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Metaphysical, Spiritual and Psychic Discussions => CaliforniaPsychics.com => Topic started by: cj on February 04, 2011, 02:59:11 AM
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I spoke to literally 7 psychics over the past two days *Im obsessed I know! I will update soon.
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oh noooo cjean :o
Well you have to update and let us know!
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wow cjean
Do they all pretty much tell you the same thing? Who did you speak with? Keep us posted!
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cjean - What are they saying? Who did you read with? Fill us in!!!!
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Dear cjean487: I read your story. I am all for getting readings and consulting psychics. But you have to make up your mind about your situation. The person who you were or are involved with, is definitely immature, for seeing 2 women at once, plus having unprotected sex. I know you are in a lot of emotional pain, but you have to try to look outside the box and not make this situation like it's the end of the world. Why don't you consider giving it a deadline and just if after a certain date nothing happens, just move on, stop communicating with him and go about enjoying your life. We have more than just one soul mate in our life. So you definitely have more chances to be happy.
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Dear cjean487: I read your story. I am all for getting readings and consulting psychics. But you have to make up your mind about your situation. The person who you were or are involved with, is definitely immature, for seeing 2 women at once, plus having unprotected sex. I know you are in a lot of emotional pain, but you have to try to look outside the box and not make this situation like it's the end of the world. Why don't you consider giving it a deadline and just if after a certain date nothing happens, just move on, stop communicating with him and go about enjoying your life. We have more than just one soul mate in our life. So you definitely have more chances to be happy.
This is such good advice. Echoes words I, myself, heard and comes from a very calm and guiding place. Thanks to libra for joining in here and welcome.
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yes Libra I do have a deadline. So glad to share my story. One day we will all look at each one of our situations as a obstacle we overcame no matter the outcome :)
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Well in my defense, I definitely don't call psychics to ask them what the future holds. I don't believe that the future is definite. I do however call psychics to empathically tell me what the other person is feeling or thinking as well as whether Im in the right direction based on what I'v been doing.
I spoke to my usual Abrielle for her updates, Winter for her reasoning and the rest for their empathic abilities
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ABRIELLE told me that my sm is hoping I will change my mind (which Im not) and she told me to stand my ground. She says he'll know you're not kidding and you're not going to budge. sh says he'll start to pour it on emotionally. She says that sm goes through challenges and she has never met sm that didn't face difficult paths together. she says he will either hav eto step up or bury his love for me. And part of why this happening is bc he is not being honest with himself.
TATIANA told me empathic feelings he had towards me. She said I helped heal him and when he doesn't speak to you he has trouble sleeping at night. She says he will pour his feelings out to me but I still need to let him go down this path he's in by himself. That way he can own up to his responsibility.
DEVYN told me to give him a time limit of April and if he has not come forward then walk away. She says he will open up to me but my job is to just listen.
ARIEL said that he made a mistake and he will regret it and I need to decide whether I an forgive him or not. She said he's coming back but he will need to prove to me that he's coming back to be with me. She says I will have to set boundaries. (you think! lol) She said not to put my life on hold (which I didn't..Im actually hanging out with someone :) but that the highest good for me would be to forgive him.
KARMYSTIC and WINTER both agree that this happened for him to deal with things without having the comfort of me being around. he's been acting like a little boy an don't taking responsibility and this pregnancy is forcing him to become a man. He also needed this bc he didn't appreciate me and it has made his feelings more stronger. That right now he is wondering if we can work through this and he's realizing that I am the one he is to be with. She says that he will come forward with his feelings before the month ends.
RAISSA (who is 3.50 and wonderful) said that this situation hasn't completely fulfilled my heart but partly bc I've allowed that (you think!) She says he's afraid to give himself completely to me, afraid to hurt me and afraid that I will bail out on him.
DAWN (who was the only one to foresee the preg to begin with) told me that we will be like a light switch on and off but there is no ending site towards us. And how we will take a vacation or be around water in the Spring. She says that he wants to be with me but he's afraid that Im angry with him and that I feel that he's been misleading. (of course I think that!)
