The Psychic Reviews
Metaphysical, Spiritual and Psychic Discussions => Psychic Readings That Came True => Topic started by: YellowLove on December 17, 2017, 05:56:13 PM
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So I waited post two months since he came back to type up this update as I wanted to make sure things were on a standing ground. My ex dumped me back in Dec. of 2016. About a week later, he was in a relationship with someone else. It crushed me to no end. I did the classic dumpee thing of begging, crying, and of course: resorted to psychics. It cost me a lot of money and that was a time where emotionally I was just feeling gutted & worthless, for lack of better term. I mean we were together for a year roughly and I will say two months before that happened, I did feel like he was distancing himself and I did feel neglected, but I just kept telling myself how it was just me since I'm always usually thinking the worst.
Well anyways, I would say that I had a psychic addiction. It even got to the point where I'd research heavily on the "best" psychics to make sure that the reading was quite accurate. Long story short though, I read with a certain psychic who I would say was more bang on with her accuracy than any others. I'll bring her up later. In May, I got in contact with my ex after not have spoken to each other for around 5 months at that point to let him know that although what he did was grimy, I forgave him and I didn't want to be on a hatred standpoint. We did text for a few days, but then stopped. He was still in a relationship and I was not trying to intervene. Friendship was all it would be and we did state that we'd always be friends. I was at peace with things and ready to move on.
In June, I met another guy who I was extremely smitten with. He was handsome, tall, charming, and had an old-soul approach to him. Finally, things just seemed awesome...or so I thought. In my head, he was everything I'd ever wanted...but in reality, he wasn't. I mean he still is a great person, but he did self-admit that he was bad at communication. I could also tell that he was just about himself and mainly what he could get out in things...so I had to let him ago.
August rolls around and I'm at the standstill. I was still feeling ultra depressed and I was in the standpoint in where I wanted to go ahead and start up things for the 2018 year. I wanted to really become a better version of myself and was getting super big into the law of attraction, manifestation, and I had even bought myself some tarot cards (Morgan-Greer deck is my favorite). So until mid Oct. I was just feeling at peace and astonished at the fact in how far I've come in such little time. Around this time, I had stopped the bulk of psychic readings and was really trusting within myself.
Oct rolls around and I swear almost ALL my exes were getting in contact with me. I felt this was a test from the universe in how much I had grown and I was dismissing all of them. I didn't have any feelings for them anyways, so it was all good. Well then, THE EX that I was so in love with and who was the person that had me start this self-journey from late 2016 got in contact with me in expressing his remorse, regret, etc. He had dumped the other girl way beforehand as she didn't treat him right. I won't get into details, but he felt it was a karma for what he had done to me. We talked for about 2 weeks before we saw each other. When I first seen him it was like...all that love just came rushing back. We both admitted how we still missed the other, and after a deep heart to heart talk and tears and what not, we've decided on rekindling things.
I'll admit, it's easier now but even in the beginning...well really the midst of us starting over, it was still hard...and even heartwrenching. It even got to the point where we were like, maybe things are just WAY too damage for us to try and maybe we should move on. Well, luckily we're two dedicated ppl and we are working on our flaws individually while also working on ourselves on a couple's standpoint. We also just got a puppy and I am relocating to be with him soon. I know this sounds like we're going supersonic fast, but I can promise you we're not, and I encourage everyone who wants to get back with their ex to just truly let go, b/c regardless if they do happen to come back or not, you really want to become a better you. You're the only person that you have control over...remember that :)
Now to jump back, I have to give the psychic Rachel Marie ultra credit for this. She was 97% correct on how things would go, from us briefly talking in May, to them splitting up in the Fall, to him reaching out and us rekindling things later this year...and how he would be incredibly authentic with everything. You can find her on bitwine here: http://psychic.bitwine.com/psychics/250631-rachelmarie. I say 97% b/c she did say in May he'd initiate contact with me, when it was really me, but overall, she nailed it. She can be quite wrong with time also, but in the grand scheme of things, I'm still just blown away about how things are now and just overall feeling grateful for things.
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So good to read this! Do you have any other psychics from bitwine that you would recommend and who were right in your situation? (Everytime I try to read with Rachel Marie she is 'busy' lol). Is it you who also read with lily oak?
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So good to read this! Do you have any other psychics from bitwine that you would recommend and who were right in your situation? (Everytime I try to read with Rachel Marie she is 'busy' lol). Is it you who also read with lily oak?
I did read with Lily Oak, she was ultimately wrong. During that time I figured she was right b/c it seemed as if we'd never get back together, but luck have it, we did.
Here were others that were right (or right in some fashion):
Siobhan Darroch - She nailed that Fall they'd split and how we'd reconcile later this year.
Maharaani - she was also bang on like Rachel. She knew they'd split by the end of the month that they actually split in. She also knew that he'd reach out and that communication & us rekindling would be slow yet progress.
Psychic Diana Hart - she was wrong on the month, but overall right on the outcome.
Neil BlacknWhite - he knew that he hadn't moved on; however, he was wrong on some aspects. I'd say he was more of like 65% right with my case.
I'm sure there are more...maybe...that's how I feel; however I'd need to dig deeper within my account and I'm about to start on some homework now.
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Thank you! :) I think I'll try Siobhan Darroch...
My fave (so far) on bitwine is Miss Ann, did you read with her?
Also I think you recommended pixie dust once, would you still recommend her or was she wrong? I've been hesitating about reading with her
Lily oak I like her but realized she interprets cards wrongly sometimes. I don't rely on her much anymore.
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Siobhan sucked for me. Cold reader I thought
Miss Ann is the best..
Rachel Marie is good as well but thought she was bit of a fairytale but glad to hear she might not be lol
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Thank you! :) I think I'll try Siobhan Darroch...
My fave (so far) on bitwine is Miss Ann, did you read with her?
Also I think you recommended pixie dust once, would you still recommend her or was she wrong? I've been hesitating about reading with her
Lily oak I like her but realized she interprets cards wrongly sometimes. I don't rely on her much anymore.
I did read with miss ann and she was right that the smitten guy wasn't going to be an long-term relationship type thing; however, with her reading it almost sounded like gibberish in a sense. It's weird, even reading back on it. Pixie, is notoriously good with signs. Like she knew my mom is a Fire sign, that my dad is an earth sign. No name or anything given to her. I think she's WAY better as a medium than a psychic if you ask me. Like if you want to gain messages from your grandfather or whomever on the other side, she's incredibly good with that.
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Oh well... actually I'll just not read with anyone else for now and save some money. Miss Ann predicted earlier this month that I will be meeting with my POI. I couldn't believe it at all and earlier this week he said we will... after almost 4months without seeing each other and not talking to each other, he thinks it sounds good to catch up. (We are both going back to our home countries for the holidays so can't meet up now).he said in January when we both come back. I'm a bit afraid because the reason why we stopped seeing each other was him realizing he wasn't ready for another committed relationship yet (after being cheated on by his ex). I guess I'll just wait and see. I'll go without any high expectations, just have a fun moment with him and see how things will evolve.
