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Metaphysical, Spiritual and Psychic Discussions => Psychic Readings That Came True => Topic started by: sunshineluv7 on January 20, 2019, 02:15:32 PM
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Hey yall :)
So after "feeling his energy" SO STRONGLy for 2-3 days, I got contact yesterday. :) And we talked about the whole marriage and babies thing & got back together. He confirmed he does want to marry me, and would strongly prefer we try for a baby again after we're married. (We were engaged last year, had a m/c, was really hard on us).
Those who were right.... and who I whole-heartedly recommend:
Psychic Ari (timing was off the first time, off by a few days the second time), but she was super sure of what she was getting as far as what would happen)
Lookout Mountain Medium - I have to give her the most credit. We only started reading end of last year, and she is the FIRST/ONLY reader who said that basically I knew what I had to do (which was end it) and then correctly predicted when he'd be back (mid-month), what he was going through (Which I now have confirmation of). And explained inside out and backwards what was going on for him, for me, the lessons we were supposed to learn, our soul contract, etc. She rocks.
Raynee - She's on her own site at mypsy.chat - I found her on bitwine originally, and followed her. She left BW. She's been consistently accurate about him. Super supportive, and definitely has some major talent.
Rachel Marie - she said no contact in January, but here we are. :D She also was super accurate on the "what is going on" part. Her, LMM, and Scarlet Walker got that he's evaluating people he doesn't want in his life anymore, and that life has been a struggle recently.
Lauren Divine - Little off on contact, but has been really accurate about what's been going on
Scarlet Walker - She definitely has a gift. I don't think English is her first language, and she uses a lot of exclamation points, but she definitely "Reads" things really well. Timing was off the first time.
Judi's Inner Light - She's been really good for me. She also got timing right this time !
Dino - timing wrong, but outcome right.
OH and our local board psychic who does those "youtube pick a card" things. I chose the third pack, which does say "this person wants to marry you, will come back apologize, might be a water sign might be an air sign (he's air), etc etc
Which, reminds me, Divine Empath also nailed it. She got timing down by a day. He came in a day earlier. :)
Well. He said all those things.
So that's my personal list of who I highly recommend. Everyone will have their favorites and who they "gel" with more.
Shaman Kira was...really wrong. IDK who's reading she gave me but it wasn't mine :D
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First of all, congrats!
If you don't mind sharing, how long were you separated and when was the last time you had contact?
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Congratulations!!!
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That is awesome!! Congratulations, so happy for you!!!!
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So awesome!! Lookout Mountain.. though she’s long winded has some content in her readings. I really like her spirit.
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Congrats -- Im so happy for you:)
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Congrats :)
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Congrats!!! I love reading things like this.
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Congrats ! My boyfriend came back too and Ari was the main one who seen it happening. I'm going to write a review of who got it right and wrong tomorrow. But she kept saying he is missing you like crazy and sooo close to reaching out. She kept encouraging me to hold off and not message. It had been 5 weeks. He messaged at 2.58pm the next day.
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wow am so happy for you especially when things transpires the way you've been told "positive things of course".
would love to hear more details of other psychics as well if you encounter accuracy in their readings if any.
xoxo
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First of all, congrats!
If you don't mind sharing, how long were you separated and when was the last time you had contact?
I ended things mid-December, and that was last contact. So no holiday contact, etc. etc.
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Me too sunshine... exact same time we ended things, also didnt contact for Christmas, new year, my birthday. Lol our stories seem similiar!
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wow am so happy for you especially when things transpires the way you've been told "positive things of course".
would love to hear more details of other psychics as well if you encounter accuracy in their readings if any.
xoxo
Hmm... okay, Well CindyS was also right. :D But she doesn't like him. lol
Miss Toria had originally said it would be resolved by end of Jan, but at our last reading said she didn't see him coming back at all. So she WAS right, and then wrong.
Kassie Kai was wrong - She got 5-6 months and it was 5-6 days.
