The Psychic Reviews
Relationship Psychology Discussions => The Vent => Topic started by: Jili1945 on September 07, 2019, 07:32:27 AM
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Hi all,
I’ve been getting readings since 18 months ago, non-stop. I’ve tried many readers on different platforms and spent thousands of dollars on that. In almost all of these readings I just had one certain question which was about reconnection/reconciliation/contact with my POI. I got many many timeframes that never came to pass. I never heard from him, even one word.
Later I learned that some of the predicted contacts was the ones which supposed to be made by me in near future (not an exchange communication). Kisha could clearly see those ones. I give her credit for that.
Some of the readers were great in describing current feelings and emotions. Kisha and Yona were top ones but neither could get the contact on a right timeframe. Zadalia can also be included. She is a very nice lady btw. She is an empath though and won't be able to give an accurate prediction (per herself).
Some of the readers gave me a very close timeframe (e.g. POI will contact tomorrow) and made me emotionally devastated. Just imagine how impatiently I was waiting for contact in those few days/hours. Tara and Charlotte (both in CP) are two examples. Sometimes I think if it is possible they made up the story? And if so, then they did not think about my emotional feelings and how much I can get hurt when timeframe comes and goes? Hope not, hope they were honest and just things changed.
Mattie was super expensive and could never give me a piece of information that is worth paying that much. I don’t recommend calling her, unless you are super rich and don’t know what to do with your money.
I read with Cookie two times, after a couple of months waiting in her queue. I liked her remote viewing skills but it was not something that I was interested in at that time. I needed to know more about the future. She could not even give me a timeframe. Just some friendly advice.
Effie, Tajah, Matilda, Indio, Anastasia, Sage, Sharman Kira, Miss LisaM, lotusoflight, Micah, QoC18, Prophet Rose, etc were all way off. I will never get back to them.
I saw a couple of Shelly’s Markers but not all of them. The prediction was for May and nothing happened.
I spent a lot on getting reading with Yazmin from Kasamba. She kept holding me on to hope for over one year and finally disappointed me. I don't recommend her at all.
And lastly, Sincerity. Nice lady but I am not positive about her predictions. She could definitely see the 3rd party clearly. She could get the feelings and current emotions but a couple of her predictions already failed.
Anyways, One and a half year passed. I am reaching to a point to feel like I want to rid my mind of POI thoughts and stop (or at least reduce) getting readings. I am not sure how successful I would be but at least I’ll try.
I always had a wish to come here one day and share with you all my success story and tell you who got the contact right and how well things went. Unfortunately it did not happen. :'( Maybe one day it happens, who knows :)
Overall, Kisha and Yona were the only ones who gave me decent readings. It does not mean that all my experience with them was positive, but overall they are "pass". Kisha was great when I asked her about my POI, not for the other people (e.g. colleagues). It means that she can read high energies much better. I wish Yona could do better in giving precise timing, but she even does not claim this. So, it's fair. She is super super nice though. I love the way she talks with me and gives the advice: exactly like a mom :)
I thought sharing my story might help the folks who are new to the world of the reading. Reading is not cheap and it's always good to share our honest experience here to help each other.
What about you guys? Have you ever had a contact prediction to come to the pass after several months (not a few days/weeks) silence and being out of contact? If you don't mind, please share your experience.
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I know how the feeling is. I got addicted all of last year and not one thing happened, only the opposite. This year I relapsed on another new situation and again nothing happened. The controversial reader seemed most realistic which is why I liked her in the beginning but it could have been common sense that he would always be in and out as long as I let him, but never commit. He hasn't returned. She also gave me someone else to come in with specific features which hasn't happened and I am open and looking.