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Thank you! :) I think I'll try Siobhan Darroch...
My fave (so far) on bitwine is Miss Ann, did you read with her?
Also I think you recommended pixie dust once, would you still recommend her or was she wrong? I've been hesitating about reading with her
Lily oak I like her but realized she interprets cards wrongly sometimes. I don't rely on her much anymore.
I did read with miss ann and she was right that the smitten guy wasn't going to be an long-term relationship type thing; however, with her reading it almost sounded like gibberish in a sense. It's weird, even reading back on it. Pixie, is notoriously good with signs. Like she knew my mom is a Fire sign, that my dad is an earth sign. No name or anything given to her. I think she's WAY better as a medium than a psychic if you ask me. Like if you want to gain messages from your grandfather or whomever on the other side, she's incredibly good with that.
Thanks for your review. So did pixie tell you that you and your ex would get back together?
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Thank you! :) I think I'll try Siobhan Darroch...
My fave (so far) on bitwine is Miss Ann, did you read with her?
Also I think you recommended pixie dust once, would you still recommend her or was she wrong? I've been hesitating about reading with her
Lily oak I like her but realized she interprets cards wrongly sometimes. I don't rely on her much anymore.
I did read with miss ann and she was right that the smitten guy wasn't going to be an long-term relationship type thing; however, with her reading it almost sounded like gibberish in a sense. It's weird, even reading back on it. Pixie, is notoriously good with signs. Like she knew my mom is a Fire sign, that my dad is an earth sign. No name or anything given to her. I think she's WAY better as a medium than a psychic if you ask me. Like if you want to gain messages from your grandfather or whomever on the other side, she's incredibly good with that.
Thanks for your review. So did pixie tell you that you and your ex would get back together?
Sorry, I had to go back to her transcript. She was wrong...she even told me to "let go of the idea of him returning back in my life". On a medium standpoint, she did get some personal things (non-relationship) in something that confirmed it was my grandfather. Hence why I say, she's best to be used as a medium moreso than a psychic.
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Thank you very much for looking back at the transcript, you save me some money here haha!
I wish you a wonderful Christmas and a very happy new year.
I'll post an update too in a couple months or so, hopefully as positive as yours haha. I'll stick to miss Ann only as she is the only one who nailed every event so far
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Thank you very much for looking back at the transcript, you save me some money here haha!
I wish you a wonderful Christmas and a very happy new year.
I'll post an update too in a couple months or so, hopefully as positive as yours haha. I'll stick to miss Ann only as she is the only one who nailed every event so far
You're fine. I wish you all a nice holiday also. I'll definitely still be around, so I won't be going anywhere just because we're back together. I like helping ppl so I'll linger! I definitely encourage to stick with someone that has nailed things for you. It's always a YMMV situation as even Rachel can be right for me yet wrong for you (indirectly speaking).
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Congrats Yellowlove!
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Thank you! :) I think I'll try Siobhan Darroch...
My fave (so far) on bitwine is Miss Ann, did you read with her?
Also I think you recommended pixie dust once, would you still recommend her or was she wrong? I've been hesitating about reading with her
Lily oak I like her but realized she interprets cards wrongly sometimes. I don't rely on her much anymore.
I did read with miss ann and she was right that the smitten guy wasn't going to be an long-term relationship type thing; however, with her reading it almost sounded like gibberish in a sense. It's weird, even reading back on it. Pixie, is notoriously good with signs. Like she knew my mom is a Fire sign, that my dad is an earth sign. No name or anything given to her. I think she's WAY better as a medium than a psychic if you ask me. Like if you want to gain messages from your grandfather or whomever on the other side, she's incredibly good with that.
Thanks for your review. So did pixie tell you that you and your ex would get back together?
Sorry, I had to go back to her transcript. She was wrong...she even told me to "let go of the idea of him returning back in my life". On a medium standpoint, she did get some personal things (non-relationship) in something that confirmed it was my grandfather. Hence why I say, she's best to be used as a medium moreso than a psychic.
I agree about Pixie Dust. She has an ability, for sure, and is definitely not a fake, but she seems to be a very sweet person and maybe she tells most to move on to avoid the pain in the interim, if that makes sense. I think she leans negative towards relationships in general. But I do like her a lot. She is real, for sure. She freaked me out the first time I read with her, she can get the signs of the people involved without you telling her anything. Truly amazing.
As far as Miss Ann, she's accurate as hell, but she gives you a full overview of things. Meaning, she is not good for a quick question..she gives all the steps along the way, so maybe that's why her readings can be confusing for some. But she is on point, for sure, and will tell you if a situation is hopeless. She's also funny as hell. lol
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Thank you! :) I think I'll try Siobhan Darroch...
My fave (so far) on bitwine is Miss Ann, did you read with her?
Also I think you recommended pixie dust once, would you still recommend her or was she wrong? I've been hesitating about reading with her
Lily oak I like her but realized she interprets cards wrongly sometimes. I don't rely on her much anymore.
I did read with miss ann and she was right that the smitten guy wasn't going to be an long-term relationship type thing; however, with her reading it almost sounded like gibberish in a sense. It's weird, even reading back on it. Pixie, is notoriously good with signs. Like she knew my mom is a Fire sign, that my dad is an earth sign. No name or anything given to her. I think she's WAY better as a medium than a psychic if you ask me. Like if you want to gain messages from your grandfather or whomever on the other side, she's incredibly good with that.
Thanks for your review. So did pixie tell you that you and your ex would get back together?
Sorry, I had to go back to her transcript. She was wrong...she even told me to "let go of the idea of him returning back in my life". On a medium standpoint, she did get some personal things (non-relationship) in something that confirmed it was my grandfather. Hence why I say, she's best to be used as a medium moreso than a psychic.
I agree about Pixie Dust. She has an ability, for sure, and is definitely not a fake, but she seems to be a very sweet person and maybe she tells most to move on to avoid the pain in the interim, if that makes sense. I think she leans negative towards relationships in general. But I do like her a lot. She is real, for sure. She freaked me out the first time I read with her, she can get the signs of the people involved without you telling her anything. Truly amazing.
As far as Miss Ann, she's accurate as hell, but she gives you a full overview of things. Meaning, she is not good for a quick question..she gives all the steps along the way, so maybe that's why her readings can be confusing for some. But she is on point, for sure, and will tell you if a situation is hopeless. She's also funny as hell. lol
Maybe pixie is good at present but not future
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Pixie was alllll sorts of wrong for me ::) I read with her once in August and won’t ever again lol
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How was she wrong?
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How was she wrong?
Well on top of being completely negative, everything that she said would happen, the opposite actually happened (thank god in my case) and she was so insistent about a fire sign being around me and nope, no fire sign.... still no fire sign lol
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BItwine psychics that nailed it for me interms of accuracy/date prediction - Rachel Marie, Rekha, Cali and Rune Mistress. Just shockingly accurate. Hope this helps.
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Is this really true? That when you let go of an ex they usually come back?
No, it depends on many things: if they are with someone else, if they have moved on....
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Is this really true? That when you let go of an ex they usually come back?
