The Psychic Reviews
Relationship Psychology Discussions => My Story => Topic started by: cj on February 21, 2011, 05:48:31 PM
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I thought everyone could post any info they had about this complicated crap about soulmates.
THREE KINDS OF SOUL MATES
Did you know there are three main kinds of soul mates?
They are: Karmic, Companion and Twin Flames. Study the different kinds and discover which category your soul mate falls under. This will give you a broader understanding of why he or she has come into your life. To help you, I will explain the differences.
KARMIC SOUL MATE
The karmic soul mate experience is very common. You can have many of these in a lifetime. They enter your life to teach you an important lesson. Karmic soul mates can be co-workers, family members or close friends. One young woman particularly close to me comes to mind. Her name is Amanda Jane, and she is about twenty years my junior. She jokes that I must be her mother from another life. What makes our friendship special is that we touch on a spiritual level.
I often wonder why Amanda was brought into my life. We are very close, but what lesson am I to learn from her? To enjoy life again? Amanda comes from a dysfunctional family. Am I here to teach her a lesson? Am I to show her that she is loved and cherished? It can and does work both ways.
Sometimes karmic soul mate relationships can be romantic in nature; but if so, they won’t last long. That is because these relationships are solely meant for learning lessons and for growth rather than for obtaining a life partner.
Another thing we must keep in mind is that not all karmic relationships are human. Sometimes, pets we consider to be special members of our family can display the same karmic characteristics as humans. An example of this is Avis Townsend’s story “Back With Eli” in the karmic section of the book. Ms. Townsend’s story shows there are special relationships we can have with our pets to the point where the bond between pet and human becomes so deep it’s hard to dismiss it as anything other than the true karmic soul mate relationship.
Another point to remember about karmic soul mates, as well as other kinds of soul mates, is that each one, whether human or animal, comes into our lives for a reason and to teach us a lesson about ourselves.
COMPANION SOUL MATE
A companion soul mate relationship can be a relationship that is romantic in nature. It involves your wife/husband or someone you are intimate with. Oftentimes, these soul mates are not destined to be with us forever but, like Karmic soul mates, are brought into our lives for a purpose.
It is possible to spend a lifetime with your companion soul mate if you haven’t met your twin soul. However, when the twin soul is found, the companion soul mate relationship could suffer. When this happens, the companion soul mate relationship is generally short-lived or, if it continues, a non-satisfying one. However, this is no reason to jump ship when it happens. Remember, there is a reason your companion soul mate is in your life (for example, so you can raise children together).
When your twin soul comes into your life and you are in a companion soul mate relationship, it is important that you take things slowly. It may be that the companion soul mate relationship will come to an end—or it may not. One thing you must keep in mind is that ending an existing relationship solely because one feels one has found one's twin soul is never a good idea, because over time you will realize that both associations are meant to be and both have an important role in your life.
An interesting aspect of the companion soul mate relationship is that we put more of our energies into it. The karmic soul mate relationship tends to go at an easy pace, without much effort from either partner, as it does with twin souls. The companion soul mate bond requires more work on our parts to sustain a healthy, loving atmosphere.
TWIN FLAMES
This is the highest form of soul mate connection. Your twin soul is your other half; to find your twin soul is like finding yourself. We go through our life searching and searching, and what we don’t realize is that we are looking for someone just like us. Sometimes, we find them in this life and, other times, in other lives.
I believe they are always around, but for some reason it is not apparent. Perhaps we close our eyes to them. We don’t listen and observe. We go through life at such a hectic pace we don’t stop and take in things that would otherwise be apparent, so the presence of a soul mate could hit us flat in the face and we wouldn’t even know it. This is sad, because we have missed that one, rare opportunity for total bliss and happiness.
IDENTIFYING A SOUL MATE RELATIONSHIP
In order to find your soul mate, you must know what to look for. I have compiled the ten most important traits in recognizing your soul mate. Read them to help you decide who your own soul mate(s) is.
ACCEPTANCE
Your soul mate must accept you for who you are. He or she must accept your weaknesses as well as your strengths. Your soul mate does not try to change you, nor do you try to change them. He or she lets you be yourself, for the more you are yourself, the stronger your bond with your soul mate has a chance of becoming.
