The Psychic Reviews
Relationship Psychology Discussions => The Vent => Topic started by: AngelGuided on January 30, 2011, 09:41:15 PM
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So I haven't heard any updates or how any of you have been doing in quite a few days now. Please let us know what's happening good or bad? Inquiring minds want to know...kiki, pt, healer, jb, moneta, bethnation, crm, koukou, sunshine girl, etc., what's new?
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Hi Angelguided,
I am still waiting.......no new updates. Will keep everyone posted :)
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I'm just waiting too...patiently patiently waiting...and also just trying to get on with life. I've been cleaning a lot today, trying to clear space in my house (and mentally/emotionally) for the big change to come. I "could" be hearing from him by the end of the week, but we all know how timelines work.
That was so nice of you to start this message, Angel. I've been wondering about everyone too.
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That's good! I've missed hearing from all of you and what's been happening. I'm also waiting. I've had contact with my husband last week with the court hearing Monday, he returned my call on Wednesday about the deed to our house, saw him Friday morning to sign papers. He called me Friday afternoon to address our tax return after she started screwing with his head and we tried to start an argument over that, but I redirected him saying that this had already been discussed and resolved. We had already agreed to file jointly. Then, Saturday, I called him after realizing that if we file our taxes jointly it will mess up my daughter's financial aid for college. She'll graduate high school in June and plans to go in the fall. So, left him message letting him know my concern and that I needed to get some more info. Then he called and we had conflict, then my daughter and him had conflict. He realizes that if we don't file jointly he'll owe very large tax bill. Then, he finally broke down calling our daughter crying. He wanted her to know that the financial situation was very difficult for him and told her to make sure she told me how hard this was for him. She assured him that I already knew. I haven't talked to him since yesterday, so I don't know what's going on now, if anything? I think he's scared shitless right now trying to catch up support payments and now discovering he will owe thousands to IRS, not to mention having to make changes to his tax exemptions to increase tax withholdings which will further reduce his check. He should've thought about all this before now! Talked to Jacqueline Friday and she said that I would hear something from him today, Sunday. She predicted that other woman would move out today. I heard from him Saturday, but I initiated that contact over our taxes. I'm moving forward with recording deed tomorrow and trying to see what I can do with mortgage company to save our home. I'm also filing appeal from our support hearing tomorrow, guess he will receive subphoena for that on Tuesday, could push him right over the edge? I don't know, but I've got to do something.
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AngelGuided, I really hope everything works out. I know this must be such a difficult time--but him breaking down to your daughter just shows how stressed he is--not only about the finances but EVERYTHING---including all the nagging the other woman must be doing. Hopefully, he will realize all of this is not even worth it!!!
KIKI awwhhh, cleaning is sending out good vibrations! It must feel nice too :)
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Thanks Moneta! I know your right on target, but I just wonder if he will be strong enough to make the change he needs to make. He had her pushing him to leave here when he left. Now, he's got her holding on extremely tightly. I know he's between a rock and hard place I won a very small battle yesterday. I've mentioned that she tries to dominate our conversations when he does call. Yesterday when we were discussing our daughter's financial aid and our taxes, about a minute or two into the discussion she started running her mouth in the background as usual. Couldn't make out exactly what she said, but I simply told my husband, this is our conversation between the two of us, there is no room for a 3rd wheel, if she starts trying to dominate our conversation, it's over! She yelled F YOU! He was quiet, he must've motioned to her because there was complete silence from her. We talked for about another 10-15 minutes, he was talking about filing for divorce and I told him that he couldn't file til the state requirements were met and he said I can file, I just can't finalize. I just said what's the point, you aren't divorced til it's finalized? This whole argument was stupid, so she started yelling over us, you can file for divorce, you just can't finalize! I simply hung the phone up. I use sly dial to access his voice mail directly when I only want to leave a message and don't want to ring his phone, so that's what I did. Left him a message stating that as I had mentioned I wasn't having a discussion with him if she was going to be in the middle of it. It was none of her business, we were discussing our daughter and our taxes, had nothing to do with her, same reason we had a closed court room on Monday to hear our case. The agreements and arrangements were between him and I. I told him I guess the only alternative would be for us to meet in person to discuss to prevent this issue (I'm sure that got her attention). Then our daughter called him and they argued. He called me back wanting to know why I told our daughter about it and for further info on financial aid. I explained that she heard the conversation and she was already upset with him over a couple other things that I had discussed with him the day before. Never heard a peep out of her! He wants me to file taxes with him, so of course he got through to her. About an hour later he called our daughter crying, pretty sure she wasn't around him when he called. I'm sure they had an argument over the way he handled our conversation and her not being able to dominate it. I'll use it as long as I can, it was quite effective!!!! She is trying so hard to validate their relationship and become #1 because she's so immature.
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Angel Guided--I thought the same thing Moneta said about him breaking down...maybe he's starting to realize that he screwed up. Nothing new to report on this end...keep running into him and seeing and hearing his name wherever I go. Someone I talked to said it is the universe's way of letting me know I'm on the right path and I'm not meant to forget about him and that he encounters the same thing. That's a nice way of looking at it!!!
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I hope so CM12345 and I'm sure you are!
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Angel - It sounds like your husband is having a MAJOR breakdown. I hope this is the breakthrough you've been waiting for. I've been reading your updates and following along. Keep us posted. I know Michelle was wrong about the court date but has she been right about other things?
I've been hanging low. I've talked to SM once in 2 weeks and it was via email. He ignored me all weekend, not feeling great about all of this. I'm hanging tough and keeping the faith but it is getting me down. I put up some new pictures on dating site and I *think* I have a date on Wed PM with CEO. Supposedly over the next 2 weeks communication should increase and become consistent with SM.
I've been following along with everything. JB27 - I owe you an email. Sorry I'm not too chit-chatty. I get like this from time to time. Big hugs to all
PT
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Hi everyone!
Gosh I feel for those of you that are in that 'holding' pattern. Waiting and waiting for it all to come together. Although I'm not in that space any longer, I certainly remember how you feel. I was in that same place for a little over a year with SM while we were dating before. It would be great and then he would pull away for weeks at a time. I was so confused that if it weren't for Tarot Lady and CP, I wouldn't have stuck with it or I would have done something really stupid and messed it all up.
We are now in a good place and we are talking about the future. He has uttered the L word once but it was a slip so we're working up to more. The CP's tell me that I will be getting a ring somewhere down the line but he's still working on his "issues" so it will not be real soon. I can wait so we'll see. :-)
You know one thing that I forgot about for you gals anyway, I bought and read the online book by Christian Carter called, Catch Him and Keep Him. I know, sounds silly but the guy had some awesome advice that has helped me to calm down and make good decisions. It's not for everyone but I HONESTLY think it has helped me to relax and get a handle on my situation in the past. Just a suggestion. :-*
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Sunshine girl---so happy things are working out for you. Yes, this "holding" pattern is awful and the worst part for me is patience is not one of my strong suits. I have a reading with the Tarot Lady tomorrow, will post to let you know how it goes.
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Sunshine - I didn't realize your SM would disappear. That's what I've been dealing with since August. I'm sorry you had to deal with it but hearing that you went through it and had a good outcome - well that is awesome. I would have done 100 stupid things if it wasn't for CP. I almost wrote him a not so nice email this weekend but I remembered what Alison had told me - not to respond to anything negative towards the end of January or he could disappear for a month. So with blood dripping out of the side of my mouth (from biting my tongue) I haven't said a word. I tried to break off all communication at the end of November but it didn't last long. I haven't seen him since November.
I know you love Dezi. Is there another CP you found helpful? You might be the only person I know with success after waiting. Congratulations!!
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cm12345 - can't wait to hear :)
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CM - I'm so happy you have a reading with The Tarot Lady! ;D I really trust her guideance! Please let me know how it goes.
I know you wrote to me personally and I promise to answer you tonight. :-)
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Sunshine - I bet all of us are writing you. LOL
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Hi PT! Yep, that's the story. More that anything, I have to say it's been The Tarot Lady and two particular psychics from Psychic Source that have kept me positive. In addition to a few personal things I have done that is which I will expound upon when I have a little more time.
Maybe I'll post my story here later today as everyone seems so interested in hearing a positive story.
Other than Dezi, I really liked Sabrina, Uriela, and Jean. I have read with many others but they were just OK not able to give much detail or going off on a tangent.
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ugh. I had a reading with Maryanne, and actually it was all very positive stuff, but the timeline got pushed out like another two weeks. I'm so sick of waiting.
SunshineGirl, is your experience, did your timelines keep changing?
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Hang in there PT and Kiki! I know it's tough waiting all this out! I know I'm very tired of thinking the end is near only to find out things are not ending yet. It's always coming, just a little out of reach so I know where you're coming from Kiki. PT you had asked about my experience with Michelle. She was wrong about the court date, but she has been very accurate with other things like explaining crazy scenarios to me. Explaining what the back story was as to why he's done the things he's done. She's been right about this each time I've asked her. There were 2 occasions that I asked her about and she was right. Once she said my husband would call and straighten it out that evening, he did. But, she had predicted that they would split a couple days after Christmas and they're still together unfortunately.
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Thanks Angel for the Michelle info. Hang in there. Hopefully the tide is moving for you a bit. xxoo PT
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Jacqueline continues to say that other woman has left or not staying there, but she's always there whenever I hear from him. She said that again this morning, that she's left, not staying there, staying with girlfriend. I needed to get the address on the building for court summons since I couldn't remember, so I drove by there a couple hours after talking with Jacqueline and she was definitely there. I don't know what to make of that?!!! Especially since she's been so accurate for you guys!!! Maybe she's seeing near future, but she's been saying this for a couple weeks now? I'm trying to figure out which CP I should try for survey since it doesn't look like London is returning any time soon?
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I'm debating about reading with Jean again since it's been late November since I read with her or maybe Gail?
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Angel
Jacqueline is excellent but by no means is she 100%. I don't think any of them are.
Here is my 2 cents. If you think about it, if the girlfriend is still living there, does it really matter? You know she will be gone soon......... I can't imagine how much this must suck for you - for a million reasons - she sounds horrible - but you could drive yourself crazy trying to figure it all out. If Jacqueline is seeing something that contradicts what you are seeing, I wouldn't call her for a bit and maybe let things settle and then catch up to what she is seeing?
Hang in there, we are all here for you.
PT
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Thanks PT! That's very good advice. I've been reading with Jacqueline weekly and it has been very confusing when she's been saying she's gone for 2 weeks now. At first, Jacqueline said this morning they weren't sleeping in same bed. Then, she said that she feels like she's not staying there, she was staying with girlfriend. She may be coming and going, who knows? I've been thinking maybe she is reading her energy as being gone because she's not much of a factor? She's a parasite. It's just so frustrating. Just had a reading with Claire and she said, this is an evil, evil woman. Michelle gave me a different timeline recently, but not too far in future. We'll see what happens! I've been getting too many readings lately and my budget needs break. Need to spend money on necessities and more fun things!!! Focus on my home and daughter more.
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Angel - I've done what you are doing 100 times and will probably do it again unfortunately. Talk me down when I start calling all around again. LOL
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Not a problem, I completely understand!
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Angel Guided-you are in my heart right now...I am so sorry that (don't take this wron0g your husband is an ass...I hope he wakes the fuck up..I am sending some good energy your way
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Wasnt really sure where to post this so i decided to do it here!!! One thing i have noticed that for the most part im way more at peace and ease with everything now that i am not seeking a new reading every day or two. I think that reading with to many psychics can cause a person to go nuts. They all have different abilities and different styles so they will all see things and explain things differently. So i think its best to find a reader that you trust and connects well with you and then stick with them so you dont get confused with confilicting readings or discouraged with timelines that pass. I know its alot easier said then done as i still have my bad days but they have been alot less and farther between since i stopped getting so many readings. Just my two cents...For what its worth lol =)
Good day to all!!!!
