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cj:
For now...Im happy. I feel better now that I changed my #. I feel like Ive gotten my power back. And Thats how it should be!  8)

kirakira:
i need to focus on myself and do things for myself.

YES!  Listen, all it takes is time.. Time passes and you surprise yourself.  I couldn't imagine dating just one month ago!  But let me tell ya something now... I am ready and I'm feeling great!!!!!!  I'm like, wow, I seriously cried my fucking eyes out for months over that guy??  (And that's just it, at the time, I knew he was the one man on this earth I had finally been given the chance to meet so we could find our way to be together...)  noooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.  Like you said, it's not my job to show him.  I'll just live, do my thang, and someone, an even better one is gonna notice.  I know it!   :-*

fm:
Sigh, I am not sure what to write. All I can say is time is the best psychic. Time will tell everything. CP are just money suckers. IF by logic or reasoning you know that you are not meant to be with someone or is not worth yout time and effort, let them go. Move forward and be happy, see if anyone comes along and be happy. Time will heal all wounds. I know we have been hurt over and over again, but do you want the cycle to repeat and repeat? I am making a choice to move on over my ex, SM or not, and I will see how, no doubt I loved him too too much and the most, but if he aint giving me happiness and the dumb SMS he has send me, I am not sure what I want from him. If the SM are a bunch of selfish asshole, is there worth holding on to?

cj:
time is definitely the best psychic...and if its making you sad then move on..its time for us to stop chasing and start being chased...I love my life...and Im having fun!

fm:
haha Cjean, I like that one. In any case, I am meeting this new guy, he too is recovering from a breakup over 6 months back and together for 3 years. Similarly, I had mine story about 4 months back although it was shortlived. We had a honest chat, we feel comfortable with each other but he is not sure how he felt towards me, and if we are taking each other as a rebound. I am not sure. But in any case, I just said, lets have fun, hang out and see what comes. Just be open and time will tell.

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