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Potpourri Boards => Addicted to Psychics => Topic started by: doubleoh8 on April 03, 2019, 03:25:41 PM
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Hi all (who are interested). I see the admin added new boards for this and for Bitwine. Thanks!
Since I asked for it, I'll start a topic here. I came across an article on Leanne Halyburton's blog called "HAVE YOU BECOME A PSYCHIC JUNKIE? HOW TO BREAK THE HEARTBREAKING CYCLE":
https://leannehalyburton.com/2019/03/09/have-you-become-a-psychic-junkie-how-to-break-the-heartbreaking-cycle/
Thought I would share as it had some good advice. Her first tip, about being honest with yourself about possible red flags, definitely applied to me.
[and for the record, I have no association with Leanne. I have never even read with her but was checking her site out after reading posts on here one day and saw the blog post.]
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I figured I'd chime in. Nothing that's published on how to stop out there worked for me. Because it's a learned distress tolerance behavior for those of us who overdo it.
Here's what worked. Stop talking to the psychics and talk to your POI instead IF YOU FEEL YOU SHOULD. It will either go well, or it won't, and you will allow yourself to know the truth, heal, and eventually move on. If you feel you should wait and leave it alone, and allow life to show you other things, then do that. Get in touch with what YOU feel "pushed" to do personally. Then do it.
"But what if I talk and it isn't the best timing and I ruin it?"
If it's truly meant to be - this is your person - you cannot do anything to ruin it. People cheat and stay together. I'm not recommending you try completely disregarding and becoming a wild woman (or man) and using that as insurance to do whatever you like.
But if you cannot have a conversation with them. You cannot have any kind of healthy relationship with them. Sometimes conversations have to "sit" with the other person a bit for things to go the direction you hope for, so don't expect an immediate response.
That's my best advice.
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I figured I'd chime in. Nothing that's published on how to stop out there worked for me. Because it's a learned distress tolerance behavior for those of us who overdo it.
Here's what worked. Stop talking to the psychics and talk to your POI instead IF YOU FEEL YOU SHOULD. It will either go well, or it won't, and you will allow yourself to know the truth, heal, and eventually move on. If you feel you should wait and leave it alone, and allow life to show you other things, then do that. Get in touch with what YOU feel "pushed" to do personally. Then do it.
"But what if I talk and it isn't the best timing and I ruin it?"
If it's truly meant to be - this is your person - you cannot do anything to ruin it. People cheat and stay together. I'm not recommending you try completely disregarding and becoming a wild woman (or man) and using that as insurance to do whatever you like.
But if you cannot have a conversation with them. You cannot have any kind of healthy relationship with them. Sometimes conversations have to "sit" with the other person a bit for things to go the direction you hope for, so don't expect an immediate response.
That's my best advice.
I agree and think it is great advice!
Going cold turkey can be hard, however, so if you do not feel comfortable letting go of psychics completely maybe try a reading once a month. Outside of that, let your intuition guide you and take note of whatever predictions do or do not come to pass. Eventually, you will get so used to following your own inner guidance that the psychics will no longer be necessary.
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I agree, talking to POI definitely helps. I wasted years talking to psychics instead of being direct and honest with POI. Psychics always told me NOT to ask too much of him, not to tell him what I want because it will scare him away. So I did that but I was left in a state of confusion and I'd go to psychics and they would reassure me everything was okay. So yes, more money for them.
So I talked to POI but that still didn't make me stop talking to psychics. Because I would ask psychics "well, did POI tell me the truth? what's gonna happen still?"
The only thing that stopped my interest in psychics is me deciding that I am no longer going to chase my POI. That if he wants to be in my life, he will reach out, he will tell me so, I will see it in his actions. But I no longer desire to chase and hope.
I made that decision and since then thinking of calling psychics is appalling to me. And stupid. Thinking of consulting tarot cards sounds so silly. Because I have called tons and I mean tons of psychics and have done tons of tarot readings and everything I was told, some of it came true and some didn't. And it's only because I was told general things that could have come true or couldn't. I wasn't told anything that came true 100% where I could be like: oh yes, they were so right. It was all half and half, and I was told a bunch of other things that none were true, negative things were not true, positive things were not true either. I didn't get any substantial readings from the 100 or so psychics that I contacted.
My own experience and me deciding that life is so much more than wanting a specific person in your life...these two things combined, have made me stop talking to psychics.