I don't regret getting readings because it taught me many lessons and experience, but it would have been nice to have had one reader at least be right. 99% of people on here have small things at least happen with their go to readers but I'm in the minority that hasn't had luck with relationship readings. I now use my gut on things for free and it hasn't let me down. As for your question - nope, never heard from an ex or someone serious further down the line. The only types of guys I hear from are friends who fell out/lost contact, guys who keep thinking they can sway my mind and take me to bed when I've made it clear no, or on dating apps where you talked once like 6 months before and they pop up occasionally. The only guy serious(ish) I've had come back is a FWB situation rebound situation where we were both in a bad place and seeing each other and it got serious with us both so he pulled away not ready. He came back a month later and apologised and periodically he has reached out since then (almost 3 years ago). We actually had contact this week since not talking since the New Year. The problem is, he wants "fun", and I'm not about that anymore and have moved on.
I think that with exes returning it's horses for courses and some have luck or whatever
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@Star_01:
Thanks Star for sharing your reading experience. I totally understand what you're saying. I also agree to not regret for getting readings. Overall, it was an exciting experience, something that I had not experienced before but I wish, as you said, I had also more luck. Although I had some minor predictions (like trip, promotion, bonus, etc) which played out, non of the romantic predictions related to POI came to pass. Something that was the main purpose of the reading and the other minor things was showing up along the reading without asking.
And thanks for sharing your stories with your POIs. Hope things go as you wish.
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Did Kisha say you would hear from this person?
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Hey Jill great follow up! My ex that broke up with me that caused me to start getting readings went quite a couple of times . The first time Lady p said he will contact me in a month and Yona said soon well he did contact me within the month like they said and he was overall quite for 4 months. The next time he went quite Yona said he will contact me before the summer and I read with her in March 2018 after 10 months of him being quite I got contact May 2017. Then in October 2017 I cut him off . Yona said that I will hear from him again I told her it’s not happening because I blocked him and I also told him never to speak to me I ended up unblocking him because I did want to update you guys if she was right well a one year and a half later in June 2019 he contacted me. It was short because I honestly didn’t care anymore or love him anymore. I’m regards to contact Yona has suprisingly been the most accurate other people would give me number and the time would pass or they would say he won’t contact but Yona got it right and she also got most of the things right on what would occur between us . She always said we wouldn’t get back together even though we had chemistry and it was ongoing
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I have a love/hate relationship with these posts 😕
I love when people come the realization that readings aren’t working for them but then it’s so crazy to see the breakdown of how many people were inaccurate.
From what I’ve seen, both personally and from family and fiends, most exes have came back. My brothers have all went back to their exes at some point.
Statistically around 40-65% of couples break up and get back together. That’s a pretty high number. Now, I wonder if this is those ‘breaking up for a day and getting back together’ things or legitimate breakups. I don’t consider it a breakup unless it’s being longer than a week with absolutely no contact.
I wonder why so many people on here don’t have their POI return? Or maybe they do and just don’t update - there’s a lot of users that just disappear from this forum.
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@Star_01:
Thanks Star for sharing your reading experience. I totally understand what you're saying. I also agree to not regret for getting readings. Overall, it was an exciting experience, something that I had not experienced before but I wish, as you said, I had also more luck. Although I had some minor predictions (like trip, promotion, bonus, etc) which played out, non of the romantic predictions related to POI came to pass. Something that was the main purpose of the reading and the other minor things was showing up along the reading without asking.
And thanks for sharing your stories with your POIs. Hope things go as you wish.
Jill thanks for your nice words. I too have had small things happen but not relationship wise, in my career or home life areas. I too hope that you get what you wish in life and sorry that things didn't work out for you but things happen on purpose and hopefully this leads to you meeting someone special.
And Apalm I don't know if that question is for me or not but yes she did.
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Hi all,
I’ve been getting readings since 18 months ago, non-stop. I’ve tried many readers on different platforms and spent thousands of dollars on that. In almost all of these readings I just had one certain question which was about reconnection/reconciliation/contact with my POI. I got many many timeframes that never came to pass. I never heard from him, even one word.
Later I learned that some of the predicted contacts was the ones which supposed to be made by me in near future (not an exchange communication). Kisha could clearly see those ones. I give her credit for that.
Some of the readers were great in describing current feelings and emotions. Kisha and Yona were top ones but neither could get the contact on a right timeframe. Zadalia can also be included. She is a very nice lady btw. She is an empath though and won't be able to give an accurate prediction (per herself).