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Some psychics will tell you different things. You literally have to say to yourself: that all are correct in one way or another. If a person is going down a certain path a psychic might think they will continue down that path and here is what will happen...but people are given choices..they can always choose a different path..hence why you may get another reading with a different outcome. Ultimately I find that the destiny really does lie in the person's hand. It sucks though waiting... :'(
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Well....my story is quite interesting. I figured I'd have to tell my story.. especially since Im new. I was seeing this guy and he had another girl he was seeing. He was with her before me. Anyways...me and this guy fell for each other. I mean we are best friends. We can be ourselves..we know each other inside and out. He really is truly my soulmate (as other psychics have confirmed) and I dont think I'll ever find someone like him. Now I did what the psychics told me. I held back from being intimate with him but I continued to spend quality time with him and everything. I was told that he will leave this girl by some psychics and that we will be together and married the whole nine. Last month.... :( :'( I found out that she is pregnant. Me and him have been fighting and not really talking. Ive been crying everyday. Today is my birthday and I can't even see him. Ive been literally in depressed mode since I found out. I feel like there is no chance now. I called back my psychics to tell them what happened of course and Abrielle said she seen the same outcome with us. That the girl did this to trap him. But when I tried a new psychic they told me that the two would get engaged but never walk down the aisle. I dont know what to think. I feel like all hope is lost for us. He wont be able to leave now.
I couldn't understand this. I was angry at God. I was angry at myself. I was angry at the psychics who gave me hope. I was angry at my spirit guides. I felt like love was given to me...True and Real love and then it was taken away.
Then I read an article on soul mates that said that Fate may present hurdles that test the love that soul mates have promised each other. Soulmates are meant to grow spiritually through tests of their love for each other and these tests are never easy. It may seem like you are being punished but it all serves a purpose.
My friend went through the same thing with her husband at one point. We were in undergrad and her bf got this girl pregnant twice! She left him..moved to Florida bought a house and lived with another man for years! The other guy told her he didnt love her and he moved out. Her ex and her still kept in contact so he made a move on her and now they are happier than ever. They are married with a baby that was just born in Dec. Its been 4 years since they broke up and I was there to witness it all. So sometimes patience is all you really need..no matter how dim the future may seem.
And then I thought about how wonderful it was to have met someone so great. Someone who I felt made me feel free and alive. Someone who I knew I could be with in this life and the next. Some love storied dont have happy endings. Some of them lose the battle from life's challenges. But how lucky I am to have found true love..in its rarest form and even though it seems impossible now, I feel like no matter where life takes us..whether we continue to come together or we grow apart...there is one thing to be truer than in ever was...
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cjean487 - First, Happy Birthday. Second, I'm so very sorry you are going through this. The pain must be horrible. :'(
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Thanks so much ilovelola, you're so right! I really think he's getting a little clearer! Spoke with him today, even though we are still arguing, we are connecting more and more. It's unfortunate because it's over stupid stuff that she does. She sent my daughter a message on facebook this morning, telling her how happy her Dad was that she contacted him a couple days ago. First off, she knows my daughter wants nothing to do with her. It was her way of meddling. I'm not so sure she wasn't doing this so my daughter wouldn't contact him, you know reverse psychology. But, she most definitely did this to cause conflict so that I contacted my husband this morning to blow up at him. She has some nerve thinking she needs to advise my daughter on her relationship with her Dad!
Cjean, Happy Birthday! I'm so sorry for what you're going through, I know this must be a difficult time.
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cjean487 - Is there anyone @ CP that you still read with since this happened? What a shocker for you. I know you mentioned Abrielle. I had mixed results with her but liked her as a person. I'm not sure we "clicked".
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Yes. I mean everyday is a struggle for me. I cry at least once a day :'(
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I have spoken to Uriela, Venus, Alison, Violet, Paige, Nevaeh, Becky, Abrielle, Karmystic all of whom have predicted it wouldn't last with them but apparently they all were wrong. I haven't spoken to anyone since except Violet and Abrielle. Im just so distraught that I don't want to really talk to anyone right now. It sucks that we look for these people for so much hope and we get excited when we do hear what we want. But what happens when we dont hear the things we want? I have spoken to Winter after and she doesnt think it will last.
However Dawn was the only one to predict that this girl would try to get pregnant. And she said that in Oct and now...Jan hits and I find out the truth. It really does suck.
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cjean - gosh, so no one said "no" about him except Dawn? I don't know who she is. I'll have to look her up. Yikes. Is there a chance they could break up? Have you talked to him? You poor thing........
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Holy Cow!!!! Michelle's rate just went from $4.50 to $6.50/min!!!
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WHAT???????????????
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I know!!!!! I wrote before that London went to $5 and Dezi went up to 650 too!!! and others I just looked!!!
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In order to get my $35 credit on CP, I spoke with Dawn (because she was recommended by cjean and she was only $4.00). She knew a lot...that SM and I communicate via email, the ages of his children, etc. She said he highly desires me and thinks about me more than he would like. He has a lot of guilt and fear and feels safer and less guilty when I contact him (so far everything I've heard from everyone else I've talked to)...her only different prediction was that she doesn't see him changing his situation b/c of his kids and it would be too complicated ( a little contradictory from what I've heard) so who knows!!! She was really good and was able to pick up on a lot of stuff.
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cm12345 - are you upset?
everyone - the $ changes are crazy. Teagan (?) is $6.50? Has anyone been blown away by Michelle?
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positive thoughts- I really don't know what to think....in my gut I've never thought he would change his situation but everyone (and I do mean everyone, besides Dawn) said that he is miserable in his current situation and will eventually change it. I certainly would never suggest he do or make him do anything he doesn't want to. I really just want him to be happy. Dawn did say that he isn't happy either but due to kids and finances, she doesn't see him changing but he doesn't want to lose me b/c he loves me and I make him laugh and happy...so she was on target with everyone else however she doesn't see him doing it. Dawn did advise me to ask myself if I want to continue in this way with SM (talking, not talking, etc) b/c if I don't, maybe I should just be done with it completely. I truly wish I just stuck with the same couple of people I've been reading with b/c at least they know me and my situation. I only did Dawn to get the $35 credit...I wish I didn't b/c now I am confused. With the rate increases to everyone, I am going to use my credit and only read with Jean from CP from now on and one other one from outside who I have been using.
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I just read with Jean for my survey. I've read with her once before but it was over 2 months ago so as long as you have not read with them within the last 30 days you qualify for the survey. I do like Jean and i feel she's real psychic and I feel she nailed some of my things but she is definitely off on half of the things as far as I can tell...I guess time will tell but for some of it she better be off!!! lol....and for those things it doesn't agree with anyone else...but as far as what do the readers get paid? The higher rate readers believe it or not only make about $1.00 to $1.20 per working minute....CP only pays the reader about 20% of the charge of the call...in some cases not even 20%.....so no they are not getting paid as much as what's being charged.
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cm1234 - ugh that is frustrating to get a new outcome at this point.
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Hi Aef! Thanks for the update. I just wanted to find out how you know what they get paid at CP? Did you know someone that worked there? If you did, I'd love to get some more information about them.
I always sort of wonder why the really good ones don't go out on their own and make more cha-ching!
Thanks,
Sunshine
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+thoughts: of course Im dying. :'( I spent half of my Birthday yesterday crying. I miss him so much. We do speak but I keep it only to a texting minimum. Im distraught. Just the thought of me hearing his voice or seeing him would make me change my mind. I don't know what to do anymore. I know he' my soulmate but I have to move on with my life. Now here's the painful part (as if the rest isn't ::)) I work with him. :-X
cm: Im glad you spoke to Dawn. But why is it that I feel like her outcomes for everyone is negative lol. I mean maybe she is the only one that sees the truth while all the others are feeding us bs to get our hopes up. The only thing I can say is never put any of it past. You have to kind of let go knowing that you will get hurt in the process and that this may not happen yet still love him and keep him as a part of your life in case it does..because the last thing you want to do is wait for something you're not getting :(
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The only thing I can tell you is to not think that because 10 psychics tell you the same thing, that it will happen. I know it sucks. We want to hear that the person we love will be with us and marry us and live happily ever after...but in reality not all stories end perfectly. Keep you mind open to all possible outcomes. If your instincts is telling you he might not leave that than is reason enough for you to keep your distance and move on. sometimes our guides want us to move on to kind of push the person back into our lives.
Quick true inspirational story you'll love:
My friend was with this guy for four years. He met some other woman and had a baby by her. My friend was distraught (like me) :'( but she loved him, and she took him back. he then got the same girl pregnant again! (can you believe it!) so she took him back again and finally after I knocked some sense into her she left him. She and I graduated college and she moved to Florida. Ther guy ended up with the mother of his kids of course. He moved in with her and everything.
Meanwhile my friend had her life moving in all positive directions. She brought a house, and she had a new bf she moved in with for two years. So one day her new bf told her he didnt love her :o and he was moving out. ( :-X )
Her and her ex that had two daughters by now was living on his own. He and the mother of his kids broke up and he was living by himself. When my friend became available he committed to her, married her and now they have a newborn baby.
They were broken up for 4 1/2 years. I witnessed the whole story unfold like a Nicholas Sparks movie.
Who wouldve thought they would be back together. But he said after being without her for so long he realized that she is all that he wants and sometimes that takes years for them to realize that. You just have to have faith girl. Maybe it won't happen now. Maybe it won't happen with him but it will happen. Soul mates will always come back. No matter what. Have confidence and believe that love in its truest and rarest form does conquer all...even if it doesn't end the way you want it to.
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cjean---wow life is full of so my twists and turns.....
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you have no idea! lol. I think if we knew everything now we wouldn't know the lessons. After all our souls are here to learn things and grow. Just how we are meant to learn and grow so is our partners. We won't always be in syc together as far as growth which is why sometimes things seem like they may never happen. But its not always when but if it will happen at all. If the person that you are meant to be is not responding than it becomes harder and you're always given a choice on whether it is best to move on or stay unfulfilled.
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its a story of inspiration healer. I love the name you chose for yourself. Its time for you t heal yourself. Find it in your heart to forgive those who hurt you and move on. You c an still love someone and move on. Its just your way of releasing to the universe the plan that they have paved for you...which may or may not involve you both. Forgiveness however accepts those changes being made. As you can see..my friend moved on and accepted those changes. And ultimately she received what she always wanted dearly in her heart..and thats for him to love and appreciate her. "The TRUTH": It may not lead you to where you thought you were going, but it will always lead you somewhere better. When ignored, it will eventually show itself.
I remember Abrielle told me my lesson was to show my sm the truth about love. Real love. That is the one thing we cannot ignore. No matter how many times we try to bend it, twist it, transform it..but we can never hide from the truth.
Stay + :-*
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will this pain ever go away? and when?
I told my ex that we can be friends and that Im seeing someone else (of course Im not) its only been 3 weeks. I just don't think Im ready. I wake up in this depressed state every morning. I don't want to be his friend. What's the point? I feel like I'll just get hurt again.
My heart is so broken and I just don't know what to do. It seems like its a never ending pain. I hate this. :(
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cjean, i know exactly how you feel. When my girl first broke it off with me to go back to her ex i was devistated and extremely hurt. I even was depressed for a few months. All i can say is that time wil help. You might always love him and have feelings for him but over time it will not hurt as much when you think about him. At least thats how it went for me. I wish you the best and know the pain wont last forever =)
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Yeah time does heal wounds. Thx for the inspiration..and I know you'll find someone who deserves your love :)
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kira what happened? Im confused?
