse at what people are doing, turns us all into stalkers!!! UGH! Have a fun date Friday! And I'm sure you'll be chatting it up all week! aef is probably right about leaving the guy wanting more, but be careful, if someone did that to me, I'd take it as uninterested and walk away... somewhere in the middle might be best. Guys can rarely handle my all open honest intensity either, feel him out reeeeeeaaaal good! ;)
where's libra? healer... glad you set up your space all lovely like... all I could think of was how much libra would probably enjoy that space too!
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if only i could just find someone to date then that would make this process more fun. There is NO ONE here where i live interesting...and I hate online dating. :-\ :-[
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Yeah, where is libra? Of course, Kira you would expect the guy to be wanting more of you...in this case, the roles are reversed. So, if you didn't go far enough initially you would lose interest in the guy? As far as the honesty goes, he seems to be very honest. He's hasn't pretended that I'm aware of or played games. He's very direct. That's what's so interesting, I've always been a very honest person, but when I'm talking to him, I say things that I wouldn't normally reveal. It's very honest...and he is the same. :)
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great advice fm.... 8) *who knew* lol...kira...we're on clouds right now me and you lol...floating and man dating lol..libra :( hope you feel better...angel...see..when u relax..good things will come...
and..
lmao at aef: "salivate" <----------as in dog? lol
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LMAO @ Cjean ;D
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AEF, love the potato chip analogy! :P
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Kira you would expect the guy to be wanting more of you...in this case, the roles are reversed. So, if you didn't go far enough initially you would lose interest in the guy?
Well, angel, I know instantly whether or not I could be physical with a guy. And then the question is if there's more to it. I, personally, like to be flattered and acknowledged and if a guy doesn't show/tell me he's really interested in who I am, yes, I will lose interest. It's a huge turn-on. I liked the mind of my latest date, but wasn't sure about the physical, so I think it was important to go ahead and find out I didn't have a good physical connection with him. It's far too important to me to have that. I do wonder with guys- on one hand if you go too far too fast will they think you're easy or if you don't will they think you're a prude... Because I actually am quite open sexually, I don't try to play like I'm not, if I am hot for a dude and he's hot for me, well then it's ON! And it only gets complicated if one of us has emotions the other doesn't. That guy I dated in October who VJ says is my sm, is a perfect example of how it can be ok. We were intimate, we were both honest about who we are, and there was never any issue, and now it looks like we're coming back together for more!
kira...we're on clouds right now me and you lol...floating and man dating lol
cjean, I am so glad you are moving on!!! Shake your bootie, girl! I wish I was back in NYC for just one night so we could have some fun!
There is NO ONE here where i live interesting...and I hate online dating.
beachgirl, hang in there, from what I remember you want to move away, and maybe you should focus on that. Go somewhere with a bigger pool! ;) You seem young, right? Do it, do it, do it! I've moved around a lot and it gets harder as you get older and if you have kids, etc. You can private message me if you like, but where are you exactly? What do you do? (I hate online dating too, just had to by default! ha! ie. older with kid -ha!)
Nobody can eat just one! Unless of course they eat the entire bag the first sitting....
hahaha!! aef! I guess I've got more bags where that came from -haha! The VJ sm guy recently commented on a fb post of mine about me being sick of eating my kid's leftovers...he said I needed a guy with a fast metabolism to eat 'em! haha!! (That would so be him! I remember him standing in front of my snack cabinet like a machine eating a few handfuls of everything in there! hah!) More chip reference- if your chips are really good, they'll be back!!! ;)
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kira...I wish you all came!!!!!!!! We would have a bless
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fm: it sounds like you may be.....falling in lub (my cute word for love*) :) lol
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lub? Haha, I dunno how much of you guys actually accepted my bitching in that post. So how is everyone at?
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Some days I really do feel sorry for myself. Today is one of those days :( :'(
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Cjean - I'm sorry. Do you have anything fun planned this weekend?
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Hang in there cjean, we're all here pulling for ya...we're here to support you! ;)
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Nothing planned.
When I feel like this I usually like to be alone. :(
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Well I have to say that since I have detached myself from the situation I have been feeling so much more powerful. He doesnt have control over me and I love this feeling. again I woke up in a great mood.
Cjean...maybe you should try to detach for a little while. It might help.
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Great Healer! I'm glad you had fun and you are able to do something else instead sitting home and crying your eyes out. So go out and have fun, and if the Colomibian psychic is right you will have your dream in the end.
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Hi everyone.
My computer was on the fritz for a couple days, so I didn't check in.
fm - You are so cute. I love everything you wrote.
