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Title: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on September 12, 2019, 07:48:02 PM
Part 1:

Ok, so you all know I have been laying off the readings. My summer started off awful. Multiple readers told me that I should move on from POI #1 and that he had met someone else. This was in June. Most readers said that big changes were coming in September, Virgo season, etc. I didn’t believe it, and went about making changes just for me. Enter a job interview, house renovations, and POI #2 all within 24 hours!!

So here’s who got the scoop:

Leanne (7/14): The appearance of a man who I don’t see often, but would be in contact with via text or social media. Not a long-term partner, but he would raise my confidence. She felt that Sept was a very important month for me to see things more clearly. Yep, that happened. POI #2 came into the picture during a get together with a group of friends a few weeks ago. He just started hitting me up last night telling me how much he likes me and wants to come back to town to see me again.
Yona (3/22): Saw important meetings and interviews that were job related. Yup, happening now. I have a meeting set up with a hiring manager in my current company to discuss a management position. Thought it was just going to be a teleconference, but it has suddenly turned into an interview and a request for my CV.
Yona (7/8): celebrations over the summer (within 6-8 weeks) would be a catalyst for things to change. I may not feel like going to the celebrations, but I am meant to go. Yep, that how POI #2 came into the picture. Also said I would dabble with some creative ideas that were not stupid or daydreams, but I wasn’t financially ready yet, but I would be. I think this could be the house renovations.
Rusty (8/6): You will meet a guy who is the hierophant (traditional type, no baggage, easy). I should consider him because although POI #1 will come back, this guy is just so much easier that POI #1. Yup, POI #2 is a totally laid back guy and super traditional (I mean lunch and a walk around the lake??) Important to note that she feels that when POI #2 comes into the picture, POI #1 will resurface out of the blue. She felt all of this would happen by October, but wasn’t sure of timeline.

Cookie (7/7): Crazy Cookie, New...ummm...New York?? POI #2 lives in NY state. :o

All 3 see POI #1 resurfacing and want me back either when I move on, when POI #2 shows up, or at least before the end of the year with an apology/explanation. Most see him having to jump through hoops to get my attention and me turning my back on him anyway.

STAY TUNED!
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Sparkle002 on September 12, 2019, 07:54:22 PM
This is refreshing to hear! Sounds like you have some cool stuff and fun coming up !

Part 1:

Ok, so you all know I have been laying off the readings. My summer started off awful. Multiple readers told me that I should move on from POI #1 and that he had met someone else. This was in June. Most readers said that big changes were coming in September, Virgo season, etc. I didn’t believe it, and went about making changes just for me. Enter a job interview, house renovations, and POI #2 all within 24 hours!!

So here’s who got the scoop:

Leanne (7/14): The appearance of a man who I don’t see often, but would be in contact with via text or social media. Not a long-term partner, but he would raise my confidence. She felt that Sept was a very important month for me to see things more clearly. Yep, that happened. POI #2 came into the picture during a get together with a group of friends a few weeks ago. He just started hitting me up last night telling me how much he likes me and wants to come back to town to see me again.
Yona (3/22): Saw important meetings and interviews that were job related. Yup, happening now. I have a meeting set up with a hiring manager in my current company to discuss a management position. Thought it was just going to be a teleconference, but it has suddenly turned into an interview and a request for my CV.
Yona (7/8): celebrations over the summer (within 6-8 weeks) would be a catalyst for things to change. I may not feel like going to the celebrations, but I am meant to go. Yep, that how POI #2 came into the picture. Also said I would dabble with some creative ideas that were not stupid or daydreams, but I wasn’t financially ready yet, but I would be. I think this could be the house renovations.
Rusty (8/6): You will meet a guy who is the hierophant (traditional type, no baggage, easy). I should consider him because although POI #1 will come back, this guy is just so much easier that POI #1. Yup, POI #2 is a totally laid back guy and super traditional (I mean lunch and a walk around the lake??) Important to note that she feels that when POI #2 comes into the picture, POI #1 will resurface out of the blue. She felt all of this would happen by October, but wasn’t sure of timeline.

Cookie (7/7): Crazy Cookie, New...ummm...New York?? POI #2 lives in NY state. :o

All 3 see POI #1 resurfacing and want me back either when I move on, when POI #2 shows up, or at least before the end of the year with an apology/explanation. Most see him having to jump through hoops to get my attention and me turning my back on him anyway.

STAY TUNED!
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on September 12, 2019, 07:59:56 PM
This is refreshing to hear! Sounds like you have some cool stuff and fun coming up !

Part 1:

Ok, so you all know I have been laying off the readings. My summer started off awful. Multiple readers told me that I should move on from POI #1 and that he had met someone else. This was in June. Most readers said that big changes were coming in September, Virgo season, etc. I didn’t believe it, and went about making changes just for me. Enter a job interview, house renovations, and POI #2 all within 24 hours!!

So here’s who got the scoop:

Leanne (7/14): The appearance of a man who I don’t see often, but would be in contact with via text or social media. Not a long-term partner, but he would raise my confidence. She felt that Sept was a very important month for me to see things more clearly. Yep, that happened. POI #2 came into the picture during a get together with a group of friends a few weeks ago. He just started hitting me up last night telling me how much he likes me and wants to come back to town to see me again.
Yona (3/22): Saw important meetings and interviews that were job related. Yup, happening now. I have a meeting set up with a hiring manager in my current company to discuss a management position. Thought it was just going to be a teleconference, but it has suddenly turned into an interview and a request for my CV.
Yona (7/8): celebrations over the summer (within 6-8 weeks) would be a catalyst for things to change. I may not feel like going to the celebrations, but I am meant to go. Yep, that how POI #2 came into the picture. Also said I would dabble with some creative ideas that were not stupid or daydreams, but I wasn’t financially ready yet, but I would be. I think this could be the house renovations.
Rusty (8/6): You will meet a guy who is the hierophant (traditional type, no baggage, easy). I should consider him because although POI #1 will come back, this guy is just so much easier that POI #1. Yup, POI #2 is a totally laid back guy and super traditional (I mean lunch and a walk around the lake??) Important to note that she feels that when POI #2 comes into the picture, POI #1 will resurface out of the blue. She felt all of this would happen by October, but wasn’t sure of timeline.

Cookie (7/7): Crazy Cookie, New...ummm...New York?? POI #2 lives in NY state. :o

All 3 see POI #1 resurfacing and want me back either when I move on, when POI #2 shows up, or at least before the end of the year with an apology/explanation. Most see him having to jump through hoops to get my attention and me turning my back on him anyway.

STAY TUNED!

What's actually refreshing is that I don't care that much about POI #1 or #2 at the moment. I'm more excited about the job and house renovations. Lol
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Sparkle002 on September 12, 2019, 08:41:55 PM
Oh yeah screw boys, get the money and a sweet living space. Guys I'm engaged, and I miss being single SO BAD. I know.. be careful what you wish for, but holy shit relationships are not easy. Happy to hear you are happy Fidget! Looking forward to more updates!!


Wow what? Congrats SLM!!

And totally agree about the money and career stuff, BUT come on - life would be a lil boring without the boyzzzz lol

Well they always say the grass isn’t alway greener - On either side.
But I feel you. Being single for as long as have been I am definitely used to (and kinda like) my freedom without being responsible for someone’s feelings, or other stuff.  I almost wonder do I really want just a consistent companion/FWB situation instead? Lol 😝. But I think thats just the fear in me talkn
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Rayban212 on September 12, 2019, 08:43:32 PM
I’m so happy things are manifesting for you fidget !!!! I really think laying off readings and just letting the universe work is what’s best. Plus it saves your bank account. Please update!!!!
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Girly1998 on September 12, 2019, 08:53:24 PM
Oh yeah screw boys, get the money and a sweet living space. Guys I'm engaged, and I miss being single SO BAD. I know.. be careful what you wish for, but holy shit relationships are not easy. Happy to hear you are happy Fidget! Looking forward to more updates!!

Dang lol. I was in the same boat during my previous relationship - I consistently had thoughts of just not wanting to deal with a relationship even though I was very much in love with him. Relationships are so hard but I swear I love being in love more than anyone 😫
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on September 12, 2019, 08:56:38 PM
Oh yeah screw boys, get the money and a sweet living space. Guys I'm engaged, and I miss being single SO BAD. I know.. be careful what you wish for, but holy shit relationships are not easy. Happy to hear you are happy Fidget! Looking forward to more updates!!

Dang lol. I was in the same boat during my previous relationship - I consistently had thoughts of just not wanting to deal with a relationship even though I was very much in love with him. Relationships are so hard but I swear I love being in love more than anyone 😫

I think that's why I dropped all this focus on POIs. I should probably enjoy this freedom while I have it. And I'm a people pleaser, so it's a lot of work for me.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: ladya on September 12, 2019, 09:18:49 PM
Oh yeah screw boys, get the money and a sweet living space. Guys I'm engaged, and I miss being single SO BAD. I know.. be careful what you wish for, but holy shit relationships are not easy. Happy to hear you are happy Fidget! Looking forward to more updates!!