Avia was right - not on timing though. And not the MOST accurate for me as far as details (already listed those)
California Psychics - which Lookout Mountain Medium told me was the only site that actually tested her for accuracy, btw - (also try to go through her personal site, WAY more economical than bitwine!) - well I read with Saskia there. She's.... well, interesting. She seemed to really get the past really well but for me was a little hard to understand. She did get timing right on him coming back. But our time ran out and then we couldn't reconnect until the next day - when she seemed annoyed and said "I told you XYZ yesterday" and I was like, no you didn't. We never talked about what happens next. I asked her that ands he was like "Well it's up to you, you don't even like the guy and you don't trust him" and I was like.... O_o. She's like "I can't tell you what to do" - -I was like okay then. And she kept disconnecting me I feel. LOL. So I gave up and then I talked to.... Shyla, who was ALSO right - she's so sweet too, and you can tell she really cares. Really nice way of explaining things.
That's it. That's the whole list. There's one more but she doesn't want me posting her name here.
And thanks for all the support messages :)
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Yayyyy congratulations! 🎉😍🍾
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Thanks for posting who all was right!!!
But now I’m curious... who all was wrong?!
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Yay! I'm SO happy for you!!! On the full moon too thats kinda cool, because emotions are really strong right now! I'm super happy for you, for staying strong and for you to receive this!!! Also thank you for posting, as it can be so easy to leave the board now that he's back, we all super appreciate the update and telling us who was right.
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super happy for you! thank you for sharing this. Gives me hope <3 Congratulations and good luck <3
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Hey yall :)
So after "feeling his energy" SO STRONGLy for 2-3 days, I got contact yesterday. :) And we talked about the whole marriage and babies thing & got back together. He confirmed he does want to marry me, and would strongly prefer we try for a baby again after we're married. (We were engaged last year, had a m/c, was really hard on us).
That’s great to hear!!
Just wondering, when you had your readings, did you provide specific details to the readers about your situation or were they able to pick up your situation without any prompts?
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Hey yall :)
So after "feeling his energy" SO STRONGLy for 2-3 days, I got contact yesterday. :) And we talked about the whole marriage and babies thing & got back together. He confirmed he does want to marry me, and would strongly prefer we try for a baby again after we're married. (We were engaged last year, had a m/c, was really hard on us).
That’s great to hear!!
Just wondering, when you had your readings, did you provide specific details to the readers about your situation or were they able to pick up your situation without any prompts?
Well, most of the readers I've been with for a while so they knew the situation. But things were so bad between us for so long (several months) before I finally pulled the plug that I definitely didn't really believe the whole marriage and babies part was something he still wanted with me.
But, the purpleocean reader had zero. All I said is, is he coming back and her words were...so, when I look at this if I didn't know better I'd say oh! They're getting married! And odd she went. So she got it but almost didn't trust it, but she trusts herself lol so she said it. But her expression was priceless. 🤗
Also just because he's back now doesn't mean I'm leaving the board. I've been here for a while. He's still got to proove himself beyond the Grand reentrance.
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Who was the purple ocean reader?
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Happy for you..but I remember your story so definitely proceed with caution.
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Lol didn’t Kira tell you it would be 2 years till you get back together? 😂....today is the 20th so maybe that’s where the 2 came from 🤷🏼♀️
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Wow sooo happy for you :)
May I ask as you said Avia was right but not really accurate with the details, would you mind to say a bit more about her? As I liked her and get readings from her regularly. Thanks
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So happy for you❣️❣️❣️ This gave me hope...
Btw Shaman Kira told me my POI has no feelings for me and that it’d be 3 years before we got together which I knew was absolutely bogus, but even though I didn’t believe her the reading still hurt my heart. Thank God, the night of that reading he told me he loves me.
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Congrats ! My boyfriend came back too and Ari was the main one who seen it happening. I'm going to write a review of who got it right and wrong tomorrow. But she kept saying he is missing you like crazy and sooo close to reaching out. She kept encouraging me to hold off and not message. It had been 5 weeks. He messaged at 2.58pm the next day.
Can’t wait to read your post !
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Who was the purple ocean reader?
Divine Empath
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So happy for you❣️❣️❣️ This gave me hope...
Btw Shaman Kira told me my POI has no feelings for me and that it’d be 3 years before we got together which I knew was absolutely bogus, but even though I didn’t believe her the reading still hurt my heart. Thank God, the night of that reading he told me he loves me.