ENCOURAGEMENT
Your soul mate makes you feel good about yourself. He or she never criticizes, only encourages. If they cannot do this, then they are not your soul mate.
NURTURING
Your soul mate cares about you and what happens to you. He is the first to be by your side in accomplishment and defeat. She picks you up when others throw you down. He nurtures your spirit so you can roll with the punches, no matter where they fall.
FRIENDSHIP
Your soul mate is your best friend in the entire world. She or he laughs with you, cries with you, sings with you. They are there for you when life throws you those bad curves; they are there for you when you surpass your highest expectations of yourself. A soul mate will understand you and give you what you want and need without hesitation. She will make you feel at home, comfortable and at ease.
As you would with any friend, take the relationship slow. Savor each milestone of firsts: the first time your eyes meet, the first time his lips brush against yours, the first afternoon spent together walking through the park or along the seashore or even just in your own backyard. You have to remember that if you end up together, these “firsts” will be ingrained in your memory forever. Cherish them.
GENEROSITY
Your soul mate is generous. He gives freely of his time and his possessions. She will ditch whatever she is doing to be with you. He will give you your heart’s desires. She will give you her heart and soul, if need be.
CONVERSATIONALIST
Soul mates are interested in what each other have to say. My soul mate and I would spend hours contemplating the mysteries of the universe. Since we thought alike, we never did stop talking. We talked about our past, our present and our future. As we had so many things in common, each of us was interested in what the other had to say.
PREMONITIONS
You may have premonitions of your future soul mate in dreams. Whether they are when you are asleep or when you are in meditation, you will picture your soul mate as if he or she were standing in front of you. You will note the color of their hair, the sound of their voice, their way of walking. You will picture your soul mate as you want them to be. If you are fortunate enough to be able to do this—and it can happen anytime, anywhere—remember it. For, in time, your soul mate will appear in front of you just as you envisioned.
POSITIVE KARMA
One of the main ingredients for a successful soul mate relationship lies in the power of karma. In layman’s terms, karma is basically the theory that whatever you do, there will be another event to follow that is directly consequential to your actions. Therefore, the law of karma teaches us that what we do today may come back to haunt us tomorrow. How does this apply to the soul mate phenomenon?
If you are in a bad relationship, and you continue to remain in that relationship, you are setting up a path of bad karma for yourself because of the negative energies that arise. Once you learn to set up a shield against this negativity, good karma will infiltrate your life and open your soul to a promising and healthy soul mate relationship.
Not until this happens will you ever receive a satisfactory soul mate union. Both parties must bring good karma into the relationship. You have to remember that we are all souls, just pure energy “visiting” this planet; and we have been here many times. Neither partner can come from a place where negativity is present, or the soul mate experience just won’t occur..
SPIRITUAL CONNECTION
You will feel a connection with your soul mate, as if you had known him or her before. You will feel an energy radiating between you. You will look into each other’s eyes and see each other’s soul, for that is where the true soul mate connection lies.
Not enough can be said about the spiritual connection between soul mates. It is the most important quality in a soul mate relationship. You will feel this in the depths of your heart and soul. Without it, the soul mate relationship is doomed.
UNCONDITIONAL LOVE
Your soul mate will love you more than anything or anyone he has loved in his entire life, although he will give you freedom to be who you are. “You cannot possess a soul mate any more than you can possess a person in your physical world,” says Robert Egby, author of Thank You For The Flowers. “Soul mates are free and must always be so. Love cannot be possessed or controlled. Soul mates are together because they share an unconditional love, a mutual vibration. There are no exceptions.”
PERFECT TIMING
Other things come into play in seeking your soul mate that you might not count on. One is perfect timing. If it isn’t the right time for you and your soul mate to be together, it will likely not happen.
DO YOU ONLY HAVE ONE SOUL MATE?
I have learned in doing research for this book that many people do not believe in soul mates. They say they have searched and searched for the one person who will make them happy, and have given up. They have come to the conclusion they do not believe there is one, and only one, person who is perfect for them.
