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Title: Third Party in readings
Post by: Spaceship29 on August 30, 2018, 09:30:38 PM
Do they all say the person is manipulative?

Controlling?

anybody ever get a reading where the reader picked up on a third party and said something different?
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: Sparkle002 on August 30, 2018, 09:42:10 PM
I'm curious about this too. Every time a reader picked up a 3rd party the person was always manipulative, crazy, evil etc.
Have they ever said that they were nice, compassionate, etc?

But the funny part is, in my case this was always the case. The 3rd party was always actually a negative person.
My current POI even showed me texts from his baby mama that were batshit crazy.  :P
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: Spaceship29 on August 30, 2018, 09:53:37 PM
I'm curious about this too. Every time a reader picked up a 3rd party the person was always manipulative, crazy, evil etc.
Have they ever said that they were nice, compassionate, etc?

But the funny part is, in my case this was always the case. The 3rd party was always actually a negative person.
My current POI even showed me texts from his baby mama that were batshit crazy.  :P

right same, like I almost don't want to believe them but then it;s like are they just telling me this to be happy

its like one of the only things they have been right about anytime Ive read
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: sawthelight on August 30, 2018, 09:57:34 PM
Do they all say the person is manipulative?

Controlling?

anybody ever get a reading where the reader picked up on a third party and said something different?

Yep. Stock lines they use. Smh
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: psychic girls on August 30, 2018, 10:07:25 PM
Do they all say the person is manipulative?

Controlling?

anybody ever get a reading where the reader picked up on a third party and said something different?
Yep stock line they used for everyone. They also used stock line like it won't last long, it not love.
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: Seeker23 on August 30, 2018, 11:53:45 PM
Yes. Of course it is common and believable thing. It very well could be true they are being influenced or manipulated by another. 
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: star1 on August 30, 2018, 11:56:38 PM
I had multiple readings recently, and one or two said the ex is in a relationship. I didn't get any bad mouthing about the new girl, mostly the typical "he's backing off from her and she's wondering where he's gone to" crap. Although that's what my ex did with me with his back and forth behaviour. Yes I got the, "he's missing you and realising what he's lost and going to come and contact you" bs too
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: Spaceship29 on August 30, 2018, 11:59:12 PM
I had multiple readings recently, and one or two said the ex is in a relationship. I didn't get any bad mouthing about the new girl, mostly the typical "he's backing off from her and she's wondering where he's gone to" crap. Although that's what my ex did with me with his back and forth behaviour. Yes I got the, "he's missing you and realising what he's lost and going to come and contact you" bs too

see now that is different.

like you never get a read that says they have mutually decided they were not right for each other or the other person is backing off to focus on themselves

its this person is a bad person.

I even had one tell me they practiced black magic and was placing a spell on them. I quickly ended that.
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: star1 on August 31, 2018, 12:04:03 AM
I had multiple readings recently, and one or two said the ex is in a relationship. I didn't get any bad mouthing about the new girl, mostly the typical "he's backing off from her and she's wondering where he's gone to" crap. Although that's what my ex did with me with his back and forth behaviour. Yes I got the, "he's missing you and realising what he's lost and going to come and contact you" bs too

see now that is different.

like you never get a read that says they have mutually decided they were not right for each other or the other person is backing off to focus on themselves

its this person is a bad person.

I even had one tell me they practiced black magic and was placing a spell on them. I quickly ended that.

Most readers say there is no one around him, 3 have said yes but one contradicted themselves in my reading. The other two said it's been 3-4 weeks online and that he's already began backing from her. I think if it was a situation where he ran off with someone else from me or I actively knew he was with someone, they'd make her out to be bad. But where I'm in the dark about it, they make out it's nothing serious to be worried about kinda thing.
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: psychic girls on August 31, 2018, 12:18:16 AM
The thing is if you lied to them they don't even known it. Tell them that your poi had someone and they will tell you yes there is someone around him that is very controlling so he can't come forward but it won't last long he will come forward very soon.
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: Dreamer23 on August 31, 2018, 12:40:25 AM
I had psychics tell me third party that the girl is nice or he likes her and there is nothing wrong with the relationship. So it's not always negative, at least that's what I've experienced.
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: JonesCDee on August 31, 2018, 12:55:10 AM
I had psychics tell me third party that the girl is nice or he likes her and there is nothing wrong with the relationship. So it's not always negative, at least that's what I've experienced.

