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Furah2fun:
So I haven't had a reading in 5 weeks (I sound like I should be in AA- haha) and am starting to feel great! I just got back from a friend's wedding in Kauai and had zero desire to contact a psychic. This would have been unheard of earlier this year, and especially last year. I am so glad I closed my account.

 I am excited to try the manifesting!

tjoy12:
Hi True!

Wow...great job!!

It's been two weeks for me since I havent had a reading and I too feel great! Seriously, its like you see reality and deal with it based on the facts rather than what we are led to believe are the facts.
I've been making decisions in my situation based on what I see and it feels great.

What a paradox! Its like the less you know (not having readings), the more you're in control!

I seriously know that if I did not stop the readings, my healing would have been stunted.

Furah2fun:
Hi Tjoy!

 Thanks! I know! Because then you can judge the situation based on the facts. I allowed myself to make excuses/tolerate behavior because the psychics said he loves me/wants a future with me etc. So I put up with way too much for so long. Its nice to have clarity on the situation.
 
  I agree about the paradox. I feel like if one knows the outcome, then one alters his/her actions. I know I did.

 

Furah2fun:
@flutter, the way I convinced myself to stop was to close my account. Then i tricked myself by saying i was allowed to get readings only if the situation changed. For me that means he tells me he wants a future. (zero likelihood..) At that point, I am allowed to get readings again. I realized that no prediction since end of may had come true, and I was wasting so much money on failed predictions. This was giving me major anxiety. Only in the last week or so have I truly felt better.  Even though some of my friends still think I will hear from him and it will work out, I am telling them I am over it (it's a lie) so that I don't have to talk about it anymore. For some reason that has helped too. A stressful thing for me would be when I meet a friend for dinner/drinks and inevitably the question would arise " have u heard from him?". Then when I said no, the friend would lose it and start calling him names etc and that didn't help me, especially if I was not thinking about it for once.

Synergy:
Here's what helped me stop getting readings... When you get the urge to call, think of all the readers who have predicted events, outcomes, contact, etc. that didn't happen. Consider all the money spent on those calls. This is how I stopped calling. Good luck to you all.

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