No, it depends on many things: if they are with someone else, if they have moved on....
Yea it's just I've been told numerous times that I can speed him up coming back if I move on .that if I keep waiting around it will delay things longer.
Yea true many people say that but personally I don’t believe in this. I feel like they just say that just for us not to sit there and wait for nothing. Some of my exes never came back even when I have moved on and went with someone else
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I really wish I could find an accurate one. It had been such a rollercoaster. I sit here waiting, not sure I should be waiting as three readers told me to wait and not to move on yet.
They give months time lines. When we reach the 5 month and I find out they are engaged, or something I will literally scream.
I am being told 5-6 months she will be permantely gone and stay away from us. So, getting close to fall.
This stuff kills me emotionally.
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I’ve had readers tell me that my ex was going to back to me, well he got engaged and they are getting married next month...in Paris. So much for him coming back right. They were right about one thing, that he would contact me.
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So sorry to hear that.
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I really wish I could find an accurate one. It had been such a rollercoaster. I sit here waiting, not sure I should be waiting as three readers told me to wait and not to move on yet.
They give months time lines. When we reach the 5 month and I find out they are engaged, or something I will literally scream.
I am being told 5-6 months she will be permantely gone and stay away from us. So, getting close to fall.
This stuff kills me emotionally.
I think you should try to go with your gut. If you feel like dating and stuff, then do it. I think a psychic's advice should complement what you already feel and want to do. If it's meant to happen, it will happen. If you feel like waiting, then focus on your own life and achieving your own goals. If you want to date then begin dating and see what happens.
I've had psychics tell me everything...to wait, to move on, and everything in between. At the end of the day, I do what I feel like doing. I've had such opposite advice come from psychics that I know they are not right and I won't do something that my heart doesn't let me do.
If it feels natural to move on, then move on. If it doesn't, then let things be and focus on other aspects of your life.
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Wow! I've only had maybe two psychics that I can think urge me to wait. The other psychics have encouraged me to move on or at least focus on myself. They said my ex will return but it won't be for now.
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Thank you! :) I think I'll try Siobhan Darroch...
My fave (so far) on bitwine is Miss Ann, did you read with her?
Also I think you recommended pixie dust once, would you still recommend her or was she wrong? I've been hesitating about reading with her
Lily oak I like her but realized she interprets cards wrongly sometimes. I don't rely on her much anymore.
I did read with miss ann and she was right that the smitten guy wasn't going to be an long-term relationship type thing; however, with her reading it almost sounded like gibberish in a sense. It's weird, even reading back on it. Pixie, is notoriously good with signs. Like she knew my mom is a Fire sign, that my dad is an earth sign. No name or anything given to her. I think she's WAY better as a medium than a psychic if you ask me. Like if you want to gain messages from your grandfather or whomever on the other side, she's incredibly good with that.
Thanks for your review. So did pixie tell you that you and your ex would get back together?
Sorry, I had to go back to her transcript. She was wrong...she even told me to "let go of the idea of him returning back in my life". On a medium standpoint, she did get some personal things (non-relationship) in something that confirmed it was my grandfather. Hence why I say, she's best to be used as a medium moreso than a psychic.
I agree about Pixie Dust. She has an ability, for sure, and is definitely not a fake, but she seems to be a very sweet person and maybe she tells most to move on to avoid the pain in the interim, if that makes sense. I think she leans negative towards relationships in general. But I do like her a lot. She is real, for sure. She freaked me out the first time I read with her, she can get the signs of the people involved without you telling her anything. Truly amazing.
As far as Miss Ann, she's accurate as hell, but she gives you a full overview of things. Meaning, she is not good for a quick question..she gives all the steps along the way, so maybe that's why her readings can be confusing for some. But she is on point, for sure, and will tell you if a situation is hopeless. She's also funny as hell. lol
Maybe pixie is good at present but not future
I had a reading with Pixie dust not so long ago and she said I should move on and that my ex doesn;t have any feelings for me. She also mentioned my ex seeing someone too. I'm not sure how factual this is since we don't speak other readers have said we will work things out. I'm on the verge of just trying to accidentally drop a text to my ex just to open the lines of communication because this psychic stuff is confusing me
further.
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Pixie is pretty good at picking up feelings, IMO. I'm not sure she can see the future too well though. I think she leans negative towards relationships in general.
Karen "knowingangel" on bitwine is also great at picking up feelings.
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I had a reading earlier on with Pixie and found she was very negative, she said I need to "let go" and saw a water sign around me. Right now I'm pretty much spending a lot of time alone and home while I work on building my website so not sure who the water sign is. I'm really not into star signs so wish psychics wouldn't bring them up. She also said my ex was an air sign when he is in fact an earth sign.
I left her a positive because I thought was picked up well on other things but now I'm starting to see that is not the case.
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It's insane to think it's only 2 months shy from a year since this happened. We're still together and I just recently moved near him (the city has better opportunities anyways) and our puppy.
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Is this really true? That when you let go of an ex they usually come back?
No, it depends on many things: if they are with someone else, if they have moved on....
Yea it's just I've been told numerous times that I can speed him up coming back if I move on .that if I keep waiting around it will delay things longer.
They say this because it’s about perspective.
Think about it
You ever been engaged in something you enjoyed and it seem like time flew? Or you’re concentrating on something and you look up and time gone quickly?
That’s the basis of it.
If you keep focusing on something it will seem like forever that something is time.
Imagine watching a cake bake. It takes like an hour right? That hour would drag on if you sat there and looked at it in the over for that entire sixty mins. Or kept opening the door to check. But if you go distract yourself for that hour it will be done quickly.
So In essence if your ex was suppose to come back. They will in no time because you wouldn’t be focused on it. Even if it was 3 mos or 3 yrs you’ll be so busy and look up and think o wow has it been that long? Imagine looking for a text from that person every few mins for 90 days? Or 1095 days Torture.
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I have had a few readings with Rachel and although what she says makes sooooo sooo much sense, I have yet to hear from him unfortunately :(
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@omggirlitsher: Lol I know right. Once you've actually healed or began to heal, they come back in to destroy you once more......maybe twice more........maybe 50 times more..................until there is no more. :)
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So readers on here believe that you can get any person you want back in your life, ex/friend/POI - just by moving on and not thinking of them??
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So readers on here believe that you can get any person you want back in your life, ex/friend/POI - just by moving on and not thinking of them??
I had more than one psychic give me that advice. Not just saying to let go for my own good or so I can move on, but as a strategy to get the ex to come back. They teach this as a strategy and that way if it doesn't happen they can say...oh you were thinking about them too much.
Or the old "move on and your ex will come back, and if he doesn't come back? Well, at least you moved on, anyway".
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So readers on here believe that you can get any person you want back in your life, ex/friend/POI - just by moving on and not thinking of them??
I had more than one psychic give me that advice. Not just saying to let go for my own good or so I can move on, but as a strategy to get the ex to come back. They teach this as a strategy and that way if it doesn't happen they can say...oh you were thinking about them too much.
Or the old "move on and your ex will come back, and if he doesn't come back? Well, at least you moved on, anyway".
