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Title: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on November 12, 2018, 11:23:52 PM
Here is your warning that this will be long. ;) So I have been lurking in this forum for last few weeks.  It took awhile to get my account created but since the beginning of October you could say I have been having a bit of a psychic addiction.  Because something has been bothering me.  It was October and the spirit of Halloween I wanted to ask a psychic about my love life and if a POI was going to come back.  I was really hurt by this POI but I bounce between wanting them back or not.  By this point my POI and I have been broken up since March 2018 and my POI has been with someone since mid June 2018.  So my first reading was on October 5th 2018 and my last was November 9th 2018.   I really didn’t think anything of it at the time and was very skeptical.  I still am skeptical right now whether any of the predictions would happen but here is my experience with some readings.

After the first reading I got that my POI was coming back.  I was like let’s get a second opinion and I got the same outcome and they even said similar things.  This started a search of sorts.  Is this really happening or some kind of fluke of false hopes.  So here is a review of all the psychics I did readings in order and what I remember from them.

Starbreezetarot (Keen) I asked about what my love life will be and if there is anyone in my past that will came back.  Am I soon to find the one.  She asked for my name and DOB.  Told me that someone will be coming into my life soon.  That when I meet them I wouldn’t think of them as someone to spend my life with but we would just click.  That it would seem all of the sudden and she felt it would be through a gathering with friends.  Then she checked to see if my POI would be coming back by getting her name and DOB.  She said yes and that I would have a choice between my POI and this new person.  That no matter who I would choose they are both long term partners but she really said that my POI and I would reconcile.  She also said that my new relationship with my POI would be different than our previous.  It wouldn’t be a bad thing and actually a really good renewed relationship.  She also mentioned that see got tarot cards indicating that we would reconcile.  She predicted a 6 which she say as 6 days/weeks.  Only thing that happened so far was I bumped into my POI at a fast food restaurant during lunch.  We didn’t speak and not sure if she even saw me.  Still a week left of the 6 weeks so verdict is still debatable if a start of reconciliation will happen with POI or if I meet this new person.  But I might have to give a bit to her that we did indeed come in contact in some way even though we didn’t talk.

BEST PSYCHIC LAURA (Keen) I asked about my future love life and if I will reconcile with my POI.  She said yes I will but it won’t happen for awhile.  She got a 3 which she said could be 3 days/weeks/months.  She was leaning more on it being 3 months of it though on when my POI would contact me to start to reconcile which helps explains why she felt it won’t be for awhile.  She also mentioned there would be someone else before my POI contacts me.  Said the same thing as Starbreezetarot that this person I could be with as well.  But she included that if I choose my POI that this new person has the potential to be a lifelong friend but if I choose the new person, my POI wouldn’t be that kind of person in my life and would more likely be gone for good.

Brodi (PS x7563) I asked if she saw my POI coming back.  Brodi was really sweet and I enjoyed talking with her.  I felt like we did connect really well and she saw that my POI would come back.  She was getting an 8 for weeks but she really felt it would just be sometime later this holiday season maybe into January that my POI will contact me.  She did see a future with her and even predicted us having three kids.  She did feel like there could possibly be another person introduced just before my POI contacts me.

Mylie (PS x8974) I asked if she saw my POI coming back.  I really felt like we connected well and she said that my POI would be coming back but it would be awhile.  She saw my POI contacting me in about January but maybe a bit earlier.  She even predicted that we would end up together and have three kids as well.  She also mentioned that my POI is a twin flame that was a runner.  Which is why my POI broke up so abruptly and out of the blue.  I asked her if she saw anyone else for me and she said she didn’t but she just focuses on the A to B and can miss things that are in the middle.  So she wouldn’t hold out saying that I might not meet someone else before my POI contacts me.  Overall though is she saw possible holiday season for POI to make contact but more likely right after the New Year and that we would definitely reconcile.

Serenity (PS x9213) I asked about if she saw my POI coming back.  This was a very brief call but I felt as most of it was scripted.  She kind of went more into my POI’s feelings which I thought was partially right but could work for just about anyone.  She did say that I would reconcile with my POI and that she my POI reaching out within a week.  She also predicted that I would be married in 2020 and would have three kids.  Her prediction of a week has come and gone.  So maybe her timing is off on the first contact but she did see she would reconcile.

Kristine (PS x8223) I wanted to know more about my love life coming up and if my POI was coming back.  We did a check first on my love life and determine that I wouldn’t be single much longer.  We then checked about my POI and she sees that my POI will contact me in 12-14 weeks.  So right after the start of the new year into mid January.  She also saw that my POI will break up with her current bf right before she reaches out.  I honestly told her that I couldn’t see it happening.  She said that I should call her back then because she was confident it was going to happen and she wanted to help me with my next steps after POI makes contact.  I really don’t know what to think of this reading so we will see if her prediction on contact happens.

Betty (PS x7514) I asked her if my POI would be coming back.  I honestly didn’t feel like we connected at all and I barely remember what she all said.  I want to say that she saw we would be getting back together but at the same time I can’t say she said wouldn’t.  So I am just going to say the latter here and that I will not reconnect with my POI but she did see someone else.  That is about all I can remember from her call.

Queen of Cups18 (Keen) I asked what she saw coming up for me and my POI.  She said no she wasn’t going to come back.  She then asked why I had so much negativity about the situation.  That kind of threw me for a bit.  I wasn’t expecting her to sense that out of me and it was true.  I mentioned it was because of the past and what my POI has done to me since the breakup I am upset over it since I didn’t deserve it.  She definitely could tell I wasn’t happy about the situation.  From what I got out of my reading from Queen was that I felt like it was more of the present than really a prediction.  She read my POI well and my POI’s current bf.  She was able to see traits about my POI that I didn’t mention at all.  Picked up a medical condition about my POI that I wasn’t expecting her to say.  So I would say as some others on this forum have mentioned that she picks up on the present more so the future.  So as reconciling with my POI I would say she is correct that we are not at the present but I think her future prediction of us not reconciling might be wrong.

Love Clairvoyant Brittany (Keen) I asked what she saw coming up for me and my POI.  She said that we would reconcile and that she would contact sometime as early as December but more likely will be January or maybe February. She felt stronger for January.  She was able to describe some things about my POI well but some things I felt like it was scripted or a canned response.  Examples like she has commitment issues.  Now I did feel right after the break up that there might be commitment issues there but I am not entirely sure on that.  She also said that she sees a trip sometime after my POI contacts me.  Could that be a trip together?  Seemed to talk more about what my POI was feeling between me and her current bf.  It was that she loved me and not really him.  That she actually is quite bored with him.  How she does compare me to him.  But overall was that she did see her reaching out and then us reconciling and us getting married.

Aries Intuition (Booked 30 min phone call through her site) I asked her what she saw coming up with my POI?  I didn’t want to mention an ex POI to see what she would say.  I was honestly shocked.  The detail she gave me from now to into the later part of next spring.  She described my POI really well.  Her prediction was that my POI would reach out to me and we would slowly start to reconcile.  That reconciliation wouldn’t really happen fast and would go into the spring.  She described in detail how the reconciliation process would be with my POI and why it wouldn’t be so fast.  The interesting thing was that she mentioned cold.  She wasn’t sure if I lived somewhere cold or not but she just said that contact from my POI will take place during the winter months.  I live where we experience the “nice” winter weather and with fall really rolling around right now.  It will be awhile before my POI contacts me.  The coldest time of the year is January into the first part of February.  So does that cold meaning tie into our coldest time of the year?  Interesting way of predicting a timeline without numbers.  Aries was thinking that January would be when she will contact me.  She also mentioned that the person around her right now would not be completely out of the picture when my POI contacts me but not to worry as that will not last.  There would be just some overlap.  I was honestly prepared for her to say that I wouldn’t reconcile with my POI at all but she did see it happening.  But she gave me the opposite and a clear path after that first contact.  Something that no one else ever did.  Most just said yes she will contact you and you will be together.  Nothing about the finer details.  I actually had a great time talking with her and we were laughing as it was Halloween night when we talked.  I did tell her that I find it very hard to believe what she is telling me and that I feel like it might not be that way. I explained that I am about 50/50 when it comes to if my POI will really come back and she told me that is a good thing.  That I am completely open and I will get the choice if I want to take my POI back or not when that time comes.

Bridgette (PS x8133) I asked what she saw coming up for my POI and I.  Surprisingly she got something no one else said about my POI.  That my POI wanted space after we broke up.  She told me to just give her space and that she saw her coming back right after the start of the year.  The weird thing was that she saw a kid.  Neither my POI nor I have any children.  When I told her that she mentioned that she does see a child.  So not sure what that all means but maybe in the soon future?  She talked a bit more about the present and what my POI was feeling but she was sure that my POI would come back and we would reconcile with that first contact the start of the year.  One thing else I want to mention is that she said someone will enter my life unexpectedly and shortly before my POI will contact me.  As my POI will feel that she is losing me because of this person might be what causes her to contact me.  Something else was that she said that my POI and I have a strong connection cord with each other that isn’t severed and that will bring us back together.

Moira (PS x7776) I was in line for a phone call when the system messed up and I got impatient.  So instead of a phone call I did a video session so I didn’t have to wait another day to get with her.  We had a video session for just over an hour.  I asked what she saw coming up for my POI and I.  I really felt like we connected but it did feel a bit more as a counseling session to me than a reading.  We discussed a lot about my POI and her feelings.  She was able to nail some of my POI’s friends that I think have been causing some problems. One she even described her appearance really well.  At first she wanted me to contact her but wait awhile.  It was then I mentioned that something happened with my POI in September that doesn’t make me want to contact first in fear of legal reasons.  At that point Moira said that she takes back the contact part but she does see my POI contact me after the start of the year.  That I should be really careful around my POI for my own safety.  She really was on my side and I felt like we discussed more about the present than the future.  The only future prediction was my POI would contact me.  Moria also thought that maybe I should meet someone new as that would get to my POI to reach out.  She didn’t specifically say that there was another person but interesting that she at least mentioned it.  She also mentioned that she could see that I have some empath abilities and I have an amazing aura around me.  That I should trust those when my POI does make contact.  So overall she does see contact roughly the same timeline as everyone else that predicted but we didn’t really look that far so can’t say on the reconciliation.  It was a positive reading though and I did enjoy talking with her.

Sandra Logan (Found based on an article about her.  Booked through her site for 1 hour phone session) I had a great time talking to Sandra and it was like talking to your grandma.  She had a bit different style than the other psychics.  We first started off with my love life and my POI.  She was able to pick up my POI really well and believes there is a chance of us coming back together after the start of the New Year.  She basically was saying that my POI needs to miss me and right now she isn’t but she will.  She told me to trust in my spirit guides.  They have a plan and are working for me and my POI to bring us back together.  She told me to just try and live my life and let them take care of it.  I asked her in the call if she saw someone else coming into my life before my POI contacts me.  Her reply was that was why she told me to live my life.  Because she does see someone entering but she didn’t want me to think about it.  From there we told about finances and my life in general and I can say that she saw 2019/2020 being really good years for me. Overall it was a good phone session and I was happy to talk to her. 

I had a couple more psychic calls just before Sandra but they followed the pattern of what everyone else said.  So here is the shocker for me out of all of these readings.  I get one thing that my POI will be coming back and they all basically got roughly the same timeline on when my POI will make contact.  Aries was able to give a more detailed account after that first contact than the rest.  I think that with the majority getting the same timeline is interesting along with seeing her coming back.  I really was expecting a high percentage of saying yes but if you look through most they all say about the same thing.  Now some of this can be canned phrases and work for the majority of people but if that was the case then why do all have such similar timelines?  I would expect them to be all different or at least have more variation than what I got.  So I would have to say there has to be some sort of gift that they have.  It could be that I got a lot of good guessers and out 13 I had the high majority say positive things.  Now I also thought do they all have a way to see other readings I have done?  Well I didn’t do it all from the same psychic source.  They are different and I still got roughly the same outcome.

So if I were to concise everything down into one timeline here is the final predication.  That sometime between now and the end of the year I will meet someone unexpectedly.  This person has all the potential to be a life partner for me.  Shortly after my POI will break up with her current boyfriend and then make contact with me sometime right after the New Year.  From there we will slowly start to rebuild our relationship to a reconciliation that will lead to marriage and not something short term. 

Now here is my final conclusion on that prediction.  Will it happen?  Honestly I do not know.  I am still very skeptical about the prediction and I can say that I don’t see it happening.  It does feel a lot like a really big false hope.  I see my POI staying with the guy she is with and never wanting to talk to me again.  But with all the bad things that have happened there also have been subtle clues that maybe she will come back.  I also have this really faint gut feeling about her making contact with me.  So in time we will see what happens but for now I am going to just store this information and just live my life and let my spirit guides do their thing.  I will not worry about it and just see what happens.  I'm also fortunate that I am able to afford what I did.  So I do not condone anyone to do what I did by talking to so many psychics if you cannot afford it.  If something happens and I remember I will come back and post an update.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: bstalling on November 13, 2018, 03:06:47 AM
I advise you to read more of the threads here and pick better readers (that is if you are going to continue to call). Barely anyone on PS is good.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on November 13, 2018, 03:23:50 AM
I am done with readings and in the middle of closing my accounts.  There are three more psychics that I didn't list here just before I called Sandra Logan.  All three of those where from keen not PS.  They said the same thing as the others.  So I figured I wouldn't add them in.  So really I have a good spread between the two sites overall with the majority all saying a positive outcome.  Only QoC said a negative outcome.  Pretty sure Betty did from PS but like I said in her block that I couldn't really remember the reading to what she said.

For what it is worth I was really going into these readings expecting a negative outcome and I would have been fine with that.  Just amazed at the number of positive outcomes.  I thought about setting up a reading with Yona but I figured I have enough to go on.  Both Aries and Sandra told me they will not give a positive outcome unless they absolutely see it.  So for now I am just going to let things go with the flow.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: psychic girls on November 13, 2018, 06:14:28 AM
Look at all the psychics reviews here rarely does anyone get anything right.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on November 13, 2018, 01:18:44 PM
Look at all the psychics reviews here rarely does anyone get anything right.

True but I would ask why do you think that is?  If I was a psychic and really wanted to prove how accurate I am, wouldn't the best option be to always give negative info?  At least for relationships because the odds of someone coming back is small.  So if you had to make a prediction why not go the route of your best chance of getting it right instead of giving a sense of false hope?  That would make you more accurate in overall outcomes.  Yes people don't want to hear the negative outcomes most of the time but wouldn't you want honesty instead of false hopes?  You may hate them at that moment but think of the pain and suffering they would save you in the long run.

In my case I was actually expecting to have a negative prediction going into it but instead I got the opposite.  The fact that only 13% of the psychics (includes the additional three on keen not listed here) I talked to said she wasn't coming back means one of two things.  That they have a gift or most give out false hopes regarding relationships.  I personally think that there are truly people out there with a gift.  They might very well be able to predict the future and some might only be able to see so far out.  But also the future is fluid and that can cause problems and change outcomes.  Again with mine I was expecting a negative outcome or at least closer to 50/50 on whether or not to reconcile with my POI.  If my POI does come back in roughly the timeframe they gave me I would call that a miracle and they have a gift.  Also remember that not every psychic works for everyone.  I might be very easy to connect with where you may not to a particular psychic.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: star1 on November 13, 2018, 01:35:49 PM
Look at all the psychics reviews here rarely does anyone get anything right.

True but I would ask why do you think that is?  If I was a psychic and really wanted to prove how accurate I am, wouldn't the best option be to always give negative info?  At least for relationships because the odds of someone coming back is small.  So if you had to make a prediction why not go the route of your best chance of getting it right instead of giving a sense of false hope?  That would make you more accurate in overall outcomes.  Yes people don't want to hear the negative outcomes most of the time but wouldn't you want honesty instead of false hopes?  You may hate them at that moment but think of the pain and suffering they would save you in the long run.