Some of the readers gave me a very close timeframe (e.g. POI will contact tomorrow) and made me emotionally devastated. Just imagine how impatiently I was waiting for contact in those few days/hours. Tara and Charlotte (both in CP) are two examples. Sometimes I think if it is possible they made up the story? And if so, then they did not think about my emotional feelings and how much I can get hurt when timeframe comes and goes? Hope not, hope they were honest and just things changed.
Mattie was super expensive and could never give me a piece of information that is worth paying that much. I don’t recommend calling her, unless you are super rich and don’t know what to do with your money.
I read with Cookie two times, after a couple of months waiting in her queue. I liked her remote viewing skills but it was not something that I was interested in at that time. I needed to know more about the future. She could not even give me a timeframe. Just some friendly advice.
Effie, Tajah, Matilda, Indio, Anastasia, Sage, Sharman Kira, Miss LisaM, lotusoflight, Micah, QoC18, Prophet Rose, etc were all way off. I will never get back to them.
I saw a couple of Shelly’s Markers but not all of them. The prediction was for May and nothing happened.
I spent a lot on getting reading with Yazmin from Kasamba. She kept holding me on to hope for over one year and finally disappointed me. I don't recommend her at all.
And lastly, Sincerity. Nice lady but I am not positive about her predictions. She could definitely see the 3rd party clearly. She could get the feelings and current emotions but a couple of her predictions already failed.
Anyways, One and a half year passed. I am reaching to a point to feel like I want to rid my mind of POI thoughts and stop (or at least reduce) getting readings. I am not sure how successful I would be but at least I’ll try.
I always had a wish to come here one day and share with you all my success story and tell you who got the contact right and how well things went. Unfortunately it did not happen. :'( Maybe one day it happens, who knows :)
Overall, Kisha and Yona were the only ones who gave me decent readings. It does not mean that all my experience with them was positive, but overall they are "pass". Kisha was great when I asked her about my POI, not for the other people (e.g. colleagues). It means that she can read high energies much better. I wish Yona could do better in giving precise timing, but she even does not claim this. So, it's fair. She is super super nice though. I love the way she talks with me and gives the advice: exactly like a mom :)
I thought sharing my story might help the folks who are new to the world of the reading. Reading is not cheap and it's always good to share our honest experience here to help each other.
What about you guys? Have you ever had a contact prediction to come to the pass after several months (not a few days/weeks) silence and being out of contact? If you don't mind, please share your experience.
Hi Jill - thank you for sharing your story. To answer your question - I had 12 months of silence and being out of contact before I received contact/had predictions pass.
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Did Kisha say you would hear from this person?
Alpam, the short answer is YES. Kisha has been one of those readers who never said this friendship is over.
I started getting reading with Kisha last Oct. On first reading she saw number 2 for re-connection. Nothing happened in 2 though (unless it is 2 years). I had a general reading in early 2019 and POI came up there too, without asking. Again with number 2. However, in all these reading she mentioned that she cannot say how "far" or "close" is this reconnection.
I had a phone reading in Feb and she saw reconnection in warmer month. Again nothing happened in summer.
In recent readings (both email and phone) she did not give me a timeframe any more but still insisted that we will have a chance to see each other again and clear things up. She also mentioned that it's not far off.
In terms of the timeframe Kisha never gave me something very specific. As I mentioned above just a simple number. However, Kisha did a great job in capturing feeling and emotions and describing our situation which was definitely unique and she could not guess (the way we got know each other and got disconnected).
And interestingly enough, Kisha could see my communications with POI. For example, if I sent him an email and then called Kisha, she said: guides say you already sent an email lol or once she predicted a communication "soon" with all details. I totally forgot about that. Later I got back to that reading and found that I sent an email to POI a week after reading and all that Kisha said was true.
