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Title: How Much Is Too Much?
Post by: Natashanyc on October 13, 2021, 04:25:24 PM
This is just an open question:

How many readings do you think is too much? How many reads does it take to jumble your energy?

In example: Do you get 3 reads by different advisors and then call 6 more from 6 more advisors? If you believe you found someone who is great and connected well, do you call 2 more to confirm the accuracy you have already been told? Do you give your energy a break? Or keep reading until the predictions pass and then keep reading for more predictions?


Title: Re: How Much Is Too Much?
Post by: russianred on October 14, 2021, 03:18:26 AM
More than 2 in a day is bad for me.  I'll probably always like getting readings now and then but my goal is to enjoy them and to be able to wait for events to occur or not occur before calling again.  Two years ago around this time I was calling a lot to try to get a prediction on a situation I no longer care about.  In the last year, I've tended to call when I'm bothered about something and want a third party to just listen to me and give me an opinion, and I really should be saving a lot of it for my therapist.

I was triggered by something and binged a couple of weeks ago for the first time in a long time. "Too much" territory for me is when I'm desperately seeking out people to call in the moment and trying to justify doing so to myself instead of purposefully calling 1 or 2 either trusted-ish readers or readers I want to try.
Title: Re: How Much Is Too Much?
Post by: Truthseeker2019 on October 14, 2021, 05:15:56 PM
Hi,
This is my honest opinion from experience...Anytime you find yourself calling multiple Psychics per day and per week, You are on serious impulsive binge.

Depending on what You are going through and need clarity on. You probably should reduce your readings to 1 psychic per week.

90% of these "Psychics " are not real Psychics that's why you feel the need to call so much.

Save Yourself money, time and wasted energy.

If it's about Love: Just know that if A Person is truly meant for You , You won't have to call any Psychics.  If Your being treated right and they truly love You, You will be confident and secure.
Title: Re: How Much Is Too Much?
Post by: Natashanyc on October 15, 2021, 03:21:58 AM
More than 2 in a day is bad for me.  I'll probably always like getting readings now and then but my goal is to enjoy them and to be able to wait for events to occur or not occur before calling again.  Two years ago around this time I was calling a lot to try to get a prediction on a situation I no longer care about.  In the last year, I've tended to call when I'm bothered about something and want a third party to just listen to me and give me an opinion, and I really should be saving a lot of it for my therapist.

I was triggered by something and binged a couple of weeks ago for the first time in a long time. "Too much" territory for me is when I'm desperately seeking out people to call in the moment and trying to justify doing so to myself instead of purposefully calling 1 or 2 either trusted-ish readers or readers I want to try.

Thanks for this I know a lot of users probably thought I was being facetious but it’s so great that you realized what triggers you and you can control yourself. I have a trusted advisor and couple weeks ago I was triggered by boredom and called on someone one else , they turned out wrong and I regret it. But it taught me more self control. And yes most definitely at a certain point of addiction therapy is needed but I think it’s judged and frowned upon so ppl don’t like to resort to that. I also think too many reads cloud your energy so even a gifted individual can’t read you that well. At some point it needs a break
Title: Re: How Much Is Too Much?
Post by: pfizer on October 15, 2021, 03:32:05 AM
for same issue you go ask any/same psychic before the told time frame, then for me it's too much.
i only go ask psychic when the timeframe is gone like over 2 weeks.

Title: Re: How Much Is Too Much?
Post by: Natashanyc on October 15, 2021, 03:41:52 AM
Hi,
This is my honest opinion from experience...Anytime you find yourself calling multiple Psychics per day and per week, You are on serious impulsive binge.

Depending on what You are going through and need clarity on. You probably should reduce your readings to 1 psychic per week.

90% of these "Psychics " are not real Psychics that's why you feel the need to call so much.

Save Yourself money, time and wasted energy.

If it's about Love: Just know that if A Person is truly meant for You , You won't have to call any Psychics.  If Your being treated right and they truly love You, You will be confident and secure.


THIS!!!! I have been saying all this for years and been viewed as the mean girl lol
I also know ppl who claim to live happily with their poi yet still call often and spend a small fortune on readings lol its a major insecurity but also it’s their anxiety of the unknown instead of allowing the universe to do it’s thing. This year I spent about $200 on reads VS me during 2017-19 when I know I was binging. I wish I took that money and invested it in something else lol. Now that I’m happier with all the categories of my life at the moment, I read a lot less and it’s actually liberating to look at old threads on here and enjoy that I am no longer in that space that I once was in
Title: Re: How Much Is Too Much?
Post by: pfizer on October 15, 2021, 04:32:37 AM
couldnt agree more
that is why i rarely asked about relationship
my love to myself is strong enough i feel very secure and confident.
if he is truely meant for me, i can know it, i dont need to ask
if he is not, i will know it too (unless you lie to yourself)  so again i dont need to ask

Hi,
This is my honest opinion from experience...Anytime you find yourself calling multiple Psychics per day and per week, You are on serious impulsive binge.