Yeah, that's the risk with readings. Sometimes we can REALLY get hurt by (wrong) readings.
Sometimes I think when someone gets written up here, they do too many readings and become inaccurate. Seems like Shaman Kira isn't that great for everyone.
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Happy for you..but I remember your story so definitely proceed with caution.
Ha, yeah. We'll see what happens!!
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Congrats! Where does psychic ari read?
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Bitwine
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Lol didn’t Kira tell you it would be 2 years till you get back together? 😂....today is the 20th so maybe that’s where the 2 came from 🤷🏼♀️
Haha yep.
But... development...!!
We had another chat. And he backwalked a little bit - he's not ready to call it a relationship and jump back in. He wants to "talk exclusively" first. To him, that's what "back together" meant. To him, the gf/bf thing is a big title. I'm rolling my eyes. But this means RACHEL MARIE is the MOST accurate.
Basically we'll see what he does if he wants to do it this way lol. Rachel said he will offer this but then zoom forward anyway. Let's see. ;)
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Wow sooo happy for you :)
May I ask as you said Avia was right but not really accurate with the details, would you mind to say a bit more about her? As I liked her and get readings from her regularly. Thanks
Yeah I love Avia. She's so sweet. I feel like I'd love to be her friend IRL.
Okay, so she thought we'd reconcile by the end of the year, saw it as a short break, and that when he'd be back he wouldn't really know much other than he doesn't want to lose me from his life. so while I wrote the other day that we had all those conversations (which we did) it seems its settling more on what she said.
Seems like everyone (who was accurate) got pieces of it, some people landed on the marriage/baby talk and some people landed on "doesn't want to lose you, not quite ready to declare future plans" side.
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sunshineluv7 - Just curious, was Yona right for you? If yes, how was she with the timing?
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Hey wow!!!!!!! CONGRATULATIONSSSSSS!!!!!!! That's so awesome. I hope everything continues to work out well for the two of you! Yaaaaaay!!!!!!!
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Congrats ! My boyfriend came back too and Ari was the main one who seen it happening. I'm going to write a review of who got it right and wrong tomorrow. But she kept saying he is missing you like crazy and sooo close to reaching out. She kept encouraging me to hold off and not message. It had been 5 weeks. He messaged at 2.58pm the next day.
That’s awesome to hear! Did you ever put together that list of right/wrong??
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sunshineluv7 - Just curious, was Yona right for you? If yes, how was she with the timing?
It looks like she might be!! She last said about us that there was a lack of enthusiasm and she saw me staring at a wrist watch like what are you waiting for. Then she saw the trip I took and said the good news is that enthusiasm returns after the trip, and also kept seeing stuff about living arrangements. I did move. She got cohabitation. The enthusiasm seems to be back so we will see.
She also predicted major argument, she called it a disagreement, before year's end. I wonder if that was me walking away.
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sunshineluv7 - Just curious, was Yona right for you? If yes, how was she with the timing?
It looks like she might be!! She last said about us that there was a lack of enthusiasm and she saw me staring at a wrist watch like what are you waiting for. Then she saw the trip I took and said the good news is that enthusiasm returns after the trip, and also kept seeing stuff about living arrangements. I did move. She got cohabitation. The enthusiasm seems to be back so we will see.
She also predicted major argument, she called it a disagreement, before year's end. I wonder if that was me walking away.
Nice, it gives me some hope with my predictions.
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Lol didn’t Kira tell you it would be 2 years till you get back together? 😂....today is the 20th so maybe that’s where the 2 came from 🤷🏼♀️
Haha yep.
But... development...!!
We had another chat. And he backwalked a little bit - he's not ready to call it a relationship and jump back in. He wants to "talk exclusively" first. To him, that's what "back together" meant. To him, the gf/bf thing is a big title. I'm rolling my eyes. But this means RACHEL MARIE is the MOST accurate.
Basically we'll see what he does if he wants to do it this way lol. Rachel said he will offer this but then zoom forward anyway. Let's see. ;)
I had aquarian psychic on keen tell me he is going to initiate, talk for a bit and back away again for a bit. Don’t give him long responses and just let it go. I know she’s not popular on here but she’s been pretty accurate for me
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That’s awesome! I love hearing when things work out and psychics come through!