Dang lol. I was in the same boat during my previous relationship - I consistently had thoughts of just not wanting to deal with a relationship even though I was very much in love with him. Relationships are so hard but I swear I love being in love more than anyone 😫

I love being in a relationship lol but i love my space too. I think you can have both with the right person. But i love love too lol. I don't like dating around tbh because for me i think its a waste of time and takes time off from things I can be concentrating on. I like having one person so then I can focus on things like my career and what not. I've never in my life went searching for guys or relationships, they always just landed in my lap weirdly enough lol. I dont find it interesting talking to a bunch of guys about nonsense and getting to know them. Its fun for like 5 minutes for me and then I get bored with like 99% of people.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Sparkle002 on September 12, 2019, 09:31:46 PM
Girl Im not a fan of dating either! I just did it well, because hell you get bored being LONELY all the damn time lol. I too just want just one - I WISH I had a guy fall in my lap....heck if that happened it would save me a lot of time and dating would just be a thought!

For me, I feel like I wasn’t chasing guys, but I definitely wanted to have a bit of fun while single. I mean it can get boring with just friends, travel and work allll the time. Friends have their own lives outside of me (including families of their own), work/career is just the Same ol same ol really. Maybe because I’m old lol, Ive focused on my career way too long, and I’m over focusing on just that. You’re talking to someone whose who life was their career for like 20 years smh. So I was like eff it, I’m gonna date!

Dating can definitely be fun and annoying as hell. Its all perspective.


EDIT: But I do agree you can have both with the right person (or if you have a travel job lol)


Oh yeah screw boys, get the money and a sweet living space. Guys I'm engaged, and I miss being single SO BAD. I know.. be careful what you wish for, but holy shit relationships are not easy. Happy to hear you are happy Fidget! Looking forward to more updates!!

Dang lol. I was in the same boat during my previous relationship - I consistently had thoughts of just not wanting to deal with a relationship even though I was very much in love with him. Relationships are so hard but I swear I love being in love more than anyone 😫

I love being in a relationship lol but i love my space too. I think you can have both with the right person. But i love love too lol. I don't like dating around tbh because for me i think its a waste of time and takes time off from things I can be concentrating on. I like having one person so then I can focus on things like my career and what not. I've never in my life went searching for guys or relationships, they always just landed in my lap weirdly enough lol. I dont find it interesting talking to a bunch of guys about nonsense and getting to know them. Its fun for like 5 minutes for me and then I get bored with like 99% of people.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: ladya on September 12, 2019, 10:16:43 PM
Girl Im not a fan of dating either! I just did it well, because hell you get bored being LONELY all the damn time lol. I too just want just one - I WISH I had a guy fall in my lap....heck if that happened it would save me a lot of time and dating would just be a thought!

For me, I feel like I wasn’t chasing guys, but I definitely wanted to have a bit of fun while single. I mean it can get boring with just friends, travel and work allll the time. Friends have their own lives outside of me (including families of their own), work/career is just the Same ol same ol really. Maybe because I’m old lol, Ive focused on my career way too long, and I’m over focusing on just that. You’re talking to someone whose who life was their career for like 20 years smh. So I was like eff it, I’m gonna date!

Dating can definitely be fun and annoying as hell. Its all perspective.


EDIT: But I do agree you can have both with the right person (or if you have a travel job lol)


Oh yeah screw boys, get the money and a sweet living space. Guys I'm engaged, and I miss being single SO BAD. I know.. be careful what you wish for, but holy shit relationships are not easy. Happy to hear you are happy Fidget! Looking forward to more updates!!

Dang lol. I was in the same boat during my previous relationship - I consistently had thoughts of just not wanting to deal with a relationship even though I was very much in love with him. Relationships are so hard but I swear I love being in love more than anyone 😫

I love being in a relationship lol but i love my space too. I think you can have both with the right person. But i love love too lol. I don't like dating around tbh because for me i think its a waste of time and takes time off from things I can be concentrating on. I like having one person so then I can focus on things like my career and what not. I've never in my life went searching for guys or relationships, they always just landed in my lap weirdly enough lol. I dont find it interesting talking to a bunch of guys about nonsense and getting to know them. Its fun for like 5 minutes for me and then I get bored with like 99% of people.

girl, you and I are so similar lol even when I read your responses, Im like that's me LOL. I completely agree with what you said. I think because Im not settled in my career yet or where I want to be, my viewpoint is different. But i get where youre coming from. I would feel the same as you If I was in your shoes.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: SomethingBetter on September 12, 2019, 11:39:38 PM
Part 1:

Ok, so you all know I have been laying off the readings. My summer started off awful. Multiple readers told me that I should move on from POI #1 and that he had met someone else. This was in June. Most readers said that big changes were coming in September, Virgo season, etc. I didn’t believe it, and went about making changes just for me. Enter a job interview, house renovations, and POI #2 all within 24 hours!!

So here’s who got the scoop:

Leanne (7/14): The appearance of a man who I don’t see often, but would be in contact with via text or social media. Not a long-term partner, but he would raise my confidence. She felt that Sept was a very important month for me to see things more clearly. Yep, that happened. POI #2 came into the picture during a get together with a group of friends a few weeks ago. He just started hitting me up last night telling me how much he likes me and wants to come back to town to see me again.
Yona (3/22): Saw important meetings and interviews that were job related. Yup, happening now. I have a meeting set up with a hiring manager in my current company to discuss a management position. Thought it was just going to be a teleconference, but it has suddenly turned into an interview and a request for my CV.
Yona (7/8): celebrations over the summer (within 6-8 weeks) would be a catalyst for things to change. I may not feel like going to the celebrations, but I am meant to go. Yep, that how POI #2 came into the picture. Also said I would dabble with some creative ideas that were not stupid or daydreams, but I wasn’t financially ready yet, but I would be. I think this could be the house renovations.
Rusty (8/6): You will meet a guy who is the hierophant (traditional type, no baggage, easy). I should consider him because although POI #1 will come back, this guy is just so much easier that POI #1. Yup, POI #2 is a totally laid back guy and super traditional (I mean lunch and a walk around the lake??) Important to note that she feels that when POI #2 comes into the picture, POI #1 will resurface out of the blue. She felt all of this would happen by October, but wasn’t sure of timeline.

Cookie (7/7): Crazy Cookie, New...ummm...New York?? POI #2 lives in NY state. :o

All 3 see POI #1 resurfacing and want me back either when I move on, when POI #2 shows up, or at least before the end of the year with an apology/explanation. Most see him having to jump through hoops to get my attention and me turning my back on him anyway.

STAY TUNED!

Fidget, I am beyyyyyooonnnnd happy and excited for you.

I’m not going to get anymore readings. I have some stuff coming up from a reading I had with Kisha maybe a month ago but that’s it.

I told you that man liked you!

I am on pins and needles over this lol

Fidgets got her groove back!
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on September 13, 2019, 12:02:13 AM
Part 1:

Ok, so you all know I have been laying off the readings. My summer started off awful. Multiple readers told me that I should move on from POI #1 and that he had met someone else. This was in June. Most readers said that big changes were coming in September, Virgo season, etc. I didn’t believe it, and went about making changes just for me. Enter a job interview, house renovations, and POI #2 all within 24 hours!!

So here’s who got the scoop:

Leanne (7/14): The appearance of a man who I don’t see often, but would be in contact with via text or social media. Not a long-term partner, but he would raise my confidence. She felt that Sept was a very important month for me to see things more clearly. Yep, that happened. POI #2 came into the picture during a get together with a group of friends a few weeks ago. He just started hitting me up last night telling me how much he likes me and wants to come back to town to see me again.
Yona (3/22): Saw important meetings and interviews that were job related. Yup, happening now. I have a meeting set up with a hiring manager in my current company to discuss a management position. Thought it was just going to be a teleconference, but it has suddenly turned into an interview and a request for my CV.
Yona (7/8): celebrations over the summer (within 6-8 weeks) would be a catalyst for things to change. I may not feel like going to the celebrations, but I am meant to go. Yep, that how POI #2 came into the picture. Also said I would dabble with some creative ideas that were not stupid or daydreams, but I wasn’t financially ready yet, but I would be. I think this could be the house renovations.
Rusty (8/6): You will meet a guy who is the hierophant (traditional type, no baggage, easy). I should consider him because although POI #1 will come back, this guy is just so much easier that POI #1. Yup, POI #2 is a totally laid back guy and super traditional (I mean lunch and a walk around the lake??) Important to note that she feels that when POI #2 comes into the picture, POI #1 will resurface out of the blue. She felt all of this would happen by October, but wasn’t sure of timeline.

Cookie (7/7): Crazy Cookie, New...ummm...New York?? POI #2 lives in NY state. :o

All 3 see POI #1 resurfacing and want me back either when I move on, when POI #2 shows up, or at least before the end of the year with an apology/explanation. Most see him having to jump through hoops to get my attention and me turning my back on him anyway.

STAY TUNED!

Fidget, I am beyyyyyooonnnnd happy and excited for you.

I’m not going to get anymore readings. I have some stuff coming up from a reading I had with Kisha maybe a month ago but that’s it.