They are absolutely right. There is no one person who is your soul mate because, as I noted earlier, there are at least three types of soul mates. Those who do not believe at all are missing an important part of their life experience, for it is our search for our soul mate that makes our spiritual journey complete.
The bottom line is, don’t give up. Our soul mates are out there. Perhaps, they are right under our noses and we don’t even realize it.
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“The One”-- Your True Soulmate Are you with your "true" soulmate or has
someone else fulfilled your heart's
desire?
In interviewing over a hundred couples for my new
book Divine Complement. I was struck by the
similarity in the stories of how soulmates met and
the divine creative design that drew them together.
From those still looking for their soulmate I am often
asked, "How will I know he or she is "the One"?
Listed here are a dozen characteristics, indicators
and clues that he or she is your authentic Divine
Complement.
1 You are magnetic opposites. It's true! Most
soulmates are opposites who complement each
other's strengths and masculine and feminine
traits.So if your partner seems stubbornly
rational when all you want from him or her is listen
to your emotional needs or follow your intuitive
lead in making a major decision, you are likely
complements who need to apply a balanced
approach. The greater function of a soulmate
relationship is to mirror each other's less realized
and actualized traits and talents and to blend them
together into a productive balanced partnership.
2 Your soulmate is not perfect and has caused you to discard your wish list of ideals.Your true soulmate may not match your qualifications
for the perfect mate or match.Rather he or she is
a 'soul-match', meaning they will help evolve your
soul out of its previous conditioning and urge you to perfect the love you were meant to give freely and unconditionally. 3 A dream may have announced your soulmate's entrance on the stage of life with a loud trumpet call .Many soulmates dream of each other months or even years before they
actually meet.It seems that they rendezvous in
the ethers before the relationship ever lands on
earth.A mysterious dream lover or a stranger
who waltzed into a room in your house in a dream,
may have alerted you that your soulmate reunion
had been divinely planned for the near future.
4 Magic was afoot the day you met and reached a crescendo in the weeks that followed. " It was kismet" sums up the experience and the world around you took on the
air of'somewhere over the rainbow'.Serendipity
and synchronistic signs may have alerted you that
he or she was "the one.""A soulmate awakening"
as I coin these experiences reveals a dimension of
creativity that is full of magic and meaningful signs
to authenticate your soulmate's identity.
5 You were introduced by a member of your family or a friend.A large percentage of soulmates are introduced by a friend or family
member who innocently played matchmaker,
usually without any idea that they were bringing
you together for life.Other souls collaborate with
you to make your soulmate dreams come true.
6 You met at someone else's wedding or in church. Soulmate meetings are meant to tie the knot with a meaningful event or situation that
points you to the profound spiritual connection you
share and to the divine nature of the relationship.
7 A divine spark lit your heart the moment your eyes met.Most soulmates attest it was love at first sight.Lucille Ball recalled that when she
met Desi it wasn't exactly love at first sight."It
took all of 5 minutes." The divine connection
between twin souls creates a synergy that ignites
each other's hearts with a powerful love energy--it
is spiritual chemistry.
8 You ran into each other over and over again before you ever dated.Sometimes the love spark doesn't catch the first time, and soulmates
need several encounters before they connect in a
more meaningful way.It may seem like God
pushed you together.The soulmate play on the
stage of life may have many scenes and acts
before the wedding feast.
9 Your partner seemed "oh so familiar" even on the first date.Soulmate relationships are karmic which means you likely spent several lifetimes
together.Your soul remembers their soul
intimately even if the details of the past lives are
never revealed.
10 Your relationship presents challenges that seem like unfair spiritual tests.Your soulmate seems to know what buttons to push to help you
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Quick true inspirational story you'll love and that I've told before:
My friend was with this guy for four years. He met some other woman and had a baby by her. My friend was distraught (like me) but she loved him, and she took him back. he then got the same girl pregnant again! (can you believe it!) so she took him back again and finally after I knocked some sense into her she left him. She and I graduated college and she moved to Florida. Ther guy ended up with the mother of his kids of course. He moved in with her and everything.