Yup. They are full of platitudes and excuses.
Lol. Yeah.
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Wasn’t sure where to post this ... but here we go .
I finally let go and focused on my life.
And guess what. He came back .
He wants to try again and see where things go.
Sceptical for sure at this point!
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Wasn’t sure where to post this ... but here we go .
I finally let go and focused on my life.
And guess what. He came back .
He wants to try again and see where things go.
Sceptical for sure at this point!
I'm happy for you that your ex came back, but I still think it's pot luck, and not about this "letting go" malarkey. He obviously had deep feelings for you all along, and it took him a while to realise that he really did want you in his life.
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Either he started missing you and your relationship and came to some realizations, learned some lessons OR nothing else worked out for him and he can't be alone and that's the reason he came back. It really just depends. This whole letting go and then they come back thing isn't guaranteed. However, there IS some legit truths about it because it's one of the universal laws of attraction. I do believe in predestination though as well. I believe both predestination and free will coexist at the same time. So for example..........if it was predestined for you and so and so to be together, then regardless of any free will choices made in the interim, it's going to happen. If not, they ain't comin back because you were meant for someone else. I believe certain events are predestined and other things are left up to free will. From what I've observed throughout my life, that's how it appears to be.
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Either he started missing you and your relationship and came to some realizations, learned some lessons OR nothing else worked out for him and he can't be alone and that's the reason he came back. It really just depends. This whole letting go and then they come back thing isn't guaranteed. However, there IS some legit truths about it because it's one of the universal laws of attraction. I do believe in predestination though as well. I believe both predestination and free will coexist at the same time. So for example..........if it was predestined for you and so and so to be together, then regardless of any free will choices made in the interim, it's going to happen. If not, they ain't comin back because you were meant for someone else. I believe certain events are predestined and other things are left up to free will. From what I've observed throughout my life, that's how it appears to be.
I tend to agree with this.... There might be some truth to letting go of the energy and them coming back but I also think there's truth in the NC rule and many other rules out there of breakups that work for different people and ultimately what matters is whether it lasts and is healthy long-term!
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But have these people "let their exes go?". Letting them go means moving on, not having readings, not on this forum asking about things that people that haven't moved on have asked. If you've moved on from your ex, it means you've let them go and aren't interested in a reconnect anymore in my eyes. These people have taken their ex back or contemplating it.. That's not letting them go. Also, I'm not knocking Kristina but she hasn't really "moved on". She's still been posting and asking about Yona and the situation with her ex boyfriend at the time (which I want to make clear I am not knocking, it's upto her and she is a nice user who I don't mean this to come out the wrong way). Some people kid themselves that they've moved on, but it's like a dog with a bone getting bored. You keep waving the bone in it's face and pulling it away from the dog, it'll give up. When you throw the bone and leave the dog to it, the dog will go after the bone.
Sometimes someone will have moved on from an ex, and the ex comes back and they think, "actually. Why not? Let's see where it goes this time, if it has anything better to offer than before", but I think that that's different to some of these people who haven't moved on deep down. Sometimes we think we have let somebody go, but deep down subconsciously - we haven't.
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But have these people "let their exes go?". Letting them go means moving on, not having readings, not on this forum asking about things that people that haven't moved on have asked. If you've moved on from your ex, it means you've let them go and aren't interested in a reconnect anymore in my eyes. These people have taken their ex back or contemplating it.. That's not letting them go. Also, I'm not knocking Kristina but she hasn't really "moved on". She's still been posting and asking about Yona and the situation with her ex boyfriend at the time (which I want to make clear I am not knocking, it's upto her and she is a nice user who I don't mean this to come out the wrong way). Some people kid themselves that they've moved on, but it's like a dog with a bone getting bored. You keep waving the bone in it's face and pulling it away from the dog, it'll give up. When you throw the bone and leave the dog to it, the dog will go after the bone.
Sometimes someone will have moved on from an ex, and the ex comes back and they think, "actually. Why not? Let's see where it goes this time, if it has anything better to offer than before", but I think that that's different to some of these people who haven't moved on deep down. Sometimes we think we have let somebody go, but deep down subconsciously - we haven't.
So true. When I move on, I completely lose interest.
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I usually don’t comment on people’s opinion... but I just have to say, this post, is so insensitive. Kristina is sharing her experience with psychics as it relates to her boyfriend. Who is anyone to judge who has moved on or not.
But have these people "let their exes go?". Letting them go means moving on, not having readings, not on this forum asking about things that people that haven't moved on have asked. If you've moved on from your ex, it means you've let them go and aren't interested in a reconnect anymore in my eyes. These people have taken their ex back or contemplating it.. That's not letting them go. Also, I'm not knocking Kristina but she hasn't really "moved on". She's still been posting and asking about Yona and the situation with her ex boyfriend at the time (which I want to make clear I am not knocking, it's upto her and she is a nice user who I don't mean this to come out the wrong way). Some people kid themselves that they've moved on, but it's like a dog with a bone getting bored. You keep waving the bone in it's face and pulling it away from the dog, it'll give up. When you throw the bone and leave the dog to it, the dog will go after the bone.
Sometimes someone will have moved on from an ex, and the ex comes back and they think, "actually. Why not? Let's see where it goes this time, if it has anything better to offer than before", but I think that that's different to some of these people who haven't moved on deep down. Sometimes we think we have let somebody go, but deep down subconsciously - we haven't.
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I usually don’t comment on people’s opinion... but I just have to say, this post, is so insensitive. Kristina is sharing her experience with psychics as it relate to her boyfriend. Who is anyone to judge who has moved on or not.
But have these people "let their exes go?". Letting them go means moving on, not having readings, not on this forum asking about things that people that haven't moved on have asked. If you've moved on from your ex, it means you've let them go and aren't interested in a reconnect anymore in my eyes. These people have taken their ex back or contemplating it.. That's not letting them go. Also, I'm not knocking Kristina but she hasn't really "moved on". She's still been posting and asking about Yona and the situation with her ex boyfriend at the time (which I want to make clear I am not knocking, it's upto her and she is a nice user who I don't mean this to come out the wrong way). Some people kid themselves that they've moved on, but it's like a dog with a bone getting bored. You keep waving the bone in it's face and pulling it away from the dog, it'll give up. When you throw the bone and leave the dog to it, the dog will go after the bone.
Sometimes someone will have moved on from an ex, and the ex comes back and they think, "actually. Why not? Let's see where it goes this time, if it has anything better to offer than before", but I think that that's different to some of these people who haven't moved on deep down. Sometimes we think we have let somebody go, but deep down subconsciously - we haven't.
I don't care. You have an issue with me because I wouldn't remove a post of yours. I haven't said anything wrong and I said that Kristina can do what she wants it's none of my business. Stop trying to cause trouble woman. You also tried giving me unsolicited advice before. I'm stating the truth, that a few people on here have said that they've "moved on" when they haven't if they're really honest. I'm not being personal and I even pm'ed kristina after the post to ensure I wasn't meaning to be offensive with her. Sometimes things online come across worse than they are.
