The Psychic Reviews
Relationship Psychology Discussions => My Story => Topic started by: LiveLaughLove on August 12, 2011, 07:24:56 PM
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Hi All,
I've been following this discussion board since about April or May and alot of the stories that are told are inspiring..but sometimes disappointing when predictions come to pass for others. No I'm not bitter but I've been contacting psychics from Feb (about) and every one I've spoken too (on Keen mostly) have said I was going to hear from my ex every month...Since Feb, I hear that my ex should had contacted me in April,May,June,July and now Aug.
This week,I contacted 1 psychic on CP, one on Contact Psychics (Raven Star) and both said I will hear from my ex this Fall...Sept/Oct. I'm just so tired of being told this stuff and nothing happens. I know that timelines need to be taken with a grain of salt but it pisses me off that everyone elses predictions come true and mine never do. All that I can think of that explains it is either I have bad luck, Im cursed( my mom hates when I say that but alot of stuff NEVER goes my way now matter how much time and effort I put into it) or he's not coming back and I'm being lied too. I've been told twice that my ex won't be coming back which is depressing but when I compare what others say, me being told he is coming back outweighs the two who said he isn't. Catiana (sp) from Ellen's group predicted in June that in Aug I will hear from my ex...so we'll see...a few more wks left. I decided that I am going to call one more; Julia from CP (based on a few recommendations from a thread) and that's it. If by Sept my ex hasn't even CONTACTED me, then I decided Im going to give up and we obviously aren't meant to be together. I believe we all have more than one soul mate and I feel my ex is definitely one of mine..but maybe not the one I'm suppose to be..which is depressing because I want so much for him to be it. I never felt this way about anybody I've dated or been in a relationship with so this whole situation is devastating..makes me not want to fall in love again.
Fortunately (kinda), I'm dating someone now and he seems like he definitely sees something serious coming out of this (last night he invited me to a wedding in Oct in TN..he'd buy my ticket and all that. We live in Cali). The only thing about him is our dating situation has been shaky because there are some things I don't care for in what he does..but he has gotten better so I figured I'd just see where it goes. I would hate to be in a situation with this guy and my ex comes back but at that time I might not want him anymore. Btw, not ONE psychic predicted that I'd meet him...not even the ones who said "no your ex isn't coming back". I asked them "then when is someone going to come in my life even if I just date;not a relationship" and they both say basically next year.
Anyway, I just wanted to share my mini story..and how I'm feeling. I hope things work out for everyone else...and eventually me too...
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I don't think you have bad luck, it just maybe that your particular situation is more complicated than other peoples. The predictions that the psychics made for me have not come to pass either. I mainly read with PS but I've also read with a few from Keen (none from Keen were very good). From what I read of other people's posts, those that have had predictions come true, the predictions were of small things like getting a text message or a phone call, I don't think I have seen one post saying that the big prediction came true. There is no guarantee that what the psychics have told you is the truth, especially if you've gotten different stories from them. I don't think you should sit atound waiting for ur ex,first because you don't want to give him that much power and second because you don't know for certain whether what they are saying is true. You don't want to thRow away a good possibility, I speak from experience.
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Mine is pretty complicated too and while I've had contact timelines come to pass, "the big one" has not. He is still attached to me in little ways, won't let me go completely but sure doesn't give me much to hold on to these days. Completely has me freaked out about a comment he made via email an hour ago. Some days I wish someone else would come into my life and get me off this damn roller coaster! Guy at work seems mildly interested but I don't want to initiate anything.
Anyway, you are not the only one. <hugs>
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Vancyt:Well I haven't even had small predictions come to pass. All my predictions that have been made is that he will contact me in this specific time and we'd be together later on...still haven't heard from him..so none of my predictions have come to pass.
Maybe mine is more complicated than others which still sucks but oh well I guess.
As far as sitting and waiting for my ex, I'm not as I'm dating someone..I don't feel that it will be long term but at least I'm out there and being kind of distracted from the situation from my ex...Anyway though, I plan on giving up on us after Oct when the last prediction is suppose to happen...I'm just hurting myself right now.
