The Psychic Reviews
Relationship Psychology Discussions => The Vent => Topic started by: journalmuse on April 23, 2018, 02:08:39 AM
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I'm going to go on a break for May - meaning, no readings. At least, that's the goal.
Would anyone else like to join me? I was thinking it would be good to support each other. Maybe a check-in post now and then, or to agree to be here for each other when we feel like caving.
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I will join you! :)
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me too!
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Yay! I'm so glad others are interested, too.
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It's a great idea, we will all probably feel so much better at the end of May too.
Life will play out as it will, with or without readings. :)
ETA: if anyone feels like they are having a "moment of weakness" if you will, lol, feel free to message me. I think that's the hard part of abstaining, is not having someone to talk to about it.
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It's a great idea, we will all probably feel so much better at the end of May too.
Life will play out as it will, with or without readings. :)
ETA: if anyone feels like they are having a "moment of weakness" if you will, lol, feel free to message me. I think that's the hard part of abstaining, is not having someone to talk to about it.
Haha, totally. I'm already having anxiety like, I know I'm going to want to call someone and struggle with it. Ridiculous.
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I'm in, though I have a top-up with Yona. I actually havent gotten a reading since I booked it. Missed my call from Cookie last night. It's for the best, I'm sure.
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It's a great idea, we will all probably feel so much better at the end of May too.
Life will play out as it will, with or without readings. :)
ETA: if anyone feels like they are having a "moment of weakness" if you will, lol, feel free to message me. I think that's the hard part of abstaining, is not having someone to talk to about it.
Haha, totally. I'm already having anxiety like, I know I'm going to want to call someone and struggle with it. Ridiculous.
Oh I know! LOL...worse part for me is when Purple Ocean has those sales...gets me everytime.
Funny thing, i was re-listening to some of my readings from early December, who all saw major progress in "spring". Now, the last few that I had (not many thank God) are saying summer LOL. They just keep you coming back, season by season, or in three month intervals SMH
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I won't be getting any readings in May either. It's time to save that money and put it to better use. The readings are nothing but a vicious cycle that lead to nowhere but financial and mental devastation.
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Yay! One more! I'm already feeling anxious about it. Isn't that silly?
I think I want to commit to posting here every day just as a check in to say, I made it through the day without relying on a psychic to make me feel better.
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Yay! One more! I'm already feeling anxious about it. Isn't that silly?
I think I want to commit to posting here every day just as a check in to say, I made it through the day without relying on a psychic to make me feel better.
It's a really hard step to take, but in my experience, once enough time has passed where you aren't getting readings, you will feel much better and the desire to get the readings will lessen. For me, the more I got, the more I wanted to get a second opinion from another reader.
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Hey y’all! Everybody ready?
I’d like to ask what folks plan to do when that urge hits. I feel it’s best to be distracted. So I’m going to knit and listen to podcasts.
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Hey y’all! Everybody ready?
I’d like to ask what folks plan to do when that urge hits. I feel it’s best to be distracted. So I’m going to knit and listen to podcasts.
SO ready :) I plan to just do ANYTHING but have a reading, call a friend, take a nap, bury myself in work lol. Good thing is, my job is about to get a lot more hectic (well not good but for this yes) so I'm not going to have a lot of time to think about reading.
If the urge really strikes me, I will just relisten to some of my old readings and realize how none came to pass anyway lol, so why waste more money. :)
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I signed up for a really pricey nutritionist/fitness trainer package for the month so that's what I'm using my money for instead. Hopefully it'll help move me past this weight loss plateau I've been at for a while!
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Count me in.
If anyone here needs to vent while we’re on our break I’m here. I’m excited to try this out!
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We made it through a day! Congrats to everyone! One day may not sound like much, but it is when you stack them up.
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Hi, Everyone! I would LOVE to join the break!! I have been a good girl most of this year and had only several readings. A few in January and a few in February. However, summer is coming up and great energy with it, I feel like I'm craving for some shifts and new exciting opportunities to occur and lately I have such a craving to call a psychic to ask what new they see is coming up. Yesterday, I almost sign up for a call, but my card has expired and they needed new info, which I didn't have at the moment, so I let it pass.