In my case I was actually expecting to have a negative prediction going into it but instead I got the opposite.  The fact that only 13% of the psychics (includes the additional three on keen not listed here) I talked to said she wasn't coming back means one of two things.  That they have a gift or most give out false hopes regarding relationships.  I personally think that there are truly people out there with a gift.  They might very well be able to predict the future and some might only be able to see so far out.  But also the future is fluid and that can cause problems and change outcomes.  Again with mine I was expecting a negative outcome or at least closer to 50/50 on whether or not to reconcile with my POI.  If my POI does come back in roughly the timeframe they gave me I would call that a miracle and they have a gift.  Also remember that not every psychic works for everyone.  I might be very easy to connect with where you may not to a particular psychic.

This is why I think that a few readers in particular are negative about relationships. I think it's the easy route to say "he can't commit/has issues with another woman/you can be friends/insert any other regular excuse here", because 9 times out of 10 - the ex does not come back. For me when a reader is negative and gives me that spiel, that's not good enough, as I know that they tell others similar. I want validating evidence from a reader if they can give good OR bad news to prove that they're half genuine.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: LAW1974 on November 13, 2018, 01:54:11 PM
I do go back and forth on this topic...  For one I understand that if a reader gives you a negative outcome, you probably have no reason to call them back.  If they give you a positive outcome than you keep calling and they push the timeline out... etc you keep spending $... makes more sense.  However, the one thing I agree with sparky about is this:  My timeline is the same from multiple readers as well.... and it is not the same as other ppl's so that does also make me wonder why?  That's the only thing that I find a little believable.  And then there are the ppl like Aries,, Yona and Effie who give such details and markers?  IDK...
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on November 13, 2018, 02:02:05 PM
Look at all the psychics reviews here rarely does anyone get anything right.

True but I would ask why do you think that is?  If I was a psychic and really wanted to prove how accurate I am, wouldn't the best option be to always give negative info?  At least for relationships because the odds of someone coming back is small.  So if you had to make a prediction why not go the route of your best chance of getting it right instead of giving a sense of false hope?  That would make you more accurate in overall outcomes.  Yes people don't want to hear the negative outcomes most of the time but wouldn't you want honesty instead of false hopes?  You may hate them at that moment but think of the pain and suffering they would save you in the long run.

In my case I was actually expecting to have a negative prediction going into it but instead I got the opposite.  The fact that only 13% of the psychics (includes the additional three on keen not listed here) I talked to said she wasn't coming back means one of two things.  That they have a gift or most give out false hopes regarding relationships.  I personally think that there are truly people out there with a gift.  They might very well be able to predict the future and some might only be able to see so far out.  But also the future is fluid and that can cause problems and change outcomes.  Again with mine I was expecting a negative outcome or at least closer to 50/50 on whether or not to reconcile with my POI.  If my POI does come back in roughly the timeframe they gave me I would call that a miracle and they have a gift.  Also remember that not every psychic works for everyone.  I might be very easy to connect with where you may not to a particular psychic.

This is why I think that a few readers in particular are negative about relationships. I think it's the easy route to say "he can't commit/has issues with another woman/you can be friends/insert any other regular excuse here", because 9 times out of 10 - the ex does not come back. For me when a reader is negative and gives me that spiel, that's not good enough, as I know that they tell others similar. I want validating evidence from a reader if they can give good OR bad news to prove that they're half genuine.

I agree with you on wanting validating evidence.  For me out of all the psychics I talked to, Aries and Sandra are the mind blowing two for me and both of those were booked through their own site.  Aries I felt really tuned into my POI really well.  She was able to describe my POI really well.  All the detail she gave does fall in line with how my POI and I would start a process of reconciliation.  Sandra was great because of the other stuff we talked about.  She said things that are coming outside of the relationship with my POI, that makes me feel like there is some valid evidence to support what she sees.  Waiting on them to play out but I see them happening.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: star1 on November 13, 2018, 02:11:16 PM
Look at all the psychics reviews here rarely does anyone get anything right.

True but I would ask why do you think that is?  If I was a psychic and really wanted to prove how accurate I am, wouldn't the best option be to always give negative info?  At least for relationships because the odds of someone coming back is small.  So if you had to make a prediction why not go the route of your best chance of getting it right instead of giving a sense of false hope?  That would make you more accurate in overall outcomes.  Yes people don't want to hear the negative outcomes most of the time but wouldn't you want honesty instead of false hopes?  You may hate them at that moment but think of the pain and suffering they would save you in the long run.

In my case I was actually expecting to have a negative prediction going into it but instead I got the opposite.  The fact that only 13% of the psychics (includes the additional three on keen not listed here) I talked to said she wasn't coming back means one of two things.  That they have a gift or most give out false hopes regarding relationships.  I personally think that there are truly people out there with a gift.  They might very well be able to predict the future and some might only be able to see so far out.  But also the future is fluid and that can cause problems and change outcomes.  Again with mine I was expecting a negative outcome or at least closer to 50/50 on whether or not to reconcile with my POI.  If my POI does come back in roughly the timeframe they gave me I would call that a miracle and they have a gift.  Also remember that not every psychic works for everyone.  I might be very easy to connect with where you may not to a particular psychic.

This is why I think that a few readers in particular are negative about relationships. I think it's the easy route to say "he can't commit/has issues with another woman/you can be friends/insert any other regular excuse here", because 9 times out of 10 - the ex does not come back. For me when a reader is negative and gives me that spiel, that's not good enough, as I know that they tell others similar. I want validating evidence from a reader if they can give good OR bad news to prove that they're half genuine.

I agree with you on wanting validating evidence.  For me out of all the psychics I talked to, Aries and Sandra are the mind blowing two for me and both of those were booked through their own site.  Aries I felt really tuned into my POI really well.  She was able to describe my POI really well.  All the detail she gave does fall in line with how my POI and I would start a process of reconciliation.  Sandra was great because of the other stuff we talked about.  She said things that are coming outside of the relationship with my POI, that makes me feel like there is some valid evidence to support what she sees.  Waiting on them to play out but I see them happening.

I didn't get that much detail with aries, but what I got was impressive. I think she has something, for sure.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on November 13, 2018, 02:12:12 PM
I do go back and forth on this topic...  For one I understand that if a reader gives you a negative outcome, you probably have no reason to call them back.  If they give you a positive outcome than you keep calling and they push the timeline out... etc you keep spending $... makes more sense.  However, the one thing I agree with sparky about is this:  My timeline is the same from multiple readers as well.... and it is not the same as other ppl's so that does also make me wonder why?  That's the only thing that I find a little believable.  And then there are the ppl like Aries,, Yona and Effie who give such details and markers?  IDK...

I see your point on wanting to keep you coming back to spend money but I could counter that.  Let's say they give you the negative outcome and it was right.  Wouldn't you also call back again for other things because they were right about the negative outcome?  To me that would make more business sense than just stringing you along for awhile extending the timeline.  You can only extend the timeline so far before someone finally stops calling.  Where if you are right you have a better chance of a returning customer over and over.  Yes it takes more work but in the long run what is better?  Returning customer for years or just for a matter of months?

I actually thought about doing a reading with Yona just to add to the pool.  I figured it would be interesting to see if she would come up with the same outcome but I figure I had enough for now.  I will let things play out.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: scarlora on November 13, 2018, 02:23:38 PM
Look at all the psychics reviews here rarely does anyone get anything right.

True but I would ask why do you think that is?  If I was a psychic and really wanted to prove how accurate I am, wouldn't the best option be to always give negative info?  At least for relationships because the odds of someone coming back is small.  So if you had to make a prediction why not go the route of your best chance of getting it right instead of giving a sense of false hope?  That would make you more accurate in overall outcomes.  Yes people don't want to hear the negative outcomes most of the time but wouldn't you want honesty instead of false hopes?  You may hate them at that moment but think of the pain and suffering they would save you in the long run.

In my case I was actually expecting to have a negative prediction going into it but instead I got the opposite.  The fact that only 13% of the psychics (includes the additional three on keen not listed here) I talked to said she wasn't coming back means one of two things.  That they have a gift or most give out false hopes regarding relationships.  I personally think that there are truly people out there with a gift.  They might very well be able to predict the future and some might only be able to see so far out.  But also the future is fluid and that can cause problems and change outcomes.  Again with mine I was expecting a negative outcome or at least closer to 50/50 on whether or not to reconcile with my POI.  If my POI does come back in roughly the timeframe they gave me I would call that a miracle and they have a gift.  Also remember that not every psychic works for everyone.  I might be very easy to connect with where you may not to a particular psychic.

Probably 5% of the psychics I talked to said he was not coming back...and they were right.  They are at the top of my list to call again if I need advice in the future. (QoC18, Michele Answers, Sherrilynn)  The other 95% were wrong (Kisha, Yona, Cookie, Effie)  even if they seemed in tune with the current situation. 
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on November 13, 2018, 02:33:39 PM
Look at all the psychics reviews here rarely does anyone get anything right.

True but I would ask why do you think that is?  If I was a psychic and really wanted to prove how accurate I am, wouldn't the best option be to always give negative info?  At least for relationships because the odds of someone coming back is small.  So if you had to make a prediction why not go the route of your best chance of getting it right instead of giving a sense of false hope?  That would make you more accurate in overall outcomes.  Yes people don't want to hear the negative outcomes most of the time but wouldn't you want honesty instead of false hopes?  You may hate them at that moment but think of the pain and suffering they would save you in the long run.

In my case I was actually expecting to have a negative prediction going into it but instead I got the opposite.  The fact that only 13% of the psychics (includes the additional three on keen not listed here) I talked to said she wasn't coming back means one of two things.  That they have a gift or most give out false hopes regarding relationships.  I personally think that there are truly people out there with a gift.  They might very well be able to predict the future and some might only be able to see so far out.  But also the future is fluid and that can cause problems and change outcomes.  Again with mine I was expecting a negative outcome or at least closer to 50/50 on whether or not to reconcile with my POI.  If my POI does come back in roughly the timeframe they gave me I would call that a miracle and they have a gift.  Also remember that not every psychic works for everyone.  I might be very easy to connect with where you may not to a particular psychic.

Probably 5% of the psychics I talked to said he was not coming back...and they were right.  They are at the top of my list to call again if I need advice in the future. (QoC18, Michele Answers, Sherrilynn)  The other 95% were wrong (Kisha, Yona, Cookie, Effie)  even if they seemed in tune with the current situation.

When you got the readings at the time, who did you feel were right before the predictions happened?  For me even though QoC18 had a negative outcome.  During the reading it just felt like it was more so the present than really the future.  I think that just because I have a gut feeling that my POI will reach out.  In fact even others in my circle outside of psychics have said the same thing for months.  We just don't know when.  So really the interesting thing for me was how out of all the psychics I talked to their timelines match.  Or is that a coincidence that they roughly say about 2-3 months out to everyone?  :-\
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: star1 on November 13, 2018, 02:44:55 PM
This is why I'm wary of QOC. She seems to tell most people negative news, and I found her too generic. She couldn't answer questions I put to her and wasn't seeming to make sense of the situation, she was repeating herself constantly. I did find her a nice lady, though. Not rude like others have said.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: scarlora on November 13, 2018, 02:56:17 PM
Look at all the psychics reviews here rarely does anyone get anything right.

True but I would ask why do you think that is?  If I was a psychic and really wanted to prove how accurate I am, wouldn't the best option be to always give negative info?  At least for relationships because the odds of someone coming back is small.  So if you had to make a prediction why not go the route of your best chance of getting it right instead of giving a sense of false hope?  That would make you more accurate in overall outcomes.  Yes people don't want to hear the negative outcomes most of the time but wouldn't you want honesty instead of false hopes?  You may hate them at that moment but think of the pain and suffering they would save you in the long run.

In my case I was actually expecting to have a negative prediction going into it but instead I got the opposite.  The fact that only 13% of the psychics (includes the additional three on keen not listed here) I talked to said she wasn't coming back means one of two things.  That they have a gift or most give out false hopes regarding relationships.  I personally think that there are truly people out there with a gift.  They might very well be able to predict the future and some might only be able to see so far out.  But also the future is fluid and that can cause problems and change outcomes.  Again with mine I was expecting a negative outcome or at least closer to 50/50 on whether or not to reconcile with my POI.  If my POI does come back in roughly the timeframe they gave me I would call that a miracle and they have a gift.  Also remember that not every psychic works for everyone.  I might be very easy to connect with where you may not to a particular psychic.

Probably 5% of the psychics I talked to said he was not coming back...and they were right.  They are at the top of my list to call again if I need advice in the future. (QoC18, Michele Answers, Sherrilynn)  The other 95% were wrong (Kisha, Yona, Cookie, Effie)  even if they seemed in tune with the current situation.

When you got the readings at the time, who did you feel were right before the predictions happened?  For me even though QoC18 had a negative outcome.  During the reading it just felt like it was more so the present than really the future.  I think that just because I have a gut feeling that my POI will reach out.  In fact even others in my circle outside of psychics have said the same thing for months.  We just don't know when.  So really the interesting thing for me was how out of all the psychics I talked to their timelines match.  Or is that a coincidence that they roughly say about 2-3 months out to everyone?  :-\

I couldn't trust my intuition anymore because i was blindsided by my break up, so I really had no idea who would be right.  At first I got a lot of Feb. 2018 for reconciliation.  Then a bunch of people saying May.  Then October. 
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on November 13, 2018, 03:08:50 PM
I couldn't trust my intuition anymore because i was blindsided by my break up, so I really had no idea who would be right.  At first I got a lot of Feb. 2018 for reconciliation.  Then a bunch of people saying May.  Then October.

You know that is tough.  Here is something that helped me trust my intuition.  Back in May I predicted that my POI would start to lose friendships.  Friendships that she had before I met her and I didn't know these people until her.  I was giving it until Feb/March of next year but the earliest I felt it happening would be end of Sept first part of October.  Well guess what is happening in the last week or so?  My POI is starting to lose friendships and the ones I was predicting.

Something else about my POI that is giving me that gut feeling of contact.  We met on New Years Eve and there is a great story there.  Her current guy they met on Bumble from what I heard.  Not really exciting.  I know my POI that she wants that wow factor in life.  So marrying this guy she is with won't do it.  Not saying it can't happen but I just don't feel it.  With NYE coming up soon I know she will be thinking about me.  In fact that is some of the subtle signs I see that I am sure she is thinking about me right now but having trouble wanting to reach out.  Because other people are controlling her.  When she finally defends herself that is when she will reach out.  I have also thought that for months.  That was the thing Moira said of her two friends she described.  I didn't mention anything about her friends and she just went into them about them whispering in her ear about the situation.

I was blindsided by my breakup as well but my intuition is still there.  It may be wrong and I am okay with that too.  I am one to admit to my mistakes.  So don't lose faith in your own intuition. 
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: star1 on November 13, 2018, 03:11:15 PM
I couldn't trust my intuition anymore because i was blindsided by my break up, so I really had no idea who would be right.  At first I got a lot of Feb. 2018 for reconciliation.  Then a bunch of people saying May.  Then October.

You know that is tough.  Here is something that helped me trust my intuition.  Back in May I predicted that my POI would start to lose friendships.  Friendships that she had before I met her and I didn't know these people until her.  I was giving it until Feb/March of next year but the earliest I felt it happening would be end of Sept first part of October.  Well guess what is happening in the last week or so?  My POI is starting to lose friendships and the ones I was predicting.

Something else about my POI that is giving me that gut feeling of contact.  We met on New Years Eve and there is a great story there.  Her current guy they met on Bumble from what I heard.  Not really exciting.  I know my POI that she wants that wow factor in life.  So marrying this guy she is with won't do it.  Not saying it can't happen but I just don't feel it.  With NYE coming up soon I know she will be thinking about me.  In fact that is some of the subtle signs I see that I am sure she is thinking about me right now but having trouble wanting to reach out.  Because other people are controlling her.  When she finally defends herself that is when she will reach out.  I have also thought that for months.  That was the thing Moira said of her two friends she described.  I didn't mention anything about her friends and she just went into them about them whispering in her ear about the situation.

I was blindsided by my breakup as well but my intuition is still there.  It may be wrong and I am okay with that too.  I am one to admit to my mistakes.  So don't lose faith in your own intuition.

I'm an idiot and always ignore my intuition. I wish I had paid attention to it.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on November 13, 2018, 03:17:25 PM
I couldn't trust my intuition anymore because i was blindsided by my break up, so I really had no idea who would be right.  At first I got a lot of Feb. 2018 for reconciliation.  Then a bunch of people saying May.  Then October.