Depending on what You are going through and need clarity on. You probably should reduce your readings to 1 psychic per week.

90% of these "Psychics " are not real Psychics that's why you feel the need to call so much.

Save Yourself money, time and wasted energy.

If it's about Love: Just know that if A Person is truly meant for You , You won't have to call any Psychics.  If Your being treated right and they truly love You, You will be confident and secure.
Title: Re: How Much Is Too Much?
Post by: Natashanyc on October 15, 2021, 05:32:15 AM
couldnt agree more
that is why i rarely asked about relationship
my love to myself is strong enough i feel very secure and confident.
if he is truely meant for me, i can know it, i dont need to ask
if he is not, i will know it too (unless you lie to yourself)  so again i dont need to ask

Hi,
This is my honest opinion from experience...Anytime you find yourself calling multiple Psychics per day and per week, You are on serious impulsive binge.

Depending on what You are going through and need clarity on. You probably should reduce your readings to 1 psychic per week.

90% of these "Psychics " are not real Psychics that's why you feel the need to call so much.

Save Yourself money, time and wasted energy.

If it's about Love: Just know that if A Person is truly meant for You , You won't have to call any Psychics.  If Your being treated right and they truly love You, You will be confident and secure.


💯‼️‼️‼️
Title: Re: How Much Is Too Much?
Post by: Truthseeker2019 on October 15, 2021, 07:55:40 AM
Majority of Members on this forum do not update Any post with Happily Ever After stories. Even though they have spent hundreds, thousands of dollars, Countless Readings and typed reviews of their psychic reading experience months and years later.

I appreciate the Members who posted : Save Your Money , Love and Love Your Life, Work towards your Goals.

One day You will want to have a different experience and stop relying on the fairytale's, assumptions, half-truths, and lies that these "Psychics" provide you.

Someday You will want to stop chasing a fantasy and see the bigger picture.

Title: Re: How Much Is Too Much?
Post by: Sincity2 on October 15, 2021, 10:03:44 AM
So true. Every time I get sucked back into the cycle I end up disappointed.
Title: Re: How Much Is Too Much?
Post by: HornetKick on October 15, 2021, 05:10:19 PM
I agree but Keen has been offering promos so I'm not spending my money. Keen is so cheap though. If they give you $25 (just like the previous promo) and you don't use all of it, they will take back anything that remains like $1.20 or anything. They offered $20 today.
Title: Re: How Much Is Too Much?
Post by: Natashanyc on October 15, 2021, 05:17:24 PM
I agree but Keen has been offering promos so I'm not spending my money. Keen is so cheap though. If they give you $25 (just like the previous promo) and you don't use all of it, they will take back anything that remains like $1.20 or anything. They offered $20 today.

I think the promos are only for certain users. Ppl who use the site more often get perks and others who don’t, don’t get anything. It’s not so much about money for me, my energy is priceless. I’m not jumbling my thoughts or energy for a million and one predictions nor am I sitting by a calendar waiting for Billy Joe to contact me cuz Ms Cleo said it will happen lol the promos are marketing schemes to keep you calling that’s all.
Title: Re: How Much Is Too Much?
Post by: Natashanyc on October 15, 2021, 05:25:45 PM
Majority of Members on this forum do not update Any post with Happily Ever After stories. Even though they have spent hundreds, thousands of dollars, Countless Readings and typed reviews of their psychic reading experience months and years later.

I appreciate the Members who posted : Save Your Money , Love and Love Your Life, Work towards your Goals.

One day You will want to have a different experience and stop relying on the fairytale's, assumptions, half-truths, and lies that these "Psychics" provide you.

Someday You will want to stop chasing a fantasy and see the bigger picture.

