The Psychic Reviews
Relationship Psychology Discussions => The Vent => Topic started by: Lady_C on July 30, 2018, 04:56:55 PM
-
This question specifically for anyone on here who is no longer speaking to their ex.
Although I'm fairly new here I'm not new to having readings. My and my ex broke up almost 6 months ago and I'm struggling to move on. I don't think psychic readings are helping with clarity (reconcilation and if he is dating) because the result have been inconsistent some say he still has feelings for me, others say he doesn't know how to reach out and some advise me to move on because he is seeing someone new.
We all know it's easier said than done, but I can see lately my obsession is getting worse. The more I get mixed answers the more frustrated I become. One of my trusted psychics (I've had readings about non relationship issues that why she is trusted) said I should reach out to my ex but move with caution and now it's got me thinking, I want to put an end to binge reading and just communicate with my ex.
We had a bad breakup which is why we don't speak although he did offer friendship but I couldn't deal with being just friends. I'm thinking of just accidentally messaging him like pretending to send a group message and include him by "mistake" to hopefully break the ice.
I think it's the only way to rid my self of depending on psychics because clearly none of them can help me.
My question is has anyone decided to open up the lines of communication rather than depend on a psychic? What was the outcome?
Even if we don't reconcile, if we communicate with time I will probably get my answer!
-
This question specifically for anyone on here who is no longer speaking to their ex.
Although I'm fairly new here I'm not new to having readings. My and my ex broke up almost 6 months ago and I'm struggling to move on. I don't think psychic readings are helping with clarity (reconcilation and if he is dating) because the result have been inconsistent some say he still has feelings for me, others say he doesn't know how to reach out and some advise me to move on because he is seeing someone new.
We all know it's easier said than done, but I can see lately my obsession is getting worse. The more I get mixed answers the more frustrated I become. One of my trusted psychics (I've had readings about non relationship issues that why she is trusted) said I should reach out to my ex but move with caution and now it's got me thinking, I want to put an end to binge reading and just communicate with my ex.
We had a bad breakup which is why we don't speak although he did offer friendship but I couldn't deal with being just friends. I'm thinking of just accidentally messaging him like pretending to send a group message and include him by "mistake" to hopefully break the ice.
I think it's the only way to rid my self of depending on psychics because clearly none of them can help me.
My question is has anyone decided to open up the lines of communication rather than depend on a psychic? What was the outcome?
Even if we don't reconcile, if we communicate with time I will probably get my answer!
Absolutely reach out and see how he responds. Maybe just text a hello, and see what happens from there.
Don't depend on psychics to tell you what will happen...they are wrong more often than they are right. If you haven't had any communication in six months, it's probably safe to say you will not reconcile, but you never know, he might come back around when you are no longer interested. but definitely don't wait.
My experience with past POI was even though he would come back around all the time, he never changed and it never amounted to anything, even though TONS of psychics saw it turning into a relationship.
but don't keep yourself on the hamster wheel of depending on psychics for this..
So sorry you are going through this. I'm sure most of us on here can relate :(
-
I have had exes reach out to me several months after our relationship ended and I've always been nice, so I'm not sure you will get your answers unless you ask him directly. Psychics will just confuse you.
-
This question specifically for anyone on here who is no longer speaking to their ex.
Although I'm fairly new here I'm not new to having readings. My and my ex broke up almost 6 months ago and I'm struggling to move on. I don't think psychic readings are helping with clarity (reconcilation and if he is dating) because the result have been inconsistent some say he still has feelings for me, others say he doesn't know how to reach out and some advise me to move on because he is seeing someone new.
We all know it's easier said than done, but I can see lately my obsession is getting worse. The more I get mixed answers the more frustrated I become. One of my trusted psychics (I've had readings about non relationship issues that why she is trusted) said I should reach out to my ex but move with caution and now it's got me thinking, I want to put an end to binge reading and just communicate with my ex.
We had a bad breakup which is why we don't speak although he did offer friendship but I couldn't deal with being just friends. I'm thinking of just accidentally messaging him like pretending to send a group message and include him by "mistake" to hopefully break the ice.
I think it's the only way to rid my self of depending on psychics because clearly none of them can help me.
My question is has anyone decided to open up the lines of communication rather than depend on a psychic? What was the outcome?