SunandMoon:Thanks :) Hugs back!
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At least you are putting yourself out there! I am still petrified to. I don't want to drag someone else into my hurt world at the moment. I'd sure like a good friend though, I really miss that.
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I know how you feel SunandMoon..I felt like that too...What made me want to date others and this is selfish but I wanted to have a distraction from my ex and looking for someone to replace him..but all I found out is there is nobody that will replace him..except for my coworker who I have a great connection with but that's another story! lol
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I know how you guys feel..I mourned the loss of my ex for 6 years. In that 6 years he would contact me every month or so..usually drunk. Even if he wasn't drunk..he was still bitter on the phone towards me. Well, in January I finally decided that I truly had to let him go from my heart. I just accepted that he was never going to come back and even if he did..I didn't want him anyways cause I knew I deserved better. (There's a love out there for you who will never abandon you!!) I completely ignored him for 8 months. Well, anyways, NOW he wants to come back into my life over 6 years later. So it's true that if you let them go they will come back if it's true love. But, like I said I don't want him anymore. There's someone out there for you that will make you so happy and grateful that you DIDN'T end up with your ex. Warm hugs from my heart to all of yours!
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Mine is not bitter towards me though. In his only drunken state that I saw, he told me he loved me, missed me and wanted to make things better. If he was mean and bitter I'd sure give up on him. But knowing he loves me and is too afraid to do anything about it doesn't make it that much better - end result is the same - we're both alone.
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Thanks Cosmo :)!!
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I just read your story sunandmoon..I can see why it's hard with your love. Not to mention confusing for you. I can't remember what psychic I was talking to(i think dezi), but I was telling her about my ex and how I cut the cord and now he wants to come back. She told me that when you remove your energy it creates some sort of vacuum and your ex can't feel you anymore and it kind of sucks them back in. They panic once they know that you're done with it. Because, for me at least, I know my ex wanted me to be there if he decided he wanted to be with me. Idk, it worked for me..but your situation is different. I hope your love comes around.
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Cosmo I agree with you because I've been in that situation before. Before I met my ex, I was dealing with this one guy and we fell out because he was being a a-hole so I cut it off. The day after I cut him off, I met my then boyfriend and we were together ever since. The guy I was dealing with contacted me three months later saying he was sorry and all that...I forgave him but kept on with my relationship. Even after me and my ex broke up, I didn't deal with the other guy and I swear every month like clockwork he contacts me to say Hi and he was thinking about me and wanted to see how I was doing..lol!! Funny how that goes! He didn't care when I was trying to have patience with him and trying to work things out but now that I give him no time of day, he wants to "check up on me".
But it's hard to just let go sometimes..I know for me it is with my ex....but Im starting to do that right now...hopefully I can keep it up!!
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livelaughlove, you totally can do it! I know it's hard to let go...it took me 6 YEARS haha from when I was 17 to 23 I was devastated. I also got scammed and paid for love spells when I was young (i was desperate). My ex and I dated for 4 years..we were inseparable. It's like a death when someone leaves who was super close to you. So I get it! I just really kept telling myself that he wasn't coming back and I finally accepted that. Every time I thought of him would come into my head I would just push it out of my mind. It felt good to feel powerful again..and to know that the ball is in my court now. lol. It'll be interesting to see if your ex comes back after this. I truly believe that the majority of the people on here will have their ex's come back into their lives eventually because we wouldn't be calling psychics if there wasn't a strong soul connection.
sunandmoon, I also agree with you! It sounds like you have surrendered and will let whatever comes come..and I'm sure he will come back at some point. The 'when' is the tricky part
Just curious...do either of you have dreams about your ex's?
