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Relationship Psychology Discussions => My Story => Topic started by: MidwesternSun on October 08, 2019, 10:19:13 PM
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Well, I think it is time... to post my story and then finally, finally leave this site, and all of the psychic sites.
Long story short, an ex broke up with me last February. At the time, I felt it was out of fear or anxiety. To this day, I believe that those elements contributed to the break-up at least in some small way. At any rate, shortly after the break-up, in my suffering and anguish, I turned to psychic websites including an in-person reader locally in my town.
I've read with far too many to name, but I also read with some "big hitters" like Cookie, Mattie, Kisha, and Yona.
Mattie was beyond impressive. Without me saying, Mattie said my ex's name, her mother's name, exact places, visual descriptions of places and physical features, songs that we would listen to, etc. I have no doubt that Mattie has, if no other gift, a remote viewing capability.
During both of Yona's readings (including this most recent one about a week ago), Yona pointed to 'a person that I am longing for... someone from my relatively recent past' would reconnect by the end of the year. We would discuss things, and I would have a choice as to whether or not I'd want to invite her back into my life. I read with Kisha twice over the spring/summer and she also indicated the same timeline and similar decision that I would have to make. Both Kisha and Yona had plenty of validations and timelines. In fact, Yona's two predictions from her first reading came two and in exactly the time frame that she indicated. Needless to say, I was blown away.
I have read with Cookie three times since April. Now, the first reading with Cookie shook me to the core. I am not exaggerating but she nailed EXACT time lines, emotions, conversations, places, etc. During all three readings, Cookie indicated that my ex and I would start back talking towards the end of the year and I would have a choice. That said, Cookie also mentioned that I would end up with someone else, but the choice would be there. During the last reading with Cookie (last month), Cookie stuck by her end of the year time frame, perhaps a bit into January, that I would hear from my ex... my ex would test the waters to see if I would receive her. However, she would notice that I was at least dating someone and would try a bit harder to pursue me.
There were numerous other readers that said my ex and I would end up back together.
Until today. Today, at about 7am, my ex posted to her facebook a Happy 6 Month Anniversary to the guy she has been seeing, and further stated that she is completely in love with him. She never did that public declaration for me when we were together. Needless to say, I was a bit shaken by this... I mean, after all, if the 'big hitters' are saying that I am going to reconnect with her by the end of the year, then why is this happening?
So, in the end, I believe all these readers were wrong. Dead wrong.
In Cookie's last reading, she said, "You could find out that they had been hanging out for about a year... but she is going to find out about something about him. She could find out that he is not what she thought. She is going to be completely blindsided by this man and she is going to be extremely hurt. She won't run to you right away, but I see her heart completely broken. He is living a double life with someone else. You could even hear that... something about an engagement, something about an engagement or family or something like that. But she is going to be completely blind sided when this happens and it will break her."
I don't know anything about this guy other than they've known each other for years through mutual friends and church. It may be possible that Cookie is right about the 'blind-sided' thing, but I am not counting on it.
I am just going to chalk it up to Cookie being wrong and the ex has made her choice and is gone forever.
Life is what it is.
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I'm so sorry Midwestern. This sucks. Did Cookie and Yona say romantic reconnection? I know for me I take what they say and fit it to my own context at times and I really have to stop myself. Just because they see reconnection it could be one text about something insignificant or just as friends. Its heartbreaking for sure and my heart goes out to you.
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Sorry... that sucks :(
Big hugs to you! Hope you find your peace back very soon and meet someone good who makes you happy.
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Yona referred to the reconnection as romantic. Cookie said something similar but, on several occasions, said that someone better was coming.
Kisha said that my ex would come around the holidays and by the end of the year, we would have to decide what we wanted from each other and the relationship. The decision would be mine because the ex will want me.
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Wow. That's pretty specific. I hope you find what you are looking for and what you deserve in your life.
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Oh my, this broke my heart for you. I could not imagine and dread the day I may have to. I can’t believe nobody picked up on this relationship.
I hope you can find some peace and that whatever you want to happen will still happen someday. ❤️
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I’m really sorry this happened and I know that sinking feeling, but I also know that Facebook or social media in general LIES! Crazy things can still happen.
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I'm really sorry to hear this. I think that this goes to show that readers really truly can't see the future, even though they validate the present so fantastically (which is probably what reassures us). I was addicted all last year and tried the top readers too who couldn't have gotten things more wrong (they too didn't pick up on a relationship at all!) and again this year but didn't try anybody mentioned off of here. I hope whatever happens next for you in life you can look back one day and say well it's sad my ex didn't come in, but then I couldn't have met someone else special who was meant for me. And at least you will save money now from these readings. Best of luck.
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Welp like I said in Yona’s thread she can definitely be wrong when it comes to predictions especially romantic . All this posts were people reported that she expresses they will get back with an ex or rekindle seem to always never happen. I’m sorry you had to go through this . I guess the positive in this is at least you know the answer now. You no longer have to hope and wait . Your story has really touched me today I was feeling anxious and went on Kiesha’s website contemplating whether or not I should get a reading . This story confirmed that I should not . We really should take what is in front of us as the truth unless things are going in the direction of reconciliation (talking with ex , meeting up,ex expressing romantic feelings ) then there’s just no way the prediction will happen . I wish you the best of luck and happiness
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I am sooo sorry this happened to you. :-[ Listen now you can move on from psychics and start a brand new journey and leave the addiction and gain back control to your life.
I agree with star, they are only good at validating what has already been written in the past and the present. Half of them are taking an educated guess at our lives. It will hurt now but I feel you will feel a weight lift off you shoulders and you can start a brand new story and experience, life on your terms. Once you get to that state you will attract an amazing person in your life on your own with no help from these " Angel whisperers" or is it "devil whisperers"
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I am truly sorry to hear about this and you had to go through such an emotional heartbreak. Readings do gives us instant gratification and hanging on to the predictions gives us hope and hope leaves us with disappointments. This site is really great supporting and helping each other. So, please feel free to PM me if you are looking for someone to talk to. My heart goes for you and Big HUGS to you.
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So sorry to hear this, i hate to pry...but did they pick up a 3rd party? or was this a total surprise to you?
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So sorry you had to go through this, MWS. I really think that dwelling on these readings slows the wheel of fortune down. That wheel needs to keep on turning so that each of our life stories continue to unfold. For you, it seems as if there is somewhere else you need to be, and this was a push to move along and be on your way. It’s kind of like if the fool tarot card were to meet the wheel of fortune. In a more religious sense, it’s faith, the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. I wish you well.
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So sorry to hear this, i hate to pry...but did they pick up a 3rd party? or was this a total surprise to you?
Several of them picked up a third party...
In the last reading, Cookie indicated that she saw my my ex and her boyfriend having sex. That was something we were saving for marriage, but who knows? Maybe she was right. She did see me having sex while my ex was gone... and that was true. Cookie also repeated (several times) he is cheating on her. I see him with other women, some times in the same day. She doesn't know yet, but maybe she suspects, but she will eventually find out." Kisha also indicated a male energy near her but was going to trick her. Mattie also said he was cheating.