Meanwhile my friend had her life moving in all positive directions. She brought a house, and she had a new bf she moved in with for two years. So one day her new bf told her he didnt love her and he was moving out. ( )
Her and her ex that had two daughters by now was living on his own. He and the mother of his kids broke up and he was living by himself. When my friend became available he committed to her, married her and now they have a newborn baby.
They were broken up for 4 1/2 years. I witnessed the whole story unfold like a Nicholas Sparks movie.
Who wouldve thought they would be back together. But he said after being without her for so long he realized that she is all that he wants and sometimes that takes years for them to realize that. You just have to have faith girl. Maybe it won't happen now. Maybe it won't happen with him but it will happen. Soul mates will always come back. No matter what. Have confidence and believe that love in its truest and rarest form does conquer all...even if it doesn't end the way you want it to.
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Well, as Ellen Hartwell said to me, I'm very sorry, but you are in a soul mate relationship but I am happy to tell you that you met your soul mate for this lifetime. Sums it all up.
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pt did she say that exactly?????
she told me i will have met two soulmates in this life
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You talked to her??? What did you think? Yes that is what she said to me. Ill look at my notes to see exactly how I wrote it down.
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Did she say when SM #2 is coming around?
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I have another nice SM story to share. My friends parents are very much in love. Married for 40 years and you can see and feel the connection between them. Over the summer I was visiting with them and we got on the topic of my divorce and she asked if I wanted to hear their story. They met at 15 but her mother wouldn't let her date at such a young age (this is 50 years ago). He came back for her when she turned 17. Instantly fell in love. Then he decided he was too young for a girlfriend and broke up with her and started dating around. She refused to see or talk to him. 6 months went by and she said she was very depressed and lost 10 lbs. He ran into her mom who said to him, come on home with me. She is miserable without you. They've been together ever since. Three kids and a ton of grandkids and she told me she still feels the very same about him.
She told me not to give up on finding love. That goes for all of us.
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well what was her point in telling you that you met your sm for this lifetime? Does that mean its all over for you if you two dont end up together?
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good point cjean. I didn't think of that. That would suck. Abrielle once said if a SM uses free will to wiggle out, another comes along. Right now I'm just looking to meet him for a drink. Maybe dinner. My expectations are pretty low at this point.
lol
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Abrielle said she didn't see any other SM's out there for me either. That was over the summer. Maybe if I asked now that would change. My focus is pretty narrow right now so I kinda don't care.
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well Abrielle told me that you ony get a 2nd sm when the door with your 1st one isn't still open. But sometimes its also as a way for you to not suffer through and to have a choice...just bc their lives are stagnant doesnt mean our lives have to be.
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I was dating someone in december and he was fun, young and cute but then my dear SM started contacting me so that was the end of my hottie distraction because I lost total interest. I wasn't that interested to begin with but it took some of the hurt away. Hottie and I decided to give it a go with each other and the next morning @ 6am SM sent me a note asking if I was seeing someone. Hadnt talked to him in a month. Freaky..that really started the communication.
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your sm is an undercover stalker lol....haha..maybe he sensed your energy pulling away.
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How dare anybody say who and how many soul mates you have... this is ridiculous. Mere mortals may channel messages from greater knowing places, but it is absurd for them to state your life as a finite plan. This is infuriating to me. You all, please, stop taking all this talk as gospel.
Have you ever noticed how most of the time the love in question just happens to be your soul mate? Or one of them?
Yes, we have connections, that's an organic thing that happens when two sentient beings interrelate on an intimate level... but do not forget about emotions, which are extremely human and often selfish. Not every intense connection is meant to last, even if you do feel completely sure it's a soul connection. I'm really really disappointed in the people who are making these bold assessments of what your spirit is capable of, and furthermore, it's not just about you. (you and your here meaning me and all of us) The Universe does not exist to cater to the desires of mankind.
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Haha Kira, your posts are sooo full of anger ! :P anyway, cool down, but seriously sometimes we do need to sit down and look objectively at the situation. And see what comes or any new things you have found out for yourself. Geez.
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if we didnt make pour own decisions then they wouldnt be our lessons
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I was told someone wasn't my SM (December hottie). In fact, I was told he was just looking for sex!! LOL I was also told an ex-boyfriend was basically an asshole (he really was). And my dear ex-husband, well, I don't waste my precious minutes on him.