I'll be keeping both of you in my prayers <3
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OMG! Cosmo I feel you!! I purchased love spells myself and was scammed...I even bought some books to do my own spells and nothing ever worked...We weren't together for that long but we had a STRONG connection from day one and I never felt that way towards ANYBODY I dated or been in a relationship with so I knew it was something special you know? Like you said, if it wasn't something special and a soul connection (from my opinion); I wouldn't waste my money on psychics. (I say I'm wasting my money because nothing has come to pass...yet)
I use to have dreams about my ex right after we broke up. It was like a story line. The first dream was me reaching out to him and trying to talk to him and he wasn't having it. He said he'd call me back and I waited by the phone for his call...&he didn't call THEN next dream (maybe a month later) it was him calling me back and his sister in the background who I never met btw, saying Joe, work out things with her. Forget this other chick your with,she's nobody. Next dream I had ( a couple months later) was him telling me how much he missed me and wanting to be with me..and last dream I had (probably in beg of July) I was pregnant and I went into labor when I was out and about shopping so whoever I was with called the ambulance and once I got to the hospital my mom came in my room and I asked her "where's Joe?" because he was the baby's father..which wasn't revealed in the dream until I asked my mom about him. Very weird!! I always felt like my dreams meant something as far as how things were going to come about but maybe,maybe not..Those dream books say dreams about ex's are about other stuff, not what's gonna happen with them..alot having to do with the person in your life at the moment&how your ex effects the relationship but when I was having those dreams, there was nobody so I was confused!
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Hi Cosmo, I have surrendered best I can but I know I have not let him go completely. I am still not "me" and maybe I need to let go more to get myself back. I am much better than last year though. This whole episode has knocked me flat on my butt and cost me a small fortune between work, psychics and therapy sessions. And now I am asking others for help around the house which I absolutely hate doing. SM keeps offering but he never comes through, and I don't want to be the yet another person in his life making demands on him so I let it slide. I know if we are back together he'll drive me nuts with all he does - and this time I'll accept it much better.
Dreams? Are you kidding? I used to sleep 5 hrs a night at best and I did it all at once. This of course has killed my sleep so I do stay in bed longer trying to get those 5 now sporadic hours. But I dream. OMG do I dream. They go in spurts now and somethings I "ask" to be shown things. Sometimes I find they kick in again if I sleep in the sunroom. I have had prophetic dreams about him and us and I have had dreams so vivid I swore it was real (and cried when I woke up to discover it wasn't). I can lie down up to 12 hours a day now in the hopes I will dream. I am more addicted to dreams than psychics. But I am rarely tired at work anymore. :)
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Cosmo11, I am a bit confused. Did you say that your ex did come back to you? Was this predicted? And are the two of you together now?
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LLL, write down the key points in your dreams, colors, objects, feelings (fear, anger, frustration, happiness). That's what's most important. I don't own a dream book but I look things up online.
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SunandMoon: Yea I will,good idea!
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Some of the dream books are nuts. I found this in one last year: To see a horse in human flesh, descending on a hammock through the air, and as it nears your house is metamorphosed into a man, and he approaches your door and throws something at you which seems to be rubber but turns into great bees, denotes miscarriage of hopes and useless endeavors to regain lost valuables.
Really?!
The first psychic I ever called tried to scam me. I actually sent her $70 for stuff she was to send me that I never got. After a few calls I had started to get suspicious and found the identical scam on the net. She when she had me try to do the money cleansing thing I just went along with her and told her no way when she wanted me to send it to her to cleanse. She asked me if either of us had a black, white or red car (ok how common are those colors?) She said one of us was destined to be in a horrific accident that night if I didn't listen to her and it would be all my fault. We were both going out that night and it was raining so I was a little freaked out but I held firm. I also reported her to PS and they refunded most of my $$ and said they had other complaints.
I also had a Keen psychic say she'd do some sort of spell for me. This was NYE. She had me drink two glasses of water and say something and then she was going to email me through Keen and tell me how much the spell or whatever would cost. Took her 10 hours to get back to me and she wanted $250!! No thanks, especially when her profile also said she'd tell people how to do their own.