Even if we don't reconcile, if we communicate with time I will probably get my answer!
Absolutely reach out and see how he responds. Maybe just text a hello, and see what happens from there.
Don't depend on psychics to tell you what will happen...they are wrong more often than they are right. If you haven't had any communication in six months, it's probably safe to say you will not reconcile, but you never know, he might come back around when you are no longer interested. but definitely don't wait.
My experience with past POI was even though he would come back around all the time, he never changed and it never amounted to anything, even though TONS of psychics saw it turning into a relationship.
but don't keep yourself on the hamster wheel of depending on psychics for this..
So sorry you are going through this. I'm sure most of us on here can relate :(
Thank you! 6 months is a long time but we are both stubborn and I'm guessing because I didn't take up this offer on friendship it's justified for him to have moved on and be less emotionally connected to me.
I already purchased two email readings before I came to this decision to reach out to him myself. I will see what they say and still try messaging him because this cycle will never end.
-
I would reach out with a normal message
atleast after 6 months of breaking up you will for sure get or feel the answer once he replies back.
Its safer & would certainly give you the final answer from him.
Let us know what happens.
all the best.
-
I can understand how it feels, the readings give us a temporary feeling of relief, if we get good news.
I had instances with the past POI when I was in a similar situation, and I told him not to contact me..and then he usually would after some time had passed anyway.
Either way, it makes sense to reach out and see how he feels at this point, do you think you could handle being his friend now?
-
I have had exes reach out to me several months after our relationship ended and I've always been nice, so I'm not sure you will get your answers unless you ask him directly. Psychics will just confuse you.
You are right! It's unless depending on a psychics. I'm trying to ween off them and just communicate with him even if he is dating it will put my mind at ease and I will have to accept it and move on. No psychic will be able to help me after learning the truth.
I had one ex reach out to me about 4 months after I stopped speaking to him. I asked psychics about him and got mixed answers so it's a similar pattern.
-
I can understand how it feels, the readings give us a temporary feeling of relief, if we get good news.
I had instances with the past POI when I was in a similar situation, and I told him not to contact me..and then he usually would after some time had passed anyway.
Either way, it makes sense to reach out and see how he feels at this point, do you think you could handle being his friend now?
I'm not sure because all I feel is anxiety for not speaking to him for so long nor knowing if he has moved on. I think I could see myself speaking to him sometimes especially if he is seeing someone new because I would never break up a relationship and I would slowly accept it.
I had two negative readings on bitwine - Jiaa and Pixie so I'm confused right now.
-
I would reach out with a normal message
atleast after 6 months of breaking up you will for sure get or feel the answer once he replies back.
Its safer & would certainly give you the final answer from him.
Let us know what happens.
all the best.
You are right! If he responds it's a starting point and I might get my answer from there. I won't ask him straight away but if we communicate a bit I might be able to find out for myself.
-
Who have you read with?
-
Who have you read with?
Too many!!
Bitwine
Pixie dust (negative reading, got some info wrong)
Marcello (English is not this first language but he was fairytales)
Jiaa (Harsh, will have to see if what she says pans out)
Rebecca Hetherington (cold reader, needed too manyy prompts to get answers from her and slow at typing)
Analisa Love psychic (thought she was right but learnt she said exactly the same thing to someone on here)
Advisor Sarah (fairytales about past life and soul mate *yawn*
Psychic medium George (too vague but picked up on someone around my ex)
Hayley Daniels-Lake (thought she was unique as she didn't ask for any info just got into the reading but said similar words to what she said to someone on here, disappointing)
Etsy
Emergency psychics (always very negative, almost to the point where they are trying to say my ex hopes i'm unhappy and not with anyone and having a nervous break down, seems too exaggarated, but they did pick on someone around him so that bit might be true)
Erwannclairvoyant (positive pending outcome)
StrawberrySunlights (unsure about this one yet but very thorough with reading tarot cards and interpreting them)
ThirdEyeReading (not sure yet)
AnnPsychic (too vague)
Psychicceily (Long email positive outcome but pending outcome)
Lynne Kineman (vague ang generic)
Divinespirits (vague)
TarotTreasureDesign (negative, couldn't relate to some parts and overall vague)
Lightandlovetarot (pending)
MissToria (generic and prediction was wrong)
PsychicAdora (another negative one was vague with outcome)
LiveTrustedPsychics (Rose was my go to for years BUT.....the other psychics seem to pick up one someone being about my ex but this person claims he is struggling to move on, she know the situation well so not sure just feeding off the info i give her or simply can't pick anything)
Aimee Alicia (Magick Blessings) (good at picking on people)
Tarot By Penelope (not sure yet, no time frame with her but said me and my ex would reconcile
AngelicInsight (not psychic simply states her own opinion but nice lady feels like you're talking to your wise grandmother lol)
MoonLightandRoses (always generic, reading could apply to anyone)
TheThinkingPlace (feeds off the information you give her and turns it into a reading)
PsychicWhiteAngel (can't remember )
AScoprionMoon (cold guess work)
Dryecraft is pretty good, she rants a bit but very good at picking up on situations and what she feels and Sistercrafts was too but she is a retired psychic and wish I could turn to her now more than ever!!
