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Wrong Outcomes by Multiple Advisors
Miss Philosopher:
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--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on January 04, 2025, 03:34:39 PM ---I'm so very sorry to hear about your break up. I'm so sorry you went through this. Do you have any updates? Still broken up? Back together? Did he give you the reason for his breaking up?
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Sorry! I missed this question.
My POI came back exactly 1 month later, as predicted by multiple readers. NSJ was the one who said he would come back after 1 month of no contact and pretend like everything is ok and try to go back to how things were before. This was spot on. When he came back though, I wasn’t interested in dating him anymore.
His reason for breaking up was basically that he had an avoidant relationship attachment. It got to the part where it was too close for his liking and he needed space.
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I'm happy to hear that you found the strength to just walk away. It's pretty much impossible to have a good connected relationship with an avoidant. Every hot/cold or warm/cold situationship is a giant sign of an avoidant. It's one of the biggest confusing emotional rollar coasters ever. It's way better that you didn't go back because it would have ended up becoming a break up/make up pattern.
I'm also happy to hear that you decided to stay away from readings for now. I haven't had one in a month. I will go another month and then have another but not about any specific person.
My opinion on readings is, if you're going to have them, great but make your decisions based upon what's happening in the here and now and what's BEEN happening in the past up to date, no matter WHAT the reading outcome is. Many of us pause our lives waiting for predictions, anxiously holding on for dear life (myself included in the past) and we look up and months or sometimes years have gone by, wasted, waiting on some asshole to treat us properly, or want us back, or show some interest, We should be viewing ourselves as the gift to them in their lives and if they can't recognize that, then THEIR loss. There are too many other humans on this planet that would be on the same page we are. Ready for what we are. What we are seeking is also seeking us but we may miss out on wonderful opportunities because we're sitting around waiting for some fickle fkr to come around. Yeah, no thanks. I'll pass.
I wish you love and blessings and I hope everything is much better for you in your life at this time.
Dawnlegacy:
Has anyone had multiple psychics give them gloom and doom and turn out to be wrong?
I had two psychics tell me to be wary of the person I’ve been communicating with. Both have been right and wrong in the past (one was tattooed psychic for any wondering) but I wouldn’t call them the strongest psychics but I’m also not about to go on a binge over this man. They were cheap , fast, and the easiest to access. With no information they both said he’s being deceitful about something whether it’s money or his true emotions for me, they can’t tell but it will cause major issues down the road. Tattooed psychic basically said avoid whereas the other said it may not be that bad but to be wary of the upcoming issue.
I haven’t seen any signs yet and I’d hate to cancel someone out simply because of what a psychic told me but I also don’t want to be that person that got the warning to begin with and ignored it. Of course the “wait and see” stereotypical answer is the simplest to go by but has anyone ever had that happen? Doom and gloom from multiple psychics and it turned out they were wrong?
Miss Philosopher:
--- Quote from: Dawnlegacy on April 25, 2025, 03:44:12 PM ---Has anyone had multiple psychics give them gloom and doom and turn out to be wrong?
I had two psychics tell me to be wary of the person I’ve been communicating with. Both have been right and wrong in the past (one was tattooed psychic for any wondering) but I wouldn’t call them the strongest psychics but I’m also not about to go on a binge over this man. They were cheap , fast, and the easiest to access. With no information they both said he’s being deceitful about something whether it’s money or his true emotions for me, they can’t tell but it will cause major issues down the road. Tattooed psychic basically said avoid whereas the other said it may not be that bad but to be wary of the upcoming issue.
I haven’t seen any signs yet and I’d hate to cancel someone out simply because of what a psychic told me but I also don’t want to be that person that got the warning to begin with and ignored it. Of course the “wait and see” stereotypical answer is the simplest to go by but has anyone ever had that happen? Doom and gloom from multiple psychics and it turned out they were wrong?
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Unfortunately, in my experience, I'd have multiples give me positives and then the one negative reading would be the accurate one. I have had multiple negatives and it turned out to be right. I have also had negative readings that turned out to be very wrong and usually it's with a psychic I've not spoken to before. I like to stick with those that have proven to be accurate 90% or more of the time. I dont' trust 50/50 readers. I don't even read with them anymore. I don't know if this helped but, that's just been my experience.
Dawnlegacy:
--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on April 25, 2025, 05:57:02 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dawnlegacy on April 25, 2025, 03:44:12 PM ---Has anyone had multiple psychics give them gloom and doom and turn out to be wrong?
I had two psychics tell me to be wary of the person I’ve been communicating with. Both have been right and wrong in the past (one was tattooed psychic for any wondering) but I wouldn’t call them the strongest psychics but I’m also not about to go on a binge over this man. They were cheap , fast, and the easiest to access. With no information they both said he’s being deceitful about something whether it’s money or his true emotions for me, they can’t tell but it will cause major issues down the road. Tattooed psychic basically said avoid whereas the other said it may not be that bad but to be wary of the upcoming issue.