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Whoa yes alot of anger here.
The soulmate is about life lessons certainly, and it's painful at times because it happens to make us access our own inner wisdom. It also happens because during this time, we, and the soulmate are supposed to experience personal growth.
When there is separation we are supposed to be living in the NOW. Focusing on ourselves. Learning that we want life on our terms not on the terms others set for us. This is the period of personal growth we are supposed to be experiencing. Turn up the volume, the soul speaks in whispers. Information sent through inner wisdom often comes in subtle way, through symbols, meaningful coincidences, synchronicities, repeated signs or references. We want the big sign but the true soul signs come quietly like that. During a time when there is separation or issues in the soulmate relationship it is to make us grow and go within ourselves and learn. We're supposed to be learning to listen with our hearts not our ears.
And yes live in the NOW.....date other people, go out, enjoy yourself. It's all part of the experience.
Sometimes, the soulmate doesn't do their job and they take a different path. When that happens that is recognized and another soulmate is sent to come in.
The five big soulmate lessons for us to learn is Passion, Purpose, Potential, Pacing (Patience!), and Problem Solving. We are experiencing this relationship to learn at least 1 of these lessons.
None of us should feel we have to apologize for our feelings. This is your experience. If we decide to jump off the path we can....we create our own reality. It doesn't mean we have to be martyrs...it's ok to live our lives and move along....eventually they'll catch up! And really it's not for us to interfere in our soulmates experience...they need to experience these other relationships to move forward also. Sometimes you need to let go of an attachment to make the energy flow and move.
Each of us is individual and needs to experience this in our own way. If we want to date other, date others, some may , some may not want to. Both are ok. As long as you are living in the now and going within yourself and keeping yourself in a position of self awareness, expressing yourself at your highest level, you're doing your spiritual work for yourself...you're learning.
Your personal resonance is created with every free will action you take and every decision you make. It expresses your vibration of the consequences of your own free will choices. Use your own free will wisely when assessing the best way to react to something and pay attention to the intention behind your reaction. What do you want this reaction to resonate and and face yourself honestly. It's not easy but always take the high road. It's all part of us doing our part in this for ourselves!
Grab a friend when you're mad and plot and plan and talk about all the things you want to do....write all over his/her facebook, send texts to his phone, call him/her tell him to go F themselves!....but then laugh and don't do it! Remember any action we take has consequences and can change the energy of our desired outcome.
Besides that, this is their experience...including the new girlfriends, boyfriends, etc...we are not supposed to really be interfering with their experience. They too are experiencing all this for a reason.
If you would be loved, love and be lovable -- Benjamin Franklin
Carefully plant a good seed, you will joyfully gather good fruit. -- Buddha
Peace and Light.
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"Did she say when SM #2 is coming around?"
Ellen didn't know. Her and another local psychic i use both said this would be the one, and i would know very quickly that i would want to spend the rest of my life with him. She estimated a few months, and the other psychic said i would meet him in an "M" month... so it will be in March or May when i meet him according to her. They both have the same physical descriptions for him too. Funny how none of the CP psychics have seen this? I seriously think most of those readers play with probabilities and if they start to ask more than one question at a time hang up the phone. Eden and Jean were the only ones to say "I see you dating 3-4 guys before SM comes in" or "You are going to have lots of options this year, at least 4 guys maybe more" Eden said the first, Jean said the second. I am currently talking and hanging out with a few different guys at the moment.
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aef..you are wise and wonderful and inspirational... xoxoxo I loved your post...you keep me smiling and you give me strength
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I'm not angry, I'm frustrated that people in a position to be a trusted consult for paying customers will treat their hearts so frivolously. A medical doctor would be sued for this type of negligence. I am frustrated that people buy the words written by others regarding exactly what a soul mate is and all the rules therein. There's a lot of talking going on and a lot of supposed knowledge on a subject that in intangible. To me this is only further exacerbating hopes which may be in vain and, more importantly, detrimental.