Very true as well. I know very few success stories. I can log in here in January and wait til December to log in again and it’s the same users here with the same issues they been had. This is why I hardly come here bc it’s low key depressing to see sad stories and the same ppl waiting on ten more predictions from madam popsicle and when their poi is gonna leave his wife and ride off in the sunset.
Title: Re: How Much Is Too Much?
Post by: HornetKick on October 15, 2021, 05:33:32 PM
I read conservatively from Keen and I don't go over the promo amount nor read with those over $3 pm. I read 10/2 with a $25 promo, and only read once in August, none in Sept, etc. Oftentimes if they don't offer a promo, I don't read. I use to think the promos were for heavy hitters too until I fixed my Keen settings.
Title: Re: How Much Is Too Much?
Post by: Sincity2 on October 15, 2021, 06:26:31 PM
Majority of Members on this forum do not update Any post with Happily Ever After stories. Even though they have spent hundreds, thousands of dollars, Countless Readings and typed reviews of their psychic reading experience months and years later.

I appreciate the Members who posted : Save Your Money , Love and Love Your Life, Work towards your Goals.

One day You will want to have a different experience and stop relying on the fairytale's, assumptions, half-truths, and lies that these "Psychics" provide you.

Someday You will want to stop chasing a fantasy and see the bigger picture.

Very true as well. I know very few success stories. I can log in here in January and wait til December to log in again and it’s the same users here with the same issues they been had. This is why I hardly come here bc it’s low key depressing to see sad stories and the same ppl waiting on ten more predictions from madam popsicle and when their poi is gonna leave his wife and ride off in the sunset.

OMG it really is depressing!!
Title: Re: How Much Is Too Much?
Post by: aquagirl on October 15, 2021, 07:33:17 PM
I have three people i trust to read for me. And i usually don't read with all them in a short period of time. Rarely if i'm going through something then for different perspective. but your energy is scattered and its can interfere with your reading. I don't trust just anyone with my energy. I have a different perspective on energy exchange than most.  The odd time if my trusted isn't available, i'll try someone new, and 95% of the time regret it. In my experience my best readings are when my energy is grounded. Doesn't mean i'm not sad or upset, just that my energy is more level. Reading with numerous people within the same day just messes up your energy, and can make it hard to read, so even a great reader may end up picking up on your fears vs what is really going on, because that frequency is more present and forward.  Yes, of course there are not just bad readers out there but ones that are also fake.

If you're calling about love there's your answer? well no.  i have a friend in a good relationship and she calls every so often as a check in when she calls about other things. She just likes to hear the nice stuff as confirmation.  Some people have insecurities and call for reassurance.  Some situations to the logical mind my seem "obvious" that they are doomed or won't work out, but not the case at all. I know many such situations that actually did.  And sometimes they just aren't going to work. One thing i've learned is that there is no cookie cutter solution for every situation. Just because it didn't work for Ann, doesn't mean it won't work for Jane.

Human nature is to bitch and complain. This is why you seldom see people come back and share their success stories. Doesn't mean they didn't happen, but the likelihood of them coming back to say something awesome happened is very unlikely. Just like customer service one out ten people will go out of their way to compliment an employee for good work.  So, I don't give much merit to people not sharing success stories. Even something like with my friends, i always hear about when their partners have done something wrong vs when they are being awesome. Doesn't mean they don't do things that are great.  And there are also those who complain just for the sake of complaining and nothing is ever good enough. I find it really hard to believe that no psychic ever got anything right for that one person. also, consider the source, i have found that people have very unrealistic exceptions of what psychics can and cant do and that each is still a human being and even though they have the same abilities their strength in using them is different.   That is also why i look at who left a review about someone, because if that person is always negative about every reading , regardless of who they used and always has some level of negativity, then that person's "reviews" i never take seriously.


Going back to the orginal question. If i get a reading from one of my trusted three, I will not call the other two. exception is one is not on sites and has a busy schedule so i never know when i'll get a reading with her. So if i say call one of the other two and she happens to say call me tonight, I don't miss that opportunity. So i'll read with both in the same day. They don't know each other and usually say similar with some different nuances. which to me is valuable. but then also offers confirmation for me that i'm on the right path.   The only other time , i've binged in a short time frame is when something really major has happened and i can't get one of the three. So i tried someone new and don't click with them and then try another, and when i get to one of my top three I feel the energy is just different. It's not about hearing what you want, because it's not what they do, but for me its on a soul level i know which person is right. rarely that has happened with someone new. But this is a rare situation, i have learned to tame this and be more patient.