There's more but when I look at this list I feel to ashamed to list the rest but the rest were nothing outstanding
-
Who have you read with?
Too many!!
Bitwine
Pixie dust (negative reading, got some info wrong)
Marcello (English is not this first language but he was fairytales)
Jiaa (Harsh, will have to see if what she says pans out)
Rebecca Hetherington (cold reader, needed too manyy prompts to get answers from her and slow at typing)
Analisa Love psychic (thought she was right but learnt she said exactly the same thing to someone on here)
Advisor Sarah (fairytales about past life and soul mate *yawn*
Psychic medium George (too vague but picked up on someone around my ex)
Hayley Daniels-Lake (thought she was unique as she didn't ask for any info just got into the reading but said similar words to what she said to someone on here, disappointing)
Etsy
Emergency psychics (always very negative, almost to the point where they are trying to say my ex hopes i'm unhappy and not with anyone and having a nervous break down, seems too exaggarated, but they did pick on someone around him so that bit might be true)
Erwannclairvoyant (positive pending outcome)
StrawberrySunlights (unsure about this one yet but very thorough with reading tarot cards and interpreting them)
ThirdEyeReading (not sure yet)
AnnPsychic (too vague)
Psychicceily (Long email positive outcome but pending outcome)
Lynne Kineman (vague ang generic)
Divinespirits (vague)
TarotTreasureDesign (negative, couldn't relate to some parts and overall vague)
Lightandlovetarot (pending)
MissToria (generic and prediction was wrong)
PsychicAdora (another negative one was vague with outcome)
LiveTrustedPsychics (Rose was my go to for years BUT.....the other psychics seem to pick up one someone being about my ex but this person claims he is struggling to move on, she know the situation well so not sure just feeding off the info i give her or simply can't pick anything)
Aimee Alicia (Magick Blessings) (good at picking on people)
Tarot By Penelope (not sure yet, no time frame with her but said me and my ex would reconcile
AngelicInsight (not psychic simply states her own opinion but nice lady feels like you're talking to your wise grandmother lol)
MoonLightandRoses (always generic, reading could apply to anyone)
TheThinkingPlace (feeds off the information you give her and turns it into a reading)
PsychicWhiteAngel (can't remember )
AScoprionMoon (cold guess work)
Dryecraft is pretty good, she rants a bit but very good at picking up on situations and what she feels and Sistercrafts was too but she is a retired psychic and wish I could turn to her now more than ever!!
There's more but when I look at this list I feel to ashamed to list the rest but the rest were nothing outstanding
Out of the bitwine ones you used, I agree that Analisa is full of crap - totally scripted. I tried her last year. Also changed her story after the first or second read. Rebecca also seemed like a cold reader to me, just goes off what you tell her. She was formerly on keen, no surprise there. Also agree about Marcello being fairy tale.
I think I tried Jiaa but can't remember the reading...
-
I've only just recently joined bitwine and it seems to have those shady characters on their similar to what Liveperson have. Out my all my experiences with readers so far I think I will stick the ones that I go to on Etsy who are reliable.
I had my reading from Oracle Indigo yesterday prior to making this post and I have to say so far she is the best at reading my situation with my ex. She nailed this fickle minded nature and level of uncertainly when making decides to move forward with love. Even made reference to his friends troubled marriage which has scared him to commit. I told this women nothing only our names and 2 questiona and yet she picked up all of this. She did say we would reconcile temporarily and it might be repeated if I allow it because my ex simply doesn't know what he wants so unless he changes it won't last.