You're right that everybody is living his/her own experience, and nobody needs to apologize for their feelings. I certainly don't apologize for being honest and realistic and caring about people I don't even really know. My input here is what it is and it's not a style that works for everyone, but if any one person engages in a new thought path that leads to resolution because I speak from my perspective, that's worth it to me. There is no authority on this subject. To think it's all been figured out is contrary to what spiritualism is.
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I agree Kira...
This subject is intangible...it does not have a physical presence...it's what is in each person's individual heart. It's for each of us to have our own experience and go within ourselves and decide how we want it to go. Not to experience this on others terms...on our own terms. I agree.
I don't feel that this is further exacerbating hopes. We are all supposed to have hope for ourselves...it's about what each individual wants. And I don't feel anyone thinks it's all been figured out. For me I feel it has been about me figuring myself out and my own path in this.
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So it sounds like you agree with some of what I'm saying, so do you not feel miffed by psychics who tell a person this is their one and only soul mate or there aren't any others out there and stuff like that? I think that's horrible and obviously they shouldn't be doing this work.
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well God is all for the love so I def dont think we have only one sm, but hey people stay married to people and they're not sm...so just bc a person has one sm in this lifetime doesnt mean thats the end of the road for them and they will never be happy.
It just means that their soul has only made a contract with one person in this lifetime..its not the psychics who did that..our souls did..they're just the messengers.
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I totally agree with you aef..we do need hope in our lives...and we need to experience those choices we've made no matter how detrimental bc thats how we live and learn..this is what were here for on this planet after all.
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I feel that you are supposed to take from a reading what resonates with you and throw the rest out!
I feel that reading with a psychic is our own choice in this experience. We are doing it to gain insight. I believe some are out there that need work on their presentation and they shouldn't be doing this type of work where people are coming to then and are vulnerable and need to be handled with care...and some don't do that. Some can be rude.
I don't feel any good psychic would tell someone that this person is their one and only soulmate. We all have multiple soulmates...are we on their path in this lifetime...maybe....maybe not. Our vibration and our energy we put out there is what creates our reality. I do believe we made some or at least 1 contract with someone before we came down here..now I am not saying a love contract per say...it may be a contract of care for that person...seeing them through an illness etc...A Sacred Contract. There are also Soul Contracts I believe.
But no, do we get "punished" and have to be with no one if the soulmate can't get it together? I don't believe that....someone else will come in our path even if not a soulmate. Most marriages and loving relationships between 2 people are not soulmates...or love soulmates..heart soulmates they call it. Soulmate relationships are work...they are hard...until that work is getting done then they are dynamite!
I also believe with a reading it goes by current energy and as long as that person continues on that energy path then what is seen at that time is pretty accurate. But I believe every action has a reaction and we change our own paths at times. Freewill right? We are revising the script. We create our own reality by our actions....good and bad. The law of Karma, consequences, they're unavoidable when we make an action. That's why I feel to examine your intention...it will result in an outcome you may not really want.
It's all in our choices...even with the readings...our choice. WE are accountable for us...it's our experience.
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In any case, to me, SM is just only a label. Ultimately, it is reality and time speaks for itself. In this case, we have to make the choice of how we want to live our lives, SM or not, this lover or that lover, if you guys feel happy being with them, and if they are worth your time and love, good for you, if not you can choose to wait or move on. Ultimately, it is true that we are responsible for our decisions and the life we live.
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Just to clarify on my end - I asked they psychics if they saw anyone else in my near future - they didn't. With the current energy they felt like SM is the person I am going to end up with. They also didn't see a another *love* SM relationship in my near future. That doesn't mean it isn't out there. I have full faith in God that I am going to end up with someone awesome and be happy when the time is right. It's what I want and pray for. Abrielle said the same thing that aef said. If the soul mate doesn't work out, another will be sent. Abrielle took a look to see if she saw another SM on the horizon and she didn't. Doesn't mean another relationship isn't out there. Ellen basically said the same thing.
I could start dating someone else next weekend. I actually tried to reconnect with the December guy recently but it didn't work out. Dating someone and the SM connection are 2 completely different things. I can't even compare the two. I had major lust and infatuation for December guy but that is quite different from the SM 'pull'.
