I agree that we hear what we want to hear even when IRL it's totally different. I used to believe that there was something more because of the "connection we had". Guess what? Trust you own lying eyes and ears--if someone wants to be with you. They will be with you. It's not complicated. And if it is at that time, walk away. Get back to you life. What is meant for you will not pass you by.
I don’t think it’s the fault of readers!
Tarot is a spirit, just like a spirit board. It plays with our minds, telling us what we want to hear, and then nothing happens.