Since I hadn't had readings for awhile, I was able to make a great investment and signed up for 2 awesome year long educational courses. One of my courses has just started this week; another course starts in August, and both of the courses invole traveliing around the coutry (So I will have 6 trips in total). I am yet to pay for traveliing, so I better be careful not to dump money on readings.
I wish everyone to stay grounded and peaceful at heart throughout this break.
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Im definitely down to join and loan support! We got this!!!
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I think the universe is testing me!! ;D >:(
I just got a very random text from an ex (if you can consider him that relevant) accusing me of stalking his social media and messaging his new girlfriend. LOL, puh-lease. I just checked and his stuff is private, I haven’t followed him since December and before today I haven’t cared to look.
I have to admit I almost broke down to call and see what his issue was but I stopped myself. It’s not that serious.
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I think the universe is testing me!! ;D >:(
I just got a very random text from an ex (if you can consider him that relevant) accusing me of stalking his social media and messaging his new girlfriend. LOL, puh-lease. I just checked and his stuff is private, I haven’t followed him since December and before today I haven’t cared to look.
I have to admit I almost broke down to call and see what his issue was but I stopped myself. It’s not that serious.
OMG I had the same moment today. Not on the same topic but I had 2 notifications that advisors that I have been wanting to talk to forever had just come online, and I had a moment with my finger poised over the button ready to click go ... but no. Nope!
I'm all signed up with this new fitness and nutrition program, and am starting on Friday. Onward!
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I think the universe is testing me!! ;D >:(
I just got a very random text from an ex (if you can consider him that relevant) accusing me of stalking his social media and messaging his new girlfriend. LOL, puh-lease. I just checked and his stuff is private, I haven’t followed him since December and before today I haven’t cared to look.
I have to admit I almost broke down to call and see what his issue was but I stopped myself. It’s not that serious.
OMG I had the same moment today. Not on the same topic but I had 2 notifications that advisors that I have been wanting to talk to forever had just come online, and I had a moment with my finger poised over the button ready to click go ... but no. Nope!
I'm all signed up with this new fitness and nutrition program, and am starting on Friday. Onward!
Glad we both resisted the urge 😂
I’m headed back to the gym Friday too! Looks like this break is good for self love all around!
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That’s ok! Start fresh today and go from here. Just because you caved one day doesn’t mean the whole month is shot!
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Still holding strong and hope you all are too. Today I start my new food regime. Wish me luck!
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I think the universe is testing me!! ;D >:(
I just got a very random text from an ex (if you can consider him that relevant) accusing me of stalking his social media and messaging his new girlfriend. LOL, puh-lease. I just checked and his stuff is private, I haven’t followed him since December and before today I haven’t cared to look.
I have to admit I almost broke down to call and see what his issue was but I stopped myself. It’s not that serious.
One of my exes messaged me with something similar a few years ago. At the time I had just had my son and was the happiest I'd ever been with my SO. This ex was the furthest thing from my mind and he's not one of the ones that I'd ever consider taking back.
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How is everyone? Weekends are hardest for me :( But so far so good.
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Im going thru it but ill be ok... im tempted to call a few on my list who predictions didnt pan out and tell them about themselves but im not. Im gonna wait this roller coaster out. Reading here on other ppl experiences is helping. But i did go back n change some positive reviews to nevative
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Im going thru it but ill be ok... im tempted to call a few on my list who predictions didnt pan out and tell them about themselves but im not. Im gonna wait this roller coaster out. Reading here on other ppl experiences is helping. But i did go back n change some positive reviews to nevative
I’m sorry! Stay strong. Who was wrong for you?
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Im going thru it but ill be ok... im tempted to call a few on my list who predictions didnt pan out and tell them about themselves but im not. Im gonna wait this roller coaster out. Reading here on other ppl experiences is helping. But i did go back n change some positive reviews to nevative
I’m sorry! Stay strong. Who was wrong for you?