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cjean? you rang? now I'm confused!
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lol. I was asking what happened to you?
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Like what is your story
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I know I had told you guys about the drama last weekend over our taxes and then how this other woman contacted my daughter on facebook, the saga continues... My husband justified her contacting our daughter because the message she sent wasn't inappropriate. I couldn't get him to acknowledge that the contact itself was inappropriate. That all happened Tuesday. Wednesday morning I called him because he had mentioned a couple weeks earlier that he had received new insurance cards for us and he needed to get them to us. He had not done this and I had a doctor's appt, I wasn't sure if anything had changed or not. So, we're having a civilized conversation on his way home from work. Of course, she is with him and is talking on her cell phone at the same time. She begins showing her ass almost immediately that I am calling him. She is talking with her sister and just being obnoxious and beligerent. Saying that I call every day to start something, she gets louder and louder. He and I are trying to continue our conversation and ignore, but after a couple minutes of this, I said she needs to shut up, there's no excuse for this. This is none of her business, etc. I said to him that I had looked at the amt used for health insurance on the court order and this was not the correct amt. He had reported half of the total insurance cost to the court as my expense, when I should only be responsible for the difference in the rate category from employee+one to employee+family (there are 3 of us on the insurance). This means my cost is only about half of what he reported to court. He was asking me questions about this to understand what I was saying, then he says I don't have the info in front of me, I'm driving down the road. I said, of course, I didn't expect you would. I'm just letting you know there's a discrepancy so you'll know what I'm talking about. She starts yelling at him, don't you talk to her about $$. She starts this whole confrontation about my sister sending her sister a friend request on facebook. Yeah, this happened back in Oct, not really sure why this was an issue on this particular morning? It was a diversion to start a new conflict. She I and are arguing back and forth between him. He yells, I'm sick of this bs and I said, me too!! He hangs up the phone and I call back she answers, so I hang up and call his voice msg system. I told him that something has to change, that is not acceptable she cannot control and dominate our conversations, what we discuss is none of her business, etc. He calls back to defend it, stating he was in her car and because he's in her car she can say whatever she wants, she chimed in and she will! I said, I don't care who's car you're in, that has nothing to do with it. Whoever drives that was between them, but she needs to respect some boundaries. They both have spouses and children and need to respect that. It always falls on deaf ears. After a couple of attempts, we ended up having an ok conversation after all this. She did get quiet eventually, sure she was listening though. He has been bringing up our marriage and why he left several times this week during our conversations, which is very very new!!! He really hasn't discussed this since he left. Seems he's looking for validation.
Our daughter created a fake phone number on the computer and sent her Dad a couple texts from this number. Saying, leave me alone and I can get you fired. It was kind of implied that this other woman was contacting him, of course he never believed it was other woman because of the phone number and she denied sending them. He was blaming me for these texts early on and I knew that I hadn't sent them, so I was more determined than ever to find out who sent them. My daughter finally confessed. I left him a voice message letting him know that she had created the phony texts. This happened back in August and has continued to be a regular argument. Him continuously stating that this other woman could prosecute her for these texts. I'm not condoning what she did, but I think they are being overly dramatic. They're saying our daughter impersonated her, etc. I continue to state that these texts were sent to him, not her and she never identified who she was impersonating. Of course, it was implied but in a court this has to be beyond reasonable doubt. Then he will turn around and say that she's not pressing charges, but it comes up every few weeks, like clockwork. Well, on this day he begins telling me that there was another message or two that was sent and said that our daughter threatened herself on the message. He never mentioned this to me before, although he said that he thought he had. I assured him that if he had told me that one of those messages threatened my daughter, I would not have forgotten that. At that time, I did not know they were from my daughter. There have been so many false allegations being made that i asked my daughter about it that afternoon and she confirmed that she had sent that message. We talked about it again, why she did that, etc. I called my husband's voice message system to leave him a msg stating that I had talked to her and she acknowledged that she had sent the msg and was sorry, etc. He calls me a few minutes later, bent out of shape that I left this message for him in the middle of the day while he was sleeping. I said, I never rang your phone, I simply left you a voice msg for you to retrieve at your leisure. Then he asks if I punished her? I said, so I'm supposed to punish her again months later, because you decide to tell me today that there is an additional message that I was not aware of before? He said that actually there was another message sent, he started talking about that. I relayed to my daughter, she said that she didn't send that message. By this time, other woman butting into our conversation, calling me a liar, then my daughter a liar. She called me an f-ing bitch. I am telling her this is none of her business to get out of our conversation. She says this involves me because messages were sent about me, my husband is saying the same. I had put my husband on speaker phone when he started explaining this 4th message so my daughter could hear. She was telling him, Dad I didn't send that message, he was calling her a liar. Other woman, continued to rant and rave, my daughter told her to stay out of it, she was talking to her Dad. So, she called my daughter an f-ing bitch. Phone went dead. I left him a voice msg saying this has gone too far, not only does she continue to verbally assault me, but now she assaulted our 17-yr old daughter. He tried to call me back about 4 times, but I wouldn't answer. He also tried to call our daughter several times, she didn't answer him either. He didn't leave any messages for either of us. I went to see the magistrate and completed 2 criminal complaints, took them home with me to return with our daughter later. I left him a message a couple hours later telling him that I had paperwork for 2 warrants. It shouldn't have gotten to this point. I had repeatedly stated my position on this and no one listened, now here we are. I told him that I was waiting for our daughter to get off work to file. If he wants a relationship with his daughter he will contact me that evening with a workable solution to avoid this in the future. I was so tired when my daughter returned from work that I had decided to wait until she got home from school next day. Around 10pm that night he called and said that he thought this whole situation had gotten way out of hand, I said you think? He said he thought this was a huge misunderstanding. He didn't know our daughter was on the phone, he didn't realize he was on speakerphone. He probably didn't realize he was on speakerphone, but he knew he was talking to his daughter and so did she. He said he was sleeping and he had to call and defend himself from the message that I left. I said there was nothing to defend yourself against, you need to listen to that message again because there was nothing confrontational about it. He said that other woman no longer wants to be around him while he's talking with me. I said, good that's all I've ever asked for. From the beginning, I would say call me when you're alone and he would never do this. Then it became, she needs to stay out of this! He asked if I had filed the warrants, I said no, not yet. Don't give me a reason to! He said that she was threatening to press charges against me for harrassment and defamation of character, which is ridiculuous! He said, don't give her a reason to either!
Next day, he calls me mid morning Wednesday to once again discuss our taxes. He's going to have to pay in about $5500 without our daughter as a dependent or my business expenses. He is very worried about this, so this is why we've had so much contact this last week. I told him that I was not going to mess up our daughter's student financial aid for college to save him money, especially when he's not going to be around to contribute to her education. He started saying that he would be contacting his attorney and it would be addressed in court. I said, go right ahead. I'm not responsible for your income taxes on your salary, that's your responsibility. He should've had a conversation with me before now about our taxes. He's been saying that my business losses are the reason he left, but suddenly they've become very important to his tax situation. He said, I want to ask you a question. I said, ok? He said, did you want me to stay in a relationship with you and be unhappy? I said, no I didn't want you to be unhappy but you have a responsibility to communicate when you are unhappy. You need to learn how to communicate and how to be a husband, not just go look for someone else and leave. He brought up a couple of issues he had with me. I told him that I wasn't saying his concerns may not have been valid, but the way he went about this was all wrong and with the way he handled it he could never be right. He was very quiet, listening. I said, if I have a problem with you, I take it up with you, not go and look for someone else. He said, people all over the country get divorced everyday and I said, yes they do. But, this shouldn't come as a shock to the other party. Our commitment is something I took seriously and should not have been taken so callously. It's like he's trying to alleviate his guilt, but he's still blaming me, but the difference is we're talking about it.
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Wow Angel - that is pretty interesting. I guess that would definitely be him opening up about the relationship???
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The interesting thing is that the conversations are being held in her presence.
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Angel- that sounds incredibly frustrating >:( UGHH!
Cjean- my story is old news, and I think I'm being deemed as judgmental here for tyring to speak honestly on topics... but to answer you in brief - I had a five month love affair, he was married, I thought we were brought together by the great cosmos because it was just so amazing for both of us, he considered leaving his wife for me, etc, near the end I started consulting psychics because something had to give and I was looking for someone to tell me to run run run. But they all said to hang on, be patient, he loved me, he had no passion with her, they were like a business and he had to find the right time to get out of it. They had very specific emotions and words between us pegged. Cut to the end, I told his wife because it was so dishonest and I felt she should know. I knew that would definitely make him hate me, and we'd be over, but it had to end, I was in torment everyday. Turned out the wife was awesome, gracious, very cool and smart. She was totally shocked, even though some of the psychics said she knew about us, or that she was bossy and other unsavory things. She told me I had her deepest gratitude, she kicked him out. Neither of them have contacted me since. I don't know if he's surviving this,and I was terribly worried and feeling guilty. But, he was in the wrong. He was hurting her and me and now she and I can live in truth and move ahead. I was obsessed with him and the words of the psychics, calling even though I couldn't afford to. AFterward, I felt I had been misled by some and that others were only picking up on my personal feelings and desires/view of the situation. Since being on these boards, I've read things that concern me, and I don't feel I am being judgmental, I am being honest about what I think is happening, and it really sucks that nobody wants to hear anything other than what they want to hear all sugar-coated and everything. That's part of the problem in the first place, that someone will call one after the other to hear they have hope over and over, and then end up on a forum to try to verify the psychics abilities -it's a vicious cycle. and if you don't know, I should note, I have been involved with tarot and spiritualism since I was a child. I am a believer, I just also believe in misuse. (thanks)
As far as how I'm doing now...I'm thinking of the guy less and less and less, it's really amazing to get myself back from this. I feel strong while I still remember the pain very vividly. That's why I still come here to find support and be supportive, despite how it looks to some.
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Kirakira,
I am so glad that you are starting to think less and less of the guy!!
As i was reading your story, I was thinking hmm the psychics tell her that the guy and his wife were like a business....it was done and now he had to just get rid o it. At the same time, what if the wife were to call the psychics, I just have a feeling that they would tell her that her husband will turn around and he will come back---he loves her etc etc etc. The other woman is just temporarary etc etc. I dunno just a thought. Cuz we all seem to be hearing what we want to hear!
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KiraKira, I'm so glad you're healing. Sounds like you are very strong. I know I have appreciated your perspective on the psychic readings. I'm sure we've all wondered if we're getting the truth from time to time and this is one of the main reasons we all met on the complaint board, as well as the comraderie and support. There are quite a few frauds in the industry and we wanted to see objectively if predictions were unfolding as predicted. I know I have been aware of making too many calls to CP throughout the past few months, but everyone's journey is different. Sometimes people need some hope to get them through the roughest of days. I think deep down our own intuition tells us whether there is really a connection with our loved ones or not, although we want a little more insight on what's going on with them or what they're thinking, etc. Validation is something I think we are most searching for. If we really believed it was completely over, we would've already moved on just like you. Personally, I spent 20 years with this man and I feel like I've known him very well, we share a child together. It's hard for me to imagine that he would just pack up and leave without looking back. He seems so conflicted and confused, but I see flickers of the man I used to know. He contradicts himself. His tone and emotions don't match the words he says. The words can be cruel, but his tone says it's all a front and show for her. I'm not willing to let him off the hook for what he's done, as a matter of fact I tell him exactly how it is, just like I always have. I feel like he has issues he needs to deal with and under the right circumstances, I may be able to forgive him. Stay strong and we are all here to support you.