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Hey yall :)
So after "feeling his energy" SO STRONGLy for 2-3 days, I got contact yesterday. :) And we talked about the whole marriage and babies thing & got back together. He confirmed he does want to marry me, and would strongly prefer we try for a baby again after we're married. (We were engaged last year, had a m/c, was really hard on us).
Those who were right.... and who I whole-heartedly recommend:
Psychic Ari (timing was off the first time, off by a few days the second time), but she was super sure of what she was getting as far as what would happen)
Lookout Mountain Medium - I have to give her the most credit. We only started reading end of last year, and she is the FIRST/ONLY reader who said that basically I knew what I had to do (which was end it) and then correctly predicted when he'd be back (mid-month), what he was going through (Which I now have confirmation of). And explained inside out and backwards what was going on for him, for me, the lessons we were supposed to learn, our soul contract, etc. She rocks.
Raynee - She's on her own site at mypsy.chat - I found her on bitwine originally, and followed her. She left BW. She's been consistently accurate about him. Super supportive, and definitely has some major talent.
Rachel Marie - she said no contact in January, but here we are. :D She also was super accurate on the "what is going on" part. Her, LMM, and Scarlet Walker got that he's evaluating people he doesn't want in his life anymore, and that life has been a struggle recently.
Lauren Divine - Little off on contact, but has been really accurate about what's been going on
Scarlet Walker - She definitely has a gift. I don't think English is her first language, and she uses a lot of exclamation points, but she definitely "Reads" things really well. Timing was off the first time.
Judi's Inner Light - She's been really good for me. She also got timing right this time !
Dino - timing wrong, but outcome right.
OH and our local board psychic who does those "youtube pick a card" things. I chose the third pack, which does say "this person wants to marry you, will come back apologize, might be a water sign might be an air sign (he's air), etc etc
Which, reminds me, Divine Empath also nailed it. She got timing down by a day. He came in a day earlier. :)
Well. He said all those things.
So that's my personal list of who I highly recommend. Everyone will have their favorites and who they "gel" with more.
Shaman Kira was...really wrong. IDK who's reading she gave me but it wasn't mine :D
Raynee seems to be back on bitwine. I saw her online today.
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Raynee was awesome. She is a must try.
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Raynee was awesome. She is a must try.
ye she's pretty good. not a go-to but she's really good at getting personal characteristics and what not of the person. I was impressed at what she picked up regarding individual personalities.
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Hey sunshine! Did any other readers get this right for you?
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Wonder if that’s “unicorn” on this thread...?
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.reddit.com/r/Psychic/comments/9q1iqt/lookout_mountain_medium/
Is that the post? I don’t see anything about curses and threats?
And it def sounds like unicorns situation.
that def sounds like unicorn. almost identical to what she posted on this forum.
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I'm not sure if you're insinuating I'm this "unicorn"? No, that's not the post. It was nearly a year ago in the summer of 2018. Pretty sure the girl deleted her thread after that. Her username was Lauren proceeded by a bunch of numbers.
haha no not you but the story youre talking about! the link that was posted the girl there talking about her bf is def unicorn. its exactly what she posted here.
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It did sound like Unicorn, but can be coincidence as well. I hope Unicorn is doing fine since last event :(
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I tried Lookout Mountain Medium over a year ago. Not only nothing she said not happen but she was so vague and she was called out on Reddit for harassing people who "exposed her."
She'd say things like how karma would get them, failed to deliver readings, and I believe she told a girl she'd curse her. Honestly one of the nastiest interactions I have ever had with a "psychic." I believe she tells everyone fairy tales as in the reddit thread that exposed her, a girl got mad and wrote about how Angela had been telling her for a whole year how her ex was coming back within the next two months and two months and so on and how also she was supposed to meet another guy. Nothing that she could validate, just fairytales of the future. Her ex never came back and actually had her blocked. I believe she's the one Angela threatened to curse.
Wow
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Can someone explain how ‘feeling their energy’ feels like?? I think I have been feeling my ex’s the last week or so.