In our first reading three months ago, Yona referred to (presumably) my ex as a 'Twisty Lady.' Not that Yona disliked her, but indicated that my ex didn't have much experience dating until she met me. Which was true. Yona explained, "She is discovering her power... she likes to be in control. She is exploring her power in the dating pool... not a bad thing, but she is realizing that there's a world here that she has largely ignored. She is not sleeping around, but is looking for the connections in her life that she desires." The first card in the first reading was The Devil - which I guess usually indicates that the rest of the reading will eventually occur?
In the first reading, Yona referred to my ex as Queen of Cups. In this reading last week, she appeared as Queen of Swords. The first card was Lovers (decisions). She did immediately say, "There is a meeting come up but I see that you are going to get some information here very soon that you did not previously have and that you needed to know. Not a major thing, but something you needed to know." She also said, I see a lot of orange around you (increasing strength) and some red. She continued to say the challenge over the next few months is an emotional one.
Now, at this point (within first six minutes of reading) and she referenced this in the last reading, "You are going to have an emotional battle... not with others, but with your self. You don't have all the information, you don't have all the details. You may see doom and gloom but this person whom you are thinking about is not giving you all the information - 5 of Cups crossing. You can't form an accurate picture, though your intuition has not been entirely off.
She did say, "Within 3 or 4 months you will experience the diminishing of fear of loss. In other words, you will either be over a person or you will have heard from them and gotten together. I don't know which one, but I think communication because communication keeps standing out."
So who knows... maybe things will drastically change over the next three or four months. I have a sneaking suspicion that they won't and these readers were wrong.
Life goes on.
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I'm wondering if your ex posted that on social media to put it out there to other females they are together because she has her suspicions? Sorry just speculating. I think for me I would be too hurt to take her back. That is your decision and your decision alone but I have a feeling you wouldn't take her back either. I think there is a lot under the surface of these readings that we aren't told and when it comes out we are usually dumbstruck.
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I'm wondering if your ex posted that on social media to put it out there to other females they are together because she has her suspicions? Sorry just speculating.
Meh, I have been told by more than a few people that Cookie has predicted things, or explained the state of things, that at the time, the listener did not want (or could not) believe but later found out to be true. So, it is possible. But I don't think my ex is the type of girl to play those games.
Yona did mention that upon her return, my ex and I would have, not arguments, but disagreements about perspectives. It wouldn't be heated but we would have differing view points. But I think that's really... really... really stretching things at this point.
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Hi,
I’m so sorry this happened to you and I really hope that you will soon heal from this. But question, how were the readers wrong? I know they didn’t get the full picture of things but from reading the story it seems like they were pretty accurate on what is to come. If they gave you a time frame up until the end of the year isn’t it too early to say they were all wrong? Also I saw a post a few months ago were you stated that you saw the FB post back in June.
I’m not defending readers at all nor am I telling you to keep holding on to the situation because I’am also trying to live forward from this life. But I’m just curious to how they were so wrong?
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Hi,
I’m so sorry this happened to you and I really hope that you will soon heal from this. But question, how were the readers wrong? I know they didn’t get the full picture of things but from reading the story it seems like they were pretty accurate on what is to come. If they gave you a time frame up until the end of the year isn’t it too early to say they were all wrong? Also I saw a post a few months ago were you stated that you saw the FB post back in June.
I’m not defending readers at all nor am I telling you to keep holding on to the situation because I’am also trying to live forward from this life. But I’m just curious to how they were so wrong?
Well, to be perfectly honest, Yona, Cookie, Mattie, etc... didn't give an exact time frame as to when my ex and her boyfriend would break up. They just said, "By the end of the year, you two will communicate and you two will meet up after some communication. Yona did say, 'There is a gap in communication between the two of you and will be for a period of time.' Previously, she mentioned, "You will have a brief communication... you won't talk about what you want to talk about and you mustn't rush anything... and then there will be a gap in communication for likely months and not weeks. Do not let your heart get the best of you."
Mattie, Cookie, Rusty, Kisha, and a few others... all indicated that the boyfriend was a cheater and living a double life. Very recently, Queen of Cups described it as 'The slow death... they are drifting apart and she knows it.' Several other readers indicated "Nothing physical between them... he's a magician and shadow." Cookie did say, "You could find out, by the time you two start communicating... that they have been together for a year. I see her dating someone else before she reaches out to you. But I see her reaching out to you... I see her inviting you to church." She also practically screamed 'I guarantee this prediction.' I have had a few friends listen to the Cookie readings (who also normally read with her) and they were all shocked because none of them have ever heard her say things like that to them.
So, technically, you are correct... the time frame is not up yet. But this is behavior she never exhibited when we were together. She seems much more open with her feelings, so I am thinking it is authentic. I'd be really surprised if she posted these pictures as a means of trapping him. She doesn't play games.
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Very good point mrrrrh2!
Thank you for clarifying midwestern, again I’m so sorry this all happened to you. Wishing you lots of peace and love to come <3 please update us if anything happens
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I’m really sorry this happened and I know that sinking feeling, but I also know that Facebook or social media in general LIES! Crazy things can still happen.
I agree with Bean82, you never know what goes on behind closed doors. Im sorry midwesternsun, my heart goes out to you and Im here if you ever want to talk. <3
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Kind of eerie how similar your situation is to mine. It isn't exactly the same but there are some similarities. As for social media I wouldn't worry about it. A lot of it can be a front to make it seem like it is great but in reality it probably isn't so. This isn't something you can't judge from just one or two posts. It can take a while to figure out the true meaning of social media posts and there are a lot of subtle things in those posts that tell you what it means. But I would just forget about the social media. If she is meant to come back into your life then just live your life and she will return. The more you dwell on the predictions and wait for her will just eat you up. Which will bring you down more since you feel like you wasted so much time on them.
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Kind of eerie how similar your situation is to mine. It isn't exactly the same but there are some similarities. As for social media I wouldn't worry about it. A lot of it can be a front to make it seem like it is great but in reality it probably isn't so. This isn't something you can't judge from just one or two posts. It can take a while to figure out the true meaning of social media posts and there are a lot of subtle things in those posts that tell you what it means. But I would just forget about the social media. If she is meant to come back into your life then just live your life and she will return. The more you dwell on the predictions and wait for her will just eat you up. Which will bring you down more since you feel like you wasted so much time on them.
I agree, if someone is supposed to come back in, they will. Problem is, could be months or years from now when the person waiting would have moved on. And social media often creates false pictures, an ex of mine has been with his partner for over a year but they split up for a week or so inbetween and from their social media they seemed happy and like butter wouldn't melt. If they split up inbetween and got back together it can't be the healthiest situation! Don't look the surface appearance fool you.
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Oh wow! That’s so disappointing to hear. I’m so sorry this has happened to you
So not one psychic told you negative. That’s terrible. It goes to show there isn’t anyone we can really trust.
Hugs
So sorry to hear this, i hate to pry...but did they pick up a 3rd party? or was this a total surprise to you?
Several of them picked up a third party...
In the last reading, Cookie indicated that she saw my my ex and her boyfriend having sex. That was something we were saving for marriage, but who knows? Maybe she was right. She did see me having sex while my ex was gone... and that was true. Cookie also repeated (several times) he is cheating on her. I see him with other women, some times in the same day. She doesn't know yet, but maybe she suspects, but she will eventually find out." Kisha also indicated a male energy near her but was going to trick her. Mattie also said he was cheating.