I haven’t seen any signs yet and I’d hate to cancel someone out simply because of what a psychic told me but I also don’t want to be that person that got the warning to begin with and ignored it. Of course the “wait and see” stereotypical answer is the simplest to go by but has anyone ever had that happen? Doom and gloom from multiple psychics and it turned out they were wrong?
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Unfortunately, in my experience, I'd have multiples give me positives and then the one negative reading would be the accurate one. I have had multiple negatives and it turned out to be right. I have also had negative readings that turned out to be very wrong and usually it's with a psychic I've not spoken to before. I like to stick with those that have proven to be accurate 90% or more of the time. I dont' trust 50/50 readers. I don't even read with them anymore. I don't know if this helped but, that's just been my experience.
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Thank you Miss (I was also secretly trying to break up the arguments teehee) but honestly they’re 50/50 so I take everything they say with a grain of salt, that same reader also said I’d be in a relationship in 2 months…. Yeah sure that’s laughable as I have no one I’m seeing if want to be in a relationship with at this time and it takes months before I agree to a relationship. But any input helps as I was wondering if negative readings from multiple readers are ever wrong the same way fairytales from multiple can be wrong
Miss Philosopher:
--- Quote from: Dawnlegacy on April 25, 2025, 06:02:45 PM ---
--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on April 25, 2025, 05:57:02 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dawnlegacy on April 25, 2025, 03:44:12 PM ---Has anyone had multiple psychics give them gloom and doom and turn out to be wrong?
I had two psychics tell me to be wary of the person I’ve been communicating with. Both have been right and wrong in the past (one was tattooed psychic for any wondering) but I wouldn’t call them the strongest psychics but I’m also not about to go on a binge over this man. They were cheap , fast, and the easiest to access. With no information they both said he’s being deceitful about something whether it’s money or his true emotions for me, they can’t tell but it will cause major issues down the road. Tattooed psychic basically said avoid whereas the other said it may not be that bad but to be wary of the upcoming issue.
I haven’t seen any signs yet and I’d hate to cancel someone out simply because of what a psychic told me but I also don’t want to be that person that got the warning to begin with and ignored it. Of course the “wait and see” stereotypical answer is the simplest to go by but has anyone ever had that happen? Doom and gloom from multiple psychics and it turned out they were wrong?
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Unfortunately, in my experience, I'd have multiples give me positives and then the one negative reading would be the accurate one. I have had multiple negatives and it turned out to be right. I have also had negative readings that turned out to be very wrong and usually it's with a psychic I've not spoken to before. I like to stick with those that have proven to be accurate 90% or more of the time. I dont' trust 50/50 readers. I don't even read with them anymore. I don't know if this helped but, that's just been my experience.
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Thank you Miss (I was also secretly trying to break up the arguments teehee) but honestly they’re 50/50 so I take everything they say with a grain of salt, that same reader also said I’d be in a relationship in 2 months…. Yeah sure that’s laughable as I have no one I’m seeing if want to be in a relationship with at this time and it takes months before I agree to a relationship. But any input helps as I was wondering if negative readings from multiple readers are ever wrong the same way fairytales from multiple can be wrong
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Once I had a reading with Venus on CP and asked if my current was or has cheated because he was throwing hearts on a ton of photos of this one female on his FB. This was way back in like 2023. Venus told me that he definitely was talking to this girl on the side and that they were having very inappropriate conversations of the sexual nature. I was sooooooooooo upset by this.
I then had another reading with another CP reader, I can't remember her name, to which, she told me that he was unhappy, yes he was cheating, he wanted to break up with me but didn't want to hurt my feelings so I needed to let him go and that if I did, he would give me this big hug and thank me for it and that we'd still remain friends and she saw him coming over to my place for dinner and us laughing.
I then had another reading with Dawn006 on Keen about this same girl. She said yes he was definitely intersted in her and that he didn't want to be with me anymore.
I was crushed after those readings. So, I confronted him on the female thing to which he told me she was his very close friend's cousin and the female was like a cousin to him as well and that he hadn't even had a conversation with her at all in years since the last time they all hung out at a family BBQ. I then reached out to the female and asked her how she knows him. She then said he was her cousin's close friend and they were like family but that she hadn't spoken to him in years. I then apologized for bothering her and felt fkn stupid.
I then told him about the readings I had and asked him if he'd rather break up and do his own thing. He said "You're crazy. I love you to death. No I don't want to break up. I ain't never leaving you." All this was back in 2023. We're still together to this day.........4 years now.
All that to say, yes, multiple doom readings can absolutely be wrong.
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