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Kirakira, if you don't mind, who did you read at CP with and who was wrong?
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We all tend to obsess with the other person, their situation and their thoughts, but how do we even know if thy are truly right for us? How many times did we meet this amazing guy, who was a best friend and had all the great qualities, and later after years went by it turned otherwise. How many of us went into relationships even though we knew that there are problems showing up already?
It is very hard to stop thinking about that other person, but this reveals a problem with many of us are struggling with and it is FEAR OF BEING ALONE. The underlying cause of that is LACK OF UNCONDITIONAL LOVE FOR OURSELVES. If people have true unconditional love for themselves, they don't obsessively need that person to be with them and validate them.
If you are loving yourself unconditionally, you don't need to obsess about anything else, you are OK by yourself. However we human beings, have needs to mate and look for relationships. But we must remember that the relationship is just an enhancement, an addition to our amazing existence by ourselves.
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Moneta- exactly. That's all I'm saying. Question motives, of them and ourselves. There is a lot of profit happening at that company. And personally, I spent money for false hope that I should not have because for me finances are very very VERY tough. I wish I had been able to read posts like these and find a supportive group of people with similar things going on at the time. I think I would have reconsidered the calls and gained some strength. So that's why I'm still here.
AngelG- I just don't even know what to say to you. Twenty years is such a long time, it must be very difficult to say the least. You must have every emotion in the book going on. I wish strength and resolution for you. I don't know how old you are, and although 20 years is a long time, I bet you have 20 or 40 or more years to go, so no matter how you go it, I hope you will be happy again soon. Remember life is full of unexpected turns and twists, you never know what's on the other side. You might find a new life and new love that you never imagined would exist! I'm not telling you what to do, just thinking about the women I've known who have gone through this.
libra- I sent ya a recap ;)
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To be honest only one psychics at CP held me on the phone just to keep the minutes going and it was Anya Dawn. Unfortunately her readings weren't consistent. And when she ran out of predictions she started flattering me saying "wow, you are doing so well, you are great person, and so on, and so on...." seemed she could go, and go for hours if I stayed on the phone. So that was the only one bad experience, I had. Other psychics I read with, just answered my question and let me hang up. Which is very fair, I think.
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Hi!
I just want to start by saying that since I am the one who spoke about that we are all here not judging each other I just want to make sure that I clarify that was meant as a good thing and not directed at you Kira. I truly meant that we are here helping each other, encouraging each other, and this started out with all of us reaching out in desperation to see "what are other's experiences?" and "is this all a scam?" and then it quickly turned into support, encouraging, views, and then The VENT -- Psychic Break made by CSK on the other board. So maybe we can not call so much and try to help each other in between in the forum. So this has been a great place for everyone. So I apologize if you felt it was directed at you it was not it was directed at everyone to recognize the good that everyone is doing for each other with speaking openly of their experiences. We are all learning from each other.
Angel -- Wow I feel you are incredibly strong to be dealing with all of this with your husband. But it does sound like he's struggling with some emotions here.
I agree with Libra yes this experience in here and that we are all having with these soulmates is making all of us take a look at ourselves and go within. That's usually why we are supposed to have these experiences -- and some say we've asked for this experience before we came into this life. We wanted to experience this and learn from it. Maybe we're afraid to be alone....maybe we have to learn to love ourselves first. I will say that always the best thing to do when you are experiencing sadness or grief of any kind is to focus on yourself -- work on you! Pamper yourself, treat yourself, take a class, etc.... I mean look at Jennifer Aniston after the breakup with Brad Pitt!!!! She never looked better....there was plenty written about her emotions, and such but she focused on herself and kept moving in life. Also, often in these situations we are all not really ready and that's why the separation occurs....some of us are attached to others...some are not ready financially, etc... We usually talk about the runner not being ready. But usually we ourselves are not totally ready and we don't realize it. So we all have work to do.
And yes I agree that relationships are about adding to each other's lives. We're not supposed to lose ourselves in the other person.
But I think we all totally get it in here...we know how we feel, we know we have up times, down times, we go through times we're obsessed and times we're ok.
And I still feel a psychic reading is helpful, can give clarity, but it's not supposed to run our lives....and we're supposed to use it with our own gut feeling. And we're supposed to believe, and trust, and have faith, in ourselves and the situation.
And yes CP is so big I'm sure it owns several smaller sites. And when you google for psychic readings and it comes up first on the internet....that costs plenty. And I hear them advertise on the radio all the time...when I first started reading on CP they did not advertise on the radio. So the rising prices go to advertising. And the owner's are filmakers. Outlook Amusements are 2 men I googled one time and saw it. They use CP to fund their movie business I'm sure.
Hopefully though, they have some on there at least that have enough of a conscience to do the right thing by the callers. I've had 3 psychics keep me on the phone in all the time I've read on there...one was Winter, one was Linda (she was the worst we were done and she said how about your career? etc...), and one was Anasela.
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At CP they should start caring more about customer service, cause if too many people complain, the word will spread around and the company will suffer. Good thing is that I had customer service advise me to hang up immediately if I don't feel the connection with a psychic immediately. They also refunded me money for a reading that completely didn't make sense to me.
But hopefully websites like this and complaints will be heard by the owners and people who work there, so something will be done.
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Wow AngelGuided! I read your story. It's so much drama. I am sorry that your children are exposed to this. Do you really want to get back with him? After all this? He is exposing children to this, and dragging them into this whole sick situation. Seriously do what you want, but I would just resolve everything in court and make sure that you get all you need. I wouldn't even communicate with him, I would have a lawyer handle everything.
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I've been feeling kinda down lately and doing a lot of thinking.
I read an article yesterday on CP about heaven. For some reason it stuck with me. About how it is pure love and happiness. That you help something with your energy and they in turn help you, etc. The example was flowers but I related it to real life. I also went to church last night and was really trying to piece all of this together and figure out why I am still in this rut. But this AM I figured it out. I haven't felt like I deserved more then I was getting - in my 14 year marriage, in my relationships since the end of the marriage, with relationships before my marriage, etc. I have never felt worthy of having someone fully committed to me so I've excepted less.
Jacqueline, for awhile, has been trying to get me to be strong, stick up for myself with SM, be aloof, be unavailable etc. I kept thinking, that is so mean, I really try to keep positive karma and treat others how I would want to be treated. He has "problems" with commitment and intimacy due to significant issues from his past - but she is right. Doing this will help him evolve.
It is a fine line - do onto others as you would have done onto yourself - while not being a doormat. Fight for what you deserve - whatever that might be.
So to my friends who are waiting, fighting for their marriage, trying to find themselves, as long as we are being honest with ourselves, on the path to self respect and to our highest "good", we will find happiness. I've used CP's to help validate I'm on the right path and have had some really cool stuff happen. I'm very aware that they have been and can be wrong - but their validation is helping me on my journey - my long and very bumpy road. I don't know if I will really end up with SM, but if I was in a "real" relationship right now I wouldn't have stopped the cycle. I would keep making the same mistakes over and over and over again.
OK - That is my Sunday morning revelation. :) Enjoy the day everyone.
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Thanks Libra! Problem is that I do not have a lawyer to handle these things for me, can't really afford one right now. I do feel like I get through to him at times, as if he may be understanding what he's doing is wrong. He's actually asking me for my perspective and he wouldn't be doing that if he felt completely justified in what he's doing. I hold him accountable for his actions and I don't excuse him for it. I'm definitely taking him back to court to get what I need and what should've been mine anyway. I hope this outcome is better than our last visit. Even though the last court hearing wasn't fair to me at all, it definitely made a financial impact on him because he hadn't saved any $$. Now he's got to come up with money for his taxes and I'm sure he's pretty scared about this next appeal and how much more he will owe. Can he make it all work? She's scared to death of his emotional connection with me which is why she behaves so badly when he and I talk. Not to mention their financial situation because of his family obligations to us, this has made her bitter and resentful. I have been told by quite a few psychics that we can rebuild our marriage and it will be stronger and better than what it was before, that remains to be seen presently. I'm being objective about that at this time, we've been separated for a little more than 5 months now. The ball is in his court to see whether he makes an effort or not?
Positivethoughts, I think you've really made a breakthrough and some wonderful insight into your own life! You deserve to be loved and you deserve to be with a man who is available and committed to you in every way, emotionally, physically, and spiritually, whether that is your sm or another relationship. It does sound like you still have a connection with him. If Jacqueline has been able to help you find your strength and voice to assist you in teaching you the lessons you need to learn, your money has not been wasted. This personal revelation of self discovery is just what you needed.
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Thanks Angel. I feel like my money has been well spent - once I found who I connected with etc. CP has been a great tool for me. I've decided when he calls me that I'm telling him I just want to be friends for now. I am so very scared to do it but I'm ready to let go. We have a very strong spiritual connection that actually scared me at times - he can read me like a book and knows when I'm sick, when I'm sad, when I'm thinking about making a big move or purchase - even when we haven't talked for weeks. I could write paragraphs about all of the weird stuff that has happened. I know it scares and confuses him as well and I've tried to have unconditional love and patience while he works through his issues but it is impacting me emotionally - for 6 month's - and I have 3 young kids, a career, and a big fun life to live. I'm sick of being sad and lonely. He "feels" me stronger then I "feel" him. I have no idea what he is up to but I can tell when he is going to call. I literally feel the energy coming starting the day before. There is no one else but this group I could share this with - LOL.
They say our souls were ready to meet but physically was too early for him. Maybe it was for me too. I guess I feel lucky that I got to experience this type of connection. I hope I have the opportunity for it continue but it is out of my hands.
I am so ready for the next phase of my life - bring it on finally!!
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also - about CP - like everyone I've had some BAD BAD BAD readings. It took me awhile to find who and what worked for me. It amazes me that some of them actually have a job on CP but maybe they are accurate for someone out there.
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Hi all,
I have been reading this forum since I joined the complain board. I have been hesitating to write this post for quite a while but I guess I am probably one of the "Negative Energies" in this forum. I too have my fair share of calling CP and spending 1.5K over 2 months speaking to psychics whose timelines have passed one by one and yet I have not heard from my ex or whatsover.
I still love him so much. And I wonder how will I ever move on or be emotionally stronger. I too after trying CP who told me so many things that yes he would come back, we are meant to be together, etc. But seeing nothing happened till that, I have asked the tarot lady and Maggie White whom said he is gone forever, I am so confused on who to ask or what will happen.
Of course, I understand the pain that everyone is going through, but in anycase, I have registered 2 accounts with CP unfortunately or fortunately they have merged and both accounts are locked and I cannot log into the page to add money or whatever. Hence I cannot call any psychics! I am proventing myself from calling the Customer Services to sort that out and spend more money.
At the end of the day, like kirakira, I think we all need someone to listen to, someone to offer emotional support and a listening ear to tide us through this. At the end of the day, if we could move on and let go, we would be much happier. A suggestion to thehealer, you may want to create a seperate column for support to each other. I too is looking for epople to talk to and to offer help to anyone who needs it.
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Hi thehealer
Thanks for creating the Lets be Friends board :P. You mentioned that you are free at afternoon or nights at California. Is it 12:10 am over your place? Its now 4:10pm where I am at. Haha. Yes I am in my office surfing the net :P
I know it is of course best to have hopes, but I know that loving someone but not receiprocated is very painful. I seriously have no ideas how you people hang on everyday for months and years. It has been 3 months and I already find it a chore! I wish I could be detached of switch my feelings off. How long can one person be miserable for? Is it worth to wait for years and years and for someone to treat you this way, what makes I think that he wont do it again? Sigh I am so depressed.