In our first reading three months ago, Yona referred to (presumably) my ex as a 'Twisty Lady.' Not that Yona disliked her, but indicated that my ex didn't have much experience dating until she met me. Which was true. Yona explained, "She is discovering her power... she likes to be in control. She is exploring her power in the dating pool... not a bad thing, but she is realizing that there's a world here that she has largely ignored. She is not sleeping around, but is looking for the connections in her life that she desires." The first card in the first reading was The Devil - which I guess usually indicates that the rest of the reading will eventually occur?
In the first reading, Yona referred to my ex as Queen of Cups. In this reading last week, she appeared as Queen of Swords. The first card was Lovers (decisions). She did immediately say, "There is a meeting come up but I see that you are going to get some information here very soon that you did not previously have and that you needed to know. Not a major thing, but something you needed to know." She also said, I see a lot of orange around you (increasing strength) and some red. She continued to say the challenge over the next few months is an emotional one.
Now, at this point (within first six minutes of reading) and she referenced this in the last reading, "You are going to have an emotional battle... not with others, but with your self. You don't have all the information, you don't have all the details. You may see doom and gloom but this person whom you are thinking about is not giving you all the information - 5 of Cups crossing. You can't form an accurate picture, though your intuition has not been entirely off.
She did say, "Within 3 or 4 months you will experience the diminishing of fear of loss. In other words, you will either be over a person or you will have heard from them and gotten together. I don't know which one, but I think communication because communication keeps standing out."
So who knows... maybe things will drastically change over the next three or four months. I have a sneaking suspicion that they won't and these readers were wrong.
Life goes on.
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No, there were a few that said that she was not coming back:
Golden Dawn Tarot indicated that my ex felt that she had to make a decision, and that she wasn't ready to fall in love or for marriage. I would never hear from her again. She also indicated that my ex and the new guy would continue dating over the long term.
Delores (CP) indicated that the universe deemed it necessary that we were to split apart and find something new.
Soul Navigation (Meredith) said that my ex was "happy enough" with new boyfriend and wouldn't reach out to me ever again.
Marin (CP) said that she was never coming back but also said that there was a male energy around her but that this would not last through the end of the year.
Matilda said that my ex was never coming back but by August I would bump into her and this guy (in an outdoor arena of some kind) and that I would know it was totally over - that never happened, and I did not intentionally stay home to avoid it.
Oh wow! That’s so disappointing to hear. I’m so sorry this has happened to you
So not one psychic told you negative. That’s terrible. It goes to show there isn’t anyone we can really trust.
Hugs
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I have only read with Golden Dawn Tarot and she seems to be a negative reader. I read with her twice on two different POI's and she was negative for me too. She said that i would never ever hear from them but i am in touch with them but its not going anywhere.
No, there were a few that said that she was not coming back:
Golden Dawn Tarot indicated that my ex felt that she had to make a decision, and that she wasn't ready to fall in love or for marriage. I would never hear from her again. She also indicated that my ex and the new guy would continue dating over the long term.
Delores (CP) indicated that the universe deemed it necessary that we were to split apart and find something new.
Soul Navigation (Meredith) said that my ex was "happy enough" with new boyfriend and wouldn't reach out to me ever again.
Marin (CP) said that she was never coming back but also said that there was a male energy around her but that this would not last through the end of the year.
Matilda said that my ex was never coming back but by August I would bump into her and this guy (in an outdoor arena of some kind) and that I would know it was totally over - that never happened, and I did not intentionally stay home to avoid it.
Oh wow! That’s so disappointing to hear. I’m so sorry this has happened to you
So not one psychic told you negative. That’s terrible. It goes to show there isn’t anyone we can really trust.
Hugs
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I’m so sorry that this happened!
I know the devastation. So many readers told me that the guy I’ve been off and on with would be in a relationship with me by now. This includes Mattie, Effie, Rika, Anastasia, etc. Only Yona and Kisha saw a severance. Yona predicted a tower with a three of swords and I kept telling myself “it’s not him it can’t be him” and sure enough it was as devastating as she predicted. I kept trying to doubt the reading with Kisha since it was so doom and gloom, but sure enough I only wanted to believe the positives.
Don’t lose hope but don’t focus on these readings either. In my experience everything happens for a reason and like Star said, things aren’t always what the seem. If it’s meant to be it will be, I don’t think coincidences exist.
I didn’t hear from my guy after 8 months. He had a girlfriend. He broke up with the girlfriend and sent me a text out of the blue in February after no contact since June. I had him deleted and off social media, I practically fell off my chair. I thought I made it clear I didn’t necessarily want to communicate with him. Crazy things happen at unexpected times, don’t rule out your ex crawling back. Mind you, don’t bank on it - but coming from some who experienced it, what seems impossible is not always that way
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@user - are you with him now? how did it go when he contacted you out of the blue in feb?
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Nope, he has a new girlfriend and it came as a sudden shock since we were working on things from April - June
He completely 2 timed me
Only Yona and Kisha saw this and it was my tower for Yona and Kisha said it was a “severing” of a relationship
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Nope, he has a new girlfriend and it came as a sudden shock since we were working on things from April - June
He completely 2 timed me
Only Yona and Kisha saw this and it was my tower for Yona and Kisha said it was a “severing” of a relationship
That really sucks the way that he treated you, coming in out of the blue seeming to miss you to then 2 time on you like that. Well done you though for being tough on something so hurtful as that and dusting yourself off, it's not always easy to do when someone messes with your self esteem like that. :-\
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I've read all these posts about disappointment with POI's and love, and most importantly, being let down by a psychic who you depended on for insight. Been there and done that in my late 40's until I was numb. Now, 15 years later I read about more people experiencing what I did with love and see the disappointment from the same readers! Golden Tarot and Soul Navigation ...the list goes on and on of people I called. If only I knew then that the only way to find lasting and healthy relationships was to not stress out about people who had moved on or were not interested. If they were meant to come back, they would. And, in my case they did return after their relationships failed but I was no longer interested. And by then, I had met a new person through my church. Of course, there was no Facebook when I was in my 40's. I find it suspicious when someone posts so many private details online. I know it must be difficult to read if you are an ex, but at the same time, why is the ex doing that in the first place? Validation?
Keep praying and focus on maintaining a healthy perspective. Your time will come for a happy relationship! For me, I went back to school and got a second degree and everything fell into place.
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I've read all these posts about disappointment with POI's and love, and most importantly, being let down by a psychic who you depended on for insight. Been there and done that in my late 40's until I was numb. Now, 15 years later I read about more people experiencing what I did with love and see the disappointment from the same readers! Golden Tarot and Soul Navigation ...the list goes on and on of people I called. If only I knew then that the only way to find lasting and healthy relationships was to not stress out about people who had moved on or were not interested. If they were meant to come back, they would. And, in my case they did return after their relationships failed but I was no longer interested. And by then, I had met a new person through my church. Of course, there was no Facebook when I was in my 40's. I find it suspicious when someone posts so many private details online. I know it must be difficult to read if you are an ex, but at the same time, why is the ex doing that in the first place? Validation?
Keep praying and focus on maintaining a healthy perspective. Your time will come for a happy relationship! For me, I went back to school and got a second degree and everything fell into place.
Well said great post, we should all live by this !!
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There's some really good points above.