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I agree, talking to POI definitely helps. I wasted years talking to psychics instead of being direct and honest with POI. Psychics always told me NOT to ask too much of him, not to tell him what I want because it will scare him away. So I did that but I was left in a state of confusion and I'd go to psychics and they would reassure me everything was okay. So yes, more money for them.
So I talked to POI but that still didn't make me stop talking to psychics. Because I would ask psychics "well, did POI tell me the truth? what's gonna happen still?"
The only thing that stopped my interest in psychics is me deciding that I am no longer going to chase my POI. That if he wants to be in my life, he will reach out, he will tell me so, I will see it in his actions. But I no longer desire to chase and hope.
I made that decision and since then thinking of calling psychics is appalling to me. And stupid. Thinking of consulting tarot cards sounds so silly. Because I have called tons and I mean tons of psychics and have done tons of tarot readings and everything I was told, some of it came true and some didn't. And it's only because I was told general things that could have come true or couldn't. I wasn't told anything that came true 100% where I could be like: oh yes, they were so right. It was all half and half, and I was told a bunch of other things that none were true, negative things were not true, positive things were not true either. I didn't get any substantial readings from the 100 or so psychics that I contacted.
My own experience and me deciding that life is so much more than wanting a specific person in your life...these two things combined, have made me stop talking to psychics.
I agree with this 100%!
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I stopped calling when stuff wasn't happening. I deleted my account, burned my notes and moved on with life. My situation was complicated, but I knew that it wouldn't be an easy fix anyway, so why waste money?
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I started slowly, by taking breaks for a month at a time. After that, it got easier to not call at all.
After that, I closed my account. 🤷🏻♀️
I took time to self reflect. What is it that triggered a binge for me? What can I do differently to avoid pushing myself into a reading?
I started taking accountability for my own actions. It’s nobody’s fault but my own that I kept feeding my addiction. I knew predictions weren’t coming to pass yet I continuously returned for more because of my own vulnerability.
I started taking my physical health more seriously and my mental health quickly followed. I genuinely believe that my own lack of self love contributed so so much to my psychic addiction. I was seeking validation from men that didn’t care enough to attempt to give me the love I was seeking and deserve.
Lastly, I still read my notes and emails if I ever get the urge to purchase a reading now. I know that my own actions and decisions played a HUGE role in my dependency but at the end of the day, 99% of these readers were wrong for me.
I also believe that if I had tried to quit before I was truly ready I wouldn’t have been successful. Luckily reading everyone’s stories here helped me open my eyes to my issues and addiction.
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It's been 2 weeks now since I stopped calling. All the psychics kept getting the timeframes wrong for when my POI would contact, then commit and be consistent I was getting fed up.
It's funny because the moment when i first discovered calling psychics I started seeing him less and less, then when i became addicted our relationship was broken and over. he broke up with me. since then it has been on and off communication for 2 years and we have not seen each other in 2 years.
Fast forward till 2 weeks ago. I came on this forum and heard a lady had come into 'union and marriage' and now expecting their child. From a man she wanted commitment from for years. She said what helped was Lanie Stevens pussy whipped and burned with desire book. I took the plunge and read both in 2 days.
Well... after 5 days of reading PW my POI contacted me and he sent me the nicest message like he normally would have 2 years ago!!!
With LOA we can predict our own future, our own destiny and can call up our POI using visualisation to contact us. Trust me ladies if you want to speed up timeframes, want a prediction to come true so bad etc STOP CALLING PSYCHICS AND DO VISUALISATION AND LAW OF ATTRACTION PRACTICE. Not only that but many work opportunities have come my way past 2 weeks. Opportunities I would have dreamed about.
From my experience visualization and lanie stevens books is the step to take to break the cycle :)
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Wow! That’s awesome. I love LOA. Congrats!!
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It's been 2 weeks now since I stopped calling. All the psychics kept getting the timeframes wrong for when my POI would contact, then commit and be consistent I was getting fed up.
It's funny because the moment when i first discovered calling psychics I started seeing him less and less, then when i became addicted our relationship was broken and over. he broke up with me. since then it has been on and off communication for 2 years and we have not seen each other in 2 years.
Fast forward till 2 weeks ago. I came on this forum and heard a lady had come into 'union and marriage' and now expecting their child. From a man she wanted commitment from for years. She said what helped was Lanie Stevens pussy whipped and burned with desire book. I took the plunge and read both in 2 days.