Same here. Had one reader years back tell me that his current relationship was the one for him and they got married. Never had a reader say anything negative about a 3rd party
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: star1 on August 31, 2018, 01:07:07 AM
I had psychics tell me third party that the girl is nice or he likes her and there is nothing wrong with the relationship. So it's not always negative, at least that's what I've experienced.

Same here. Had one reader years back tell me that his current relationship was the one for him and they got married. Never had a reader say anything negative about a 3rd party

That's gotta be sore to hear  :'(
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: Dreamer23 on August 31, 2018, 01:16:58 AM
I had psychics tell me third party that the girl is nice or he likes her and there is nothing wrong with the relationship. So it's not always negative, at least that's what I've experienced.

Same here. Had one reader years back tell me that his current relationship was the one for him and they got married. Never had a reader say anything negative about a 3rd party

That's gotta be sore to hear  :'(

I also had one psychic tell me the third party is not a good person and she is sleeping around. So basically I heard everything from good to bad, but they were all psychics I didn't trust and didn't read with them again because they were vague and didn't make me believe that they connected to my situation. I also asked them if POI is dating, they never told me on their own. So I didn't buy into what they said too much, they didn't sound genuine.

My go-to psychics did not say any of those things. But that's a digression.

I guess my point is that psychics can tell you everything...from good stuff to bad stuff, and it varies from person to person.
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: star1 on August 31, 2018, 01:20:46 AM
I had psychics tell me third party that the girl is nice or he likes her and there is nothing wrong with the relationship. So it's not always negative, at least that's what I've experienced.

Same here. Had one reader years back tell me that his current relationship was the one for him and they got married. Never had a reader say anything negative about a 3rd party

That's gotta be sore to hear  :'(

I also had one psychic tell me the third party is not a good person and she is sleeping around. So basically I heard everything from good to bad, but they were all psychics I didn't trust and didn't read with them again because they were vague and didn't make me believe that they connected to my situation. I also asked them if POI is dating, they never told me on their own. So I didn't buy into what they said too much, they didn't sound genuine.

My go-to psychics did not say any of those things. But that's a digression.

I guess my point is that psychics can tell you everything...from good stuff to bad stuff, and it varies from person to person.

That's the huge, addictive issue with psychic readings. One readers says one thing, another says the opposite. A couple tell me he's seeing someone, most say no. Some tell you she's not good a partner for him, others say they're content.
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: Spaceship29 on August 31, 2018, 03:28:44 AM
I have had readings pick up a third party.  But ALL say it is over and they both know it is over.  Nothing majorly negative about her but many psychics say that he bores  him and he knows he is bored.

I also have several psychics tell me they have best friend energy but not lover or in love energy and he is trying his hardest to make it work but inevitably it will not because of the dynamic.

that's different

idk in my instances though. it's later to be confirmed to be true, except the whole black magic stuff. lol
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: Lady_C on August 31, 2018, 10:21:00 AM
Do they all say the person is manipulative?

Controlling?

anybody ever get a reading where the reader picked up on a third party and said something different?

In reference to the current POI I had a small number of psychics that I can think of say there's a third party around, describing her as quiet with good chemistry and they spend a lot of time together because they are loved up but in the same breathe they all read my overall situation so inaccurately I had to check in with my trusted psychics who counteracted what they said which made more sense as why the likelihood of this happening right now is very slim.