You know that is tough.  Here is something that helped me trust my intuition.  Back in May I predicted that my POI would start to lose friendships.  Friendships that she had before I met her and I didn't know these people until her.  I was giving it until Feb/March of next year but the earliest I felt it happening would be end of Sept first part of October.  Well guess what is happening in the last week or so?  My POI is starting to lose friendships and the ones I was predicting.

Something else about my POI that is giving me that gut feeling of contact.  We met on New Years Eve and there is a great story there.  Her current guy they met on Bumble from what I heard.  Not really exciting.  I know my POI that she wants that wow factor in life.  So marrying this guy she is with won't do it.  Not saying it can't happen but I just don't feel it.  With NYE coming up soon I know she will be thinking about me.  In fact that is some of the subtle signs I see that I am sure she is thinking about me right now but having trouble wanting to reach out.  Because other people are controlling her.  When she finally defends herself that is when she will reach out.  I have also thought that for months.  That was the thing Moira said of her two friends she described.  I didn't mention anything about her friends and she just went into them about them whispering in her ear about the situation.

I was blindsided by my breakup as well but my intuition is still there.  It may be wrong and I am okay with that too.  I am one to admit to my mistakes.  So don't lose faith in your own intuition.

I'm an idiot and always ignore my intuition. I wish I had paid attention to it.

I wouldn't say you are an idiot but you can learn from it.  I know that even if I am wrong which there is the possibility I am.  That even if wrong helps me with my intuition.  I should add that one thing about these friendships she is losing now.  These are not easy friendships to say she is losing.  These were people she was calling her best friend and was even in a wedding a couple months ago.  But I still predicted it happening.  When I was younger I didn't trust my intuition much but lately I have been a lot.  I think over the course of the last couple of years have helped that.  So sometimes it takes time.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: star1 on November 13, 2018, 03:22:01 PM
I couldn't trust my intuition anymore because i was blindsided by my break up, so I really had no idea who would be right.  At first I got a lot of Feb. 2018 for reconciliation.  Then a bunch of people saying May.  Then October.

You know that is tough.  Here is something that helped me trust my intuition.  Back in May I predicted that my POI would start to lose friendships.  Friendships that she had before I met her and I didn't know these people until her.  I was giving it until Feb/March of next year but the earliest I felt it happening would be end of Sept first part of October.  Well guess what is happening in the last week or so?  My POI is starting to lose friendships and the ones I was predicting.

Something else about my POI that is giving me that gut feeling of contact.  We met on New Years Eve and there is a great story there.  Her current guy they met on Bumble from what I heard.  Not really exciting.  I know my POI that she wants that wow factor in life.  So marrying this guy she is with won't do it.  Not saying it can't happen but I just don't feel it.  With NYE coming up soon I know she will be thinking about me.  In fact that is some of the subtle signs I see that I am sure she is thinking about me right now but having trouble wanting to reach out.  Because other people are controlling her.  When she finally defends herself that is when she will reach out.  I have also thought that for months.  That was the thing Moira said of her two friends she described.  I didn't mention anything about her friends and she just went into them about them whispering in her ear about the situation.

I was blindsided by my breakup as well but my intuition is still there.  It may be wrong and I am okay with that too.  I am one to admit to my mistakes.  So don't lose faith in your own intuition.

I'm an idiot and always ignore my intuition. I wish I had paid attention to it.

I wouldn't say you are an idiot but you can learn from it.  I know that even if I am wrong which there is the possibility I am.  That even if wrong helps me with my intuition.  I should add that one thing about these friendships she is losing now.  These are not easy friendships to say she is losing.  These were people she was calling her best friend and was even in a wedding a couple months ago.  But I still predicted it happening.  When I was younger I didn't trust my intuition much but lately I have been a lot.  I think over the course of the last couple of years have helped that.  So sometimes it takes time.

Thank you. My gut feeling on this hasn't been very good. I ignored it at first, wondering if I'm worrying (I'm a huge worrier and pessimist), and choosing to ignore it as it's bad news and obviously you don't want it to be bad. But my gut has been right all along  :( I hope your lady comes forward for you.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on November 13, 2018, 03:31:48 PM
I couldn't trust my intuition anymore because i was blindsided by my break up, so I really had no idea who would be right.  At first I got a lot of Feb. 2018 for reconciliation.  Then a bunch of people saying May.  Then October.

You know that is tough.  Here is something that helped me trust my intuition.  Back in May I predicted that my POI would start to lose friendships.  Friendships that she had before I met her and I didn't know these people until her.  I was giving it until Feb/March of next year but the earliest I felt it happening would be end of Sept first part of October.  Well guess what is happening in the last week or so?  My POI is starting to lose friendships and the ones I was predicting.

Something else about my POI that is giving me that gut feeling of contact.  We met on New Years Eve and there is a great story there.  Her current guy they met on Bumble from what I heard.  Not really exciting.  I know my POI that she wants that wow factor in life.  So marrying this guy she is with won't do it.  Not saying it can't happen but I just don't feel it.  With NYE coming up soon I know she will be thinking about me.  In fact that is some of the subtle signs I see that I am sure she is thinking about me right now but having trouble wanting to reach out.  Because other people are controlling her.  When she finally defends herself that is when she will reach out.  I have also thought that for months.  That was the thing Moira said of her two friends she described.  I didn't mention anything about her friends and she just went into them about them whispering in her ear about the situation.

I was blindsided by my breakup as well but my intuition is still there.  It may be wrong and I am okay with that too.  I am one to admit to my mistakes.  So don't lose faith in your own intuition.

I'm an idiot and always ignore my intuition. I wish I had paid attention to it.

I wouldn't say you are an idiot but you can learn from it.  I know that even if I am wrong which there is the possibility I am.  That even if wrong helps me with my intuition.  I should add that one thing about these friendships she is losing now.  These are not easy friendships to say she is losing.  These were people she was calling her best friend and was even in a wedding a couple months ago.  But I still predicted it happening.  When I was younger I didn't trust my intuition much but lately I have been a lot.  I think over the course of the last couple of years have helped that.  So sometimes it takes time.

Thank you. My gut feeling on this hasn't been very good. I ignored it at first, wondering if I'm worrying (I'm a huge worrier and pessimist), and choosing to ignore it as it's bad news and obviously you don't want it to be bad. But my gut has been right all along  :( I hope your lady comes forward for you.

Thank you.  I am more of a plan for the worst but hope for the best kind of person.  So really right now I would say my ex isn't coming back but I can't let that gut feeling go away.  It is faint but there so I have to also trust that.  But the thing that interests me is this other person that a few psychics have mentioned.  Who I am supposed to meet between now and roughly into the first part of the year.  So even if I don't get with my ex I have that as well.  As hard as it will be, I am going to try and forget about these readings and let things happen.  I have things documented to look back and wonder if a situation played out that was predicted.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: star1 on November 13, 2018, 03:39:45 PM
I couldn't trust my intuition anymore because i was blindsided by my break up, so I really had no idea who would be right.  At first I got a lot of Feb. 2018 for reconciliation.  Then a bunch of people saying May.  Then October.

You know that is tough.  Here is something that helped me trust my intuition.  Back in May I predicted that my POI would start to lose friendships.  Friendships that she had before I met her and I didn't know these people until her.  I was giving it until Feb/March of next year but the earliest I felt it happening would be end of Sept first part of October.  Well guess what is happening in the last week or so?  My POI is starting to lose friendships and the ones I was predicting.

Something else about my POI that is giving me that gut feeling of contact.  We met on New Years Eve and there is a great story there.  Her current guy they met on Bumble from what I heard.  Not really exciting.  I know my POI that she wants that wow factor in life.  So marrying this guy she is with won't do it.  Not saying it can't happen but I just don't feel it.  With NYE coming up soon I know she will be thinking about me.  In fact that is some of the subtle signs I see that I am sure she is thinking about me right now but having trouble wanting to reach out.  Because other people are controlling her.  When she finally defends herself that is when she will reach out.  I have also thought that for months.  That was the thing Moira said of her two friends she described.  I didn't mention anything about her friends and she just went into them about them whispering in her ear about the situation.

I was blindsided by my breakup as well but my intuition is still there.  It may be wrong and I am okay with that too.  I am one to admit to my mistakes.  So don't lose faith in your own intuition.

I'm an idiot and always ignore my intuition. I wish I had paid attention to it.

I wouldn't say you are an idiot but you can learn from it.  I know that even if I am wrong which there is the possibility I am.  That even if wrong helps me with my intuition.  I should add that one thing about these friendships she is losing now.  These are not easy friendships to say she is losing.  These were people she was calling her best friend and was even in a wedding a couple months ago.  But I still predicted it happening.  When I was younger I didn't trust my intuition much but lately I have been a lot.  I think over the course of the last couple of years have helped that.  So sometimes it takes time.

Thank you. My gut feeling on this hasn't been very good. I ignored it at first, wondering if I'm worrying (I'm a huge worrier and pessimist), and choosing to ignore it as it's bad news and obviously you don't want it to be bad. But my gut has been right all along  :( I hope your lady comes forward for you.

Thank you.  I am more of a plan for the worst but hope for the best kind of person.  So really right now I would say my ex isn't coming back but I can't let that gut feeling go away.  It is faint but there so I have to also trust that.  But the thing that interests me is this other person that a few psychics have mentioned.  Who I am supposed to meet between now and roughly into the first part of the year.  So even if I don't get with my ex I have that as well.  As hard as it will be, I am going to try and forget about these readings and let things happen.  I have things documented to look back and wonder if a situation played out that was predicted.

I've heard this lots of times from people who are waiting on an ex to come back, that somebody else is supposed to come in for them. I guess it's sod's law that when an ex does come back, you have to pick lol.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on November 13, 2018, 04:11:01 PM
I've heard this lots of times from people who are waiting on an ex to come back, that somebody else is supposed to come in for them. I guess it's sod's law that when an ex does come back, you have to pick lol.

This could very well be a common theme.  It might be more of a way to try and move on sort of thing so you are not waiting.  That by telling you there is someone else out there helps you move on.  Which in turn causes your ex to feel the energy of you leaving them from constantly thinking about them.  Then they reach out.  Or it is simply a way for you to heal and move on to the next thing instead of dwelling on them for months or years.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: 11jlady on November 13, 2018, 04:20:38 PM
To add: Since we are all energies, we can all feel when someone is connected to us via their thoughts/emotions etc. So, to be fair, these psychics do have a point in some of the things they say.

For example, when your POI/ex is distracted with someone else, you feel a sense of abandonment or being "cut off". You can feel that their energies are no longer directed at or "with" you and this is the reason why most of us call these psychics in the first place, other than going through some ups and downs and inconsistencies. So it would be the same thing switched around. When we stop thinking about our exes or POIs and focus our energies on someone or something else, they will also feel that at some point.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: star1 on November 13, 2018, 04:27:00 PM
I've heard this lots of times from people who are waiting on an ex to come back, that somebody else is supposed to come in for them. I guess it's sod's law that when an ex does come back, you have to pick lol.

This could very well be a common theme.  It might be more of a way to try and move on sort of thing so you are not waiting.  That by telling you there is someone else out there helps you move on.  Which in turn causes your ex to feel the energy of you leaving them from constantly thinking about them.  Then they reach out.  Or it is simply a way for you to heal and move on to the next thing instead of dwelling on them for months or years.

I think it's more the latter and I think it's a typical coincidence personally when the ex comes back after you've moved on. I've said many times on here an ex has never come back to me after I've given up, but a friend has had all of her exes contact her on and off over the years. Everyone seems to have different strokes of luck.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on November 13, 2018, 04:38:08 PM
Thank you for sharing your experiences Sparky. I think sometimes it's hard to decipher between our intuition vs our emotions. At least, it's been that way for me. I suppose when we're able to step outside of our emotions we're able to get that intuition. I have a hard time stepping outside of my emotions. However, I will say, that when my ex left this last time, it felt very different than all the other times. I felt as though either I was never going to see him in person again or that it would be a very long time before I did and that's why it crushed me so much more this last time. Now I'm not sure if I got that feeling because I knew that I wasn't going to continue dealing with this or if it was because I knew, on a spiritual level, deep down inside that our time together was coming to an end either permanently or for an extended period of time due to him having a ton of life lessons to learn still.

As far as psychics predicting the worst case scenario with regards to exes coming back, I think some of them truly are gifted and really do see that there isn't going to be a further connection. It's actually more likely that an ex WILL return at some point, especially if the break up is still fresh. I'd say if it's been more than a year and a half, the chances are way more slim. However, I've had an ex pop back up into my life 10 years later and we had a relationship that lasted 3 years and then it was the permanent end. But usually, an ex will come back pending what the reason for the break up was in the first place. I also think there is a lot of confusion on coming back to reconcile vs coming back for some sort of closure vs coming back because they want to remain friends.

As Kisha put it, just because they may end up contacting you doesn't mean they are contacting for the purpose of reconciling the actual relationship. I also believe that because we are all energies, we can still feel a strong connection to a person on a spiritual level and that can even last a lifetime, but that doesn't mean we are going to live this particular life with them. I don't know. It's all convoluted. I'm just throwing out theories based upon things I've studied regarding the afterlife, spiritual realms, death, NDEs, past life regressions, etc. They all seem to have the same theme.

I think there are a handful of extremely gifted and legit psychics and the majority of the other ones just give readings based upon statistics and a bit of psychology. Especially those that ask you questions, they will base that upon historical behavior patterns of the POI. Also, throw in some astrology with it and you can predict even more about what that person may or may not do.

Every time I would call a psychic that wasn't legit in the past regarding past exes, and pretty much all of them weren't legit for me until I met Kisha and Psychic Shelly, they would always give me the time frame of 2 to 3 months out or would use seasons spring/summer/fall/winter. That seems to be a pattern for them. Anyway, those are just my thoughts.

You make some excellent points and I think some people do confuse a psychic telling them that an ex that makes contact leads to reconciliation.  It maybe that the ex just only makes contact.  Pretty much all of the psychics told me that I would reconcile with my ex but with first contact from my ex in roughly Jan.  It was one thing I wanted to catch and see if they would mention getting back together verses just contact.  So you have to be careful on how you interpret what they say.  I really think a lot hear their POI will make contact and immediately think they will reconcile.  Then when that doesn't happen they get upset at the psychic saying their prediction was wrong.  It wasn't wrong.  They said they would contact you.  They said nothing about reconciling.  Even Kisha mentioned reconciling with my ex with the detailed account of what will happen from first contact to the end of late spring next year.  The whole part of that was to lead up to reconciliation.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on November 13, 2018, 04:39:50 PM
I've heard this lots of times from people who are waiting on an ex to come back, that somebody else is supposed to come in for them. I guess it's sod's law that when an ex does come back, you have to pick lol.

This could very well be a common theme.  It might be more of a way to try and move on sort of thing so you are not waiting.  That by telling you there is someone else out there helps you move on.  Which in turn causes your ex to feel the energy of you leaving them from constantly thinking about them.  Then they reach out.  Or it is simply a way for you to heal and move on to the next thing instead of dwelling on them for months or years.

I think it's more the latter and I think it's a typical coincidence personally when the ex comes back after you've moved on. I've said many times on here an ex has never come back to me after I've given up, but a friend has had all of her exes contact her on and off over the years. Everyone seems to have different strokes of luck.

Well being a guy I swear that exes coming back for girls is way more common than it is for a guy.  ;)
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: star1 on November 13, 2018, 04:43:15 PM
I've heard this lots of times from people who are waiting on an ex to come back, that somebody else is supposed to come in for them. I guess it's sod's law that when an ex does come back, you have to pick lol.

This could very well be a common theme.  It might be more of a way to try and move on sort of thing so you are not waiting.  That by telling you there is someone else out there helps you move on.  Which in turn causes your ex to feel the energy of you leaving them from constantly thinking about them.  Then they reach out.  Or it is simply a way for you to heal and move on to the next thing instead of dwelling on them for months or years.

I think it's more the latter and I think it's a typical coincidence personally when the ex comes back after you've moved on. I've said many times on here an ex has never come back to me after I've given up, but a friend has had all of her exes contact her on and off over the years. Everyone seems to have different strokes of luck.