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I feel like you just know, its hard to explain. I’ve been on and off with my boyfriend for 12 years and I have always sensed when he’s think of me or when he’s about to contact.
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It just feels intense. Like anticipation .. happy, excited but then also very emotional. I get chills thinking about him or when looking at our pictures. This is the longest me and him have been without talking in well over a year (we’ve been on & off too)
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Yep that’s basically it. How long have you been out of contact?
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It did sound like Unicorn, but can be coincidence as well. I hope Unicorn is doing fine since last event :(
not great, thanks. My ex told his friend to file a police report against me. For "harassment" but she never did. Just missing my ex and wasting more money on readings, as usual. I would love to have a happier update, :-[ last reading was with Raynee on bitwine hers was positive,
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Yep that’s basically it. How long have you been out of contact?
3 weeks lol. I know that doesn’t seem like long but it is for us lol. I’m just feel like he’s feeling the same way I am.
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It did sound like Unicorn, but can be coincidence as well. I hope Unicorn is doing fine since last event :(
not great, thanks. My ex told his friend to file a police report against me. For "harassment" but she never did. Just missing my ex and wasting more money on readings, as usual. I would love to have a happier update, :-[ last reading was with Raynee on bitwine hers was positive,
Why would your ex's friend need to file a report against you?
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because we talked on snapchat. we were talking and I was asking about him. When we talked before she talked to him for me and sent me his reponse. I figured we would do that same again. Well I was wrong. But luckily she never filed.
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I mean this with kindness - it's not a good idea to get a 3rd person communication with situations like that, no matter how trusted. It just complicates things for you and everyone involved. If he won't talk to you directly, then he probably isn't ready :-\
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I agree with above. I’ve been there too a few times. The best thing is to honestly pretend they don’t exist and let them wonder why you aren’t bothered. 12 years on and he keeps coming back, and this is the best trick I’ve learnt.
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I agree lol ☝🏼☝🏼 I have finally learned this along with growing my confidence and past my insecurities. It does work and I think that’s what is really helping right now too. Ive done it in the past & hes came back always. I just need that commitment now & got to stay strong and take nothing less. Lol
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Me too. It never hurts any less though, like it hurts just as much now as the first time he did it. But again that’s also due to my lack of self confidence and not standing up for my boundaries
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Me too. It never hurts any less though, like it hurts just as much now as the first time he did it. But again that’s also due to my lack of self confidence and not standing up for my boundaries
I feel you girl. Your not alone. I’m so tempted to text him now but I’ve held out for this long & I know this is what needs to happen and he will contact this month. It’s just a waiting game & trying to worry about it lol
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It’s been 3 days for me and I’m losing my shit already lolll. But I also shouldn’t text him. Have you heard of coach Craig Kenneth on YouTube? I swear he works. He is very big on no contact.
Also not sure if you know Psychic Ari, but she’s nailed contact for me down to the hour.
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Matthew Hussey on youtube is also awesome ;)
And he's really funny.
This is one of my favorite vids https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LIrQbMXBHsM
His other vids on dealing with the communication stuff and decoding it also works. And he's cute so it helps hehe
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Thank you. It helps me not contact or spend all my money on readings lol xx
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Matthew Hussey on youtube is also awesome ;)
And he's really funny.
This is one of my favorite vids https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LIrQbMXBHsM
His other vids on dealing with the communication stuff and decoding it also works. And he's cute so it helps hehe
OMG he is on point though about that jerk she is having dinner with. Anytime a guy tries to make you feel bad about yourself and the great life you have, is because he is insecure and knows he would have to work hard to move up to your level. Jerks.
Oh yeah and when men are always claiming women are crazy, it's because (the man) drove a sane girl to insanity. I've said this for like a million years. At least.
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Matthew Hussey on youtube is also awesome ;)
And he's really funny.
This is one of my favorite vids https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LIrQbMXBHsM
His other vids on dealing with the communication stuff and decoding it also works. And he's cute so it helps hehe
OMG he is on point though about that jerk she is having dinner with. Anytime a guy tries to make you feel bad about yourself and the great life you have, is because he is insecure and knows he would have to work hard to move up to your level. Jerks.