I told you that man liked you!

I am on pins and needles over this lol

Fidgets got her groove back!

Thanks SB. POI #2 is most likely rebounding from his recent break up.  When I say he came out of the blue texting his feelings for me, it's an understatement. He was just over the top. But, no one sees any real relationship with him, and I really don't expect one. It's just crazy that he was predicted and things are unfolding. I didn't see that coming. In 1 day everything changed.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Just FYI on September 13, 2019, 12:54:05 AM
Wow! Just jumping on the bandwagon to say this is awesome. How crazy everything came to be in a 24 hour period, goes to show you can never know what’s around the corner!
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: SomethingBetter on September 13, 2019, 01:46:25 AM
Part 1:

Ok, so you all know I have been laying off the readings. My summer started off awful. Multiple readers told me that I should move on from POI #1 and that he had met someone else. This was in June. Most readers said that big changes were coming in September, Virgo season, etc. I didn’t believe it, and went about making changes just for me. Enter a job interview, house renovations, and POI #2 all within 24 hours!!

So here’s who got the scoop:

Leanne (7/14): The appearance of a man who I don’t see often, but would be in contact with via text or social media. Not a long-term partner, but he would raise my confidence. She felt that Sept was a very important month for me to see things more clearly. Yep, that happened. POI #2 came into the picture during a get together with a group of friends a few weeks ago. He just started hitting me up last night telling me how much he likes me and wants to come back to town to see me again.
Yona (3/22): Saw important meetings and interviews that were job related. Yup, happening now. I have a meeting set up with a hiring manager in my current company to discuss a management position. Thought it was just going to be a teleconference, but it has suddenly turned into an interview and a request for my CV.
Yona (7/8): celebrations over the summer (within 6-8 weeks) would be a catalyst for things to change. I may not feel like going to the celebrations, but I am meant to go. Yep, that how POI #2 came into the picture. Also said I would dabble with some creative ideas that were not stupid or daydreams, but I wasn’t financially ready yet, but I would be. I think this could be the house renovations.
Rusty (8/6): You will meet a guy who is the hierophant (traditional type, no baggage, easy). I should consider him because although POI #1 will come back, this guy is just so much easier that POI #1. Yup, POI #2 is a totally laid back guy and super traditional (I mean lunch and a walk around the lake??) Important to note that she feels that when POI #2 comes into the picture, POI #1 will resurface out of the blue. She felt all of this would happen by October, but wasn’t sure of timeline.

Cookie (7/7): Crazy Cookie, New...ummm...New York?? POI #2 lives in NY state. :o

All 3 see POI #1 resurfacing and want me back either when I move on, when POI #2 shows up, or at least before the end of the year with an apology/explanation. Most see him having to jump through hoops to get my attention and me turning my back on him anyway.

STAY TUNED!

Fidget, I am beyyyyyooonnnnd happy and excited for you.

I’m not going to get anymore readings. I have some stuff coming up from a reading I had with Kisha maybe a month ago but that’s it.

I told you that man liked you!

I am on pins and needles over this lol

Fidgets got her groove back!

Thanks SB. POI #2 is most likely rebounding from his recent break up.  When I say he came out of the blue texting his feelings for me, it's an understatement. He was just over the top. But, no one sees any real relationship with him, and I really don't expect one. It's just crazy that he was predicted and things are unfolding. I didn't see that coming. In 1 day everything changed.

I know, I’m just happy something good is happening, even if it’s just a nice feeling/confidence booster.

I feel a change of pace has definitely been needed around here.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: KotaSwan on September 13, 2019, 08:12:52 PM
OMG I am so excited for you!!!  Makes me so happy seeing that things are moving forward for you the way you like them. Keep us posted <3
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on September 14, 2019, 04:42:39 PM
I met for 4 hours with a contractor. Work begins on my new bathroom in 8 weeks. I got full financing. 😳

Guess any bingeing is now officially out of the budget. 👍😆
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: marybell on September 14, 2019, 05:23:53 PM
Congratulations Fidget!  Sounds like your wishes have come true!!! You deserve every joyful second!
  Are the numbers in the brackets the dates that the advisers predicted the events would occur?


 Leanne (7/14): The appearance ..
Yona (3/22): Saw important m..
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on September 14, 2019, 05:28:16 PM
Congratulations Fidget!  Sounds like your wishes have come true!!! You deserve every joyful second!
  Are the numbers in the brackets the dates that the advisers predicted the events would occur?


 Leanne (7/14): The appearance ..
Yona (3/22): Saw important m..

No, those are the dates I read with them. I didn't get actual prediction timelines.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: marybell on September 14, 2019, 11:15:11 PM
Congratulations Fidget!  Sounds like your wishes have come true!!! You deserve every joyful second!
  Are the numbers in the brackets the dates that the advisers predicted the events would occur?


 Leanne (7/14): The appearance ..
Yona (3/22): Saw important m..

No, those are the dates I read with them. I didn't get actual prediction timelines.

Oh I see.  Thanks  :)
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on September 14, 2019, 11:57:18 PM
Congratulations Fidget!  Sounds like your wishes have come true!!! You deserve every joyful second!
  Are the numbers in the brackets the dates that the advisers predicted the events would occur?


 Leanne (7/14): The appearance ..
Yona (3/22): Saw important m..

No, those are the dates I read with them. I didn't get actual prediction timelines.

Oh I see.  Thanks  :)

No problem. I've never gotten solid timelines with Yona or Leanne. Sometimes they'll say within the year or soon, but I've never had them say next week or September. I'm actually grateful for that. It cuts down on the anxiety.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Jeninmd2 on September 15, 2019, 10:13:27 PM
I'm really late to the party regarding this thread, but wanted to say congrats, Fidget!!!  I'm so happy to hear you are no longer the Queen of No Manifestations lol!  Can't wait to hear your updates! :)
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: jas on September 17, 2019, 10:16:38 PM
Fidget....good for you.....love a great story.....and it wasn't too long.....God knows I lose interest quickly....hope this steak continue for you.

Oh yeah, and do you think the liberal use of cheap tequila helped with the manifestation?  pretty sure you mentioned tequila in another thread somewhere :)

One question: who is Leeann and can you send me her link?
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on September 17, 2019, 10:33:35 PM
Fidget....good for you.....love a great story.....and it wasn't too long.....God knows I lose interest quickly....hope this steak continue for you.

Oh yeah, and do you think the liberal use of cheap tequila helped with the manifestation?  pretty sure you mentioned tequila in another thread somewhere :)

One question: who is Leeann and can you send me her link?

Hey Jas, long time, no see! I'll pm you later tonight with the details. I'm off to my son's cub scout meeting.  Lol
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on September 18, 2019, 09:37:22 PM
The Fidget Chronicles - Part 2 - The Career Chronicles

So, as of late I've been re-evaluating my career. I love my job and my company, but unfortunately the project that I have worked tirelessly on is winding down (successfully). So I was caught between the following options: stay where I am busying myself with helping out on other projects waiting for the next "big" project in the pipeline, staying in my company, but moving to a new area permanently, or looking outside my company.

The woman who hired me 13 years ago (my manager's manager) suggested I look into another area within my company where there is a ton of work and a lot of open positions. It would be a new area for me, but room for growth, both from a project standpoint as well as a possible promotion (if I could leverage it). She suggested I call the hiring manager for this new area and get a feel for the open positions. So I did and he wanted to meet with me and asked for my CV. I met with him today and the meeting went exceptionally well. He was floored by my experience, mentioned that this would involve project and people management, and that no one else internally has even applied. He suggested that I formally apply for the positions and looks forward to meet with me again soon. For all intents and purposes, it looks like I could very well get the job and he mentioned that he may even make it a higher level position (Associate Director) if he gets the right "fit". My company is a very large, well known company, so this is pretty big news.

Yona: In my original reading in March, she said the focus of my reading was around "meetings and interviews".
Kisha: In my original general email from 12/18, she said in March I would have a good review/feedback on my job performance, but there wouldn't be any big financial gain (true), but that it would come later. She felt I would reap the financial benefits later in the year, and she felt October stood out.
Mattie: Although when I read with her in July about my POI #1, she asked if I was considering a job change. I told her it was possible, that I was still toying with the idea. She said she felt that the possible job change was a timing marker for things to move forward with POI #1.

So there you have it. I'll post updates.

Disclaimer: Please, please, PLEASE don't go on reading tangents because of my saga. I haven't gotten any readings since August and I seriously don't suggest anyone bingeing. I don't plan on ever going down the rabbit hole again. Things have been moving more since I STOPPED getting readings. Just food for thought...

Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Sparkle002 on September 19, 2019, 12:11:47 AM
The Fidget Chronicles - Part 2 - The Career Chronicles

So, as of late I've been re-evaluating my career. I love my job and my company, but unfortunately the project that I have worked tirelessly on is winding down (successfully). So I was caught between the following options: stay where I am busying myself with helping out on other projects waiting for the next "big" project in the pipeline, staying in my company, but moving to a new area permanently, or looking outside my company.