There was another time where I was talking to this guy casually where we were contemplating dating and I discovered some pictures of him with a girl on Instagram. My go to psychic described her girl as toxic, drama queen who loves to start arguments and it wouldn't last. within 3 months they were finished me and the POI stopped speaking for a short while BUT resumed contact and he told me his now ex was negative, stubborn always picking fights and very high maintenance so my trusted psychic was correct.
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: Seeker23 on September 02, 2018, 12:31:16 AM
Do they all say the person is manipulative?

Controlling?

anybody ever get a reading where the reader picked up on a third party and said something different?

In reference to the current POI I had a small number of psychics that I can think of say there's a third party around, describing her as quiet with good chemistry and they spend a lot of time together because they are loved up but in the same breathe they all read my overall situation so inaccurately I had to check in with my trusted psychics who counteracted what they said which made more sense as why the likelihood of this happening right now is very slim.

There was another time where I was talking to this guy casually where we were contemplating dating and I discovered some pictures of him with a girl on Instagram. My go to psychic described her girl as toxic, drama queen who loves to start arguments and it wouldn't last. within 3 months they were finished me and the POI stopped speaking for a short while BUT resumed contact and he told me his now ex was negative, stubborn always picking fights and very high maintenance so my trusted psychic was correct.

I have recieved manipulative many times. One psychic did mention a third party without me saying anything and said it is a lady from his past.

She was accurate in that or good guess on her part. I asked what was going on.

I am still overcoming the embarrassment the situation has caused me and he had caused me. It comes off as cruel.
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: Sooshi on September 02, 2018, 12:52:19 AM
Do they all say the person is manipulative?

Controlling?

anybody ever get a reading where the reader picked up on a third party and said something different?

In reference to the current POI I had a small number of psychics that I can think of say there's a third party around, describing her as quiet with good chemistry and they spend a lot of time together because they are loved up but in the same breathe they all read my overall situation so inaccurately I had to check in with my trusted psychics who counteracted what they said which made more sense as why the likelihood of this happening right now is very slim.

There was another time where I was talking to this guy casually where we were contemplating dating and I discovered some pictures of him with a girl on Instagram. My go to psychic described her girl as toxic, drama queen who loves to start arguments and it wouldn't last. within 3 months they were finished me and the POI stopped speaking for a short while BUT resumed contact and he told me his now ex was negative, stubborn always picking fights and very high maintenance so my trusted psychic was correct.
Which one is your trusted psychic? You can pm me if you'd prefer.
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: lovelacetito on September 02, 2018, 07:38:42 AM
Do they all say the person is manipulative?

Controlling?

anybody ever get a reading where the reader picked up on a third party and said something different?

In reference to the current POI I had a small number of psychics that I can think of say there's a third party around, describing her as quiet with good chemistry and they spend a lot of time together because they are loved up but in the same breathe they all read my overall situation so inaccurately I had to check in with my trusted psychics who counteracted what they said which made more sense as why the likelihood of this happening right now is very slim.

There was another time where I was talking to this guy casually where we were contemplating dating and I discovered some pictures of him with a girl on Instagram. My go to psychic described her girl as toxic, drama queen who loves to start arguments and it wouldn't last. within 3 months they were finished me and the POI stopped speaking for a short while BUT resumed contact and he told me his now ex was negative, stubborn always picking fights and very high maintenance so my trusted psychic was correct.

I have recieved manipulative many times. One psychic did mention a third party without me saying anything and said it is a lady from his past.

She was accurate in that or good guess on her part. I asked what was going on.

I am still overcoming the embarrassment the situation has caused me and he had caused me. It comes off as cruel.

Who is ur trusted psychic pls ? Pm me too
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: star1 on October 03, 2018, 07:03:53 AM
3rd party doesnt always mean another person.... it can be a "married" to a job, past relationships bagagge. Just to throw that out there.

That is very true, I've had that happen to me recently. The reader starts off asking who the other woman is, then they say it's baggage from the past relationship with her.
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: star1 on October 03, 2018, 07:08:26 AM
3rd party doesnt always mean another person.... it can be a "married" to a job, past relationships bagagge. Just to throw that out there.