So yes i believe that your energy gets jumbled and that you can get very different readings. Which can lead to a lot of confusion. My advice is this, ground your energy, wait on the person if can that reads the best for you. You don't need to keep reading until predictions pass. Also, the things we hand on to the most are the least to happen. It's letting that energy go and flow that is important. Doesn't mean let go of the person, or situation , just the energy and focus on yourself. The more you focus on you and doing things for yourself the easier and faster these things will come to you. 
Title: Re: How Much Is Too Much?
Post by: Natashanyc on October 15, 2021, 09:37:51 PM
I have three people i trust to read for me. And i usually don't read with all them in a short period of time. Rarely if i'm going through something then for different perspective. but your energy is scattered and its can interfere with your reading. I don't trust just anyone with my energy. I have a different perspective on energy exchange than most.  The odd time if my trusted isn't available, i'll try someone new, and 95% of the time regret it. In my experience my best readings are when my energy is grounded. Doesn't mean i'm not sad or upset, just that my energy is more level. Reading with numerous people within the same day just messes up your energy, and can make it hard to read, so even a great reader may end up picking up on your fears vs what is really going on, because that frequency is more present and forward.  Yes, of course there are not just bad readers out there but ones that are also fake.

If you're calling about love there's your answer? well no.  i have a friend in a good relationship and she calls every so often as a check in when she calls about other things. She just likes to hear the nice stuff as confirmation.  Some people have insecurities and call for reassurance.  Some situations to the logical mind my seem "obvious" that they are doomed or won't work out, but not the case at all. I know many such situations that actually did.  And sometimes they just aren't going to work. One thing i've learned is that there is no cookie cutter solution for every situation. Just because it didn't work for Ann, doesn't mean it won't work for Jane.

Human nature is to bitch and complain. This is why you seldom see people come back and share their success stories. Doesn't mean they didn't happen, but the likelihood of them coming back to say something awesome happened is very unlikely. Just like customer service one out ten people will go out of their way to compliment an employee for good work.  So, I don't give much merit to people not sharing success stories. Even something like with my friends, i always hear about when their partners have done something wrong vs when they are being awesome. Doesn't mean they don't do things that are great.  And there are also those who complain just for the sake of complaining and nothing is ever good enough. I find it really hard to believe that no psychic ever got anything right for that one person. also, consider the source, i have found that people have very unrealistic exceptions of what psychics can and cant do and that each is still a human being and even though they have the same abilities their strength in using them is different.   That is also why i look at who left a review about someone, because if that person is always negative about every reading , regardless of who they used and always has some level of negativity, then that person's "reviews" i never take seriously.


Going back to the orginal question. If i get a reading from one of my trusted three, I will not call the other two. exception is one is not on sites and has a busy schedule so i never know when i'll get a reading with her. So if i say call one of the other two and she happens to say call me tonight, I don't miss that opportunity. So i'll read with both in the same day. They don't know each other and usually say similar with some different nuances. which to me is valuable. but then also offers confirmation for me that i'm on the right path.   The only other time , i've binged in a short time frame is when something really major has happened and i can't get one of the three. So i tried someone new and don't click with them and then try another, and when i get to one of my top three I feel the energy is just different. It's not about hearing what you want, because it's not what they do, but for me its on a soul level i know which person is right. rarely that has happened with someone new. But this is a rare situation, i have learned to tame this and be more patient.

So yes i believe that your energy gets jumbled and that you can get very different readings. Which can lead to a lot of confusion. My advice is this, ground your energy, wait on the person if can that reads the best for you. You don't need to keep reading until predictions pass. Also, the things we hand on to the most are the least to happen. It's letting that energy go and flow that is important. Doesn't mean let go of the person, or situation , just the energy and focus on yourself. The more you focus on you and doing things for yourself the easier and faster these things will come to you.


YASSSSSSSSSS VERY WELL SAID AND I AGREE 10000000%%% ‼️‼️‼️❤️
Title: Re: How Much Is Too Much?
Post by: russianred on October 16, 2021, 04:03:12 PM
More than 2 in a day is bad for me.  I'll probably always like getting readings now and then but my goal is to enjoy them and to be able to wait for events to occur or not occur before calling again.  Two years ago around this time I was calling a lot to try to get a prediction on a situation I no longer care about.  In the last year, I've tended to call when I'm bothered about something and want a third party to just listen to me and give me an opinion, and I really should be saving a lot of it for my therapist.

I was triggered by something and binged a couple of weeks ago for the first time in a long time. "Too much" territory for me is when I'm desperately seeking out people to call in the moment and trying to justify doing so to myself instead of purposefully calling 1 or 2 either trusted-ish readers or readers I want to try.