The woman who hired me 13 years ago (my manager's manager) suggested I look into another area within my company where there is a ton of work and a lot of open positions. It would be a new area for me, but room for growth, both from a project standpoint as well as a possible promotion (if I could leverage it). She suggested I call the hiring manager for this new area and get a feel for the open positions. So I did and he wanted to meet with me and asked for my CV. I met with him today and the meeting went exceptionally well. He was floored by my experience, mentioned that this would involve project and people management, and that no one else internally has even applied. He suggested that I formally apply for the positions and looks forward to meet with me again soon. For all intents and purposes, it looks like I could very well get the job and he mentioned that he may even make it a higher level position (Associate Director) if he gets the right "fit". My company is a very large, well known company, so this is pretty big news.

Yona: In my original reading in March, she said the focus of my reading was around "meetings and interviews".
Kisha: In my original general email from 12/18, she said in March I would have a good review/feedback on my job performance, but there wouldn't be any big financial gain (true), but that it would come later. She felt I would reap the financial benefits later in the year, and she felt October stood out.
Mattie: Although when I read with her in July about my POI #1, she asked if I was considering a job change. I told her it was possible, that I was still toying with the idea. She said she felt that the possible job change was a timing marker for things to move forward with POI #1.

So there you have it. I'll post updates.

Disclaimer: Please, please, PLEASE don't go on reading tangents because of my saga. I haven't gotten any readings since August and I seriously don't suggest anyone bingeing. I don't plan on ever going down the rabbit hole again. Things have been moving more since I STOPPED getting readings. Just food for thought...

WOW CONGRATS! FINGERS CROSSED!!
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Jeninmd2 on September 19, 2019, 01:19:55 AM
Yay, congrats, Fidget!!!  Looking forward to hearing your updates! :)
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Jili1945 on September 19, 2019, 05:57:38 AM
Congrats Fidget! this is wonderful. Hope things go great by the end.

And Mattie asked me exactly the same question when she was reading about POI, all of a sudden. I have no plan to change my job (I am new to this job actually), but I am getting a bit worry. Kisha did the same, in email and on phone. The same came up in Rusty's general reading. I don't really know what is gonna happen, unexpectedly.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on October 04, 2019, 01:10:55 AM
The Fidget Chronicles - Damn Social Media!

Well...it appears many, many readers are/were wrong. What a waste of time.

So, as you may (or may not) recall, my POI had an aversion to social media. He is one of those conspiracy theorists that believes he will be hacked and someone will steal his identity (like anyone would want it...LOL). Regardless, he wasn't into it. So after we broke up (maybe 6 months or so) I noticed that there was a blank profile with his name on IG and a blank one on FB. No posts, pics, info, nothing. Now it may not have been him, but his name isn't John Smith, so of course I was suspicious and blocked them. He DID have one old account on FB that had pics from 2012 long before I met him. The only pics on that profile were of a business he had started in another state. While we were still seeing each other I asked Mr. Anti-FB about that profile and he told me his son had set it up for his business. He never used it and he didn't remember the password to it. Made sense since it was over 5 years old and there was nothing new on it.

So...a few days ago I went to check on his kids via social media. Long story short, both of them are hot messes and I've always kept tabs on them. I'm not friends/connected with either, but they're savvy enough to occasionally put stuff up as public. So I search his one son's name (same as POI) a new profile comes up. I look and it's the OLD account (which I never blocked) with a new profile pic. The profile pic WAS THE DOG I GOT HIM!!! I (hesitantly) started stalking his account. I mean, my first thought is that with the 3rd party and all, I was going to see things that were going to trigger me big time. So, glutton for punishment that I am, I stalk anyway. And guess what? No third party, he's drinking...a lot. Still lives in the same house. Pics of the dog...his grandson...a few cars. EIGHT friends! EIGHT!!! Two are his sons, 4 are old connections from the other state in 2012, one guy he works with, and a random woman. Random woman...3rd party...it must be HER!!! And she's cute...sigh. Ok, onto stalking random woman. She posts daily...hmmm...lots of pics...all ppublic. So I scroll and scroll...there it is! A pic that he is tagged in!! But..........he's not "with" her. She's married. The pics have her and her husband, and my POI looking like a TOE!! Alone. Looking like he wished he was anywhere else. His only solace is the beer in his hand...and alone in every pic he is tagged in. These pics go back to the beginning of August. Nothing. He's all alone in a group of people who are all paired up. So I think that maybe the 3rd party is taking the pics. But no, he's with no one. Not one single pic where he's even standing near a woman. He's single. He's alone. He's drinking.

So anyway, a lot of readers were wrong. He's not in a relationship. Maybe he's dated, but it couldn't have lasted more than a few weeks at the most. He didn't move. He, from all appearances doesn't look happy. He looks like he isn't taking care of himself. The worst part is that I KNEW THIS. I always did. I let readers upset me. I let readers make me question my intuition. I knew him better. I'm not sure how I feel right now. He's not in a good place from the looks of it. It's probably better that we aren't together. And it doesn't make me happy that he's not happy. Who would have thought...

Until next time.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Jili1945 on October 04, 2019, 02:35:57 AM
I have the same question Fidget. If you don't mind, please share with us who got it wrong.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Girly1998 on October 04, 2019, 02:43:10 AM
I lol’d at the toe comment 😂

Very nice detective work! It’s very sad that he appears to be in a rough place right now - I hope he can get out of this funk, but it’s good you were able to confirm your intuition. You do know him better, continue listening to yourself!
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on October 04, 2019, 03:34:17 AM
QoC, Mattie, and Cookie all said he was with another woman during this timeframe although Mattie later said the 3rd party was an ex. No doubt he could have maybe dated someone briefly, but no evidence of a relationship. Who goes away to Woodstock for an extended weekend and doesn't bring their significant other? There were enough pics to convince me he was single. And more pics before and after that still showed him completely alone.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Newtowngirl20 on October 04, 2019, 11:36:52 AM
Does social media provide conclusive evidence that someone is in a relationship or not? Your intuition or knowledge of the person is probably right but I don’t think social media holds much water.....and people make stuff up anyway (but this is coming from someone who has no social media accounts). If someone was reading on my bf, then he’s very single because there are no pics of us/me on his social media and I wouldn’t have it any other way. I don’t want my face plastered online and it doesn’t validate the relationship. On another note, everyone should definitely take what psychics say with a grain of salt!
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Just FYI on October 04, 2019, 12:05:20 PM
I wonder if the third party is someone that’s on your POI’s mind, but he’s not with? It could be someone he feels a strong emotional bond to or with. A few years ago, a psychic said my husband was  involved with an older man. My husband is not gay, he was remembering/grieving the death of his father that had happened a year earlier. The feelings were so strong that he had a severe emotional breakdown. Not saying this is exactly what’s going on with your POI but it could be along these lines.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on October 04, 2019, 01:12:38 PM
Does social media provide conclusive evidence that someone is in a relationship or not? Your intuition or knowledge of the person is probably right but I don’t think social media holds much water.....and people make stuff up anyway (but this is coming from someone who has no social media accounts). If someone was reading on my bf, then he’s very single because there are no pics of us/me on his social media and I wouldn’t have it any other way. I don’t want my face plastered online and it doesn’t validate the relationship. On another note, everyone should definitely take what psychics say with a grain of salt!

No, of course not. It's just a snapshot. In this case, he is definitely the one who doesn't want his face all over social media. But as I said, he is friends with a woman who posts her entire life publicly. There were tons of pics of a few events that he attended with her/her husband and others that she posted publicly. She didn't seem to be discerning in what she posted. She tagged him in all the pics. I was able to see them because they were public. He later "untagged" himself from almost all the pics, which I'm not surprised, but it doesn't make the pics less visible because they are public regardless.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on October 04, 2019, 01:18:30 PM
I wonder if the third party is someone that’s on your POI’s mind, but he’s not with? It could be someone he feels a strong emotional bond to or with. A few years ago, a psychic said my husband was  involved with an older man. My husband is not gay, he was remembering/grieving the death of his father that had happened a year earlier. The feelings were so strong that he had a severe emotional breakdown. Not saying this is exactly what’s going on with your POI but it could be along these lines.

My intuition tells me that the 3rd party was his ex wife. She was always described as negative/controlling, which could be a cold reading tactic, but in this case it's true. When we dated, she would text him all the time telling him not to discuss their family issues "with your new girlfriend". I don't know this woman, and I don't like to make assumptions on anyone's exes because there is always 2 sides to the story. I'm divorced also and except for us having minor kids together, we don't communicate outside of things regarding the kids. He has his life and I have mine. That's why we're divorced. My POI's kids are adults. I never understood why she would tell him what to do/how to act/ what he could and couldn't say after the divorce. It's even crazier that she acts this way when she was the one who filed for the divorce in the first place.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: naturegirl on October 04, 2019, 02:26:59 PM
Hi Fidget. I remember you posting a long time ago that some psychic saw him drinking a lot. Who was that, do you remember? Are you still opposed to contacting him?
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on October 04, 2019, 03:21:00 PM
Hi Fidget. I remember you posting a long time ago that some psychic saw him drinking a lot. Who was that, do you remember? Are you still opposed to contacting him?