That is very true, I've had that happen to me recently. The reader starts off asking who the other woman is, then they say it's baggage from the past relationship with her.


exactly!!!! they dont tell you that at first i learned that bc i started doing tarot myself and reading to that i definitely learned the hard way..... it could just be them not fully letting go of an ex lol

Aghh. Readings can be so complicated!
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: Sooshi on October 03, 2018, 09:32:02 PM
3rd party doesnt always mean another person.... it can be a "married" to a job, past relationships bagagge. Just to throw that out there.

Let's not muddy the terminology we use on here. When I ask about a third party, I want to know about a third person in the situation, not baggage or whatever else is convenient for the reader to come up with.
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: Sooshi on October 03, 2018, 09:53:44 PM
then you should ask is he seeing/interested/sexual with someone else besides you currently.... 3rd party is a open-ended answer.

It's really not. Third party refers to another human being. Not nebulous ideas like "emotional baggage". 
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: Sooshi on October 03, 2018, 10:34:54 PM
I'm not confused in the least, the definition is pretty clear cut.

Quote

third par·ty
ˈˌTHər(d) ˈpärdē
noun
1. Someone who may be indirectly involved but is not a principal party to an arrangement, contract, deal, lawsuit, or transaction.

A reader who can't tell if there's actually another person interfering in a relationship or if someone is just hung up on their past is a pretty shitty reader.
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: moonstar on October 10, 2018, 02:47:42 PM
Do they all say the person is manipulative?

Controlling?

anybody ever get a reading where the reader picked up on a third party and said something different?

In reference to the current POI I had a small number of psychics that I can think of say there's a third party around, describing her as quiet with good chemistry and they spend a lot of time together because they are loved up but in the same breathe they all read my overall situation so inaccurately I had to check in with my trusted psychics who counteracted what they said which made more sense as why the likelihood of this happening right now is very slim.

There was another time where I was talking to this guy casually where we were contemplating dating and I discovered some pictures of him with a girl on Instagram. My go to psychic described her girl as toxic, drama queen who loves to start arguments and it wouldn't last. within 3 months they were finished me and the POI stopped speaking for a short while BUT resumed contact and he told me his now ex was negative, stubborn always picking fights and very high maintenance so my trusted psychic was correct.

Hi Lady_C who is your trusted psychic? You can PM me if you want. thanks!
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: Kate on October 11, 2018, 01:24:58 AM
you have to be careful with "3rd party" some psychics say that for you to come back to ask more questions...

The only psychics that picked up a third party with my POI that I was not in contact with last year for a long time.. and eventually reconnected with him and found out he was dating.. were...

Cookie - 100% accurate.. with who he was dating, seeing, significant women in his life..and how things would pan out between us... so so damn good.

Lady P sensed someone else but thought it could be an ex she was seeing (wrong.. but not totally inaccurate)

Sweethearts tarot saw someone else in the cards and warned me he may be with someone else when we reconnected.. she was good last year on the current..

QoC - didn't read with her much last year before I connected with him again, but on one of the very few short reads I had with her, she said he had other female energy around him

Everyone else.. everyone.. numerous readers.. Advisor N, Lotus, Zadalia, Keisha, everyone on BSD and anyone with a marginally good reputation on Keen who have picked up third parties before for others on this forum -  I read with so many I (thankfully completely out of that cycle now and will never go back) - didn't see it..

Although I should say, that Advisor N has been pretty accurate on other stuff that different empaths didn't pick up.. 

Reconnecting with him and finding out how wrong 99.9999% of psychics had been on current and future broke my cycle of readings, leaving me with no more than 3 psychics now who I turn to now when I need advice as I have found their advice to be so very accurate and useful. 
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: Sparkle002 on October 11, 2018, 12:19:33 PM
My random thought on 3rd parties - if you are not in a committed relationship with the POI, most likely there is always a 3rd party (like 90%) of the time. Most men aren’t just by themselves.. In a relationship, the likelihood of a 3rd party is 50/50 specifically if you feel like you have to call readers.