Honestly, December guy was much easier to deal with then the SM nonsense. But my heart and soul is with SM and for now, I want to leave it there. I'm willing to take the chance that this may or may not workout for what I think could be an awesome life changing relationship. A few days after I broke up with SM, December guy came flying into my life. I know he was sent in to help get me through. Based on what I've seen and learned through my recent journey, I have faith. Spiritual faith, destiny faith, faith in the goodness of others and faith in myself.
We spoke again last night for 2 minutes. Things are moving very slowly - like a snail - but there is movement after months of being stagnant. I have learned such patience from this. I don't know how much more patience I can learn at this point. We are communicating - hooray!!!
xxoo
pt
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Hey all,
Just wanted to stop and and say hi to everyone, been super busy latelyand haven't had much time to post. I don't really have anything to update though either lol I'll try and post a lil more later when I'm not on my phone!!
PT- I'm so glad you guys are communicating again. You have a wonderful attitude towards everything and that only ensures a great outcome. I know what you say about patience haha!!
Hope everyone had a great weekend!
Back soon!!
JB
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Hi JB!! Miss talking to u. How is meryl? Any new info?
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Ditto PT =)....not a whole lot of new info on my part. I seen her and him renting movies on Friday night when there supposes to be split up, so I dunno lol. Meryl says not to worry the DID have a break up he just still lives there, and to trust her it's not going well over there. I just wish I could see something to prove it lol. I also seen her three more times Saturday driving which is weird I haven't seen her in months and now 4 times in 24hrs. I texted her again the same say I seen her at the video store, ironic same thing happened last time cept my bro seen her. It's like the universe keeps showing me she's stillthere once I start to think about her less, annoying lol. Either that or showing me there still together lol. And to top it off my new girl who is a nice little distraction and well see maybe more I it goes well lol is gone all week ugh lol. So 3 times now I've texted her without a response....starting to worry I might never hear back ugh!! Meryl is sure they split and I'll hear from her sometime over the next three weeks...so well see lol
So there's a quick run down lol.
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cjean steven gunn actually specializes in soul connections. here is an article that explains how soul connections work.
http://stevegunn.net/wp_blog/?p=11
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JB - You SAW her? Did she see you?? WOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW
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pt: "Honestly, December guy was much easier to deal with then the SM nonsense. But my heart and soul is with SM and for now, I want to leave it there. I'm willing to take the chance that this may or may not workout for what I think could be an awesome life changing relationship. A few days after I broke up with SM, December guy came flying into my life. I know he was sent in to help get me through. Based on what I've seen and learned through my recent journey, I have faith. Spiritual faith, destiny faith, faith in the goodness of others and faith in myself.
We spoke again last night for 2 minutes. Things are moving very slowly - like a snail - but there is movement after months of being stagnant. I have learned such patience from this. I don't know how much more patience I can learn at this point. We are communicating - hooray!!!
xxoo"
WHAT ELSE CAN I SAY EXCEPT YOU GO GIRL..FOLLOW YOUR HEART....AND YOU'RE RIGHT IF IT DOESNT WORK THAN DONT WORRY..GOD WILL NOT FORSAKE YOU...BEST OF LUCK TO YOU AND I HOPE THINGS KEEP PUSHING...REMEMBER THE TORTOISE WON THE RACE, NOT THE HARE ;)
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Yes pt, once on Friday night at the movie store, and then three times Saturday while I was driving. She may have seen me Saturday once or twice but I'm not to sure. Frustrating cause I was doing so well not thinking about her. Oh well lol wish I knew why I was seeing her though lol
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IDK if I asked this question already but.....
why do we even meet our soul mates if they aren't ready?
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This was a good article :)
DreamChaser is a reader and spiritual counselor who is certified as a Professional Tarot Reader by the Tarot Certification Board. Her gift goes back at least 6 generations in the women in her family line.
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This week, Dreamchaser and Astrea explore the complex world of karmic relationships and our insatiable appetite for true love.
Question of the Week
Does everyone have a soul mate? Is so, why does it seem like some people never really find their soul mates? Is it possible for our soul mates to end up with up with someone else, and for this to prevent us from meeting them? Could it lead to affairs when our soul mates later meet us?
