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Mayra92:
Would love to hear your story too. Yes sometimes our stories take longer (I met my POI years ago and for a reason I cant explain here, we lost contact) I never thought he would be back in my life 7 years later.

We cannot predict where life will take us or what will show up :) some months ago, a reader told me I would fall madly in love with someone, but I was with my 4 years boyfriend at the time, so I did not understand what she was talking about....until the old flame reappeared :)  We still did not meet though and it's far from being a bed of roses.

Your happiness will come, when the time is right, even though we often lose patience and want things to happen NOW :)

Mattsmom:

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--- Quote from: Mattsmom on March 25, 2024, 05:25:32 PM ---I often feel the same way, so don't worry - you're definitely not alone.  I have done similarly to what Mayra has suggested and only call one reader nowadays, but am currently feeling that temptation to call back again (a certain part of the prediction hasn't manifested yet). 

I'm standing firm because when I called him two weeks ago, it was at a discounted rate.  Now that discount won't be available anymore.

When you feel the temptation to call, do something extra nice for yourself instead.  Take some high-quality vitamins, remember to hydrate, just relax.  You'll be raising your vibe and making these things naturally happen on their own.

And remember, for many of us, it's a multi year journey (mine has run close to a decade so far and gone INCREDIBLY slow).  It doesn't make your individual process any less valid if you have to wait longer and put extra special effort into it.  In fact, you can become an inspiration to many others who would never even start the first step.

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Thanks! Can you give some context or details about your decade long journey? Just curious. Also cool username! :)

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Thanks!  It would probably be a book if I wrote it all out....all in all, my situation started with me filing for divorce and needing people other than family for support.  It really has technically been longer than a decade since I remember calling a psychic in late 2012 about a POI I just happened to reach out to a few days ago - whom I never even felt a curiosity to go back to with our recent exchange.

I'm an only child born from dysfunctional parents....thus it's hard to find support.  Psychic lines were a natural for me, dating all the way back to 1996 when I broke my kneecap and was laid up for a couple months the last year of college. 

As I'm in healthcare, I learned that the human body is a magnificent masterpiece.  I became inspired to do holistic healing practices rather than continue the conventional route of "masking my symptoms" and have seen exactly what many psychics mean when they say:  "Oh, well, you won't even know that POI five years from now....ten years from now".  Of course, I do still care and that is why I reached out to the former 2012 POI - *as a friend* .   That is the most empowering piece when you choose to elevate your journey taking risks to love yourself.  For self-love doesn't come cheap!  Especially in these inflationary times.

Mina:
“Feels like I wasted a lot of money for regulating my emotions - which I suppose was ok but has prolonged my anxiety - I just wish I was told that things would not happen - job, POI - I’d be farther along mentally.”

There’s a lot of wisdom you wrote here

Being jealous is definitely not a fun feeling. Or it can be… for revenge 😈😆

But overall- I learned I was jealous of several of my exes closes “friend girls”, who would or wouldn’t be in relationships with them later on. But when I finally got over the jealousy it taught me a lot about myself. But sadly some of jealousy I didn’t get over until years.

And yes even I admit I get jealous of ppl whose prediction happen- but again it taught me what I long for is connection with the spiritual, and fulfillment

I’ve also wanted to share please do not believe all the glowing reviews online! And even some here!

A long time ago (and this user has left) would post glowing reviews that she got married, that these psychics got it right, BUT that she was highly addicted to readings still- and it didn’t make sense as outsider however, she revealed it was green card marriage and utterly loveless with no sex… I felt their reviews were very misleading.

But any person who I talked to who went thru the worst breakup of their lives and ALLOWED it always got with someone so amazing.
There’s this actress friend I used to be close to. We went thru a break up together the same time, and I saw so much growth in her when she allowed her break up- the next few months she met her now husband and they’re having second child soon, and have been happily together for 15 yrs… she confessed she did get a (one or two) psychic reading when I met her but then ignored it and has never looked back on readings.

Ugh- I regret to think I probably should have done the same

But I’m also learning that by the bad times these are good growth spurts. Adopting this belief system will help you plan for a better future.

Personally, I have had miserable time with jobs for 2 yrs. I feel like I’m going thru my own inner covid again when it comes to work. But I do feel the less I call the better my finances get.

lee480:
I agree. I read with all the top readers multiple times, and not one thing in my love life has come to fruition. I'm a little concerned because I moved into a business venture based on readings. Considering that nothing else has gone according to the readings, I'm praying that I did not make a huge mistake.

sai07:
@Mina, thank you, always love hearing from you, you're right, when these predictions do pass, who longs if they're healthy and good long-term predictions.

@lee480, I hope your venture goes well! I am sure you have done your homework and have some good gut feeling about it to pursue it.

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