To add to this, I got addicted pretty much all of last year on and off, and not one single reader got even the current situation right. I was 19 at the time and they blamed and generalised things on my age range, saying he was too busy with work or enjoying the single life. That he had commitment issues and he was enjoying ladies' attention and being around these women would realise me and what he wants/missing out on blah blah blah. I did find out this year when I got a friend to check his social media that he was and still is in a relationship, he isn't no player at all or enjoying the single life. So I really would encourage people to take face value the way things are here and now and live your life as your ex coming back is 50/50 and usually when you have moved on. Sods law but that's what seems to be a theme, or it's the same flakiness/on and off behaviour.
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Hey star,
I’m curious to know who did you read with last year that didn’t get anything right? Was it mainly keen readers?
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There are some valid points here.
I spoke with a friend of mine the other day about my ex's post. I was physically sick for a few days after seeing it. Now, I am genuinely trying to not hold on to any false hopes. But my friend had a good point. If I knew my ex like I thought I did, her personality isn't going to change in six months or even nine months. Is she genuinely in love with this guy? Maybe. Maybe not.
What likely happened is he came in during a time when she was vulnerable and he may have helped her to feel better about herself and her decision. It grew their friendship and she is probably attempting to make a point to herself that she can be happy, though I do not know just how happy she is. The last post she made was in June... four months ago. And this guy hasn't responded to this declaration of love - not a message post or a like or anything. In some ways, I feel like she is unintentionally playing him or taking him for a ride.
Over the last few days, I went back and listened to Cookie's last reading (mid-September) she said, "Very soon, in the near future, it shows you looking at some pictures she is releasing... pictures of them. They look happy, but I see her not that happy on the inside. She is thinking about you daily... it shows her in a sitting position and waiting. It shows you in an state of emotional wreck. Do not worry... I already promised you, and it still shows her reaching out and talking to you before the end of the year."
The friend I spoke with, a woman, said she was in a similar situation. She did nearly the exact same thing as my ex (just without facebook). She said, 'I broke up with my boyfriend (now husband) because at the time I wasn't sure I was ready for marriage. After the break-up, I thought I wanted freedom to be me and freedom to explore. Over time, however, I wanted him to pursue me... I wanted to know he still cared. When he stopped chasing, I got worried. After almost a year, I reached out to him and we've been married for over 12 years. I almost lost the greatest man I have ever known."
So, who knows? Maybe she needs to discover something about herself. Maybe this declaration of love is a form of seeking validation. I am personally curious to know why he hasn't responded. Oh well... I'll keep dating.
I've read all these posts about disappointment with POI's and love, and most importantly, being let down by a psychic who you depended on for insight. Been there and done that in my late 40's until I was numb. Now, 15 years later I read about more people experiencing what I did with love and see the disappointment from the same readers! Golden Tarot and Soul Navigation ...the list goes on and on of people I called. If only I knew then that the only way to find lasting and healthy relationships was to not stress out about people who had moved on or were not interested. If they were meant to come back, they would. And, in my case they did return after their relationships failed but I was no longer interested. And by then, I had met a new person through my church. Of course, there was no Facebook when I was in my 40's. I find it suspicious when someone posts so many private details online. I know it must be difficult to read if you are an ex, but at the same time, why is the ex doing that in the first place? Validation?
Keep praying and focus on maintaining a healthy perspective. Your time will come for a happy relationship! For me, I went back to school and got a second degree and everything fell into place.
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Hang in there Midwestern Sun. And to you (and all the others), make sure you take good care of yourself as I know that being hurt impacts your health. The best advice I can give is to think of one thing that you always wanted to do for yourself but have not done....identify that goal, challenge, or fear....and then go after it. You'll be surprised how taking control will help you feel better about your outlook and take your mind off things. When you grow mentally and spiritually, it speeds up the healing process. Forward thinking....your time will come for what was intended for you.
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There are some valid points here.
I spoke with a friend of mine the other day about my ex's post. I was physically sick for a few days after seeing it. Now, I am genuinely trying to not hold on to any false hopes. But my friend had a good point. If I knew my ex like I thought I did, her personality isn't going to change in six months or even nine months. Is she genuinely in love with this guy? Maybe. Maybe not.
What likely happened is he came in during a time when she was vulnerable and he may have helped her to feel better about herself and her decision. It grew their friendship and she is probably attempting to make a point to herself that she can be happy, though I do not know just how happy she is. The last post she made was in June... four months ago. And this guy hasn't responded to this declaration of love - not a message post or a like or anything. In some ways, I feel like she is unintentionally playing him or taking him for a ride.
Over the last few days, I went back and listened to Cookie's last reading (mid-September) she said, "Very soon, in the near future, it shows you looking at some pictures she is releasing... pictures of them. They look happy, but I see her not that happy on the inside. She is thinking about you daily... it shows her in a sitting position and waiting. It shows you in an state of emotional wreck. Do not worry... I already promised you, and it still shows her reaching out and talking to you before the end of the year."
The friend I spoke with, a woman, said she was in a similar situation. She did nearly the exact same thing as my ex (just without facebook). She said, 'I broke up with my boyfriend (now husband) because at the time I wasn't sure I was ready for marriage. After the break-up, I thought I wanted freedom to be me and freedom to explore. Over time, however, I wanted him to pursue me... I wanted to know he still cared. When he stopped chasing, I got worried. After almost a year, I reached out to him and we've been married for over 12 years. I almost lost the greatest man I have ever known."
So, who knows? Maybe she needs to discover something about herself. Maybe this declaration of love is a form of seeking validation. I am personally curious to know why he hasn't responded. Oh well... I'll keep dating.
I've read all these posts about disappointment with POI's and love, and most importantly, being let down by a psychic who you depended on for insight. Been there and done that in my late 40's until I was numb. Now, 15 years later I read about more people experiencing what I did with love and see the disappointment from the same readers! Golden Tarot and Soul Navigation ...the list goes on and on of people I called. If only I knew then that the only way to find lasting and healthy relationships was to not stress out about people who had moved on or were not interested. If they were meant to come back, they would. And, in my case they did return after their relationships failed but I was no longer interested. And by then, I had met a new person through my church. Of course, there was no Facebook when I was in my 40's. I find it suspicious when someone posts so many private details online. I know it must be difficult to read if you are an ex, but at the same time, why is the ex doing that in the first place? Validation?
Keep praying and focus on maintaining a healthy perspective. Your time will come for a happy relationship! For me, I went back to school and got a second degree and everything fell into place.
Pictures don’t mean anything. I had this with an ex and in less than 6 months he was crawling back to me that he thinks about me everytime he looks at her and thoughts of us plague him. I was heartbroken, embarrassed, some of the lowest lows I experienced in my life but I knew he was faking it although it didn’t make the pain any easier. I’m sorry you’re going through this but what you see isn’t always true. I’m here for you if you need anything💕
Another thing is a lot of people don’t realize the consequences of their actions till time has passed and they’ve realized the decision they made isn’t the decision they truly wanted like what you mentioned with the story of the woman. Humans are funny in that way. Distance only makes the heart grow fonder and the curiosity starts to eat away at them. It’s like when you can’t think of a word but you at the tip of the tongue and it’s killing you, I’d equate it to that.
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There's some really good points above.
To add to this, I got addicted pretty much all of last year on and off, and not one single reader got even the current situation right. I was 19 at the time and they blamed and generalised things on my age range, saying he was too busy with work or enjoying the single life. That he had commitment issues and he was enjoying ladies' attention and being around these women would realise me and what he wants/missing out on blah blah blah. I did find out this year when I got a friend to check his social media that he was and still is in a relationship, he isn't no player at all or enjoying the single life. So I really would encourage people to take face value the way things are here and now and live your life as your ex coming back is 50/50 and usually when you have moved on. Sods law but that's what seems to be a theme, or it's the same flakiness/on and off behaviour.