A few saw the drinking...Gail, Mattie come to mind.  I won't contact him. I did that for a year and it never went anywhere. I can only assume we each have our own lessons to learn. The timing was crazy though. It's true that when you stop putting energy into it, they start resurfacing. Even if it's not in a significant or meaningful way. Yona told me to expect the unexpected through October. Damn, that's been true in all aspects of my life lately.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: KotaSwan on October 06, 2019, 04:10:52 PM
The Fidget Chronicles - Part 2 - The Career Chronicles

So, as of late I've been re-evaluating my career. I love my job and my company, but unfortunately the project that I have worked tirelessly on is winding down (successfully). So I was caught between the following options: stay where I am busying myself with helping out on other projects waiting for the next "big" project in the pipeline, staying in my company, but moving to a new area permanently, or looking outside my company.

The woman who hired me 13 years ago (my manager's manager) suggested I look into another area within my company where there is a ton of work and a lot of open positions. It would be a new area for me, but room for growth, both from a project standpoint as well as a possible promotion (if I could leverage it). She suggested I call the hiring manager for this new area and get a feel for the open positions. So I did and he wanted to meet with me and asked for my CV. I met with him today and the meeting went exceptionally well. He was floored by my experience, mentioned that this would involve project and people management, and that no one else internally has even applied. He suggested that I formally apply for the positions and looks forward to meet with me again soon. For all intents and purposes, it looks like I could very well get the job and he mentioned that he may even make it a higher level position (Associate Director) if he gets the right "fit". My company is a very large, well known company, so this is pretty big news.

Yona: In my original reading in March, she said the focus of my reading was around "meetings and interviews".
Kisha: In my original general email from 12/18, she said in March I would have a good review/feedback on my job performance, but there wouldn't be any big financial gain (true), but that it would come later. She felt I would reap the financial benefits later in the year, and she felt October stood out.
Mattie: Although when I read with her in July about my POI #1, she asked if I was considering a job change. I told her it was possible, that I was still toying with the idea. She said she felt that the possible job change was a timing marker for things to move forward with POI #1.

So there you have it. I'll post updates.

Disclaimer: Please, please, PLEASE don't go on reading tangents because of my saga. I haven't gotten any readings since August and I seriously don't suggest anyone bingeing. I don't plan on ever going down the rabbit hole again. Things have been moving more since I STOPPED getting readings. Just food for thought...

SO happy to see these updates and very excited for you. Thank you for sharing this. I do feel that personally too that things start happening and moving when I step away from readings for a while. <3 <3 <3
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on October 07, 2019, 07:47:24 PM
The Fidget Chronicles - The Week from Hell and My Weird LOA Moment

I'm on the fence about LOA. I don't think I could ever be successful with it anyway, because I can't seem to give something I want to the universe and let it go. I obsess over it. I chew it up like gum, stick it somewhere until I want to chew it some more and pull it back out. I'm not patient and I don't trust something I can't see to take care of things for me. I'm a control freak. It's definitely one of my shortcomings.

So last week SUCKED. I didn't get the job I really wanted. To make it worse, I was the lead candidate until my boss heard about it and snatched it out from under me. It was political and there was nothing I could do. It was an injustice. I felt betrayed by more than a few people, but mainly the manager that I trusted with my career development. I had a few people who were there for me and I'm pulling myself together. At the same time, my POI showed up on social media and there were pics of him doing things that I still wish we could be doing together. It was pretty emotional.

So, during all this turmoil, I asked myself what I wanted. It's funny, but I'm pretty easy to please and don't "need" a lot. I distinctly said to myself "if I just could put an extra $1000 in savings, I would feel a lot better". I know, it's not a lot, but like I said, I really don't need it, but if I wanted something, more money would be it. I laughed to myself and went about my day.

Thursday, I reminded my ex husband via text that he owes me for our son's aftercare (about $100). I have to "remind" him because he'll stall whenever it comes to chipping in money. So I saw him Thursday night and he handed me an envelope with the check. Friday night I open it so I can make a deposit and there were 2 checks. One for aftercare and a separate check for $1000!!!!! Exactly $1000!! He said to put it towards our daughter's college expenses. This was after he already gave me money for that a couple of months ago. It was completely unsolicited and is now in savings for the loan payments that I make for her tuition. So there's that. There might be something to this whole LOA thing. I just have to ask for something like it's a big joke before it actually works for me. LOL
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Star_01 on October 07, 2019, 07:54:36 PM
The Fidget Chronicles - The Week from Hell and My Weird LOA Moment

I'm on the fence about LOA. I don't think I could ever be successful with it anyway, because I can't seem to give something I want to the universe and let it go. I obsess over it. I chew it up like gum, stick it somewhere until I want to chew it some more and pull it back out. I'm not patient and I don't trust something I can't see to take care of things for me. I'm a control freak. It's definitely one of my shortcomings.

So last week SUCKED. I didn't get the job I really wanted. To make it worse, I was the lead candidate until my boss heard about it and snatched it out from under me. It was political and there was nothing I could do. It was an injustice. I felt betrayed by more than a few people, but mainly the manager that I trusted with my career development. I had a few people who were there for me and I'm pulling myself together. At the same time, my POI showed up on social media and there were pics of him doing things that I still wish we could be doing together. It was pretty emotional.

So, during all this turmoil, I asked myself what I wanted. It's funny, but I'm pretty easy to please and don't "need" a lot. I distinctly said to myself "if I just could put an extra $1000 in savings, I would feel a lot better". I know, it's not a lot, but like I said, I really don't need it, but if I wanted something, more money would be it. I laughed to myself and went about my day.

Thursday, I reminded my ex husband via text that he owes me for our son's aftercare (about $100). I have to "remind" him because he'll stall whenever it comes to chipping in money. So I saw him Thursday night and he handed me an envelope with the check. Friday night I open it so I can make a deposit and there were 2 checks. One for aftercare and a separate check for $1000!!!!! Exactly $1000!! He said to put it towards our daughter's college expenses. This was after he already gave me money for that a couple of months ago. It was completely unsolicited and is now in savings for the loan payments that I make for her tuition. So there's that. There might be something to this whole LOA thing. I just have to ask for something like it's a big joke before it actually works for me. LOL

I'm sorry to hear you had a shit week and hope that things improve for you soon, Fidget. I'm glad you got some payment support at least, to me it sounds more like synchronisation. Kinda like when I've had conversations on a specific subject with a friend and it came up on TV moments later or a book I'm reading kind of thing. I hope you are doing well in general though and finding keeping off readings easy enough. I hope a better job comes in for you, you never know that job you didn't get may have been for a reason which you may later find out. Best of luck and looking forward to hearing a hopefully better update next time.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: username1111 on October 07, 2019, 10:11:40 PM
The Fidget Chronicles - The Week from Hell and My Weird LOA Moment

I'm on the fence about LOA. I don't think I could ever be successful with it anyway, because I can't seem to give something I want to the universe and let it go. I obsess over it. I chew it up like gum, stick it somewhere until I want to chew it some more and pull it back out. I'm not patient and I don't trust something I can't see to take care of things for me. I'm a control freak. It's definitely one of my shortcomings.

So last week SUCKED. I didn't get the job I really wanted. To make it worse, I was the lead candidate until my boss heard about it and snatched it out from under me. It was political and there was nothing I could do. It was an injustice. I felt betrayed by more than a few people, but mainly the manager that I trusted with my career development. I had a few people who were there for me and I'm pulling myself together. At the same time, my POI showed up on social media and there were pics of him doing things that I still wish we could be doing together. It was pretty emotional.

So, during all this turmoil, I asked myself what I wanted. It's funny, but I'm pretty easy to please and don't "need" a lot. I distinctly said to myself "if I just could put an extra $1000 in savings, I would feel a lot better". I know, it's not a lot, but like I said, I really don't need it, but if I wanted something, more money would be it. I laughed to myself and went about my day.

Thursday, I reminded my ex husband via text that he owes me for our son's aftercare (about $100). I have to "remind" him because he'll stall whenever it comes to chipping in money. So I saw him Thursday night and he handed me an envelope with the check. Friday night I open it so I can make a deposit and there were 2 checks. One for aftercare and a separate check for $1000!!!!! Exactly $1000!! He said to put it towards our daughter's college expenses. This was after he already gave me money for that a couple of months ago. It was completely unsolicited and is now in savings for the loan payments that I make for her tuition. So there's that. There might be something to this whole LOA thing. I just have to ask for something like it's a big joke before it actually works for me. LOL

The universe is a weird place and surely has a sense of humor! whenever things like that happen I am always smiling :)
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on October 07, 2019, 10:42:56 PM
The Fidget Chronicles - The Week from Hell and My Weird LOA Moment

I'm on the fence about LOA. I don't think I could ever be successful with it anyway, because I can't seem to give something I want to the universe and let it go. I obsess over it. I chew it up like gum, stick it somewhere until I want to chew it some more and pull it back out. I'm not patient and I don't trust something I can't see to take care of things for me. I'm a control freak. It's definitely one of my shortcomings.