So I have not really asked to much about predictions and I dont want to be judged too much but if I didn't have psychics telling me the thought process of this man, I wouldnt know esp since I am on horrible terms with him. *now do you understand?* :(
I don't need hope or false pretenses I just need to know what he is thinking. #thats all. And I personally like hearing from the different perspectives so I had cp give me a free reading by saying I didnt connect at all with one of the psychics (even though I did)
using my free reading in the email and cashing in my karma reward points.
Love is as much of an object as an obsession, everybody wants it everybody seeks it, but few ever achieve it, those who do, will cherish it, be lost in it, and among all, will never...never forget it.
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cjean- I agree with you...I don't call CP as much as I used to anymore and just stick with a few but when I call I tell them I don't want predictions, I want you to tell me what SM is thinking and what his situation is like at the moment. I feel that if I know what is going on with him, helps to either let go or make decisions. On another note, I like Abrielle too! I truly don't think anyone on here is judging you....we've all been in your shoes before!! Have a great day!! :)
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cjean - we aren't judging you. I'm impressed you only called a few of your "regular" cp's. One time after a bad weekend I tried 3 new ones in a row! I didn't believe what my "go-to's" were telling me because things weren't looking good. Big hugs to you - you will survive!!
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cjean I do applaud you I know you are still living your life daily and doing your thing. I think you are wise, awake, and aware, which many who have not achieved this level of spiritual consciousness would not understand. So often we know exactly what is going on, we just need to hear it from someone else to validate ourselves. So on another note I agree with CM I also love Abrielle she has totally called things for me including timing! And yes I think we have all been there....we call alot....then we don't call....no judgement at all. Plus, you are here sharing your story so you can help us learn. Thanks so much for sharing. :)
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Thank you all for the loving and caring support :)
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I've read with:
Genessa told me he will have a break with her around the Spring, he may go back until the baby is born but he has already decided that he doesn't want something permanent with her and he will also leave, she'll be a pest in your life for a bit but we will end up together as a family
Donna ( I love her!!..she is like a cheaper version of taylor but very descriptive and tells a story with her tarot cards...she says in the end you will be victorious and there will be new beginnings.
Taylor (says the same thing Donna said but she's $6.50 and Donna is $4.50 :/
Sabrina (she does give a general reading but her outcome is the same as everyone else's
Yvonne (I love her! She doesn't just tell you..ok you two wikll be back together, but she says whether he will leave her for me, leave her then come to me, commit to me, marry me (and when) but she also gives me an idealistic reading where she says that there will be complications with the baby's mother and it will drive me crazy. So she helps steer me so I can figure out now whether I'm not only willing to wait *an eternity! but also put up with the bs for a while!
Abrielle a month ago told me that he will choose me in the end
Jacqueline told me we would end up together also
they all tell me the same thing. They say he will leave but it will take some time (like jacqueline said. Everyone is rooting for around the end of this year :-[ but I kind of figured that since he would have the baby etc. Now we all know that the universe has its way of complicating things so it will probably bring in someone else. But I am seeing someone consistently for now so who knows.
so............basically I have to wait a while!!!!!! lol. But Yvonne was the only one who decided that it would happen if only I waited, but I might meet someone else and they might sweep me off my feet.
So...I have a lot to think about. Ive already been in this situation for a year so...I have to wait and see if I feel like he's worth it. Right now i feel like he is but
I still have to reevaluate the situation. Ultimately it is my choice...and whatever it is, I will make the right one.
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Cjean: I admire you. You are so forgiving. How many women could take back a man with a pregnant girlfriend? Wow!
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lmao. why do I feel like that was a bit sarcastic lol.
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Cjean: Oh no, seriously. I have forgiveness issues, so this is what I am working on.
Everyone please check:
http://www.radicalforgiveness.com/
This is kind of healing supposed to help us deal with so many issues.
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well I haven't decided what I would do. But yeah in a way I have forgiven him. I need to for myself. It was draining my energy and happiness. I was letting someone else's problem become my own. It wasn't worth it. But forgiving doesn't mean being naive. Love doesn't come with an instruction manual. I have def moved on and fast! lol. You can forgive someone but that doesn't mean you should tolerate everything... We don't have to tolerate what people do just because we forgive them for doing it. Forgiving heals us personally. To tolerate everything only hurts us all in the long run.
