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Dilemma
tjoy12:
Oh here is a good one:
"He's scared"
That is a bunch of crap!
Like a good friend told me recently.
He would only be scared if you went after him with a butcher knife.
My reasoning:
How can a man be scared now? When he had me.
I can understand scared in the beginning when he had to work his a%$ off to pursue me, but ummm...now.
Nope...not buying it.
elcaliente:
I'm not sure I totally agree with you tjoy on this one. There are people who are afraid of commitment, and they can manage relationships in the beginning while feelings are still developing and when the conenction tends to be more on a physical plane. As relationships progress, there is a shift and its when the emotional connection develops that those individuals with fear of commitment find the emotions to hard to handle. So, although certainly not in all cases, there could be some cases where this would apply.
--- Quote from: tjoy12 on September 05, 2012, 05:01:26 PM ---Oh here is a good one:
"He's scared"
That is a bunch of crap!
Like a good friend told me recently.
He would only be scared if you went after him with a butcher knife.
My reasoning:
How can a man be scared now? When he had me.
I can understand scared in the beginning when he had to work his a%$ off to pursue me, but ummm...now.
Nope...not buying it.
--- End quote ---
allbitenobark:
Although some men panic and get scared...I think psychics exploit this scenario to the nth degree, and perhaps that was the point tjoy was making? (Grrrl, you tell me, I don't wanna put words in your mouth!) But yeah, the confused scared not ready blah blah blah reasons...oy vey! I am so happy I have finally found some solid readers that don't ever say any of that BS to me. When I think of all the years I was told that by sooooooo many different readers it makes me ill. Oh well, live and learn. :)
tjoy12:
Haha decibel - true!
Yep because fear of commitment is so easy to say and also hard to validate from the guy.
Its not like most come out and say they have a fear if commitment.
Its BS to me!
I think I'm at the place where I'm done making excuses for a man.
D - I'll pm you. Positive updates!! :)
jdd2003:
Ah smee, I've been at this point. You're letting psychic opinions rule your decisions and because they are not all in line with each other, you don't know what to do.
Here's what you do. Pretend you never got a reading. I know that's near impossible, but try. Then do whatever you would have done if you hadn't had a reading. You need to follow your instincts and your heart as that's the only way you will get to the right destination. No psychic can guide you on that, you just need to trust yourself.
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