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But have these people "let their exes go?". Letting them go means moving on, not having readings, not on this forum asking about things that people that haven't moved on have asked. If you've moved on from your ex, it means you've let them go and aren't interested in a reconnect anymore in my eyes. These people have taken their ex back or contemplating it.. That's not letting them go. Also, I'm not knocking Kristina but she hasn't really "moved on". She's still been posting and asking about Yona and the situation with her ex boyfriend at the time (which I want to make clear I am not knocking, it's upto her and she is a nice user who I don't mean this to come out the wrong way). Some people kid themselves that they've moved on, but it's like a dog with a bone getting bored. You keep waving the bone in it's face and pulling it away from the dog, it'll give up. When you throw the bone and leave the dog to it, the dog will go after the bone.
Sometimes someone will have moved on from an ex, and the ex comes back and they think, "actually. Why not? Let's see where it goes this time, if it has anything better to offer than before", but I think that that's different to some of these people who haven't moved on deep down. Sometimes we think we have let somebody go, but deep down subconsciously - we haven't.
So true. When I move on, I completely lose interest.
Exactly, I think sometimes we don't always know what our subconscious is doing.
For example a person I know has posted on the board that she's letting go, yet when I spoke to her recently she told me that she'd beat anyone up who went near her POI, lol. It's denial. It's like when people go on Facebook after a breakup and go that they're single and they're loving it and carefree. Guarantee you most of the time they're hurt.
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In my opinion, letting go doesn't mean you stop caring about a person. Letting to doesn't even mean you stop loving the person. Letting go means you are giving them space and allowing them to carry on with their lives without your interference and also you moving forward to see where your life takes you.
I long ago let go of one of my exes that I loved very much. He is now married and has a son. However, I STILL think about him sometimes and I miss him too. He was a great soul. That doesn't mean I haven't let him go because I did a long while ago and was in two relationships since.
Letting go just means you don't sit around waiting for a person and carry on. Letting go means letting go of the pain that creates a block for you and prevents you from carrying on with your life.
Letting go means letting go of the fantasy or ideas you had of building a life with said person and accepting that it will not happen at this time, if ever. Letting go means allowing yourself to move forward and experience other things.
You can still love and care about someone even though you've let go of other things. That's just been my experience.
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Nicely put. I like this.
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I just wanted to come back because I’m a little flummoxed at the response my post has seemingly created.
I wanted to say a few things.
I did let go. In the way that if he moved on, I would be okay with that . I got to the point where I was and am happy with my life, my career etc and I felt at peace .
I also stated he came back.. that doesn’t mean that I accepted him back with open arms. That’s far from the case. I actually started seeing someone a little while before his contact again and I’m wobderjng if this is the case yona was talking about .. me having to choose . Because I’m still going on dates with this other guy - why should I give that up when he’s yet to show me any thing significant ? All he’s said is he wants to try ...
We’re not dating , so I can continue my life and so can he. I’m still very unclear whether this is something I’m going to consider taking back . We have a lot .. a lot ! Of history . And that I’m worried about due to some things that have happened in the past.
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Kristina: How long has it been since you two initially broke up until he came back around?
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A year . We were together for around the same time
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I just wanted to come back because I’m a little flummoxed at the response my post has seemingly created.
I wanted to say a few things.
I did let go. In the way that if he moved on, I would be okay with that . I got to the point where I was and am happy with my life, my career etc and I felt at peace .
I also stated he came back.. that doesn’t mean that I accepted him back with open arms. That’s far from the case. I actually started seeing someone a little while before his contact again and I’m wobderjng if this is the case yona was talking about .. me having to choose . Because I’m still going on dates with this other guy - why should I give that up when he’s yet to show me any thing significant ? All he’s said is he wants to try ...
We’re not dating , so I can continue my life and so can he. I’m still very unclear whether this is something I’m going to consider taking back . We have a lot .. a lot ! Of history . And that I’m worried about due to some things that have happened in the past.
Sorry, I apologise if I upset you. Your posts are a little confusing, though. You did write just 2 days ago on the Aries Intuition thread that you are giving things a go with your POI, and now you're saying above quite the opposite and you're dating someone else. I did send you a few pm's to ensure I didn't upset you in my post. I wasn't just meaning you, there are others on here who say that they're moving on and then have told me at the same time they'd beat up any woman who goes near their POI, lol. I think people are becoming a little rattled because "readers" are coming on saying your ex will come back if you move on, but if someone moves in the hope that their ex will come back for that, then it won't work. You (and I mean generally speaking "you") have to move on because you want to move on, not to get the ex back.
We all are going to have different opinions on "moving on", like we do about LOA and destiny/free will, but I don't think it's right the way how these readers are scaremongering us to move on and it's going to get the ex back. People on here being in denial that they haven't moved on and worrying that it's going to bring their ex back.. Your ex will come back whatever you're thinking. It's coming upto Christmas and people are going to be low and thinking of their ex, reminiscing.
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My point is not to disbelieve anyone when they say their ex came back after they let go. Life often works out that way. I don't believe we can "cause" it to happen though. It just happens.
Many readers do advise it as a strategy, but their ideas about what it means to let go can be very manipulative, and can actually just keep us stuck.
That's my point, I'm not disbelieving it, I think it happens without us "causing" it. And I agree, it's a manipulative excuse from readers.. You put it in a better way than me, I'm not always good with my words.
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My point is not to disbelieve anyone when they say their ex came back after they let go. Life often works out that way. I don't believe we can "cause" it to happen though. It just happens.
Many readers do advise it as a strategy, but their ideas about what it means to let go can be very manipulative, and can actually just keep us stuck.
That's my point, I'm not disbelieving it, I think it happens without us "causing" it. And I agree, it's a manipulative excuse from readers.. You put it in a better way than me, I'm not always good with my words.
You said it as well as I did, or better. I feel like maybe it takes a lot of us repeating it because the temptation to believe what the readers say can be so strong.
Thanks, and yeah definitely. There's for sure been a sense of panic recently on the board after these "readers" coming on.
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Someone else said it about themselves, but I too seem to the be queen of nothing happening. I've never in my experience had "ex exes" come back, yet others seem to be lucky (or call it what you will) when their ex returns either after they moved on or flit in and out of their life..
I seem to be the woman who gets the causal guys who are only looking for hookups contacting me, not the "ex exes". A guy I was talking to in summer was in contact with me and made it clear he only wanted one thing. I stopped talking to him because we both wanted different things and I did begin to like him, so didn't want to get hurt. I forgot about him and he contacted me just over a month later, and I only recently saw the message from him. It is a nice ego boost at first, but then when you realise straight away they're just after a casual hook-up, you think "ugh". Another guy who also wanted one thing from me (and thought he could sway my decision) made contact with me around summer after no contact of 2 and a half years just wanting a hook-up, too. Men?! :o
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Someone else said it about themselves, but I too seem to the be queen of nothing happening. I've never in my experience had "ex exes" come back, yet others seem to be lucky (or call it what you will) when their ex returns either after they moved on or flit in and out of their life..