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Angle
One reason why I hate FB is because people can go on your page and know what your doing thats if you post everything you do. I met someone on Nov. whom I was talking to on the text which I hate because I am too old to be text. I feel that if you are going to get to know someone PICK UP THE PHONE! So I would keep my conversations breif with him over text. Finally after the holidays he asked me out to dinner. But occasisonally I found myself looking on his FB to see what he was up to. One night I was out with him to dinner and I noticed before he picked me up that his friends were asking him to go to the casinos. So I was worried I wouldnt see him. But we did go out and while I was out with him he asked if I wanted to go to the casinos. I never let on that I was looking at his FB page.
With this guy...I think you should just enjoy whatever happens. I think you may have scared him by letting him know you know about the friday's club night out. All I know is that if someone wants to be with me so bad he will do that. Thats is why I am not ;listening to any of the psych anymore. They tell me my SM wants to be with me that I am his true love well....where is he? wHY ISNT HE KNOCKING DOWN MY DOOR? I have been sick with pnemonia for 2 weeks now. He has not seem me at work for over a month. He knows something is wrong. If he really cared, if I was really the one he would have been here with me but he's not so screw him! And dont assume that because some girl is on the dating website at the same time he is they are dating...do you know this for sure? have you established a serious commitment with him? If not then you should be dating other people. may be you should just distance yourself from him and if he calls ignore his call no one says you have to pick up the phone or respond to his text. Sorry to hear this. I hate when they can goout with their friends when their sick but they postpone a date.
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Angel, I must agree with Beachgirl, Im not a fan of FB, I used it at some point, and found out that it served me and other people as a spying tool, and that makes your mind nuts.
As far as the new guy, he is probably overwhelmed with you, thinking wow I met this great girl, and we have so much in common, now what? And that is making him confused. You have to give it time Angel.
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"Angel, I must agree with Beachgirl, Im not a fan of FB, I used it at some point, and found out that it served me and other people as a spying tool, and that makes your mind nuts.
---ugh, this is true i need to remove myself from fb...i already made sure i dont have a facebook wall but there is way too much going on online and some of its just for people to make a show...
"As far as the new guy, he is probably overwhelmed with you, thinking wow I met this great girl, and we have so much in common, now what? And that is making him confused. You have to give it time Angel."
----well libra, you sound much more tolerant that i am...i would have assumed he made me a back up plan like you angel, and that would not fly with me...so i guess it depends on how much you like him and whether you feel like going through a "maybe... maybe not" dating scenario.
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Thanks Beachgirl, Libra, and CSK! I know we're not exclusive, that's not really what bothers me, it's just the fact that he made plans with me and I don't think it's right to blow me off?!! If he were dating some, I wouldn't blame him, but it seems like he's in active pursuit. I could be wrong about the dating site, it's just that there's been a pattern of it and it goes on for hours just like when we were chatting Monday night and it's been every night this week? I can't help but think there's a reason he's backing out of our plans? He may be confused, I don't know? I really don't think he knows what he wants? Despite everything I've been through, I still know who I am and for the most part what I want out of life. I guess not everybody is able to do that?
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not everyone is able to do that angel..thats why you have to keep on keeping on....I'm doing that and taking a jumbo glass of margarita's with me! *cheers :)
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Have one for me cjean...I'll have one tomorrow night with my girls!!!! ;)
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;) woohoo! you go girl....and meet another boo while your out!
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Never know? I'm going out with a bunch of married women though, I think??? ;D
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Ok ladies... I have been gone on a work trip again so I'm catching up and mostly I'm just reading because I'm in a very different spot with relationships here. Anyway, I have mentioned this in the past and I'm going to mention it again just because this was so helpful to me when I needed it. It's an E-Book called "Catch Him and Keep Him" by Christian Carter which you can find by Googling it. I know the title sounds a bit manipulative however, it's more about learning to control your own "female" emotions and how to deal with the differences between men and women and how to keep yourself from reacting in a negative way and killing it at the beginning (like I'm reading here in some cases, ouch!) :-(
I'm not saying this made it a piece of cake, but I really think reading this book has been the difference between my "old way" of dating, and my "new way" of dating which has lead me to SM. I CAN relate to what many of you are talking about. I went through it too with SM but I knew how to deal with it differently this time because of the book. In my opinion, the book helps women to be the one to make the choice, not the men, which is sort of how I used to date for many, many years!!!
Anyway, just a word of warning... I have purchsed Carter's other books/tapes, blah, blah, and they were soooo not worth it. So, if your going to do it, just read the ebook and reread the ebook and stop there. The rest of the stuff is just money makers for Carter.