Well... after 5 days of reading PW my POI contacted me and he sent me the nicest message like he normally would have 2 years ago!!!
With LOA we can predict our own future, our own destiny and can call up our POI using visualisation to contact us. Trust me ladies if you want to speed up timeframes, want a prediction to come true so bad etc STOP CALLING PSYCHICS AND DO VISUALISATION AND LAW OF ATTRACTION PRACTICE. Not only that but many work opportunities have come my way past 2 weeks. Opportunities I would have dreamed about.
From my experience visualization and lanie stevens books is the step to take to break the cycle :)
You’re right. It does work. My boyfriend and I had been out of contact for 3 weeks, due to a fight. I read Lanie Stevens, did Agnes meditations, did LOA manifest a text message... andddd he contacted me within a day of the LOA manifest a text and 3 days of the other practices. I’m putting all of my effort into LOA and positivity from now on
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I just downloaded both these books and I’m starting today!
It's been 2 weeks now since I stopped calling. All the psychics kept getting the timeframes wrong for when my POI would contact, then commit and be consistent I was getting fed up.
It's funny because the moment when i first discovered calling psychics I started seeing him less and less, then when i became addicted our relationship was broken and over. he broke up with me. since then it has been on and off communication for 2 years and we have not seen each other in 2 years.
Fast forward till 2 weeks ago. I came on this forum and heard a lady had come into 'union and marriage' and now expecting their child. From a man she wanted commitment from for years. She said what helped was Lanie Stevens pussy whipped and burned with desire book. I took the plunge and read both in 2 days.
Well... after 5 days of reading PW my POI contacted me and he sent me the nicest message like he normally would have 2 years ago!!!
With LOA we can predict our own future, our own destiny and can call up our POI using visualisation to contact us. Trust me ladies if you want to speed up timeframes, want a prediction to come true so bad etc STOP CALLING PSYCHICS AND DO VISUALISATION AND LAW OF ATTRACTION PRACTICE. Not only that but many work opportunities have come my way past 2 weeks. Opportunities I would have dreamed about.
From my experience visualization and lanie stevens books is the step to take to break the cycle :)
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Well I just calculated out how much money and how many readings I’ve gotten with which advisors over the last 19 months.
Approximately $9,500. Approximately 100 different readers.
I think that should be sufficient information for me to curb the habit. Where in the world did I ever have $9,500 from?!?!? Oh believe me, I’m in debt.
Wow. Imagine all the amazing things I could have done with that much money. All I can do now is change my future habits and learn from what I am looking at in black and white.
Now to go back and revisit the predictions and who was at least somewhat accurate or where the jury is still out. There are not many at all.
I will post separately about all of that hopefully soon somewhere else.
Bottom line: TOTALLY not worth it.
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Breaking the cycle is not easy, I am at the withdrawal phase, I see why it's so hard for drug addicts or people who gamble have a hard time withdrawing, once you move on and keen dangles some nice coupon in your face, you are like one more time, addiction is real. my life feels much settled but I/we find something to call about, we call about the silliest thing, I have not spoken to my besties since 2017, I can take the phone and call her, she attempted months ago and I completely ignored her because she did not call on my phone but hangout,! I was really annoyed! I have been annoyed with her for things she did after the death of her parents I saw her selfish self, well she warned me but I refused to see it, I will always love her but at this point it's pride that's keeping me from reaching out, people have been calling me regarding her, I could use that as an excuse, I wanted to go see her since she moved states, hmmmmm I am just venting ! maybe I should call and hung up and let her call me right ...... NO psychic reading!!! yeah if I call a reader this is what I will expect
These are not actual reading just crap shit I made up
Cookie- If you don't reach out she may not
Aries Intuition _ I see communication but I don't know when or I see 7 surrounding this hahaha
Yona _ she's not popping up in your reading _ ok I don't know what she will say
Qofcups18_ I see 3 around communication
Barbara4848 _ There's a female that you were friends with but don't trust, don't worry she will call you in August
Well I just calculated out how much money and how many readings I’ve gotten with which advisors over the last 19 months.
Approximately $9,500. Approximately 100 different readers.
I think that should be sufficient information for me to curb the habit. Where in the world did I ever have $9,500 from?!?!? Oh believe me, I’m in debt.
Wow. Imagine all the amazing things I could have done with that much money. All I can do now is change my future habits and learn from what I am looking at in black and white.
Now to go back and revisit the predictions and who was at least somewhat accurate or where the jury is still out. There are not many at all.