From PO Sarengelica and Mystic Bell. ....they nailed the current things but the outcome was wrong. Unless things turn around for me ofcourse but i doubt it . Johnathan Hunt was accurate in things but i dnt know yet if outcome will happen.
Christina474773 wrong. Ummm sweetheart tarot picked up well... healing power, hipatia inca princess both picked up well. Mondez wrong. Psychic reader is fake to me and wrong....
I have a few negative outcomes from hipatia inca princess, cookie reading wasnt negative but she gave good wit the bad, aries i will have to wait for timing to tell. I cant think of anyone else. But sansanvi so far is the only one who has been getting things right back to back for me.
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I think the universe is testing me!! ;D >:(
I just got a very random text from an ex (if you can consider him that relevant) accusing me of stalking his social media and messaging his new girlfriend. LOL, puh-lease. I just checked and his stuff is private, I haven’t followed him since December and before today I haven’t cared to look.
I have to admit I almost broke down to call and see what his issue was but I stopped myself. It’s not that serious.
One of my exes messaged me with something similar a few years ago. At the time I had just had my son and was the happiest I'd ever been with my SO. This ex was the furthest thing from my mind and he's not one of the ones that I'd ever consider taking back.
They always want attention when they know we’re happy & we don’t care anymore ;D
Trying to stay strong but there’s a reader available right now that I’ve been wanting to try. Oh well. It’s not that important
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Hey listen we are all just human. And the point of the break is just to try. Try to refocus our time effort attention etc. If you fall off just get right back on. Don’t let a day of messing up keep you from trying. Chin up!
Where’s your vacation?
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Hey listen we are all just human. And the point of the break is just to try. Try to refocus our time effort attention etc. If you fall off just get right back on. Don’t let a day of messing up keep you from trying. Chin up!
Where’s your vacation?
So true. I was so tempted yesterday to try Eamon and i dont even have california psychics. I also wanted to try blessid. I had to tell myself its not worth it
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Im going thru it but ill be ok... im tempted to call a few on my list who predictions didnt pan out and tell them about themselves but im not. Im gonna wait this roller coaster out. Reading here on other ppl experiences is helping. But i did go back n change some positive reviews to nevative
I’m sorry! Stay strong. Who was wrong for you?
From PO Sarengelica and Mystic Bell. ....they nailed the current things but the outcome was wrong. Unless things turn around for me ofcourse but i doubt it . Johnathan Hunt was accurate in things but i dnt know yet if outcome will happen.
Christina474773 wrong. Ummm sweetheart tarot picked up well... healing power, hipatia inca princess both picked up well. Mondez wrong. Psychic reader is fake to me and wrong....
I have a few negative outcomes from hipatia inca princess, cookie reading wasnt negative but she gave good wit the bad, aries i will have to wait for timing to tell. I cant think of anyone else. But sansanvi so far is the only one who has been getting things right back to back for me.
To add one more to that list i forgot to mention bitwines love psychic ashley who tried to get me to buy a ritual when i told her she was wrong lol i hate that sht wit a passion
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Adding to this. In the throes of my addiction a few years ago I found some guy on Kasamba. Don't remember his name but I'd recognize his pic. It was a horrible night and I was desperate for good news, something, anything. And I found this guy. PPM was reasonable from what I remember. The entire reading went something like this:
ME: Hi, what's coming up with X?
KASAMBA GUY: He's thinking about you, he misses you.
ME: Thanks. Will we reconcile?
KASAMBA GUY: Yes, he'll be back. I just want you to chant "ohhhhhhmmm" with me. Just keep typing it over and over. (He gave some BS explanation and clarification about why I needed to be chanting but I don't remember.)
ME: OK. (proceeds to type "ooooooohhhhhmmmm")
End of chat. It wasn't long, but yea, I did that.
Did u refund???
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Oh I can beat that. When I first started down this road, I actually paid for one of those ripoff cleansings. It sounded reasonable. It was like $100. Needless to say it did nothing. Then when it did nothing the person came back wanting $2500 because "the negative energy is even more powerful than I thought." I said no thanks. At least I didn't go that far. But I fell for it initially. Can't stand that ish now.