My heart tells me that during the time we were together there was a connection and we truely loved each other and now its over. Period. I dun hear anything from him, and I wonder if he feels the same, or if there are any future for between us. I wanted to let go but I still loved him too much. After he wants no strings attached fun. I do not know.
I wish I could know other guys and hopefully find someone who is worth my time, effort and money.
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Hi fmradio - I feel your pain and I'm so sorry. Don't feel like negative energy!!!! This is a place to share all experiences - good and bad. We are all here to try and get through a tough time in our lives.
I'm very afraid to ask this - but - who did you read with @ CP?
Big hugs
PT
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Haha I did write on the complain board and my stories. :P I read with so many Winter, London, Abrielle, Natalie, nevaeh, leo, gail, vicki joy, and some others
http://www.complaintsboard.com/panel.php?action=groups&subaction=viewdiscussions&id=2574&page=7
Most said will reconnect again, but nope, I am still waiting. I have no idea. I juz tried to email, sms and call him these 2 days and no he didnt response.
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fmradio - ok - I remember now. Thanks for the link. I really want to believe they can't all be wrong??? You've called a lot of the favorites from this board. I don't have an answer or opinion - I wish I did. Have they given you advise? ugh - PT
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Seriously I have no idea, haha yes and they cost a bomb especially now they have increased the rates, advise? I have no idea. The only person which I think knows what she is talking about is vicki joy. I used the "test question" on her I ask about his mom, if he is upset, etc, she only said she cannot sense or tell anything about the mum! That is because she is dead! I did not tell her that. The dad is having dementia and he cannot remember him. So yes he is upset about the loss of the parents and the conditions of his dad. All the rest just said they were fine, he is happy and some other nonsense. She said he would contact me in Feb but he would take his problems and emotions on me and there will be preriods of on and off for communications. I have no idea. Is he worth my love if he abuses me like that? In any case, I still love him, because he is able to give me a lot of emotional support initally but now I dun even hear from him. Hypocrite? I have no idea. The storefront psychics like Maggie White, Tarot Lady and another Nathalie something said No, he aint coming back. I know I am in a state of trying to let go but trust me in a week or 2 I think I will be back at square 1 missing him. But what to do? I just have to distract myself, find people who cares and support each other. Hopefully in time I will forget him.
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fmradio - what did miss krystal say? I've heard she really tells it like it is
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I cannot remember I did not take notes and I spoke to way too many people to remember haha. I know she said he would come back. Thats all I know timeframe is dec 2010. That passed.
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fm....I know you feel like all hope is lost and maybe it is or isnt...but if this gives you hope, just because it hasnt happened yet doesnt mean it won't. It's not when it will happen its if...Hun do not give up hope..just move one for now and keep smiling and living your life. You are not meant to suffer. When you are ready emotionally and spiritually including when he is balanced..he will come back. Time lines get screwed up because our guides and spirits do not understand the time realm that we live in. But the fact that so many of the psychics received the same message does say something. And if he doesn't come back t his month or t his year..just know that you will get closure eventually.
I had ex bf that came back after 10 years just to apologize, and thats how I got my closure. So wait..be patient..do what makes you happy..go on dates...find a hobby and most importantly heal yourself and stay beautiful :)
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Also...Ive said this before...at some point all our psychics are telling the truth..each just have a different perspective of it. Things can change based on a decision
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10 years?! Wow did you cling on for 10 years? It is such a long time, how does it feel? I cannot imagine staying miserable for 10 years. Sigh. Right now, I only want to get support, distract myself and move on with life. Life is already enough monotonous. ><
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NO!!! C'mon I was young. I didn't think about him after that. He wasn't for me. My point is Grief is only temporary...you will get your closure eventually...
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Hopefully, I wish we could be together again. If only he is not so selfish. Sigh
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what man isn't! lol
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cjean - how are you doing? Alittle better?
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yes :) I would actually say a lot better. In does get better with time. And I've said to myself whatever I cant handle I'll just refuse to remain in contact with him even as friends. It becomes easier also if you don't know whats going on with the person.
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Oh good, so glad to hear it. I'm sure you still go up and down? I agree about the no contact thing and I'm sure it is driving him nuts
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;)
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In case you guys would like to know, Karma Reward points are on 2/17 this month.
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:'( Ive been arguing with my ex all week. I miss him so much and it makes it hard for me not to be a bitch but its not helping things between us. And I went back to crying again. Ive been doing so well. I just need some time.
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hi cjean i know it is painful but you know it will reduce through time hang in there
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thx fm...I know it will
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Sooooo... Never imagined I'd be dating again, but had a great one last night!! Now I am dying to talk to a great empath about what this guy is thinking of me! What's the consensus? Anyone worth a few bucks?? I've was afraid in my last experience that they were reading my feelings about the person, and things he had felt but no longer did... WHO'S the BEST??
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KiraKira, check out the post under californiapsychics that was created by cjean recently. She was asking for an empath and there was lots of feedback on that topic.
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Kiki -- ugh I just looked it's on the open board that makes me sick!!!!! And I DO BELIEVE CP hacks into emails....they should be shut down for that!!!!
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Seriously? They hack into emails???
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I completely understand what you're going through Kiki! It's torture to feel that way and not be able to do anything about it. I've still had some of it, but it has eased alot.
I couldn't find the post on the complaints board about CP hacking emails? Not that it is right either way, but is it being said that CP hacks our e-mails or the psychics that work for them?
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this is on FB if anyone can watch and see what it's about...
California Psychics® Hey fans, on Feb. 10th at 12 noon PST, you'll have the opportunity to win a FREE 20 min reading. Keep your eyes peeled. The first person to answer will win!
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That is pretty stupid. I don't see the point of hacking into accounts because the pyschics or even us could have more than one account!!!!! If their psychics are communicating with ppl---I am assuming they would use diff accounts---if they didn't they will now lol!!
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HEY EVERYONE! Just wanted to see how everyone's Valentine's Day went! We had 60 degree weather in Pa which was nice...but I have a sick ferret...a pet that me and my ex shared...and it was kinda sad caring for a loved ferret thats probaly going to die in the next few days while my ex is out having a wonderful valentine with his teenage girlfriend. Its almost laughably depressing. I was doing so well with this new guy that I really really liked but he seems to have gone cold on me....something that Michelle and Natalie say is only temporary...but he seems really ehh not into me haha so its like a double whammy....we shall see
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Hi Ilovelola. I'm sorry your valentine's day kinda sucks. So does mine. My ex-husband is out with his awesome girlfriend (tonight was his night with kids but he had 'plans'. No problem - I don't!) and SM is 'who knows where' doing 'who knows what'. I'm enjoying yet another night home. My daughter is sick and will probably spend the next 2 days home from school - missed today - and I feel bad for her because she feels awful (strep).
I was told by my trusted CP's I would have heard from a-hole SM by now but still no word. The only sign that he's still alive is that he finally took his profile down off of a dating web site. Highly doubt he took it down for me!!
That's my update.
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i spent my v day working and sleeping boring
Haha. it so over for me its now 145 pm on Feb 15 Haha
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I went to a wonderful date with my new guy and we had a blast...idk what my sm did. But he did text me happy vday. Im living my life! Im too hot not too! and so are all of you :) hey we should def facebook each other..message me ure info guys :)
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Oh and idk if I told everyone that sm took me out for my bday on Fri...it was emotional. :'(
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CJ....I think we all want to know....what does emotional mean? A good emotional or a bad emotional?
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YAY!!! That's the spirit!!!!!!! ;D
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Oops- cjean- I meant the feeling hot and having a blast (not the emotional one) -of course! ;)
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well yeah a good one bc he told me how he felt about me etc and how he never wants to hiurt me blah blah..he was very sweet and affectionate. I needed to hear those things
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lmao..and yes i was def looking hot! lol. He wanted me BAD!!!!!!!!!! lmao
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Oh god CJEAN...you didn't give it up did you??
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cjean that is awesome! I love the attitude!!!!! So you are with a new guy so do you want SM back? LOL did you give it up???
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Lmao Lola your to funny! You always lighten the mood!! :)
I agree with moneta cjean, great attitude, keep it up!!
My vday was very chill, just relaxed with some tube and my xbox after work lol. I did get a date for Wednesday with a this cute n sexy new girl I met at the mall :) so that's a bonus!!
Hope everyones doing good!!
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yeah well I am seeing someone but of course I want sm back...But I have to live my life...Im 8) I can't sit and feel sorry for myself when theres tns of guys wanting to take me out... :-*
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cjean - you go girl. we only come through this life once.
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we sure do! Besides...if me and my sm are to be together forever than....while Im waiting *patiently and frustrated* I might as well enjoy some treats on the side. ;)
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JB27 - Remember Kiki saying she saw you meeting a girl?? We have such talent here!! You guys could start your own psychic network. :)
by the way JB - I bet the new girl will know what a good catch you are!!
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I think it was aef who said that about JB meeting a girl.
There's lots of activity on here today, and I'm missing about because of work. Boooo.
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Hello! Any of you guys into Law Of Attraction, I love it cause it's so positive and keeps me motivated. Also my spiritual teacher told me:
"If you want something, in order to get it, first you must be OK with not having it"
You know how eastern philosophies are teaching about freeing ourselves from desires and that our desires are our restraints. If we constantly focus on having and wanting something, we are almost pushing it away. Anyone had similar experiences? For me it worked with finances.
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JB - don't forget - we will want details!!! Enjoy your night.
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Haha of course pt I'll fill y'all in in the morning!
And yes kiki it was aef who said that. And at that time I just kinda said "ya right"...and now look lol true story lol
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March is less than 2 wks away!!!!
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Angel - March is around the corner but you know how timing is. although lately things have been spot on. What's going on with you?
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Hey PT, I've been focused on new appeal and mortgage that's about to go in foreclosure. I haven't spoken with my husband in little more than a week and I'm getting antsy. I'm growing increasingly tired of waiting this out because I felt like this would be over last month. I have been feeling anxious about what's going on? I feel like he's up to something right now, we still have this whole income tax standoff. I'm getting ready to file and I'm worried about what he might do? My daughter needs me to file with her as my dependent for her college financial aid, but he hasn't been too concerned about what's best for her. I've got a call back scheduled with Jacqueline in a little while, hope she's got some good news for me!
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Angel - Don't forget timing can be off. I was supposed to be in a committed relationship with SM in November, December, January, February and now March. Things are starting to happen (I think) and I'm psyched but timing can move all over the place. Free will, other people involved, etc etc etc
When it comes to finances (especially with the house), I really really think you should just work with the known facts. If the timing works out great - but pretend you don't even have the info.
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Oh yeah, with the finances I have no choice. It's why I've filed appeal for court and got him to release deed out of his name so I could pursue myself. I'm just so worried that with the change in filing status I'm opening myself up to an irs audit, my accountant has warned me that it is strong possibility. I need to get my tax return filed so that I have money to hire attorney to take him back to court next month. So, it's quite a predicament.
You are so right about the timing and that's the only reason I have some hope because of you and sunshine girl! I'm so happy that things are starting to fall into place for you, you've been patient. I had read with 2 psychics in Sept that told me that his relationship would be over back in Oct, then I followed up with one of those psychics throughout Oct and Nov. She told me that it would be mid-late November, then I stopped reading with her and starting calling CP late November. Then, a couple psychics said late December, most said January. There were quite a few others saying February, there are some who predicted March? We'll see have to see how this plays out!
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Gosh you have a full plate with all of this. Let me know what Jacqueline says. What was alison's timeline?
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who's telling you all these timeline Angel?
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WHERE IS THE HEALER????!!!
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where are u lola! ???
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I just popped in to say hi to everyone. I have been busy lately and don't have a lot of time to chat. I always read what everyone writes, though. I think about you all everyday!!
