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PsychicSource.com / Re: Bonnie
« Last post by Stone88 on Today at 07:25:05 PM »Yeh I know what you mean. She's had a couple of hits but most readings now I feel are guess work and predictions never happen. I stopped reading with her too
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Bitwine / Multiple Reviews By Same Person A Red Flag??
« Last post by Jmoore666 on Today at 07:11:26 PM »Hi!!
Been lurking for a long time, but finally got authorized by the admin! Firstly, I want to say thank you to everybody for your reviews, they are so very helpful.
Like many of us, I have been on a run of readings for about a year. Same old story on a very confusing love situation. Anyhoo, I read a lot of the reviews on the sites when looking for a new reader, or validation on a reader I have used. I have noticed a lot of readers ger multiple glowing reviews from the same person or persons. Is that a red flag to y'all? Are there fake folks out there propping up reviews for different readers with a lot of overly positive reviews, you think? Lord knows I have been to the same reader a few times, and I often leave reviews, so I don't want to be too cynical. What do y'all think?
Thanks again errybody!
Been lurking for a long time, but finally got authorized by the admin! Firstly, I want to say thank you to everybody for your reviews, they are so very helpful.
Like many of us, I have been on a run of readings for about a year. Same old story on a very confusing love situation. Anyhoo, I read a lot of the reviews on the sites when looking for a new reader, or validation on a reader I have used. I have noticed a lot of readers ger multiple glowing reviews from the same person or persons. Is that a red flag to y'all? Are there fake folks out there propping up reviews for different readers with a lot of overly positive reviews, you think? Lord knows I have been to the same reader a few times, and I often leave reviews, so I don't want to be too cynical. What do y'all think?
Thanks again errybody!
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Addicted to Psychics / Re: I want to quit
« Last post by sai07 on Today at 03:39:13 PM »@allisgood. You're sad, please say more. Say EVERYTHING you want to say. You poor poor thing. C'mon. Spill your guts, honey. We are listening.
Oh and p.s. no one has time for your BS. This is as you say, The Psychic Reviews, and your psycho babble is irrelevant but seeing as you're so painfully in need in spewing negativity, go right ahead. Please. Be my guest.
Oh and p.s. no one has time for your BS. This is as you say, The Psychic Reviews, and your psycho babble is irrelevant but seeing as you're so painfully in need in spewing negativity, go right ahead. Please. Be my guest.
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Addicted to Psychics / Re: I want to quit
« Last post by allisgood on Today at 02:18:47 PM »Thank you so much Mina and Candy - and to the rest of the ladies on here, this is helpful, thank you for your support.
Btw, reported the last comment b/c it was unsupportive and I don't need it on my thread. This is a support thread and any negativity is unwelcome.
LOL!!!! a bit dictatorial, right? If you don't like a comment you report?
Sorry lady, you are a bit nuts. This is not a support forum. This is called "The Psychics Reviews". Maybe you cannot read. And this stupid thread is not about psychic reviews. Maybe you need to join an addiction forum.Anyway, no one will do anything about the post because this forum is like a jungle. There is no Admin LOL
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Addicted to Psychics / Re: I want to quit
« Last post by sai07 on Today at 02:04:51 PM »Thank you so much Mina and Candy - and to the rest of the ladies on here, this is helpful, thank you for your support.
Btw, reported the last comment b/c it was unsupportive and I don't need it on my thread. This is a support thread and any negativity is unwelcome.
Btw, reported the last comment b/c it was unsupportive and I don't need it on my thread. This is a support thread and any negativity is unwelcome.
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Addicted to Psychics / Re: I want to quit
« Last post by allisgood on Today at 12:21:22 PM »@Mina. Not sure if you have noticed but this forum is called "The Psychic Reviews". Maybe you would need to join another forum for people trying to quit psychics or whatever and stop writing these novels. It just gives people a headache.
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Addicted to Psychics / Re: I want to quit
« Last post by Mina on Today at 10:38:06 AM »I agree gym and exercises helps! Help regulate endorphins
But That’s always a challenge
Get a passion project: hobbies, learning a new language, music something that really gets you going. And I’ve tried asking psychics this like “what would I like doing?” And they would give generals, and the thing is no one knows what you like best but you! So don’t make that mistake I’ve made. And do it challenge yourself to remember what you like to do!
This is probably the hardest thing you’re gonna have to figure out: what do love to do (outside your ex/or poi)? What do I love about my life? What is my purpose in life? And it does hit this existential type of crisis but if you’re really passionate about what you are doing and love it, that does take a hard attention away from your person and energetically it is felt and it is attractive.
