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Beachgirl333:
Cjean
I totally believe you were on to something by changing your number.  You need to scare him and let him think you are not there for him.  It might take a couple of weeks or even months because you know that when he has that baby he is going to need to talk to you bc he is not really happy about this baby thing or else he would be marrying the girl.  Since you called him , now he knows that your there...you really want him to think your not there.  I put an app on my phone that blocks calls and texts so I dont see whos trying to contact me.  this way Im not tempted to answer when he calls bc when my  sm texted me a month ago I responded and I shouldnt have.  So when I go bcak to work I know he is going to start textin me and I wont respond bc he needs to know Im serious.

Beachgirl333:
Make him miss you...I blocked my sm's number so that if i see it I dont get tempted to pick up...the last time he texted me I made the mistake of responding but I know he thoght that was going to start up a conversation between us...I know he checks his phone to see if I call but nooooo

Im a little glad I havent been to work but when I come back...Im going to look so good and happy, and tan like iwent on vacation, which i did, and he is going to wonder about me...if he doesnt respond the way I want him to then he loses ...not me.

cj:
yeah he def does miss me..he called my job Sat..so it is what it is...but I wonder if this whole make him miss u thing works lol...so far no bueno

Beachgirl333:
Sometimes it takes months to make them miss you...I have done that a couple times with my Sm and he cones back but now I have to show him that he is going to lose me forever.  If he doesnt respond then I know he is just having a hard time letting the past go and he really doesnt love me ...But then why do they come back...it cant be lust...he can lust anyone.

I wrote mines a letter and told him how I felt and what Im not putting up with...if he doesnt want to sit me down and open up when I see him...he loses not me.  and better be glad I dont sleep with his best friend to get even (like the witch did...i have no idea why he woulod even be friends with her)

cj:
Oh well mines misses me everyday..its not taking him months...hes just a bleep. He wants to be a good guy and be there for the other girl but at the same time he doesnt want to lose me....  ??? what do I look like? a jacket on layaway...... on to the next one! 8)

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