I had a nice reading with Jacqueline last night. She's so great.
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i hope ure right. I spoke to her last week also. And she had some positive things to say. She did tell me the road wiould be rocky though. And she's not lying............ :'(
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CJean and Kiki what type of info is Jacqueline giving you guys now? Just wondering for comparison?
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whenever I speak to a new psychic I ask: what do you pick up between us two. Jacqueline told me that my sm looks like he will be coming a lot closer to you. He realizes that this can be a lasting and loving relationship and that he does want a committed relationship with me. She picked up on the other person and she said t hat he will help her through this but she sees him ending up with me as a couple. She said that it will take some time though and the road with him will be rocky but there will be a lot more to come from him and how I should continue to stay aloof and protect my heart. she says he's acting the way he is because he wants to smoothe things over and justify his beahavior by manipulating the situation..she told me 10 more months. :-\ *meanwhile I didnt tell Jacky anything..all I asked her was what does she pick up
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what a stubbron man! kiki...he didnt want you to think he was thinking of you during VDay week. OMG man can be so spiteful sometimes.
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He is so incredibly stubborn. And so am I. I think that's one of the reasons he's taking so long to get his ass in gear. And me being stubborn is the reason I haven't given up on this. Well, that and the fact that I love him.
He is not sure how I feel about him -- according to the CPs, he can feel when I'm thinking about him, but he thinks he's imagining it. I wonder if he knew how I felt, if he'd move a little faster? I always assumed he knew how I felt about him. But I suppose HE's the one who broke it off with me, so why would he know how I feel?
My only thing is, I really hope I'm not living in a sick little dream world.
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Wow CJean, 10 months! That's difficult I'm sure, but I guess you kinda knew with the baby situation that it would take a little while. Hope you hear from sm this weekend Kiki, how long's it been since you've talked to him last?
PT, I'm right at the timeframe given to me by Alison for "a shakeup" this month, she said 18th. Alison predicted she would be gone last month around 25th, but of course she wasn't. Alison said they were doing alot of arguing at that time? Jacqueline says there's alot of fighting going on right now? I have been told that for quite awhile now and by several psychics. She said that other woman is pressuring him for commitment. I really wouldn't doubt that this is true, whenever I talk to him seems like he's trying to prove something to her and it seems so phony. Jacqueline says that he will be contacting my daughter 1st this weekend, then me. So, we'll see if that happens?
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yeah I def didnt think he would just leave now while she's preg or while she just had a baby. Im still skeptical about the 10 months also. Seha told me that it would seem like a miracle but I wont need her or any other psychic to see this happen. Yvonne told me that it will seem like an enternity to me. It already does. It's so stressful. Im happy that Im living my life though.
But I just am not too sure if things will happen the waythey say.. remember they always say a time frame and it never happens that way so..it may be longer...
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Angel: you say he's trying to prove something. To who? You or the other woman? what is it that you want angel? Do you want him back?
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It's like he's putting on a show for her, trying to prove something for her; however, he doesn't really put much into it? It comes off as phony and ridiculuous which is alot of the reason I'm sure they are arguing. She tries to get him to be more controlling and just plain mean than he is willing to be. Trust me, he's done more than enough damage, but she is malicious. I've been with this man and loved him for 20 years and I have wanted him back. I don't know if I'll ever be able to trust him and so much damage has been done, it would just depend on how this came together, if it does?
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cjean - for selfish reasons I'm very happy Jacqueline picked up on the situation correctly for you.
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if a man can't be hisself with a woman than something is wrong with that.
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CJJEAN - I am so glad you are living your life!! You go girl...enjoy getting compliments from sexy men and feeling goood about yourself...I know two people that don't feel good...A dumb man who got a chick pregnant hat he doesn't love and a chick who is pregnant to a guy who doesnt love her....
AngelGuided....have you thought about dating? While he is being a dumbass maybe you should date...think of it a vacation for you while his head is in his ass....Atleast men would be complementing you and taking you to dinner....and who knows? If anything 1. you will get confidence 2. you will make your husband jealous 3. It will be a distracction for you..4. you might meet a great guy and say thank god I am not with that stupid ass husband or 6. When you get back with your husband maybe you will have less hurt because you had a little fun =) Just saying! I used the okcupid dating site and I liked it a lot....
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::) oh lola :-*
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aef - do you have any insight as to why timelines get pushed out? I thought I remember reading something on it once. Like if my timeline keeps getting pushed out month after month it could be because I'm doing something wrong - like obsessing? lol
thx
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Hi ilovelola! Yes, I've thought about doing the dating thing. It's just been so long for me, I've been a bit nervous and not feeling ready. Also, with the legal battles I've wanted to be careful to not appear in a relationship, but having dinner, etc is not a crime! I told my husband a couple weeks ago that I was having a great time dating, even though I'm not. Could tell it bothered him. Would just need to find the right type of distraction, this guy was texting me all the time the first few months and everything was sexual. It was a real turn off. He didn't want to go out anywhere, he wanted to come to my home. I said no to that! I don't want someone new coming to my house, especially with my daughter. I wouldn't have minded having dinner or a movie in a public place, but he kept talking about soaking in my hot tub! I've never done the online thing? :P
PT, check out info on "dwelling" to see if you fit the profile. I know I've been guilty of this which may be my problem too? Healer I noticed London was gone again, wonder if she's still sick? Keep having fun with the salsa!
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This is pretty interesting about dwelling. Maybe I put this link in the wrong section of this site.?
http://www.mysticwonder.org/dwelling.html
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Yes, that's an interesting site, it was one of two good ones I found when I was researching this topic.
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Healer -- so glad you got in to get a reading with Seha let us know!!! I love Seha I feel she is a real psychic.
PT -- on the timing -- things get pushed due to a change in the energy. And when you are dealing with soulmates behaviors have alot to do with it. They go off their path...you go off your path...it alters things...that's the free will...you want to experience something or the other person chooses to experience something along the way and it make a slight turn on things but the destination stays the same. And on timing...both people have to be "ready" otherwise the Universe says no no not just yet. That's because the Universe sets you both up for the optimum time so that it works. And...I can't remember who wrote in here somewhere about manifesting and your focus etc...either Libra or Fm I think but that was on the money. What you focus on is what you send out into the Universe. So if you are focusing on this person being separated from you and not taking care of YOU and putting yourself first....then you're not ready. We are all supposed to be walking around like we are the one for this person and we know it! Like we're already with them but we're just not in the physical. So it's kind of like act the part or play the part until it actually happens. That's what manifesting is about. The "I am" statement....I am a megamillions jackpot lottery winner! :) Act like you have no money worries and then you won't! Stuff like that...you focus on lack and you will get lack. So on the timing usually the energy is there for that timing but then something happens like someone takes or makes an action etc....and it changes the energy slightly. It's usually we or they don't follow through on something that makes that energy change a bit.
Now, I will warn you also we can totally change the outcome of what's being read for us by our own actions. You make some huge move or change or contact or something off the wall and your entire outcome will change because that will have totally damaged the situation. That's why I say why call for a reading and then not follow the course of action being recommended to us. When we do that, like trying to force the soulmate to move along faster than it supposed to be, then we are interfering with their experience here...which is why we are all on this plane. The result of those actions and behaviors we make are what is often called karmic. when we drag someone or something else into our situation then we have karma with that person because of our actions. And that changes everything. dont' try to control the situation....let it play out the way it's supposed to.
So all these things are factors with a reading and timing.
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Very interesting aef. Thank you. :) :) :) Another question - can the psychics sometimes see the caller or other person make the "big" off the wall change that changes the outcome?
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Reading through I thought of these lyrics:
i can't make you love me if you don't
you can't make your heart feel
somethin' it wont
here in the dark,in these final hours
i will lay down my heart
and feel the power if you wont
no you wont
cuz i can't make you love me
if you don't
It is my belief, easier said than always done of course, that if you become obsessed with obtaining the love of a person, if you can only focus on this, you will lose yourself while at the same time losing precious days of your own lifetime that should be spent loving the ones who do love you. How many people frustrate or disconnect from their family and friends over these issues?
I think with all these readings and hopes, we must all remember that whether we like it or feel it is against fate or not, the other people involved are entitled to their feelings. And we must ask ourselves why we are holding on to this person so dearly, and possibly, do we really really really want to be with them or do we just want to be right and win? What does that actually even look like? Are we kidding ourselves or holding on to a past memory, forsaking the ins and outs of daily life that make it less than ideal?
Loneliness is like a monster nobody enjoys being captive to, but we cannot ward it off with wishful thinking. We do not create reality by believing we are with a person with whom we are not. We create reality by living each day as it comes and embracing new opportunities to grow and be less selfishly or even foolishly inclined. Your true destiny will unfold beautifully and perfectly if you let it and stop dragging yourself down by being hung up on something that may or may not exist.
Why do I just know this will piss somebody off? Even though it is from a pure caring place... I'm finding this truth for myself and sharing it with you all.
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i like whta you said Kira Kira...it makes sense
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kira - so true!
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This is a total shot in the dark-
Is there any chance for any of the younger ladies here to go on a blind date or an internet date with a blond, clean cut (kinda Abercrombie) maybe late-20s guy with a dog? I've decided to start trying to decipher my dreams. This guy would or will be pleasantly good looking and totally sweet and will be very enchanted with the girl upon their first live meeting.
And this is me just being bad- any chance jb and angel could meeet?!?! hee hee! Just curious!!!
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PT:
http://www.mysticwonder.org/dwelling.html It is so true. While we dwell and obsess about something, in reality we are pushing the energy away.
Great website how did you find it?
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I love it, and I totally needed to read that today!!!
I do think it's best to realize that you are doing your part, and the rest is up to the Universe.
;D
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That's interesting Kirakira! I'm 38, seems like JB is about 10 years younger than me? I'm not even sure where he is located, but I'm in Virginia.
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Angel, all I"m saying is it struck me a long time ago in some conversation and I have no idea about your ages and looks etc. I thought you were in Va and I thought he was near-ish? As for age -ha!- I'm 38 too and my kid's dad is 28!! haha!! (Btw, I'm originally from NC and born in Va.)
Jb seems like a sweetheart and you both seem open to possibilities... I can't help but feel there's a connection or two on this thing! I think there might be a gal for healer too, but not sure who it is!!!! (I'm a total Cupid, I can't help it!!-- That said, more than one couple have married after I set 'em up!!) ;)
SO!! Jb!!! What's up????
Screw it, we're all relatively anonymous here! It's good fun, right? I feel like I know less of other people's stories and have put mine out there in plain view, have messaged a couple of folks, and a couple of ya even know what I look like now and personal contact and a bunch more (gasp!) but really... I must say, it's nice to have this little group of people, for me especially at a time when I lost something that my life had begun to revolve around. You guys have really helped fill that space! Props to healer for setting this up!! We need to meet up in chat again soon! So fun!
And about that eariler question about a mysterious blond guy... CSK or Moneta? I ask you because I so recently had "talked" about stuff with you... ? worth asking! :D
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Maybe Kiki with healer? Who knows? I know healer's out on the west coast.
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haha! I love this! Healer was saying in chat the other night we should all go to Vegas! haha! Can you imagine?
We need a map on this thing with everybody's location marked! Our different time zones and all... I know healer, moneta and I are pacific. We've got like 16 consistent users...
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Well, my SM does kind of have that "Abercrombie" look...but he's not as big of a d-bag as I'd imagine an Abercrombie model to be.
Ha! I think the healer has his heart set on his lady, and I have my heart set on my SM. 8)
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Haha Kiki!! Too funny! Vegas would be fun, have always wanted to go!! When I get some $, of course!