I can definitely relate to that, which makes me just want to hug you. This is sound advice, as well; sometimes all we can do is surrender to a situation that we've been handed. We may not like it, we may not want to accept it, but staying stuck is a miserable exercise in futility. The only thing I've really gained from most psychic consultations is having fairy tales spun at a terrible financial cost. We are meant to be moving forward, not standing still and waiting forever. Thank you for sharing, Star. ❤
Thanks alot, I appreciate it 🤗 it was painful at the time but I've moved on and accepted it. I learnt you can't control what someone wants to do and I do totally believe if someone is meant to come back in your life they will or they won't, but you have to live life and not wait around on the possibility of someone you're emtionally connected to coming in or not. If they don't, it only causes you more heartache. If they do, doesn't mean all the previous issues and unsolved problems have gone away. I know is easier said than done, however. It's just a shame I couldn't find a single reader who even got the present right.
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ugh @user i am so sorry. What a dog. Im just so sorry that happened but I know you are better off without him, even though its hard to go through that You wouldnt have wanted to constantly be looking over your shoulder. Best of luck to you!!!
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Thank you for sharing your story! I am a new person on this forum. Maybe, my opinion does not count for much...but omg heartbreak! I hope you start to feel better! I believe there is love out there for you.
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It blows my mind you are reviewing these people without waiting for whether they were right. She might realize how awful he is in November and you will choose whether to have him back. That said kisha and to a both wrong for me. And yes I’m back lol
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So, thought it would be fair for me to update you all with the latest "episode" of my own story.
I last posted in October when I found out my ex-girlfriend posted a "Happy six months" to her current boyfriend. Since then, I have not heard anything from her, and there has been no direct contact.
However, I do want to say that during October I read with Yona, Cookie, and Kisha and they have all had positive hits. I will try to post updates below of verified predictions or predictions that I believe have manifested.
Yona:
- Central card was Lover's. Yona said, "You will have a decision to make. I see three women... two women are at the forefront, one is manipulative and one is a bit more friendly. There is a shadow woman, a woman in the background who barely registers on your radar. It could be a passing fancy that quickly fades. You will have to choose between the two other women, but I suspect you already know which you will choose when she appears or re-appears."
I believe the shadow woman was a blonde-haired woman a friend tried to hook me up with. It was kind of dragged out and really only lasted a month. I knew it wasn't going to go anywhere.
- You are going to have a job interview of sorts, it will go very well. It is expected, you are not surprised. It is planned and you already know the outcome. It is outside of your home, in a work environment. The person doing the interview is doing their job. There is highly positive conversations about this.
This was, I believe, my annual review. It was planned, 1on1 with my boss, and it went extremely well in October/November. I exceeded all goals set forth at the beginning of the year and ahead of schedule on all counts.
- Yona also previously that I would have discussions with someone I care about with "deeply personal symbols" around it. I believe she was referring to a different ex-girlfriend who I was in contact with over the summer but lives about 22 hours away. There was some deeply personal topics discussed but we haven't spoken since October and I doubt we will again.
Cookie:
- Immediately at the start of the call, "I see you wearing brown or tan colors. Maybe khakis?" I was wearing khakis all day that day.
- "I see a connection with New York." I chalked this up to a Cookie-ism, however she then said, "You've been in contact with someone from New York, they could have brownish, light-brown hair." That was the ex-girlfriend who lives 22 hours away. What really blew me away was what Cookie said next, "It shows you looking at someone, associated with the New York situation with red hair. This was recent." I couldn't help but laugh when she said this. About a week before speaking with Cookie I looked up a woman I knew in New York who had red-hair.
- "It shows you dating someone that you meet online and then in person, she has brown hair... long hair, down to her butt area. She distracts you... takes your mind off of another woman with dark brown hair. Someone you have deep feelings for."
This recently happened. I have been casually dating someone for almost two months who matches this hair description and she has been a pleasant distraction.
- "Does your ex date someone with short hair, that is reddish brown. It shows him having a beard and his hair is shorter than yours."
My ex's current bf has reddish-brown hair with a beard. All kept very short and trimmed
- Cookie is still adamant that I will hear from my ex within the next few months, she said, "Her mouth will become open out of the blue while you are distracted. She will call for a meeting."
- That said, Cookie also adamant that this ex is not my life partner and I will meet someone in April/Spring time... I could meet her a Christmas party potentially. Cookie also insisted that my ex and her current bf will not last.
Kisha:
- At the time of the reading, Kisha said, "It shows your love life or relationships are rather stagnant. You are regrouping. You are analyzing the past but two women are coming up. An almost strawberry-blonde woman and a dark-haired woman. The strawberry-blond is a blip in the radar but the dark-hair woman is a bit longer lasting. These women do not appear at the same time - one is after the other."
I believe this blonde-haired woman is the same woman Yona saw. The blonde came first then after she was fully gone I started talking to the dark-hair woman
- Kisha continued, "With this new potential relationship with this new person with dark brown hair, you seem to be keeping your distance. You are trying to decide if you want to embark on this new journey."
This is completely true.
- "There is a period of disappointment when it comes to messages regarding your love life. You are going to receive an indirect message that disappoints you or hurts you. Guides are saying, do not fully trust this message or messages... you don't have the full story and not everything is as it seems."
I am guessing this is the ex's post about 'Happy six months?' There hasn't been any other disappointing news.
- "Guides are showing someone from your past... you and her are in different spaces right now in the present. However, at the turn of the year or winter months, the guides are saying there is a change of status for her and it shows a change of status for the two of you. It might be a bit of development between the two of you but nothing in the immediate present. I just feel you two will have some sort of direct interaction with one another."
Not happened yet
- Kisha also said that my ex would break up with her current boyfriend because it is going to be revealed that things from his past, or past behaviors, will become exposed and she will realize that he was not who she thought he was.
No idea.
Anyways, there are a few more things, but these are the main items that came to mind. It would seem that most of what Cookie, Yona, and Kisha have predicted has been coming true as they predicted. It has been interesting to compare their readings to see how differently they read. It would seem that as I have gotten closer to December, Cookie's readings have become more specific.
Until next time...
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Love the updates!
So, thought it would be fair for me to update you all with the latest "episode" of my own story.
I last posted in October when I found out my ex-girlfriend posted a "Happy six months" to her current boyfriend. Since then, I have not heard anything from her, and there has been no direct contact.
However, I do want to say that during October I read with Yona, Cookie, and Kisha and they have all had positive hits. I will try to post updates below of verified predictions or predictions that I believe have manifested.
Yona:
- Central card was Lover's. Yona said, "You will have a decision to make. I see three women... two women are at the forefront, one is manipulative and one is a bit more friendly. There is a shadow woman, a woman in the background who barely registers on your radar. It could be a passing fancy that quickly fades. You will have to choose between the two other women, but I suspect you already know which you will choose when she appears or re-appears."
I believe the shadow woman was a blonde-haired woman a friend tried to hook me up with. It was kind of dragged out and really only lasted a month. I knew it wasn't going to go anywhere.
