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hopefully helpful:

--- Quote from: little_miss_sunshine on July 05, 2012, 06:02:27 PM ---Thanks a lot Hopefully helpful! :)
 
I LOVE to hear about all things spiritual and how these things work. And your posts are most definitely  helping me learn how to interpret my readings. Much much much appreciated.

If you don't mind, I'd like to get further clarification on your above post as well.

Given this, who do we trust?  Or how do I make the decision on who to trust?

Many who call psychics are likely confused, stuck, and in some kind of pain, where fear clouds our judgement and ability to follow our intuition. The fact that we get multiple outcomes causes further confusion and uncertainty.

And are there any types of guidelines, as to whether advisors should tell the client what she/he "needs to know" in order to fulfill her/his destiny (even if it might be false) or tell them what they actually think/see when it comes to predictions?  I assume advisors must know that what they say will have ripple effects on the outcome.

Like most I've had 70% tell me we're meant to be, 10% tell me he's not my guy, and 20% who say he could be an option. What does that all mean? No clue. LOL, but given this, I have concluded that I no longer want to know about predictions. It's made me believe (and i know this differs from most),  that I'd rather be told what I need to know in order to move forward in my spiritual journey, than to be told something that might happen (even if it sounds so nice at the time) cause especially for me, it'll just make my head spin.

Thank you for your time, and look forward to hearing from you! :)

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Hi and so sorry for the delay in the answer to your question(s):

First off the trust issue:  that is a difficult one, that is why you give feedback. But keep in mind, everyone has their own experience, and what they get from the reading.  Different people will resonate with different readers.  I will step out and venture to say use your intuition and if during the time of your reading something that reader says speaks to you, your higher self will probably have a bit of an 'ah ha' moment.  Trust that.  You should also know within 1-2 minutes of speaking with a readers if energetically you are in a flow with him/her.  You will enter a vibration and should feel a flow.  Listen to your own inner guidance and trust yourself. 

Yes, I agree with you that fear, confusion, conflict will cloud your judgement and your reading.  That is why it is so important to prepare yourself for your reading.  If you are scattered and your energy is bouncing around, your reading will reflect some of that.  Not to mention if you and your reader feed into each other and often times we are drawn to those that are sympathetic to our 'stuff', it may be hard for your reader to be objective.  So clear yourself and ground yourself before going in. 

The "need to know" information comes in different ways.  It all depends on the type of reading and the reader.  Sometimes you will get a lot of info, other times not so much.  Some times there are some things that are not in the seekers best interest to know, as to what they will do with the information, and how it can ultimately have a huge effect on the end result.

Sometimes a prediction is just that.  Understand when you get a prediction there are so many factors attached to it.
Let's say one reader tells you at one point, yes you will get back together with your object of inquiry.  So knowing that you have a certain sense of security to act out of character regarding a situation that you might feel out of control in.  Depending on how you react will have an effect on the outcome.  A reading is often time like taking a snapshot of time. 

When you call a psychic prepare yourself.  Honor the process that you are going to allow another person to move into your energy.  How do you want to present yourself.  Compose yourself and ground yourself.  If you are in a spiral and freaking out imagine what that reader is going to get.  It will be hard for them to unravel what is beyond the chaos.  Imagine yourself walking into a room with frenetic energy and trying to figure out what is going on in there.  It will be very difficult to separate yourself from not getting caught up in the chaos as well.  When you call for your reading be relaxed and calm.  You will feel the energy move between you and your reader.  At that point you will be able to feel a connection or you will hit a wall.

Some advisors are no holds barred.  They have no filter.  As a reader we have have a responsibility to our client to leave them spiritually uplifted or in some way give them something they can take with them.  This does not fall into the category of sugar coating, but when we confide in someone for advise or direction we open ourselves up to be vulnerable and it is the readers responsibility to respect that.

Most of the time - the reason you call for a reading is because you want someone to validate your fears.  Once that happens you have shifted from taking responsibility for your life and giving up your power and putting into the hands of someone else, most often it is the object of your inquiry.  You are hoping your reading will validate that if you let your self cross that line, can I trust that person not to hurt me.  You are giving that person the responsibility for your feelings and your wellbeing.  You are no longer in control.  If you were, you would not be seeking advise.

I hope I have answered your questions.

hopefully helpful


skyline:

--- Quote ---Yes, timing.  I am sure you have heard it all...divine timing, law of attraction, manifesting, etc.  the truth is that sometimes knowing the time frame attached to the outcome pushes it away.
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Takes a lot of balls and honesty for a psychic to say this.

If this is the case, then we shouldn't be getting readings. If I'm given a choice between knowing and possibly delaying the outcome, vs. not knowing and having the desired outcome arrive "on time", I would choose not knowing. I would never want to do anything that would hinder the desired outcome.

4everhopeful:
I think I have to agree with Skyline. When I was told repeatedly that the "sm" would return, it was impossible to carry on and just live my life because I didnt want to be with someone else if he came walking back in the door. I even had one reader tell me to not get married because that would just be another problem to deal with when he came back. Well, its been four years and I havent had contact in three years, lol. Maybe if I had never had the first reading things would have manifested as they should have or maybe I was fed a fairytale. Who knows at this point?
I do know that I had one reader (wont mention a name) that was so correct on so many things but the main prediction never came true even though she was positive that it would. She saw things that I never mentioned to her and I would have to say "Yes thats happening now". It amazed me. Even though I know it sounds crazy I still think and still love that man that left me so long ago. Maybe our actions do push things away, even though we try to think positive thoughts and try to live our lives, I guess we are doing things differently because of being told that some great thing is down the road. We are always looking for it instead of just letting it come to us.

positivethoughts2:
I'm not convinced anyone can tell you what a relationship will, or won't become. I'm also not convinced we HAVE to be with our soul mates. I started getting some energy work done and it has really helped me put relationship issues in perspective. Obsessing over a timeline or prediction did nothing but keep me stuck in my place for a long time. I've had a bunch of work stuff manifest this year and some small "guy" stuff so I believe in predictions and psychic ability but I think it is very difficult for even the most talented psychics to predict big final outcomes. I'm sure it happens but based on my experience and the experiences of my friends, it might be better to not know the final outcome and instead focus your reading on getting present insight and insight on YOU.

Focus on YOU and the PRESENT and you'll see things slowly fall into place. One other thing I've learned is that if you see yourself stuck in a pattern, stop look listen (example - you keep dating cheaters, you keep working @ jobs you don't like etc). If you see a pattern you aren't learning your lesson.

XO

cheetah:
hi pt2
i have noticed a pattern with the cheaters but i dont know what the lesson could be  i have stopped looked and listened any thoughts guys and this is for all members any thoughts on what the lesson could be
thanks
cheetah

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