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Hey Jill great follow up! My ex that broke up with me that caused me to start getting readings went quite a couple of times . The first time Lady p said he will contact me in a month and Yona said soon well he did contact me within the month like they said and he was overall quite for 4 months. The next time he went quite Yona said he will contact me before the summer and I read with her in March 2018 after 10 months of him being quite I got contact May 2017. Then in October 2017 I cut him off . Yona said that I will hear from him again I told her it’s not happening because I blocked him and I also told him never to speak to me I ended up unblocking him because I did want to update you guys if she was right well a one year and a half later in June 2019 he contacted me. It was short because I honestly didn’t care anymore or love him anymore. I’m regards to contact Yona has suprisingly been the most accurate other people would give me number and the time would pass or they would say he won’t contact but Yona got it right and she also got most of the things right on what would occur between us . She always said we wouldn’t get back together even though we had chemistry and it was ongoing
Lovefash, I loved your story :)
Yona always made me sure that he will be back and apologize and so on. She always picks him up by herself and I never ask. Last Oct, she said I need several months gap to be objective. Recently, she mentioned the reconnections happens soon. Hope her predictions for me play out too, as happened for you :)
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Hi Jill - thank you for sharing your story. To answer your question - I had 12 months of silence and being out of contact before I received contact/had predictions pass.
Hi Snow-White: That's amazing. Would you mind sharing with us who had predicted this reconnection?
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I have a love/hate relationship with these posts 😕
I love when people come the realization that readings aren’t working for them but then it’s so crazy to see the breakdown of how many people were inaccurate.
From what I’ve seen, both personally and from family and fiends, most exes have came back. My brothers have all went back to their exes at some point.
Statistically around 40-65% of couples break up and get back together. That’s a pretty high number. Now, I wonder if this is those ‘breaking up for a day and getting back together’ things or legitimate breakups. I don’t consider it a breakup unless it’s being longer than a week with absolutely no contact.
I wonder why so many people on here don’t have their POI return? Or maybe they do and just don’t update - there’s a lot of users that just disappear from this forum.
Girly, I agree with you. Regarding reader's inaccuracy, the probability is very high. Some of them are great in getting past and present but I rarely saw someone can see future clearly.
And yes, when I look at the old post on this forum, I see the members who were very active in the past, disappeared all of a sudden. Maybe they got tired and preferred to stop getting readings and get back to normal life ...who knows.
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I think psychics should not be counted on at all, but something like contact from an ex especially. I've never had a psychic say, "this will happen at such and such a time" and be right..they will surely just guess or take a "logical approach" to when they think something will happen. Of the predictions that were correct for me, most happened years later. The longest was 12 years and that was concerning a career that I was not thinking of entering. Its bittersweet. If you use psychics at all use them for general readings or to poke at a specific issue. But still, live your life and make your own decisions. Contact your ex yourself and see what happens...it will save you a lot of money. Good luck.
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I have a love/hate relationship with these posts 😕
I love when people come the realization that readings aren’t working for them but then it’s so crazy to see the breakdown of how many people were inaccurate.
From what I’ve seen, both personally and from family and fiends, most exes have came back. My brothers have all went back to their exes at some point.
Statistically around 40-65% of couples break up and get back together. That’s a pretty high number. Now, I wonder if this is those ‘breaking up for a day and getting back together’ things or legitimate breakups. I don’t consider it a breakup unless it’s being longer than a week with absolutely no contact.
I wonder why so many people on here don’t have their POI return? Or maybe they do and just don’t update - there’s a lot of users that just disappear from this forum.
For the most part, using psychics is a losing game. Especially concerning issues that are dear to you. Most people are calling about dead end situations especially, thats why most POIs dont come back. Most posters on here dont come back because nothing came of their readings. Its sad, but true. Use psychics for entertainment or for a curious but skeptical peek about the future. Nothing in life matters until it actually happens.
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I have a love/hate relationship with these posts 😕
I love when people come the realization that readings aren’t working for them but then it’s so crazy to see the breakdown of how many people were inaccurate.
From what I’ve seen, both personally and from family and fiends, most exes have came back. My brothers have all went back to their exes at some point.
Statistically around 40-65% of couples break up and get back together. That’s a pretty high number. Now, I wonder if this is those ‘breaking up for a day and getting back together’ things or legitimate breakups. I don’t consider it a breakup unless it’s being longer than a week with absolutely no contact.