Well being a guy I swear that exes coming back for girls is way more common than it is for a guy.  ;)

Yeah, it definitely seems to be.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: LAW1974 on November 13, 2018, 04:44:59 PM
I've heard this lots of times from people who are waiting on an ex to come back, that somebody else is supposed to come in for them. I guess it's sod's law that when an ex does come back, you have to pick lol.

This could very well be a common theme.  It might be more of a way to try and move on sort of thing so you are not waiting.  That by telling you there is someone else out there helps you move on.  Which in turn causes your ex to feel the energy of you leaving them from constantly thinking about them.  Then they reach out.  Or it is simply a way for you to heal and move on to the next thing instead of dwelling on them for months or years.

I think it's more the latter and I think it's a typical coincidence personally when the ex comes back after you've moved on. I've said many times on here an ex has never come back to me after I've given up, but a friend has had all of her exes contact her on and off over the years. Everyone seems to have different strokes of luck.

Well being a guy I swear that exes coming back for girls is way more common than it is for a guy.  ;)

Sparky - part of that might be because as girls we are told not to chase you....  All of these readers keep telling me to make him come to me! 
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: star1 on November 13, 2018, 04:49:27 PM
I've heard this lots of times from people who are waiting on an ex to come back, that somebody else is supposed to come in for them. I guess it's sod's law that when an ex does come back, you have to pick lol.

This could very well be a common theme.  It might be more of a way to try and move on sort of thing so you are not waiting.  That by telling you there is someone else out there helps you move on.  Which in turn causes your ex to feel the energy of you leaving them from constantly thinking about them.  Then they reach out.  Or it is simply a way for you to heal and move on to the next thing instead of dwelling on them for months or years.

I think it's more the latter and I think it's a typical coincidence personally when the ex comes back after you've moved on. I've said many times on here an ex has never come back to me after I've given up, but a friend has had all of her exes contact her on and off over the years. Everyone seems to have different strokes of luck.

Well being a guy I swear that exes coming back for girls is way more common than it is for a guy.  ;)

Sparky - part of that might be because as girls we are told not to chase you....  All of these readers keep telling me to make him come to me!

Also, we do get scared of rejection, too.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on November 13, 2018, 04:49:58 PM
I've heard this lots of times from people who are waiting on an ex to come back, that somebody else is supposed to come in for them. I guess it's sod's law that when an ex does come back, you have to pick lol.

This could very well be a common theme.  It might be more of a way to try and move on sort of thing so you are not waiting.  That by telling you there is someone else out there helps you move on.  Which in turn causes your ex to feel the energy of you leaving them from constantly thinking about them.  Then they reach out.  Or it is simply a way for you to heal and move on to the next thing instead of dwelling on them for months or years.

I think it's more the latter and I think it's a typical coincidence personally when the ex comes back after you've moved on. I've said many times on here an ex has never come back to me after I've given up, but a friend has had all of her exes contact her on and off over the years. Everyone seems to have different strokes of luck.

Well being a guy I swear that exes coming back for girls is way more common than it is for a guy.  ;)

Sparky - part of that might be because as girls we are told not to chase you....  All of these readers keep telling me to make him come to me!

I really think that is kind of taboo anymore.  Maybe way back I could see that but in today's society I think it is perfectly alright for a woman to chase a guy.  There can be the same sort of boundaries as when the guy chases the girl.  But I also think it depends on the reason for the breakup as well on who should chase who.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: 11jlady on November 13, 2018, 04:54:06 PM
I think the reason why males return quicker than females is because usually a male will make a knee jerk decision and break up or leave the situation thinking the grass is greener on the other side because his current girl had some mood swings or something. They are way too quick to make those decisions. Then they go find out that the grass on the other side isn't really greener, it's just green where you actually water it.

Females typically think things through and have more staying power to deal with stuff and so when we actually make the decision to leave a relationship, more often than not, we have thought things through for a very long time and most likely haven't been happy for a very long time so then we make that choice and typically, once a female leaves, she isn't leaving for a "break" but rather to find a completely new permanent mate.

Now that isn't ALWAYS the case. But that's statistically speaking and is the case most of the time.

Just like usually when a man cheats, it's just for either emotional or physical gratification but they have no intentions of leaving the relationship permanently. It's more for selfish purposes. However, most of the time when a female cheats, she's actually looking to move on and looking for a new partner rather than just temporary thrills, but she isn't able to be alone so she has to cheat to find someone else before ending what she is currently in.

Just my observations.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: star1 on November 13, 2018, 04:56:59 PM
I think the reason why males return quicker than females is because usually a male will make a knee jerk decision and break up or leave the situation thinking the grass is greener on the other side because his current girl had some mood swings or something. They are way too quick to make those decisions. Then they go find out that the grass on the other side isn't really greener, it's just green where you actually water it.

Females typically think things through and have more staying power to deal with stuff and so when we actually make the decision to leave a relationship, more often than not, we have thought things through for a very long time and most likely haven't been happy for a very long time so then we make that choice and typically, once a female leaves, she isn't leaving for a "break" but rather to find a completely new permanent mate.

Now that isn't ALWAYS the case. But that's statistically speaking and is the case most of the time.

Just like usually when a man cheats, it's just for either emotional or physical gratification but they have no intentions of leaving the relationship permanently. It's more for selfish purposes. However, most of the time when a female cheats, she's actually looking to move on and looking for a new partner rather than just temporary thrills, but she isn't able to be alone so she has to cheat to find someone else before ending what she is currently in.

Just my observations.

I've noticed this with men. That most cheat because they aren't "getting enough", or something isn't making them happy (obviously). But they still love the woman they're with, and don't want to necessarily leave her.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: 11jlady on November 13, 2018, 05:07:18 PM
No offense to any men on here but, it seems to me that when a man isn't sure how to rectify his wrong doings, he runs instead and tries to "start all over". Then, with the more egotistical macho men, they have too much pride and ego to ever even admit that they are wrong even if they know deep down they're all messed up. Then, you have the selfish men that will cheat, blame you and justify it cause you weren't "there for them" or "giving them what they need" and in most cases, that's impossible because they're too high maintenance, and then when you get upset about their crappy ways, they just leave rather than change their bad behavior. In all of the above cases, it's a matter of emotional immaturity and lack of growth. 

Then you have the emotionally matured men that will actually sit down and say "How can we fix this. Let's come up with a compromise." Typically, with these kind of men, they are not selfish, they do not cheat, they don't lie much etc. They know how to love and they know how to give of themselves in every way. Unfortunately, these men are rare these days. Lol.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on November 13, 2018, 05:11:09 PM
Good observations 11jlady.  I think you are right on those.  Now in my situation I do think it could be a rare case but it will take time for her to come back.  Why I think that is my ex ending it abruptly.  No one saw it coming in fact even two days prior she was asking for a ring.  I was actually looking at rings at the time.  I know after she ended it she was completely miserable more so than I have ever witnessed anyone in my life.  Even some of her own friends were confused about why she ended it.  I think the problem in my situation is really outside sources.  My ex really wears her heart on her sleeve and there are people out there that know this.  They use it to their advantage.  I think they are the sole issue with trying to make her live a life they want.  These are people that would get jealous at her because she would mention I bought her flowers randomly.  They would get upset because their SO wasn't doing that to them.  As a result they cause drama because if they are miserable they want everyone else as well.  These are also people that go to marriage counseling to work on a marriage but yet go on dates with guys while saying their husband is the problem.  These were people that my ex was getting relationship advice from.

One thing is that my ex has yet to really miss me.  I think that is the key thing and with certain milestones in our relationship coming up.  I think that will weigh on her and she will finally stick up for herself.  Including breaking up with her current guy.  Which is what a couple of the psychics have predicted.  Is she will want to get back together for herself.  Which is why I find her losing friendships right now so interesting.  Not that the psychics predicted that but I did.  So that is why the timelines interest me.  I just basically need her to miss me right now and trust in my spirit guides to do their thing.  If it happens great.  If not that is great too.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on November 13, 2018, 05:16:58 PM
No offense to any men on here but, it seems to me that when a man isn't sure how to rectify his wrong doings, he runs instead and tries to "start all over". Then, with the more egotistical macho men, they have too much pride and ego to ever even admit that they are wrong even if they know deep down they're all messed up. Then, you have the selfish men that will cheat, blame you and justify it cause you weren't "there for them" or "giving them what they need" and in most cases, that's impossible because they're too high maintenance, and then when you get upset about their crappy ways, they just leave rather than change their bad behavior. In all of the above cases, it's a matter of emotional immaturity and lack of growth. 

Then you have the emotionally matured men that will actually sit down and say "How can we fix this. Let's come up with a compromise." Typically, with these kind of men, they are not selfish, they do not cheat, they don't lie much etc. They know how to love and they know how to give of themselves in every way. Unfortunately, these men are rare these days. Lol.

No offense taken from me  ;D  In fact I can see where you are coming from.  I really wanted to work on my relationship with my ex.  I was willing to do anything.  I was more upset that she wasn't willing to put in the work to fix it.  She literally just gave up.  But with her friends I can see why.  They were not going to allow her to talk to me.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: LAW1974 on November 13, 2018, 05:57:16 PM
No offense to any men on here but, it seems to me that when a man isn't sure how to rectify his wrong doings, he runs instead and tries to "start all over". Then, with the more egotistical macho men, they have too much pride and ego to ever even admit that they are wrong even if they know deep down they're all messed up. Then, you have the selfish men that will cheat, blame you and justify it cause you weren't "there for them" or "giving them what they need" and in most cases, that's impossible because they're too high maintenance, and then when you get upset about their crappy ways, they just leave rather than change their bad behavior. In all of the above cases, it's a matter of emotional immaturity and lack of growth. 

Then you have the emotionally matured men that will actually sit down and say "How can we fix this. Let's come up with a compromise." Typically, with these kind of men, they are not selfish, they do not cheat, they don't lie much etc. They know how to love and they know how to give of themselves in every way. Unfortunately, these men are rare these days. Lol.

UGH - my POI is like a total combo of the first paragraph.... My ex husband is the second, I know and I left him....(but i dont want him back) why are we drawn to avoidant personalities? 
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on November 14, 2018, 07:35:00 PM
So I decided off on a whim to book a reading with Yona.  Though I am just going to ask for a general reading and not have the focus on my POI.  Sandra did give me some info that wasn't regarding my POI that I did leave out in this post.  I figured I would just have this post be in regards to the POI.  If Yona mentions my POI in the general I will post back with an update but it looks like that might be a couple weeks before we can get together.  I am actually more intrigued to see what she sees coming for me that isn't regarding my POI.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: 11jlady on November 14, 2018, 07:40:09 PM
Definitely keep us posted Sparky!
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on November 14, 2018, 08:05:19 PM
Will do but looking at Dec 3rd at the possible earliest on when we could get together.  Which is fine because that actually allows me to just focus on myself for awhile instead of thinking of my POI.  Let my spirit guides focus on that for me and then when I get with Yona I can see what else they have planned for me  :D
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on December 12, 2018, 04:26:29 PM
Here is your warning that this will be long. ;) So I have been lurking in this forum for last few weeks.  It took awhile to get my account created but since the beginning of October you could say I have been having a bit of a psychic addiction.  Because something has been bothering me.  It was October and the spirit of Halloween I wanted to ask a psychic about my love life and if a POI was going to come back.  I was really hurt by this POI but I bounce between wanting them back or not.  By this point my POI and I have been broken up since March 2018 and my POI has been with someone since mid June 2018.  So my first reading was on October 5th 2018 and my last was November 9th 2018.   I really didn’t think anything of it at the time and was very skeptical.  I still am skeptical right now whether any of the predictions would happen but here is my experience with some readings.

After the first reading I got that my POI was coming back.  I was like let’s get a second opinion and I got the same outcome and they even said similar things.  This started a search of sorts.  Is this really happening or some kind of fluke of false hopes.  So here is a review of all the psychics I did readings in order and what I remember from them.

Starbreezetarot (Keen) I asked about what my love life will be and if there is anyone in my past that will came back.  Am I soon to find the one.  She asked for my name and DOB.  Told me that someone will be coming into my life soon.  That when I meet them I wouldn’t think of them as someone to spend my life with but we would just click.  That it would seem all of the sudden and she felt it would be through a gathering with friends.  Then she checked to see if my POI would be coming back by getting her name and DOB.  She said yes and that I would have a choice between my POI and this new person.  That no matter who I would choose they are both long term partners but she really said that my POI and I would reconcile.  She also said that my new relationship with my POI would be different than our previous.  It wouldn’t be a bad thing and actually a really good renewed relationship.  She also mentioned that see got tarot cards indicating that we would reconcile.  She predicted a 6 which she said as 6 days/weeks.  Only thing that happened so far was I bumped into my POI at a fast food restaurant during lunch.  We didn’t speak and not sure if she even saw me.  Still a week left of the 6 weeks so verdict is still debatable if a start of reconciliation will happen with POI or if I meet this new person.  But I might have to give a bit to her that we did indeed come in contact in some way even though we didn’t talk. The only thing that I can say that has come true so far from her prediction was the quick bumping into my ex at a fast food restaurant during lunch.  We didn't talk and I don't even know if she saw me.  She told me there would be contact but not sure if that really counts as contact since we didn't talk.  Maybe being in the same place within feet of each other does count.  As for the reconcile part which is really something long term.  That is still pending.  Meeting this new person hasn't happened yet but I didn't get a timeframe on that so also still pending.


BEST PSYCHIC LAURA (Keen) I asked about my future love life and if I will reconcile with my POI.  She said yes I will but it won’t happen for awhile.  She got a 3 which she said could be 3 days/weeks/months.  She was leaning more on it being 3 months of it though on when my POI would contact me to start to reconcile which helps explains why she felt it won’t be for awhile.  She also mentioned there would be someone else before my POI contacts me.  Said the same thing as Starbreezetarot that this person I could be with as well.  But she included that if I choose my POI that this new person has the potential to be a lifelong friend but if I choose the new person, my POI wouldn’t be that kind of person in my life and would more likely be gone for good. This is still pending as she was predicting three months out to that first contact which is the end of the year but still waiting on this other person.

Brodi (PS x7563) I asked if she saw my POI coming back.  Brodi was really sweet and I enjoyed talking with her.  I felt like we did connect really well and she saw that my POI would come back.  She was getting an 8 for weeks but she really felt it would just be sometime later this holiday season maybe into January that my POI will contact me.  She did see a future with her and even predicted us having three kids.  She did feel like there could possibly be another person introduced just before my POI contacts me. Outcome still pending


Mylie (PS x8974) I asked if she saw my POI coming back.  I really felt like we connected well and she said that my POI would be coming back but it would be awhile.  She saw my POI contacting me in about January but maybe a bit earlier.  She even predicted that we would end up together and have three kids as well.  She also mentioned that my POI is a twin flame that was a runner.  Which is why my POI broke up so abruptly and out of the blue.  I asked her if she saw anyone else for me and she said she didn’t but she just focuses on the A to B and can miss things that are in the middle.  So she wouldn’t hold out saying that I might not meet someone else before my POI contacts me.  Overall though is she saw possible holiday season for POI to make contact but more likely right after the New Year and that we would definitely reconcile. Outcome still pending and I talked to her again within the last couple of weeks and her prediction was the same as it was in October.  In fact she said that both mine and ex's spirit guides are talking to each other to get the final things going for her to contact and us get back together.


Serenity (PS x9213) I asked about if she saw my POI coming back.  This was a very brief call but I felt as most of it was scripted.  She kind of went more into my POI’s feelings which I thought was partially right but could work for just about anyone.  She did say that I would reconcile with my POI and that my POI will be reaching out within a week.  She also predicted that I would be married in 2020 and would have three kids.  Her prediction of a week has come and gone.  So maybe her timing is off on the first contact but she did see she would reconcile. So first contact prediction was off but the married in 2020 and reconciling is really still pending.


Kristine (PS x8223) I wanted to know more about my love life coming up and if my POI was coming back.  We did a check first on my love life and determine that I wouldn’t be single much longer.  We then checked about my POI and she sees that my POI will contact me in 12-14 weeks.  So right after the start of the new year into mid January.  She also saw that my POI will break up with her current bf right before she reaches out.  I honestly told her that I couldn’t see it happening.  She said that I should call her back then because she was confident it was going to happen and she wanted to help me with my next steps after POI makes contact.  I really don’t know what to think of this reading so we will see if her prediction on contact happens. Still single but the rest of her predictions are still pending as the timeframe hasn't gotten here yet.