I will post separately about all of that hopefully soon somewhere else.
Bottom line: TOTALLY not worth it.
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Breaking the cycle is not easy, I am at the withdrawal phase, I see why it's so hard for drug addicts or people who gamble have a hard time withdrawing, once you move on and keen dangles some nice coupon in your face, you are like one more time, addiction is real. my life feels much settled but I/we find something to call about, we call about the silliest thing, I have not spoken to my besties since 2017, I can take the phone and call her, she attempted months ago and I completely ignored her because she did not call on my phone but hangout,! I was really annoyed! I have been annoyed with her for things she did after the death of her parents I saw her selfish self, well she warned me but I refused to see it, I will always love her but at this point it's pride that's keeping me from reaching out, people have been calling me regarding her, I could use that as an excuse, I wanted to go see her since she moved states, hmmmmm I am just venting ! maybe I should call and hung up and let her call me right ...... NO psychic reading!!! yeah if I call a reader this is what I will expect
These are not actual reading just crap shit I made up
Cookie- If you don't reach out she may not
Aries Intuition _ I see communication but I don't know when or I see 7 surrounding this hahaha
Yona _ she's not popping up in your reading _ ok I don't know what she will say
Qofcups18_ I see 3 around communication
Barbara4848 _ There's a female that you were friends with but don't trust, don't worry she will call you in August
Well I just calculated out how much money and how many readings I’ve gotten with which advisors over the last 19 months.
Approximately $9,500. Approximately 100 different readers.
I think that should be sufficient information for me to curb the habit. Where in the world did I ever have $9,500 from?!?!? Oh believe me, I’m in debt.
Wow. Imagine all the amazing things I could have done with that much money. All I can do now is change my future habits and learn from what I am looking at in black and white.
Now to go back and revisit the predictions and who was at least somewhat accurate or where the jury is still out. There are not many at all.
I will post separately about all of that hopefully soon somewhere else.
Bottom line: TOTALLY not worth it.
Tellmewhy, you have me giggling because how you described Kisha/Cookie/Anne answering is totally how I would expect them to answer lol. I’m still too new to Yona to say for sure.
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Just wanted to say I downloaded the Lanie Stevens book pussy whipped and did the technique last night. Havent heard from my ex since last weekend and he reached out 30 minutes after the technique !!
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Just wanted to say I downloaded the Lanie Stevens book pussy whipped and did the technique last night. Havent heard from my ex since last weekend and he reached out 30 minutes after the technique !!
WOW!! Yeah her stuff works.
I just got tired of focusing so much on the POI though lol
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Just wanted to say I downloaded the Lanie Stevens book pussy whipped and did the technique last night. Havent heard from my ex since last weekend and he reached out 30 minutes after the technique !!
Holy! I just started back at it last night. I better get on it! That's amazing.
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congrats! does she have anything for like career manifestation?
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Hmmm would it help with women contacting men??
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congrats! does she have anything for like career manifestation?
No, she's purely a love manifester.
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I was amazed but will keep at it !
I actually did it on two men haha . The other one is obviously being stubborn as I haven’t heard from him yet.
But I will. I’m sure.
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congrats! does she have anything for like career manifestation?
She has a couple of career meditations I purchased from her website but I found those ineffective.
I have a business and could say I am now sort of comfortable financially. What helped me which I have been practising on and off for 3 years is Bob Proctors 20 min “visualisation” on YouTube. Helps you create the picture of the lifestyle you want. However it must be done with pure feeling (it’s ok to cry). If no feeling is put in it won’t materialise. You have to be consistent at it and put in as much feeling as possible as to why you deserve it, who you are serving and helping in order to receive this money... even if it’s your boss, think of all their positive qualities. with these consistent feelings it will materialise quicker. The first things you will notice is opportunities coming your way.
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The meditations on the Calm app kind of help me. I like the body scan ones myself.
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UPDATE: It's been a month and a half now since I have stopped calling. Even though my relationship with my POI is not yet where I want it to be I feel so much better with myself.
I previously posted on here that Lanie Stevens PW and BWD books helps with how to stop calling psychics with regards to a POI. A few things that help me stay consistent with NOT calling is the following:
1. The subtle art of not giving a f*ck - a must read book for anyone who hates uncertainty and how to control your worries and start living your life each day at a time with complete uncertainty of what may or may not happen. It's also a book about how we all have worries and problems but how to control your emotions relating to them. This book really helps rewire your brain to start worrying less.