I wonder why so many people on here don’t have their POI return? Or maybe they do and just don’t update - there’s a lot of users that just disappear from this forum.
For the most part, using psychics is a losing game. Especially concerning issues that are dear to you. Most people are calling about dead end situations especially, thats why most POIs dont come back. Most posters on here dont come back because nothing came of their readings. Its sad, but true. Use psychics for entertainment or for a curious but skeptical peek about the future. Nothing in life matters until it actually happens.
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I think psychics should not be counted on at all, but something like contact from an ex especially. I've never had a psychic say, "this will happen at such and such a time" and be right..they will surely just guess or take a "logical approach" to when they think something will happen. Of the predictions that were correct for me, most happened years later. The longest was 12 years and that was concerning a career that I was not thinking of entering. Its bittersweet. If you use psychics at all use them for general readings or to poke at a specific issue. But still, live your life and make your own decisions. Contact your ex yourself and see what happens...it will save you a lot of money. Good luck.
Definitely. Alot of people calling readers on their relationship are in on and off situations/unhealthy where the ex likely is popping his head up and disappearing. Also when a reader says they won't return/no reconciliation, it's just common sense and 50/50. Unless they can give specific details about his return/not returning. I agree about contacting the ex yourself to get answers and taking what readers say with a pinch of salt because that way you can't get addicted, your hopes up and get hurt and in debt.
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I have a love/hate relationship with these posts 😕
I love when people come the realization that readings aren’t working for them but then it’s so crazy to see the breakdown of how many people were inaccurate.
From what I’ve seen, both personally and from family and fiends, most exes have came back. My brothers have all went back to their exes at some point.
Statistically around 40-65% of couples break up and get back together. That’s a pretty high number. Now, I wonder if this is those ‘breaking up for a day and getting back together’ things or legitimate breakups. I don’t consider it a breakup unless it’s being longer than a week with absolutely no contact.
I wonder why so many people on here don’t have their POI return? Or maybe they do and just don’t update - there’s a lot of users that just disappear from this forum.
For the most part, using psychics is a losing game. Especially concerning issues that are dear to you. Most people are calling about dead end situations especially, thats why most POIs dont come back. Most posters on here dont come back because nothing came of their readings. Its sad, but true. Use psychics for entertainment or for a curious but skeptical peek about the future. Nothing in life matters until it actually happens.
I somewhat agree - it doesn’t matter until it actually happens but if you have a desirable outcome you need to take appropriate actions to get there. Obviously calling psychics doesn’t help you get to where you want to be necessarily but I think hypothetically their empathetic abilities and remote viewing can help you make decisions. If your POI straight up tells you no then yeah let it go. Calling psychics will only prolong your hurt. You can love someone and still say no.
I disagree that most people call about dead end situations. Most people on here call for general readings and their POI comes up without being asked about.
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Hi Jill - thank you for sharing your story. To answer your question - I had 12 months of silence and being out of contact before I received contact/had predictions pass.
Hi Snow-White: That's amazing. Would you mind sharing with us who had predicted this reconnection?
Of course, np :) - Off the top of my head, Mattie(CP), Abundant Visions, Sunny (CP), Angel Readings (Bitwine), Preexa (CP) (those are the most accurate with regards to the prediction of reconciliation and timing) I read with Cookie I think days before it happened and she was so confident it would but didn't give timing. I read with many others fresh off the break up that saw a reconnection but thought it would be wayyyy earlier so I won't mention them, but I guess you can say they were right on outcome. Some even saw no connection. Haha someone on Keen was so mean and when I had a dream about him I went to her to ask about him and what it meant, and she said he doesn't even think about me at all and its just me (which was wrong). So you really have to be careful who you read with and thats what I did in 2019, I really got picky/selective. Mattie, Abundant Visions, and Angel Readings were the ones to give me the most validations and got so many specifics right that I was able to confirm after.
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Hey snow thanks for the update!
But if you don’t mind could you tell us who was wrong and who saw earlier connection but it was later?
That would also help soooooo much!
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Hi Jill - thank you for sharing your story. To answer your question - I had 12 months of silence and being out of contact before I received contact/had predictions pass.