Betty (PS x7514) I asked her if my POI would be coming back.  I honestly didn’t feel like we connected at all and I barely remember what she all said.  I want to say that she saw we would be getting back together but at the same time I can’t say she said wouldn’t.  So I am just going to say the latter here and that I will not reconnect with my POI but she did see someone else.  That is about all I can remember from her call. So haven't found anyone else and I haven't gotten back with my ex but still with that pending I can only say that at this moment she was wrong about me finding someone else.


Queen of Cups18 (Keen) I asked what she saw coming up for me and my POI.  She said no she wasn’t going to come back.  She then asked why I had so much negativity about the situation.  That kind of threw me for a bit.  I wasn’t expecting her to sense that out of me and it was true.  I mentioned it was because of the past and what my POI has done to me since the breakup I am upset over it since I didn’t deserve it.  She definitely could tell I wasn’t happy about the situation.  From what I got out of my reading from Queen was that I felt like it was more of the present than really a prediction.  She read my POI well and my POI’s current bf.  She was able to see traits about my POI that I didn’t mention at all.  Picked up a medical condition about my POI that I wasn’t expecting her to say.  So I would say as some others on this forum have mentioned that she picks up on the present more so the future.  So as reconciling with my POI I would say she is correct that we are not at the present but I think her future prediction of us not reconciling might be wrong. I think she is great at reading the present but not really making future predictions.  So really I feel like yes she was right at that time but not in 3 or 6 months from now.  Which a lot of the psychics I talked to were predicting that timeframe of contact from my ex.


Love Clairvoyant Brittany (Keen) I asked what she saw coming up for me and my POI.  She said that we would reconcile and that she would contact sometime as early as December but more likely will be January or maybe February. She felt stronger for January.  She was able to describe some things about my POI well but some things I felt like it was scripted or a canned response.  Examples like she has commitment issues.  Now I did feel right after the break up that there might be commitment issues there but I am not entirely sure on that.  She also said that she sees a trip sometime after my POI contacts me.  Could that be a trip together?  Seemed to talk more about what my POI was feeling between me and her current bf.  It was that she loved me and not really him.  That she actually is quite bored with him.  How she does compare me to him.  But overall was that she did see her reaching out and then us reconciling and us getting married. So still pending but here is an interesting thing.  I am talking with a few online friends about a trip in May.  So that could be the trip she was seeing.


Aries Intuition (Booked 30 min phone call through her site) I asked her what she saw coming up with my POI?  I didn’t want to mention an ex POI to see what she would say.  I was honestly shocked.  The detail she gave me from now to into the later part of next spring.  She described my POI really well.  Her prediction was that my POI would reach out to me and we would slowly start to reconcile.  That reconciliation wouldn’t really happen fast and would go into the spring.  She described in detail how the reconciliation process would be with my POI and why it wouldn’t be so fast.  The interesting thing was that she mentioned cold.  She wasn’t sure if I lived somewhere cold or not but she just said that contact from my POI will take place during the winter months.  I live where we experience the “nice” winter weather and with fall really rolling around right now.  It will be awhile before my POI contacts me.  The coldest time of the year is January into the first part of February.  So does that cold meaning tie into our coldest time of the year?  Interesting way of predicting a timeline without numbers.  Aries was thinking that January would be when she will contact me.  She also mentioned that the person around her right now would not be completely out of the picture when my POI contacts me but not to worry as that will not last.  There would be just some overlap.  I was honestly prepared for her to say that I wouldn’t reconcile with my POI at all but she did see it happening.  But she gave me the opposite and a clear path after that first contact.  Something that no one else ever did.  Most just said yes she will contact you and you will be together.  Nothing about the finer details.  I actually had a great time talking with her and we were laughing as it was Halloween night when we talked.  I did tell her that I find it very hard to believe what she is telling me and that I feel like it might not be that way. I explained that I am about 50/50 when it comes to if my POI will really come back and she told me that is a good thing.  That I am completely open and I will get the choice if I want to take my POI back or not when that time comes. Still pending but her reading seems very realistic.


Bridgette (PS x8133) I asked what she saw coming up for my POI and I.  Surprisingly she got something no one else said about my POI.  That my POI wanted space after we broke up.  She told me to just give her space and that she saw her coming back right after the start of the year.  The weird thing was that she saw a kid.  Neither my POI nor I have any children.  When I told her that she mentioned that she does see a child.  So not sure what that all means but maybe in the soon future?  She talked a bit more about the present and what my POI was feeling but she was sure that my POI would come back and we would reconcile with that first contact the start of the year.  One thing else I want to mention is that she said someone will enter my life unexpectedly and shortly before my POI will contact me.  As my POI will feel that she is losing me because of this person might be what causes her to contact me.  Something else was that she said that my POI and I have a strong connection cord with each other that isn’t severed and that will bring us back together.  Still waiting for this new person but first contact with my ex is still pending.


Moira (PS x7776) I was in line for a phone call when the system messed up and I got impatient.  So instead of a phone call I did a video session so I didn’t have to wait another day to get with her.  We had a video session for just over an hour.  I asked what she saw coming up for my POI and I.  I really felt like we connected but it did feel a bit more as a counseling session to me than a reading.  We discussed a lot about my POI and her feelings.  She was able to nail some of my POI’s friends that I think have been causing some problems. One she even described her appearance really well.  At first she wanted me to contact her but wait awhile.  It was then I mentioned that something happened with my POI in September that doesn’t make me want to contact first in fear of legal reasons.  At that point Moira said that she takes back the contact part but she does see my POI contact me after the start of the year.  That I should be really careful around my POI for my own safety.  She really was on my side and I felt like we discussed more about the present than the future.  The only future prediction was my POI would contact me.  Moria also thought that maybe I should meet someone new as that would get to my POI to reach out.  She didn’t specifically say that there was another person but interesting that she at least mentioned it.  She also mentioned that she could see that I have some empath abilities and I have an amazing aura around me.  That I should trust those when my POI does make contact.  So overall she does see contact roughly the same timeline as everyone else that predicted but we didn’t really look that far so can’t say on the reconciliation.  It was a positive reading though and I did enjoy talking with her. First contact prediction is still pending.


Sandra Logan (Found based on an article about her.  Booked through her site for 1 hour phone session) I had a great time talking to Sandra and it was like talking to your grandma.  She had a bit different style than the other psychics.  We first started off with my love life and my POI.  She was able to pick up my POI really well and believes there is a chance of us coming back together after the start of the New Year.  She basically was saying that my POI needs to miss me and right now she isn’t but she will.  She told me to trust in my spirit guides.  They have a plan and are working for me and my POI to bring us back together.  She told me to just try and live my life and let them take care of it.  I asked her in the call if she saw someone else coming into my life before my POI contacts me.  Her reply was that was why she told me to live my life.  Because she does see someone entering but she didn’t want me to think about it.  From there we talk about finances and my life in general and I can say that she saw 2019/2020 being really good years for me. Overall it was a good phone session and I was happy to talk to her.  Overall predictions are still pending but regarding my ex first contact lines up with others.  Still haven't met this new person though.

I had a couple more psychic calls just before Sandra but they followed the pattern of what everyone else said.  So here is the shocker for me out of all of these readings.  I get one thing that my POI will be coming back and they all basically got roughly the same timeline on when my POI will make contact.  Aries was able to give a more detailed account after that first contact than the rest.  I think that with the majority getting the same timeline is interesting along with seeing her coming back.  I really was expecting a high percentage of saying yes but if you look through most they all say about the same thing.  Now some of this can be canned phrases and work for the majority of people but if that was the case then why do all have such similar timelines?  I would expect them to be all different or at least have more variation than what I got.  So I would have to say there has to be some sort of gift that they have.  It could be that I got a lot of good guessers and out 13 I had the high majority say positive things.  Now I also thought do they all have a way to see other readings I have done?  Well I didn’t do it all from the same psychic source.  They are different and I still got roughly the same outcome.

So if I were to concise everything down into one timeline here is the final predication.  That sometime between now and the end of the year I will meet someone unexpectedly.  This person has all the potential to be a life partner for me.  Shortly after my POI will break up with her current boyfriend and then make contact with me sometime right after the New Year.  From there we will slowly start to rebuild our relationship to a reconciliation that will lead to marriage and not something short term. 

Now here is my final conclusion on that prediction.  Will it happen?  Honestly I do not know.  I am still very skeptical about the prediction and I can say that I don’t see it happening.  It does feel a lot like a really big false hope.  I see my POI staying with the guy she is with and never wanting to talk to me again.  But with all the bad things that have happened there also have been subtle clues that maybe she will come back.  I also have this really faint gut feeling about her making contact with me.  So in time we will see what happens but for now I am going to just store this information and just live my life and let my spirit guides do their thing.  I will not worry about it and just see what happens.  I'm also fortunate that I am able to afford what I did.  So I do not condone anyone to do what I did by talking to so many psychics if you cannot afford it.  If something happens and I remember I will come back and post an update.

Going to be giving a bit of an update on this.  Most of the predictions really are still pending and will be that way until March of next year.  That is just when I feel comfortable enough to say enough time has passed.  I would like to give a bit of a buffer regarding some of the predictions as I know timing can be really hard.

All these readings happened in October except for Sandra which was on Nov 9th.  Since then I have talked to a few more psychics but on California Psychics.  The list of some noticably mentioned psychics in this forum are: Effie, Kikiyo, Tara, Mattie, Nathan, Neveda, Trinity along with a few others.  Some over were pretty much in my case just either reading from a script, cold reading or just giving out false hopes.  But here is the thing.  Out of all the new psychics.  Trinity was the only one that said I would not be getting back with my ex.  The rest that I do not consider fake all predicted my ex coming back making first contact after the start of the new year.  Except for Effie.  She said August of next year.  The fact that they all predict the same timeline was a shocker for me.  Some saw me meeting someone new just before then as well others picked up my ex's current guy.  Usually what I found was that most that picked up her current guy where empaths.

The one thing that was the most shocking is Mattie had the same details as Kisha but she saw a new person entering my life.  Mattie also saw a trip to the caribbean that was supposed to be a building moment for my ex and I.  That after all the long months we would be together and that trip is the final icing on the cake to finish the reconciliation.  I don't know if that will happen but I kind of felt like that was a past thing since my ex and I went to Puerto Rico 2 weeks before she broke up with me in Feb.  One other thing she mentioned was that there was to be a status change regarding my ex and to not worry about it as it means nothing.  I think this might have just happened with a fb profile pic change.  I can go more into why I think that but it does line up with her prediction.

I did do a 3 question email with Shelly regarding my ex.  What does she see coming up for my ex and I?  If she saw contact from my ex?  We will reconcile?  I ended up getting some markers with a prediction that my ex will make first contact after christmas but just before the new year.  Out of about 10 markers.  I only have 2-3 that haven't happened in the span of a couple weeks.  So according to those I am on track for contact with my ex.  Reconciling is dependent on whether some interference will go away from my ex that she thought is a women.  I can tell you that part is true and I think the interference is actually starting to go away now.

Still waiting on my rescheduled general reading with Yona which is mid Jan but from the 45 min that we did talk.  She did give me a situation of communication improving.  Just do not know who with.  When we ended the call she said that all the situations she gave me should happen before our new appointment in mid-Jan.  So is it possible that improved communication is my ex?  If so that means she saw the same timeline as everyone else.

Overall I am currently not feeling so optomistic over my POI.  My feeling on it fluctuates from day to day.  I still have the gut feeling that she will reach out to me which I had long before calling any psychics.  The problem is right now it is really deep and I barely feel it.  Maybe that is something that will trigger my ex to reach out.  That she is losing me which some psychics have mentioned.  I really feel like it is a long shot but I have so many psychics give me the same outcome with the same timeframe.  Either I am really easy to connect with and they are all working for me.  Or they are all wrong.  If they all gave me different timelines I wouldn't be thinking that but really all say the same thing.  I know this is long but I am giving an in depth account of my experience.  I am fortunate that I am able to do this as I know others cannot afford to do what I have done.  My thought is hopefully some people will see a live overview of readings as they happen instead of just yep this person worked for me or not.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on December 25, 2018, 10:00:26 PM
Well I want to say that my readings were wrong.  Big key word there is want.  I know the predictions still have time but this is what I am feeling now that they seem very unlikely on the particular scenario.  Out of the about 30 that I have talked to that said my ex was coming back I cannot see that happening at all.  Only really 3 predicted she wasn't and that was QoC, Trinity and Betty.  Though with Betty I was really 50/50 on what her actual prediction was.  So that means Mattie, Kisha, Effie, Shelly and all the other top ones I have talked to that said my ex would contact me in the first part of January.  Ones that predicted reconciling isn't until about spring time.  I don't see this happening.  Why do I think that?  Well my ex just happened to get engaged to the guy she has been only seeing for the last 6 months.  They will be married no later by the end of next year.  So you can see that is pretty much the nail in the coffin on her not coming back at least from what I can tell.  Now it doesn't mean the positive predictions are wrong.  They could very well be right since contact isn't really until next month.  I had a gut feeling back in August that she would either be broken up with this guy or engaged by the end of the year.  Looks like the engaged won even though I still had a gut feeling that she would reach out to me too.  The only thing that I can think of is maybe there is some hope that this won't fully happen.  Mattie told me there would be a status change with her and to not worry about it.  I thought it was because of a profile picture but maybe this engagement could be what she meant.  Either way I really don't see any predictions that she would reach out in January with us reconciling in the spring at all happening.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: flora0250 on December 25, 2018, 10:10:23 PM
Well I want to say that my readings were wrong.  Out of the about 30 that I have talked to that said my ex was coming back I cannot see that happening at all.  Only really 3 predicted she wasn't and that was QoC, Trinity and Betty.  Though Betty I was really 50/50 on what her actual prediction was.  So that means Mattie, Kisha, Effie and all the other top ones I have talked to that said my ex was coming back in the first part of January.  I don't see happening.  Why do I think that?  Well my ex just happened to get engaged to the guy she has been only seeing for the last 6 months.  They will be married no later by the end of next year.  So you can see that is pretty much the nail in the coffin on her not coming back.  I had a gut feeling back in August that she would either be broken up with this guy or engaged by the end of the year.  Looks like the engaged won even though I still had a gut feeling that she would reach out to me too.  The only thing that I can think of is maybe there is some hope that this won't fully happen.  Mattie told me there would be a status change with her and to not worry about it.  I thought it was because of a profile picture but maybe this engagement could be what she meant.  Either way I really don't see any predictions that she would reach out in January with us reconciling happening in the spring at all happening.

I’m so sorry to read this... ugh. I hope that it turns out that maybe the status change Mattie was referring to was the engagement you’re seeing ... just wanted to pass on some good vibes your way.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: star1 on December 25, 2018, 10:15:58 PM
Well I want to say that my readings were wrong.  Out of the about 30 that I have talked to that said my ex was coming back I cannot see that happening at all.  Only really 3 predicted she wasn't and that was QoC, Trinity and Betty.  Though Betty I was really 50/50 on what her actual prediction was.  So that means Mattie, Kisha, Effie and all the other top ones I have talked to that said my ex was coming back in the first part of January.  I don't see happening.  Why do I think that?  Well my ex just happened to get engaged to the guy she has been only seeing for the last 6 months.  They will be married no later by the end of next year.  So you can see that is pretty much the nail in the coffin on her not coming back.  I had a gut feeling back in August that she would either be broken up with this guy or engaged by the end of the year.  Looks like the engaged won even though I still had a gut feeling that she would reach out to me too.  The only thing that I can think of is maybe there is some hope that this won't fully happen.  Mattie told me there would be a status change with her and to not worry about it.  I thought it was because of a profile picture but maybe this engagement could be what she meant.  Either way I really don't see any predictions that she would reach out in January with us reconciling happening in the spring at all happening.