Thanks for this I know a lot of users probably thought I was being facetious but it’s so great that you realized what triggers you and you can control yourself. I have a trusted advisor and couple weeks ago I was triggered by boredom and called on someone one else , they turned out wrong and I regret it. But it taught me more self control. And yes most definitely at a certain point of addiction therapy is needed but I think it’s judged and frowned upon so ppl don’t like to resort to that. I also think too many reads cloud your energy so even a gifted individual can’t read you that well. At some point it needs a break

I didn't mean addiction therapy (although I don't think that's such a bad idea), but rather that nowadays I'm finding myself calling when I really just want a third party to talk to about something that is bothering me, like having a therapist on demand.  The platform sites make it difficult because you can impulsively call that moment and not have to schedule anything.

The rates keep creeping up and up which makes it increasingly difficult to justify my calls.  I added up my binge from a few weeks ago and it came to around $800 -- and I don't feel that I even talked for that long.

I'm not completely opposed to readings; I think that they can be fun, and I have sometimes learned to look at situations with a new perspective or with insight I never would have had on my own.   But, for me, it's playing with fire.

I think the answer lies in developing one's ability to self-soothe, to feel confident in oneself and one's ability to know what to do, and to sit with painful or bothersome emotions.  These are skills that are developed in real therapy, not with psychics.
Title: Re: How Much Is Too Much?
Post by: Truthseeker2019 on October 18, 2021, 05:49:04 PM
Handling Rejection can be very devastating, dangerous and a  compulsive difficulty. If We could master our feelings and emotions Psychic Readings would reduce.

Therapy may help but Really it's self-care, high standards,  self-love and value that is key.

Sometimes You just have to let go and inspire for better and more.
 
Title: Re: How Much Is Too Much?
Post by: Natashanyc on October 21, 2021, 11:19:46 PM
More than 2 in a day is bad for me.  I'll probably always like getting readings now and then but my goal is to enjoy them and to be able to wait for events to occur or not occur before calling again.  Two years ago around this time I was calling a lot to try to get a prediction on a situation I no longer care about.  In the last year, I've tended to call when I'm bothered about something and want a third party to just listen to me and give me an opinion, and I really should be saving a lot of it for my therapist.

I was triggered by something and binged a couple of weeks ago for the first time in a long time. "Too much" territory for me is when I'm desperately seeking out people to call in the moment and trying to justify doing so to myself instead of purposefully calling 1 or 2 either trusted-ish readers or readers I want to try.

Thanks for this I know a lot of users probably thought I was being facetious but it’s so great that you realized what triggers you and you can control yourself. I have a trusted advisor and couple weeks ago I was triggered by boredom and called on someone one else , they turned out wrong and I regret it. But it taught me more self control. And yes most definitely at a certain point of addiction therapy is needed but I think it’s judged and frowned upon so ppl don’t like to resort to that. I also think too many reads cloud your energy so even a gifted individual can’t read you that well. At some point it needs a break

I didn't mean addiction therapy (although I don't think that's such a bad idea), but rather that nowadays I'm finding myself calling when I really just want a third party to talk to about something that is bothering me, like having a therapist on demand.  The platform sites make it difficult because you can impulsively call that moment and not have to schedule anything.

The rates keep creeping up and up which makes it increasingly difficult to justify my calls.  I added up my binge from a few weeks ago and it came to around $800 -- and I don't feel that I even talked for that long.

I'm not completely opposed to readings; I think that they can be fun, and I have sometimes learned to look at situations with a new perspective or with insight I never would have had on my own.   But, for me, it's playing with fire.

I think the answer lies in developing one's ability to self-soothe, to feel confident in oneself and one's ability to know what to do, and to sit with painful or bothersome emotions.  These are skills that are developed in real therapy, not with psychics.

Yes exactly... I was meaning at a certain point of addiction, therapy is necessary. Srry I missed the coma initially lol. I think if you are going to binge have a budget monthly so it doesn’t exceed your livelihood. $800 is what I just spent on shoes today and I treated myself. $800 is lil steep but I’m sure I spent more in my time in total so I completely understand. I’m not opposed to readings but I’m opposed to being hooked on manipulation and lies that cost me money lol I’m thankful I have a circle of friends and ppl to talk to but I know some don’t have that. Sometimes a drive with a good album or playlist makes me feel good during stress. Self awareness is key
Title: Re: How Much Is Too Much?
Post by: Truthseeker2019 on October 22, 2021, 07:14:35 PM
That is True, Budgeting your finances will help You. You won't feel like your wasting your money especially on fake or false Psychics.

My Tip of Advice which took me years to figure out and accept. LEARN HOW to Love the Good in Goodbye. Some doors closed are a Blessing to You.

Learn how to Love and accept the Good in Goodbye.

Be Blessed.