So last week SUCKED. I didn't get the job I really wanted. To make it worse, I was the lead candidate until my boss heard about it and snatched it out from under me. It was political and there was nothing I could do. It was an injustice. I felt betrayed by more than a few people, but mainly the manager that I trusted with my career development. I had a few people who were there for me and I'm pulling myself together. At the same time, my POI showed up on social media and there were pics of him doing things that I still wish we could be doing together. It was pretty emotional.

So, during all this turmoil, I asked myself what I wanted. It's funny, but I'm pretty easy to please and don't "need" a lot. I distinctly said to myself "if I just could put an extra $1000 in savings, I would feel a lot better". I know, it's not a lot, but like I said, I really don't need it, but if I wanted something, more money would be it. I laughed to myself and went about my day.

Thursday, I reminded my ex husband via text that he owes me for our son's aftercare (about $100). I have to "remind" him because he'll stall whenever it comes to chipping in money. So I saw him Thursday night and he handed me an envelope with the check. Friday night I open it so I can make a deposit and there were 2 checks. One for aftercare and a separate check for $1000!!!!! Exactly $1000!! He said to put it towards our daughter's college expenses. This was after he already gave me money for that a couple of months ago. It was completely unsolicited and is now in savings for the loan payments that I make for her tuition. So there's that. There might be something to this whole LOA thing. I just have to ask for something like it's a big joke before it actually works for me. LOL

The universe is a weird place and surely has a sense of humor! whenever things like that happen I am always smiling :)

I just give thanks and don't ask questions. Lol
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on October 11, 2019, 12:12:31 AM
Holy moley. I feel like I'm getting spanked with predictions over the last few weeks (primarily Yona with a sprinkle of Leanne mixed in). I know Yona can come off as cryptic and vague sometimes, but when things start happening, boy, do those puzzle pieces fit.

Yona reading in July:

angled tower: 2-3 months expect the unexpected, I can deal with it. I'm getting pissed off with people, let down by behaviors, not devastated, but the lighter side of annoying. Not holding a grudge, but setting boundaries, 1 family related and 1 work related - HOLY HELL DID THIS HAPPEN!

Celebration with eating and drinking - reluctant to go, I'm meant to go, catalyst for change, lead to something - YES. IT LEAD TO ONE OF THE TOWERS, BUT HAS POTENTIAL TO TURN AROUND IN THE NOT DISTANT FUTURE POSSIBLY AND IN MY FAVOR.

Communication with someone from a team (colleague), crossing of paths, curious and adding to choices - YES, WORK RELATED, THIS PERSON MAY PLAY A ROLE IN A FUTURE POSITION.

Playing with ideas in a creative sense, putting together ideas, not stupid, not daydreaming, will be implementing, not financially ready YET, but will be later - I THINK THIS IS MY HOME RENOVATIONS THAT I JUST GOT A LOAN FOR.

Unexpected communication at home, grabs my attention, sign that things are changing, blown hair/light eyes, new approach, rational negotiations, not romantic, practical but weighted in their favor, learned from the past experience, small triumph - YES, AND WORK RELATED. NOT A GOOD COMMUNICATION, BUT A LOT OF POSITIVE THINGS COULD ROLL IN THE FUTURE BECAUSE OF IT. SHE SAW THIS AS A MAN, BUT IT WAS ACTUALLY AN ALPHA WOMAN.

The major romantic prediction hasn't happened yet and I won't give a spoiler. It wasn't sunshine and rainbows, but it was something that I want regardless. If these happened and were amazingly accurate, I have no doubt that it will happen. Yes, the timeline for these was 2-3 months from early July and they all happened. The romantic one is due before the end of the year. So far, Yona got everything so far! I didn't even realize it until I pulled out the reading after I put it aside. And for the record, Leanne did get a few of these as well. Leanne also got a huge fight with a woman from work (Yona didn't get that specific, but it was a part of the predictions above). The woman turn out to be my manager and the poop hit the fan.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Star_01 on October 11, 2019, 12:16:02 AM
Hope all continues to go well for you.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on October 11, 2019, 12:20:19 AM
Hope all continues to go well for you.

Thanks Star. It wasn't a fabulous couple of weeks, but Yona sure called it. I'm hoping my angled tower is done already.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Star_01 on October 11, 2019, 12:31:16 AM
Hope all continues to go well for you.

Thanks Star. It wasn't a fabulous couple of weeks, but Yona sure called it. I'm hoping my angled tower is done already.

Let's hope things improve for you and the shitty tower parts make way for the better things.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on October 11, 2019, 12:57:36 AM
Hope all continues to go well for you.

Thanks Star. It wasn't a fabulous couple of weeks, but Yona sure called it. I'm hoping my angled tower is done already.

Let's hope things improve for you and the shitty tower parts make way for the better things.

Woo woo as this may sound, I think they are necessary for things to progress. Sometimes crap has to happen so others can see the real picture and correct the course.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Star_01 on October 11, 2019, 01:09:14 AM
Hope all continues to go well for you.

Thanks Star. It wasn't a fabulous couple of weeks, but Yona sure called it. I'm hoping my angled tower is done already.

Let's hope things improve for you and the shitty tower parts make way for the better things.

Woo woo as this may sound, I think they are necessary for things to progress. Sometimes crap has to happen so others can see the real picture and correct the course.

I agree. It's all about building us, learning lessons and experiences, sometimes even learning to appreciate things.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: GoldieShawn on October 13, 2019, 11:34:54 PM
Good luck to you Fidget! Isn't it funny how things start moving along when we get our own energy flowing. I have often had the thought that readings keep me stuck in a way because in some small way, it's giving up my own sense of ownership of my future. So glad things are flowing for you (even with some obstacles). Sometimes the obstacles mean growth!
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: njlady on October 14, 2019, 11:06:15 PM
I have often had the thought that readings keep me stuck in a way because in some small way, it's giving up my own sense of ownership of my future.

That is a very true statement. 
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on November 09, 2019, 12:16:57 AM
I have my top up with Yona next week. I'm a little on edge. Everything she said since my first original reading in March and my top up in July has happened. That is with the EXCEPTION of my love life. How sad is that? What I did notice is that there was just a small mention of my love life in the first reading I had (and it's consistent with zero movement there), but there were more details about love life predictions in my July top up. There's still no movement as of now. I wonder, does anyone know if Yona picks up more details if the prediction is closer? It seems that as time passes, between the March reading and the July top up she was getting more specific details, but the overall prediction is the same. Anyway, I guess I'll know next week...

On a side note, Leanne has been right also. I know I'm of the minority in the Leanne fan club, but for me, it seems that she gets different details than Yona, but they do get the same things. Crazy. They both are still the top of my dream team.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: maggs30 on November 09, 2019, 01:08:59 AM
I have my top up with Yona next week. I'm a little on edge. Everything she said since my first original reading in March and my top up in July has happened. That is with the EXCEPTION of my love life. How sad is that? What I did notice is that there was just a small mention of my love life in the first reading I had (and it's consistent with zero movement there), but there were more details about love life predictions in my July top up. There's still no movement as of now. I wonder, does anyone know if Yona picks up more details if the prediction is closer? It seems that as time passes, between the March reading and the July top up she was getting more specific details, but the overall prediction is the same. Anyway, I guess I'll know next week...

On a side note, Leanne has been right also. I know I'm of the minority in the Leanne fan club, but for me, it seems that she gets different details than Yona, but they do get the same things. Crazy. They both are still the top of my dream team.

I would say yes as things get closer she gets so much more. My first read with her was pretty vague. The second more detailed and the third on Oct 1st his ass was everywhere in it. 😂😒

I agree with you on Leanne she gets the same predictions Yona does with different details and Kisha gets those same things with another set of details.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on November 09, 2019, 01:38:34 AM
I have my top up with Yona next week. I'm a little on edge. Everything she said since my first original reading in March and my top up in July has happened. That is with the EXCEPTION of my love life. How sad is that? What I did notice is that there was just a small mention of my love life in the first reading I had (and it's consistent with zero movement there), but there were more details about love life predictions in my July top up. There's still no movement as of now. I wonder, does anyone know if Yona picks up more details if the prediction is closer? It seems that as time passes, between the March reading and the July top up she was getting more specific details, but the overall prediction is the same. Anyway, I guess I'll know next week...

On a side note, Leanne has been right also. I know I'm of the minority in the Leanne fan club, but for me, it seems that she gets different details than Yona, but they do get the same things. Crazy. They both are still the top of my dream team.

I would say yes as things get closer she gets so much more. My first read with her was pretty vague. The second more detailed and the third on Oct 1st his ass was everywhere in it. 😂😒

I agree with you on Leanne she gets the same predictions Yona does with different details and Kisha gets those same things with another set of details.

Yeah, Kisha called the same prediction too, but her timing is way off (unless she read the wrong year  ::) ) and I kind of dismissed it because she was all unicorns and rainbows. Yona and Leanne seemed much more realistic. I wouldn't say they were negative necessarily, but much more of a crossroads than a riding off into the sunset.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on November 16, 2019, 01:27:31 AM
FIDGET CHRONICLES - PART 4 (?) ...sorry, lost count.