Since having that reading my mind is in a different place where I don't even feel like contacting him and see myself creating a distance when he does finally contact me.
Anyway I would definitely recommend Oracle Indigo, her rates are affordable and she doesn't sugarcoat.
Delilah is also good too, lengthy email and I had similar outcome to what oracle said.
-
That's how I found out dozens of psychics lied to me about my 2 past POIs. I finally reached out and contacted them when the timeframes were not happening and no response.
My current POI and I have been in contact since we split but haven't seen each other so that situation is more complicated. I'm finally thinking of asking him to see me at the end of the month and see what happens then.
-
Yes, that's why I hate predictions reading and try to avoid them because they don't live up to their expectations. I'm holding back reaching out to him because as time goes back I'm starting to loose interest. I might reach out as a friend but not for now. I'm not trusting most psychics anymore only the few that I've had readings from who read my ex and mine circumstance is who I listen to.
-
I’ve called numerous psychics to find out if my ex is dating someone else and they all say no but I can’t really put all my faith in that. I reached out and the response was unexpectedly harsh so yeh moving on from that. I was thinking about this further hence my post and well what if she is seeing someone, what can I actually do about it? Nothing, I can’t stop her and she doesn’t want me so why bother calling psychics to find out if she is single or not, as either way it makes no difference to the situation. I’ve got to get on with it and I am and I hope anyone whose experienced similar reads this post and gets on with their lives too.
-
I’ve called numerous psychics to find out if my ex is dating someone else and they all say no but I can’t really put all my faith in that. I reached out and the response was unexpectedly harsh so yeh moving on from that. I was thinking about this further hence my post and well what if she is seeing someone, what can I actually do about it? Nothing, I can’t stop her and she doesn’t want me so why bother calling psychics to find out if she is single or not, as either way it makes no difference to the situation. I’ve got to get on with it and I am and I hope anyone whose experienced similar reads this post and gets on with their lives too.
You're doing the right thing.
-
I’ve called numerous psychics to find out if my ex is dating someone else and they all say no but I can’t really put all my faith in that. I reached out and the response was unexpectedly harsh so yeh moving on from that. I was thinking about this further hence my post and well what if she is seeing someone, what can I actually do about it? Nothing, I can’t stop her and she doesn’t want me so why bother calling psychics to find out if she is single or not, as either way it makes no difference to the situation. I’ve got to get on with it and I am and I hope anyone whose experienced similar reads this post and gets on with their lives too.
Exactly. I feel if you are at the point where you have to ask a psychic at all, things probably aren't going to work out...just my opinion, based on my last situation.
-
This question specifically for anyone on here who is no longer speaking to their ex.
Although I'm fairly new here I'm not new to having readings. My and my ex broke up almost 6 months ago and I'm struggling to move on. I don't think psychic readings are helping with clarity (reconcilation and if he is dating) because the result have been inconsistent some say he still has feelings for me, others say he doesn't know how to reach out and some advise me to move on because he is seeing someone new.
We all know it's easier said than done, but I can see lately my obsession is getting worse. The more I get mixed answers the more frustrated I become. One of my trusted psychics (I've had readings about non relationship issues that why she is trusted) said I should reach out to my ex but move with caution and now it's got me thinking, I want to put an end to binge reading and just communicate with my ex.
We had a bad breakup which is why we don't speak although he did offer friendship but I couldn't deal with being just friends. I'm thinking of just accidentally messaging him like pretending to send a group message and include him by "mistake" to hopefully break the ice.
I think it's the only way to rid my self of depending on psychics because clearly none of them can help me.
My question is has anyone decided to open up the lines of communication rather than depend on a psychic? What was the outcome?