2. When I am feeling insecure I pull out 1-3 cards from a pack of "angel cards". I ask what the messages are from the universe to help me with my certain worries. You can buy any angel card pack that you are drawn to the most
3. I like to go by this quote "overthinking is the biggest cause of depression". In the early stages of stop calling when I felt eager to call I kept telling myself no and kept myself busy doing something else.
All the money that I would have wasted on calling psychics have been put away into a separate savings account so I can feel proud of the progression I have made by overcoming my addiction. The more I see the money rise, the less tempting it feels to call. I rarely have the desire to call now and its a wonderful feeling. I keep saying to the universe "what will be will be, I am grateful for what I have in my life in the present... I am willing to accept the uncertainty"
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Reading this forum helps me. When it doesnt, I use the tarot cards on the CP app. If that doesn't do it I look at past readings and gasp at the money I've spent! Counting all the other things I could have done with it. :P
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I've thought a lot about my addiction to psychics over the last few months as I stepped away from the chat platforms. I've had four email readings this year and I'm not sure I'll ever give up psychic readings completely, but I've come a long way in my recovery. As someone who spends a lot of time on mountain trails, these are some of the things I've contemplated and reminded myself.
Life is a hike. It's full of sunlit mountain tops and low, shadowed valleys. Sometimes the climbs are daunting so we use whatever method necessary to help us keep climbing. For those of us here, at least one of those things is psychics.
I believe everyone, every single human on this planet, has a drug of choice. For some it's food, for some it's work, for others it's substance, for others it's working out. The list goes on. It's something. We are not alone in our addiction; it's simply that ours is laughable and irrational to some, and it's expensive! We know there ARE those with gifts though, so we keep searching for that next high, that better, purer drug. I know who I am and you know who you are; we are not lost, yet something within us, at this time in our lives, prevents us from moving forward without this help, this guidance, this blind faith we place in strangers to tell us our fate.
So every day I tell myself to keep climbing and to take moments to enjoy the climb. When I start a descent and the anxiety over knowing I'm headed into shadows and valleys again, and I fear the darkness and loneliness of that part of the trail, I remind myself that it won't last - IF I just keep going. The sun will break through, and after the darkness it always seems to shine so much brighter. Life is beautiful, in all its' highs and lows. Even in the valleys there is beauty if we search hard enough. The most challenging part can be not knowing when we'll reach the summit or how long we'll get to stay there before a storm rolls in again.
Sometimes I wonder why human emotions are so hard and run so deep. Then I remember that the human spirit is extraordinarily resilient. It can bend and bend and bend and yet not break. We are capable of handling every heartbreak, every loss, every rejection, and every failure. We are capable, but it isn't always easy. It doesn't help that we say things to ourselves that we would never dare say to another human because of the cruelty in the words and criticism. We listen to the lies that anxiety and depression tell us. How can we not when they are looking us directly in the eyes with a straight face while they whisper? They ARE liars though and they play upon our darkest fears. I'm not great at affirmations because they feel like platitudes, but we do need to treat ourselves like we would treat our closest friends, with kindness and compliments and gratitude for our strengths and gifts. We need to silence the liars within us. We are complex, magnificent beings - mind, body, and spirit. We are truly extraordinary, all of us, and each of us in our own unique way as well. If we fall and we give into our addiction to help us get back up, we need to brush ourselves off and remind ourselves that yes, maybe we could've gotten up on our own and saved ourselves some money or spared ourselves from receiving false hope once again, but at least we're up - and then we need to simply keep moving forward, one foot in font of another in front of another. We have today. We can't worry about yesterday and we shouldn't worry about tomorrow. We can only do our best today - to love ourselves, to be kind to ourselves, and to try to climb without using our drug of choice as a walking stick, today. Just today.
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recently Ive been watching a lot of youtube tarot videos and that has really helped me stop calling readers. see what they say on there is pretty positive and frankly speaking you'll feel like it is tailored just for you:))
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I feel badly because I had a horrible addiction for 10 years and spent 10s of thousands of dollars. I finally stop calling. I went bankrupt. Eventually, I just decided to let go and listen to my inner voice. I was calling about a POI at the time and he did return as predicted but never for good and married someone else. They all said he was unhappy with this woman and he told me so too, but he married her anyway even when most psychics assured me he wouldn't. He's one of 2 POIs I called about over 10 years.