Oh yeah and when men are always claiming women are crazy, it's because (the man) drove a sane girl to insanity. I've said this for like a million years. At least.
I agree but this goes for any person really. If you have any respect for who you were with you wouldn't talk about them even after you broke up. It shows the level of respect someone has the way they talk about their past relationships. Ive known plenty of men who have been with crazy af chicks and would speak of them in a neutral manner. I dont think its always the man driving the woman to insanity. We need to stop blaming men for everything. There's a lot of great men out there. Maybe my experience is different from others because for the most part I have always come across the good ones (whether it be friends or relationships).
I think the key is whether or not the person has the strength of character to acknowledge someone they have been involved with without having to make themselves look better in some way. I find a lot of narcissistic personality types cannot speak about past relationships or friendships without pointing out in some way how they are superior (ex: 'My ex best friend wanted to be just like me, she was so clingy!' 'My last boyfriend was so crazy, I'm so glad I got away from that psycho'... if someone ALWAYS has a story like this, then at least some of them are likely exaggerations).
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Matthew Hussey on youtube is also awesome ;)
And he's really funny.
This is one of my favorite vids https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LIrQbMXBHsM
His other vids on dealing with the communication stuff and decoding it also works. And he's cute so it helps hehe
OMG he is on point though about that jerk she is having dinner with. Anytime a guy tries to make you feel bad about yourself and the great life you have, is because he is insecure and knows he would have to work hard to move up to your level. Jerks.
Oh yeah and when men are always claiming women are crazy, it's because (the man) drove a sane girl to insanity. I've said this for like a million years. At least.
I agree but this goes for any person really. If you have any respect for who you were with you wouldn't talk about them even after you broke up. It shows the level of respect someone has the way they talk about their past relationships. Ive known plenty of men who have been with crazy af chicks and would speak of them in a neutral manner. I dont think its always the man driving the woman to insanity. We need to stop blaming men for everything. There's a lot of great men out there. Maybe my experience is different from others because for the most part I have always come across the good ones (whether it be friends or relationships).
I don't agree with most of this, but are you on this forum calling about the good ones? I believe 'good' is a subjective term.
I don't believe respect has anything to do with it either. Some people are just broken. I know plenty of women who today would still take back their SO, the one who put them at their lowest. And they still talk highly about them, even the ones who put them in the hospital and/or jail. smh.
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Why do people think that because someone’s on this forum, we use psychics for the same reason lol? I have a SO and he’s one of the best humans I’ve ever come across. Like I said my experiences have been different. I haven’t had the greatest experiences with females (majority). so being broken is an excuse? Everyone has gone through things, doesn’t give people the right to degrade themselves or be insecure throughout their entire life. It’s called growing up. Insecure women are just as immature as emotionally unavailable men. People just don’t want to work on themselves it’s just the facts of life. I was insecure for a large part of my life. Sometimes you gotta put the big boy/girl pants on.
Ha Ha sure.
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Hi guys, my opinion really is that if a man doesn’t contact in a regular basis, then just leave it. When a man really wants a woman real bad and sees his future with her, is the live of her life and is super into her, he would do anything to talk/be in touch. Been there done that, waiting around for contact, counting days etc.... was a waste of time and energy. I know it’s easier said than done but be strong, it’s for the best. Someone WILL treat you as you deserve and have eyes only for you
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I agree with you, however my boyfriend is battling a heroin addiction. I try not to hold on too tight and I know nothing between us could ever properly happen until he’s clean, I guess there’s that 1% chance he’ll sort his shit out that keeps me holding on.
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Hi guys, my opinion really is that if a man doesn’t contact in a regular basis, then just leave it. When a man really wants a woman real bad and sees his future with her, is the live of her life and is super into her, he would do anything to talk/be in touch. Been there done that, waiting around for contact, counting days etc.... was a waste of time and energy. I know it’s easier said than done but be strong, it’s for the best. Someone WILL treat you as you deserve and have eyes only for you
this is true. I realize it's not a one size fits all generalization to make but I do believe that a guy who really wants you will make it known.
