The Psychic Reviews
Relationship Psychology Discussions => The Vent => Topic started by: sammiepoo on May 24, 2011, 11:58:58 PM
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I am so hurt right now very bad, Elvin just told me on the phone that he is going back to the mennonites. A psychic told me he was being hot and cold
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What does that mean Sammiepoo?? Is he going back to the community to live or what?? What did he say about you guys?
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He didnt say anything about us he just said we cant be friends because he is going back to being mennonite but he sounded real confused.
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What??????
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Who said he was hot and cold? Don't freak out because hot and cold means coming and going which is what this is....coming and going and coming back again
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Joyce said he is very hot and cold which I agree is very changable
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If he's confused give him space and don't push him. The least he needs right now is pressure!!! I know it's hard. You have no idea how many times i sit my hands down not to dial my boy's number :(
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I understand! Well i needed to know what he has plans to do so I can no whether to move on without him, and I think I am going to move on, even though I truly love him and he is my soul mate. I want to date other guys
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Giselle sees me joining the mennonite church!!
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In addition to what coco is saying, I would also try not to serial dial California Psychics. I know that can be equally difficult
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who is joyce?
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Yes, i fully agree with PT, no serial dialing. Now i want to dial but i can't until i pay off my credit card which probably will take me till end of June lol. But according to EVERYONE i spoke to, we should be back together so i may not NEED to call. I'm still crossing my fingers.....i will for you too Sammiepoo. And just because Giselle sees you joining the church, don't let that influence you as to what YOU want to do.
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Okay thank you guys! I dont know what his decision is going to be
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what did jacqueline say about this issue with him and the church
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I have not talked to her about it!
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I guess she didn't see this coming. ugh
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I guess nobody did!! I am so upset,
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so sorry to hear all this sammie.
this is the thing with psychics sometimes life throws us a curveball and nobody can predict that.
Check out William's video - he says sometimes we are in other person's life for their learning and not for us. If this guy is going back to his community, I am not surprised it is not easy to abandon such strong traditional ties and the non-traditional free world can be scary when there is so much security in the mennonite community.
Hey Sammie, focus on your spiritual growth and learning and have fun. Let this guy know you do not resent him for doing this and wish him the best in his life and his future. Of course you are hurt because you are feeling caring person.
Do not make any decisions live in the moment, if and when he comes back you can see how you feel then. You do not have to commit to the person who has his own insecurities to deal with. Also understand guys who are lost can come across as very selfish when the truth is they can only do things from the perspective they have. Later on looking back one may hold their head in their hands and say, 'what was I thinking?' But why should you wait for them to come to this realization.
Good for you for graduating from college coming from foster homes it is a big achievement. Also check out Casey's video and raise your vibrations to attract the person who is equal in caliber to you and deserving of you. And if you still want to wait for Elvin he is only going back to his community not getting married, so it is not the end of the world, there is still hope and even better is that you are free to play the field.
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okay well he actually is suppose to leave it in 2 to 3 months he is trying it. Thank you for the encourgagement I believe he will be back because here is his problem, he loves me but he wants to be apart of his community but they are not going to completely except him. He knows that
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Sammie, you've had quite the life, haven't you? You are so young and have a very fun spirit. I was shocked to read that about Elvin, but I also feel like it's part of the plan and maybe just a little detour.
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I believe it is too I honestly believe everything is going to work out. After all I am the only girl he is ever been in love with and not only that he wont be excepted back into the mennonites. They frown upon some of the things he has done and been doing, and he told me he was going to do this back when we broke up in December of 2009 and he never did!!
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Check back with us later..hope you're feeling better...it will be up and down Im surebut at least feeling better will be a nice start :)
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yeah my SM is kind of wishy washy!!