Sorry, Sparky that you had to hear this, especially on Christmas day.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on December 25, 2018, 10:19:54 PM
Well I want to say that my readings were wrong.  Out of the about 30 that I have talked to that said my ex was coming back I cannot see that happening at all.  Only really 3 predicted she wasn't and that was QoC, Trinity and Betty.  Though Betty I was really 50/50 on what her actual prediction was.  So that means Mattie, Kisha, Effie and all the other top ones I have talked to that said my ex was coming back in the first part of January.  I don't see happening.  Why do I think that?  Well my ex just happened to get engaged to the guy she has been only seeing for the last 6 months.  They will be married no later by the end of next year.  So you can see that is pretty much the nail in the coffin on her not coming back.  I had a gut feeling back in August that she would either be broken up with this guy or engaged by the end of the year.  Looks like the engaged won even though I still had a gut feeling that she would reach out to me too.  The only thing that I can think of is maybe there is some hope that this won't fully happen.  Mattie told me there would be a status change with her and to not worry about it.  I thought it was because of a profile picture but maybe this engagement could be what she meant.  Either way I really don't see any predictions that she would reach out in January with us reconciling happening in the spring at all happening.

I’m so sorry to read this... ugh. I hope that it turns out that maybe the status change Mattie was referring to was the engagement you’re seeing ... just wanted to pass on some good vibes your way.

Thanks Flora!  I was wondering that as well.  I know there is a lot of pressure with my ex since her younger brother and two of her friends just got engaged in the last month.  So maybe that is part of the reason.  But either way I just can't see the predictions happening.  Now I can be completely wrong and it could be that with the pressure to get married quick because of the recent friend engagements that the spur of the moment had her say yes.  I have heard of stranger things happening.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on January 02, 2019, 02:14:32 AM
Well it is a new year. For myself the first half of the year will be interesting. Will my predictions happen?  I do have some hope because I have a gut intuition they will. Even with how bleak it may seem. But I think one thing I am going to be trying do is really just not come around here much. Not because I don’t like hearing about all your stories or being supportive. More so I think it is bad for myself to come here and remind myself why I got the readings in the first place. I think by doing some time away will actually help my situation as well since I won’t be constantly thinking about it when logging in here. Kind of letting go so to speak. As time passes and if there are any major updates. I will be sure to post here and let you all know. In the mean time if you want to chat with me you can always DM me and I will get a email notification on that. Just don’t expect a quick response.

I wish you all good luck!
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: Miss Philosopher on January 02, 2019, 03:10:42 AM
Well it is a new year. For myself the first half of the year will be interesting. Will my predictions happen?  I do have some hope because I have a gut intuition they will. Even with how bleak it may seem. But I think one thing I am going to be trying do is really just not come around here much. Not because I don’t like hearing about all your stories or being supportive. More so I think it is bad for myself to come here and remind myself why I got the readings in the first place. I think by doing some time away will actually help my situation as well since I won’t be constantly thinking about it when logging in here. Kind of letting go so to speak. As time passes and if there are any major updates. I will be sure to post here and let you all know. In the mean time if you want to chat with me you can always DM me and I will get a email notification on that. Just don’t expect a quick response.

I wish you all good luck!
Hey good luck Sparky! I wish you the best and a fantastic 2019!
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on May 14, 2019, 03:12:36 PM
So I have really been away from this site for awhile but I do come in and lurk for a bit to read up on how everyone is doing.  It is getting closer to when I will provide a full update on all my predictions but I want to give in about another month.

I just want to say that life happens no matter what is predicted and we just need to enjoy it the best we can.  Even in those moments that cause us immense pain and heartache.  Try and even enjoy those moments because they are doing something for you.  If that pain is caused from a love one passing.  It did cause you to remember all the positive things that happened with that person.  All the great things about them and their passing was that reminder of those great things that you probably took for granted.

If someone broke up with you.  Remember that they left you and you are an amazing person.  That they chose to leave the great person that you are and not you leaving them.  Remember the good times but also try to press on in life.  As time goes on they may come back but if not someone will come to you.  They will see how great of a person you are.  The pain caused from the break up was a good thing by letting you reflect and see the good in you.  Also to bring that awesome person in your life that will see that good.  So even though it hurts there is something good to come of it and try to think of that instead of the bad.

I hope that as we progress into summer that everyone starts to warm their hearts from the summer sunshine.  To always have a smile and look out for one another.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: Miss Philosopher on May 14, 2019, 04:52:16 PM
So I have really been away from this site for awhile but I do come in and lurk for a bit to read up on how everyone is doing.  It is getting closer to when I will provide a full update on all my predictions but I want to give in about another month.

I just want to say that life happens no matter what is predicted and we just need to enjoy it the best we can.  Even in those moments that cause us immense pain and heartache.  Try and even enjoy those moments because they are doing something for you.  If that pain is caused from a love one passing.  It did cause you to remember all the positive things that happened with that person.  All the great things about them and their passing was that reminder of those great things that you probably took for granted.

If someone broke up with you.  Remember that they left you and you are an amazing person.  That they chose to leave the great person that you are and not you leaving them.  Remember the good times but also try to press on in life.  As time goes on they may come back but if not someone will come to you.  They will see how great of a person you are.  The pain caused from the break up was a good thing by letting you reflect and see the good in you.  Also to bring that awesome person in your life that will see that good.  So even though it hurts there is something good to come of it and try to think of that instead of the bad.

I hope that as we progress into summer that everyone starts to warm their hearts from the summer sunshine.  To always have a smile and look out for one another.


That was so beautiful and heartwarming. You're such a beautiful and genuine soul Sparky. I hope everything is going great for you! You deserve it!
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on June 10, 2019, 06:17:37 PM
If it helps Mattie was way off for me in regards to my poi. So dissapointed as I thought she was supposed to be on of the best

One that works really well for one person might not for another.  No matter how many correct predictions they get for that person they may only get 1 if you are lucky for you.  Just need to find that one for you.

When I wrote that last update about a month ago; somethings have changed.  I really need to write down a bunch of stuff to summarize all my readings from when I started.  BUT....  I noticed something in the last month and I am not entirely sure yet if what is going on are my predictions.  That is why I need to do a good update here.  What I will say is that somethings that were predicted last fall might be starting to come to pass.  I am not entirely sure at this point and playing things by ear.  But if that happens it could mean that Mattie and Kisha along with a bunch of others could be right but their timing was off.  Because of this I am holding off on a full update until I truly get everything figured out but I will post a summarization before then.  Just need to find the time to do it :)
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: josh34 on June 10, 2019, 06:54:16 PM
If it helps Mattie was way off for me in regards to my poi. So dissapointed as I thought she was supposed to be on of the best

One that works really well for one person might not for another.  No matter how many correct predictions they get for that person they may only get 1 if you are lucky for you.  Just need to find that one for you.

When I wrote that last update about a month ago; somethings have changed.  I really need to write down a bunch of stuff to summarize all my readings from when I started.  BUT....  I noticed something in the last month and I am not entirely sure yet if what is going on are my predictions.  That is why I need to do a good update here.  What I will say is that somethings that were predicted last fall might be starting to come to pass.  I am not entirely sure at this point and playing things by ear.  But if that happens it could mean that Mattie and Kisha along with a bunch of others could be right but their timing was off.  Because of this I am holding off on a full update until I truly get everything figured out but I will post a summarization before then.  Just need to find the time to do it :)
Gives me hope! Sparky, sending you all the happiness and positivity! :)
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: Miss Philosopher on June 17, 2019, 08:14:46 AM
If it helps Mattie was way off for me in regards to my poi. So dissapointed as I thought she was supposed to be on of the best

One that works really well for one person might not for another.  No matter how many correct predictions they get for that person they may only get 1 if you are lucky for you.  Just need to find that one for you.

When I wrote that last update about a month ago; somethings have changed.  I really need to write down a bunch of stuff to summarize all my readings from when I started.  BUT....  I noticed something in the last month and I am not entirely sure yet if what is going on are my predictions.  That is why I need to do a good update here.  What I will say is that somethings that were predicted last fall might be starting to come to pass.  I am not entirely sure at this point and playing things by ear.  But if that happens it could mean that Mattie and Kisha along with a bunch of others could be right but their timing was off.  Because of this I am holding off on a full update until I truly get everything figured out but I will post a summarization before then.  Just need to find the time to do it :)


That. Is. So. Awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Keep us posted Sparky! Rooting for you here my friend!!!!! :)
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: Lyssa on June 25, 2019, 08:44:54 PM
Any updates yet?! Would love to hear how stuff is going(:
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on June 26, 2019, 02:43:37 PM
Any updates yet?! Would love to hear how stuff is going(:

I will try to get a summarized update sometime this weekend to bring everything back up to speed. 
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: maggs30 on July 18, 2019, 04:40:08 PM
Any updates yet?! Would love to hear how stuff is going(:

Sparky you timing is as bad as our psychics timing lmao any updates?

I will try to get a summarized update sometime this weekend to bring everything back up to speed.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on July 18, 2019, 05:43:05 PM
Any updates yet?! Would love to hear how stuff is going(:

Sparky you timing is as bad as our psychics timing lmao any updates?

I will try to get a summarized update sometime this weekend to bring everything back up to speed.

I know!  lol  I just haven't had the time to go back through all my notes and double check everything to make a good comprehensive update.  As I figure a comprehensive update is better than just small pieces here and there.  Funny thing is I am actually rarely on my PC at home and only really check this site quick while at work.  So with that has made it difficult to even write something out since all my notes are also at home.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: maggs30 on July 18, 2019, 06:31:42 PM
Any updates yet?! Would love to hear how stuff is going(:

Sparky you timing is as bad as our psychics timing lmao any updates?

I will try to get a summarized update sometime this weekend to bring everything back up to speed.

I know!  lol  I just haven't had the time to go back through all my notes and double check everything to make a good comprehensive update.  As I figure a comprehensive update is better than just small pieces here and there.  Funny thing is I am actually rarely on my PC at home and only really check this site quick while at work.  So with that has made it difficult to even write something out since all my notes are also at home.

I had to give you a hard time lol. Yes a comprehensive report is best im just starting to go through all of mine ugh
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on July 18, 2019, 08:33:16 PM
Any updates yet?! Would love to hear how stuff is going(:

Sparky you timing is as bad as our psychics timing lmao any updates?

I will try to get a summarized update sometime this weekend to bring everything back up to speed.

I know!  lol  I just haven't had the time to go back through all my notes and double check everything to make a good comprehensive update.  As I figure a comprehensive update is better than just small pieces here and there.  Funny thing is I am actually rarely on my PC at home and only really check this site quick while at work.  So with that has made it difficult to even write something out since all my notes are also at home.

I had to give you a hard time lol. Yes a comprehensive report is best im just starting to go through all of mine ugh

I knew you were giving me a hard time.  The funny thing is I was just thinking about this and when did I say I was going to do an update.  Just goes to show how busy I have been because I didn't think it was that long ago. 
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: Cteebaby1 on July 21, 2019, 11:19:30 PM
I’m going to assume nothing happened
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: Heidimary on July 22, 2019, 05:47:26 AM
I’m going to assume nothing happened

Im going to be optimistic and assume the oppisite(:

Same ^^^
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: Girly1998 on July 22, 2019, 11:16:22 PM
I think the suspense is quite rude   :o
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: Girly1998 on July 23, 2019, 02:32:31 AM
I think the suspense is quite rude   :o

I don't think so. Maybe hes busy? You never know what's going on in someone's life.

It was only a joke
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on July 28, 2019, 03:53:27 PM
Alright so here is my current update.  Going to make it as short as possible.

So far nothing has happened with my POI and I.  We still remain out of communication but we have bumped into each other on the road.  Basically just driving by each other or in the lane next to one another at a stop light.  That is about the most contact I had with her.  Mattie did predict the status change for my POI.  Now that could have been the engagement or the wedding.  I guess you could choose your pick on that one even though after the engagement I did talk to Mattie again she didn't see my POI going through with the marriage.  As for the prediction of communication and apology from my ex, that hasn't happened.  I was going to write Mattie off on my POI prediction but something has been happening lately.  Mattie did say I would meet someone new that is in the medical field.  That this person would have dark hair and a couple of kids.  That I would only see them casually.  Well I can tell you that there isn't just one but four that meet that description.  Three of them have kids and one does not.  The one with out also has blonde hair but they all work in the medical field.  Also I only see myself dating any of them casually.  As of right now things are going really slow with them and I would say it is definitely just very casual.  Nothing real exciting there.  But it has me wondering if maybe her timeline for reconciling with my POI is off?  Since she did say I would meet this new person first before my POI would reach out.  I didn't meet them until May.  So it could be possible that Mattie did see things but that her timeline could be off.  As of right now for the prediction I am just going to sweep it under the wrong and see what happens.

As for Kisha's predictions, she also saw us reconciling and her relationship with who my POI is now married to would end.  That was supposed to happen during the winter with us reconciling in the warmer months.  Though Kisha saw that I would have another option in the summer.  So it is possible that Kisha was seeing one of these four new girls I am speaking with when seeing that other option.  As for her predictions with my POI.  It is possible that could be easily off a year.  Time will tell but as of right now the only thing correct has been this possible new option.  Everything else she got was in the past.

Talked to Abundant Visions on Feb 10th 2019.  She did a tarot reading and saw that my POI would reach out and make contact and that there would be forgiveness.  That it was possible for that to happen before the marriage.  She was getting a 5 that was supposed to postpone the marriage but as they are married not sure on that.  She also mentioned that the forgiveness will lead to reconciling but the first contact is for that forgiveness not to reconcile.  That it would take time to reconcile.  So really with that prediction not really sure what to make of it.

From Shelly I still get markers that she gave me months ago still occurring.  So if you go with being in the energy space that is good but sucks it is dragging out so long.

I did talk to Effie once back last fall and her prediction was that I would get back with my ex but her prediction wasn't until August 2019 that we would start to communicate.  So is it possible that maybe she might nail the timeline of that better than others.  We will see but I am not going to hold out anything for August.

I want to mention that one of the first readers that I read with Sandra Logan got more things right outside of love.  I talked to her Nov 2018.  She accurately predicted when I would buy a house and move into it.  That did happen this last April.  She told me to be watch my car tires this winter as I will get stranded.  Well that hasn't happened but I am thinking I am getting what she saw occurring now as I do need new tires on my car and I have been watching them a lot more lately because they could easily get a flat at the stage they are in.  Another thing she predicted was I would receive contact from a brother that I haven't talked to in a long time.  I actually think this is my niece's fiancé that has been trying to contact me.  As for the POI all she said was she saw a chance of us reconciling after the new year.  Which obviously hasn't happened.  So I think she got more things right outside of love but I wanted to mention those others.

As for all the other readers.  I am just going to say they are wrong since their timelines have passed considerably.  QoC18 and Indio did say we wouldn't get back together so far they are right on that.  But with QoC18 really only seeing about 6 months out it is possible we do get back together in the future. 

Another thing I want to add is I am not even sure I want to be back with my POI.  I struggle with this daily.  At times I am completely disgusted by her and I don't want her back.  At other times I do miss her a lot.  I really have no clue what will happen if she does reach out someday.  As for her current marriage.  I do not feel it will last personally.  Since she only dated the guy for 6 months and married him at 9 months.  Statistically it is against her and I just have a gut feeling it won't last.  I'm glad that I haven't had a reading since Feb/March.  Can't remember the exact date since it has been so long. lol  So I have that really going for me.

So that is the short of it.  If I was to talk to any psychics again it would be Mattie, Kisha, and Sandra Logan.  Just because I feel that they have been the most accurate overall.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: maggs30 on August 17, 2019, 02:53:17 AM
QofC is accurate just not a long term seer. I am wondering how far out some of them see and if these things will happen a year or two later like Yona. I agree with you Sparky if someone walks away from me and marries someone else I don't think I could or would go back. That is just too hard to get past. Good luck with the new love interests!
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: Caroline10 on August 17, 2019, 10:00:12 PM
QOC and Irish Donna have seemed to be pretty accurate for me regarding the POI, and both saw that his relationship won't last. I don't know which way things will go there, but I do know that he brought confusion, pain, and heartache into my life. He really wasn't all that good to me. He sent me texts meant for other women, he always had something going on.
When he was married, he cheated on his wife at least 4 times that I know of and he was the smoothest liar I've ever seen.
If POI's gf stays with him, not entirely sure she'll be happy. He may try to be loyal for awhile, but past experience (and according to QOC, Stephanie's Guided Tarot, and Arriana) he won't be. QOC said there were so many women around him and in the end, he's not a one-woman man. I think she's right...
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on August 19, 2019, 11:18:51 AM
QofC is accurate just not a long term seer. I am wondering how far out some of them see and if these things will happen a year or two later like Yona. I agree with you Sparky if someone walks away from me and marries someone else I don't think I could or would go back. That is just too hard to get past. Good luck with the new love interests!