I hope all works out for all of you lovely ladies... and those fabulous guys on here too! :-)
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Angel, I think you may be over-analyzing his actions. We've all done it, and like we all know, the technology makes it too easy -but also to easy to think we know when we might not. I'm not saying to trust him completely, but try try try not to check on him, I know that's hard, but it's torture for you. And you really can't be sure what any of it means. Remember, guys often have a different sense of time (my ex used to always say "the other day"- I'd be like "you mean last night?!" or "you mean two fucking weeks ago?!"). They can be a little sneaky with keeping a couple burners on too. All you can do is be honest with yourself and him and ask for the straight deal or not, but if you haven't established something, don't let it ruffle you yet.
He shouldn't have planned a Friday night with you if he wasn't gonna do it, but what if he was? You won't know because you assumed he had plans to go to that club, but facebook events are not like, set in stone, you know, maybe he wanted to see if you'd wanna go, or just bail altogether on it! Try to relax, sweetie!!!!!!! Don't sabotage the potential ???
Speaking of lovely guys... jb?!!? WHAT IS UP? and healer... you sure are quiet too!!!
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Your poor furnace guy... give him a shot without all the anxiety! I think he just doesn't know what to do or how!
I'd imagine he was at home if he was fbing. But wow! What a small town indeed! I wish someone would tell me why a couple dudes blew me off!! ha! Speaking of blowing off, I think I just wiped my slate clean! I have no time for games. hmph!
So wait... it's Saturday night... why aren't you two hanging out tonight exactly? ??
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Is it me or has anyone else noticed that angel hasn't said a word about her ex-husband? Progress!
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PT, wow! You better keep us updated on all this. Was that the very first time you spoke to Amy? How did you find her, among so many psychics on PS? She just started telling you all that without you mentioning anything?
Angel, lol, true, you haven't been talking about your ex-husband for a while now...hmmmmm
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Libra - it was one of those weird things win amy. Ive never.talked to her nor called psychic source. I decided.to checknout their web site and their psychics. You can view a list of all of.their psychics then I did a sort based on rating. She was toward top of list and I clicked on her to check out was reading her bio and she suddenly came on line so I thought it was too much of a coincidence. I said names date of birth and she started right in. After she said commitment phone.and runner I validated and filled her.in alittle but not much. She didn't waste time talking about past etc. Gave.me just the info I needed and I was on my way. According to her testimonals she.is good with timing. No fluff or blowing smoke.
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Oh wow, well sounds like she knew the main issue right from the start. Keep us posted PT, I suggest that you don't call anyone to validate, just wait for the results. I'm so, so, so tempted to call for a reading, but my guides are telling me not to, so I can focus on present time and live my life now. Ugh, easier said than done.
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Sorry for the typos above. Using my phone. Thanks libra - she was my validation but as it turns out she was more then that. Im not calling anyone else for now.
How do they tell you to not call? You hear them say it? So cool.
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I just hear a "voice" talking to me, it's always very direct, and simple advice. Anyone can develop this. I can't wait till school is over so I can focus on my connection with Them.
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PT--that's great about Amy. I've never been on PS before, is it like CP where you call and make an appointment or do you just chose the psychic you want and wait for them to come online? A $1 a minute is a great deal!!
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Cm1234 - it isn't that easy to get on with the more popular ones. You can't make appt nor wait in que. You literally have to watch online and if the psychic is available you call in. So if amy is scheduled from 9-12 you have to sit and watch for an opening. I think I had dumb luck.this am. Im.sure there are tricks to get in easier but Im clueless. I happen to be her first caller.
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Has anyone had a reading with the other psychics listed on Ellen Hartwell's site, Arlene or Catarina Rose? I'm just curious if anyone has ever tried them?
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Libra, what exactly do you want to talk to psychics for? It seems like you're doing fine and you dont exactly look like you want your ex back.
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"Has anyone had a reading with the other psychics listed on Ellen Hartwell's site, Arlene or Catarina Rose? I'm just curious if anyone has ever tried them?"
I have read with Catarina once, and also with Ellen. I believe Catarina started after Ellen informed her that she was psychic....so i dont know if she uses tools but i actually dont think she does. She is a good empath when i called her she said "okay now the first thing i got from your voice is that there is a lot of guys around you, are you dating a few guys or do you have lots of options?" and i was talking to a few guys...so i thought that was good but then she let me ask my questions and i will have to pull out my notes for you and compare them to Ellens....but yeah, i think she is slightly cheaper as well....but probably has less experience. Angel i havent been on here that much but will get my notes out for you.
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Thanks CSK, I appreciate that!
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Cjean: I just got out of a major relationship that is 1, 2 I have career questions, 3 I want to connect more with my Spirit Guides, finally I do want to be in a happy relationship in near future, so there are lots of reasons to call CP ::)
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Libra
Then you should call. But i think you are doing a great job on ur own connecting with ur Spirit Guides...i'm trying to practice myself.