I lost 14 lbs in one month, 6 in one week. Don't get me wrong, I was trying to lose about that but a pound a day was a little much! I was so dehydrated I couldn't run anymore. I'd get home at night and maybe at 10pm I'd think wow, I don't think I've peed all day. I'd get on the scale at night and see I had lost weight. I lost it so quick my skin was all wrinkled. It wasn't the lowest I'd ever been but it dropped so quick and stayed off most of the year no matter what I ate (when I had the appetite). Sorry you regained so much - that stinks! And if you were like me, the motivation to get out there and work it off probably wasn't there either. I'm still dealing with motivational issues in all aspects of my life.
I've had NO problem moving on in the past EVER. Kills me I can't get this damn guy out of my head, even when I think I have. Silly man!
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Cosmo: Same page for sure! I spent probably 800 total on two spells...then those books. I was desperate to try anything! I prayed and begged God to bring him back, I meditated...did it all! The only thing I didn't do was beg my ex to take me back lol. I wanted to walk away with a little dignity I guess :-\ Maybe I should had just done it and he shot me down it'd be easier to move on as I wouldn't be able to face him again...
Anyway! Those dream books are horrible! I also felt though that having a dream about a ex means something...and it was funny because when I had the dreams I wasn't going to bed thinking about him and you know sometimes when your thinking of something before you go to bed,you dream about it...so that made me feel that those dreams had to be real!
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One of the internet sites or apps on my phone (I can't recall which one it is) that sends me my horoscopes has a link to a the California Astrology Association. They have spells for EVERYTHING, and they state a money back guarantee. I did some poking around online and they seem to have a decent reputation, those who claim that the spell did not work did get their money back, and they have also been around for a long time. I never purchased anything because I had already spent so much time and money on psychics that I could not bring myself to spend any more. If anyone wants to try it let me know what the results are, I may consider purchasing one too.
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! The only thing I didn't do was beg my ex to take me back lol. I wanted to walk away with a little dignity I guess :-\ Maybe I should had just done it and he shot me down it'd be easier to move on as I wouldn't be able to face him again...
You never know..... I've told mine (in the past) "if you don't tell me it's over, I will continue to believe". And he won't say a word. The most he ever said way back in the beginning was that I needed to do what was best for me, but that's something we said to each other during the r/s anyway. I don't even care about dignity at this point, I just want to know. I fear if I try to pin him down these days (his life is horribly chaotic at the moment) he will feel trapped and still not talk and I'll have lost what little ground I had - and boy to I mean little.
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Yea your right sunandmoon...but it's been such a long time now...a part of me wonders if im just kidding myself right now. He's in a relationship and living with the girl and even though it started out as a rebound girl and him needing a roommate asap and that's how they got in a relationship, I wonder if things have developed so well that he's in love with her and Im no longer a thought..even though the psychics say he still thinks of me,cares about me etc...I dont know.
I'd love to ask him that and see what he says BUT the last two times I reached out to him after we stopped communicating in Jan, (I said happy bday and asked how he was) he ignored me. that hurt so much because that's not his character...but guess now it is. I don't know why he did that...is it cuz he doesn't wanna talk or hear from me..or is it to painful to talk to me and he knows that him being in a realtionship means that nothin will happen btwn us so he feels no pt in saying anything. So if I do ask him that, he might ignore me but how do I know that's his answer or if he's just like "omg leave me alone" and ignores me because of that....it's been 8 months and idk if he'll ever come back :(
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Hey Guys! Glad to see more activities on this board. I guess most of us are tired of timelines passing and going or just stop reading with any new readers till we see actually progress so we don't post as much anymore. I think it's healthier to stop obsessing with these exs and just go on with our lives as if they are not coming back, regardless of what they say. Sometimes we have to stand back and look at the facts and trust our own intuitions. For me, it's been four months...and we've had friendly contacts but nothing more and nothing less. Last saw him in June and that's about it. My first batch of CPs and Ellen and her crew has came and gone. Now my second batch's timelines and predictions are coming up by the end of this month leading into September. Timelines come and go but their predictions ie. he still cares for you, will tell you he loves you etc. NEVER happened. Dawn from CP saw the break up coming but she also stated that it's only temporary. How temporary though, she cannot answer. London and Abrielle got the timing of me finding a job correct but was 100% wrong in the relationship part.