Once I decided that I was content with what I had, lived more in gratitude and was in acceptance, I didn't even feel the urge to call. I can't say "happy" because that's been a fleeting feeling, but content and in acceptance of what I cannot control. I changed my thinking. I started using that money I was wasting on psychics to do cool things I wanted to try. And I felt better. My inner voice spoke loud and clear. I am in a good relationship now for 3 years and like they say, just comes when you're not so anxious about it. I was on a dating app but was very non-chalant and kept it fun and remained content if nothing came of it and I remained single. And I never needed to call about him because HE told me and SHOWED me how he felt about me.
Well, years after not calling, I have "relapsed" due to a job situation and career change and the anxiety of "not knowing" caused me to spiral. So once again, calling like crazy spending 100s of dollars a week for the past couple months. The psychics all have something different to say, timing has not even once panned out. At the end of the day, when I stop calling in general, and just listen to my inner guidance, let go, control what I can and STOP trying to control what I can't, sit in the uncertainty, I connect to my own intuition. That's when I feel I get "messages." Time will tell and I have gotten better at getting information straight from the horse's mouth by confronting situations and people head on.
I am feeling shame that I have relapsed and slipped into so much debt AGAIN, but this stint was much shorter and I'm proud of that. I am pulling myself together much more quickly this time. I am going to let time unfold. My own inner guidance has served me best and if I shut up the spiraling in my mind and LISTEN, I'm going to get as much as I need to know at this moment in time. And finally, I have a little faith that I will be ok.
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I’m very sorry about your job, I was in the same space years ago, had a stable relationship but my career was lacking, I was calling about 10 psychics a day, it was draining but it gave me hope! Even when I first talked to Yona, I was jobless, she saw me buying a home, of course I didn’t believe her! Who would if they don’t even have a job, she predicted my current stable job but in between I had a job but were not stable, I got my home 18 months after the first reading! Who would have thought. My point is that it will get better.
I feel badly because I had a horrible addiction for 10 years and spent 10s of thousands of dollars. I finally stop calling. I went bankrupt. Eventually, I just decided to let go and listen to my inner voice. I was calling about a POI at the time and he did return as predicted but never for good and married someone else. They all said he was unhappy with this woman and he told me so too, but he married her anyway even when most psychics assured me he wouldn't. He's one of 2 POIs I called about over 10 years.
Once I decided that I was content with what I had, lived more in gratitude and was in acceptance, I didn't even feel the urge to call. I can't say "happy" because that's been a fleeting feeling, but content and in acceptance of what I cannot control. I changed my thinking. I started using that money I was wasting on psychics to do cool things I wanted to try. And I felt better. My inner voice spoke loud and clear. I am in a good relationship now for 3 years and like they say, just comes when you're not so anxious about it. I was on a dating app but was very non-chalant and kept it fun and remained content if nothing came of it and I remained single. And I never needed to call about him because HE told me and SHOWED me how he felt about me.
Well, years after not calling, I have "relapsed" due to a job situation and career change and the anxiety of "not knowing" caused me to spiral. So once again, calling like crazy spending 100s of dollars a week for the past couple months. The psychics all have something different to say, timing has not even once panned out. At the end of the day, when I stop calling in general, and just listen to my inner guidance, let go, control what I can and STOP trying to control what I can't, sit in the uncertainty, I connect to my own intuition. That's when I feel I get "messages." Time will tell and I have gotten better at getting information straight from the horse's mouth by confronting situations and people head on.
I am feeling shame that I have relapsed and slipped into so much debt AGAIN, but this stint was much shorter and I'm proud of that. I am pulling myself together much more quickly this time. I am going to let time unfold. My own inner guidance has served me best and if I shut up the spiraling in my mind and LISTEN, I'm going to get as much as I need to know at this moment in time. And finally, I have a little faith that I will be ok.
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Thank you for responding and sharing that. It's the timing that is hard to nail down. And which job. And that's where I'm confusing myself and they are confusing me! And I am so burnt out from the job search so it's like a way to relieve some of that exhaustion to call them but I am even more exhausted now Lol. They all keep telling me these 2 major companies will be calling me for an interview. I did pass first levels of screening. But they predict differently who it will work out with and of course there's a third one in the mix now that no one saw coming. And it may be NONE of these jobs that work out! Or the one no one saw coming! But I'm working on contracts and I have to sign a fall contract like right now to ensure some income but that will interfere with the full time job situation. So the timing is a gigantic mess which is why I am so anxious I think.