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Oh I can beat that. When I first started down this road, I actually paid for one of those ripoff cleansings. It sounded reasonable. It was like $100. Needless to say it did nothing. Then when it did nothing the person came back wanting $2500 because "the negative energy is even more powerful than I thought." I said no thanks. At least I didn't go that far. But I fell for it initially. Can't stand that ish now.
There are some psychics that will tell u candle work u can do free and how to do it. That has happened to me but i never was convinced candle work or spells etc actually worked
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Oh I can beat that. When I first started down this road, I actually paid for one of those ripoff cleansings. It sounded reasonable. It was like $100. Needless to say it did nothing. Then when it did nothing the person came back wanting $2500 because "the negative energy is even more powerful than I thought." I said no thanks. At least I didn't go that far. But I fell for it initially. Can't stand that ish now.
There are some psychics that will tell u candle work u can do free and how to do it. That has happened to me but i never was convinced candle work or spells etc actually worked
I don’t believe they work at all...I actually think they make things worse.
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Oh I can beat that. When I first started down this road, I actually paid for one of those ripoff cleansings. It sounded reasonable. It was like $100. Needless to say it did nothing. Then when it did nothing the person came back wanting $2500 because "the negative energy is even more powerful than I thought." I said no thanks. At least I didn't go that far. But I fell for it initially. Can't stand that ish now.
There are some psychics that will tell u candle work u can do free and how to do it. That has happened to me but i never was convinced candle work or spells etc actually worked
I don’t believe they work at all...I actually think they make things worse.
I think so too, it makes things worse.
Agreed and the price to pay someone u can't see for a dollar store candle is crazy to me. I have seen thousands and i never seen anyone say they work lol. There are local botanicas in the neighborhood not even charging that much
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Im going thru it but ill be ok... im tempted to call a few on my list who predictions didnt pan out and tell them about themselves but im not. Im gonna wait this roller coaster out. Reading here on other ppl experiences is helping. But i did go back n change some positive reviews to nevative
I’m sorry! Stay strong. Who was wrong for you?
From PO Sarengelica and Mystic Bell. ....they nailed the current things but the outcome was wrong. Unless things turn around for me ofcourse but i doubt it . Johnathan Hunt was accurate in things but i dnt know yet if outcome will happen.
Christina474773 wrong. Ummm sweetheart tarot picked up well... healing power, hipatia inca princess both picked up well. Mondez wrong. Psychic reader is fake to me and wrong....
I have a few negative outcomes from hipatia inca princess, cookie reading wasnt negative but she gave good wit the bad, aries i will have to wait for timing to tell. I cant think of anyone else. But sansanvi so far is the only one who has been getting things right back to back for me.
To add one more to that list i forgot to mention bitwines love psychic amanda who tried to get me to buy a ritual when i told her she was wrong lol i hate that sht wit a passion
Edit* love psychic amanda....
She is now emailing me asking me to remove my feedback in exchange for a ritual ....wtf lol and trying to tell me she will refund me. I dont even want the money back. Feedback is about principle
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Feeling weak this morning! So far I’ve stayed strong but I’ve been refreshing Keen compulsively waiting for anyone good to come on.
The new guy I’m seeing has been crazy aloof since Thursday and I’m feeling insecure ::) again, it’s not that serious, just frustrating.
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Stay strong! Close out Keen!
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Adding to this. In the throes of my addiction a few years ago I found some guy on Kasamba. Don't remember his name but I'd recognize his pic. It was a horrible night and I was desperate for good news, something, anything. And I found this guy. PPM was reasonable from what I remember. The entire reading went something like this:
ME: Hi, what's coming up with X?
KASAMBA GUY: He's thinking about you, he misses you.
ME: Thanks. Will we reconcile?
KASAMBA GUY: Yes, he'll be back. I just want you to chant "ohhhhhhmmm" with me. Just keep typing it over and over. (He gave some BS explanation and clarification about why I needed to be chanting but I don't remember.)