-Nelly
DreamChaser responds:
Dear Nelly,
I am not of the belief that we get one and only one soul mate in any particular life. My guides have told me that we have a group of souls that we go from life to life with. Sometimes they are our lovers, sometimes they are our enemies, sometimes they are our family members, etc. They can come into our lives in any form.
As far as romantic soul mates go, I believe we get approximately five in each lifetime. The reason we get so many is because we are human beings, and we tend to make bad choices at times. We may run away in fear, or think we want more than what we have. As a result of these tendencies, sometimes we walk away from people who really are our soul mates, or they walk away from us.
Sometimes death parts soul mates. We need not be without love for the rest of our lives if a bad choice is made or if death comes calling. The Universe wants us to have as much love as we want in this lifetime, so we get more than one chance at it.
As for your questions about not meeting our soul mates or them winding up with someone else, if that were to happen, another soul mate would enter our lives, and we'd get another shot at true love.
You asked about these relationships potentially leading to affairs, and this is a matter I've been wanting to address. Sometimes our soul mates do come into our lives when we are already coupled with someone else. Let's face it: we often make mistakes and date the wrong person. Sometimes, we even marry them. It happens all the time.
Then there are those couples who came together, have been in a very long-term relationship, worked through all the old karma, and are now only staying together because they think they have to for some reason. Maybe it's for the kids, or because they're married and society expects them to stay together for the rest of their lives. If a new soul mate came into one of those people's lives, it could very well lead to an affair.
We can't choose who we love, and this statement is especially true when applied to soul mate situations. Sometimes people do commit adultery to have this kind of love. It does happen. I don't believe that anyone goes looking for that sort of turmoil. I think it finds us, even if we happen to be married, or if the person we meet is already married.
Some people never seem to find their soul mates because they have issues that keep them from really allowing love into their lives. For example, I walked around angry for 44 years. That is why I kept love away from my life - no one could get past the anger.
If you have not found your soul mate, look inside. Why are you blocking it? What wall have you built around yourself?
I wish you true love.
Astrea responds:
Dear Nelly,
For every person, there are thousands of soul mates who can be found all over the world, and each of those people has thousands of soul mates too. Everyone you meet is a potential soul mate. Anyone who is LIVING could be a soul mate for anyone else.
Soul mates are not exclusively romantic in nature. Parents can be soul mates with children, and people have animal soul mates sometimes too. Anything is possible with these loving connections.
People create soul mates. It's not just your destiny - it's also your choice. When two people love each other and work to build a lasting, fulfilling partnership, they can become soul mates. And yes, people always find each other, if that's what they want to do.
People who are unselfish in their desire to love others usually find people of like mind and become soul mates together. This is a process, however, so there are no guarantees. One person may think the other is a soul mate, but unless the two of them agree to build that sort of bond, it won't evolve.
Once a soul mate, always a soul mate. That's why I tell people to choose their life partners very carefully. On television and in the movies, a soul mate relationship can be created in forty minutes (plus commercials), but it doesn't happen that quickly in real life.
Soul recognition stems from past life associations. When you meet a person and feel that instant sense of connection, it means that you've probably shared an incarnation or two. It does NOT necessarily mean that you're going to fall madly in love with one another and be together forever.
I sincerely believe we have soul families, and that we return time and again to the people we've loved in past lives. It makes sense that when you feel a very strong pull toward someone, you've known that person before.
If married people are not with their soul mates, they should get single before they hunt for new and better love. Saying that you found a soul mate after you were committed to someone else is not a valid reason for having an affair. In my psychic world, these are what I call lame excuses for bad behavior!
You either think the person you're committed to is your soul mate, or you know that person is NOT, in which case it's better to move along anyway. Many times I hear I knew my wife/husband was not my soul mate, but I married him/her anyway. Try not to do that.
People who say they can't find a soul mate usually have unreasonable expectations that no one can meet. I'm not suggesting that anyone should lower their standards and settle, but to find a real soul mate, you have to look for a real person, someone who has warts and makes mistakes as we all do.
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I would say yes, I have found the one that I never thought I would find. I just hope everything pans out and I am sure that it will I cant wait til July or August and see :)