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I’m addicted to psychic reading since beginning of 2017 after a real bad breakup, went to in person online and phone, crazy about it! I don’t even remember how much I spend in this kind of things, I’ve try all popular ones even not popular ones when I’m broke! Waiting my next paycheck to come in with my heart broken just wanted to ask something that i can’t control , I don’t know and only the future will tell...
Meet a new bf in the middle of 2017... and that one even worst lol.... so got into psychic reading even more... and worst and crazy... we broke up couple of times and in between with tonsssss of problems! I can spend my whole check in 1 day talking to different psychics and still feeling like shit, with the waiting process of the prediction... and difference in prediction... oh man.... that’s how my anxiety gets worst too.
I want to say that I’m psychic reading free for 5 months now =]]]] I completely broke up with the toxic ex in dec 2018, suffer for 4 whole months with lots of reading and depression, I ask god to help me walk out from him please... god send me someone new to get over him, and teach me I should love myself and I deserve better.
The reason we keep asking psychic about what will happen between a relationship is because we don’t have confidence in ourselves, we don’t love ourselves, if we have enough of self love, we do not need to wonder and chase for anyone. They will show you enough love that make u have no questions about if they love you or not, the right person will make you feel right. If someone leaves you, let them go! Finding yourself back is the best feeling in the world, and continue to build the best of you, is okay to talk to psychic, but the future is in your hand, change your mindset. Now I invest my money on myself , treat myself and my love ones, how good is that~
Good luck <3
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your last paragraph is what everyone needs on the group. thank you for sharing. i was just about to try get a reading but realised I need a break and probably to stop all together. thanks for sharing
I’m addicted to psychic reading since beginning of 2017 after a real bad breakup, went to in person online and phone, crazy about it! I don’t even remember how much I spend in this kind of things, I’ve try all popular ones even not popular ones when I’m broke! Waiting my next paycheck to come in with my heart broken just wanted to ask something that i can’t control , I don’t know and only the future will tell...
Meet a new bf in the middle of 2017... and that one even worst lol.... so got into psychic reading even more... and worst and crazy... we broke up couple of times and in between with tonsssss of problems! I can spend my whole check in 1 day talking to different psychics and still feeling like shit, with the waiting process of the prediction... and difference in prediction... oh man.... that’s how my anxiety gets worst too.
I want to say that I’m psychic reading free for 5 months now =]]]] I completely broke up with the toxic ex in dec 2018, suffer for 4 whole months with lots of reading and depression, I ask god to help me walk out from him please... god send me someone new to get over him, and teach me I should love myself and I deserve better.
The reason we keep asking psychic about what will happen between a relationship is because we don’t have confidence in ourselves, we don’t love ourselves, if we have enough of self love, we do not need to wonder and chase for anyone. They will show you enough love that make u have no questions about if they love you or not, the right person will make you feel right. If someone leaves you, let them go! Finding yourself back is the best feeling in the world, and continue to build the best of you, is okay to talk to psychic, but the future is in your hand, change your mindset. Now I invest my money on myself , treat myself and my love ones, how good is that~
Good luck <3
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Today will be day 1 for me of not calling. I've been calling at least once a day for the last few weeks because it's gotten bad and I'm sure, yesterday alone, I spent over $500.
There is nothing to tell me now---none of the predictions are timed for September anyway. I don't need any new information. I know how I am proceeding with my life and that I just have to sit in my anxiety and discomfort and focus on gym, my diet, and work. If anyone can help support me through this week, I'd appreciate if you'd message me. Many of you know the place I'm in and how hard it is to stop.
Thanks in advance.
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Totally! I hope everyone will find their wroth =]]]
your last paragraph is what everyone needs on the group. thank you for sharing. i was just about to try get a reading but realised I need a break and probably to stop all together. thanks for sharing
I’m addicted to psychic reading since beginning of 2017 after a real bad breakup, went to in person online and phone, crazy about it! I don’t even remember how much I spend in this kind of things, I’ve try all popular ones even not popular ones when I’m broke! Waiting my next paycheck to come in with my heart broken just wanted to ask something that i can’t control , I don’t know and only the future will tell...
Meet a new bf in the middle of 2017... and that one even worst lol.... so got into psychic reading even more... and worst and crazy... we broke up couple of times and in between with tonsssss of problems! I can spend my whole check in 1 day talking to different psychics and still feeling like shit, with the waiting process of the prediction... and difference in prediction... oh man.... that’s how my anxiety gets worst too.