Change your environment, routine… if you can’t, rearrange your furniture so instead of waking up and walk left, you go right… and you could hate it and re change it back, but the point is to change your routine for a little bit to build a new habit, to think new thoughts, that don’t lead to thinking about them … at least immediately
Which brings me to I have haven’t finished that book “atomic habits” but it mentions successful habits takes one small change a day, and consistently; versus then to change your whole life immediately and expect follow thru… which often leads to giving up so just focus on changing one small habit. There’s a free YouTube audio version of the book, I highly recommend it, and I should finish it
Pattern interruption
I got thru the winter season singing my intrusive thoughts about calling psychics, or my ex. I sang my intrusive thoughts to pop songs and anything that bothered me. So find a pop song and sing about your feelings (mine was hit me baby one more time by Britney spear; it went something like this “ooops I want to call my ex oh baby baby” and then I found I didn’t need to change much other part of the lyrics. )
Identifying Intrusive thoughts and intrusive feelings
Identifying my intrusive thoughts, for me , questions like: is what’s my ex dating? Or Ugh what does my sister want from me?, feeling angry every time I come from work… feeling angry in general… and the thing about intrusive feelings and thoughts is well they are there, but my response to it what can change if I am willing to observe it. So willing to observe it takes time but so helpful because you can say ok this my Achilles heel to this feeling or thought, but I don’t have to act on it… and THAT observation is a huge start in awareness. I can explain it but then the other battle is not reacting the same way, easier said than done.
A long time ago a therapist said when my mind was going and I needed to call a psychic but couldn’t he suggested I recall the 50 states alphabetically without the internet… and I still use this but have gotten really good at it. I guess things like my favorite actor has been in movies. Things you know but would need a source to check, yet occupy your brain chatter.
Or cleaning! Reorganizing my makeup, or even getting rid of clothes, some kind of spring cleaning project
I think this goes back to the first point but asking yourself “what have I been putting off?” : oil change, organizing bills, salsa class (anything from the mundane to the exciting), planning a trip
But That’s always a challenge
Get a passion project: hobbies, learning a new language, music something that really gets you going. And I’ve tried asking psychics this like “what would I like doing?” And they would give generals, and the thing is no one knows what you like best but you! So don’t make that mistake I’ve made. And do it challenge yourself to remember what you like to do!
This is probably the hardest thing you’re gonna have to figure out: what do love to do (outside your ex/or poi)? What do I love about my life? What is my purpose in life? And it does hit this existential type of crisis but if you’re really passionate about what you are doing and love it, that does take a hard attention away from your person and energetically it is felt and it is attractive.
Change your environment, routine… if you can’t, rearrange your furniture so instead of waking up and walk left, you go right… and you could hate it and re change it back, but the point is to change your routine for a little bit to build a new habit, to think new thoughts, that don’t lead to thinking about them … at least immediately
Which brings me to I have haven’t finished that book “atomic habits” but it mentions successful habits takes one small change a day, and consistently; versus then to change your whole life immediately and expect follow thru… which often leads to giving up so just focus on changing one small habit. There’s a free YouTube audio version of the book, I highly recommend it, and I should finish it
Pattern interruption
I got thru the winter season singing my intrusive thoughts about calling psychics, or my ex. I sang my intrusive thoughts to pop songs and anything that bothered me. So find a pop song and sing about your feelings (mine was hit me baby one more time by Britney spear; it went something like this “ooops I want to call my ex oh baby baby” and then I found I didn’t need to change much other part of the lyrics. )
Identifying Intrusive thoughts and intrusive feelings
Identifying my intrusive thoughts, for me , questions like: is what’s my ex dating? Or Ugh what does my sister want from me?, feeling angry every time I come from work… feeling angry in general… and the thing about intrusive feelings and thoughts is well they are there, but my response to it what can change if I am willing to observe it. So willing to observe it takes time but so helpful because you can say ok this my Achilles heel to this feeling or thought, but I don’t have to act on it… and THAT observation is a huge start in awareness. I can explain it but then the other battle is not reacting the same way, easier said than done.
A long time ago a therapist said when my mind was going and I needed to call a psychic but couldn’t he suggested I recall the 50 states alphabetically without the internet… and I still use this but have gotten really good at it. I guess things like my favorite actor has been in movies. Things you know but would need a source to check, yet occupy your brain chatter.
Or cleaning! Reorganizing my makeup, or even getting rid of clothes, some kind of spring cleaning project
I think this goes back to the first point but asking yourself “what have I been putting off?” : oil change, organizing bills, salsa class (anything from the mundane to the exciting), planning a trip
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Addicted to Psychics / Re: I want to quit
« Last post by Candy on Today at 12:58:39 AM »Does anyone have any advice on how they distracted themselves when going no contact with POI or when POI ghosted? I am committed to not letting POI not texting me not cause me to break and text them. I’m not playing that game anymore. Any advice during this phase is appreciated. Thank you.
If you have a gym membership, go to the gym whenever you feel the overwhelming urge to reach out. Seriously. Working out is a great “distraction”, it fills your brain with dopamine, and over time, you look smokin’ hot because of it. Then whether or not POI returns, you get all the benefits and likely a new boyfriend. 😉
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Addicted to Psychics / Re: I want to quit
« Last post by sai07 on May 06, 2024, 11:24:38 PM »Does anyone have any advice on how they distracted themselves when going no contact with POI or when POI ghosted? I am committed to not letting POI not texting me not cause me to break and text them. I’m not playing that game anymore. Any advice during this phase is appreciated. Thank you.
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Addicted to Psychics / Re: Help! :(
« Last post by Ivy on May 06, 2024, 04:50:31 AM »Thank you so much. I am going to try journaling the readings.