Thanks Maggs30.  They are still going slow but that is okay.  I think the main thing at least for me when someone walks away and marries someone else.  Is more so the trust has been broken.  How can I trust that when life gets tough that they don't bail which is how I feel what she did.  Plus them doing that shows a very selfish act.  I would be more okay with it if the marriage didn't happen within a couple of years after we broke up and they dated for a long time.  But to date only for 6 months to get engaged and them married in 9 months of only knowing each other.  They married a year after she broke up with me.  Knowing how fast that all happened it really puts a bad taste in your mouth over someone.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: maggs30 on August 19, 2019, 03:02:57 PM
QofC is accurate just not a long term seer. I am wondering how far out some of them see and if these things will happen a year or two later like Yona. I agree with you Sparky if someone walks away from me and marries someone else I don't think I could or would go back. That is just too hard to get past. Good luck with the new love interests!

Thanks Maggs30.  They are still going slow but that is okay.  I think the main thing at least for me when someone walks away and marries someone else.  Is more so the trust has been broken.  How can I trust that when life gets tough that they don't bail which is how I feel what she did.  Plus them doing that shows a very selfish act.  I would be more okay with it if the marriage didn't happen within a couple of years after we broke up and they dated for a long time.  But to date only for 6 months to get engaged and them married in 9 months of only knowing each other.  They married a year after she broke up with me.  Knowing how fast that all happened it really puts a bad taste in your mouth over someone.

I totally get it. At one point my husband and I separated for over a year and I dated someone for 6 months. That dude married his baby mama while we were dating because she threatened he would never see his kids again. Somehow now 14 years later 7 years after his divorce and 2 years after mine he is back talking to me. I could never trust him but for some reason God had him pop back up.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on October 31, 2019, 03:24:54 PM
It has been awhile but I wanted to provide a couple of updates.

First on my Effie reading.  Effie was the only one out of my original readings that said my ex would make contact of August/September this year.  That hasn't happened and now that we are going to be into November I don't see it happening.  I haven't spoken to my ex in over a year.  So I figured I would give an update there.

An update on Sandra Logan.  I didn't mention this before in the thread but she did mention to me about something with tires during the winter months.  She just said to keep an eye on my tires as something will happen in the winter that would leave me stranded.  I had a reading with her Nov 2008 so she thought it was for was last winter but at this point I really think that is today.  I thought it was a couple months ago when I purchased new tires for my car but I am pretty positive it is today.  Today I ended up running over something and ended up getting a flat tire and it needs a completely new one and cannot be repaired.  That is way more stranded than you want to be when you have to change a tire on the side of the road.  Also money is a bit tight right now for the next week so a new tire isn't something I want to purchase right now.  So it is making me feel a bit stranded there.  It is cold here now so I am just going to say that today has to be that prediction.  Also she did correctly predict that I would be moving last April.  As I bought a house and closed last April.  So I would say there are a couple of hits there that should be credited.

Otherwise I haven't had a reading since March.  So I got that going for me.  Now with Effie's prediction timeline finally passing I can say that not much has really happened with my readings.  Mattie was the one most right about my POI but wrong regarding her coming back and not following through with her marriage.  Maybe her timing is off just like Kisha's.  Who predicted the same thing during the cold months.  Maybe for things to manifest it is this winter.  Either way I will not hold my breath.  Personally I just believe I will never find someone and been living my life as that.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: Fidget1028 on October 31, 2019, 03:49:55 PM
It has been awhile but I wanted to provide a couple of updates.

First on my Effie reading.  Effie was the only one out of my original readings that said my ex would make contact of August/September this year.  That hasn't happened and now that we are going to be into November I don't see it happening.  I haven't spoken to my ex in over a year.  So I figured I would give an update there.

An update on Sandra Logan.  I didn't mention this before in the thread but she did mention to me about something with tires during the winter months.  She just said to keep an eye on my tires as something will happen in the winter that would leave me stranded.  I had a reading with her Nov 2008 so she thought it was for was last winter but at this point I really think that is today.  I thought it was a couple months ago when I purchased new tires for my car but I am pretty positive it is today.  Today I ended up running over something and ended up getting a flat tire and it needs a completely new one and cannot be repaired.  That is way more stranded than you want to be when you have to change a tire on the side of the road.  Also money is a bit tight right now for the next week so a new tire isn't something I want to purchase right now.  So it is making me feel a bit stranded there.  It is cold here now so I am just going to say that today has to be that prediction.  Also she did correctly predict that I would be moving last April.  As I bought a house and closed last April.  So I would say there are a couple of hits there that should be credited.

Otherwise I haven't had a reading since March.  So I got that going for me.  Now with Effie's prediction timeline finally passing I can say that not much has really happened with my readings.  Mattie was the one most right about my POI but wrong regarding her coming back and not following through with her marriage.  Maybe her timing is off just like Kisha's.  Who predicted the same thing during the cold months.  Maybe for things to manifest it is this winter.  Either way I will not hold my breath.  Personally I just believe I will never find someone and been living my life as that.

Sorry Sparky. The best I can tell you is to live your life. I've found that most things manifest when we just let it go. You definitely will find someone, but our low energies prevent the good stuff from coming in. Take the time to heal and surround yourself with good, caring friends. My friends have helped me more than anything.  I force myself sometimes to get out there, but I always end up having a good time. It just takes time and a boatload of redirection.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on October 31, 2019, 04:04:56 PM
It has been awhile but I wanted to provide a couple of updates.

First on my Effie reading.  Effie was the only one out of my original readings that said my ex would make contact of August/September this year.  That hasn't happened and now that we are going to be into November I don't see it happening.  I haven't spoken to my ex in over a year.  So I figured I would give an update there.

An update on Sandra Logan.  I didn't mention this before in the thread but she did mention to me about something with tires during the winter months.  She just said to keep an eye on my tires as something will happen in the winter that would leave me stranded.  I had a reading with her Nov 2008 so she thought it was for was last winter but at this point I really think that is today.  I thought it was a couple months ago when I purchased new tires for my car but I am pretty positive it is today.  Today I ended up running over something and ended up getting a flat tire and it needs a completely new one and cannot be repaired.  That is way more stranded than you want to be when you have to change a tire on the side of the road.  Also money is a bit tight right now for the next week so a new tire isn't something I want to purchase right now.  So it is making me feel a bit stranded there.  It is cold here now so I am just going to say that today has to be that prediction.  Also she did correctly predict that I would be moving last April.  As I bought a house and closed last April.  So I would say there are a couple of hits there that should be credited.

Otherwise I haven't had a reading since March.  So I got that going for me.  Now with Effie's prediction timeline finally passing I can say that not much has really happened with my readings.  Mattie was the one most right about my POI but wrong regarding her coming back and not following through with her marriage.  Maybe her timing is off just like Kisha's.  Who predicted the same thing during the cold months.  Maybe for things to manifest it is this winter.  Either way I will not hold my breath.  Personally I just believe I will never find someone and been living my life as that.

Sorry Sparky. The best I can tell you is to live your life. I've found that most things manifest when we just let it go. You definitely will find someone, but our low energies prevent the good stuff from coming in. Take the time to heal and surround yourself with good, caring friends. My friends have helped me more than anything.  I force myself sometimes to get out there, but I always end up having a good time. It just takes time and a boatload of redirection.

Thanks Fidget for that.  I would love to hang out with my friends but sadly they don't ever invite me to anything and I got sick of always being the one reaching out.  So since the breakup from my POI a year and a half ago.  I reevaluated the people in my life and started to only have those in my life that want me to be there.  Which is sadly no one.  I can easily go a whole months without anyone just wanting to chat or even just ask to grab a quick bite or drink.  Well that is unless I reach out first then as long as it fits into their schedule they will do something.  So when it comes to that network I am at a loss as well.  Mentally I feel good just wished sometimes I had people to hang out with.  Definitely makes me wonder why I am spending so much on a cellphone when really all I use it for is to browse the internet.

I will say one good thing with my new neighbors is I do talk to them but we don't always hang out.  So there is the possibility of friendships there but just giving that time.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: Yaz88 on October 31, 2019, 06:14:03 PM
It has been awhile but I wanted to provide a couple of updates.

First on my Effie reading.  Effie was the only one out of my original readings that said my ex would make contact of August/September this year.  That hasn't happened and now that we are going to be into November I don't see it happening.  I haven't spoken to my ex in over a year.  So I figured I would give an update there.

An update on Sandra Logan.  I didn't mention this before in the thread but she did mention to me about something with tires during the winter months.  She just said to keep an eye on my tires as something will happen in the winter that would leave me stranded.  I had a reading with her Nov 2008 so she thought it was for was last winter but at this point I really think that is today.  I thought it was a couple months ago when I purchased new tires for my car but I am pretty positive it is today.  Today I ended up running over something and ended up getting a flat tire and it needs a completely new one and cannot be repaired.  That is way more stranded than you want to be when you have to change a tire on the side of the road.  Also money is a bit tight right now for the next week so a new tire isn't something I want to purchase right now.  So it is making me feel a bit stranded there.  It is cold here now so I am just going to say that today has to be that prediction.  Also she did correctly predict that I would be moving last April.  As I bought a house and closed last April.  So I would say there are a couple of hits there that should be credited.

Otherwise I haven't had a reading since March.  So I got that going for me.  Now with Effie's prediction timeline finally passing I can say that not much has really happened with my readings.  Mattie was the one most right about my POI but wrong regarding her coming back and not following through with her marriage.  Maybe her timing is off just like Kisha's.  Who predicted the same thing during the cold months.  Maybe for things to manifest it is this winter.  Either way I will not hold my breath.  Personally I just believe I will never find someone and been living my life as that.

Sorry Sparky. The best I can tell you is to live your life. I've found that most things manifest when we just let it go. You definitely will find someone, but our low energies prevent the good stuff from coming in. Take the time to heal and surround yourself with good, caring friends. My friends have helped me more than anything.  I force myself sometimes to get out there, but I always end up having a good time. It just takes time and a boatload of redirection.

Thanks Fidget for that.  I would love to hang out with my friends but sadly they don't ever invite me to anything and I got sick of always being the one reaching out.  So since the breakup from my POI a year and a half ago.  I reevaluated the people in my life and started to only have those in my life that want me to be there.  Which is sadly no one.  I can easily go a whole months without anyone just wanting to chat or even just ask to grab a quick bite or drink.  Well that is unless I reach out first then as long as it fits into their schedule they will do something.  So when it comes to that network I am at a loss as well.  Mentally I feel good just wished sometimes I had people to hang out with.  Definitely makes me wonder why I am spending so much on a cellphone when really all I use it for is to browse the internet.

I will say one good thing with my new neighbors is I do talk to them but we don't always hang out.  So there is the possibility of friendships there but just giving that time.

Sparky, I’ve found that when I feel like I have a lack of friends, I find various groups to join that involve people.  For instance, Crossfit or yoga or networking groups for my business.  Meet-up also works.  That’s how I satisfy my need for social interaction.  I’m an introvert, so it’s hard to get out there.  But with organized activities, the same people tend to be there at the same time, so it’s like a group of friends.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on October 31, 2019, 07:06:09 PM
It has been awhile but I wanted to provide a couple of updates.

First on my Effie reading.  Effie was the only one out of my original readings that said my ex would make contact of August/September this year.  That hasn't happened and now that we are going to be into November I don't see it happening.  I haven't spoken to my ex in over a year.  So I figured I would give an update there.

An update on Sandra Logan.  I didn't mention this before in the thread but she did mention to me about something with tires during the winter months.  She just said to keep an eye on my tires as something will happen in the winter that would leave me stranded.  I had a reading with her Nov 2008 so she thought it was for was last winter but at this point I really think that is today.  I thought it was a couple months ago when I purchased new tires for my car but I am pretty positive it is today.  Today I ended up running over something and ended up getting a flat tire and it needs a completely new one and cannot be repaired.  That is way more stranded than you want to be when you have to change a tire on the side of the road.  Also money is a bit tight right now for the next week so a new tire isn't something I want to purchase right now.  So it is making me feel a bit stranded there.  It is cold here now so I am just going to say that today has to be that prediction.  Also she did correctly predict that I would be moving last April.  As I bought a house and closed last April.  So I would say there are a couple of hits there that should be credited.

Otherwise I haven't had a reading since March.  So I got that going for me.  Now with Effie's prediction timeline finally passing I can say that not much has really happened with my readings.  Mattie was the one most right about my POI but wrong regarding her coming back and not following through with her marriage.  Maybe her timing is off just like Kisha's.  Who predicted the same thing during the cold months.  Maybe for things to manifest it is this winter.  Either way I will not hold my breath.  Personally I just believe I will never find someone and been living my life as that.

Sorry Sparky. The best I can tell you is to live your life. I've found that most things manifest when we just let it go. You definitely will find someone, but our low energies prevent the good stuff from coming in. Take the time to heal and surround yourself with good, caring friends. My friends have helped me more than anything.  I force myself sometimes to get out there, but I always end up having a good time. It just takes time and a boatload of redirection.

Thanks Fidget for that.  I would love to hang out with my friends but sadly they don't ever invite me to anything and I got sick of always being the one reaching out.  So since the breakup from my POI a year and a half ago.  I reevaluated the people in my life and started to only have those in my life that want me to be there.  Which is sadly no one.  I can easily go a whole months without anyone just wanting to chat or even just ask to grab a quick bite or drink.  Well that is unless I reach out first then as long as it fits into their schedule they will do something.  So when it comes to that network I am at a loss as well.  Mentally I feel good just wished sometimes I had people to hang out with.  Definitely makes me wonder why I am spending so much on a cellphone when really all I use it for is to browse the internet.

I will say one good thing with my new neighbors is I do talk to them but we don't always hang out.  So there is the possibility of friendships there but just giving that time.

Sparky, I’ve found that when I feel like I have a lack of friends, I find various groups to join that involve people.  For instance, Crossfit or yoga or networking groups for my business.  Meet-up also works.  That’s how I satisfy my need for social interaction.  I’m an introvert, so it’s hard to get out there.  But with organized activities, the same people tend to be there at the same time, so it’s like a group of friends.

That is the plan for next year Yaz.  Is to join a few groups with one in particular is something that I really enjoy but it does take quite a bit of money to join.  So I am looking forward to that.  I did try meetup here but it is very lacking.  Barely any meet ups actually occur.  Though I want to say that even with the stuff about my friends I am happy.  It just tends to get boring when you are home all the time. 
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: beachgal214 on November 06, 2019, 08:28:14 PM
Not to generalize sexes but I think guys can be even more difficult to maintain steady connections. I know the men in my life rely heavily on the women to organize the events.... so I am just saying, sparky, I can see how and why you feel the way you do.

I am glad you are still happy - and that sounds exciting about joining the group next year!! Is it a golf club?
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on November 06, 2019, 08:37:55 PM
Not to generalize sexes but I think guys can be even more difficult to maintain steady connections. I know the men in my life rely heavily on the women to organize the events.... so I am just saying, sparky, I can see how and why you feel the way you do.

I am glad you are still happy - and that sounds exciting about joining the group next year!! Is it a golf club?

I think yes the general consensus is that guys do rely on women to organize events.  I was an outlier for that as I would ask my friends to do things or try to hold something at my place like a wine party, BBQ, or even a friends-giving.  What I ended up getting sick of was seeing that they would do something all together and not invite me.  I would see the posts on FB or snapchat.  They knew I had one of the most flexible schedules out of all of them and all they had to do was ask me to join.