I seem to be the woman who gets the causal guys who are only looking for hookups contacting me, not the "ex exes". A guy I was talking to in summer was in contact with me and made it clear he only wanted one thing. I stopped talking to him because we both wanted different things and I did begin to like him, so didn't want to get hurt. I forgot about him and he contacted me just over a month later, and I only recently saw the message from him. It is a nice ego boost at first, but then when you realise straight away they're just after a casual hook-up, you think "ugh". Another guy who also wanted one thing from me (and thought he could sway my decision) made contact with me around summer after no contact of 2 and a half years just wanting a hook-up, too. Men?! :o
you're not alone, so many guys are just after one thing, and so many try to get by with no commitment..so few good guys out there. It's really hard to be single and looking for a quality partner.
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Someone else said it about themselves, but I too seem to the be queen of nothing happening. I've never in my experience had "ex exes" come back, yet others seem to be lucky (or call it what you will) when their ex returns either after they moved on or flit in and out of their life..
I seem to be the woman who gets the causal guys who are only looking for hookups contacting me, not the "ex exes". A guy I was talking to in summer was in contact with me and made it clear he only wanted one thing. I stopped talking to him because we both wanted different things and I did begin to like him, so didn't want to get hurt. I forgot about him and he contacted me just over a month later, and I only recently saw the message from him. It is a nice ego boost at first, but then when you realise straight away they're just after a casual hook-up, you think "ugh". Another guy who also wanted one thing from me (and thought he could sway my decision) made contact with me around summer after no contact of 2 and a half years just wanting a hook-up, too. Men?! :o
you're not alone, so many guys are just after one thing, and so many try to get by with no commitment..so few good guys out there. It's really hard to be single and looking for a quality partner.
Exactly, it's why I've given up on dating. So many men with commitment issues, grr.
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I never had an ex come back. Though I have only had 3 relationships in my life so I have a small pool to choose from but I do want the last one to come back. 1st one married the next person she dated after me. I was okay with that because I knew at the time our short lived 3 month relationship wasn't something I wanted long term. It ended mutually. The 2nd was pretty rough. She wasn't good for me and we were official for a year and unofficially together for another year. I thought I wanted to be with her but really it was just that. The thought was nice but she wasn't really the one for me. Haven't talked to her in 8 years. The last one we were together for just over a year. Been broken up since March. She is the only one that I would want to come back but we will see.
I want to add that the closest I got to someone coming back was a girl interested in me that I wasn't. I told her upfront and started to separate myself from her when she wasn't getting that I wasn't interested. She ended up reaching out years later to see if I changed my mind, which I hadn't.
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I never had an ex come back. Though I have only had 3 relationships in my life so I have a small pool to choose from but I do want the last one to come back. 1st one married the next person she dated after me. I was okay with that because I knew at the time our short lived 3 month relationship wasn't something I wanted long term. It ended mutually. The 2nd was pretty rough. She wasn't good for me and we were official for a year and unofficially together for another year. I thought I wanted to be with her but really it was just that. The thought was nice but she wasn't really the one for me. Haven't talked to her in 8 years. The last one we were together for just over a year. Been broken up since March. She is the only one that I would want to come back but we will see.
I want to add that the closest I got to someone coming back was a girl interested in me that I wasn't. I told her upfront and started to separate myself from her when she wasn't getting that I wasn't interested. She ended up reaching out years later to see if I changed my mind, which I hadn't.
This is my exact experience, but with exes/guys. The ones who you were never interested in seem to keep trying to push their luck over the years to see if you'll miraculously change your mind. Exes I think it's horses for courses. Some people seem to have their exes come back to check up on them, see how life's going, or have them back because things in their life aren't going so great since they parted with you. It's like some people will see UFO's, some won't. Some people will be psychically gifted and others won't. Some people will see bigfoot, others won't. I think it's just different strokes with luck of the draw with exes coming back. And I think most of the time it's no compliment when an ex gets back in touch.. I had a friend tell me her ex came back after 2 years of no contact because he was unhappy in his marriage.
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I never had an ex come back. Though I have only had 3 relationships in my life so I have a small pool to choose from but I do want the last one to come back. 1st one married the next person she dated after me. I was okay with that because I knew at the time our short lived 3 month relationship wasn't something I wanted long term. It ended mutually. The 2nd was pretty rough. She wasn't good for me and we were official for a year and unofficially together for another year. I thought I wanted to be with her but really it was just that. The thought was nice but she wasn't really the one for me. Haven't talked to her in 8 years. The last one we were together for just over a year. Been broken up since March. She is the only one that I would want to come back but we will see.
I want to add that the closest I got to someone coming back was a girl interested in me that I wasn't. I told her upfront and started to separate myself from her when she wasn't getting that I wasn't interested. She ended up reaching out years later to see if I changed my mind, which I hadn't.
This is my exact experience, but with exes/guys. The ones who you were never interested in seem to keep trying to push their luck over the years to see if you'll miraculously change your mind. Exes I think it's horses for courses. Some people seem to have their exes come back to check up on them, see how life's going, or have them back because things in their life aren't going so great since they parted with you. It's like some people will see UFO's, some won't. Some people will be psychically gifted and others won't. Some people will see bigfoot, others won't. I think it's just different strokes with luck of the draw with exes coming back. And I think most of the time it's no compliment when an ex gets back in touch.. I had a friend tell me her ex came back after 2 years of no contact because he was unhappy in his marriage.
This is why I feel like with some psychics when they tell an ex coming back that they try to give that sense of false hope for those rare occasions because it makes you feel good. I can say in my current situation that started me on this psychic quest that is what I felt. That it is a sense of false hope even though I do have a gut feeling that my ex might reach out and even around the time they are predicting. But if that does happen it would be an honest miracle.
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I never had an ex come back. Though I have only had 3 relationships in my life so I have a small pool to choose from but I do want the last one to come back. 1st one married the next person she dated after me. I was okay with that because I knew at the time our short lived 3 month relationship wasn't something I wanted long term. It ended mutually. The 2nd was pretty rough. She wasn't good for me and we were official for a year and unofficially together for another year. I thought I wanted to be with her but really it was just that. The thought was nice but she wasn't really the one for me. Haven't talked to her in 8 years. The last one we were together for just over a year. Been broken up since March. She is the only one that I would want to come back but we will see.
I want to add that the closest I got to someone coming back was a girl interested in me that I wasn't. I told her upfront and started to separate myself from her when she wasn't getting that I wasn't interested. She ended up reaching out years later to see if I changed my mind, which I hadn't.
This is my exact experience, but with exes/guys. The ones who you were never interested in seem to keep trying to push their luck over the years to see if you'll miraculously change your mind. Exes I think it's horses for courses. Some people seem to have their exes come back to check up on them, see how life's going, or have them back because things in their life aren't going so great since they parted with you. It's like some people will see UFO's, some won't. Some people will be psychically gifted and others won't. Some people will see bigfoot, others won't. I think it's just different strokes with luck of the draw with exes coming back. And I think most of the time it's no compliment when an ex gets back in touch.. I had a friend tell me her ex came back after 2 years of no contact because he was unhappy in his marriage.