Even if we don't reconcile, if we communicate with time I will probably get my answer!
put the psychics aside. fuck their opinion for a minute. if you have the desire to reachout, you trust that gut and you do it-- good or bad, you will regret not doing something you wanted to because a psychic told you not to. too often do we base our actions on psychics adivce trying to control or produce some type of outcome.. but i'd be willing to wager it almost never works out in our favor. we don't have control, and you have no idea how he would react. however... if you have some feeling that you need to say something or even get closure, or want to, do it. its natural and its a feeling you have for a reason. trust yourself. even if you don't get what you think you want in the end, i guarentee it will be something that needed to happen on your path, if you hold back you could be robbing yourself of an experience you needed to have, or even making it harder on yourself than it needs to be. don't sacrifice your own needs... trust yourself
-
I've come to the realization that length of time from an ex or ex dating partner means nothing. I've had them contact me 6 months later, once a year for almost ten years, a few months ago a guy i talked to on a dating site contacted me 2 years after i spoke to him and had no clue who he was because i deleted his number from my phone. And i never met him in person. So when it comes to men, anything is possible. One thing i've learned with them , things aren't always as they seem.
-
Yep, had an ex contact me 2 years later and same ex 4 years later but I ignored all of his contract.
I've come to the realization that length of time from an ex or ex dating partner means nothing. I've had them contact me 6 months later, once a year for almost ten years, a few months ago a guy i talked to on a dating site contacted me 2 years after i spoke to him and had no clue who he was because i deleted his number from my phone. And i never met him in person. So when it comes to men, anything is possible. One thing i've learned with them , things aren't always as they seem.
-
This question specifically for anyone on here who is no longer speaking to their ex.
Although I'm fairly new here I'm not new to having readings. My and my ex broke up almost 6 months ago and I'm struggling to move on. I don't think psychic readings are helping with clarity (reconcilation and if he is dating) because the result have been inconsistent some say he still has feelings for me, others say he doesn't know how to reach out and some advise me to move on because he is seeing someone new.
We all know it's easier said than done, but I can see lately my obsession is getting worse. The more I get mixed answers the more frustrated I become. One of my trusted psychics (I've had readings about non relationship issues that why she is trusted) said I should reach out to my ex but move with caution and now it's got me thinking, I want to put an end to binge reading and just communicate with my ex.
We had a bad breakup which is why we don't speak although he did offer friendship but I couldn't deal with being just friends. I'm thinking of just accidentally messaging him like pretending to send a group message and include him by "mistake" to hopefully break the ice.
I think it's the only way to rid my self of depending on psychics because clearly none of them can help me.
My question is has anyone decided to open up the lines of communication rather than depend on a psychic? What was the outcome?
Even if we don't reconcile, if we communicate with time I will probably get my answer!
put the psychics aside. fuck their opinion for a minute. if you have the desire to reachout, you trust that gut and you do it-- good or bad, you will regret not doing something you wanted to because a psychic told you not to. too often do we base our actions on psychics adivce trying to control or produce some type of outcome.. but i'd be willing to wager it almost never works out in our favor. we don't have control, and you have no idea how he would react. however... if you have some feeling that you need to say something or even get closure, or want to, do it. its natural and its a feeling you have for a reason. trust yourself. even if you don't get what you think you want in the end, i guarentee it will be something that needed to happen on your path, if you hold back you could be robbing yourself of an experience you needed to have, or even making it harder on yourself than it needs to be. don't sacrifice your own needs... trust yourself
Thanks. Since I made this thread I did message my ex with no response. I had a feeling he would ignore me but I got my answer. I felt stupid for reaching out to him especially with the way things ended and me being the dumpee but I'm moving on from this situation and the longer time goes on the more my feelings subside. I'm trying to heal now and just forget about my ex.
-
Sorry Lady-C. It's probably for the best. If it's any consolation, if they do come back, it's usually after we have moved on and therefore taking them back will be on our terms.
-
Good on you lady_c, In my journey to healing I’ve found some days are garbage and some good and as time goes on my garbage days are becoming less and less. I hope you find that soon you have no garbage days as a result of your ex.
-
Sorry Lady-C. It's probably for the best. If it's any consolation, if they do come back, it's usually after we have moved on and therefore taking them back will be on our terms.
Hey— never feel stupid for doing that. It was apart of your healing process and put you on the path youre supposed to be on. You are exactly where youre supposed to be and thats okay. :)
-
This question specifically for anyone on here who is no longer speaking to their ex.
Although I'm fairly new here I'm not new to having readings. My and my ex broke up almost 6 months ago and I'm struggling to move on. I don't think psychic readings are helping with clarity (reconcilation and if he is dating) because the result have been inconsistent some say he still has feelings for me, others say he doesn't know how to reach out and some advise me to move on because he is seeing someone new.