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Hi guys, my opinion really is that if a man doesn’t contact in a regular basis, then just leave it. When a man really wants a woman real bad and sees his future with her, is the live of her life and is super into her, he would do anything to talk/be in touch. Been there done that, waiting around for contact, counting days etc.... was a waste of time and energy. I know it’s easier said than done but be strong, it’s for the best. Someone WILL treat you as you deserve and have eyes only for you
this is true. I realize it's not a one size fits all generalization to make but I do believe that a guy who really wants you will make it known.
I agree. But one caveat: there are guys who like the chase or the courting period, but once they think they have you, they back off and become disengaged, or even try to turn the tables to get you to chase them. I hate to say it but I don't even believe it anymore, if they seem really into me. Those are the same guys I ended up calling about later when they changed their attitude.
Oh yea, some really do love the "thrill of the chase" but once they have you, it's like they totally back off. It's all a game to them. Too many headcases out there, I tell you..lol.
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Hi guys, my opinion really is that if a man doesn’t contact in a regular basis, then just leave it. When a man really wants a woman real bad and sees his future with her, is the live of her life and is super into her, he would do anything to talk/be in touch. Been there done that, waiting around for contact, counting days etc.... was a waste of time and energy. I know it’s easier said than done but be strong, it’s for the best. Someone WILL treat you as you deserve and have eyes only for you
this is true. I realize it's not a one size fits all generalization to make but I do believe that a guy who really wants you will make it known.
I agree. But one caveat: there are guys who like the chase or the courting period, but once they think they have you, they back off and become disengaged, or even try to turn the tables to get you to chase them. I hate to say it but I don't even believe it anymore, if they seem really into me. Those are the same guys I ended up calling about later when they changed their attitude.
Oh yea, some really do love the "thrill of the chase" but once they have you, it's like they totally back off. It's all a game to them. Too many headcases out there, I tell you..lol.
There are so many reasons people do the push/pull thing... but honestly, if you are not comfortable with it you shouldn't entertain it.
I have some people who come in and out of my life that don't really effect me (mostly friends and family) and some people are just made that way. If this happens a romantic connection, I've learned not to chase at all. You'd be surprised how long it takes some people to process their thoughts/feelings... and often times by the time they've figured it out the moment of opportunity has passed.
There are also attachment styles to consider. A lot of people with anxious-avoidant and fearful-avoidant attachment styles end up with those who lean towards the anxious-preoccupied adult attachment group.
So, while this behavior is not really as black and white as we might like to think, if something is unhealthy for YOU then boundaries definitely need to be put in place, and limits acknowledged imo.
Attraction is a funny thing.
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Where are you getting your attachment styles from?
And what other styles are there?
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Where are you getting your attachment styles from?
And what other styles are there?
There are a lot of results if you search 'attachment styles' on Google.
It's a psychological theory that analyzes how parent/child dynamics shape attachment styles when it comes to relationships and bonds in adulthood.
Here are just a few links that explain it a bit further:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/compassion-matters/201307/how-your-attachment-style-impacts-your-relationship
https://www.psychalive.org/what-is-your-attachment-style/
http://labs.psychology.illinois.edu/~rcfraley/attachment.htm
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This is basically what 85% of readers tell me, that he doesn't want to lose you but isn't ready yet, however he will come around and I will have what I want from the relationship! I hope I can post something like you as he is back... still pending...
Wow sooo happy for you :)
May I ask as you said Avia was right but not really accurate with the details, would you mind to say a bit more about her? As I liked her and get readings from her regularly. Thanks
Yeah I love Avia. She's so sweet. I feel like I'd love to be her friend IRL.
Okay, so she thought we'd reconcile by the end of the year, saw it as a short break, and that when he'd be back he wouldn't really know much other than he doesn't want to lose me from his life. so while I wrote the other day that we had all those conversations (which we did) it seems its settling more on what she said.
Seems like everyone (who was accurate) got pieces of it, some people landed on the marriage/baby talk and some people landed on "doesn't want to lose you, not quite ready to declare future plans" side.
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How on earth do you get a reading with Avia? I've tried contacting her maybe a total of 6 times and EACH time she tells to me to "come back in a couple of hours"! A couple of hours go by and she's not even online anymore! I don't think I'd ever try her again, so frustrating.