Yay for Yona!!

So it's top up time, and finally it was a full read. Yippee!

First off...no towers to be seen. Thank the stars above. It appears the worst is over. :)

Shadow card - FLIRTATION! I wish I knew what actual card that was, but woohoo!

Theme - me looking to the long term, I'm done with what's happening tomorrow and I'm thinking more about my long term future. As in will this making me happy next year? In the next 5 years? 10 years?

Lot of positive progression. I've learned lessons. I won't be fooled or taken advantage of again.

Career - boss who took my job - it wasn't personal, it was opportunistic. She would have done the same thing to anyone. She's not vindictive, she just doesn't let emotions get in the way of her goals. She either isn't qualified or doesn't want this job she swiped up from under me and will continue to move on (confirmed, she's already applied to another position and she hasn't been in the job a month yet). New opportunities for me are coming and it will be for long term satisfaction. Surprisingly (to me anyway), it won't be about the money (although I will get better pay), it will be about long term happiness. First prediction is coming soon (beginning of new year) where I will get an evaluation and my hard work will be acknowledged. I will see some knew opportunities and I have learned not to tell anyone what my plans are until it's in the bag.  I will become a little opportunistic myself, but I won't hurt anyone in the process like was done to me. That will happen over the course of next year. It won't be within the group I am with now. It could be the original job that I almost had since the boss will be moving on from that job.

Romantic - Yona said that my Knight of Wands will be coming back with an explanation/apology. I told her (wink wink) that I have no Knight of Wands. In fact, I am as single as it gets...2+ years of single. She said, well, this has to be someone you know or they wouldn't be apologizing. Regardless, she did get into details that convinced me that it is the ex. She said he left because of family issues (yup). She said not only was there family problems, but he has a personal problem that he is hiding (yup drinking). She asked if that makes sense and I said that my ex from a few years ago left because of family issues (or so I think anyway) and that he does drink a little. She laughed and said, well it's more like a lot. She said he hides it well because he's not a sloppy drunk. His tolerance is very high. This is so true. The man can drink like a fish and doesn't slur, stagger, stumble or get a hangover. Ever. Anywho, she said he will come in and apologize and explain what happened. She saw a partnership, but was very specific in saying it was an intimate emotional connection, but no necessarily "romantic". He will want the friendship, which I will reciprocate, but I will draw the line and not go back to where we left off. She said I will want it, but I won't let him know that at all. It will have to be a brand new start. Starting from a platonic friendship. He will later begin to flirt. I will continue to push back. She doesn't see much beyond this. She said it will be my decision what will happen and anything else she tells me will be her opinion and not what she actually sees. What she does see is that I won't allow the same nonsense. He will have to approach this whole thing as if we just met and have a complete start over with boundaries or I will walk away. But it is completely my choice.

She also said that there is a new opportunity for romance next year and again, it will be my choice. She said that the long term outlook attitude I have about my career will also carry over into my love life. Everything I do romantically and professionally will be about "how will I feel about his in 5 years?" and "can I see myself in this situation or with this person in 5 years?"

Yona was extremely happy about my shift in attitude and told me that she was so glad that she didn't have to lecture me. LOL! She said to keep on doing what I'm doing cause it's working!

There were predictions that didn't make much sense to me, so I'll have to re-listen to the recording and see if there is more to add to this.

Again, for those in the back, NO FREAKIN TOWERS!!!!!!!!!!!
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Alexwhyyy2 on November 16, 2019, 03:41:36 AM
FIDGET CHRONICLES - PART 4 (?) ...sorry, lost count.

Yay for Yona!!

So it's top up time, and finally it was a full read. Yippee!

First off...no towers to be seen. Thank the stars above. It appears the worst is over. :)

Shadow card - FLIRTATION! I wish I knew what actual card that was, but woohoo!

Theme - me looking to the long term, I'm done with what's happening tomorrow and I'm thinking more about my long term future. As in will this making me happy next year? In the next 5 years? 10 years?

Lot of positive progression. I've learned lessons. I won't be fooled or taken advantage of again.

Career - boss who took my job - it wasn't personal, it was opportunistic. She would have done the same thing to anyone. She's not vindictive, she just doesn't let emotions get in the way of her goals. She either isn't qualified or doesn't want this job she swiped up from under me and will continue to move on (confirmed, she's already applied to another position and she hasn't been in the job a month yet). New opportunities for me are coming and it will be for long term satisfaction. Surprisingly (to me anyway), it won't be about the money (although I will get better pay), it will be about long term happiness. First prediction is coming soon (beginning of new year) where I will get an evaluation and my hard work will be acknowledged. I will see some knew opportunities and I have learned not to tell anyone what my plans are until it's in the bag.  I will become a little opportunistic myself, but I won't hurt anyone in the process like was done to me. That will happen over the course of next year. It won't be within the group I am with now. It could be the original job that I almost had since the boss will be moving on from that job.

Romantic - Yona said that my Knight of Wands will be coming back with an explanation/apology. I told her (wink wink) that I have no Knight of Wands. In fact, I am as single as it gets...2+ years of single. She said, well, this has to be someone you know or they wouldn't be apologizing. Regardless, she did get into details that convinced me that it is the ex. She said he left because of family issues (yup). She said not only was there family problems, but he has a personal problem that he is hiding (yup drinking). She asked if that makes sense and I said that my ex from a few years ago left because of family issues (or so I think anyway) and that he does drink a little. She laughed and said, well it's more like a lot. She said he hides it well because he's not a sloppy drunk. His tolerance is very high. This is so true. The man can drink like a fish and doesn't slur, stagger, stumble or get a hangover. Ever. Anywho, she said he will come in and apologize and explain what happened. She saw a partnership, but was very specific in saying it was an intimate emotional connection, but no necessarily "romantic". He will want the friendship, which I will reciprocate, but I will draw the line and not go back to where we left off. She said I will want it, but I won't let him know that at all. It will have to be a brand new start. Starting from a platonic friendship. He will later begin to flirt. I will continue to push back. She doesn't see much beyond this. She said it will be my decision what will happen and anything else she tells me will be her opinion and not what she actually sees. What she does see is that I won't allow the same nonsense. He will have to approach this whole thing as if we just met and have a complete start over with boundaries or I will walk away. But it is completely my choice.

She also said that there is a new opportunity for romance next year and again, it will be my choice. She said that the long term outlook attitude I have about my career will also carry over into my love life. Everything I do romantically and professionally will be about "how will I feel about his in 5 years?" and "can I see myself in this situation or with this person in 5 years?"

Yona was extremely happy about my shift in attitude and told me that she was so glad that she didn't have to lecture me. LOL! She said to keep on doing what I'm doing cause it's working!

There were predictions that didn't make much sense to me, so I'll have to re-listen to the recording and see if there is more to add to this.

Again, for those in the back, NO FREAKIN TOWERS!!!!!!!!!!!

hello. i was thinking about getting a read with yona. is this reading consistent with her other one with the person? thank u. congtratulations.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on November 16, 2019, 04:51:11 AM
FIDGET CHRONICLES - PART 4 (?) ...sorry, lost count.

Yay for Yona!!

So it's top up time, and finally it was a full read. Yippee!

First off...no towers to be seen. Thank the stars above. It appears the worst is over. :)

Shadow card - FLIRTATION! I wish I knew what actual card that was, but woohoo!

Theme - me looking to the long term, I'm done with what's happening tomorrow and I'm thinking more about my long term future. As in will this making me happy next year? In the next 5 years? 10 years?

Lot of positive progression. I've learned lessons. I won't be fooled or taken advantage of again.

Career - boss who took my job - it wasn't personal, it was opportunistic. She would have done the same thing to anyone. She's not vindictive, she just doesn't let emotions get in the way of her goals. She either isn't qualified or doesn't want this job she swiped up from under me and will continue to move on (confirmed, she's already applied to another position and she hasn't been in the job a month yet). New opportunities for me are coming and it will be for long term satisfaction. Surprisingly (to me anyway), it won't be about the money (although I will get better pay), it will be about long term happiness. First prediction is coming soon (beginning of new year) where I will get an evaluation and my hard work will be acknowledged. I will see some knew opportunities and I have learned not to tell anyone what my plans are until it's in the bag.  I will become a little opportunistic myself, but I won't hurt anyone in the process like was done to me. That will happen over the course of next year. It won't be within the group I am with now. It could be the original job that I almost had since the boss will be moving on from that job.

Romantic - Yona said that my Knight of Wands will be coming back with an explanation/apology. I told her (wink wink) that I have no Knight of Wands. In fact, I am as single as it gets...2+ years of single. She said, well, this has to be someone you know or they wouldn't be apologizing. Regardless, she did get into details that convinced me that it is the ex. She said he left because of family issues (yup). She said not only was there family problems, but he has a personal problem that he is hiding (yup drinking). She asked if that makes sense and I said that my ex from a few years ago left because of family issues (or so I think anyway) and that he does drink a little. She laughed and said, well it's more like a lot. She said he hides it well because he's not a sloppy drunk. His tolerance is very high. This is so true. The man can drink like a fish and doesn't slur, stagger, stumble or get a hangover. Ever. Anywho, she said he will come in and apologize and explain what happened. She saw a partnership, but was very specific in saying it was an intimate emotional connection, but no necessarily "romantic". He will want the friendship, which I will reciprocate, but I will draw the line and not go back to where we left off. She said I will want it, but I won't let him know that at all. It will have to be a brand new start. Starting from a platonic friendship. He will later begin to flirt. I will continue to push back. She doesn't see much beyond this. She said it will be my decision what will happen and anything else she tells me will be her opinion and not what she actually sees. What she does see is that I won't allow the same nonsense. He will have to approach this whole thing as if we just met and have a complete start over with boundaries or I will walk away. But it is completely my choice.