We all know it's easier said than done, but I can see lately my obsession is getting worse. The more I get mixed answers the more frustrated I become. One of my trusted psychics (I've had readings about non relationship issues that why she is trusted) said I should reach out to my ex but move with caution and now it's got me thinking, I want to put an end to binge reading and just communicate with my ex.
We had a bad breakup which is why we don't speak although he did offer friendship but I couldn't deal with being just friends. I'm thinking of just accidentally messaging him like pretending to send a group message and include him by "mistake" to hopefully break the ice.
I think it's the only way to rid my self of depending on psychics because clearly none of them can help me.
My question is has anyone decided to open up the lines of communication rather than depend on a psychic? What was the outcome?
Even if we don't reconcile, if we communicate with time I will probably get my answer!
put the psychics aside. fuck their opinion for a minute. if you have the desire to reachout, you trust that gut and you do it-- good or bad, you will regret not doing something you wanted to because a psychic told you not to. too often do we base our actions on psychics adivce trying to control or produce some type of outcome.. but i'd be willing to wager it almost never works out in our favor. we don't have control, and you have no idea how he would react. however... if you have some feeling that you need to say something or even get closure, or want to, do it. its natural and its a feeling you have for a reason. trust yourself. even if you don't get what you think you want in the end, i guarentee it will be something that needed to happen on your path, if you hold back you could be robbing yourself of an experience you needed to have, or even making it harder on yourself than it needs to be. don't sacrifice your own needs... trust yourself
Thanks. Since I made this thread I did message my ex with no response. I had a feeling he would ignore me but I got my answer. I felt stupid for reaching out to him especially with the way things ended and me being the dumpee but I'm moving on from this situation and the longer time goes on the more my feelings subside. I'm trying to heal now and just forget about my ex.
Oops! Meant my last post as a response to this. My bad. Same for everyone who reads this though. !
-
Out of all reading none of the predictions came to pass. They are right that it does have to do with who he decided to be with and of course they have a leverage to everything. That is common and can apply to anyone out there.
So much time has passed, though. By Oct. One more prediction will not come to pass. So, I gave up on readings for sometime.
-
Sorry Lady-C. It's probably for the best. If it's any consolation, if they do come back, it's usually after we have moved on and therefore taking them back will be on our terms.
Thanks for the messages of support everyone. I'm doing just fine, I still have my down days and miss him but not as much I didn't 6 months ago but I'm just using the time to focus on myself. I'm no longer dependant on psychics, none of them can give me the answer I am looking for which is why I reached out and got the truth for myself.
-
I had more done to my ex. I have a friend that has been into wiccan for years. She did a karma spell on him to return his negativity, karma, etc to him.
The candle was a 12 hour candle that burned in 20-30 minutes when she did. So, very quickly. Meaning he had generated a lot of bad karma my way. She was convinced all the bad things happening to me was because of him. Very clearly, "it is him".
Of course, people can say the candle might of burned that quickly due to some faulty makeup or air quality.
-
I had more done to my ex. I have a friend that has been into wiccan for years. She did a karma spell on him to return his negativity, karma, etc to him.
The candle was a 12 hour candle that burned in 20-30 minutes when she did. So, very quickly. Meaning he had generated a lot of bad karma my way. She was convinced all the bad things happening to me was because of him. Very clearly, "it is him".
Of course, people can say the candle might of burned that quickly due to some faulty makeup or air quality.
No way it was definitely picking up stuff because there is no way a 12 hour would burn in 30-40 min otherwise.
-
I have known her for years. She has been a wiccan for god knows how long. She does not claim to have any other abilities like psychic, etc. Just a practicing Wiccan.
I did not pay and did not really come out and ask her. She just said, all the stuff is coming from him-pretty convinced.
So, I gave her a picture of him. Let her do her mediation, etc. Intiatially, I thought the 20-30 minutes did not mean much
She corrected me and said no, it was a 12 hour candle that means a lot of your bad karma came from him and he brought a lot of negativity in your life.
Which does happen to a lot of people in relationships.
I was getting a little depressed being with him at one point. He did have a lot of negativity. But I was doing well before he came around. I had a lot going for me, better out look, as well. Always pushing forward.
