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Addicted to Psychics / Re: I gave in

« Last post by Notacrystalfreak on Today at 09:12:46 AM »

I understand - a lot of the uncertainty is what drives us to these psychic binges - a lot of the emotional regulation we need is within ourselves and trusting things will work out. I have no doubt you’re going to find employment and I really do hope the love of your life walks in soon. I know the feeling of waiting and waiting - just know you are not alone in this human experience x

Honestly I’m tired of talking about love. I just want peace, and to stay busy. Maybe an arranged marriage. I’ve had people I’ve really loved come into my life and don’t think I have enough love in me for another. The reader did say to “let him love you”. It would be nice but I’m so over waiting and pining for love! I hope I get a job soon though.

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Addicted to Psychics / Re: I want to quit

« Last post by sai07 on Today at 01:09:57 AM »

Thank you @NotaCrystalFreak

You are absolutely right. I have to control my own happiness.

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Addicted to Psychics / Re: I gave in

« Last post by sai07 on Today at 01:07:31 AM »

I understand - a lot of the uncertainty is what drives us to these psychic binges - a lot of the emotional regulation we need is within ourselves and trusting things will work out. I have no doubt you’re going to find employment and I really do hope the love of your life walks in soon. I know the feeling of waiting and waiting - just know you are not alone in this human experience x

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My Story / Re: Long time addict and my story

« Last post by artsygirlms on Today at 12:09:44 AM »

I have been traveling more! It makes a huge difference to actually get out of the house & do things instead of sitting there and spending all my money on psychics & in the end still sitting at the house alone.

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Keen.com / Re: Cecedani

« Last post by Novachild1018 on May 18, 2024, 09:56:14 PM »

She predicted contact from POI when no one else accurately could. POI and I got into an argument by that time it had been a month, she told me 6-7 weeks to go and low and behold, that’s when he reached out. Could she have guessed that? Idk maybe but it was a really good guess if it was. Haven’t used her agai because even i question if she can be 100% accurate idk why.

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Addicted to Psychics / Re: I gave in

« Last post by Notacrystalfreak on May 18, 2024, 09:11:43 PM »

25 pounds feels like a relatively small amount, so I am glad your wallet did not take a big hit.

In regards to job and finding someone in a different country, what does your gut/heart say? I would take that into account.

The answer is starting to becoming clearer, as I let go of the hold the psychic has had over me. DO NOT TRAVEL BECAUSE A PSYCHIC SAID SO. LOVE WILL FIND YOU WHEN YOURE NOT LOOKING. DONT CHASE IT.

That’s the advice I have for myself. With regards to jobs, I will literally just have to see closer to the time I graduate. But I really would like something asap and to make new friends from it.

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Addicted to Psychics / Re: I want to quit

« Last post by Notacrystalfreak on May 18, 2024, 09:00:33 PM »

Ok let's bring this back to my quitting story

So I failed miserably this month. I went on binge calls the past two days >.< I feel guilty. But I also feel I needed to talk to someone =(
I can't talk about my situation with anyone else. I have been distancing and not texting my POI and I am hurting. I am in the phase where I am having a hard time accepting that it is in my best interests to move on. I go back and forth with the whole thing.

I don't understand how someone can go from being so loving and genuine and wanting to spend their time with you to talking to multiple other people and giving you the cold shoulder. I also don't believe in the whole, 'get under someone to get over someone else' . At least not in the beginning stages of pulling away from someone you love. That won't make me feel better.

Anyways, my point being, I binged and I am disappointed. I am struggling with fully letting go of this person which is why the binges happened - a couple advisors told me it will get better (but I do not believe them) and one told me there is no future (while I believe her, a part of me does not want to believe her). I don't know how I am going to pray my way out of the hurt, but I can't keep calling advisors.

I worry my intuition and sense of judgement is off too. How could I believe this is the person I was going to marry? And how does a tiny part of me still think this will magically work out? I feel confused and hurt.

Re: prayer, I also am struggling to decide if I want to pray for this person to change and come back into my life or if I want to pray the feelings away :/ Feels like I'm not in a clear state of mind.

Anyways, thanks for listening.

Another person is not the key to your happiness. He’s just another, flawed human being. You deserve more, you deserve to be occupied by better things.

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Addicted to Psychics / Re: I gave in

« Last post by sai07 on May 18, 2024, 06:24:31 PM »

25 pounds feels like a relatively small amount, so I am glad your wallet did not take a big hit.

In regards to job and finding someone in a different country, what does your gut/heart say? I would take that into account.

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Addicted to Psychics / I gave in

« Last post by Notacrystalfreak on May 18, 2024, 02:18:01 PM »

I got a reading, I think my phone bill is £25.

I don’t regret it because yes it did cheer me up but it spurred me to apply for jobs because she said I WILL get a job which is unlike the other reader making me change degrees to even be worth anything. She didn’t say my life partner is in a different country but that id meet him after the job. Which is making me want to apply for jobs. She could be wrong she could be right, but she told me to believe in myself which I haven’t been doing. Thinking I need more qualifications to ever be employed. As a one off it was okay. I’m hoping not to get one for a while now, maybe next year. But I think once in a while is okay, as long as you take it with a pinch of salt and don’t binge.

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Keen.com / Re: Adelaide 444

« Last post by HazelYella on May 18, 2024, 01:23:46 PM »

Okay, these glowing reviews have to be fake. I read with her and it was terrible. She guessed a lot, and rambled. I had to interject to ask the questions that I paid to have answered.