- You are going to have a job interview of sorts, it will go very well. It is expected, you are not surprised. It is planned and you already know the outcome. It is outside of your home, in a work environment. The person doing the interview is doing their job. There is highly positive conversations about this.
This was, I believe, my annual review. It was planned, 1on1 with my boss, and it went extremely well in October/November. I exceeded all goals set forth at the beginning of the year and ahead of schedule on all counts.
- Yona also previously that I would have discussions with someone I care about with "deeply personal symbols" around it. I believe she was referring to a different ex-girlfriend who I was in contact with over the summer but lives about 22 hours away. There was some deeply personal topics discussed but we haven't spoken since October and I doubt we will again.
Cookie:
- Immediately at the start of the call, "I see you wearing brown or tan colors. Maybe khakis?" I was wearing khakis all day that day.
- "I see a connection with New York." I chalked this up to a Cookie-ism, however she then said, "You've been in contact with someone from New York, they could have brownish, light-brown hair." That was the ex-girlfriend who lives 22 hours away. What really blew me away was what Cookie said next, "It shows you looking at someone, associated with the New York situation with red hair. This was recent." I couldn't help but laugh when she said this. About a week before speaking with Cookie I looked up a woman I knew in New York who had red-hair.
- "It shows you dating someone that you meet online and then in person, she has brown hair... long hair, down to her butt area. She distracts you... takes your mind off of another woman with dark brown hair. Someone you have deep feelings for."
This recently happened. I have been casually dating someone for almost two months who matches this hair description and she has been a pleasant distraction.
- "Does your ex date someone with short hair, that is reddish brown. It shows him having a beard and his hair is shorter than yours."
My ex's current bf has reddish-brown hair with a beard. All kept very short and trimmed
- Cookie is still adamant that I will hear from my ex within the next few months, she said, "Her mouth will become open out of the blue while you are distracted. She will call for a meeting."
- That said, Cookie also adamant that this ex is not my life partner and I will meet someone in April/Spring time... I could meet her a Christmas party potentially. Cookie also insisted that my ex and her current bf will not last.
Kisha:
- At the time of the reading, Kisha said, "It shows your love life or relationships are rather stagnant. You are regrouping. You are analyzing the past but two women are coming up. An almost strawberry-blonde woman and a dark-haired woman. The strawberry-blond is a blip in the radar but the dark-hair woman is a bit longer lasting. These women do not appear at the same time - one is after the other."
I believe this blonde-haired woman is the same woman Yona saw. The blonde came first then after she was fully gone I started talking to the dark-hair woman
- Kisha continued, "With this new potential relationship with this new person with dark brown hair, you seem to be keeping your distance. You are trying to decide if you want to embark on this new journey."
This is completely true.
- "There is a period of disappointment when it comes to messages regarding your love life. You are going to receive an indirect message that disappoints you or hurts you. Guides are saying, do not fully trust this message or messages... you don't have the full story and not everything is as it seems."
I am guessing this is the ex's post about 'Happy six months?' There hasn't been any other disappointing news.
- "Guides are showing someone from your past... you and her are in different spaces right now in the present. However, at the turn of the year or winter months, the guides are saying there is a change of status for her and it shows a change of status for the two of you. It might be a bit of development between the two of you but nothing in the immediate present. I just feel you two will have some sort of direct interaction with one another."
Not happened yet
- Kisha also said that my ex would break up with her current boyfriend because it is going to be revealed that things from his past, or past behaviors, will become exposed and she will realize that he was not who she thought he was.
No idea.
Anyways, there are a few more things, but these are the main items that came to mind. It would seem that most of what Cookie, Yona, and Kisha have predicted has been coming true as they predicted. It has been interesting to compare their readings to see how differently they read. It would seem that as I have gotten closer to December, Cookie's readings have become more specific.
Until next time...
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Agreed. I love all the detailed members' updates even though I don't often comment on them. It's so nice when some of you share your stories and the predictions and give updates. Thanks to all of you who share so openly.
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Well, I thought I would post a final 2019 update. Since my last post, I have read with Gaylene/Abundant Visions, Cookie, and Kisha.
Gaylene:
- I see a dark-haired woman in the immediate future, she could be around you already. These cards often say this person is a nurse, law enforcement, maybe even an attorney. She may also have a military background. She likes a communicator.
I am casually dating someone with dark-hair, she is a nurse, and she likes communication.
- Have you been waiting for someone? The cards are suggesting that while this woman is keenly interested in you, you are holding back, you are waiting for someone. Regarding this person, I do sense that will re-appear out of nowhere within the next three or four months.
True. I am waiting to hear from an ex... if anything, for validation or closure.
- I like this nurse... she is a strong woman, independent, though she is also a bit cautious because she is having difficulty reading you - I would say because you are holding back (you are waiting).
True. I am half in and half out.
- Regarding this other woman coming in, I don't feel it is a new energy... in other words, she is a returning woman. Things are going to end very badly for her and this guy she is with... some truths are going to be revealed about him that she is not going to like. Right now, or rather for the past few months, she has been on Cloud 9 thinking everything is great and the chemistry is great. However, other people are noticing cracks that she is blissfully ignoring. She will come back to you seeking forgiveness, but I feel she will leave again to be with this guy. That said, after a few months, she will come back to you a third time and finally rid herself of this guy permanently... would you want someone back after that?
Prediction
- Regarding the first re-appearance, she will want to explain a few things... I feel that she left rather abruptly and there were things that she did not discuss or disclose. I feel the guy she is with (or was with), I feel they have a history. He pursued her. Maybe not a romantic history, but a history of friendship - the same circle of friends. In other words, she didn't just meet this guy randomly or online.
The ex did know the guy before dating me.
Cookie:
- First thing Cookie said, "Have you been discussing becoming a pastor or a preacher at your church? I am seeing this recent discussions and future discussions." You are going to meet a woman, this woman already knows you and has had her eye on you but you haven't seen it yet. But you two are going to do wonderful things together.
I have actually been having discussions of this nature with a friend
- There are two different woman coming up today... a blonde or light-haired woman and a dark-haired woman. The dark-haired woman is someone we have discussed in the past time... she has been spending a lot of time thinking about you. Comparing you to another man who is starting to disappoint her.
- Your ex... I see her dating someone with brownish-red hair, that is shaved down really short and a short beard. "I am telling you right now, this is a prediction, they will not stay together. Something is going to happen... you might hear things about marriage or engagement which would disturb you, but something is going to happen between them that is going to blind-side her." you could even heard things about him from her... you could hear that he may not be cheating on her per say, but he has a lot of female friends. You could hear about a change in her living arrangements. However, she is not going to come back to you until you start to let her go... until you start seeing other people. I see her coming back to you and you are distracted by someone else.
Ex's boyfriend matches this physical description very keenly.
- I see you distracted by someone temporarily right now... she is struggling to determine what you are thinking. She doesn't fully understand where you are at in the relationship. She doesn't understand what your plans are. You will see your ex again... I see you meeting in a place you've met before. Maybe a coffee shop... but she is going to come to you. This will happen when people are still wearing coats. One of the places you will meet will be closer to where she lives... and there is a park nearby and a McDonald's and a Wal-Mart.
- I feel that she was just recently thinking about you or talking about you. Did you meet some of her friends? Something got back to her that you are looking really good and are doing really well.
By chance, I met ex's friends (a husband and wife) at a networking event through the school where I just earned my Masters. I wasn't expecting this encounter.