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Libra - I just did a google on dwelling and psychic predictions. I don't even know how I picked it but it does look good. She looks good too. BUT I'm NOT calling. I'm sitting tight. Maybe if my situation stabalizes anytime soon I'll try her. My mental well being can't handle a wacky reading right now so I can't take the chance. haha
SM and I talked Tuesday for a long time and Wednesday for a bit. Now silence. Kid free weekend for both of us which is probably making him break out in a sweat - too much pressure...lol.... I'm laying low.....xxoo to all
Also JB - don't think we haven't notice your silence.........
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Lol oh pt I'm not being silent it's just a pain in the ass to post from my phone. Yesterday was a little hungover so I didn't get around to it...still on my phone, what all ya want me to comment on? =)
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JB - hung over? hummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
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PT- thanks for saying that!!! Long talks, huh? Kid-free weekends, huh? AGH!
Yea, JB, what never could we be talking about?! ;)
(I am cackling in the most sinister way, this is ridiculous!)
Betcha healer's gonna lurk quietly on this one too!! ::)
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Well kirakira you are right I am open to possiblities. But unfortunatley I live in Canada and in the west so it's a little far. Also I'm pretty specific in what I'm looking for ;) nothing against angelguided!! It's not an age thing either just so y'all know haha
A long time ago I think back on the other board I was thinking about angel and healer....:)
Yep pt....a little bit ;)
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oooh!!! angel and healer? I'm glad I'm not the only one being mischievous! So where in Canada are you?! I'm in Oregon, and moneta's in Vancouver! It's so cool how we're all spread out (as far as Singapore), yet have these little regional time zone clusters!
I really wish everyone would post their stories!
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Aef2929, you said:
"Now, I will warn you also we can totally change the outcome of what's being read for us by our own actions. You make some huge move or change or contact or something off the wall and your entire outcome will change because that will have totally damaged the situation."
*Well wait, that might scare some people lol... although what you said about things changing is true, destiny is actually something that is set and can only be delayed but never denied. Fate is what we create and that is what we can "change." There is a quote about this i think it's "Actions are the seed of fate, and deeds grow into destiny." Of course some things are never set in stone but some things we have already decided as souls before we even came to this earth. One thing that is "destined" for me is to have two children. I have two children of destiny, one boy and one girl.
KiraKira you said:
"Is there any chance for any of the younger ladies here to go on a blind date or an internet date with a blond, clean cut (kinda Abercrombie) maybe late-20s guy with a dog? I've decided to start trying to decipher my dreams. This guy would or will be pleasantly good looking and totally sweet and will be very enchanted with the girl upon their first live meeting."
*Was this a dream or did you flip some tarot cards? I have been told i will have a choice between two people (both who are soulmates) but as of right now i only know one of them. The other is supposed to have light brown hair, be on the tall side, in his late 20s, and i don't know if he will have a dog or not but he is suppose to be mature, monogamous, and business-oriented....oh yes, and he is going to pursue and chase me right away.
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CSK- This was a dream. I was in the female perspective, but it's no way gonna be a guy for me, this I know. So I'm wondering if I tapped into one of you because I've been trying to open up and had just discussed pulling some cards for a couple of you. It could be anything... but I've got to start using the stuff that comes at me. And very recently I feel really connected.
This was a first meeting, and she's thinking he's really good looking, better than the image or even photo she had seen. ??
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"This was a first meeting, and she's thinking he's really good looking, better than the image or even photo she had seen. ??"
umm, what? lol you lost me there.
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Wow Canada JB, no offense taken! Kirakira was only having some fun. I think healer is patiently awaiting contact from his sm. Very interesting CSK, sounds like it could be a tough choice !
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In my dream, CSK, whoever this girl and guy are, they are meeting for the first time, and it seems to be either a set up or an internet date, she's only seen his picture (if even that), and is happy that he is way cuter. Ever see the Vampire Diaries? You know the blond guy, he might be the ex of the main girl? Reminded me of him, but not exactly like him. Not especially tall. But kinda flip flops, jeans, button down shirt and a bicycle and a dog.
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lol Hey guys,
I think the matchmaking idea is cute!!! It would be something if anyone on the forum here found their true SM chatting away and don't even know it!!!!!!!! Course, I know it's all in good fun we are all waiting for those damn sm's to fall and hit their head on the cement so some sense could be knocked into them.
Hey JB yeah where are you from? What part of western Canada? I am in Vancouver, BC.
PT: I totally think that things are are falling into place. No kids this weekend--awesome. I think as low key as you are being---if you guys are talking lots and I am sure you are feeling comfortable--bring it up. I'd say "so lets go for coffee/dinner or so you coming over or should I come" lol and see how he reacts to that.
Aef: i think it was aef you were going to go on a date earlier in the week---how did that turn out?
KIKI: haha I think the abercrombie models are hot---I don't think they are d-bags---just the preppy all american dudes hot ones lol..........Jacqueline had said you'd hear from SM this week or weekend----anything?
LOL I missed chat last night---I think I was still so tired from the night before lol!!! I am gonna try to come on later tonight unless I go to my sisters house. It's Fri night---I may even end up going for drinks later. Grrr.
CSK: Dont forget my message I sent you!!!
It was awesome talking to everyone---I love the group you guys---hearing everyones stories and the support everyone offers is fabulous. I know I don't comment too much---I just get busy or lazy but always read!!!!
Have a great night you guys!
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KiraKira.....I am 25 and the boy I am dating is late 20s blonde with a dog....and someone just put a dopplganger up of him which is a male model and he has a dog....hmmmmmmm
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jb - Just want to know if you liked her..................
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So yea, the two in the dream were first meeting and after thinking about it today, I think it's a meeting that is going to happen soon, and should be for someone in my realm (which sadly, consists mostly of YOU GUYS right now!) Before bed, I didn't meditate on anything in particular, but did hold in my mind that I wanted to receive messages, esp ones of hope and good news, and that I'd try to remember it and do something with it for a change! Perhaps I should be more specific about my requests, give that a shot...
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PT- Yeah shes cool. I enjoyed the evening very much :)
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jb- by any chance, are you blond? betw. 5'10 - 6'? medium build? cute, sweet (we know you are already), um, pretty clean cut guy? do you have a dog? did you meet this date of yours for the first time after only a picture or anything like that?
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well yes i did meet her after just seeing a picture of her. We met at the mall on night when i was there for work after i seen a picture of her on a dating site. She only seen a pic of me. I am about 5'10-5'11 medium size and of course sweet and cute lol. but i dont got a dog or have blonde hair...pretty close though :)
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Thanks everyone for bearing with me as I try to figure out who that was about!!!
In any case- the guy was impressed by the girl's creativity/the way she decorated and the girl saw potential she did not expect to find in this guy...
hmm... I'll shut up about it now. And we'll see what's on the menu tonight! ha!
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yes I have an appointment with her next Tuesday
healer- will you please please please let us know about this?? For better or worse?
I am anxious to get a reading when I can scrape up some dough, and I can't decide if I should go with her or VJ...
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kirakira who are you deciding between....VJ and who else?
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Every time I see VJ it makes me laugh because that is what my 6 and 9 year old girls call their, well, you know. LOL
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CSK- Seha
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I was surprised to learn that CP doesn't have technical support on weekends? Evidently, Michelle was having phone system problems last night and calls were being dropped so she went offline and had to cancel all appointments for today until system could be fixed when technical support returns on Monday! I'm thinking at $6.50 a minute, how do they not have around the clock tech support? As much money as CP is making, they could afford tech support.
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So annoying Angel!!
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has anybody been speaking to anyone lately...Im curious ::)
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You know what. I had my readings. With ......... TADA ... OUR OWN INHOUSE PSYCHIC KIRA! Haha. Oh well, I gave up calling anyone and CP, the rates are crazy and the results uncertain. One thing I observed though, Kira's readings is accurate at that moment of time when she did the reading. I.e. any future readings might be correct at the point of reading. If anything changes, like any deliberate action on one side, any problems that arises or due to free will, the future will change and might invalidate the future readings you have just done. I probably think it is the same for Ps readings with CPs. So there is no way to predict the future since everything changes. So yes Time will tell and look at the reality of things. P.S. I am happy with the new guy I am seeing and we are moving fine. Based on the reading by Kira, all looks good, but again we cannot be certain of the future should any events unfold. Time will tell! All the best for you guys.
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The forum is quiet.. So wheres everyone at?
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I wish I could say I was out living my life...I was just home watching tv...Boring...I have no friends this sucks. But as soon as I get back to work Im signing up for some cllasses so I can interact with people away from work!
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Ohhh! Beachgirl! Don't worry, I understand, I feel the same way sometimes. Come visit me in NJ!
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I'll break the silence of updates. Yesterday was my 42rd birthday and I didn't hear a word from dick head SM. He has been missing for almost 2 weeks and I don't even think he knows it was my birthday. I had a great day with family and the night before I went out with a bunch of girlfriends. Last night however was bad. Very sad and depressed. Aef and kiki kept me sane. Today I'm very upset, have been on a major CP rampage, feel like crap because of the $$ but I'm going to a st patrick's day party tonight and plan on getting very drunk. Maybe I'll drunk update later.
I'm letting myself feel this pain, not pretend everything is ok and I'm letting myself sink into CP addition. However, starting tomorrow I will brush myself off.
No need to tell me what a dick SM is. I know it. Even if he didn't know it was my b-day coming and going like this isn't fair.
Who predicted what? For contact, Maryanne said I wouldn't hear for another 2 weeks, Allison said March10-12th, Jacqueline said March 10-12th. Michelle said March 11-12, William said March10th or 14th. My b-day was 11th.
He is clearly not capable of nutting up.
NT (n = negative)
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Hey PT, the Ahole is a dick Head! :P Haha. Happy belated Birthday PT! Just go out, let go and enjoy yourself tonight. All the best, we will hear from you again ya?!
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So sorry PT!!! I'm so glad you're going out with friends and yes, you need a night of fun and alcohol! I did that myself last night and had a good time. I went out with a few people I barely knew, some I had only just met but it was good to get out. Hope you have a terrific time! :D
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pt- 42rd, huh? ;) Just playin'... Please do drunk update later!! haha! I'll be here on pacific time, no date, no love... btw, people are celebrating St Patty's Day tonight?? That's very Irish. 6 nights until Thursday and then ya may as well carry through next weekend too! But seriously, happy birthday and sorry your dude didn't send you any wishes, although I doubt he knew, it took my ex like 6 years to know mine! effers.
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Happy Birthday PT!
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so sorry you feel down. :( Happy Birthday however...and at least you have an excuse to get zooted! cheer up mama
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Hey - Thanks all. I am so lame. I couldn't even go out and have fun and I'm irish.
Kira - I'm alittle shocked. I think you were actually sticking up for the a-hole. :)
:-[
xxoo
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aww...i felt crappy on my birthday also..maybe he will make it up to you like mines did. Don't fret.
I dont think kira was sticking up for him..she just said that maybe he didnt know...but I dont think t hats an excuse for him..he should know...and if he spoke to you he would know
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I'm a little shocked too!! I stuck up for your sm not knowing your birthday and the furnace guy for being a wuss!! haha!!
I guess I just assume most (I said most as not to offend our three guys here) men just don't know anything about relating to us, knowing what's important and acknowledging a good thing when it's in front of them! Or maybe I'm feeling guilty for letting some guy I almost met have it today! haha! He was being too slack so I decided we shouldn't even bother meeting! I wish I could know though what he thought of my email!
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Wow Kira, were you brutal? ???
