Venus (CP): Overall the most accurate but a couple things I can’t verify (yet). Stated contact would be over a month away and I read with her at end of August right when I put together that I thought he was ghosting me. She said he was focused on other things (he confirmed this) and that there was a 3rd party involved (he also confirmed that since we had last spoke he started seeing someone). She said this woman was from his past and that our reconnection would be short lived (both I have yet to confirm if true).
Coming back to update on this one. Still don’t know if the 3rd party was someone from his past. But it appears that she was right that it would be short lived. Also I guess Sincerity and Uli were right in a way in saying it was kind of up to me what direction I wanted to go with it. Without getting into too much detail I basically realized that I was definitely not being treated as a priority with this guy and in sticking with my new behavior of rejecting what I don’t want to make way for what I do, I called him out on that and said look, I know I’m not a priority here and I don’t think I can just be in the background. He responded a few days later basically saying I was right and he didn’t have it in him to be committed to me the way I needed / wanted. We haven’t had any communication since and I sort of said goodbye and wished him well but also said I was sad the connection ended and I would be open to reconnecting in the future if the dynamics changed.
Maybe that will happen… maybe we’ll reconnect as friends down the line .. or maybe one of the other predictions from someone else will come into play and we will eventually work around to getting into a committed relationship. But for now, I think Venus was right about it being a short reconnection.
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