He would sometimes, just try to bring me down.
-
I have known her for years. She has been a wiccan for god knows how long. She does not claim to have any other abilities like psychic, etc. Just a practicing Wiccan.
I did not pay and did not really come out and ask her. She just said, all the stuff is coming from him-pretty convinced.
So, I gave her a picture of him. Let her do her mediation, etc. Intiatially, I thought the 20-30 minutes did not mean much
She corrected me and said no, it was a 12 hour candle that means a lot of your bad karma came from him and he brought a lot of negativity in your life.
Which does happen to a lot of people in relationships.
I was getting a little depressed being with him at one point. He did have a lot of negativity. But I was doing well before he came around. I had a lot going for me, better out look, as well. Always pushing forward.
He would sometimes, just try to bring me down.
Unless you are a super positive person, or a person who does meditation frequently, if not, we tend to absorb the negativity from the person who close to you.
-
Who have you read with?
Too many!!
Bitwine
Pixie dust (negative reading, got some info wrong)
Marcello (English is not this first language but he was fairytales)
Jiaa (Harsh, will have to see if what she says pans out)
Rebecca Hetherington (cold reader, needed too manyy prompts to get answers from her and slow at typing)
Analisa Love psychic (thought she was right but learnt she said exactly the same thing to someone on here)
Advisor Sarah (fairytales about past life and soul mate *yawn*
Psychic medium George (too vague but picked up on someone around my ex)
Hayley Daniels-Lake (thought she was unique as she didn't ask for any info just got into the reading but said similar words to what she said to someone on here, disappointing)
Etsy
Emergency psychics (always very negative, almost to the point where they are trying to say my ex hopes i'm unhappy and not with anyone and having a nervous break down, seems too exaggarated, but they did pick on someone around him so that bit might be true)
Erwannclairvoyant (positive pending outcome)
StrawberrySunlights (unsure about this one yet but very thorough with reading tarot cards and interpreting them)
ThirdEyeReading (not sure yet)
AnnPsychic (too vague)
Psychicceily (Long email positive outcome but pending outcome)
Lynne Kineman (vague ang generic)
Divinespirits (vague)
TarotTreasureDesign (negative, couldn't relate to some parts and overall vague)
Lightandlovetarot (pending)
MissToria (generic and prediction was wrong)
PsychicAdora (another negative one was vague with outcome)
LiveTrustedPsychics (Rose was my go to for years BUT.....the other psychics seem to pick up one someone being about my ex but this person claims he is struggling to move on, she know the situation well so not sure just feeding off the info i give her or simply can't pick anything)
Aimee Alicia (Magick Blessings) (good at picking on people)
Tarot By Penelope (not sure yet, no time frame with her but said me and my ex would reconcile
AngelicInsight (not psychic simply states her own opinion but nice lady feels like you're talking to your wise grandmother lol)
MoonLightandRoses (always generic, reading could apply to anyone)
TheThinkingPlace (feeds off the information you give her and turns it into a reading)
PsychicWhiteAngel (can't remember )
AScoprionMoon (cold guess work)
Dryecraft is pretty good, she rants a bit but very good at picking up on situations and what she feels and Sistercrafts was too but she is a retired psychic and wish I could turn to her now more than ever!!
There's more but when I look at this list I feel to ashamed to list the rest but the rest were nothing outstanding
Out of the bitwine ones you used, I agree that Analisa is full of crap - totally scripted. I tried her last year. Also changed her story after the first or second read. Rebecca also seemed like a cold reader to me, just goes off what you tell her. She was formerly on keen, no surprise there. Also agree about Marcello being fairy tale.
I think I tried Jiaa but can't remember the reading...
-
Ugh, for the love of God, PLEASE stay away from Etsy, Bitwine, and PO. My advice is to reach out to your POI if that's where your gut takes you. You will immediately have your answer. If you REALLY feel like you need a psychic, I would recommend those who actually have a track record for at minimum being honest. Most of those have their own site: Aries Intuition, Yona, Will, Abundant Visions...I'm sure there are others. If however, you have total anxiety, I would stay away from all psychics and work on healing yourself. First off, no psychic with any real capabilities is going to get a clear read on anything if you're a hot mess. Secondly, once you heal yourself a bit, you can start to focus (again) on other aspects of your life that are clearly being neglected because of the dysfunction. I say that with love, but with obsession, there is always other important aspects of your life that suffer (friends, family, career, finances) because they are not getting the prioritization that they really deserve. I know. I've been there. It takes will power and self love. It takes mourning sometimes. But once you get there, things really do turn around. Good luck!