ME: OK. (proceeds to type "ooooooohhhhhmmmm")
End of chat. It wasn't long, but yea, I did that.
OMG that's one of the funniest stories on here. I had one tell me to bake cookies for my poi. Uh, yeah no, that's okay.
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I’m seriously tempted today .... but so far so good. Also lost 8 pounds so far.
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I’m seriously tempted today .... but so far so good. Also lost 8 pounds so far.
I’m one week clean today. I caved and ordered a few from purple ocean last week and nothing since.
Feels weird yet empowering.
I guess when something becomes a habit like readings do, it’s strange to not have it as a crutch.
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Having a hard time resisting today :(
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Having a hard time resisting today :(
Same here! I actually added money to my Keen account and just barely missed Jade8928. Stay strong! The month is almost half over.
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Caved and ordered a stupid reading on Purple Ocean. At least it was cheap! :P
Made it half the month. That's better than usual. Back to abstaining. It's been a good exercise so far.
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Terrible, just terrible! I have been such a good girl this year and had only a few readings, but last week I went on a massive psychic hunt, made immense amount of calls...it's just summer was coming up and everyone is out enjoying nice weather and flirting and all, and I was curious what was coming up in my love life....I tried a whole bunch of new readers and it was such a waste of money...Out of hopes for ever being happy in a relationship ever..
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Terrible, just terrible! I have been such a good girl this year and had only a few readings, but last week I went on a massive psychic hunt, made immense amount of calls...it's just summer was coming up and everyone is out enjoying nice weather and flirting and all, and I was curious what was coming up in my love life....I tried a whole bunch of new readers and it was such a waste of money...Out of hopes for ever being happy in a relationship ever..
Calling psychics won't get you a relationship. Bringing up your vibration and being confident and happy will. The more you chase after something in desperation, the less chance you have of getting it.
Isn't there someplace you can go just to have some fun?
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I've been there, believe me. Take some of that money and spend it on yourself instead. You can still go back to being on break! I had a day where I had a couple readings on PO and then quit again. Don't let one mess up totally mess up your break month.
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Terrible, just terrible! I have been such a good girl this year and had only a few readings, but last week I went on a massive psychic hunt, made immense amount of calls...it's just summer was coming up and everyone is out enjoying nice weather and flirting and all, and I was curious what was coming up in my love life....I tried a whole bunch of new readers and it was such a waste of money...Out of hopes for ever being happy in a relationship ever..
Calling psychics won't get you a relationship. Bringing up your vibration and being confident and happy will. The more you chase after something in desperation, the less chance you have of getting it.
Isn't there someplace you can go just to have some fun?
SERIOUSLY???? OMG, NJLADY, WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN WITH YOUR ABRAHAM HICKS LECTURE ALL THIS TIME?? IF ONLY I KNEW EARLIER THAT THE RECIPE WAS THIS SIMPLE; WHAT AN EYE OPENER!
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I've been there, believe me. Take some of that money and spend it on yourself instead. You can still go back to being on break! I had a day where I had a couple readings on PO and then quit again. Don't let one mess up totally mess up your break month.
Thank you, journalmuse! Good job staying strong!! You are right, I shouldn’t allow that mess to snowball. I took a good cry today and allowed myself to be vulnerable and sad tonight; tomorrow going restart my meditation practice to get myself grounded.
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I've been there, believe me. Take some of that money and spend it on yourself instead. You can still go back to being on break! I had a day where I had a couple readings on PO and then quit again. Don't let one mess up totally mess up your break month.
Thank you, journalmuse! Good job staying strong!! You are right, I shouldn’t allow that mess to snowball. I took a good cry today and allowed myself to be vulnerable and sad tonight; tomorrow going restart my meditation practice to get myself grounded.
Hang in there. We've all been down that road and down it again.. we're all here to support.. meditation is def the way to go.. I do it everyday now.. visualisation assists also!