Kisha:
- I feel over the next three or four months, I feel a female energy active around you right now who is really interested in you. Dark-brown hair, really long, but you are trying to determine what you want. You are holding out waiting for someone else - you are essentially putting this person on hold. This is a temporary companionship, though the guides are not showing me who formally ends it. You have the potential for a strong relationship but it won't turn into that.
Matches Cookie
- The guides are seeing you within the next two years in a very committed relationship ending in an engagement and marriage. This will start in the warmer months, guides are saying spring or summer. It will really start picking up in the fall and winter months next year.
Upon asking about the POI...
- In the present, I sense that she is seeking to have an honest discussion with you. The guides are saying that there is not a lot of interaction between the two of you. Somewhere in the past, it feels as though she felt she needed to disconnect. However, the guides are shouting that she loves you, but this person is confusing. She feels that she is responsible for the disconnect, she feels guilt and sadness. The guides are saying within the next two-three months she will reach out to have a candid discussion with you. She has a strong desire to explain herself to you... she felt she should have done things differently. She wants to clear her conscience. She wants to clear the air, make sure you two are in a good place. She wants to remove things that are on her chest and have been haunting her. It just feels that at a certain point, things got too overwhelming for her. There is also a sense, the guides are saying, that she is struggling with with accepting how her life has progressed over the last year or so.
Upon asking about her current relationship (or if it ended)
- For a period, she was happy, but I feel a male around her... this was someone that she previously knew, within social circles. This was someone that she had a previous interest in but for whatever reason things couldn't or wouldn't develop. Maybe one or the other wasn't available. However, in the coming months, or perhaps it has already happened and she is just processing it... there is an issue with transparency. She is going to find out things about him that blindside her... she is going to discover that he is not the man he portrays himself to be. I get quite a bit of disappointment around her and this man. The guides are saying some sort of dishonesty or deception.
Kisha has said this before about the guy... months ago she said, 'Towards the New Year, she will start to see things that she is ignoring. He will turn out to be someone else than what he originally portrayed himself to be.' Cookie also said something very similar.
- After she disconnects from this man, she will take a bit of time to process everything, she is comparing him to you and the reasons for leaving you and then dating him. She will want to see if you are open to trying again. However, you are going to have to allow her some control over the pace. She will want to control just how fast or slow things go.
The control of pace is something my ex used to do, or tried to do.
So... lots of prediction time frames still pending. Cookie, Kisha, and Yona all said earlier in the year that nothing would happen between my ex and I until around the New Year (potentially not until February). So technically, their time frames haven't passed yet. All of Yona's non-POI related predictions have to come to pass within the time frames she predicted. So, who knows.
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Your readings seem to be a lot more detailed than mine from these readers, especially Gaylene she only gave me 1 liners - did you get a phone reading with her? And Kisha said she wouldn’t read into my ex’s relationship, but she has for you and in a way confirmed a break up
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Thank you for the updates. I wish these readers had been that detailed with me lol
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i am surprised gaylene gave so many details. my readings with her are like pulling teeth arghhh.
cookie and kisha have been different for me for outcomes. you are so lucky they agree for you
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Well, it looks like in my last post I lied... I am providing this last update for 2019.
The ex is now engaged... the boyfriend of eight months proposed on Christmas morning. She publicly posted on facebook this morning. I'm speechless.
At this point, I don't want to hold on to Cookie's prediction just earlier this month, "You may even hear of engagement or proposal, which would disturb you. But I'm telling you, this is a prediction, they will not stay together. Something is going to happen and she is going to communicate with you."
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Midwesternsun - I’m so very sorry. All of this completely sucks. Hang in there
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Well, it looks like in my last post I lied... I am providing this last update for 2019.
The ex is now engaged... the boyfriend of eight months proposed on Christmas morning. She publicly posted on facebook this morning. I'm speechless.
At this point, I don't want to hold on to Cookie's prediction just earlier this month, "You may even hear of engagement or proposal, which would disturb you. But I'm telling you, this is a prediction, they will not stay together. Something is going to happen and she is going to communicate with you."
Ouch. I’m sorry
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I’m really sorry....
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❤️hugs❤️ my friend. Just know I’m here for you
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Well, it looks like in my last post I lied... I am providing this last update for 2019.
The ex is now engaged... the boyfriend of eight months proposed on Christmas morning. She publicly posted on facebook this morning. I'm speechless.
At this point, I don't want to hold on to Cookie's prediction just earlier this month, "You may even hear of engagement or proposal, which would disturb you. But I'm telling you, this is a prediction, they will not stay together. Something is going to happen and she is going to communicate with you."
I'm so sorry to hear this! Yeah, best to try to not hold on to Cookie's prediction for your own sanity....
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I’m sorry for what you’re going through.
I wanted to add- I know 2 people going through the exact same situation around me and freakily the last few days a few people have posted similar stories on here about a person of interest’s engagement.
I didn’t believe in astrology so much but I’ve been using the Pattern app for a few months and it lets people with similar transits share their experiences. It’s so eery how similar people’s stories are and they always seem to have a “Venus in Sagittarius” or “Mars in Taurus” (just examples) causing these such similar experiences. Something must be going on in the sky somewhere...sigh
Hopefully things will get better for everyone soon and whatever damned transit this is, will end.
PS- social media and hearsay is a lot of smoke and mirrors too
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I’m sorry for what you’re going through.
I wanted to add- I know 2 people going through the exact same situation around me and freakily the last few days a few people have posted similar stories on here about a person of interest’s engagement.
I didn’t believe in astrology so much but I’ve been using the Pattern app for a few months and it lets people with similar transits share their experiences. It’s so eery how similar people’s stories are and they always seem to have a “Venus in Sagittarius” or “Mars in Taurus” (just examples) causing these such similar experiences. Something must be going on in the sky somewhere...sigh
Hopefully things will get better for everyone soon and whatever damned transit this is, will end.
PS- social media and hearsay is a lot of smoke and mirrors too
This is all good but I want to focus on the bold. Social media is a horrible thing that doesn't really show what is going on behind close doors. In today's society getting engaged of only knowing each other for 8 months isn't a good sign for a relationship. Statistics is against it from lasting and it could very well fall apart before the wedding like Cookie predicted. Not saying they cannot work it out and make it last but statistically the odds are against them. It isn't like the old days where people met and married in a matter of months or weeks. That generation stuck through all the hardships to make a relationship last. Today it is all about the instant gratification caused from social media. About how those likes go up from a story like someone getting engaged and releases endorphins that make you feel good. But in reality they could be having a horrible relationship and it is all just a cover up. Once the dust settles than it could fall apart. So what is happening on social media could be false. That will help you move on from the social media post.
Also try not to hold onto Cookies prediction. I know my description above could line up with her prediction but their relationship could also be an outlier to that and truly last. So at this point just try to forget about her as currently she is completely off the market as far as you know. As they say. Ignorance is bliss.
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I wish I could click like on both of these messages :)
I’m sorry for what you’re going through.
I wanted to add- I know 2 people going through the exact same situation around me and freakily the last few days a few people have posted similar stories on here about a person of interest’s engagement.
