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MY ONGOING PROCESS - NOT YET OUTCOMES

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Sincity2:
Please please don’t listen to psychics.

It makes me so sad to read these things

Florallover87:
Thank you guys so much!
The fact that each month is delayed… is the thing.
It makes me so upset!I will leave an update on the readers and some of the situations that took me to the I’m done

Mina:

--- Quote from: Florallover87 on May 06, 2025, 07:51:46 PM ---I think I’m done.
After being predicted a beautiful outcome — this year rekindling my relationship and actually starting something with him — all the psychics ended up changing the timeframe, the circumstances, everything.

This doesn’t necessarily mean I’ll never get another reading again, because I know detaching from this whole process takes time… but for now, I’m done.

Yesterday, he reconciled with the same woman he left me for.

--- End quote ---

So if I may share…
Jane Wilcox in 2019 saw in the month Sept/oct my SP at the time would fully be ready to be in committed for relationship with me. But it was not with me …because he had ghosted me and I wasn’t able to piece together puzzle (until 3 yrs later why) but it was with someone else he committed himself to. Jane Wilcox then stopped taking my call after that month (or she did) but committed that he is committed to her and I was the 3rd party.

In 2011 some reader on the psychic power network said my SP at THAT time would be ready to have a family, that it was very clear in his aura, but it wasn’t with me. He got someone else pregnant and half ass committed to her. Even though they have two kids; They’re not married, but felt half ass enough to have another kid. (Which I’ve seen many ppl my age have two kids and still not end up together with a baby mamma. Something about maybe we should have two kids to be sure we don’t belong together. 😆 ) But strangely I did hear from this guy 10 yrs later to reveal time that he still thinks of me and misses me, still has love for me, but then blocked me again and we’re back to year 3 of not talking. And I admit for this SP/ex I still miss him, and I have love for him… but I am puzzled not out resentment although it has had to evolve so many times that yes I do have love for this sp/ex (even more so than more recent exes/sp). But time is strange, and love strange; It is expansive. But from here, in this time in space, I absolutely I would not go back to him or any of these SP… and I would like to curiously have the same scientific distant from this current ex/SP.

So… I get it! And I don’t blame psychics… but things are strange. So that’s kinda why I’ve been more involved with attachment theory. I see the why I did the things I do; I am prone to chasing when it triggers childhood trauma (almost every one kind of has their unique danger situation that makes them just chase a losing situation)… but this time either because I’m in 40s (and hormones are one part) but also the amount of trauma i been thru I don’t resentment them either (then again I finally had good enough therapy to process this grief), it’s just tiring enough to just not care to call psychic about it anymore.

The best I can recommend is do right by you, put your mental health first, create healthy spiritual rituals that ground you (with some it may or may not include psychics. For me it was going back to church… and little witchcraft… but I know when it comes to the big G (God) I definitely am not in control) Create healthy habits when things fall apart you can go back to then to ground yourself to pick yourself up (because pain and heartbreak ARE part of this life). Careful which destructive habits you choose because it does speak of your financial life, your friends and family … AND it is hard enough that even with all the best coping mechanisms that are in place… it’s still hard.

Ppl say it’s luck they’ve been with partner that’s never cheated on them or left them; but I think that’s a gaslighting lie. It’s not all luck; it’s work: They had to learn to practice good boundaries, learn to have uncomfortable talks about relationships, examine if their values systems do align and be ready to walk away from compromises that are not compromises but empty words instead of actions known as complacentness. That’s the reality “the work” that SEEMS like luck.

I have this this saying I learned from my ballet teacher: practice makes permanent

If you don’t correct the behavioral habit regardless it becomes permanent and I find that quite true in lots of systems of paradigms. So each time I break up or someone breaks up with me if I go back to psychics then have I really corrected anything or learned or grew?

But overall my deepest condolences. Treat yourself to compassion. You deserve it. Your life is your journey (unlike that all women tone deaf mission statement into orbit) and hopefully psychic weren’t this thing just taking up cluttered space

gemmaasks:
Thank you for sharing your story. And I’m sorry you’ve gone through this. I’m in a similar situation in regards to distance and silent with my poi for 8 months. Luckily, I’ve been slowly detaching and have been focusing on my career instead. He went silent when I was going through a hard time in my life. When I compare him and my friends that showed up, strangely this gave me closure that I don’t need someone like him in my life.

Anyway, I went back and read my old transcripts from Gemini moon and she was right all along. She told me back in sept and October 2024 that my poi and I will have a fall out. But she thought it would happen soon. It happened in may 2025.

mliva34:
I'm sorry about what happened to you.

I used to be that person who had an anxious personality so I wanted to know the outcome for everything. I relied on readings to satisfy and keep my mind at peace. But eventually the many failed timelines gets to you. And for some psychics when you confront them, they get upset or block you from reading with them again.
One person who did help me realize how readings work was Anastasia who always reminded me that the 3D is old and what the readers were seeing were potential of what's to come. So realizing that the person in question at the time, may not even be the person the readers are seeing, I got tired. Eventually I stopped reading about any person and just jobs/school/career. But even those topics, many have been wrong. And I go back to what I was told,  readings are a potential. So many times before I listened and believed psychic's about someone coming back to my life and I even found myself not dating waiting for him to come back. So I get it. It's never going to be easy. And I'm so sorry you also had to go through this.

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