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Terrible, just terrible! I have been such a good girl this year and had only a few readings, but last week I went on a massive psychic hunt, made immense amount of calls...it's just summer was coming up and everyone is out enjoying nice weather and flirting and all, and I was curious what was coming up in my love life....I tried a whole bunch of new readers and it was such a waste of money...Out of hopes for ever being happy in a relationship ever..
Calling psychics won't get you a relationship. Bringing up your vibration and being confident and happy will. The more you chase after something in desperation, the less chance you have of getting it.
Isn't there someplace you can go just to have some fun?
SERIOUSLY???? OMG, NJLADY, WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN WITH YOUR ABRAHAM HICKS LECTURE ALL THIS TIME?? IF ONLY I KNEW EARLIER THAT THE RECIPE WAS THIS SIMPLE; WHAT AN EYE OPENER!
Since people that do what I do don't have the same problem that you do, perhaps you should give it a try instead of putting your energy into being snarky. If you are trying to anger me, it won't work. You are like a wounded dog who is biting. I feel bad for you. Really and truly. You are struggling and suffering. I am not, but it is still painful to watch. You may not believe what I believe, but it does work.
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Since people that do what I do don't have the same problem that you do, perhaps you should give it a try instead of putting your energy into being snarky. If you are trying to anger me, it won't work. You are like a wounded dog who is biting. I feel bad for you. Really and truly. You are struggling and suffering. I am not, but it is still painful to watch. You may not believe what I believe, but it does work.
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it definitely works just takes patience. especially with things such as relationships. its easy to get frustrated along the way but i feel like once you start manifesting things you kinda just let go of that frustration cause youve seen it happen in physical form before.
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SERIOUSLY???? OMG, NJLADY, WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN WITH YOUR ABRAHAM HICKS LECTURE ALL THIS TIME?? IF ONLY I KNEW EARLIER THAT THE RECIPE WAS THIS SIMPLE; WHAT AN EYE OPENER!
This just made me giggle. I had not seen A Hicks name in a while.
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Terrible, just terrible! I have been such a good girl this year and had only a few readings, but last week I went on a massive psychic hunt, made immense amount of calls...it's just summer was coming up and everyone is out enjoying nice weather and flirting and all, and I was curious what was coming up in my love life....I tried a whole bunch of new readers and it was such a waste of money...Out of hopes for ever being happy in a relationship ever..
Calling psychics won't get you a relationship. Bringing up your vibration and being confident and happy will. The more you chase after something in desperation, the less chance you have of getting it.
Isn't there someplace you can go just to have some fun?
SERIOUSLY???? OMG, NJLADY, WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN WITH YOUR ABRAHAM HICKS LECTURE ALL THIS TIME?? IF ONLY I KNEW EARLIER THAT THE RECIPE WAS THIS SIMPLE; WHAT AN EYE OPENER!
Since people that do what I do don't have the same problem that you do, perhaps you should give it a try instead of putting your energy into being snarky. If you are trying to anger me, it won't work. You are like a wounded dog who is biting. I feel bad for you. Really and truly. You are struggling and suffering. I am not, but it is still painful to watch. You may not believe what I believe, but it does work.
Njlady (your communication style sounds so much like Realist411s),
You are absolutely right, I felt very down and hurting yesterday after having a psychic binge for several days after a long break, and yesterday, as I said in a previous post, I gave myself a permission to be sad and cry. Journalmuse’s and Kate’s messages made me feel really supported, it made me feel like they were saying, “I hear you, I understand you, stay strong”. It felt great feeling supported and, gradually I started to feel a bit better by the time I was going to bed.
My reply to your message(njlady) yesterday was compelled by my emotional state, it was sarcastic and inappropriate, and for that I apologize. Today I would have answered you differently.
I do understand why your post was greeted by irritation – you based your message on false assumption that I am hoping to get a relationship out of calling psychics, without me realizing that the more people chase something, the less likely they will get it.