This month, I have predictions from Uli, Raissa, Eden, Brendalynn, Marceea, Sherrie coming to pass and these have the top accuracy from CPs and also from those who have read with them on this forum. If i don't hear ANY wind of change in my situation, well then....i don't know anymore. lol I have read with Julia back in June and she too gave me an outline till October of how our relationship will unfold again. The only thing she got right so far was that i will 'see' him in a couple days which was true (had my graduation) but then she predicted 'sweet' energy during last week of July and sees me being there at his birthday with his family in first week of August and that NEVER happened. So i don't have much hopes for her other predictions.
This my friends, is my second psychic rampage so i was able to bounce back fairly quickly (although the damage to the wallet is still just as bad). I was with Keen the first round and NOTHING ever came true lol. Turns out that one was cheating on his girlfriend with me while she was away on business. And these Keens people kept feeding me crap. I know it's hard to cut this off and want to know the unknown so i suggest, you read with the top top readers and leave it at that. I mean, if the top reader's predictions DON'T come to pass as well as ALL the ones you trusted didn't come to past, don't waste anymore of your energy, resources and feelings onto this guy. If it's meant to be yours, eventually it will find the way back no matter what. If it's not yours, take it as a lesson, smile at the times you had, and keep on walking friends.
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Also if he is suppose to contact me eventually and I contact him before he's suppose to contact me..will it move the predictions back?
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LLL, just a thought, are you reading with psychics that do astrology? I was in the past as I didn't pay much attention to what they used and saw a definite pattern to things. Now I tend towards no tools psychics, but I do love Verbena as she does higher self readings but she is not listed as no tools.
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Sunandmoon: No I actually broke up with him. Alot was going on with me (I was graduating from college,commuting back and forth for my last year (about a 45 min drive with traffic) and working 30 hours a wk)..I had alot on my plate and I didn't feel like we were communicating that well and I felt that he should had helped with the stress I was under especially with school and make things easier on me until my finals were over but he was being selfish in my opinion by not saying "hey, she's going through it..let me just be there for her and make our relationship easy for the time being" A week after we broke up he was already dating this other girl and 6 wks later he was moving in with her....It's all my fault, I should had just dealt with it instead of walking away I guess..
I normally talk to ppl who use no tools except Julia on CP. She uses astrology..well knowingly..the other advisors might had used astrology esp since they ask for our bdays....Regardless though, none of the predictions for just contact have happened since Feb when I started calling psychics..which is another reason that makes me think maybe I'm just kidding myself and hoping for something that isn't going to happen.
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Well based on what you said coco I shouldn't expect anything from my ex on my birthday. This is so depressing...time to face reality now I guess.
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Yea I know :(. I try and think maybe he is scared or hurt and why he ignores me...and maybe he's not happy in this relationship like I'm assuming he is...but then again maybe he is. I'm thinking maybe I should just listen to the 3 ppl who said he's not coming back...:-/
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LLL, based on experience unless you two had casual communications here and there from when you guys broke up i would say yes he will send you a msg of some sort to let you know he didn't forget your birthday. But after reading your story and situation...unless he's drunk and away from that girl, the chance of him contacting you is pretty slim. Julia said i would actually celebrate HIS birthday with him back in mid June and i was like 'NO WAY' and i think i was more right that any CPs i read with LOL. I find that if you let go of that hope, you will feel a LOT lighter as a person instead of walking around with that heavy energy. I was like that a couple months ago and you can read all my posts from the beginning (when we weren't broken up) to now. I would like mine to crawl back so i can do the kicking this time ;)
Start falling in love with yourself instead and invest your resources, feelings and energy in YOU. After all, you ALWAYS will get a positive return when you invest in yourself ;) So go out and have fun! Keep yourself busy! Dress prettily everyday and smile, listen to happy upbeat tunes and take a look at the world around you and then you'll have a moment like me 'I can do whatever i want and sky is the limit'. Living better is the best revenge.....plus when you have move on, that's when they usually decides to pop up and see how things are going and to remind you that they are still in your life -_-.