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You know, I think I just took out all my frustrations with my online dating experience on this guy -because I kept looking (against my very own advice) and saw that he was on the site a lot! But... maybe I don't know why... maybe he was getting messages but not responding, or maybe even seeing if I was there too!! ha! Anyway, he and I had exchanged some very nice emails and I felt pretty bad about it. BUT! He wrote me back today, and was so cool and so I wrote him back and told him I'd still see him if he wanted to knowing how I feel about all this player shit. We'll see...
Meanwhile, the VJ prediction -guy to be sm re-appearing from my past- um, yea, we have a date Tuesday now. I don't even know how this happened or what is going on with us. I haven't seen him since October! VJ said he's coming back and what?!?! I guess she's at least that right... sm? I don't know about that yet... sooooooo weird.
angel- What's up now with furnace guy? New texting happening?
pt- this will be very interesting if he says happy birthday next week... wow...
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Who is the guy you are talking about? Your Tuesday date. The married guy you broke up with?
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Nope, no texting today...haven't heard a thing from him. I texted him yesterday evening to update him about the woman I had met the night before. He thanked me and ended the conversation, that was last I heard from him? :-\
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libra, no, sorry, the married guy is supposed to contact me (in April for what that's worth) feeling "heartbroken, betrayed and asking for money". We'll see. I haven't spoken to him since, and only some emails immediately after but no more. I don't really wanna talk to him, but am curious about his life now.
The Tuesday date is a guy I was with twice in October. We hit it off fine, but had other things going on (romantically and life stuff too), we became facebook friends, but barely communicated until recently. No weirdness or hard feelings at all between us, very casual. I called and asked her if I could look forward to a romance, she said I'd already met him, he was coming back, an October or March connection (which we met Oct and now again March), he's younger and has a son (true, and the only guy I've dated who matches that.) I really don't know, he and I had had an extended messaging that started with a comment on his post a couple weeks before I spoke to her, but I wasn't thinking we'd hang out again. Who knows!
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:o Kira, he will be asking for money? OMG. That's sounds crazy.
Are you looking forward to seeing the October guy?
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yea, libra, that kinda freaks me out! He knows I don't have any money, but I also know he's broke. So... if this is a true prediction, I'm afraid he'll blackmail me!
And the October guy, I'm mostly excited because I will get some action ;) !! haha!
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Blackmail you, about what? :o
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I don't know... there are a lot of photos. :-\
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LOL, well I don't think so. Good that any photos I have taken, were without my face showing. I hope you have a good sex for me Kira, I haven't had any action since last year :-\
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Ok this is cracking me up!!! haha! I'll try, Libra! :-*
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Kira - photo's? lol. I have a really good feeling about Tuesday date. The fact that VJ picked up on the timing etc is way too much of a coincidence.
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Me too, Kira! Seems to be falling into place just as she described....
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Per CP customer service, they evaluate the psychics quarterly, so looks like soon there may be new staff picks and customer favorites.
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Libra - really? Didn't they just do that? It feels like yesterday.
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PT They did that before new year I think, cause Sabrina was a staff pick, and now she isn't. So I wonder if there will be any new ones.
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WELL i HEARD THST THE LONGER THEY KEEP THEIR CUSTOMERS ON THE PHONE THE MORE THEY ARE THE CUSTOMER FAVORITE...HMM WELL I HAVE NOT CALLED CP ...IM VERY PROUD OF MYSELF BUT I WOULD ALSO LIKE TO LET YOU ALL KNOW THAT SINCE I HAVE DISCONNECTED WITH SM...WITH THE HELP OF ARCHANGEL MICHAEL...I HAVE TWO MEN IN MY LIFE RIGHT NOW...WELL ONE IS A GUY I MET IN N OV...WE HAVE MOSTLY TALKED ON THE PHONE...HE IS YOUNGER THEN ME SO I REALLY DIDNT WANT TO START ANYTHING UP WITH HIM BUT HE DID TAKE ME OUT TO DINNER TWICE WHICH IS MORE THEN I CAN SAY AB OUT SM...AND I RECENTLY MADE CONTACT WITH MY FIRST LOVE FROM WHEN I WAS A TEENAGER...I HOPE THATS OK...AND HE RESPONDED BACK TO ME. ONLY THING IS HE IS TAKING A LONJG TIME TO CALL ME...I GAVE HIM MY NUMBER AND TOLD HIM TO CALL ME TO CATCH UP...WELL HE TEXTED ME TODAY AND SAID HE HAS BEEN BUSY BUT HE WILL CALL AS SOON AS HE CAN...THIS SOUNDS LIKE IT INTERPRETS I WILL CALL YOU WHEN IM BORED SO NOW IM NOT SO EXCITED ABOUT TALKING TO HIM...I FIGURED HE WOULD HAVE CALL ME ALREADY AND HE SOUNDED ON EMAIL LIKE HE WAS GLAD TO HEARD FROM ME...MAYBE HE IS LIVING WITH A GF...I KNOW HE IS IN THE PROCESS OF A DIVORCE...I KNOW THIS FOR SURE CAUSE HIS WIFE IS SEEING SOMEONE OPENLY. WHY CANT I JUST FIND A NICE GUY WITH NO DRAMA...MAYBE IT WAS A BAD IDEA TO HIT HIM UP...I FOUND HIM ON FACEBOOK.
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Sigh, all I wanna say is keep meeting people until the right one pops out. What can I say?
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whats wrong fm?
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I wonder...do you guys tell your story to the psychics you speak to or do you just ask them directly :
1. am I going to end up with this person
2. what is this person feeling
3. is this worth it
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I just say "can you tell me about sm", then I let the answer, then I say "what do you see going on with him"? Most of the time, I get all I need to know from these two questions.
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I always say, I have a relationship question, then they usually ask names, and then I let them talk. Or I say what is going on with that person now.
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a lot of them can tell you how that person is feeling at the time but it seems like predictions are really difficult for most of them
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I dont think any psychic should say any prediction at this point bc it doesnt always happen as planned. I think its more of an evaluation based on feelings and track record and personality which makes them make such predictions.
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Is it normal to feel increasing dread before a date? :-[
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AngelG, are you going on a date with the teacher?
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I'm actually going out with someone new that I met online. I wouldn't exactly say we are going out. He has a panic disorder so he can't get more than a few miles from his home, so I am meeting him at the home he shares with his Dad to watch a movie. Are you seeing all the red flags that I am? :-\
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OMG are you serious? A panic disorder? He must be on medication, or have meds available around when he feels like he's going to have one. You better find out what triggers his attacks. Anyway have a good time. Let us know what happens.
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He doesn't take any meds. They were prescribed, but he didn't take them. He knows how it began, but has just been unable to get past it. He can't get more than a few miles from his home or the panic sets in and he has to go home. He is attractive and very nice, but I just didn't have a connection with him. It was very awkward, so after a couple hours, I told him that I needed to head home.
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lol. yikes!
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Trouble is....he really likes me. Became clingy very fast. I don't know how to nicely get rid of him. I don't want to hurt his feelings, but I'm just not interested.
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Oh boy! AngelG. Clingy is not good. Does he know your story? You can always say that you are busy with the divorce, you have a daughter that needs you, etc. Im sure you won't have to wait for text messaging from this one...
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LOL, no Libra...I think there would be regular contact!! He doesn't text though, very old school. He calls me and he chats on yahoo. He called me last night less than an hour after I left his house and he tried to chat with me a couple times up until midnight, but I wouldn't respond. I did send him a message and chat briefly, but then he made a couple more attempts that I ignored.
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Oh my. Sounds like a bit obsessive, just be careful, he might be an emotional drama person. It's nuts that he called you right after you left. Be safe.
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I never heard anything from clingy guy yesterday, so maybe that problem will resolve itself? Who knows? Interestingly enough though, I saw teacher/furnace guy last night. I had confirmed that I might go to Clocktower last night earlier in the week and the band that was playing was one of his favs. He didn't respond as to whether he was going or not all week, this is very strange because he usually replies that he's going as soon as the events circulate on facebook. I think I beat him to the punch. Well, I called Ellen yesterday for a reading and asked her about it. I was wondering if he was apprehensive or avoiding going because of me? She said that she thought he had other plans? Last night, a couple hours before it started he confirmed that he was in fact going. I was a little nervous, but decided to go because I had already said that I might go and he knows that I have went the previous 2 weekends, so I felt comfortable that he wouldn't think I was stalking him.
It was awkward. In the very beginning, seemed like he avoided me but within a short period of time he approached me and said that he did not recognize me which may have been the case? I haven't actually seen him in a month. He chatted with me for a few minutes and then someone else got his attention and he chatted with them for a little while. He came back over to tell me bye. He hugged me when he approached me both times. I just said, ok, good to see you and don’t be a stranger. He said, ok and walked over to the far corner of the room. He looked very uncomfortable throughout the night, almost like he felt out of place. I was with a couple friends from high school and there were several very young guys at our table. He was sitting right next to the bar and a little later I went over to get a drink and he winked at me, but there was so much sadness in his face, I mouthed are you doing ok and he said yeah. So, I headed back over across the room. The 2 women that I was with were kissing and behaving inappropriately which made me uncomfortable, so I sent him a text saying that I hadn’t seen these women since school, I didn’t know they were lesbians. He and I exchanged a few texts. A little after midnight he sent me a text saying….Sorry I had to leave and that he wasn’t feeling well. I replied a short time later…so sorry….it was good to see you, feel better.
I just don't know what to think about him? So confusing....
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Drop it, AngelG, sounds like the furnace guy is confused and doesn't know what to do. He must have a lot on his mind. From our point of view things seem to be always so easy, but usually people struggle with a lot of emotions, insecurities, decisions. Especially men have trouble expressing it.
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Yes, so true...he's definitely struggling with something.
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Angel - Is his profile still down? It sounds like he has issues right now and maybe best to let him "be".
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Yep, I checked a couple days ago and his profile was still down. Yes, I think he's dealing with some stuff, he was friendly when he approached me, even though it did seem a little awkward. He showed me a bike he purchased and talked about a class he was taking. He was pulled away by someone else, so our conversation was brief.
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"Well, I called Ellen yesterday for a reading and asked her about it. I was wondering if he was apprehensive or avoiding going because of me? She said that she thought he had other plans? Last night, a couple hours before it started he confirmed that he was in fact going. "
so, angel, i guess Ellen was wrong about that?
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So, I'm curious what do you search in order to come across this forum? I have not been able to find it using what I would think would work? Obviously new folks are locating it, so if you don't mind please let me know what terms you use to locate it.
Thanks!
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I have to create some incoming links to it, and then it will show in the search engines. I haven't had time for that yet.
thehealer
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How is it being found?
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Does anyone else feel affected by Mercury Retrograde? It ends this coming Saturday, April 23rd.
Maybe someone who's a bit more into astrology can shed some light on how this is affecting our moods, relationships, etc. ???
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All I know is I can't wait for the 23rd to pass. I HOPE the passing helps.
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Me too! I know that it affects communication and I have been feeling like my thinking is foggy...just not a clear connection with my thoughts? I felt like it was improving a little today? But, I was told in a reading by an astrologer 2-3 months ago that mercury retrograde would occur every month this year!
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Everything seems to be going just fine I have had several predictions come to pass :) Elvin did start contacting me in December like Jacqueline said he would, however, it was two weeks later then she predicted and we talked everyday for like three months then it stopped cause I got mad at him, then he called me in March like Jacqueline said he would for a real chessy reason the reason was I just called to tell you that I am praying for you. Then In april I called her again and she said I would hear from him by that weekend however it was a week off. I am waiting for us to get engaged in june and married in november :) like was predicted.
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Greys Anatomy I like that I usually watch that Buffy the Vampire slayer, Angel and Glee on netflix it is real good!!