This is why I feel like with some psychics when they tell an ex coming back that they try to give that sense of false hope for those rare occasions because it makes you feel good. I can say in my current situation that started me on this psychic quest that is what I felt. That it is a sense of false hope even though I do have a gut feeling that my ex might reach out and even around the time they are predicting. But if that does happen it would be an honest miracle.
I completely agree. I am really confused about my situation because not one reader so far has outright said my ex won't be back. They all said he'd be back, but mostly it's not great. The really blunt ones have said for bad reasons, like to use me and answers along those lines. Aries and Yona see my ex coming back positively, I can't comment on Lady P and others yet, as I'm waiting on their reply.
When they all say your ex is coming back, you feel sort of stuck and really confused, especially from blunt readers. My situation is similar to yours in that I highly doubt mine will come back.. It has been a very very long time.
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I never had an ex come back. Though I have only had 3 relationships in my life so I have a small pool to choose from but I do want the last one to come back. 1st one married the next person she dated after me. I was okay with that because I knew at the time our short lived 3 month relationship wasn't something I wanted long term. It ended mutually. The 2nd was pretty rough. She wasn't good for me and we were official for a year and unofficially together for another year. I thought I wanted to be with her but really it was just that. The thought was nice but she wasn't really the one for me. Haven't talked to her in 8 years. The last one we were together for just over a year. Been broken up since March. She is the only one that I would want to come back but we will see.
I want to add that the closest I got to someone coming back was a girl interested in me that I wasn't. I told her upfront and started to separate myself from her when she wasn't getting that I wasn't interested. She ended up reaching out years later to see if I changed my mind, which I hadn't.
This is my exact experience, but with exes/guys. The ones who you were never interested in seem to keep trying to push their luck over the years to see if you'll miraculously change your mind. Exes I think it's horses for courses. Some people seem to have their exes come back to check up on them, see how life's going, or have them back because things in their life aren't going so great since they parted with you. It's like some people will see UFO's, some won't. Some people will be psychically gifted and others won't. Some people will see bigfoot, others won't. I think it's just different strokes with luck of the draw with exes coming back. And I think most of the time it's no compliment when an ex gets back in touch.. I had a friend tell me her ex came back after 2 years of no contact because he was unhappy in his marriage.
This is why I feel like with some psychics when they tell an ex coming back that they try to give that sense of false hope for those rare occasions because it makes you feel good. I can say in my current situation that started me on this psychic quest that is what I felt. That it is a sense of false hope even though I do have a gut feeling that my ex might reach out and even around the time they are predicting. But if that does happen it would be an honest miracle.
I completely agree. I am really confused about my situation because not one reader so far has outright said my ex won't be back. They all said he'd be back, but mostly it's not great. The really blunt ones have said for bad reasons, like to use me and answers along those lines. Aries and Yona see my ex coming back positively, I can't comment on Lady P and others yet, as I'm waiting on their reply.
When they all say your ex is coming back, you feel sort of stuck and really confused, especially from blunt readers. My situation is similar to yours in that I highly doubt mine will come back.. It has been a very very long time.
Just because it has been a long time doesn't mean that they will not come back. So the psychics maybe right that they will come back. Could be later than they predicted. Even look at what a few have said in this forum about an ex coming back years later. I heard of cases where an ex came back almost 10 years later, they got back together and married. So don't count yourself out yet. For mine I do see it as a long shot and that she might be gone. But she is also the first ex that I have ever had a gut feeling of her coming back. So time will tell. In the meantime I am going to just live my life.
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I never had an ex come back. Though I have only had 3 relationships in my life so I have a small pool to choose from but I do want the last one to come back. 1st one married the next person she dated after me. I was okay with that because I knew at the time our short lived 3 month relationship wasn't something I wanted long term. It ended mutually. The 2nd was pretty rough. She wasn't good for me and we were official for a year and unofficially together for another year. I thought I wanted to be with her but really it was just that. The thought was nice but she wasn't really the one for me. Haven't talked to her in 8 years. The last one we were together for just over a year. Been broken up since March. She is the only one that I would want to come back but we will see.
I want to add that the closest I got to someone coming back was a girl interested in me that I wasn't. I told her upfront and started to separate myself from her when she wasn't getting that I wasn't interested. She ended up reaching out years later to see if I changed my mind, which I hadn't.
This is my exact experience, but with exes/guys. The ones who you were never interested in seem to keep trying to push their luck over the years to see if you'll miraculously change your mind. Exes I think it's horses for courses. Some people seem to have their exes come back to check up on them, see how life's going, or have them back because things in their life aren't going so great since they parted with you. It's like some people will see UFO's, some won't. Some people will be psychically gifted and others won't. Some people will see bigfoot, others won't. I think it's just different strokes with luck of the draw with exes coming back. And I think most of the time it's no compliment when an ex gets back in touch.. I had a friend tell me her ex came back after 2 years of no contact because he was unhappy in his marriage.
This is why I feel like with some psychics when they tell an ex coming back that they try to give that sense of false hope for those rare occasions because it makes you feel good. I can say in my current situation that started me on this psychic quest that is what I felt. That it is a sense of false hope even though I do have a gut feeling that my ex might reach out and even around the time they are predicting. But if that does happen it would be an honest miracle.
I completely agree. I am really confused about my situation because not one reader so far has outright said my ex won't be back. They all said he'd be back, but mostly it's not great. The really blunt ones have said for bad reasons, like to use me and answers along those lines. Aries and Yona see my ex coming back positively, I can't comment on Lady P and others yet, as I'm waiting on their reply.
When they all say your ex is coming back, you feel sort of stuck and really confused, especially from blunt readers. My situation is similar to yours in that I highly doubt mine will come back.. It has been a very very long time.
Just because it has been a long time doesn't mean that they will not come back. So the psychics maybe right that they will come back. Could be later than they predicted. Even look at what a few have said in this forum about an ex coming back years later. I heard of cases where an ex came back almost 10 years later, they got back together and married. So don't count yourself out yet. For mine I do see it as a long shot and that she might be gone. But she is also the first ex that I have ever had a gut feeling of her coming back. So time will tell. In the meantime I am going to just live my life.
The issue is, my gut feeling on the situation isn't very good at all. I have a foreboding feeling about it all, there's not an ounce of any "hope" within me, which is why I'm deciding to give up readings because I don't believe in them. Perhaps he might come back, but when I've moved on and that's where this feeling of us never seeing each other again is coming from, but I doubt he will make an appearance, to be honest. Life works in funny ways and most of them have given me the line that I'd have moved on when he decides to come back. I do hope yours comes back, if your gut is sensing there's hope, then I wouldn't ignore it. But living your life is the best thing to do, to be honest.
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It's insane to think it's only 2 months shy from a year since this happened. We're still together and I just recently moved near him (the city has better opportunities anyways) and our puppy.