I don’t know but I always follow the rule of 3, usually when I meet a new guy - I assume he is already talking to at least 3 women in some capacity. I mean if you are single, you should be dating (if you want to of course) ...so the presence of a 3rd party is very likely. I know this is a big assumption, but I’ve found that I’m almost always right lol

Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: marciamia on October 11, 2018, 12:30:28 PM
you have to be careful with "3rd party" some psychics say that for you to come back to ask more questions...

The only psychics that picked up a third party with my POI that I was not in contact with last year for a long time.. and eventually reconnected with him and found out he was dating.. were...

Cookie - 100% accurate.. with who he was dating, seeing, significant women in his life..and how things would pan out between us... so so damn good.

Lady P sensed someone else but thought it could be an ex she was seeing (wrong.. but not totally inaccurate)

Sweethearts tarot saw someone else in the cards and warned me he may be with someone else when we reconnected.. she was good last year on the current..

QoC - didn't read with her much last year before I connected with him again, but on one of the very few short reads I had with her, she said he had other female energy around him

Everyone else.. everyone.. numerous readers.. Advisor N, Lotus, Zadalia, Keisha, everyone on BSD and anyone with a marginally good reputation on Keen who have picked up third parties before for others on this forum -  I read with so many I (thankfully completely out of that cycle now and will never go back) - didn't see it..

Although I should say, that Advisor N has been pretty accurate on other stuff that different empaths didn't pick up.. 

Reconnecting with him and finding out how wrong 99.9999% of psychics had been on current and future broke my cycle of readings, leaving me with no more than 3 psychics now who I turn to now when I need advice as I have found their advice to be so very accurate and useful.

i didnt say all would be wrong but you do have to keep it in mind some say 3rd party to make people come back more.....

Some nut job on Bitwine tried to do that to me and I knew like one million percent that it was wrong  >:(  omg I was furious!!! Lol
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: Spaceship29 on October 17, 2018, 01:32:54 PM
Usually they actually mean a person and will distinguish if they are busy at work or will actually say they have hang ups about a past lover

When I get third party in readings they actually mean a person and goes on to describe this person. Some have been right and I later found out their description was true
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: Spaceship29 on October 20, 2018, 12:57:35 AM
I'm curious about this too. Every time a reader picked up a 3rd party the person was always manipulative, crazy, evil etc.
Have they ever said that they were nice, compassionate, etc?

But the funny part is, in my case this was always the case. The 3rd party was always actually a negative person.
My current POI even showed me texts from his baby mama that were batshit crazy.  :P

i mean a nice person wouldnt have a 3rd party.... it would be a manipulative person lol

it really depends on the context because it wasn't a cheating scenario.

Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: Sparkle002 on October 27, 2018, 02:49:49 PM
I'm curious about this too. Every time a reader picked up a 3rd party the person was always manipulative, crazy, evil etc.
Have they ever said that they were nice, compassionate, etc?

But the funny part is, in my case this was always the case. The 3rd party was always actually a negative person.
My current POI even showed me texts from his baby mama that were batshit crazy.  :P

i mean a nice person wouldnt have a 3rd party.... it would be a manipulative person lol

it really depends on the context because it wasn't a cheating scenario.
EXACTLY!!! It’s just someone who is interfering; family, friends, long-distance..etc. just someone/something that is causing a barrier between the two of you.  This is a perfect example your POI isn’t cheating with his baby mama she is just causing drama in his life right now which stresses you out too. He may not be cheating with her sexually or anything like that.

EXACTLY!!
Title: Re: Third Party in readings
Post by: Spaceship29 on November 01, 2018, 02:07:22 AM
An example for me was she was single and a reader accurately picked up her meeting someone new in a specific month

Like we weren’t together. Just kind of talking. No commitments

I’ve had third party comeup on my end and I’m single. Meaning I would meet someone that would take my attention away