Hi Snow-White: That's amazing. Would you mind sharing with us who had predicted this reconnection?
Of course, np :) - Off the top of my head, Mattie(CP), Abundant Visions, Sunny (CP), Angel Readings (Bitwine), Preexa (CP) (those are the most accurate with regards to the prediction of reconciliation and timing) I read with Cookie I think days before it happened and she was so confident it would but didn't give timing. I read with many others fresh off the break up that saw a reconnection but thought it would be wayyyy earlier so I won't mention them, but I guess you can say they were right on outcome. Some even saw no connection. Haha someone on Keen was so mean and when I had a dream about him I went to her to ask about him and what it meant, and she said he doesn't even think about me at all and its just me (which was wrong). So you really have to be careful who you read with and thats what I did in 2019, I really got picky/selective. Mattie, Abundant Visions, and Angel Readings were the ones to give me the most validations and got so many specifics right that I was able to confirm after.
Thanks Snow White! That's interesting and I am happy that at least some of your predictions came to pass. I read with Abundant Vision as well. I remember she gave me 2 and 6 but so hard to interpret it. I lost chat history when she left keen. But I don't think she said something significant. I read with Mattie 5 times. Except the first time that she said March/May, she avoids giving a timeframe. She said timing is very difficult with this guy but she was positive in outcome. I have not read with Angel readings yet.
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What about you guys? Have you ever had a contact prediction to come to the pass after several months (not a few days/weeks) silence and being out of contact? If you don't mind, please share your experience.
Yes and no...both exes I called about eventually did come out of their silence, after years, but did so in very nasty ways. None of the predictions came true about how or why it would happen, or what it would lead to.
Other people, psychics led me to believe wouldn't talk to me anymore, still do. Go figure.
Thanks Still tired!
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Hi Jill - thank you for sharing your story. To answer your question - I had 12 months of silence and being out of contact before I received contact/had predictions pass.
Hi Snow-White: That's amazing. Would you mind sharing with us who had predicted this reconnection?
Of course, np :) - Off the top of my head, Mattie(CP), Abundant Visions, Sunny (CP), Angel Readings (Bitwine), Preexa (CP) (those are the most accurate with regards to the prediction of reconciliation and timing) I read with Cookie I think days before it happened and she was so confident it would but didn't give timing. I read with many others fresh off the break up that saw a reconnection but thought it would be wayyyy earlier so I won't mention them, but I guess you can say they were right on outcome. Some even saw no connection. Haha someone on Keen was so mean and when I had a dream about him I went to her to ask about him and what it meant, and she said he doesn't even think about me at all and its just me (which was wrong). So you really have to be careful who you read with and thats what I did in 2019, I really got picky/selective. Mattie, Abundant Visions, and Angel Readings were the ones to give me the most validations and got so many specifics right that I was able to confirm after.
Thanks Snow White! That's interesting and I am happy that at least some of your predictions came to pass. I read with Abundant Vision as well. I remember she gave me 2 and 6 but so hard to interpret it. I lost chat history when she left keen. But I don't think she said something significant. I read with Mattie 5 times. Except the first time that she said March/May, she avoids giving a timeframe. She said timing is very difficult with this guy but she was positive in outcome. I have not read with Angel readings yet.
Thanks Jill! I find reading with Gaylene/Abundant Visions, my readings are best over the phone - I avoid the chats. And timing is so hard, at least with my guy it was for readers too so I understand and can relate. Best thing for you to do is focus on you and moving things forward in all aspects of your life and follow your intuition - keep the energy up!
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I disagree that most people call about dead end situations. Most people on here call for general readings and their POI comes up without being asked about.
I agree...I see stories here where people call about things that do not sound like dead end situations at all.
I used to ask about a variety of different things...it did not matter if it was something that had reached a dead end or not. They just did not get outcomes right for me.
I agree too. I did have an x reach out after months as predicted but it was not good :'(
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I agree too. I did have an x reach out after months as predicted but it was not good :'(
Oh, sorry that it did not work. Did someone get it right in your readings? Just wondering.