The reality is, many, if not all people on this forum had studied the laws of the universe, have practiced spirituality or heard/read Hicks, W.Dyer, L.Hay, Tolle, Dispenza, etc. However, it is obviously much easier to have knowledge about those laws than keep staying on high vibrations (a bit like knowing that one can have a toned body through going to the gym/exercising regularly vs doing it and on a regular basis). It takes time and practice, and I feel I’m getting better, however, last week I got messy with my thinking, which culminated in a breakdown yesterday. Compassionate messages yesterday made me feel MUCH better and easier for me to get back on track today.
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Njlady (your communication style sounds so much like Realist411s),
You are absolutely right, I felt very down and hurting yesterday after having a psychic binge for several days after a long break, and yesterday, as I said in a previous post, I gave myself a permission to be sad and cry. Journalmuse’s and Kate’s messages made me feel really supported, it made me feel like they were saying, “I hear you, I understand you, stay strong”. It felt great feeling supported and, gradually I started to feel a bit better by the time I was going to bed.
My reply to your message(njlady) yesterday was compelled by my emotional state, it was sarcastic and inappropriate, and for that I apologize. Today I would have answered you differently.
I do understand why your post was greeted by irritation – you based your message on false assumption that I am hoping to get a relationship out of calling psychics, without me realizing that the more people chase something, the less likely they will get it.
The reality is, many, if not all people on this forum had studied the laws of the universe, have practiced spirituality or heard/read Hicks, W.Dyer, L.Hay, Tolle, Dispenza, etc. However, it is obviously much easier to have knowledge about those laws than keep staying on high vibrations (a bit like knowing that one can have a toned body through going to the gym/exercising regularly vs doing it and on a regular basis). It takes time and practice, and I feel I’m getting better, however, last week I got messy with my thinking, which culminated in a breakdown yesterday. Compassionate messages yesterday made me feel MUCH better and easier for me to get back on track today.
I didn't assume you were dialing-for-a-date, but I do believe that you are calling and asking when you are going to meet somebody or what is coming up in that area.
I do have empathy for you.
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Njlady (your communication style sounds so much like Realist411s),
You are absolutely right, I felt very down and hurting yesterday after having a psychic binge for several days after a long break, and yesterday, as I said in a previous post, I gave myself a permission to be sad and cry. Journalmuse’s and Kate’s messages made me feel really supported, it made me feel like they were saying, “I hear you, I understand you, stay strong”. It felt great feeling supported and, gradually I started to feel a bit better by the time I was going to bed.
My reply to your message(njlady) yesterday was compelled by my emotional state, it was sarcastic and inappropriate, and for that I apologize. Today I would have answered you differently.
I do understand why your post was greeted by irritation – you based your message on false assumption that I am hoping to get a relationship out of calling psychics, without me realizing that the more people chase something, the less likely they will get it.
The reality is, many, if not all people on this forum had studied the laws of the universe, have practiced spirituality or heard/read Hicks, W.Dyer, L.Hay, Tolle, Dispenza, etc. However, it is obviously much easier to have knowledge about those laws than keep staying on high vibrations (a bit like knowing that one can have a toned body through going to the gym/exercising regularly vs doing it and on a regular basis). It takes time and practice, and I feel I’m getting better, however, last week I got messy with my thinking, which culminated in a breakdown yesterday. Compassionate messages yesterday made me feel MUCH better and easier for me to get back on track today.
I didn't assume you were dialing-for-a-date, but I do believe that you are calling and asking when you are going to meet somebody or what is coming up in that area.
I do have empathy for you.
You assumption was that I do not understand that, "Calling psychics won't get you a relationship. Bringing up your vibration and being confident and happy will. The more you chase after something in desperation, the less chance you have of getting it."
Your assumptions was false.
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Back to positive vibes in here!
I've been sorely tempted and I even once added money to an account but didn't use it. Still holding strong, and now 14 pounds down from when I started at the beginning of the month.
I'm taking a trip to visit friends over the long weekend this weekend (Memorial Day holiday here in the U.S.) and looking forward to it. I haven't seen these friends in a couple of years and I've never been to the city where they are now living so it should be a good break and recharge and hopefully also an adventure. But man the pull for psychic reassurance is strong, isn't it?