Donna told me something so inspiring from her reading. She said: despite the seemingly difficult path that you've chosen you have to keep going and be open for the unexpected that is against you. Ne calm and patient and its time to start expecting good news.
I know its hard to believe because none of us has come with our great stories of success, but whatever happens...I know that I have my power back. He does mean a lot to me and maybe I do look stupid for forgivinghim, but I am healing myself, and allowing this situation to empower me! Not him or her! So in the end I will always come out victorious.
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libra I have so many issues myself but Ive been hurt so many times and I am blessed to have trained myself to forgive. It is hard. omg..it is sooo hard. But I know that I am the blessing in his life. The mistakes he's made is irreparable because a baby is involved but like Bob Marley says:
"The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for"
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oh and I haven't taken him back. Im not doing that until he leaves *if that happens. And if it doesn't then who cares? because Ive moved on already lol
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I had a reading with Raigan last night. I say pass on this one. I also had a reading with a new reader named Natasha a couple of weeks ago. I thought she was okay - but I won't be calling her back.
One of the customer service reps told me that Hazel (also new) has been getting good feedback as well. I wish I had read with her instead. Oh well, live and learn!
Bridgee
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Hazel's profile was frozen for a bit...and then it was taken down the same time as Natalie's and then out of no where...she returned. I tried her...I wasn't impressed unfortunately.
I also had a reading with Natasha and she was just grasping for something...she 1st asked if I was divorced (I've never been married) if the person I am calling about is divorced (and he has never been married) she was just trying too hard...I was very disappointed...and she said that he would reach out and we will be together and then she brought up someone else and that I will be with him because I don't want to wait for my ex...and the new guy is about 7 years older...together...focuses a lot on career...he is divorced...never married...but we will be married and he will want kids (so he will want his 1st kid at 49/50 years old???) I just don't see it....no one else saw any of this...then she said that is why I asked if you were divorced...because he is coming in divorced and asked if my ex has dark hair....when i said yes...she said oh ok..that is who I see...and btw...the new guy has dark hair too....I was just left with a big question mark over my head and asked myself why I even got a reading ???? Save your money on this one.
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CJean: Just breathe and take a break. Take a break from readings and take a break from him. Every time he pops into your head...think about something positive...think about something that makes you happy...to stop you from thinking about him and the situation. Try writing him letters and open up your heart...but never send them...the letters would be just for you...it may make some of this better.
No one should judge you...we have all been there with that one person that just made us so crazy and desperate to know what is going on and what is going to be...we all have to have one like this in our lives...it is what will make us stronger and discover things about ourselves.
Just Breathe :D All will be ok in time.
I have done that...I have called several in a weekend because I was so upset and I just wanted confirmations to make sure they are all on the same page...but when you get that one reading that says the opposite...or throws you a curve ball..it just drives us more crazy causing more emotions and frustrations...and in the end we just wished that we had stopped at the first one...lol
I said I wasn't going to call CP for a while....um a while for me was 1 1/2 to 2 weeks....I spoke to Jacqueline briefly, London very briefly...and Kinsey. I spoke to Kinsey this afternoon and I absolutely loved what she said and how she said it. It made me feel so much better. :)
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hey green,
that was a few months ago when I posted that. Im much better now. Im soo happy and none of it has to do with a man. I have so much positive things happening for me this year. Plus vacations, social events and functions and not to mention my graduation with my masters..woot woot...
with that note; F him! lol 8)
btw I will be partying in the Jersey Shore this summer...you Jersey girls hit me up :D
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lmao @ Natasha reading ::) ??? :o I would get my money back doll :-\
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Is it very difficult to get your money back? THe customer service reps say that if you don't have a connection to just hang up after 3 or 4 minutes.
If you don't hang up on them will they still refund you your money? I seriously feel like my readings with Natasha and Raigan were a waste of money indeed.
Thank you for the feedback on Hazel. Now I know not to try her.
Bridgee
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Oh well, I always get my money back. Power of persuasion.
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I am going to get a reading with Abrielle in June some time!