She also said that there is a new opportunity for romance next year and again, it will be my choice. She said that the long term outlook attitude I have about my career will also carry over into my love life. Everything I do romantically and professionally will be about "how will I feel about his in 5 years?" and "can I see myself in this situation or with this person in 5 years?"

Yona was extremely happy about my shift in attitude and told me that she was so glad that she didn't have to lecture me. LOL! She said to keep on doing what I'm doing cause it's working!

There were predictions that didn't make much sense to me, so I'll have to re-listen to the recording and see if there is more to add to this.

Again, for those in the back, NO FREAKIN TOWERS!!!!!!!!!!!

hello. i was thinking about getting a read with yona. is this reading consistent with her other one with the person? thank u. congtratulations.

Yes, she's always been consistent. Yona has never changed a prediction, she just gives new details as things progress.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Jili1945 on November 16, 2019, 04:57:50 AM
My top card in the recent reading was also Flirtation but she did not mention the actual name of the card (I just listened the recording) and also she did not go to the details. Did she explain it for you?
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on November 16, 2019, 05:23:06 AM
My top card in the recent reading was also Flirtation but she did not mention the actual name of the card (I just listened the recording) and also she did not go to the details. Did she explain it for you?

It wasn't my top card, it was my shadow card. The only other mention of flirtation was that my POI would start flirting after the reconnection. She said I would hold my ground and keep things platonic initially.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: kdspirited on November 16, 2019, 05:31:44 AM
Yay! fidget this is looking on the up and up so what have you been doing thats working:-)
also Yay! for no Towers
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Jeninmd2 on November 16, 2019, 10:54:04 AM
Whoo hoo, congrats Fidget and thanks for the update!!  :)

As for the flirtation card, Yona told me in a reading a while back that her flirtation card is the 2 of Cups.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on November 16, 2019, 02:25:47 PM
She didn't give a timeframe, which is perfectly ok for me.

I think based on circumstances and my history, the romance predictions were the absolute best they could be. Yona said there were lots of love, partnership cards. She said under "normal" circumstances she would read the cards as an apology and a reconciliation (10 of cups). In my case. her interpretation was a bit different. She saw him explain himself. She saw him update me on his devastating (her word) family situation. She said I believe him and I should, because he is showing as completely honest. She saw emotional intimacy, but not like "sexual" intimacy. She saw it as a very deep friendship and understanding. She saw the reconciliation as more like a new start and not going back to the past and picking up where we left off. She sees me as guarded and defensive of my security. She sees him eventually flirting, but not me. She basically explained it that I am not going to repeat the past. Now, whether the future means we will have a completely new start is unclear. It could go either way. But I am not going to try and fix him and I am not willing to repeat the bad cycle anymore. We either come back together completely starting from scratch, with boundaries and changed behaviors or I walk away. She did not see an outcome. What she did say is that he has a drinking problem which he hides. That's not a good thing because if he is hiding it, he obviously knows it exists. Could he stop? Yona says yes, he could. But if he chooses not to, I will not tolerate that either. She said it is ME that has changed and that I have a very good perspective on what I want in my life and that although there are strong emotions involved, I am determined to continue to pursue what is in my best interest and let others do what they do without trying to fix them.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Yaz88 on November 16, 2019, 03:15:03 PM
She didn't give a timeframe, which is perfectly ok for me.

I think based on circumstances and my history, the romance predictions were the absolute best they could be. Yona said there were lots of love, partnership cards. She said under "normal" circumstances she would read the cards as an apology and a reconciliation (10 of cups). In my case. her interpretation was a bit different. She saw him explain himself. She saw him update me on his devastating (her word) family situation. She said I believe him and I should, because he is showing as completely honest. She saw emotional intimacy, but not like "sexual" intimacy. She saw it as a very deep friendship and understanding. She saw the reconciliation as more like a new start and not going back to the past and picking up where we left off. She sees me as guarded and defensive of my security. She sees him eventually flirting, but not me. She basically explained it that I am not going to repeat the past. Now, whether the future means we will have a completely new start is unclear. It could go either way. But I am not going to try and fix him and I am not willing to repeat the bad cycle anymore. We either come back together completely starting from scratch, with boundaries and changed behaviors or I walk away. She did not see an outcome. What she did say is that he has a drinking problem which he hides. That's not a good thing because if he is hiding it, he obviously knows it exists. Could he stop? Yona says yes, he could. But if he chooses not to, I will not tolerate that either. She said it is ME that has changed and that I have a very good perspective on what I want in my life and that although there are strong emotions involved, I am determined to continue to pursue what is in my best interest and let others do what they do without trying to fix them.

I’m proud of you, Fidget!!  Those towers seemed to have really done away with any faulty foundation within yourself, so now you are strong and unshakeable.  You’ve built yourself up, girl!  That’s something to be proud of!  It isn’t easy to truly change our inner standards, which then shifts our outward perspective.  But you did!  :-)
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: beachgal214 on November 16, 2019, 03:22:25 PM
loved reading your top up!!! thats amazing!!!!!!! No towers for the folks in the back, haha!!! love it.  good for you. I hope the predictions with him come true. 
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on November 17, 2019, 07:29:54 PM
Interestingly enough, she said this apology and reconnection will prevent a tower, so she was glad to see that it was happening. That's comforting on it's own. It still seems impossible to me, but I guess only time will tell. :)
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: naturegirl on November 17, 2019, 09:11:14 PM
Yay, Fidget! Glad to hear the apology and communication is still showing up. Can't wait for the day you post and say it happened. I will be so happy for you! Thanks for always being so open with your experiences and congratulations on your internal growth!
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Fidget1028 on November 19, 2019, 06:24:43 PM
You know, it doesn't even matter. I've done my work on me and I will continue to despite what any reader says. The truth is that in a little more than a week, I will have a house full of people celebrating Thanksgiving. I will have my 2 adult children arranging their schedules to not only celebrate the holiday at home, but to come over days early to help me cook, bake and clean by their own choice. I have prepared my menu and started grocery shopping. :) I have plans for black Friday Christmas shopping, decorating the house that weekend for Christmas, pull out "Fiddle"...our friendly elf on a shelf who keeps my son's behavior at bay before Santa comes, and I have an appointment for Christmas portraits of the kids (yes, even the 30 year old!) that same weekend. I will squeeze in some work for my job, because I am needed there and I take pride in that as well. I really do have a damn good life.

Also, I know that my POI will be sitting home over the holidays hoping that the 2 entitled kids he raised will remember to call on the holiday. He'll be heating a frozen lasagna and drinking (more than a few) beers and maybe watching a football game or some other sport alone. It's sad. But I know this to be true. He could have been with us, but that was his choice. He's waiting for his life to fix itself. Or waiting for God to fix it for him. I'm not waiting anymore for life to happen to me. It's just too damn short.
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: beachgal214 on November 20, 2019, 12:09:36 AM
Love that fidget!!! You go girl!!! Sounds like you have a wonderful family!!!!! 
Title: Re: The Fidget Chronicles
Post by: Yaz88 on November 20, 2019, 01:32:37 AM
You know, it doesn't even matter. I've done my work on me and I will continue to despite what any reader says. The truth is that in a little more than a week, I will have a house full of people celebrating Thanksgiving. I will have my 2 adult children arranging their schedules to not only celebrate the holiday at home, but to come over days early to help me cook, bake and clean by their own choice. I have prepared my menu and started grocery shopping. :) I have plans for black Friday Christmas shopping, decorating the house that weekend for Christmas, pull out "Fiddle"...our friendly elf on a shelf who keeps my son's behavior at bay before Santa comes, and I have an appointment for Christmas portraits of the kids (yes, even the 30 year old!) that same weekend. I will squeeze in some work for my job, because I am needed there and I take pride in that as well. I really do have a damn good life.

Also, I know that my POI will be sitting home over the holidays hoping that the 2 entitled kids he raised will remember to call on the holiday. He'll be heating a frozen lasagna and drinking (more than a few) beers and maybe watching a football game or some other sport alone. It's sad. But I know this to be true. He could have been with us, but that was his choice. He's waiting for his life to fix itself. Or waiting for God to fix it for him. I'm not waiting anymore for life to happen to me. It's just too damn short.

I’m super happy for you, Fidget!  I’m in the same boat where my life has really taken off.  It’s really great to be in the position of being choosey on who gets my attention.  It’s also great to finally be selfish and to choose me and what makes me happy.  Hard lessons to learn.