YellowLove - I haven't always consistently checked this forum so I just came across your posts now. I'm super happy for you!! Congratulations on your predictions happening and you being happy with the man you love. So encouraging to see but I also commend you for all the work you did. I too got into a deck I really love, and stopped getting readings for a few months, developing my own intuition and I did a lot of healing. You mentioned that it was really hard at first when you and your ex (at the time) reunited and it was quite painful but you were both committed to mending things, healing, and working on yourselves. DO you have any suggestions or any further advice on what worked for you, and you two as a couple? I can only imagine the hurt, the fear, the distrust, the worry that came up as you were trying to start things back up again and make things work. Your story is really inspiring and if you're willing to share anything further, any advice, it'd be super appreciated <3 :) Best to you!!
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Thank you for updating and sharing your story. ❤
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It's insane to think it's only 2 months shy from a year since this happened. We're still together and I just recently moved near him (the city has better opportunities anyways) and our puppy.
YellowLove - I haven't always consistently checked this forum so I just came across your posts now. I'm super happy for you!! Congratulations on your predictions happening and you being happy with the man you love. So encouraging to see but I also commend you for all the work you did. I too got into a deck I really love, and stopped getting readings for a few months, developing my own intuition and I did a lot of healing. You mentioned that it was really hard at first when you and your ex (at the time) reunited and it was quite painful but you were both committed to mending things, healing, and working on yourselves. DO you have any suggestions or any further advice on what worked for you, and you two as a couple? I can only imagine the hurt, the fear, the distrust, the worry that came up as you were trying to start things back up again and make things work. Your story is really inspiring and if you're willing to share anything further, any advice, it'd be super appreciated <3 :) Best to you!!
Thank you. Good thing I still pop in here every now and then lol. This second go round has been like a miracle compared to the first. The best thing was that I wasn't holding back how I was feeling anymore and being 1000000% open and honest if something is bothering me. We both went through individual therapy because not to put his business out there, but something effected him I'd say right when he was becoming a man (death of a family member). So one night, I put pieces together and figured out that really that experience COULD be hindering him. Other then that, really we're the best we have been. This may be TMI, but the s3x is even out this world ahaha. I mean we've been through even a lot since we got back together again, but I'm a Cancer (astrologically speaking) and well, the heart wants what the heart wants. On the same standpoint, if we split again, yeah I'd be heartbroken but I've learned too that you always really have to put yourself first. I don't mean that in a narcissistic form, just don't stop living just b/c you're with (or without) someone (hobbies, goals, etc.)
Now, I'm trying to work out my career aspect of my life ahaha.
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It's insane to think it's only 2 months shy from a year since this happened. We're still together and I just recently moved near him (the city has better opportunities anyways) and our puppy.
YellowLove - I haven't always consistently checked this forum so I just came across your posts now. I'm super happy for you!! Congratulations on your predictions happening and you being happy with the man you love. So encouraging to see but I also commend you for all the work you did. I too got into a deck I really love, and stopped getting readings for a few months, developing my own intuition and I did a lot of healing. You mentioned that it was really hard at first when you and your ex (at the time) reunited and it was quite painful but you were both committed to mending things, healing, and working on yourselves. DO you have any suggestions or any further advice on what worked for you, and you two as a couple? I can only imagine the hurt, the fear, the distrust, the worry that came up as you were trying to start things back up again and make things work. Your story is really inspiring and if you're willing to share anything further, any advice, it'd be super appreciated <3 :) Best to you!!
Thank you. Good thing I still pop in here every now and then lol. This second go round has been like a miracle compared to the first. The best thing was that I wasn't holding back how I was feeling anymore and being 1000000% open and honest if something is bothering me. We both went through individual therapy because not to put his business out there, but something effected him I'd say right when he was becoming a man (death of a family member). So one night, I put pieces together and figured out that really that experience COULD be hindering him. Other then that, really we're the best we have been. This may be TMI, but the s3x is even out this world ahaha. I mean we've been through even a lot since we got back together again, but I'm a Cancer (astrologically speaking) and well, the heart wants what the heart wants. On the same standpoint, if we split again, yeah I'd be heartbroken but I've learned too that you always really have to put yourself first. I don't mean that in a narcissistic form, just don't stop living just b/c you're with (or without) someone (hobbies, goals, etc.)
Now, I'm trying to work out my career aspect of my life ahaha.
I’m so happy for you yellowlove. You just made my heart so happy. I love seeing people’s growth and getting their heart’s desire. Never stop putting you first and loving yourself. Keep us posted. Stay well.
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It's insane to think it's only 2 months shy from a year since this happened. We're still together and I just recently moved near him (the city has better opportunities anyways) and our puppy.
YellowLove - I haven't always consistently checked this forum so I just came across your posts now. I'm super happy for you!! Congratulations on your predictions happening and you being happy with the man you love. So encouraging to see but I also commend you for all the work you did. I too got into a deck I really love, and stopped getting readings for a few months, developing my own intuition and I did a lot of healing. You mentioned that it was really hard at first when you and your ex (at the time) reunited and it was quite painful but you were both committed to mending things, healing, and working on yourselves. DO you have any suggestions or any further advice on what worked for you, and you two as a couple? I can only imagine the hurt, the fear, the distrust, the worry that came up as you were trying to start things back up again and make things work. Your story is really inspiring and if you're willing to share anything further, any advice, it'd be super appreciated <3 :) Best to you!!
Thank you. Good thing I still pop in here every now and then lol. This second go round has been like a miracle compared to the first. The best thing was that I wasn't holding back how I was feeling anymore and being 1000000% open and honest if something is bothering me. We both went through individual therapy because not to put his business out there, but something effected him I'd say right when he was becoming a man (death of a family member). So one night, I put pieces together and figured out that really that experience COULD be hindering him. Other then that, really we're the best we have been. This may be TMI, but the s3x is even out this world ahaha. I mean we've been through even a lot since we got back together again, but I'm a Cancer (astrologically speaking) and well, the heart wants what the heart wants. On the same standpoint, if we split again, yeah I'd be heartbroken but I've learned too that you always really have to put yourself first. I don't mean that in a narcissistic form, just don't stop living just b/c you're with (or without) someone (hobbies, goals, etc.)
Now, I'm trying to work out my career aspect of my life ahaha.
I’m so happy for you yellowlove. You just made my heart so happy. I love seeing people’s growth and getting their heart’s desire. Never stop putting you first and loving yourself. Keep us posted. Stay well.
Thank you so much for replying back YellowLove - and so quickly! Definitely sounds like you've done the inner work and you continue to do what you gotta do for YOU! <3 listening to your heart is part of that I agree :) I'm so happy for you and its so wonderful to hear you guys are better than ever (in all ways haha) I think its so nice the psychics that connected with you were right. Good luck with the career momentum!!
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Well letting go has so much power and when you drop the energies completely of someone and focus on self life and not Constantly manifest fear. It can really shift the energies completely and I have experienced the same for myself. But it’s the truelovetarot from purple garden who really taught me the meaning of truly letting go and everything In my life was going pretty messed and I was Constantly clinging to my past and clinging to the experience and was not really allowing myself to be happy... well we all do get stuck into sometime those vicious cycle and now I am happy engaged and set to get married in July :) :) :)