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Thanks Jill! I find reading with Gaylene/Abundant Visions, my readings are best over the phone - I avoid the chats. And timing is so hard, at least with my guy it was for readers too so I understand and can relate. Best thing for you to do is focus on you and moving things forward in all aspects of your life and follow your intuition - keep the energy up!
Thanks Snow White! Maybe I try her one more time. And appreciate for kind advice.
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I feel like exes come back most of the time. Isn’t it human nature lol. All my exes and Even unimportant flings have come back when they realized what they lost and grass is only browner on the other side. I’ve never had an ex come back just for frivolous things. even the most stubborn of men came begging for forgiveness. If you know nothing can compare to your relationship just let the universe do it’s work. They’ll come back. In the meantime just focus on yourself and let the past of what happened go. It happened that’s it. You don’t want that old relationship back, you want a new and better one.
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I think we all have different experiences with ex coming back. Some of us are lucky or whatever word you would like to use and have all the men at our feet begging for us back and others have exes come back because they want sex or something else which they haven't got elsewhere and it's that sudden lightbulb moment that you were the one to give it to them.
My friend has had all of her exes come back and at first they put on the charm to soon lead to needing money or one guy hadn't contacted her for 5 years and popped up wanting sex because his new wife isn't giving him any.
My friend's ego blows up when she messages me omg guess who just contacted me and then when they end up wanting something, she's like "uh... oh". I will say that from her experience (as none of mine ever came back) leopards don't seem to change their spots and they continue the same behavioural pattern months or years before. Each person is different when it comes to exes and their motives of returning.
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I think we all have different experiences with ex coming back. Some of us are lucky or whatever word you would like to use and have all the men at our feet begging for us back and others have exes come back because they want sex or something else which they haven't got elsewhere and it's that sudden lightbulb moment that you were the one to give it to them.
My friend has had all of her exes come back and at first they put on the charm to soon lead to needing money or one guy hadn't contacted her for 5 years and popped up wanting sex because his new wife isn't giving him any.
My friend's ego blows up when she messages me omg guess who just contacted me and then when they end up wanting something, she's like "uh... oh". I will say that from her experience (as none of mine ever came back) leopards don't seem to change their spots and they continue the same behavioural pattern months or years before. Each person is different when it comes to exes and their motives of returning.
True, they don’t always come back for good reasons. Although, you’re going to know their character before they come back as well. If they were a pig then they’ll more than likely be a pig now. I have one that pops his head up every now and then telling me he loves me but I know all he wants is a hookup - that’s pretty much all our “relationship” was to begin with.
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I think we all have different experiences with ex coming back. Some of us are lucky or whatever word you would like to use and have all the men at our feet begging for us back and others have exes come back because they want sex or something else which they haven't got elsewhere and it's that sudden lightbulb moment that you were the one to give it to them.
My friend has had all of her exes come back and at first they put on the charm to soon lead to needing money or one guy hadn't contacted her for 5 years and popped up wanting sex because his new wife isn't giving him any.
My friend's ego blows up when she messages me omg guess who just contacted me and then when they end up wanting something, she's like "uh... oh". I will say that from her experience (as none of mine ever came back) leopards don't seem to change their spots and they continue the same behavioural pattern months or years before. Each person is different when it comes to exes and their motives of returning.
True, they don’t always come back for good reasons. Although, you’re going to know their character before they come back as well. If they were a pig then they’ll more than likely be a pig now. I have one that pops his head up every now and then telling me he loves me but I know all he wants is a hookup - that’s pretty much all our “relationship” was to begin with.
Yeah very true, lol we all know a guy like that 🙄
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I feel like exes come back most of the time. Isn’t it human nature lol. All my exes and Even unimportant flings have come back when they realized what they lost and grass is only browner on the other side. I’ve never had an ex come back just for frivolous things. even the most stubborn of men came begging for forgiveness. If you know nothing can compare to your relationship just let the universe do it’s work. They’ll come back. In the meantime just focus on yourself and let the past of what happened go. It happened that’s it. You don’t want that old relationship back, you want a new and better one.
Thanks Ladya for your kind note!