This break month has really opened my eyes to some patterns that I do not like. How is everyone else doing now that we're almost at the end of the month?
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Hi journalmuse (and everyone who's been on a break for May),
I am curious to know if you would be willing to share how you are achieving your impressive weight loss! I'm trying to be on a health kick -- for fitness and would like to lose a bit of weight too. Can you share a bit about that, either here or in a PM if you prefer?
And congrats to all of you for getting through May with no / few readings!
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Back to positive vibes in here!
I've been sorely tempted and I even once added money to an account but didn't use it. Still holding strong, and now 14 pounds down from when I started at the beginning of the month.
I'm taking a trip to visit friends over the long weekend this weekend (Memorial Day holiday here in the U.S.) and looking forward to it. I haven't seen these friends in a couple of years and I've never been to the city where they are now living so it should be a good break and recharge and hopefully also an adventure. But man the pull for psychic reassurance is strong, isn't it?
This break month has really opened my eyes to some patterns that I do not like. How is everyone else doing now that we're almost at the end of the month?
Honoring your word/agreement with yourself re:this break, getting some new self-awareness insights, losing 14! Pounds -awesome job, Journalmuse!!
I'm curious, what you'd like to create around getting psychic readings/guidance once the break is over? Do you want to prolong your break or implementing some news structure/rules for yourself? If you feel comfortable sharing about it, please do)
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Well, I didn’t refrain from psychics completely but I cut way, way, way back. I feel really good about it and now that the ‘break’ is over I plan on continuing to cut myself off until hopefully I no longer feel the need to call anyone.
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Other than the one day I caved and got a few readings on PO, I honored the break month. It was a really good reset button and my intention is to carry it forward. One reading a month would be a vast improvement over before, so that’s my new goal.
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I know that May has come and gone but I thought this was worth sharing:
Since I tried taking the break for May, my Keen spending has dropped dramatically and I’d like to think the break helped with that. I went from spending upwards for 600-700 a month on Keen. 🤮
In June I spent $185, July I haven’t even spent $100. It feels great.
Thanks to everyone on this forum for the (mostly) positive vibes. I honestly feel like finding you all has helped my addiction for the better. ❤️
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I know that May has come and gone but I thought this was worth sharing:
Since I tried taking the break for May, my Keen spending has dropped dramatically and I’d like to think the break helped with that. I went from spending upwards for 600-700 a month on Keen. 🤮
In June I spent $185, July I haven’t even spent $100. It feels great.
Thanks to everyone on this forum for the (mostly) positive vibes. I honestly feel like finding you all has helped my addiction for the better. ❤️
I'm really glad you posted this because I was thinking of posting something similar. Ever since the break my spending has also dropped drastically. After that, I decided I would stick to one reading a month and so far I have - usually about $100 is what I am now budgeting. I didn't even think about psychics for a couple of weeks, no urge to call, in fact most of June I had almost $200 sitting in my CP account that I didn't use until this week. The break really helped as sort of a reset button for me and I'm glad it did for you too.
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I know that May has come and gone but I thought this was worth sharing:
Since I tried taking the break for May, my Keen spending has dropped dramatically and I’d like to think the break helped with that. I went from spending upwards for 600-700 a month on Keen. 🤮
In June I spent $185, July I haven’t even spent $100. It feels great.
Thanks to everyone on this forum for the (mostly) positive vibes. I honestly feel like finding you all has helped my addiction for the better. ❤️
I'm really glad you posted this because I was thinking of posting something similar. Ever since the break my spending has also dropped drastically. After that, I decided I would stick to one reading a month and so far I have - usually about $100 is what I am now budgeting. I didn't even think about psychics for a couple of weeks, no urge to call, in fact most of June I had almost $200 sitting in my CP account that I didn't use until this week. The break really helped as sort of a reset button for me and I'm glad it did for you too.
That's awesome! I want to get to those numbers. $100 or so per month, no more. And to get one single reading per month.