I didn’t believe in astrology so much but I’ve been using the Pattern app for a few months and it lets people with similar transits share their experiences. It’s so eery how similar people’s stories are and they always seem to have a “Venus in Sagittarius” or “Mars in Taurus” (just examples) causing these such similar experiences. Something must be going on in the sky somewhere...sigh
Hopefully things will get better for everyone soon and whatever damned transit this is, will end.
PS- social media and hearsay is a lot of smoke and mirrors too
This is all good but I want to focus on the bold. Social media is a horrible thing that doesn't really show what is going on behind close doors. In today's society getting engaged of only knowing each other for 8 months isn't a good sign for a relationship. Statistics is against it from lasting and it could very well fall apart before the wedding like Cookie predicted. Not saying they cannot work it out and make it last but statistically the odds are against them. It isn't like the old days where people met and married in a matter of months or weeks. That generation stuck through all the hardships to make a relationship last. Today it is all about the instant gratification caused from social media. About how those likes go up from a story like someone getting engaged and releases endorphins that make you feel good. But in reality they could be having a horrible relationship and it is all just a cover up. Once the dust settles than it could fall apart. So what is happening on social media could be false. That will help you move on from the social media post.
Also try not to hold onto Cookies prediction. I know my description above could line up with her prediction but their relationship could also be an outlier to that and truly last. So at this point just try to forget about her as currently she is completely off the market as far as you know. As they say. Ignorance is bliss.
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Ya know Sparky, as I discovered the engagement post this morning, I thought of you. It seems to me our stories are very similar... we turned to the boards and to readers about an ex, we were told she would be back, but then the ex gets engaged/married.
I completely agree with you that getting engaged after eight months is rather quick. I mean, she and I discussed getting engaged at length, read a few pre-engagement books, we talked about kids, plans, etc. We were together for eight months when she broke it off. Quite a few of her friends, and her family, were expecting a proposal between the two of us. And I know this means next to nothing as things can change, but she had once told me she wanted to date someone for at least 12-18 months before an engagement.
Now, and I could be totally wrong, but I suspect that she and the guy were at least communicating and hanging out with their circle of friends together before she broke up with me. They've known each other for a few years through church. In January, a month before the breakup, we went out to lunch and she asked me a bunch of questions like "Why do you love me? What do you see in me?" Maybe she was asking these questions because she was genuinely nervous about the topic of marriage. Or, maybe she was considering this guy and she had some guilt - maybe she was looking for a sign of uncertainty within me to use as a form of leverage for a breakup. At the time, I know she was stressed due to work, etc. Before I unfriended all of her friends, one of them posted a picture of a Sunday brunch and my and ex and this guy were sitting next to each other and you could tell in the photo that he was interested in her. This photo was posted in February... so in the same month as the breakup. Moreover, the year before she invited me to a corporate Christmas party, she invited this same guy as her guest the prior year's corporate Christmas party. So, there's no denying that they have some history, whatever history that is.
As I posted earlier, I read with Cookie earlier this month and she was, once again, adamant, that they would not stay together and I would hear from her probably within the next few months. Though she did not give me a concrete time frame. Cookie described this guy's physical appearance very clearly and said, "You could hear something about engagement or marriage, which would disturb you deeply... you could hear something about her living situation changing... but they will not stay together. Something is going to surface which is going to blind side her and break her heart (she has said this in three separate readings)." However, Cookie later stated, "When she does reach out, you are not going to want her any more."
Earlier this month, Kisha said, "Within the next two to four months, she is going to want to have an honest conversation with you. She wants to clear her conscience or let go of some guilt. The guides are saying that she wants to ensure that you two are in a good place." I spoke with a friend this morning and apparently some people, before they get married, reach out to ex's to apologize or clear a guilty conscience? I've no idea... I personally think that's a little weird, maybe? Kisha also suggested that once my ex and this guy split, "The guides are saying she is going to enter a period where she will have to process a lot of stuff. She won't break from this guy and then come straight to you the next day... she is going to take things slow. But she will potentially seek to start over with you." I think that's a little far'fetched at this point, and quite honestly, I am not even sure I would entertain the thought at this point.
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Ya know Sparky, as I discovered the engagement post this morning, I thought of you. It seems to me our stories are very similar... we turned to the boards and to readers about an ex, we were told she would be back, but then the ex gets engaged/married.
I completely agree with you that getting engaged after eight months is rather quick. I mean, she and I discussed getting engaged at length, read a few pre-engagement books, we talked about kids, plans, etc. We were together for eight months when she broke it off. Quite a few of her friends, and her family, were expecting a proposal between the two of us. And I know this means next to nothing as things can change, but she had once told me she wanted to date someone for at least 12-18 months before an engagement.
Now, and I could be totally wrong, but I suspect that she and the guy were at least communicating and hanging out with their circle of friends together before she broke up with me. They've known each other for a few years through church. In January, a month before the breakup, we went out to lunch and she asked me a bunch of questions like "Why do you love me? What do you see in me?" Maybe she was asking these questions because she was genuinely nervous about the topic of marriage. Or, maybe she was considering this guy and she had some guilt - maybe she was looking for a sign of uncertainty within me to use as a form of leverage for a breakup. At the time, I know she was stressed due to work, etc. Before I unfriended all of her friends, one of them posted a picture of a Sunday brunch and my and ex and this guy were sitting next to each other and you could tell in the photo that he was interested in her. This photo was posted in February... so in the same month as the breakup. Moreover, the year before she invited me to a corporate Christmas party, she invited this same guy as her guest the prior year's corporate Christmas party. So, there's no denying that they have some history, whatever history that is.
As I posted earlier, I read with Cookie earlier this month and she was, once again, adamant, that they would not stay together and I would hear from her probably within the next few months. Though she did not give me a concrete time frame. Cookie described this guy's physical appearance very clearly and said, "You could hear something about engagement or marriage, which would disturb you deeply... you could hear something about her living situation changing... but they will not stay together. Something is going to surface which is going to blind side her and break her heart (she has said this in three separate readings)." However, Cookie later stated, "When she does reach out, you are not going to want her any more."
Earlier this month, Kisha said, "Within the next two to four months, she is going to want to have an honest conversation with you. She wants to clear her conscience or let go of some guilt. The guides are saying that she wants to ensure that you two are in a good place." I spoke with a friend this morning and apparently some people, before they get married, reach out to ex's to apologize or clear a guilty conscience? I've no idea... I personally think that's a little weird, maybe? Kisha also suggested that once my ex and this guy split, "The guides are saying she is going to enter a period where she will have to process a lot of stuff. She won't break from this guy and then come straight to you the next day... she is going to take things slow. But she will potentially seek to start over with you." I think that's a little far'fetched at this point, and quite honestly, I am not even sure I would entertain the thought at this point.
I too when I read that she was engaged thought of how similar our situations are. Though from what you said here. I pretty positive that she was asking those questions to figure out if she was planning to stay with you or try it with this guy. I wouldn't even doubt it if she might of actually been cheating on you. Pretty sure there was outside influencing as well. Considering how fast she was willing to be in public with him around friends. Even if they are mutual. My guess is that the friends knew of his interesting and of possibly her doubts with you. That set things in motion. Even if I am wrong on all account. The truth is that she is engaged to him. No matter what her desire was to get engaged with someone after 12-18 months of dating. For now there is nothing you can do but let her learn from it. If it is a mistake and she realizes that. She may come back. But in the mean time you just focus on yourself. You might even meet someone that is more suited for you. Then if she does come back you might not even want her back anymore.