I want to say that I’m psychic reading free for 5 months now =]]]] I completely broke up with the toxic ex in dec 2018, suffer for 4 whole months with lots of reading and depression, I ask god to help me walk out from him please... god send me someone new to get over him, and teach me I should love myself and I deserve better.
The reason we keep asking psychic about what will happen between a relationship is because we don’t have confidence in ourselves, we don’t love ourselves, if we have enough of self love, we do not need to wonder and chase for anyone. They will show you enough love that make u have no questions about if they love you or not, the right person will make you feel right. If someone leaves you, let them go! Finding yourself back is the best feeling in the world, and continue to build the best of you, is okay to talk to psychic, but the future is in your hand, change your mindset. Now I invest my money on myself , treat myself and my love ones, how good is that~
Good luck <3
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I have been trying the Lanie Stevens things also as well as other youtube videos. No contact yet, but the preds from the psychics are for a few weeks from now anyway
I also bought some angel cards, did a honey jar, candle - mantras LOL
I dont have good distress tolerance because of Ptsd but im trying. I have a therapist, although im not sure im going to divulge my psychic addiction. embarrassing.
I'm trying to stay busy, too so i dont have time to call.
Does anyone know of an online chat room for spiritual people or LOA folks? It would be neat to be around others and exchange support , prayers etc?
I dont go to traditional church
Anna
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This is how it went for me:
Went from calling multiple readers a day
To once a day
To once a week
To watching YouTube videos
To calling YouTube readers once a mnth or so
To completely relying on YouTube videos and calling almost no one.
Because I realized YouTube readers were as accurate as the readers I had paid to read for me. Once that realization sinks in, u will think twice before paying for predictions that have the same success rate as what u get from a YouTube reader.
Now I can’t remember the last time I paid for a reading though I watch YouTube readers everyday!
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What readers have you gone to on YouTube? Or what ones do you find accurate
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What readers have you gone to on YouTube? Or what ones do you find accurate
I watch & have had a personal reading from queen of cups tarot. And like all the good ones, she nailed the present but not much when it came to prediction. Plus when she added the free will bit, that pissed me off. I watch many others but she stood out.
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I am almost soley using fiverr now for readings or watching youtube videos or doing meditations (LOA)
I feel like taking it into my own hands is better and WAY less expensive
I also went for an energy healing for myself and got crystals to even out my obviously out of balance chakras that have alot of fear.
I have succumbed to calling keen maybe 3 x this week which is better than 13.
the money spent is awful and i feel sad about what ive spent
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Hi,
Know the feeling this crazy addiction has because I have it. What has helped me is to pray for strength and then let go. Each time temptation comes repeat your prayer for strength. Calls to a psychic just increase the anxiety and keep the person of interest in the forefront of your mind. If it were a healthy relationship would not need to call anyone because that person of interest would be showing and telling you all the things you need to hear and see. Anyway if they are meant to be in your life they will be no matter what.
Told myself last night "How many questions can you ask a psychic??? Really ? Try to stay busy with work, tasks around house if not working a minimum of 3 a day. So I decided no more calls or I will be in the poor house. You can't keep beating a dead dog asking the same questions over and over . That is an addiction.
So reading this forum helps immensely. Bought the books "Psychic Junkie" by Sarah Lassez, sad but true tale of her addiction and triumph over it, really a good read, funny too! Also, recommend "Ghosted and Bread Crumbed...by Dr.Marni Feuerman tells about emotionally unavailable men and one more "Letting Go" by Dr. Zev Wanderer and Tracy Cabot. There is strength in UNITY. We can be set free.
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I had this addiction since August 2019, went into negative balance, max out cards and so on
The only way to cure this addiction which worked for me is 3 ways
1) Think that whatever you want is happening but imagine you are creating an obstacle in the energy to go-ahead and manifest because when psychics tell you the timeframe and outcome it becomes expected and outcome pushes further and may prevent it from happening
2) I used to message 5-6 Psychics in a day from work in the washroom, lunch in the evening, had so much anxiety if someone says the outcome not wanted to hear I used to call others till I get to hear what I want and after a while I feel an urge to message someone again, the only way it can be stopped is reducing frequency of messaging them from 5 I went to 3, 2 and 1 per day followed by 1 in 2 days till I got controlled and stopped
3) Delete app if you calling from the phone
Been there done that
Hope it helps !!