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Thanks Beachgirl, I try not to call unless it's really necessary :P My Guides are telling me not to call that much.
Beachgirl I really want to thank you for inspiring me to work with Archangel Michael, I am a beginner, but I got some results! Thank You Archangel Michael and Spirit Guides.
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I got results too...he cut the cords for me regarding my SM real quick. Its amazing...i have not really been thinking about him...i have been more focused on myself and having fun. a friend of mine is going thru a heartbreak. She doesnt know anything about CP or calling psychics but its funny because the other day she said to me. I wish i could know what he was doing and then she said I wish I could just do a soell on him to make him come back. I know her pain and I was going to tell her to call CP but then im worried she might mention it at work (She's a coworker) to people and I dont need that. So I just pulled a couple cards for her when she wasnt around and then when i saw her i said well this is what I probably think he's doing. She felt a little better a little clear about the situation.
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Libra,
it seems like talking to your spirit guides will help you get some great results! I think you're doing great but I understand how you feel like you need some clarity from other psychics
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I am not feeling shitty but I am a bit inpaitent and wanting things to happen and I know they will because things have happened in the past but I am inpaitent.
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Sorry, I got to vent, this post is not exactly against anyone in particular but as a general statement. I hope I do not get flamed by anyone. I know I have been silent for quite sometime apart from email kirakira on a very frequent basis. She knows what is going on. Currently, I am in a honeymoon, milk and honey dating stage with the guy I am seeing. All flowers and honey so far with no big problems. We meet each other either everyday or every other day for the past 2.5 weeks and I am sooo soooo drained physically. No big problems as yet, and time will tell or when conflict arises, I will see how we work through things. I am not making it official like we are in a relationship. I am still taking a month to see how things goes.
Beachgirl mentioned that she has given up on the SM and she needs to learn how to love herself. Oh yes, I forgot what does it feel like to love ourselves and what it means to be independent and not to be depressed over A and B Holes.
Being with this guy makes me feel loved and I enjoyed being with him, yes both of us are sticky and we are enjoying every moment of it. I hope we can stand the test of time. Through this man, I noticed what an Ass my ex was and I should be over him and he is not worth my tears, my worries, my money, time and effort. Go get someone who knows how to treasure you and not make you miserable. Do we have enough of being in misery over A Holes and B Holes? Being upset over relationship is far more terrible then anything, you cant sleep, eat or work properly. If through time you noticed that things are not changing for the better, or that you are still miserable drop that person. I know it is easier said then done. Definitely I still have feelings for my ex, but if they do not appreciate you what is the point of holding on? I urge people to think twice about cliinging to people that does not seemed to be at least interested in our welfare and feelings? Who are they to make us miserable?
Go out to meet people, if the time is right, the right person will turn up and if they treasure you, you will be a lot happier. Then you will learn how to drop and detach the A and B Holes that you have been putting up with the longest time. With the right person, you will be able to open your eyes big and see what is reality of things and decide what you want to do with your emotional self, and realize how stupid you are for being so attached to people who really just cannot be bothered. You will then not need to worry oh what does he thinks, why does he react like that, why is he such an asshole, what does he wants, why hasnt he contact me, why hasnt he replied, I am so miserable, what are the possible situations and so on and so forth. Does all these questions sounds extremely familiar? Go out and date people if you meet the right person, you will be happy. Thats the most important.
I gave up calling Ps. They are not worth the money. I find that they are probably more accurate at that moment of time in the situation, the future is uncertain and no one knows what is coming or whatever free will or any action on either partners will change the outcome of anything. Do not cling on to any kinds of hopes that the Ps have given and that you will be expecting more and more and when it does not happen, you be miserable again and wanting to call again to see what is the current sitaution, why hasnt they contacted you and so on and so forth and you just keep paying n paying. The past is already gone. Period. All that is left is only memories. I do not need their blessings or approval to be with someone I love nor do I need to know what bad things may arise or their own opinions. Do stuff that you like, buy new clothes, spend time with yourself give yourself a treat in things that you like to do. Go dating sites, like many of you, meet new people and see what comes. AngelGuided, you look promissing with furnace guys and yes. I believe in communications, talk it out and see what each other feels. I have been open with the guy, we discussed our fears of the past relationships, our experience with our EXes, and what we are experiencing with each other. Clear up any misunderstandings and know what both of us are thinking in this case there will not be any misunderstandings. Be frank with each other and see what comes.
All right enough of my ranting and venting. I hope all the best for all of you guys, I will continue to read and post here and there. I look forward to hearing good news from you guys. Take care!
thanks for this post. Its an old post but I hope you are in a better place and that things worked out for you and your guy. Good luck.