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You're right, I don't think he's coming back.
I was keeping busy, I always focus on myself etc....but if thats all I'd have to do to move on, I would have been moved on lol seriously though. It's more to it than that with this person but guess I need to stop hoping for him to come back and leave everything alone.
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I will comment on the letting go part. I've been obsessed/depressed/and any other type of essed you can think of for some time now. I was at home feeling sorry for myself and put in season 2 of Dawsons Creak. I heard Dawson speak those same wise words, if you want someone back, let them go. I thought about and it started to make sense, so I decided to let him go, in my heart wish him the best and just let him go.
A few days later I hear from him again wanting to take me out for my birthday. Unfortunately I give in too easily and then we are right back where we started from :(
So depending on your situation, and what type of outcome you are looking for, letting and then standing your ground may work.
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I know it's hard and it sucks. I admit, at times i still have that crappy feeling inside when i'm all alone. My mind starts wondering off again and i try to push those thoughts away. Fake it till you make it right? With every ending comes a new beginning. I started looking at things differently and hey, if you really look at it, either you break up or they die right? One day they will all go and with that thought in mind, it was better to have had than to not at all and i cherished what we had together but there's a time when you need to accept that that chapter has written itself and it's done. BUT, that doesn't mean there might not be a continuation. That continuation itself however, may not be in your next chapter but might be a couple pages down ahead you'll never know.
LLL, i know it supper sucks and you tried to reach out but if you don't hear from him, that's plain rude and childish and he's not worth it. For me, i reached out and i got a response BUT it was all there is, a friendly response. Somehow it made me realize that that's all that was left of us. I have to accept that whether i like it or not. If mine comes back tomorrow and says he wants to get back together with me, I would tell him I need to think about it because i don't know if i want to open up myself to a person who once hurt me so deeply. I know you should think about that too. If he comes back after all the shit that's had happened and this moving in with another girl so easily, would you take him back like that?
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I will add my personal experience to cocoapple’s advice. Before I met this guy that I am in love with now, I had been in plenty of unhealthy/bad relationships. The one who really left me bitter and jaded about love was my boyfriend from high school who I was with for eight years. During the course of those 8 years there were several really bad break-ups, and then came the I’m sorry and we would end up back together. I guess it all finally ended when I realized that 1. He was not going to change. 2. Even if he did, the resentment, anger and lack of trust that I had for him were not going to let us have the happy ending I really wanted. My advice to you would be to really sit down and think, after everything he has put you through, do you still want HIM back, or do you just want the idea of him? From what you’ve said in your posts he has not been very nice to you lately and had shown you a side of him that you may not want anymore.
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Well I talked to my ex and he said he's moved on...so all the money I spent has been a waste. Never talking to a psychic again. Thanks for those who had been involved in this with me...but its time for me to say so long. What's crazy is I told these ppl I was dating someone and they all said he's just a distraction my ex is coming back. Smh
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I jst wanted to know what was gonna happen. I was tired of waiting and waiting and waiting for him to contact me and I wanted closure. He didn't say he'll never talk to me again or we wouldn't get together one day but he didn't not say it either..basically said our relationship was great but I've moved on. I know youll find someone special because you are. take care aka we probably won't be together again...oh well I guess.. I tried.