It isn't a golf club.  I have a horrible golf swing that I would leave holes in the ground when I golf.   ;D  This is a club that helps maintain old aircraft as a form of a living museum and travels the country with them.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: beachgal214 on November 06, 2019, 10:53:00 PM
Neat!!
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on November 15, 2019, 01:49:49 PM
I wanted to give a little update of sorts.  Not really about any predictions or anything but regarding something that I know a lot of you struggle with.  I haven't a reading since March of this year after starting getting readings the October before.  As it stands now, I do think sometimes to maybe get a reading but I view it such that it would just be something fun to do.  Just to see what they pull up kind of thing and brush it off.  Basically made it more into an entertainment sort of thing.  Which as a result doesn't really make me want to spend the money so I don't even get one.  Thus the time from my last reading gets longer and longer.  I know the struggle to stop getting readings is tough and maybe that is a key to breaking away from them.  Is to realize readings as just something sort of fun and silly, even if what they predict manifests itself.  By doing so I think it helps take out the want or in some cases a need to call a psychic to get an answer.  By just brushing them off, I think puts you in a position to just live your life and let it things happen.  Is it hard to do so?  I would say that it is very hard because you are holding onto what they say will indeed happen and you are preparing you life for that event to occur.  So it causes this cycle of if it happened.  You call because you want to know more.  If it doesn't happen then you call to discover out why it didn't happen.  It becomes a vicious cycle.

If you do end up viewing readings as something fun or silly to do which turns into just entertainment.  Then you just end up weighing the costs of the reading similar to if you want to go see a movie in the theater or just wait until it comes out on Netflix or all together make you forget that you wanted to see that movie.  Saving you some money.  Maybe coming up with this viewpoint on readings is why we should take what they say "For entertainment purposes only" a bit more to heart.

So basically for my update I want to just say that I haven't had a reading in quite a few months and my viewpoint regarding getting a reading doesn't really feel like a need or a want to get one.  But of one to just see what fun or silly thing they could pull up regardless if it manifests which makes me not even get one.  I know I don't post a lot here like others but I do try to login and read the posts on the forum just to see how everyone is doing.  How the posters life matched up with their readings or it maybe they didn't.  In a way it is almost like a reading a bunch of books and checking to see if the predictions happen to match up in their book of life.  The same way as if I try to predict how a TV show might progress through a season.  Viewed as one big entertainment to enjoy.  So if you are struggling in deciding to get a reading.  Maybe the key in making the decision is to just change how you view them to help prevent you spending the money.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on December 19, 2019, 01:32:38 PM
I could of put this in vent but I didn't feel like making a new thread.  lol.  So sometimes I ask the universe for a sign (not really sure what I think of if it actually works or not) about my ex or just something silly like getting me to win the powerball so I can retire early lol.  I usually don't think anything of it when I do it and just live my life after.  But I remember a few weeks ago I did ask if my ex and I were meant to be and to give me a sign.  I would say a couple days later at the most, I start to see her name everywhere.  Out shopping in a store or online and there is something customizable with a name or even some kind of Ad.  It has her name on it.  Go to the dating app and a butch of profiles have her name.

I honestly don't know if it is a coincidence or not.  She does have a common name so it is possible.  But at the same time it is annoying.  If the universe is trying to tell me that we are meant to be then why make me struggle with this time apart?  I know at the time when I did ask I was hoping that if it did give a sign it would of been like "No, you're being stupid. You are not meant to be."  To help the moving on process.  Basically my vent is if you are asking the universe or trying to manifest something.  I wish that the answer wouldn't be so vague.  Anyways that is all I have to say about that.  Enjoy my little vent  ;) lol.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: Jili1945 on December 19, 2019, 02:16:07 PM
I could of put this in vent but I didn't feel like making a new thread.  lol.  So sometimes I ask the universe for a sign (not really sure what I think of if it actually works or not) about my ex or just something silly like getting me to win the powerball so I can retire early lol.  I usually don't think anything of it when I do it and just live my life after.  But I remember a few weeks ago I did ask if my ex and I were meant to be and to give me a sign.  I would say a couple days later at the most, I start to see her name everywhere.  Out shopping in a store or online and there is something customizable with a name or even some kind of Ad.  It has her name on it.  Go to the dating app and a butch of profiles have her name.

I honestly don't know if it is a coincidence or not.  She does have a common name so it is possible.  But at the same time it is annoying.  If the universe is trying to tell me that we are meant to be then why make me struggle with this time apart?  I know at the time when I did ask I was hoping that if it did give a sign it would of been like "No, you're being stupid. You are not meant to be."  To help the moving on process.  Basically my vent is if you are asking the universe or trying to manifest something.  I wish that the answer wouldn't be so vague.  Anyways that is all I have to say about that.  Enjoy my little vent  ;) lol.

Cool! Thanks for sharing. Hope you guys get back together very soon if this is the best for both of you :)
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on December 19, 2019, 07:10:06 PM
I could of put this in vent but I didn't feel like making a new thread.  lol.  So sometimes I ask the universe for a sign (not really sure what I think of if it actually works or not) about my ex or just something silly like getting me to win the powerball so I can retire early lol.  I usually don't think anything of it when I do it and just live my life after.  But I remember a few weeks ago I did ask if my ex and I were meant to be and to give me a sign.  I would say a couple days later at the most, I start to see her name everywhere.  Out shopping in a store or online and there is something customizable with a name or even some kind of Ad.  It has her name on it.  Go to the dating app and a butch of profiles have her name.

I honestly don't know if it is a coincidence or not.  She does have a common name so it is possible.  But at the same time it is annoying.  If the universe is trying to tell me that we are meant to be then why make me struggle with this time apart?  I know at the time when I did ask I was hoping that if it did give a sign it would of been like "No, you're being stupid. You are not meant to be."  To help the moving on process.  Basically my vent is if you are asking the universe or trying to manifest something.  I wish that the answer wouldn't be so vague.  Anyways that is all I have to say about that.  Enjoy my little vent  ;) lol.

Cool! Thanks for sharing. Hope you guys get back together very soon if this is the best for both of you :)

At this point I doubt it.  She got married in March.  A year after we broke up and only knew the guy for 9 months.  In order for us to be back together that would have to fail.  Which I do have a feeling it will.  Not sure when though.  I don't know if I would want her back.  All I want from her right now is an apology and that seems unlikely.

The vent is over that I was asking the universe if the whole thing was a mistake or not and give me a sign.  You know if we were meant to be.  I guess it could really be either way for the past or future.  I just found the name thing a sort of coincidence with it.  If she had some obscure name and I was seeing it all over.  I am sure people would say yes that is a sign.  But since she has a common name.  Do you say the same?  Because maybe it is the universe giving me a sign.  Maybe just not a very clear one.  If that is the case you would think the universe would make sure to give you a sign that is clear.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: Yaz88 on December 19, 2019, 07:43:35 PM
I could of put this in vent but I didn't feel like making a new thread.  lol.  So sometimes I ask the universe for a sign (not really sure what I think of if it actually works or not) about my ex or just something silly like getting me to win the powerball so I can retire early lol.  I usually don't think anything of it when I do it and just live my life after.  But I remember a few weeks ago I did ask if my ex and I were meant to be and to give me a sign.  I would say a couple days later at the most, I start to see her name everywhere.  Out shopping in a store or online and there is something customizable with a name or even some kind of Ad.  It has her name on it.  Go to the dating app and a butch of profiles have her name.

I honestly don't know if it is a coincidence or not.  She does have a common name so it is possible.  But at the same time it is annoying.  If the universe is trying to tell me that we are meant to be then why make me struggle with this time apart?  I know at the time when I did ask I was hoping that if it did give a sign it would of been like "No, you're being stupid. You are not meant to be."  To help the moving on process.  Basically my vent is if you are asking the universe or trying to manifest something.  I wish that the answer wouldn't be so vague.  Anyways that is all I have to say about that.  Enjoy my little vent  ;) lol.

Yup, this is exactly why I don’t ask the universe to give me a sign.  The name thing happened to such an extreme extent with a former POI that had a relatively unique name, it had me begging the universe and God for clarity.  Then one day I realized that I had all the clarity I needed.  The answer of whether me and that POI should be together or whether we were ever going to be together had been clear as day all along.  It was a big fat No, and the answer was evident in how he treated me and that he wasn’t planning on changing and that he didn’t want to change.  Looking back, I think that when I asked the universe to give me a sign, I manifested his name appearing everywhere.  The energy I put out when his name appeared caused his name to keep on appearing.  I don’t know if I’m correct, but I don’t ask the universe to provide signs anymore.  It was like a self fulfilling prophecy from hell.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on December 19, 2019, 07:51:29 PM
I could of put this in vent but I didn't feel like making a new thread.  lol.  So sometimes I ask the universe for a sign (not really sure what I think of if it actually works or not) about my ex or just something silly like getting me to win the powerball so I can retire early lol.  I usually don't think anything of it when I do it and just live my life after.  But I remember a few weeks ago I did ask if my ex and I were meant to be and to give me a sign.  I would say a couple days later at the most, I start to see her name everywhere.  Out shopping in a store or online and there is something customizable with a name or even some kind of Ad.  It has her name on it.  Go to the dating app and a butch of profiles have her name.

I honestly don't know if it is a coincidence or not.  She does have a common name so it is possible.  But at the same time it is annoying.  If the universe is trying to tell me that we are meant to be then why make me struggle with this time apart?  I know at the time when I did ask I was hoping that if it did give a sign it would of been like "No, you're being stupid. You are not meant to be."  To help the moving on process.  Basically my vent is if you are asking the universe or trying to manifest something.  I wish that the answer wouldn't be so vague.  Anyways that is all I have to say about that.  Enjoy my little vent  ;) lol.

Yup, this is exactly why I don’t ask the universe to give me a sign.  The name thing happened to such an extreme extent with a former POI that had a relatively unique name, it had me begging the universe and God for clarity.  Then one day I realized that I had all the clarity I needed.  The answer of whether me and that POI should be together or whether we were ever going to be together had been clear as day all along.  It was a big fat No, and the answer was evident in how he treated me and that he wasn’t planning on changing and that he didn’t want to change.  Looking back, I think that when I asked the universe to give me a sign, I manifested his name appearing everywhere.  The energy I put out when his name appeared caused his name to keep on appearing.  I don’t know if I’m correct, but I don’t ask the universe to provide signs anymore.  It was like a self fulfilling prophecy from hell.

That right there is why I think manifesting can be a bit of BS.  Because how do we not know that is actually what happens.  That it is our own energy doing it instead of the universe providing it.  I also thought the same thing about seeing her name more recently.  Thinking well duh of course I see it more because asked about it.  Though it could be a subconscious thing going on too.  We met on New Years Eve and as that day gets closer.  I can see my subconsciousness bringing her up more.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: Miss Philosopher on December 22, 2019, 06:49:24 AM
I don't really believe in manifestation much anymore. I'm sure poor people that are starving to death think about how great it would be to have food every day of their lives, but nothing and then they die of starvation. I'm also sure that all of the people struggling out there with finances wish to God they'd come across more money or get a raise or whatever. People who struggle with health issues probably wish to be healthy and try everything they can to make that happen but it never happens and they get worse and die. On the flip side of that, if we don't put in proper efforts with things, we reap the same. I don't know how it all works exactly but I'm really not convinced about the whole manifesting anything you want type shit. Unless it's real but we're all too much of a doubting Thomas for anything to actually occur? Who knows.

For me, years and years ago, when I was first learning about this manifestation bullshit, I wrote down exactly the kind of man I wanted, all the way down to the physical appearance, the personality, etc. The current ex was exactly what I asked for physically, and at first, he came across as what I asked for personality wise etc. However, he was the devil incarnate.

Now I just believe in predestination. I believe we plan our lives before we even incarnate and we make agreements with other souls prior to coming here. So every single person that we cross paths with and get involved with on whatever level was already planned from the start. Those that hurt us did so to help us grow and overcome some other hang ups, perhaps even from past lives. Those that love us are there to help with healing. And when no one is around, that's when we're meant to do it all on our own.  Just my .25 cents.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: sparky on December 23, 2019, 02:13:16 PM
I don't really believe in manifestation much anymore. I'm sure poor people that are starving to death think about how great it would be to have food every day of their lives, but nothing and then they die of starvation. I'm also sure that all of the people struggling out there with finances wish to God they'd come across more money or get a raise or whatever. People who struggle with health issues probably wish to be healthy and try everything they can to make that happen but it never happens and they get worse and die. On the flip side of that, if we don't put in proper efforts with things, we reap the same. I don't know how it all works exactly but I'm really not convinced about the whole manifesting anything you want type shit. Unless it's real but we're all too much of a doubting Thomas for anything to actually occur? Who knows.

For me, years and years ago, when I was first learning about this manifestation bullshit, I wrote down exactly the kind of man I wanted, all the way down to the physical appearance, the personality, etc. The current ex was exactly what I asked for physically, and at first, he came across as what I asked for personality wise etc. However, he was the devil incarnate.

Now I just believe in predestination. I believe we plan our lives before we even incarnate and we make agreements with other souls prior to coming here. So every single person that we cross paths with and get involved with on whatever level was already planned from the start. Those that hurt us did so to help us grow and overcome some other hang ups, perhaps even from past lives. Those that love us are there to help with healing. And when no one is around, that's when we're meant to do it all on our own.  Just my .25 cents.

I could see this as being something.  I think the one thing with me is when it comes to manifest and this is just my understanding.  Is that if you wish to be a millionaire and or more food.  That the universe just doesn't give it to you but gives you an opportunity to have it.  It is up to you as to what you do with that opportunity.  As millionaire really is more cash than what you have this could just be a new side job that might only make you 20 bucks a week at the time but maybe in 5 years could make you millionaire from total money earned.  Is it really what you meant no but the universe answered to it.  People just see that initial 20 and thinking it isn't enough and not what they wanted.  So they stop and as a result their wish never occurs.

I too believe in predestination, but I dont believe we decided on it. No one will ever convince me that there are souls who choose to come to this life and to get murdered or ran over by a bus at age 7 to learn lessons for the next incarnation.

I think there is more a pre-destiny even if someone dies at age 7 or murdered could be that way.  As we don't know what that soul's life is just its incarnation is for that time on earth.  It could be that the death at age 7 or murder was there not to teach them a lesson for the next incarnation but more so to start a new life at a given time that could have more meaning.  That the young age or murder was just a life to fill a gap for the soul.  It could also be a purpose to touch the soul of another for them to have a life lesson. 
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: Star_01 on December 28, 2019, 04:33:23 AM
I don't really believe in manifestation much anymore. I'm sure poor people that are starving to death think about how great it would be to have food every day of their lives, but nothing and then they die of starvation. I'm also sure that all of the people struggling out there with finances wish to God they'd come across more money or get a raise or whatever. People who struggle with health issues probably wish to be healthy and try everything they can to make that happen but it never happens and they get worse and die. On the flip side of that, if we don't put in proper efforts with things, we reap the same. I don't know how it all works exactly but I'm really not convinced about the whole manifesting anything you want type shit. Unless it's real but we're all too much of a doubting Thomas for anything to actually occur? Who knows.

For me, years and years ago, when I was first learning about this manifestation bullshit, I wrote down exactly the kind of man I wanted, all the way down to the physical appearance, the personality, etc. The current ex was exactly what I asked for physically, and at first, he came across as what I asked for personality wise etc. However, he was the devil incarnate.

Now I just believe in predestination. I believe we plan our lives before we even incarnate and we make agreements with other souls prior to coming here. So every single person that we cross paths with and get involved with on whatever level was already planned from the start. Those that hurt us did so to help us grow and overcome some other hang ups, perhaps even from past lives. Those that love us are there to help with healing. And when no one is around, that's when we're meant to do it all on our own.  Just my .25 cents.

I completely agree with this, especially the bit in bold. I do believe every single person we meet is for a reason and often times a lesson, which helps when they have hurt me or the situation is tough. If they leave my life I know that they were not meant for me or they would still be here.

By the way I've had my own experiences and proof of predestined events I couldn't control.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: jhuskindle on January 07, 2020, 03:38:20 AM
So glad loa is losing steam here. I've never believed in it.
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: Lyssa on January 09, 2020, 04:11:02 AM
OMG I AGREE! I think the concept of manifestation is quite toxic actually. Especially the fact that if we manifest the good then we manifest the bad? I found this article when I was looking into LOA. I just truly cannot wrap my head around continuously believing that I already have something that I don't or any of LOA really.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-blame-game/201609/the-truth-about-the-law-attraction
Title: Re: My Psychic Experiences
Post by: Jenjen on January 09, 2020, 05:54:30 PM
Thx for sharing...I need to rethink. Good and bad and mostly the ugly.  :-\ :-\