-
Ugh, for the love of God, PLEASE stay away from Etsy, Bitwine, and PO. My advice is to reach out to your POI if that's where your gut takes you. You will immediately have your answer. If you REALLY feel like you need a psychic, I would recommend those who actually have a track record for at minimum being honest. Most of those have their own site: Aries Intuition, Yona, Will, Abundant Visions...I'm sure there are others. If however, you have total anxiety, I would stay away from all psychics and work on healing yourself. First off, no psychic with any real capabilities is going to get a clear read on anything if you're a hot mess. Secondly, once you heal yourself a bit, you can start to focus (again) on other aspects of your life that are clearly being neglected because of the dysfunction. I say that with love, but with obsession, there is always other important aspects of your life that suffer (friends, family, career, finances) because they are not getting the prioritization that they really deserve. I know. I've been there. It takes will power and self love. It takes mourning sometimes. But once you get there, things really do turn around. Good luck!
Thank for your advice but this thread is over 6 months old now and I have moved on from this situation. I have healed, quit readings (none since last year) not sure if I will completely rule them out but I won't ask for my ex anymore because my feelings have faded with time.
The best thing I did was stopped having frequent readings last year and focus on myself. My life is easier now that I've slowly moved on from my ex and stopped the darn readings. They did nothing but damage my health - mental and physical. The vast majority of readings didn't come true. There's still the possibly of things unfolded but like I said this situation is a stalemate and I'm over it now so I really don't care if one of those old readings manifests at a later date. If it does I will deal with it however I see fit at the time.
I'm far too busy to sit around and worry about my ex, I doubt he sits there and thinks about me anyway.
-
Gee...sorry...someone bumped it and I did not check the date. Good for you, but no reason to get defensive.
-
I'm not sure how highlighting that the thread is old and giving an update on my circumstance is defensive? What exactly is there to defend? I think you are reading into my comment far too deeply than need be.
-
I would say Miss ann, Indigo oracle, Rose and Aimee Alicia. They were good empaths and very good with the present . I still have a few open ended predictions from two top psychics which are supposed to happenwhen i least expect it but like i said earlier my heart is simply not in it anymore
-
I would say Miss ann, Indigo oracle, Rose and Aimee Alicia. They were good empaths and very good with the present . I still have a few open ended predictions from two top psychics which are supposed to happenwhen i least expect it but like i said earlier my heart is simply not in it anymore
How is Miss Ann with predictions?
-
I would say Miss ann, Indigo oracle, Rose and Aimee Alicia. They were good empaths and very good with the present . I still have a few open ended predictions from two top psychics which are supposed to happenwhen i least expect it but like i said earlier my heart is simply not in it anymore
How is Miss Ann with predictions?
Trash. Fairytales. Always says hes comin back lol
-
I would say Miss ann, Indigo oracle, Rose and Aimee Alicia. They were good empaths and very good with the present . I still have a few open ended predictions from two top psychics which are supposed to happenwhen i least expect it but like i said earlier my heart is simply not in it anymore
How is Miss Ann with predictions?
I've read with her quite a few times. She's been a hit and miss. Although, one time she told me not to fight with my POI that night, there'll be tension and lo and behold the situation was very tensed. We did not get in an actual fight but I was stern and stood up for myself, and guess what he dumped me the very next day. She had also predicted that this guy would show up but again time frame was wing and so was the sign (not sure if he was the one anymore lol) but described his personality well. However, her big prediction is pending. She's stood by it but it hasn't happened and i haven't been reading with her as much.
-
If you don’t mind me asking did Oracle indigo give you a negative outcome? She Is one of the few who has been right for me so far.
I would say Miss ann, Indigo oracle, Rose and Aimee Alicia. They were good empaths and very good with the present . I still have a few open ended predictions from two top psychics which are supposed to happenwhen i least expect it but like i said earlier my heart is simply not in it anymore
-
Dryecraft was fake . nothing she said resonated with me