Now im going to go leave feedback on the 2 advisors I used on Keen who said we were going to get back together
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LLL,
If your guy is involved with someone else at the moment, it seems rational for him to say that to you in light of your phone call. What guy wants to admit he's not with the right girl after all of his efforts? Especially to the girl who broke up with him? (You did break things off with him, right? Did I read that somewhere?) He didn't say you wouldn't ever be together again, and if he was truly gone, he would have said his forever goodbyes. That was his chance, he didn't take it and left the door open, even if just a crack. If he is a normal guy, he'll think it over and in the meantime let you stew for awhile. Just my opinion...
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Elaan:
Youre right, I didn't think of that way....him admitting that to me probably wouldn't had happened...I don't know any guy who admits that much info lol. Men and their pride...espcially Taurus men lol &yes I did break up with him which I think he was hurt over in as much as he went out and found a rebound chick to replace me lol...and that's understandable (the hurt part)
I know it's still a possibility but Im going to just act as if it's not..so I don't keep my hopes up still you know.
I guess I felt like it was forever because at the end he was like "take care"...that's not a bad thing but to me it's like "holla! see ya!" But then again, I told him that twice before when I ended things (this last time and a time before) so could be using it against me...because saying that does hurt when you really care about someone...Its like "dang he/she doesn't even want to talk to me anymore. They're just brushing me off"..Idk I just try not to think to much into it.
Thanks for that Elaan :)
I just decided to focus on the guy I'm dating now and building something with us...
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LLL
I would tend to agree with Elaan. You just don't know what's going to happen. I'm sure you gave him a lot to think about and my guess is he might not have been expecting it (you coming forward).
Ugh!!
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True true. I'm in the mind frame of not even thinking about it right now. It's like if you can't have him, you don't want anybody else too. Definitely 1 of the hardest things I've ever had to deal with.
I'm going to Vegas in a week so I'm going to focus on the sun, the yummy guys and all the partying I"m going to be doing lol. Hopefully I'll come back without a care in the world :)
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LLL,
lol...my guy always said the same thing when he would be mad at me! Like, "you'd better straighten up, because I'm breaking up with you here....hello...I'm giving you the kiss off...you may commence kissing my ass now." LOL...I don't think that means anything but what you said. It was a jab at you for saying that to him. MEN!!!
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lol! Yea probably! UGH!
I just know some days I'm going to have some good days and some days I'm going to have some bad days...I'm going to just try to have good days...hopefully this dude I'm kinda dating will help with that...we were kinda shaky in the beginning and why we are still just dating but I had a nice talk with him today so hopefully he straightens up!
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So I get the CP newsletter every morning with my horoscope and articles and sometimes I"ll look at the title and decide if I want to read it or not. Today's title was interesting so I opened the email and saw they also had a article regarding Being a Rebound.
I read through it and all I kept thinking was that the girl my ex is with is just that, A REBOUND! Which I already knew of course but reading the article just validated my feelings. It said getting with a man who's emotional unavailable, not over his previous relationship and having to "prove" yourself to a man who's not over his previous relationship and is just lonely puts you in the situation of a rebound. Ummmm hello! That is why my ex got with this girl to begin with! He wanted to replace me and was lonely...and I quote from what he told me while in this relationship in Jan/Feb " I'm not over you"....why this girl didn't see this is beyond me...
Unfortunately like I stated he said he's moved on...so maybe for him this rebound chick worked out for him? Who knows...but at the end of the day, she was a rebound and was being used to replace me being gone....regardless though I still miss him and wish he'd realize that if our relationship was so GREAT (his words) that we should get back together. ;-/ I mean who says "our relationship was great"...not good,not okay but GREAT! If our relationship was great, then what is this relationship? Because last time I checked, GREAT is the highest you can go! :( I need to stop thinking about this, it's making me sad :((
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LLL,
It sounds like it is his pride that is hurt. Ego can make people, especially a man, do crazy, stupid things, even to spite themselves. Keep faith, because right now that is all we have. :)
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Thanks Elaan :) I hope this is something where he wants to just teach me a lesson or he is like Deejay stated (& kinda you) he already has or soon realize this is not the girl for him...and makes the move to mend things with us....